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Please pray for the spirits of these two young children who were killed & their mother was hospitalized after two family pit bull dogs raised by the family from puppies attacked them at their home in Tennessee 🙏🏾

The dogs, who were not rescued dogs, attacked a 2-year-old girl, a 5-month-old boy and their mother Wednesday afternoon in the home located north of Memphis near Shelby Forest State Park, the Shelby County Sheriff’s Office said.

SCSO detectives report that the mother has been upgraded to stable condition at Regional One Health. The two pit bulls responsible for the attack were euthanized this afternoon by Memphis Animal Services. This is still an active, ongoing investigation.

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Ice Cream + Law and Order SVU marathon = the recipe for a Deep Thinking Woman But why?

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75% of my network consists of my deployed male friends, overseas in the Air Force and Marines who are away from their wives for 6 months at a time. Among the many relationship questions men email me weekly, one question they always ask is, “why does my girl love watching SVU marathons so much?”

Ladies love Law and Order ==> SVU <== specifically, for these reasons:

1. Strong Women with a Smart-Mouth are celebrated.

In a man’s world, strong-minded women are often discouraged to down play their strength and portray submissive characteristics by weak-minded men who are intimidated by the strength of a woman.

Olivia Benson represents the feminine, strong-minded woman inside of every female. She’s gentle, yet tough as bricks.
She’s feminine, yet not super-girly.

She can seduce a man with her beautiful smile, or kick his ass with her quick hands and sharp tongue.
The later is one of the more subtle, yet empowering aspects of her character, displayed on the show.

SVU promotes the “Intelligent, Quick-Witted, Smart Mouthed Women”.

Often labeled an offensive adjective that starts with the letter “B” by weak men,
who couldn’t assume them alpha role if their manhood depended on it,

SVU displays the true nature of a smart mouthed woman as one who knows her strength and embraces it.
Who doesn’t down play her intelligence to appease the male ego.

Who doesn’t bite her tongue.
It shows a woman doesn’t have to follow every statement she makes to a man with a girly giggle or an “lol”, as a way to lighten up her intelligent assertions.

Who doesn’t have to passive-aggressively respond to a man under her breath
as a way to avoid his father-like discipline of her not “knowing her role and staying in it”.

Benson’s character, played by Marishka Hargitay, is the girl next door;
if the girl next door had the face of a model, with the fight of a black-belt.

Women love her, because she doesn’t take any misogynistic BS.
Not only does she stand up for women on the show, Benson /Marishka founded the Joyful Heart Foundation in 2004

To heal and empower survivors of sexual assault, domestic violence and child abuse, while raising awareness for these often over-looked epidemics.
Gotta love a strong-minded woman with a conscious.

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2. Stabler.

One word says it all for true SVU fans
who’ve been watching from the start.

Strong minded women LOVE a strong man, with mountains for arms who knows how to take charge and DEMAND her attention with his romantic aggression.
Elliot Stabler is just that.

Although Christopher Meloni has since left the show, he won’t soon leave true fans’ hearts.
The impact his punch first, ask questions last persona leaves on the screen, as well on the face of a suspect, is unshakable.

3. Girls love Gore.

Even a woman who refuses to watch a horror film
will sit and Google “serial killers” on her phone all day,

or read about “The black dahlia” on Wikipedia, until her eyes turn red,
or YouTube the most heinous real life crimes, like the news clip about the mother who put her 2-month old baby in the microwave, while on her lunch break.

This counterphobic attitude is a response to anxiety that,
instead of fleeing the source of fear in the manner of a phobia,

one actively seeks it out, in the hope of overcoming the original anxiousness.
It’s a subconscious response to seek out what is feared.

A woman’s love for detection and problem solving rivals her love for chocolate.
And that’s saying a mouth full. When she first meets a man, she has no hesitation to background check his Facebook, google his name and phone number, and cross reference his social networks to ascertain his TRUE relationship status, if he has any children, as well as his characteristics and attributes. By the time a woman agrees to go on a first date with you, she knows substantially more about you than you know about her.

The thriller of solving a suspense or mystery gives life to an intelligent woman. A CSI team has nothing on a woman’s intuition. A woman knows the answer to a question she asks a man before she even asks us. She just wants to see of we will be honest with her. This is why a man should never lie to a woman, she knows. Trust me.

Women are DEEP thinkers by nature. They will stay up all night, playing out scenarios in their head about what “would” happen if she did this, or what “might” happen if she did that. There’s something therapeutic to a woman about watching an SVU marathon with her phone in one hand and a container of ice cream in the other.

Despite the anxiety crime and violence induces, experiencing it through a fictional lens helps a woman minimize her anxiety of her fears, through familiarity and understanding coupled with the usually satisfying conclusion of the abuser being brought to justice at conclusion of each episode.

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4. … because they never say “she asked for it.”

When a woman gets sexually harassed by a co-worker, family member or her bestie’s husband, SHE is told,
“how can you dress so sexy like that and not expect a man to want to force himself on you?”

Women know this. They know they live in a world, dangerous and unjust for women. They know the live in a rape culture, where if a man wears a bathing suit, he’s “handsome and attractive” yet, when a woman wears a bathing suit, she’s, “a whore” or “setting thirst traps”

But on SVU, the cops don’t blame the victims, they listen to them.

They treat them with respect.
They don’t ask women, “well, what were you wearing or doing to MAKE him touch you?”

Ignorance like this is not allowed on this show.

The police are extremely attentive and they show the victims they really care.
They treat women with the respect, assuring them their abuser will be caught.

5. It’s cathartic.

1 of every 3 women are physically or sexually abused at some point in their lives.
In real life, the victims are blamed for this.

But on SVU, the abusers are held to a high standard,
while the victims are comforted and their accusation of abuse or rape is often justified, as no one blames THEM for being raped or beat up.

Survivors of sexual & physical assault, find it healing seeing stories similar to theirs, where people actually care about the victim and bringing the perpetrator to justice in some way.
Survivors want to think some survivors get help and support the way they never did.

Their fantasies of Detective Stabler punching their abuser, rapist or molester until he was bloody and unrecognizable,
Olivia understanding and supporting them through the trial,

Alex brilliantly and successfully arguing for their abuser’s conviction,
causing them to emerge from therapy whole and unafraid is fueled through every SVU marathon they watch.

In real life, however, rape crimes are not taken seriously by police.
Sexual harassment at the office is common place.
A man hitting his girlfriend is laughed at, with ill-advised Chris Brown and Rihanna jokes subsequently following chuckles.

And the much too common “date rape” is often seen by many mentally immature males as,
something a woman “owes” him if he pays for dinner on a date.

Conversely, on SVU, the cops consider rape or domestic abuse just as serious as any other crime. This is why it appeals to a demographic that often has no voice and no one willing to speak for them. They watch it to feel less alone.
So she can know she’s not the only victim out there.

She watches it to see the rapists get their asses kicked and brought to justice, because hers never got punished.
It takes years before hearing ‘it’s not your fault’ becomes an emotional reality, so

Sexual & domestic abuse survivors can find comfort in living vicariously through a character they know will receive some solace within the conclusion of the sixty minute episode.

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6. the Elliot and Olivia hook up that never was, but always seemed right around the corner.

How many women have watched SVU every week to see if this week is the week that Olivia and Elliot would one day make love, because their sexual tension is insane?

7. Ice T’s sarcasm.

The irony of a once hardcore rapper playing a police officer on TV is humorous in and of itself,
and yet Ice T’s sarcastic loquaciousness makes the irony of his existence on a cop show play the comedic straight man.

This clips acts as a perfect ode to Ice T’s unbeknownst hilarity:

8. SVU Marathons are so suspenseful.

You can get emotionally invested in the characters
without having to start from the beginning and watch every single episode sequentially;

Unlike many shows that are impossible to understand unless you binge watch the first three seasons on Netflix without leaving the house for 2 days straight, and if you miss one episode, you have no idea what’s going on and who the hell people are.

Whereas with SVU,
you can turn on the TV and see a complete story in an hour with beginning, middle, and end each time; and you don’t have to watch them in order. This is the major appeal of an SVU marathon. It’s like turning on your favorite playlist and randomizing the tracks.

At the same time, there’s continuity from episode to episode, and Benson and Stabler age, evolve, and change throughout the series,
unlike shows where the main characters are static and interchangeable.
Character development is a huge appeal with SVU fans.

It’s like a mystery or suspense novel in this regard.

9. They don’t act like most victims “cry rape”.

A very low number of rape cases are convicted let alone reported.
The number of people who truly believe most rapes are fabricated and that most women “cry rape” for attention is terrifying.

This lie contributes to the reason most women who get raped don’t report it to the police.
They genuinely feel like no one believes they were really raped.

There is a huge misconception in the world about what “rape” REALLY is.

Sadly, many males, not men, but males don’t consider it “rape” if a woman flirts with him,
or if she enjoys it,
or if she has an orgasm,
or if she has had at least one baby by him,
or if she’s on top,
or if they’re in a relationship,
or if she has ever consented to sex with him at any time.

No matter if a woman consents to sex with a man or not,
if at any time, before or during sex a woman says “stop” “no” “don’t” or “pineapples” it means get up and stop.

Males who say, “well she didn’t use the safe word” or “sometimes no means yes, and stop means harder” miss the point.
Sex is about comfort level.

If at any time a woman doesn’t feel comfortable during sex, it’s best to stop, otherwise that is indeed rape.

The only thing about rape on SVU that is misrepresented is the persistent myth that most rapes are stranger rapes.
Studies show between 70% and 90% of all rapes are committed by someone the victim already knows.

This is rarely portrayed on the show, however,
SVU does a great job of displaying the severity of sexual assault through the amazing storyline and character chemistry.

10. that *sound*. Dun dun

Signifying a beautiful escape into a fantasy world where life is just a little more fair for women.
Why do you love Law & Order SVU so much?

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Queen Vashti, was exiled for refusing her king husband’s command to dance naked in front of 100s of his drunk male guests, wearing only her crown. The king clapped back by making it law every husband be master of his house. This was why a wife & her children take her husband’s last name. She was property of the husband. #EbrahimAseem

Queen #Vashti ‘s throne was stripped away. She had no peace, but her smart mouthed refusal to acquiesce to male privilege inspired & gave peace to Easter, a slim-thick, Afro-Hebrew girl. The Persian King Ahasuerus caught feelings & made her queen. He created a holiday feast for her called “Esther”. #Easter #EbrahimAseem

Queen #Esther used her regal power to emancipate her melanin Hebrew people from bondage & genocide. She created an annual feast to honor equality for her people & equality for the life givers, women. This is the origin of EASTER. #EbrahimAseem

Easter eggs symbolize the Mother Soul Cell Fundamental principle every human ever born starts off as an egg inside a woman’s matrix (womb). #EbrahimAseem

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The female pineal gland is the portal all souls travel through to enter into this realm from the celestial zone. #EbrahimAseem

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It is not your job to keep belittling her, putting her down, calling a respectful woman names unprovoked & making fun of everything about her you don’t understand.

Instead of telling our women, “stop being such a crazy, over-emotional bitch on your period” let’s start telling our women, “When will you awaken to the realization that your smile is meant to be permanent. You flash it like a camera, but it was meant to be a light. Moon you shine so bright, and I’m the spark that was put into your life, for me to make you my wife, into your soul, speaking life. Let go, allow our souls to ignite.” #EbrahimAseem

Your child is not sexy. Stop calling them that. It opens the door for your child to be sexualized. And just because a child isn’t fully clothed does not give you a right to view them sexually.

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Educators & teachers LOVE free thinkers. But the U.S Public School system was created as part of a Trilogy of Mind Control, to discourage free thinking, pineal gland activation & limit the intelligent mind of a person, from elementary to undergraduate. This includes: Health Care (via Kaiser), Mass Media (via T.V.) & Public Academia (via schools & university).

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

EDUCATE (v.) means = to bring something out of a crop or seed. To reap sown seeds. To harvest. To cultivate. a Mind is a seed.

Sadly, this does not take place in public schools, which is a pipeline to fund the private prison system, which has legal slave labor thanks to the 13th amendment.

The goal of public school & public undergrad university is primarily to remove critical thought from a child, then incept a child’s mind with academia & waste eight hours of their day they could spend being creatively brilliant, perfecting their craft of blueprint drafting, dance, chemistry, singing, coding analytics, sketching to design clothes, learning to cook, nutrition, do hair, play an instrument, mock trails.

Many universities goal isn’t you graduating in four years, you taking unnecessary prerequisites as long you pay tuition. This conflict of interest & student loans destroying your credit would have one question if public universities & the department of treasury are working as a syndicate.

This is why after slavery, private universities like HBCUs were formed, to stimulate the minds using wisdom & mental ascension.

Sensory stimulation directly promotes intellectual growth & pineal gland activation via frontal cortex stimulation. Systematic oppression in public universities is done intentionally to create sheep-like robots, who social security number is their barcode.

The goal of Health Care is to carry out medical warfare, and the weapon is legal pharmaceuticals. The name “Kaiser” is derived from the gens (clan) Julia, to which belonged Gaius Julius Caesar, the godfather of the first Roman imperial army.

One sword can wipe out an army. One vaccine can wipe out an entire nation of people. Are all vaccines bad? Hell NO! just the poisonous ones. There is more mercury & live viruses in an “amazing” immunization vaccine than there is in an actual virus itself.

Yet, what is more harmful: The poisonous drug injected into the body? or the poisonous drug injected into the mind?

TV is an outstandingly entertaining, very addictive drug used to control the mind & spark consumerism. Through fiber-optics, our TV transmits a frequency that affects us on a sub-atomic level.

These frequencies are known as talismans & are used very carefully by corporations & the media in the same way product placement is used in a movie to sell us a product.

TV is used to sell us an idea. To mnemonically spark certain emotions in the mind. Some people cannot fall asleep, unless the TV is left on all night. Are you watching the idiot box? or does the idiot box watch you?

Even if it’s just the new additions menu from Netflix or the screen saver from the Blu-ray player, the subconscious mind becomes addicted to the Talisman frequencies the TV/device projects. The subconscious mind becomes a slave to it.

Even when the TV is off, it is still plugged in, it can transmit frequency to the mind, Like a FM station a transmits frequency to a radio. This is one of the greatest forms of mind control.

One would rather miss a family member’s birthday party than to miss an episode of Game Of Thrones. A woman refuses to have any drama in her life, yet religiously watches every episode of Love & Hip Hop or Basketball Wives, because she loves to watch the drama in others lives. It does not mean she loves drama & messiness. Her subconscious mind is addicted to the suspense. Mind control at it’s finest.

Great minds are pushed to settle for the norm by the creatively mediocre who FEAR intelligent, SELF thinking people.

Our thoughts have power to shape your life. The 1% fears you. You use your thoughts to doubt yourself. They use their thoughts to power the law of attraction.

Once you awaken to the inner standing that you don’t need a school to teach you knowledge, religion to bring you on a closer walk with the Holy Spirit, nor doctor to heal you, because you have the mental power to move matter, once you awaken, you will be free of all pain, overthinking & self doubt. But you’re more valuable to the 1% as a consumer, who questions nothing. But you’re most feared as a free thinker who questions everything.

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Ladies, if a man is distant, he’s lost interest in you. LET GO! Forcing us to give time & effort will push us further away. Making excuses for our neglect will not help us ‘reach potential’ you see in us. It will make us resent you. You deserve a consistent, honest man, who gives you effort without you having to beg him for it.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”

Men get distant in 3 main ways:

1. He stops communicating for 2 or more days straight. – Sure, he can get busy with work & family for 24 hours, but if a man goes from talking to you every day, to you not hearing from him for more than 48 hours straight, without prior warning or reasonable explanation after, you’re either no longer a priority to him, or he’s intimately communicating with another girl.

2. He stops being sexual with you. – Even a hard working man can get too tired for love making once in a while, but if he hasn’t either had sex with you or sexted you in over a week without a feasible explanation, he’s either being sexual with another woman…. or another man. Or worse, he may have an STD from cheating he is trying to hide.

3. He stops disagreeing with you. – This is one of the *Secret Guy Code Cheat Tricks* I go in depth about in my book.
If a man has never disagreed with you, it’s because he doesn’t see you in his future. People disagree with someone they care for, because they want to rid you of a misconception you may have about them, to ensure a communicative, healthy, lasting relationship in the future. Don’t confuse “disagreeing” with excessive: “arguing, yelling & name calling” That’s immature communication by both parties.

A man who’s stopped disagreeing with you no longer cares to let you know how he feels inside, because he’s lost interest in a future with you. He becomes passive about things he used to be fiery about. I’ve learned this to be true for women as well. Once a woman stops caring, she’s lost interest in you.

I have a major confession, I’ve displayed all three of these characteristics over the last year.

When I was single, I enjoyed taking multiple women on dates. I let them all know this & encouraged them to do the same. I didn’t expect any loyalty from them. I kept it 100 with them at all times. I told them I wasn’t looking for a girlfriend, I was searching for a wife.

Once I met my queen, Brie, that all changed. It changed because I knew she was the one. I told her I was faithfully committing myself to her. I cut off communication with the girls I had taken on dates while I was single. No more dates. No more sexting. No more disagreeing. I straight up ghosted them, insidiously.

To break up with someone you’re in a relationship with by ghosting them is immature & heartless. However, when you’re single, you don’t owe someone you weren’t committed to any explanation.

Red flag: If a man keeps communicating with the EXs, non-platonic friends & baby mommas he claims to be done with, behind your back, it’s a major red flag he’s losing interest in you. As this point, you can either let him go & lose all you two were building towards, or you can let him know you want a full faithful commitment from him with complete loyalty& if he’s still interested in a future with you, he will cut off all other girls and commit himself fully to you.

There’s a way to tell if a man is still interested in forever with you. He will be as transparent as water. He will open up his soul to you & pour his love into your glass heart. Like I did with Brie when I told her this:

“If you ever irritate me or annoy me, it will never push me away.
To me your brattiness is as sexy as your cattiness, me & my love are here to stay.
I got the right amount of masculine ruggedness to always put you & that smart mouth in your place.
To draw a circle of protection around you with my manly strength. To paint smiles on your beautiful canvas face.
I want forever with you. You’re my reflection in every way.
Looking deep inside your eyes, the mirror to your soul, helps me understand you, my self & our purpose together more & more each day.
You can never push me away, no matter what you do. Because baby, I want infinity forevers with you.

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