How to approach her in person:
#HowToApproachAWomanEbrahimAseem I've done this before. I ordered my Starbucks before her & told the barista I'm paying for whatever she's ordering. After she ordered, the barista told her, the man with the freckles already paid for your order. I got my change from the barista once my order was ready. This is so real. Never settle for a man who can't be creative. Would this work for you? ☕️ #ManChallenge #ThisHasWorkedForMe #Starbucks #EbrahimAseem
#3. If she’s walking fast don’t yell, catcall or chase her. Mentally note the location. Return tomorrow w/ a box of chocolate w/ ur number on it
#4. Pay for her gas. Say, “fill it up beautiful, it’s taken care of”. Then, leave your number on her dash. If she calls, gas up her inner beauty
#5. Compliment her eyebrows when you approach her not her breasts. Hand her a MAC gift card with your number on it. Get to know her inner beauty
#6. If she has a dog, ask its name & breed. Pet it. Talk to it. Be affectionate. Say “If u 2 are ever down for a dog park date here’s my number”
#7. Give her a massage spa gift card w/ ur number inside. Say “I pray u have a stress free day” If she calls take away her stress dont add to it
#8. Compliment her outfit. Say “Can I SnapChat you on my story? Your beauty just made my day” Show her the selfie. Have her text it to her phone
#9 When she’s checking out, pay for her groceries. Leave ur card & say “I didn’t interrupt because I value ur time & smile. Call me if u have any
#10. If she’s at work, don’t interrupt her hustle by yelling or asking her number. Buy something. Then give it to her w/ ur number on the receipt
#11. If shes introverted dont use lines. She spots bs & reads minds by feeling energy. Treat her vibe like waves & ride it. Then say “can we txt”
How to approach her if you’re not strangers.
#13. Buy her a nonfiction book about ur deepest flaw. Read it. Brainstorm ways to overcome it. Contact her & confess it. Show her growth not game
#15. Find out her fav fruit. Read how to plant. transplant the seed. Once it buds, give it to her. Teach her how to nurture it. Nurture her mind.
#16. Ask her fav food instead of her number. Read a cook book. Cook it. Bring it to her. Write your number on the tubaware. Serve her creativity.
#17. Give her some organic coconut oil w/ a list. 1st, read up on all its healing properties. Write them on the list w/ your number at the bottom
#20. Buy 24 flowers. Give ur nana 12 & take a pic. Show ur crush & give her 12 💐. Tell her ur fav memory of nana. Ask to take her to meet ur nana
#21. Buy her organic olive oil. Write ur number on it. Say, “I bought u this for ur hair. If ur ever down for me to teach u a recipe using it, call me
#22. Buy her pH strips so she can test her alkaline level. Read books on the topic so u can drop knowledge. Then get her number & take her higher
How to approach her, even in the DM.
#23. Observe her social media for her passions. Read a book on the topic. DM her ur thoughts. Say “Id love to converse deeper. What’s ur number?”
#24. If she loves dogs, ask her fav breed. Find a breeder w/ those puppies. Snap selfies w/ them. Send her the pics & invite her to play w/ them.
#25. Ask her fav Disney song. Learn it. Sing & record it w/ ur number at the end. Give it to her. If she calls, take her to see Lion King Musical
#26. DM her a video right after a fresh cut & shave. Tell her to have a stress free day. If she replies, she’s feeling u. Ask for a FaceTime date
#27. Make fun of her fav show.🤣 Promise to watch. Say “I was wrong” & what u liked. Say “Can I call u after the next episode & converse about it?
#28. Send her funny/informative links like those she posts. Be her goofy/peaceful escape from overthinking & stress. Ask her on a ComedyClub date
How to approach a Single Mom
#29. If shes w/ her child shes busy. Respect it. Dont ask her number, give urs written down. Say “Id love to see if ur convo’s as beautiful as u”
How to Court her:
Man challenge. #CourtHer #GenuineWomenOnly You don't want to date me. I don't text for months w/ no intentions. I like conversing about growth & building a future. #EbrahimAseem I don't Netflix & chill. I take you on a date so you know it's real. I don't ask for sexy pics. I long kiss, play in your hair, massage & smack your derrière. I don't talk. I court. I want a future. I want forever w/ one. If you only want a bae, I'm not for you. #EbrahimAseem I don't care if you got curves, if I can't take you out, pay the bill & court you, get your fine, "talkingship" ass away from me. Speaking life to a group of 415 college men. #12yrMaleMenor
#35. Dont ask for pics. Say “back that brain up on my throbn pineal gland. I’ll pound stress out ur overthink’n mind w/ my mental depth. Converse
#40. Wake your crush up like this.
#45. Stop entertaining EVERY girl on social media, while the girl you’re courting is giving u all her attention. Your future wife may be watching
#46. Court a healed woman. Who’ll respect u, support ur vision, joke, pray & read with you & not make u pay for the cold way past men treated her
#48. Court a woman who’ll INVEST in u. Not ur wallet. Your patience goals & purpose. Quit chasing the bad bitch fantasy who doesnt promote growth
#51. Inconsistency is a huge turn off to her. Don’t be all over her one minute, & distant the next. She’s loyal to effort & courtship, not “talking” & empty promises.
#54. Boys text & make excuses. Men call & make plans. If u only txt she’ll think u txt multiple side chicks & dont see a future w/ her. Court her
#55. Dont expect her to chase u. Shes not playing hard to get. Pain changed her. Give her so much patience she feels like her trusting self again
#60. Stop pouring all your loyalty in a girl who behaves single, flirts online & treats u like an ATM. Court a giver who reciprocates your energy
#63. Take her on a PetCo or aquarium date, so she can play w/ animals, while u play in her hair & grip her curves. Slowly unleash ur inner animal
How to keep her:
#66. Dont throw all u do for her in her face when mad. She watches all she says just to keep u happy. Use your words to reassure & calm her fears
#85. If you have a giving woman, cherish & spoil her. Match your ruggedness w/ vulnerability. Never let fear of being calling soft lose you your blessing bro
#90. She just needs you to listen to her & comfort her. Stop trying to fix it & tell her what she did wrong. Understand.
#95. TrEAT her pearls of wisdom like groceries, until she pours her thoughts from your lips to hers. Swallow every drop of her intellect.
#100. When you find your wife, be goofy with her. Read with her. Kiss, bite & massage every inch of her body, so the world knows you’re only hers. Never get irritated, bored & lack effort when you find a treasure, because you only get ONE.
She said YES! 💍 This is my best birthday present ever! A fiancée. I can't wait to say I do to you. Brie, you are my dream come true. My happily ever after. Where would I be w/o you? I love you more than my lungs love air. Not just all you do, give & share. #EbrahimAseem I love when you respectfully tell me call out my flaws it promotes my growth. The love I have for self matters to you most. You're the ONLY woman I want to wake up to. Take out on a date. Show off around town. Go for a walk with by the lake. #EbrahimAseem You're the only woman who arouses my mind, throbs my head. You're the only woman I want to devour in bed. You're the only woman I can be goofy with, singing 90s R&B with in the car. Even when we're driving nowhere. Because without you in my life, I'm going nowhere. You're the best woman for me by far. My Hebrew beauty. When I met you, you were a single mother with a 10mo. old son. From that very second, I knew I wanted you, your child & I to be one. The way you always put your child before me, has made me want to make you & yOUR child my first priority. #EbrahimAseem Men, shoot your shot! Approach your crush. Buy her your fav book. Put your number inside. If she calls, don't ask her to chill. Have a bookclub date & converse. Turn the pages of her mind. #EbrahimAseem Brie, you make the waves of my heartbeat want to kiss the soft sand that is your embrace. I know your past is filled with hurt, pain & broken trust. But for only you, I will endure all the pain, destroy all your demons, break down every last wall that houses your trust issues, because only you mean that much. I will be consistent, never turn away. No other woman can take your place. I want trips overseas with only you. That's why I got one one knee for only you Brie. I want to spiritually grow with only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I placed on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, future bride, after I, with tears in my eyes, look the best thing that ever happened to me deep in your eyes & say, "I do", to only you. 💍👸🏾💒 I love you. & I want to daily uplift you, so you always love YOU too. 05.09.17 #EbrahimAseem IG: @Fuel4TheBody