Dating a strong, smart, successful, busy woman is a waste of a man’s time. Yes, I said it. She’s always busy, & canceling dates, with her flaking ass. She has less free time than a bald girl has edges. Her texts are as short as her patience. Busy women will ignore your texts, then text you a week later like, “oh I thought I replied.” No time to put a man first. A woman who puts her career, school or child first over me, until I put a ring on her finger makes me want to make her my first priority, as long as she reciprocates all I give. By: Ebrahim Aseem
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Don’t sleep on a busy woman just because she has school, a career or a child. Those busy, strong, intelligent, virtuous, focused women can cook, massage, drop wisdom & promote your growth. #EbrahimAseem Don’t just “date” her or “talk” to her. COURT her exclusively to show her you appreciate all sacrifices she makes grinding for her future with no help. #EbrahimAseem Busy women only give time to consistent men who give effort.
If a busy reciprocal woman gives us her time, she’s already considering something more with us. Don’t mess it up. Cut off side chicks & make only her a priority. Manhood is about EFFORT over ego. #EbrahimAseem
As men, we have to stop chasing the Bad Bitch Fantasy girl who only texts back faster than a busy woman can, because she ain’t got a damn job or career to pour energy into. #EbrahimAseem A smart, successful woman can be both busy AND bad. Get you a girl who can do both.
Be patient with a busy woman. Take her out. She’s not flaking. Her bills & student loans costs more than 1,000 dates you can take her on. It’s not about money. Spoil her with your time, yet don’t smother her. Give her space. #EbrahimAseem If she likes you, she’ll reach out to you. Busy women make time for those who are important to her growth. Don’t let her busy schedule discourage you. It’s not a reciprocal woman’s job to chase us men. You pursue her & never give up. Be her consistency, she’ll be your everything. #EbrahimAseem
I learned that busy woman who gives you peace after working all day deserves for you to melt all her stress away. Spoil her. Support her mental growth. Reassure her busy schedule isn’t a deal breaker. #EbrahimAseem
A busy woman who’s loyal to her purpose & values herself too much to chase me, turns me the hell on. I wanna cuddle up & read with you. Turn your pages. Be fluent in your love language. Pray with you, never ON you. Hear you speak your mind, my favorite melody. #EbrahimAseem You never ask too much, & that makes me want to give you my all, my commitment & my last name. Teach me how to understand you. Teach me how to dance to the beat of your caring heart. Let’s make music together. #EbrahimAseem
By: Ebrahim Aseem
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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