I don’t like when beautiful women approach me & tell me, they only date Black men like me, they love my culture & how strong of a black man I am. Then they turn around & say they’re ‘color blind’ when I ask their thoughts on police murdering Black men.
So wait… you value a Black man enough to date, sleep with & have a pretty mixed baby by one. Yet, you don’t value a Black man enough to stand up, speak out and fight for one? If so, don’t try to act like you love Black men. No. You just love black dick. Be honest with yourself. #EbrahimAseem
If you date Black men for his spirit & not his penis size, you wouldn’t feel defensive of these words, you’d simply stand by your man & support his Black life. Spirits have no race.
By: Ebrahim Aseem
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Yesterday, I overheard two White women in my apartment building mail room, discussing Black protestors at a Donald Duck rally.
“Did you see those thugs on the news?” one of the White women asked. “Oh my God, it looked like a trap music video. They were holding their cute little picket signs, stomping on cars, stealing from stores & throwing water bottles at the police, just begging for attention.”
“What do you expect, dey some hood niggas yo,” the other White woman replied in a fake hood tone of voice, mocking African-American vernacular, “that’s the only way they can afford those things they rap about. Oh my God, my masseuse told me Black girls shave all their hair off then steal weaved hair & glue it to their scalp.”
“Fucking serious?” the first woman laughed.
“Why do you think Black girls are always so rude & uptight,” the second woman joked.
I was disgusted. They were alone in the mail as I waited by the elevator, just 50 feet away, so they didn’t know I could hear them. Once they opened the door & walked out, I knew what I had to do. After the mail room door swung open, the mouths of the two women closed shut. My jaw dropped it was Erica.
Now, I know you’re wondering, “who’s Erica”. Well, here’s my Erica story. I love dogs. So one day, I saw this cute dog by my house while jogging. I pet & rub its neck when I notice it only has 3 legs. So, I rub it’s back with compassion. Then this pretty Armenian woman out of nowhere puts a leash on her & says, “wow no one ever rubs my dog, they just stare or take pics with their phone.” to which I reply, “that’s dumb of them. I just love dogs & all animals.”
So she says, “me too. But not more than I love my little brother. I adopted this dog after my brother got his left leg amputated, so he can be motivated & know he can still accomplish anything despite losing his foot, just like his pet.”
“Word? I really respect that. My name is Ebrahim, what’s yours?” I asked. “Erica,” she replied with a smile. So, I invited her her dog to Starbucks to continue the conversation. That’s when she told me what I heard at least a dozen times a day from White women. She said, “I only date Black men.” Check please. When I made eye contact with Erica after she walked out the mail room, I could’ve growled, like her three-legged-dog. But instead, I played it cool.
“Good evening,” I greeted, with a wave.
“Hey, nice beard,” the Erica replied with a smile & blush. “How’s your day going?”
“I’m not doing so well,” I responded, fighting off my anger. “My eldest sister is still mourning the lost of her first born son, a 21-year-old Blavk man, who was murdered Janurary 9th. The police admit to knowing the shooter, car, weapon & shell casings, yet refuse to investigate.
“You could have just said a 25-year-old man who died,” Erica’s brunette friend replied as the elevator doors opened, “his race doesn’t matter.”
“It mattered to the creator who created him to be Black,” I replied as we walked into the elevator, “and unfortunately, him being Black may have mattered to the White SFPFD officers who the proclaimed in leaked texts “All Niggers deserve to hang” in response to why they’re slow to investigate the murder of Black people, like the cops who murdered Mario Woods. Have either of you been paying attention to the frequency to which Black men women have been murdered by police in this country over the past year?”
“I can’t say I’ve noticed,” Erica replied, opening her Uber app.
“Really?” I asked, “you haven’t heard of the ‘Black Lives Matter’ movement?”
“I think I may have seen that as a hashtag on twitter or something,” Erica replied, without making eye contact, “but I try not to feed into racism. There is only one race, the human race. I try to view things with a color blind eye.”
“The only beings I know who are color blind are dogs,” I replied. “When I first met you & your dog, you confessed you ‘only date Black men’. There is nothing ‘color blind’ about that statement. Misappropriating Black culture is not some badge of honor to be worn.
Why is it that you White women who ‘only date Black men’ want our children in your womb, but don’t want us speaking self love into our children?”
“Maybe if you guys were behaving civilized, instead of looting & tearing down the streets Black lives would matter to people,” the brunette replied as the elevator doors opened.
“You’re not color blind, you’re human blind. Your eyes are unable to see Black people in a positive light,” I responded walking with them towards the lobby. “Ten-thousand Blacks protested peacefully & non-violently in Baltimore last year, yet your eyes fixate solely on the looters, uninvolved & unrelated to the protestors.
In 2005, it took the National Guard a week to reach New Orleans after Hurricane Katrina hit, while Black US citizens were drowning in contaminated flood water, trapped in buildings & being housed like cattle in the Super Dome without food, water, pluming or air conditioning. It took US troops 24 hours to reach Baltimore. If you can see all this & still say you’re color blind, it’s because deep down you agree the lives of Black children are not worth the exact same as the lives of your children.
I pray for every mother & their child. Spirits have no race. But the judicial system is so NOT color blind, and neither are you. I am tired of trying to get people who behave like animals to see Black people as humans.”
“You guys are the ones who behave like animals,” the brunette replied, laughing out loud.”
“Remember when Black people marched non-violently & White police sicked dogs & water hoses on them?” I retorted, once we walked wast our concierge & into the lobby
“Remember when White police left Michael Brown’s dead body in the street for hours after shooting him, yet a White James Eagan Holmes was calmly escorted into a police car by White police after massacring 12 people & injuring 70 in a Dark Knight Rises movie theater opening?
“Remember just five minutes ago, when you two were calling a group of Black people whom you’ve never met ‘thugs’ & ‘niggas’ in the mail room? It is animalistic & inhuman to treat another group of people less than you want your children to be treated, simply because they are of a different race, gender, age or religion.” #EbrahimAseem
The two women looked like they had just seen an insidious ghost. Unbeknownst to them, the only insidious thing in that lobby was the fact they were white privileged wolves in color blind sheep clothing.
“I was completly appalled overhearing your conversation,” I contiuned. “Every Black person is not your nigger or your thug. We have names, & stories & a level of consciousness higher than you perceive.”
“My boyfriend is Black and he uses the n-word around me all the time,” the brunette said, “and doesn’t mind when I use it as a term of respect for him.”
“First of all, you’re married,” I replied. “Erica already told me that. She also told me your husband lets you bring home Black men to sleep with you in front of him.”
“Oh my God, you told him about that!” the brunette complaind, slapping Erica’s arm. “Bitch, that wasn’t your business to tell. Did you tell him you watched those Black guys fuck me too? Miss Goody-two shoes.”
“So, your husband willfully watches another man have sex with you?” I asked. “Does it not bother you that your man treats you like a prostitute?”
“Actually, he treats me like a princess,” the brunette replied with a smirk, “he buys me whatever I want. And he likes seeing me get plowed by a big black sword. It actually gets him rock hard. It’s the only thing that gets him hard enough to get it up for me.”
“Well, be careful,”I warned her, “he may not be watching you when he’s stroking & watching your Black boyfriend sex you.”
Erica’s mouth shot wide open as she slowly turned to look at her bestie.
Second of all,” I continued, fighting off the urge to throw-up, “I don’t know your extramarrital boyfriend, but he’s a coward if he allows you to use the word ‘nigger’ or ‘nigga’ towards him in any way. There is nothing respectful about that term.”
“Well, you guys say it all the time,” the brunette defended.
“Just because you see a group of people degrade themself, does not mean you have a right to join in on the fun,” I replied, using the word ‘fun’ extremely sarcastically.
“You guys blame us for using that word & labeling you, but watch the news,” she asserted. “Your brothers and sistas are tearing down their own city when they protest, thinking that will somehow free them.”
“Black people do not think looting & vandalizing will affect change & justice. Don’t confuse peaceful protesters non-violently looking for change, with angry looters looking for change, coins & dollars. Just because they’re all Black, doesn’t mean they all agree,” I corrected.
“Mass media wants to incept the thought in your mind that Blacks are uncivilized savages out for bloody revenge. Blacks are unbreakable, affectionate, spiritual souls who know vengeance belongs not to them, but to the creator of us all.
If your children were getting murdered without answers instead,
you’d be fighting for them too, so put your judgements to bed.
My nephew Harith was shot dead, took two bullets to the head.
“All niggers deserve to hang,” San Francisco police said.
They know who took his life, yet they refuse to arrest.
The media calls us thugs when we chose to protest.
No, a thug steals, like police stealing our life.
Their ancestors stole our culture like a thief in the night.
Africans were uncivilized, that’s what they say.
We had a culture, until you evil vultures stole it away.
Force fed us Christianity, spiritual calamity.
Raised to be slaves at the grave of insanity.
Ripped from the belly of an African queen.
She was in-tune with the universe. Peaceful & clean.
Highest knowledge on earth. From where life stated first.
Where the land bleeds oil, gold & diamonds.
Now, we’re in this ‘land of the free & the home of the brave’
More like the Land of the Hypocrites & homes of the slaves.
Police stealing our lives by any means necessary.
We’re fighting to survive while they seem legendary.
They’re quick to shoot my brothers in the back.
That’s why we gotta blast them with this knowledge, be prepared to attack.
Cock back your mind and be ready to blow.
Load your magazine with the truth, then shoot.
The blood is on their hands, so they’re guilty as sin.
No heart behind their badge, because they’re empty within.
Been getting away with murder, now somebody gotta pay.
They better watch their back on the judgement day.”
By: Ebrahim Aseem
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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