Author Archives: Ebrahim Aseem

About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"

If you give him amillion chances after mistakes, you’re not his woman, you’re his mom.

“I have a master’s degree, 6-figure job, no kids, yet my boyfriend of 18-months insists on living with his second baby momma, 2 boys & a newborn baby girl by her. This living situation makes it hard for me to … Continue reading

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He got you pregnant, then lost interest, because you lost your body.

He couldn’t wait to get inside your body in the beginning. Constant communication. Sweet gestures. He was the perfect gentlemen, because your tummy was flatter. Your breasts were perkier. Your curves were voluptuous. But once your baby came, your body … Continue reading

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Why BUSY, successful women can’t KEEP a man, but a Bad Bitch can.

Dating a strong, smart, successful, busy woman is a waste of a man’s time. Yes, I said it. She’s always busy, & canceling dates, with her flaking ass. She has less free time than a bald girl has edges. Her … Continue reading

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Men don’t stay loyal to girls who CHASE them. Let him pursue you.

Stop telling him to text back or give effort. He saw your text & doesn’t want you. Men don’t take girls who chase them seriously. #EbrahimAseem Let him court you & pursue you. A woman can be gorgeous, curvy, funny … Continue reading

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Ebrahim’s new song “You Think I’m A Thug” (Music Video)

For Alton Sterling Free MP3 download: https://soundcloud.com/ebrahim-aseem/you-think-im-a-thug-ebrahim-aseem

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Why Black Men don’t date Black Women

Funny you woke brothas claim to love being black, yet you dont date black women. Sistas are not nappy with an attitude. Her hair is as natural as her ability to see through you. You date weak girls, so you … Continue reading

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Nice Guys don’t exist. | Ladies, If your standards are high, change them.

There is no such thing as a ‘nice guy’. There are (1) men who share their flaws upfront & (2) males who hide flaws by acting ‘too nice’. A ‘bad boy’ & a ‘nice guy’ are the exact same manipulative … Continue reading

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