Why BUSY, successful women can’t KEEP a man, but a Bad Bitch can.

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Dating a strong, smart, successful, busy woman is a waste of a man’s time. Yes, I said it. She’s always busy, & canceling dates, with her flaking ass. She has less free time than a bald girl has edges. Her texts are as short as her patience. Busy women will ignore your texts, then text you a week later like, “oh I thought I replied.” No time to put a man first. A woman who puts her career, school or child first over me, until I put a ring on her finger makes me want to make her my first priority, as long as she reciprocates all I give. By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Don’t sleep on a busy woman just because she has school, a career or a child. Those busy, strong, intelligent, virtuous, focused women can cook, massage, drop wisdom & promote your growth. #EbrahimAseem Don’t just “date” her or “talk” to her. COURT her exclusively to show her you appreciate all sacrifices she makes grinding for her future with no help. #EbrahimAseem Busy women only give time to consistent men who give effort.

If a busy reciprocal woman gives us her time, she’s already considering something more with us. Don’t mess it up. Cut off side chicks & make only her a priority. Manhood is about EFFORT over ego. #EbrahimAseem

As men, we have to stop chasing the Bad Bitch Fantasy girl who only texts back faster than a busy woman can, because she ain’t got a damn job or career to pour energy into. #EbrahimAseem A smart, successful woman can be both busy AND bad. Get you a girl who can do both.

Be patient with a busy woman. Take her out. She’s not flaking. Her bills & student loans costs more than 1,000 dates you can take her on. It’s not about money. Spoil her with your time, yet don’t smother her. Give her space. #EbrahimAseem If she likes you, she’ll reach out to you. Busy women make time for those who are important to her growth. Don’t let her busy schedule discourage you. It’s not a reciprocal woman’s job to chase us men. You pursue her & never give up. Be her consistency, she’ll be your everything. #EbrahimAseem

I learned that busy woman who gives you peace after working all day deserves for you to melt all her stress away. Spoil her. Support her mental growth. Reassure her busy schedule isn’t a deal breaker. #EbrahimAseem

A busy woman who’s loyal to her purpose & values herself too much to chase me, turns me the hell on. I wanna cuddle up & read with you. Turn your pages. Be fluent in your love language. Pray with you, never ON you. Hear you speak your mind, my favorite melody. #EbrahimAseem You never ask too much, & that makes me want to give you my all, my commitment & my last name. Teach me how to understand you. Teach me how to dance to the beat of your caring heart. Let’s make music together. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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I am a chef, motivational speaker & 12-year-mentor for men. I write new articles every thursday & travel, speaking life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide. I am West African-Hebrew.

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A Genuine woman w/ trust issues isn't crazy, smart mouth, guarded or over emotional. She's just been thru so much pain. #EbrahimAseem You don't know if growing up mom treated her like crap & put men over her. #EbrahimAseem Parents never acknowledging all she did, never showing unconditional love, always putting her down, calling her names. Court her, propose & tell her this You're my dream come true. Where would I be w/o you? I love you more than lungs love breathing air. Not just b/c all you do, give & share. #EbrahimAseem You promote my growth. The love I have for myselfmatters to you most. You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take on a date. Go for a walk w/ by the lake. #EbrahimAseem The only one who can arouse my mind, & throb my head. The only one I want to devour in bed. You’re the only one I can be goofy w/, sing along to 90s R&B w/ as we ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because w/o you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far. You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heart kiss the soft sand of your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled w/ hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, Im willing to endure all pain, destroy all your demons, break down every wall that houses your trust issues, b/c only you mean that much. I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you inside & out, & as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen like you. #EbrahimAseem Thank you for sticking by me thru arguments & mistakes. I'll never turn away. No one can take your place. #EbrahimAseem I want trips overseas w/ you. To get on one knee for you. To spiritually grow w/ only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I'll place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, with tears in eyes, look you deep in your eyes & say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. & I want you to daily uplift you, so you'll always love you too. #EbrahimAseem Speaking this to 250 college men today! #12YearMaleMentor Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

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Black women, is this true? 👸🏾✊🏿 #EbrahimAseem

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Men don’t stay loyal to girls who CHASE them. Let him pursue you.

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Stop telling him to text back or give effort. He saw your text & doesn’t want you. Men don’t take girls who chase them seriously. #EbrahimAseem Let him court you & pursue you.

A woman can be gorgeous, curvy, funny & low matinence, if she chases him, a man will still DM Instamodels & cheat on her with the most warthog looking side chick/beast he can find. We’re talking Pumba from Lion King.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Chasing a man makes him want to pursue other women, because men are hunters. Food doesn’t taste as good when a hunter doesn’t have to put in work for it. #EbrahimAseem

When we have to put in work & effort for something, we value it more. When things come too easily, we take it for granted. Men side chick zone girls who chase him, because we don’t just seek the beautiful woman, it’s the thrill of the courting we’re after.

A woman who takes effort & consistency to get makes a man throb so hard. An easy girl makes him want another, because his hunger for courting isn’t quenched. #EbrahimAseem

Earning your loyalty makes us value it more. Getting loyalty without having to commit makes us seek another woman who values herself more.

Begging a man for commitment & telling him how to give you effort makes him crave a side chick. Here’s why: it’s not your job to teach a man how to be one, how to give effort & understand you. That was his father’s job. Once you start behaving like you’re his mother, he’ll see you as that, & crave another woman under his covers.

Even husbands get bored with a wife who doesn’t require effort without begging for it. He will sneak & text girls on Snap Chat. Spice things up. Send your man a sexy snap chat. Turn on some twerk music & dance on him. Play his favorite game & tell him the winner gets to be treated like dessert. Make your man constantly court you else he will replace you. #EbrahimAseem

Girls will give their all, stressing in pain to fix a broken man, instead of just choosing the loyal, handsome, strong, equally yoked manage wanted in the first place. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t ignore a man then expect him to chase you either. He will lose interest & only act like he loves you, until you give him sex, then he’ll snatch the world from under you.

If you like a man, don’t chase him. Be consistent enough to let him know you’re intrested, yet chaste enough that he doesn’t lose interest in pursuing you. He texts back? You text back. He treats you to a date first? You treat him to a date next. He doesn’t hit you? You don’t hit him. You’re not on his mind? Stop overthinking him into yours. #EbrahimAseem

Making a man dance to the beat of your standards without begging for time & effort makes him crave you. #EbrahimAseem Begging a man for effort annoys him. Telling him what to do irritates him. Teaching a grown ass man how to be one prepares him to commit to the woman after you, because you’re too busy being his mother. #EbrahimAseem

A woman who values herself too much to chase me, turns me the hell on. I wanna cuddle up & read with you. Turn your pages. Be fluent in your love language. Pray with you, never on you. Hear you speak your mind, my fav melody. #EbrahimAseem You never ask too much, & that makes me want to give you my all, my commitment & my last name. Teach my how to understand you. Teach me how to dance to the beat of your caring heart. Let’s make music together. #EbrahimAseem

I learned that woman who gives you peace after working all day deserves for you to melt all her stress away. Spoil her. Support her mental growth. Reassure her you appreciate all her sacrifice. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me
Motivational #SpeakLife vidoes: Youtube.com/RealNewsmagazine
Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

I am a chef, motivational speaker & 12-year-mentor for men. I write new articles every thursday & travel, speaking life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide. I am West African-Hebrew.

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Ebrahim’s new song “You Think I’m A Thug” (Music Video)

For Alton Sterling

Free MP3 download: https://soundcloud.com/ebrahim-aseem/you-think-im-a-thug-ebrahim-aseem

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Why Black Men don’t date Black Women

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Funny you woke brothas claim to love being black, yet you dont date black women. Sistas are not nappy with an attitude. Her hair is as natural as her ability to see through you. You date weak girls, so you can be ‘alpha’ by default. Little do you know, just because a woman isn’t Black doesn’t mean she’s weak. Strong women won’t submit to you, because she doesn’t trust your ability to lead her. You can barley lead yourself. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

In a GQ interview, Creed star Michael B.Jordan said, “It’s the world we live in. They see white and black. I don’t. A lot of black fans were feeling like, ‘Oh, my God, he should have been with a black woman’. I get it, but on the other hand it’s, like, relax – it’s 2015. It’s okay! People can like one another, not necessarily from the same history or culture or whatever the fuck it is. I understand what females want and need. I’m good at that. I don’t know if I’m the guy to give it to them right now. I’m emotionally unavailable.”

First of all bruh, don’t call women females. “Female” is only a woman’s body. It doesn’t not describe HER, which is the spirit wrapped inside that body. Secondly, to say you don’t see color is irresponsible. When you want Italian food, you get pasta. When you want Japanese food, you grab sushi. Culture is beautiful to choose, but when you exclude choosing your own culture as a reason why you choose another, it’s not ‘color blind’ it’s self hate.

For a black man to love a white woman or any woman is a beautiful thing.; but for any man to say he doesn’t date any woman of his own race, the same race as his mother, is really admitting he is a coward. #EbrahimAseem Too weak-minded to be in a relationship with a strong woman of their own race, who will tell him when he is wrong, call him on his “B.S.” and correct him.

Love has no race. Spirits have no race. We are all spirits, wrapped in the human form, like a gift wrapped inside a box. Who cares what color the box is? It’s the treasure inside that is to be valued, not its container. #EbrahimAseem Black women are beauifull. White women are beautiful. All women are beautiful.

I have never seen a heart love more or love less, based on the skin color of the person the heart resides in. #EbrahimAseem

People who only date “light-skinned people” or only date “dark-skinned people” are ignorant.

Light-skinned does not mean prettier. Dark- skinned does not mean ugly. Light-skinned does not mean one is stuck-up or SOFT. Dark-skinned does not mean one is humble or HARD. #EbrahimAseem

White does not mean she’s weak or submissive. Black does not mean she’s ghetto or uneducated. #EbrahimAseem

Latin doesn’t mean she has an attitude or is crazy. Asian doesn’t mean she’s timid and weak-minded. #EbrahimAseem

Filipino doesn’t mean she’s irrational or homicidal. Pretty doesn’t mean she’s bipolar or cocky. #EbrahimAseem

When we limit ourselves or judge people based off race or the color of their skin, we allow ourselves to miss out on the most compatible person for us. #EbrahimAseem

I learned as a man, we have to stop trying to CONTROL a strong-minded women. #EbrahimAseem In that same regard, we have to STOP placing labels on women, as “submissive” or “non-submissive”.

A weak woman and a submissive woman are not the same. Strong women are constantly misunderstood
as “crazy” or “annoying” by weak males who aren’t men enough to handle her. #EbrahimAseem She’s not “crazy” she’s passionate. She’s not “bipolar” she just treats people differently, based off how THEY treat HER. She’s not “talking back” she just speaks her mind, despite what anyone feels or thinks about it. #EbrahimAseem A strong-minded woman will NEVER be submissive to a weak man. If she sees he cannot assume the Alpha role, she will walk all over him.

A strong-minded woman will happily submit herself mentally to a strong man who mentally DEMANDS her respect with his mentality, who can respect her enough NOT to try to change her, and can assume the ALPHA role.

The reason many men don’t wife or cuff strong- minded women, or say they don’t date women of their own race is because, he subconsciously feels inferior to her intelligence. #EbrahimAseem

“SHUT UP” is a term weak men with limited vocabulary use to silence a woman who speaks her mind. #EbrahimAseem We have to Man up our mentality. If she talks too much, It’s because we as men are not doing enough.

Taking control of a woman’s MIND with our conversation will render her SPEECHLESS. #EbrahimAseem The reason strong- minded women
have a smart mouth & talk back is not because she’s “masculine.” NO. She knows she can play a man’s Alpha role better than him with her intelligence. #EbrahimAseem Can we as men STOP trying to CONTROL a strong woman?

Some men say, “but I need a woman to listen to me, not correct Me! treat me like a MAN dammit! First of all, how much a woman listens to us is NOT a reflection of how much of a man we are. If a man feels that, he obviously has very low self-esteem. #EbrahimAseem

Second, by a man choosing ONLY weak, submissive women who he KNOWS will never challenge anything he says, shows he is SCARED of a woman’s strength.

If the only way a man is attracted or aroused by the company of a woman is if she bows down to him, it is scary, and the early stages of him being on the down low. Oh, trust me.

You get off on power struggle huh? You like a woman to treat you like you’re her daddy huh? Yeah, that’s a weak man. A real STRONG man can humble himself to listen to his woman.

A KING has no intention of trying to Change or CONTROL a queen. He WANTS his woman to be just as strong and outspoken as Him, with her own mind, because he knows, his woman’s strength is a reflection of his. #EbrahimAseem Iron sharpens iron. As men, we have to allow our strong woman to be the iron that sharpens our iron, as we sharpen hers.

Im so attracted to Black women. She is not unapproachable. She just sees thru lies game & bs. She doesnt have attitude. She just speaks her mind, & wont submit to a weak man just so he can be alpha by default. Skin of black diamond. Hair of gold. #EbrahimAseem Her body is art Her heartbeat is music. All human life came from her womb. Respect her✊🏿

Never heard me sing? Listen to my song “I Love Black Women”

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
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Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me
Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

I am a chef & 12-year mentor for men & a motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

Want a free copy of my book? Follow me => http://Facebook.com/AEAseem then message me so I can message you a free copy.

Instead of complaing about your woman, tell her this…. #EbrahimAseem

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A Genuine woman w/ trust issues isn't crazy, smart mouth, guarded or over emotional. She's just been thru so much pain. #EbrahimAseem You don't know if growing up mom treated her like crap & put men over her. #EbrahimAseem Parents never acknowledging all she did, never showing unconditional love, always putting her down, calling her names. Court her, propose & tell her this You're my dream come true. Where would I be w/o you? I love you more than lungs love breathing air. Not just b/c all you do, give & share. #EbrahimAseem You promote my growth. The love I have for myselfmatters to you most. You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take on a date. Go for a walk w/ by the lake. #EbrahimAseem The only one who can arouse my mind, & throb my head. The only one I want to devour in bed. You’re the only one I can be goofy w/, sing along to 90s R&B w/ as we ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because w/o you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far. You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heart kiss the soft sand of your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled w/ hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, Im willing to endure all pain, destroy all your demons, break down every wall that houses your trust issues, b/c only you mean that much. I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you inside & out, & as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen like you. #EbrahimAseem Thank you for sticking by me thru arguments & mistakes. I'll never turn away. No one can take your place. #EbrahimAseem I want trips overseas w/ you. To get on one knee for you. To spiritually grow w/ only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I'll place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, with tears in eyes, look you deep in your eyes & say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. & I want you to daily uplift you, so you'll always love you too. #EbrahimAseem Speaking this to 250 college men today! #12YearMaleMentor Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

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Why I chose a Bad Bitch over a boring, "too-nice" Woman #NewArticle Link in my bio. #EbrahimAseem If he's flirting with Bad Bitches on Instagram, get your hair & nails done. Do booty squats. Dress sexy. He wouldn't need side chicks if you'd just stop letting your body go. If he cheated on you with a bad bitch, it's because you're too boring & too nice. These are the silly lies boys tell themselves to get over losing the best thing that can ever happen to them, a genuine woman. 70% of my followers are men. One asked, "What made you stop pursuing the bad bitches? I mean they are sexy as fuck." My response: "Those self proclaimed 'Bad Bitches' we're sexy & sweet, but called me 'too deep' & 'selfish' for being abstinent while single. They never came to see me speak life. Never came with me to prayer. Never came to family cookouts. Never promoted my growth or stimulated my mind. Then I realized, a woman's sexiness isn't in how phat or curvy her butt is, it's how much she values your manhood & will do anything to help you grow closer to the great man she sees deep inside you bro. The worst mistake I ever made was choosing a Bad Bitch over a sweet woman, but I did it because…….. (Cont) Link to the full article in my bio. #EbrahimAseem

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Nice Guys don’t exist. | Ladies, If your standards are high, change them.

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There is no such thing as a ‘nice guy’. There are (1) men who share their flaws upfront & (2) males who hide flaws by acting ‘too nice’. A ‘bad boy’ & a ‘nice guy’ are the exact same manipulative man, playing a cliche role to get girls in bed. Behaving one way in public & another way in private.

Genuine men have balance. He’s nice, yet blunt. Strong, yet calm. Take charge, yet non-controlling. Hood, yet law abiding. Protective, yet not possessive. Romantically aggressive. #EbrahimAseem A man with no ‘edge’ is hiding a cliffhanger. Here’s how you avoid the plot twist.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

If he’s boring, with no confidence & no assertiveness, he isn’t a ‘nice guy’ just because he texts you everyday. He’s a clingy, narssasistic male. This is why it’s never ok to call a woman ‘female’ or a man ‘male’. ‘Male’ & ‘female’ refers to the phyical body only. ‘Man’ & ‘woman’ refers to the spirit we are, which controls the body it’s wrapped in. #EbrahimAseem Any person who only views their self worth by their physical body parts, is a self-proclaimed female or male.

Pay attention to the red flags. If a man never disagrees, never has an opposing opinion, or never calls out your flaws; he’s not nice, he’s playing a beta role. Don’t wait blindly for the plot twist. Yell cut, end scene. Fin.

Men don’t switch up out of no where. Women must learn to be more loyal to warning signs she sees from the beginning, than she is to an inconsistent man’s potential he never lives up to. #EbrahimAseem

A woman who respectfully questions things is sexy af to a man with nothing to hide. Call him out on his red flags & inconsistencies, to see if his love is stronger than his pride. How a man behaves under pressure is who he really is.

If that nice guy gets angry when you point out his inconsistency, it proves he’s a rageful narssasist playing a role. If that bad boy says he’s ok, yet passive aggressively throws tantrums after you catch him in a lie, it shows he’s a scorned coward, using a non-chalaunt ‘bad boy’ image to camouflage his bitterness.

If you’re a single woman & your standards are high, change them…by raising them even higher. That way, only a tall man with a high consistency level can reach your standards.

A loyal woman is not crazy. Over emotional. Smart mouthed or rude. She is a work of art, sculpted by the greatest artist in the universe. Art does not need to rhyme, make sense all the time, nor change its appearance to be accepted. #EbrahimAseem Art is to be observed, studied, valued & appreciated for the uniqueness it is.

Dear future wife, I want to study your pages. Become fluent in your language the most. I taste the good & bad in you, & I want them both. You bring out the best flavor in me, flaws & all. I just want to savor you. You’re already whole, you don’t need a man to rescue you. #EbrahimAseem I just want you to love & fully accept the beautiful soul in your mirror, as much as I love her. May you, me & her love each other so deep, stay growing closer and better, together, for infinity forevers.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
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I am a chef, 12 year mentor for men & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

Want a free copy of my book? Follow me => http://Facebook.com/AEAseem then message me so I can message you a free copy.

I know my wife is out there somewhere, as creative as me, as inappropriatly goofy as me, as health conscious, athletic, intelligent & spiritual as me, loves children like me & abstinent while single until marriage just like me. 💍👰🏿💒 #EbrahimAseem I know she wants me to be preparing for her right now, not behaving like a male whore while single, sleeping with every girl on Instagram & Snap Chat. #EbrahimAseem My sisters taught me to be LOYAL to my wife even before we meet. So I won't waste her time stringing her along. I will court her, marry her & daily reassure her I want only her for infinity forevers. I want the same for all the 1000s of young men I #SpeakLife into every week. There are millions of good men like us bro & we deserve to be husbands & fathers, not baby daddies. #‎EbrahimAseem‬ #AtWorkCooking #SeafoodPasta #12HourShift #BowTieChef 🍤🍝🍴

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It’s unnatural for men to stay loyal to one woman. He’s as faithful as his options

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“Women say ‘once a man gets a real woman he won’t want to sleep with other women.’ Myth!…Being faithful to one woman is unnatural for men. If he knew his woman wouldn’t find out, any man would do it,” Terry Deron wrote. As a man who has never cheated, I disagree.

Monogamy is not unnatural for men. If it were, men would remain single & sleep with as many women as we want to. Then it wouldn’t be “cheating”. Men who cheat do it for control. #EbrahimAseem Insecurely filling their low confidence by breaking your trust.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

Holding a loyal woman’s heart hostage, while behaving single boosts an inadequate male’s ego. He’s not just intimidated by an intelligent, successful woman with her own mind, he’s jealous of her. #EbrahimAseem Jealous he lacks courage to disagree with his homies & parents, to speak his own mind the way she does. He cheats on her to break her down to his low confidence level.

This is why cheaters will constantly accuse a loyal woman of cheating. He doesn’t understand how a genuine woman like you settles for an unconfident, narssasistic male like him.

If monogamy was ‘unnatural’ for a man, he’d just leave her so he can sleep with all the women he wants. He WANTS to stay committed, make you suffer to suck power & confidence from your pain through a soul tie, like a vampire. #EbrahimAseem

This is why a man will cheat on a loyal woman for years, then leave her to marry the next woman he meets. He used cheating on a beautiful, genuine woman to give him the confidence he lacked, to approach the woman he really wanted. #EbrahimAseem

For years you stayed loyal to a cheater, bringing out his potential, only for the woman he met after you to reap all the benefits of the faithful man you taught him how to be, because you were more of his mother than his woman. #EbrahimAseem

Women wouldn’t be happily married if they allowed cheating. That’s what wives did 100 years ago when women were legal property of their husbands. Never settle for cheating. True love is reciprocal.

Stop molding that cheater into a better man for the next woman. You deserve a one woman man. If you think all men cheat, then you don’t want to date me. I don’t talk to multiple girls. I don’t dry text for months with no intentions. I like conversing about growth, the universe & building a future with one woman.

I don’t Netflix & chill. I take one woman out on a planned, paid for date so you know it’s real. #EbrahimAseem I don’t ask you for sexy pics. I long kiss, play in your hair, massage grab & smack your derrière. I don’t ask “wyd”. I provide hilarious, deep conversing. I don’t do side chicks, I pour all my attention, time, effort & love into ONE woman. I don’t talk. I court. I want a future.

I want forever with ONE. There’s a man right now praying he gets to marry you. Your gaurdedness is not a bad thing. Your flaws aren’t a deal breaker to him. He wants only you. Don’t keep pushing him away with your assumption all 3.5 billion men on earth posses the same mind frame as the disloyal men in your past. #EbrahimAseem Keep growing & loving the beautiful soul in your mirror, & the handsome, loyal man who’s made just for you will match his love with your self love.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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I am a chef, motivational speaker & 12-year-mentor for men. I write new articles every thursday & travel, speaking life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide. I am West African-Hebrew.

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I've enjoyed single life, but I'd be willing to be faithful in marriage if I found one willing to help me out grow my flaws & not make me feel I'm a problem because of past mistakes. #EbrahimAseem Bless me with a virtuous wife who can appreciate the spiritual man you're daily molding me to be & I promise to lead her closer to you. Calm her fears. Be her consistency. #EbrahimAseem Use me to inspire men to be confident to self & faithful to a good woman. Cosmopolitan magazine asked to print my article, "Why Men commit to the girl after the one who invested in his potential " in their publication. #Blessings Thank you for helping me reach 1 million views in 3 days! #EbrahimAseem Just spoke this message to 230 men who want to be husbands.

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Courting these Single ass Mothers #EbrahimAseem Speaking this message to 414 male, app developers #SalesForce My book about single motherhood will be out this summer! DM for a free copy of the forward! The reason this says, "Single ass mothers" is, during my speaking event, one man said, "courting these single ass mothers is a waste, if their baby daddy don't want to wife her single Ass why should I?" Being so fed up, I sarcastically repeated the man's quote "courting these single ass mothers" before telling him & a room full of 414 men these words, because every man ever born came out a woman & genuine mothers deserve respect. Besides, she's not a single ass mother, she's married to her self worth. #EbrahimAseem

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The powerful reason I refuse to celebrate Mother's DAY. When I was a child, my mother ate in her room, door closed, while me & my sis ate at the dinner table. One night, when I was 7, I heard noise in my mom's room & when I went in, I saw her laying on the bed, stress tearing out of her eyes, rubbing her stomach. That's when I realized, my mom was willing to skip dinners just so my sister & I had food to eat every night. #EbrahimAseem My mother sacrificed buying herself clothes & jewelry just to provide food, clothes, a warm bed & electricity for her family. She kept a smile on her face at all times, so we wouldn't know how poor we really were. From that day on I taught myself to cook & I made sure my moms ate every day. I cooked breakfast in bed on weekends, made her cards & wrote her love poems often, because every day is Mother's Day, when you're blessed w/ a selfless one. I decided to do something w/ my life, so my mom wouldn't have to starve to pay bills. That's what motivates me to travel worldwide & speak life into groups at universities, as a 12-year mentor for men. That is why I work hard & don't complain about life. I keep a smiling. I may have money now, but I came from not having anything & it's because of overcoming struggles & what my mom did for me I am the man I am today. Our world treats women with less respect than animals. The same government that coined "Mother's Day" doesn't give them maternity pay. Many women get fired after giving birth. Women deserve paid time off after having a child, because w/o mother's, no man would be alive.#EbrahimAseem We honor mother's for ONE day, then fat shame, skinny shame, slut shame, use, neglect, take for granted & judge her the other 364 days of the year. That's why I don't celebrate this man made holiday. Mother's Day is EVERYDAY.#EbrahimAseem She feels neglected & taken for granted for 364 days out the year. I'm tired of seeing men say mother's are damaged goods. I'd marry a single mother. My book on courting single mothers drops this summer!#EbrahimAseem Free link in my bio! If you're a mother, comment a story of your sacrifice! Because I appreciate all sacrifices you make for your child!

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A Genuine woman w/ trust issues isn't crazy, smart mouth, guarded or over emotional. She's just been thru so much pain. #EbrahimAseem You don't know if growing up mom treated her like crap & put men over her. #EbrahimAseem Parents never acknowledging all she did, never showing unconditional love, always putting her down, calling her names. Court her, propose & tell her this You're my dream come true. Where would I be w/o you? I love you more than lungs love breathing air. Not just b/c all you do, give & share. #EbrahimAseem You promote my growth. The love I have for myselfmatters to you most. You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take on a date. Go for a walk w/ by the lake. #EbrahimAseem The only one who can arouse my mind, & throb my head. The only one I want to devour in bed. You’re the only one I can be goofy w/, sing along to 90s R&B w/ as we ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because w/o you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far. You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heart kiss the soft sand of your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled w/ hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, Im willing to endure all pain, destroy all your demons, break down every wall that houses your trust issues, b/c only you mean that much. I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you inside & out, & as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen like you. #EbrahimAseem Thank you for sticking by me thru arguments & mistakes. I'll never turn away. No one can take your place. #EbrahimAseem I want trips overseas w/ you. To get on one knee for you. To spiritually grow w/ only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I'll place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, with tears in eyes, look you deep in your eyes & say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. & I want you to daily uplift you, so you'll always love you too. #EbrahimAseem Speaking this to 250 college men today! #12YearMaleMentor #EbrahimAseemSelfie

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The powerful reason I refuse to celebrate Mother’s DAY.

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When I was a child, my mother always ate in her room, door closed, while me & my sister ate at the dinner table.

One night, when I was 7, I heard noise in my moms room & when I went in, I saw her laying on the bed, stress tearing out of her eyes, rubbing her stomach. That was the moment I realized, my mother was willing to skip dinners just so my sister & I had food to eat every night.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

My mother sacrificed buying herself clothes & jewelry just to provide food, clothes, a warm bed & electricity for her family. Through any struggles, she kept a smile on her face at all times, so we wouldn’t know how poor we really were.

From that day on I taught myself how to cook & I made sure my moms ate every day. I cooked breakfast in bed in the weekends, made her cards & wrote her love poems often, because every day is Mother’s Day, when you’re blessed with a selfless one.

I decided to do something with my life, so my mother would never have to starve to pay bills. That’s what motivates me to travel worldwide & speak life into groups at universities, as a 12-year mentor for men.

That is why I work 3 jobs, chef, senior care, motivational speaker. That’s why I don’t complain about life.

I just keep a smile on my face. I may have money now, but I came from not having anything & it’s because of overcoming all my struggles & what my mother did for me I am the man I am today.

Our world treats women with less respect than animals. The same government that coined “Martin Luther King Jr. Day” murdered him & hated him why he was alive. The same government who created, “Mother’s Day” doesn’t give women equal pay, nor maternity pay. #EbrahimAseem Many women get fired after giving birth. Mothers deserve paid time off after having a child, because without mother’s, no man would be alive. Without the Mother Soul Cell Fundamental Principle, which AM the divine creator, YHWH’s true nature, nothing in this universe could exist.

We honor mother’s for ONE day, then fat shame, skinny shame, slut shame, use, neglect, take for granted & judge her the other 364 days of the year. #EbrahimAseem That’s why I don’t celebrate this man-made holiday. Mother’s Day is EVERYDAY.

In my West-African Hebrew Culture, we learn how our ancestors never celebrated on “fixed dates”. They only commemorated ceremonies aligned with the new crescent of our moon, Yerah’s 28-day cycle.

She feels neglected & taken for granted for 364 days out the year. I’m tired of seeing men say mother’s are damaged goods. I’d marry a single mother.

Courting a single mother is hard. She will cancel dates. Short text & not reply. No time to put you first. A woman who puts her child first over me makes me want to make her & her child my first priority. #EbrahimAseem Be patient with her. Take her out. She’s not flaking. Childcare costs more than a date you take her on. It’s not about money to her. Spoil her with your time. Show you appreciate all sacrifices she makes for her child with no help. Be her consistency, she will be your everything. #EbrahimAseem

My book on Courting Single Mothers drops this summer. Want a free pre-release copy of the forward? Follow me on Facebook, click “get notifications”, or “see first” on the follow tab, then message me requesting your free copy.

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Now, if you’re a mother, comment a story of your sacrifice! Because I appreciate all sacrifices you make for your child!

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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I've enjoyed single life, but I'd be willing to be faithful in marriage if I found one willing to help me out grow my flaws & not make me feel I'm a problem because of past mistakes. #EbrahimAseem Bless me with a virtuous wife who can appreciate the spiritual man you're daily molding me to be & I promise to lead her closer to you. Calm her fears. Be her consistency. #EbrahimAseem Use me to inspire men to be confident to self & faithful to a good woman. Cosmopolitan magazine asked to print my article, "Why Men commit to the girl after the one who invested in his potential " in their publication. #Blessings Thank you for helping me reach 1 million views in 3 days! #EbrahimAseem Just spoke this message to 230 men who want to be husbands.

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Courting these Single ass Mothers #EbrahimAseem Speaking this message to 414 male, app developers #SalesForce My book about single motherhood will be out this summer! DM for a free copy of the forward! The reason this says, "Single ass mothers" is, during my speaking event, one man said, "courting these single ass mothers is a waste, if their baby daddy don't want to wife her single Ass why should I?" Being so fed up, I sarcastically repeated the man's quote "courting these single ass mothers" before telling him & a room full of 414 men these words, because every man ever born came out a woman & genuine mothers deserve respect. Besides, she's not a single ass mother, she's married to her self worth. #EbrahimAseem

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This is why you should respect women: It was my 4th day teaching summer school. One of the teachers saw a 10th grade girl in his class sitting w/ her head down, arms around her head. The Germen teacher told her, "sit up, or I'll give you an 'F' & kick you out of school." 😳 She wiped her face & sat up. "You know what, come up to the board & solve this problem," he said. She put her hands over her face & shook her head. He said, "solve the problem or get an 'F' & repeat 10th grade." 😯 I walked over to the girl, gave her my coat & my key, & told her to "get up" & walked her out the classroom & to the bathroom. When I came back into class, the teacher said, "Mr. Ebrahim Aseem, did you kick her out?" I pulled him outside & put him on game, saying, "Every 28 days, girls endure the cramps & all the pain of their mentrual cycle. As men, we must pay attention. She was on her period & in pain, so much so, she was in tears. Not only that, I think she may have been bleeding. That's why she didn't stand up in front of the whole class. #EbrahimAseem You can't have your 'no bathroom policy'. You have to let these students go to the bathroom,especially the girls, so they can handle their business." No lie, this teacher told me, "Well, I'm not a woman. That period shit is not my problem" & turned away. I grabbed his shoulder & told him, "your mother went thru it every month just to birth you. It IS your problem. I don't know how you do things, but I don't treat children like animals. Treat them with respect. Remember, you were a child once." #EbrahimAseem This dumb as teacher responded by saying, "look, I'm sorry ok. I didn't know girls that young could get a period." I damn near slapped the stupid out of this dumb idiot. I replied by saying, "To be a grown man & gave no care to understand a woman's cycle is not some badge of manhood, it's pure ignorance. Every man ever born came out of a woman. Your God chose her over you to be the giver, carrier & representative of life. To disrespect a genuine woman is blasphemy, because who do you think chose her to be a life giver?" #EbrahimAseem #12YearMaleMentor No matter where you are, never be afraid to stand up for what's right

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A Genuine woman w/ trust issues isn't crazy, smart mouth, guarded or over emotional. She's just been thru so much pain. #EbrahimAseem You don't know if growing up mom treated her like crap & put men over her. #EbrahimAseem Parents never acknowledging all she did, never showing unconditional love, always putting her down, calling her names. Court her, propose & tell her this You're my dream come true. Where would I be w/o you? I love you more than lungs love breathing air. Not just b/c all you do, give & share. #EbrahimAseem You promote my growth. The love I have for myselfmatters to you most. You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take on a date. Go for a walk w/ by the lake. #EbrahimAseem The only one who can arouse my mind, & throb my head. The only one I want to devour in bed. You’re the only one I can be goofy w/, sing along to 90s R&B w/ as we ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because w/o you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far. You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heart kiss the soft sand of your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled w/ hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, Im willing to endure all pain, destroy all your demons, break down every wall that houses your trust issues, b/c only you mean that much. I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you inside & out, & as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen like you. #EbrahimAseem Thank you for sticking by me thru arguments & mistakes. I'll never turn away. No one can take your place. #EbrahimAseem I want trips overseas w/ you. To get on one knee for you. To spiritually grow w/ only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I'll place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, with tears in eyes, look you deep in your eyes & say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. & I want you to daily uplift you, so you'll always love you too. #EbrahimAseem Speaking this to 250 college men today! #12YearMaleMentor #EbrahimAseemSelfie

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A Genuine woman w/ trust issues isn't crazy, smart mouth, guarded or over emotional. She's just been thru so much pain. #EbrahimAseem You don't know if growing up mom treated her like crap & put men over her. #EbrahimAseem Parents never acknowledging all she did, never showing unconditional love, always putting her down, calling her names. Court her, propose & tell her this You're my dream come true. Where would I be w/o you? I love you more than lungs love breathing air. Not just b/c all you do, give & share. #EbrahimAseem You promote my growth. The love I have for myselfmatters to you most. You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take on a date. Go for a walk w/ by the lake. #EbrahimAseem The only one who can arouse my mind, & throb my head. The only one I want to devour in bed. You’re the only one I can be goofy w/, sing along to 90s R&B w/ as we ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because w/o you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far. You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heart kiss the soft sand of your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled w/ hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, Im willing to endure all pain, destroy all your demons, break down every wall that houses your trust issues, b/c only you mean that much. I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you inside & out, & as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen like you. #EbrahimAseem Thank you for sticking by me thru arguments & mistakes. I'll never turn away. No one can take your place. #EbrahimAseem I want trips overseas w/ you. To get on one knee for you. To spiritually grow w/ only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I'll place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, with tears in eyes, look you deep in your eyes & say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. & I want you to daily uplift you, so you'll always love you too. #EbrahimAseem Speaking this to 250 college men today! #12YearMaleMentor #EbrahimAseemSelfie

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#FatherhoodGoals #EbrahimAseem I really want a son & daughter. Not right NOW. I want to be extremely financially set before I bring life in this world. But, I have thoughts on manhood I was taught by men in my culture I'd love to share w/ a son, teach him how to be strong & confident, never dependent on, live off or control a female, self sufficient. #EbrahimAseem Shower my daughter with love, so she doesn't look for love in every man she meets. Encourage my children to pursue their dreams, support their choices. Never belittling or making them feel like a failure. #EbrahimAseem I want to raise a son to be ambitious, resilient, not make excuses, teach him not to blame people for his life, play football, hoops & exercising w/ him, be goofy with him, b/c he shares my humor. #EbrahimAseem I will never judge my child & make them feel less of a man for his choices. It is not parents' job to judge their child, only support & build them up. I want to raise a son to respect women. I don't want my son to base how he treats women on how males look at him. I want to teach him showing a woman you love her is NOT being a simp, it's being a strong man. #EbrahimAseem I want to teach my son to be a loyal man, not a hoe male. I don't want him getting multiple women pregnant, leaving the mother to raise the child by herself. I want him to make a woman a wife before he makes her a mother. I want to raise a future husband, not a future baby daddy. #EbrahimAseem More than anything, I want to teach my son to be humble w/o ego, pride & arrogance. I'm just a flawed man who has made mistakes in this dream called life, but REFUSES not to learn from them. I refuse to repeat mistakes. #EbrahimAseem I refuse to be a weak male, who blames women for everything. I refuse to be a player, womanizer or baby daddy. I refuse to put my hands on a woman, use, rape or break a woman like many males. #EbrahimAseem I'm not a profit, I'm an example real men who value women exist & I'm tired of us being seen as dogs. I want to be a living example of the man I want my daughter to marry. Bless me with a woman who can see the leader in me. I don't want a bad bitch. I want a sweet woman.

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What's meant for you will find you. #EbrahimAseem Speaking life into 230 college men. #12yearMentorForMen

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You invest in his potential. He commits to the girl after you. The reason will shock you…

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For years you stayed loyal, bringing out his potential, only for the woman he met after you to reap all the benefits of the man you molded him to be, because you were more of his mother than his woman. #EbrahimAseem

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Nurturing a man’s potential makes him resist your help out of resentment. No man wants to be babied. #EbrahimAseem The same man who withheld patience, affection, providing & commitment from you will use all that advice you taught him on the next woman.

Nurturing an unequally yoked man is unattractive to him. It makes him feel he’s not good enough for you. You can cook, clean, sex him good & be patient with his mistakes, and he will still cheat on you, to convince his inadequate mind he’s in higher demand than you. #EbrahimAseem

This is why inadequate men chase the bad bitch fantasy girl who looks nothing like you. To bring your confidence down to his low-level, so you’ll feel as inadequate as you make him feel by loyally nurturing potential he never shows. #EbrahimAseem He will view you as his mother, pouring time & affection into side chicks. All the while, using you to reach his potential for the next woman after you.

Men don’t neglect who they see a future with. If he’s not making time & effort without you having to ask, he’s using your ‘investment in his potential’ as practice for the next woman he really wants after you. #EbrahimAseem

Men want a woman who sees him as a leader, not a boy she needs to tell what to do. If he’s not a consistent leader, why are you settling for him?

You never realize how much affection, patience & respect you deserve, #EbrahimAseem until you finally walk away from the selfish, loyal user you were settling for.

Queen, it’s not your job as a woman teach your man how to be one, provide, work, listen, understand & comfort you. The man who’s meant for you will already know how to understand you. #EbrahimAseem Don’t get “being his woman” confused with “being his mother”. Stop reading grown ass men.

A woman who loves herself fully won’t settle for half-ass effort, half-ass time & half-ass relationships. #EbrahimAseem

If you have to tell him what to do he’s not for you. Walk away before he uses you to learn how to attract the woman he really likes. #EbrahimAseem

Girls will see red flags, yet stay years waiting for a guy to reach potential. Fear of seeing him reach his potential with a woman he chose after she invested all of those years keeps her loyal to his complacency. #EbrahimAseem

Stop molding him into a man for the next woman.

Girls will ‘give their all’ stressing over pain to fix a broken man with potential, instead of just choosing the loyal, equally yoked, handsome man she wanted in the first place. #EbrahimAseem There is nothing wrong with you. You are not to giving, too nice or too nurturing.

I want a nurturing woman. Who’s sweet, affectionate & likes to cuddle pinch my cheeks, rub my beard, rub her feet on my leg, poke me in my arm repeatedly, only so I’ll grab her & tickle her until her pretty, bright smile shines like the midnight moon. #EbrahimAseem

I want a woman who cares so much, about animals, nature life, who will treat my dog like she’s her own child. Who I can surprise at work with 1-800 Flowers & chocolate & she won’t think it’s corny. #EbrahimAseem A woman I can take to the beach at night & gaze at the stars with, while I rub her feet & recite poetry to her.

I want an intelligent, nerdy women who likes random facts, animal planet & the universe. I want a deep thinking woman who likes to converse. #EbrahimAseem I want a sweet woman who likes home decor & picking out patterns for my living room.

Let’s have a mall date, I’ll take your pretty ass to Sephora for an hour-long shopping spree. You can get whatever you like on me get pretty for our dinner & opera date that night. #EbrahimAseem

I want a sweet girl I can take to a Jill Scott concert, a comedy show, to hear live jazz. #EbrahimAseem Let’s have bbq lunches in the park & dates to the zoo. I’m kid at heart. I want to wife a Woman who’d let me bring my little niece on a date WITH us to the aquarium, paintballing, or the park for a water balloon & water gun fight. #EbrahimAseem I love to laugh & have fun & I need that in a Woman.

I want a sweet girl with an old soul who has so much love & affection to give. I have dated the self proclaimed “bad bitch” before, & I must confess, their pretty, sexy, fine, curvy asses bored the hell out of me. #EbrahimAseem Silly, goofy, sweet, corny, nerdy, healthy, home designing, wedding shower planning, baby fever having women are everything life has to offer.

I want to reach my potential before I meet my wife. She won’t have to teach me how to be a man, that was my father’s job. #EbrahimAseem

I just want to give her two rings, two children and two dogs, two trips overseas per year, two cars, but most of all, I want to give her two words, I do. #EbrahimAseem & every real man wants a nurturing woman too.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me
Motivational #SpeakLife vidoes: Youtube.com/RealNewsmagazine
Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

I am a chef, motivational speaker & 12-year-mentor for men. I write new articles every thursday & travel, speaking life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide. I am West African-Hebrew.

Want to hear me sing?
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Want a free pre-release copy of my book “” before its release? “Follow” me, click “get notifications”, or “see first” on the follow tab, then message me requesting your free copy.

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A Genuine woman w/ trust issues isn't crazy, smart mouth, guarded or over emotional. She's just been thru so much pain. #EbrahimAseem You don't know if growing up mom treated her like crap & put men over her. #EbrahimAseem Parents never acknowledging all she did, never showing unconditional love, always putting her down, calling her names. Court her, propose & tell her this You're my dream come true. Where would I be w/o you? I love you more than lungs love breathing air. Not just b/c all you do, give & share. #EbrahimAseem You promote my growth. The love I have for myselfmatters to you most. You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take on a date. Go for a walk w/ by the lake. #EbrahimAseem The only one who can arouse my mind, & throb my head. The only one I want to devour in bed. You’re the only one I can be goofy w/, sing along to 90s R&B w/ as we ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because w/o you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far. You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heart kiss the soft sand of your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled w/ hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, Im willing to endure all pain, destroy all your demons, break down every wall that houses your trust issues, b/c only you mean that much. I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you inside & out, & as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen like you. #EbrahimAseem Thank you for sticking by me thru arguments & mistakes. I'll never turn away. No one can take your place. #EbrahimAseem I want trips overseas w/ you. To get on one knee for you. To spiritually grow w/ only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I'll place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, with tears in eyes, look you deep in your eyes & say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. & I want you to daily uplift you, so you'll always love you too. #EbrahimAseem Speaking this to 250 college men today! #12YearMaleMentor #EbrahimAseemSelfie

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Courting these Single ass Mothers #EbrahimAseem Speaking this message to 414 male, app developers #SalesForce My book about single motherhood will be out this summer! DM for a free copy of the forward! The reason this says, "Single ass mothers" is, during my speaking event, one man said, "courting these single ass mothers is a waste, if their baby daddy don't want to wife her single Ass why should I?" Being so fed up, I sarcastically repeated the man's quote "courting these single ass mothers" before telling him & a room full of 414 men these words, because every man ever born came out a woman & genuine mothers deserve respect. Besides, she's not a single ass mother, she's married to her self worth. #EbrahimAseem

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My mother raised a future husband not a future baby daddy. #tbt I'm tired of “talking”. Being in a relationship where the sex is so damn good, but there’s no growth or courtship is a waste to me. #EbrahimAseem I see your fine ass has looks & curves, but are you nurturing? Kind? Patient? Spiritual? Goofy? Good with children? Finances? Home decor? I don’t date for a hobby. #EbrahimAseem If we aren’t planning for forever I have no interest. What are your passions? Goals? Can WE stimulate each other's spirit? Promote each other's growth? align each others chakras? activate each others pineal gland? I don't care if you can twerk or back that ass up #EbrahimAseem Can we dine on each other's frequency as you digest knowledge my food for thought feeds your mind? What type of mother will you be? Where do you want to raise a family? Men, let's stop asking these women for pics, ask if she’s a WIFE. Men let's behave loyal to our self worth before we even say I do. #EbrahimAseem I can imagine being married. Having children, spending time with them, Playing with them & making them laugh, teaching them about life, instilling confidence & self worth before giving them piggyback rides. Having a wife, spoiling her with love and attention, Being goofy with her, making her laugh & smile every second I spend with her. Providing for my family. #EbrahimAseem I honestly pray I have all this before my moms gets too old to enjoy a daughter-in-law & grandchildren. Everytime I see my moms, she talks about wanting grandchildren & saying she raised me to be a husband. Because I was raised by a queen, I know for sure, I am not looking for a girlfriend to date, I am looking for a wife to court, marry & raise children with. #EbrahimAseemSelfie

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I've enjoyed single life, but I'd be willing to be faithful in marriage if I found one willing to help me out grow my flaws & not make me feel I'm a problem because of past mistakes. #EbrahimAseem Bless me with a virtuous wife who can appreciate the spiritual man you're daily molding me to be & I promise to lead her closer to you. Calm her fears. Be her consistency. #EbrahimAseem Use me to inspire men to be confident to self & faithful to a good woman. Cosmopolitan magazine asked to print my article, "Why Men commit to the girl after the one who invested in his potential " in their publication. #Blessings Thank you for helping me reach 1 million views in 3 days! #EbrahimAseem Just spoke this message to 230 men who want to be husbands.

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Giving men “another chance” after mistakes will make him Side Chick zone you.

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The most powerless thing a woman can do is let an inconsistent guy know she will stay, waiting for him to reach potential he doesn’t have.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

That man who begs you for yet another chance after he broke your ability to trust him, he is not showing “potential” when he finally gives the effort. He’s playing a role off the script you gave him. #EbrahimAseem

When a man messes up really bad, don’t tell him what he did wrong, how he hurt you & what he can to do to win your heart back. Stop giving a man who broke you the road map to your heart so he can break you twice.

It’s not your job as a woman teach him how to be a man, provide, work, listen, understand & comfort you. The man who’s meant for you will already know how to understand you. Don’t get “being his woman” confused with “being his mother”. Stop adopting grown ass men. #EbrahimAseem

If you give him a million chances after he makes mistakes, you’re not his woman, you’re his mother. Claim him on your taxes & call it a day. #EbrahimAseem

He’s using your need to give & nurture against you. Your whole identity is based on being needed. Know why it’s so hard for you to accept love from that handsome, consistent, genuine man who stimulates your mind & calms your fears? You know he doesn’t NEED you to fix him & that scares you.

From birth, girls are taught nurturing a man’s potential defines her womanhood. In reality, being unapologetically vulnerable to her needs & what she wants, despite what any man thinks, defines her womanhood.

Making a man give effort will never feel like enough. You deserve a man to commit, make time & reassure you without you having to tell him.

Stop wasting years & tears waiting for that neglecting, cheating, non-commiting, passive-aggressive when he’s mad, can’t text back but can like 157 girls pics on Instagram-ass lame to change for you. Men don’t change for a woman. A man changes for himself & grows for his self love. #EbrahimAseem

What hurts a woman most is, she’s more upset at herself for giving him another chance than she is at him for breaking her trust. Be more loyal to your self worth than you are to potential he never reaches.

If you have to ask a man what are we or why he’s taking so long to commit he has no plans for a future with you. Court a consistent man who will let the world know you are his only. He will tell you,

“I just want to love you until you glow so much, people notice your growth. Until the shine of your smile eclipses your fears. I want to be your peace.” #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me
Motivational #SpeakLife vidoes: Youtube.com/RealNewsmagazine
Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

A Genuine woman w/ trust issues isn't crazy, smart mouth, guarded or over emotional. She's just been thru so much pain. #EbrahimAseem You don't know if growing up mom treated her like crap & put men over her. #EbrahimAseem Parents never acknowledging all she did, never showing unconditional love, always putting her down, calling her names. Court her, propose & tell her this You're my dream come true. Where would I be w/o you? I love you more than lungs love breathing air. Not just b/c all you do, give & share. #EbrahimAseem You promote my growth. The love I have for myselfmatters to you most. You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take on a date. Go for a walk w/ by the lake. #EbrahimAseem The only one who can arouse my mind, & throb my head. The only one I want to devour in bed. You’re the only one I can be goofy w/, sing along to 90s R&B w/ as we ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because w/o you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far. You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heart kiss the soft sand of your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled w/ hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, Im willing to endure all pain, destroy all your demons, break down every wall that houses your trust issues, b/c only you mean that much. I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you inside & out, & as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen like you. #EbrahimAseem Thank you for sticking by me thru arguments & mistakes. I'll never turn away. No one can take your place. #EbrahimAseem I want trips overseas w/ you. To get on one knee for you. To spiritually grow w/ only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I'll place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, with tears in eyes, look you deep in your eyes & say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. & I want you to daily uplift you, so you'll always love you too. #EbrahimAseem Speaking this to 250 college men today! #12YearMaleMentor #EbrahimAseemSelfie

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Women stay SINGLE due to their Smart ass MOUTH

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If you’re a woman who talks back, you will be single forever, unless you learn to SUBMIT to a man.

If he has side chicks, it means your smart mouth scared him away. Stop correcting your man, calling out his mistakes & acting over-emotional. Have his dinner cooked, his house clean, his bath drawn & your smart mouth shut. Know your role. The man is the head & his woman must submit to him. These are the poisonous lies we teach our daughters by telling them to “shut up & submit to a man”. #EbrahimAseem

If you’re a woman who always has something smart mouthed to say, constantly speaking your mind when no one even asked your damn opinion in the first place, so quick to call a man out or nag about what he isn’t doing right, well you are just everything life has to offer. You’re amazing young queen. You’re so attractive to a man invested in his growth. He wants a witty, queen with mental depth, who can match his strength & speak life into him with her so-called smart mouth. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

Women don’t nag, or bitch or “talk back”. It’s called communication. If you were the LEADER you should be, your woman wouldn’t have to tell you what to do. #EbrahimAseem Women want a man to be considerate, caring, loyal, romantic & mature without her having to ask or tell him.

When your woman respectfully calls out your inconsistency, don’t get defensive or complain. She’s articulating advice to help you grow. Listen to what she is saying, say, “thank you for having my back babe,” then, take her advice. #EbrahimAseem

If you constantly argue & yell at your loyal woman who’s helping you grow, but obey everything your homies say, giggling & flirting when they call you names, you might not be attracted to women bruh. #EbrahimAseem

Constant arguing with a woman is NOT part of a relationship. When you earn your Woman’s respect, she may disagree, but she won’t argue with you. If you want a weak, ride or die chick, it’s only because you’re mentally weak, un-aroused by the femininity of a strong woman. #EbrahimAseem

There is nothing more attractive than a woman, who loves a man so much, she will tell him he is wrong to his face, because she loves his soul & wants to help mature it. #EbrahimAseem

The reason she doesn’t submit to you is she doesn’t trust your ability to lead her. You can barely lead yourself. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t tell her to shut up. She’s not over emotional. She’s just expressing her deepest feelings. It’s already hard for her to open up to you & let down her wall. She thinks all day about her connection with you, how you will react to her expressing herself. #EbrahimAseem It even keeps her up nights over thinking about us. She lies in bed & replays scenarios in her mind, like “why does he always treat me like that?” “If I do things like this and say it in this way, will he treat me better?”
So when she finally opens up to you, don’t belittle her. Don’t tell her she’s “trippin” or that she’s over reacting, acting like she’s on her period, being bipolar. If you love your woman, listen to your woman. So the two of you can connect deeper, grow closer & vibe together.

She’s not a “stuck up bitch”, she’s just protecting herself from pain. She makes it hard for guys to get to know her, because she has been hurt too many times, heart stepped on & ripped apart. So she ripped out her own heart, put it in the palm of her hand, and made a fist with it, to fight & protect herself against males who try to break it. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t give up chasing her. Keep proving yourself loyal. Don’t tell her you’re “different” than other guys. Women get so tired of hearing that same lie. SHOW her you’re different with consistent actions. Don’t complain about her trust issues; destroy them with your loyalty. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t call her “insecure”. Cut off all your side chicks & faithfully commit yourself to her. Rip out your own heart, & give it to her on a silver platter. #EbrahimAseem Then she will open up her fist & give you her heart. Put your heart in her chest, put a crown on your head & be your QUEEN, once you prove with your loyalty to be a KING.

Sanity is unattractive on a woman. This world doesn’t make sense to her, because her spirit is not from it, and the beautiful thoughts in her mind are beyond it. #EbrahimAseem

Society loves to label Intelligent Women who think for their selves “crazy”, to perpetuate the misconception that women are the weaker sex. #EbrahimAseem

A genuine woman with trust issues is not crazy or over emotional. She has just been through so much. You don’t know how hard it is for her to met a guy, fall in love, finally trust him, only to get her heart shattered to pieces by his disloyalty, because he was only playing the role of a good man. So then, she has to pick up all those pieces only to met a guy again & go through the same thing over & over like a never ending nightmare. #EbrahimAseem

You don’t know growing up her mother treated her like crap & put Men over her own daughter. Her mother never acknowledged any of the things she did, never showed her unconditional love & care, always putting her down & calling her names. You don’t know family & friends who she trusted, stabbed her in the back, let money come between them & proved to be disloyal. #EbrahimAseem

If you always get angry, mad, frustrated or yell when your woman corrects you, you’re not a mature man. You’re a sassy little boy; quit being so sassy with your woman. #EbrahimAseem Else she will hit you with “girl calm down” then say, “oops, my bad babe.” What happened was you were behaving so unmanly, for a split second; your behavior reminded her of one of her immature girlfriends. #EbrahimAseem

Iron sharpens iron. Let your strong woman be the iron to mentality sharpens your iron. Being open to growing for a woman is not something a man should do for all females. If she doesn’t value your manhood, she doesn’t deserve you. #EbrahimAseem

You don’t have to hold back or down play your strength to get a man. Or hide being right about something in the presence of a man just to get one to “accept you”. #EbrahimAseem

Your insecurities are NOT a bad thing. Your flaws are NOT a deal breaker. Your trust issues are temporary. If you are my queen, it is my job as your rock to DESTROY all that by showering you with my loyalty and consistency. #EbrahimAseem

Be possessive. Be passionate. Be smart mouthed. Be a little crazy. Be yourself. It shows you CARE. Love isn’t perfect, so you don’t have to be perfect, but I promise you young queen, your love is WORTH it; trust. #EbrahimAseem

If you’re blessed with a supportive woman, tell her:

“I’ll never walk away from you. You can push me away with your guardedness. Come up with all these reasons why you don’t deserve me, because of your flaws. #EbrahimAseem Girl, you must be blind if you can’t see no flaw can overshadow all you mean to me. I’m not going anywhere. I will sit here right until you let me love you. #EbrahimAseem ”

As rugged & masculine as I am, I want a wife, whose affectionate nurturing makes me submit my heart, loyalty & romantic aggression to only her. My consistency & providing will make her submit her trust & patience to me. Submission isn’t about “control”. It’s about reciprocating all we both give. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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I am a chef, motivational speaker & 12-year-mentor for men. I write new articles every thursday & travel, speaking life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide. I am West African-Hebrew.

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The reason she doesn’t submit to you is, she doesn’t trust your ability to lead her. You can’t even lead yourself. #EbrahimAseem Be consistent. Speak w/ actions. Stop trying to control a woman or calling her "smart mouthed." If you're a woman who respectfully speaks your mind, know you're so intimidating to an insecure boy & so attractive to a confident man. But queen, YOU define your worth, not a man. #EbrahimAseem Stop wasting years & tears waiting for that neglecting, cheating, can’t text back but can like 157 girls pics on Instagram ass lame to change for you. Men don’t change for a woman. A man changes for himself & grows for his self love. #EbrahimAseem But complacency has no potential. It's not your job to teach a boy how to be a man, provide, work, listen, understand & comfort you. Don't get being his woman confused with "being his mother". #EbrahimAseem Some of y'all adopting grown ass men. Instagram: @Fuel4TheBody

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Courting these Single ass Mothers #EbrahimAseem Speaking this message to 414 male, app developers #SalesForce My book about single motherhood will be out this summer! DM for a free copy of the forward! The reason this says, "Single ass mothers" is, during my speaking event, one man said, "courting these single ass mothers is a waste, if their baby daddy don't want to wife her single Ass why should I?" Being so fed up, I sarcastically repeated the man's quote "courting these single ass mothers" before telling him & a room full of 414 men these words, because every man ever born came out a woman & genuine mothers deserve respect. Besides, she's not a single ass mother, she's married to her self worth. #EbrahimAseem

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I only date BLACK men

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I don’t like when beautiful women approach me & tell me, they only date Black men like me, they love my culture & how strong of a black man I am. Then they turn around & say they’re ‘color blind’ when I ask their thoughts on police murdering Black men.

So wait… you value a Black man enough to date, sleep with & have a pretty mixed baby by one. Yet, you don’t value a Black man enough to stand up, speak out and fight for one? If so, don’t try to act like you love Black men. No. You just love black dick. Be honest with yourself. #EbrahimAseem

If you date Black men for his spirit & not his penis size, you wouldn’t feel defensive of these words, you’d simply stand by your man & support his Black life. Spirits have no race.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Yesterday, I overheard two White women in my apartment building mail room, discussing Black protestors at a Donald Duck rally.

“Did you see those thugs on the news?” one of the White women asked. “Oh my God, it looked like a trap music video. They were holding their cute little picket signs, stomping on cars, stealing from stores & throwing water bottles at the police, just begging for attention.”

“What do you expect, dey some hood niggas yo,” the other White woman replied in a fake hood tone of voice, mocking African-American vernacular, “that’s the only way they can afford those things they rap about. Oh my God, my masseuse told me Black girls shave all their hair off then steal weaved hair & glue it to their scalp.”

“Fucking serious?” the first woman laughed.

“Why do you think Black girls are always so rude & uptight,” the second woman joked.

I was disgusted. They were alone in the mail as I waited by the elevator, just 50 feet away, so they didn’t know I could hear them. Once they opened the door & walked out, I knew what I had to do. After the mail room door swung open, the mouths of the two women closed shut. My jaw dropped it was Erica.

Now, I know you’re wondering, “who’s Erica”. Well, here’s my Erica story. I love dogs. So one day, I saw this cute dog by my house while jogging. I pet & rub its neck when I notice it only has 3 legs. So, I rub it’s back with compassion. Then this pretty Armenian woman out of nowhere puts a leash on her & says, “wow no one ever rubs my dog, they just stare or take pics with their phone.” to which I reply, “that’s dumb of them. I just love dogs & all animals.”

So she says, “me too. But not more than I love my little brother. I adopted this dog after my brother got his left leg amputated, so he can be motivated & know he can still accomplish anything despite losing his foot, just like his pet.”

“Word? I really respect that. My name is Ebrahim, what’s yours?” I asked. “Erica,” she replied with a smile. So, I invited her her dog to Starbucks to continue the conversation. That’s when she told me what I heard at least a dozen times a day from White women. She said, “I only date Black men.” Check please. When I made eye contact with Erica after she walked out the mail room, I could’ve growled, like her three-legged-dog. But instead, I played it cool.

“Good evening,” I greeted, with a wave.

“Hey, nice beard,” the Erica replied with a smile & blush. “How’s your day going?”

“I’m not doing so well,” I responded, fighting off my anger. “My eldest sister is still mourning the lost of her first born son, a 21-year-old Blavk man, who was murdered Janurary 9th. The police admit to knowing the shooter, car, weapon & shell casings, yet refuse to investigate.

“You could have just said a 25-year-old man who died,” Erica’s brunette friend replied as the elevator doors opened, “his race doesn’t matter.”

“It mattered to the creator who created him to be Black,” I replied as we walked into the elevator, “and unfortunately, him being Black may have mattered to the White SFPFD officers who the proclaimed in leaked texts “All Niggers deserve to hang” in response to why they’re slow to investigate the murder of Black people, like the cops who murdered Mario Woods. Have either of you been paying attention to the frequency to which Black men women have been murdered by police in this country over the past year?”

“I can’t say I’ve noticed,” Erica replied, opening her Uber app.

“Really?” I asked, “you haven’t heard of the ‘Black Lives Matter’ movement?”

“I think I may have seen that as a hashtag on twitter or something,” Erica replied, without making eye contact, “but I try not to feed into racism. There is only one race, the human race. I try to view things with a color blind eye.”

“The only beings I know who are color blind are dogs,” I replied. “When I first met you & your dog, you confessed you ‘only date Black men’. There is nothing ‘color blind’ about that statement. Misappropriating Black culture is not some badge of honor to be worn.

Why is it that you White women who ‘only date Black men’ want our children in your womb, but don’t want us speaking self love into our children?”

“Maybe if you guys were behaving civilized, instead of looting & tearing down the streets Black lives would matter to people,” the brunette replied as the elevator doors opened.

“You’re not color blind, you’re human blind. Your eyes are unable to see Black people in a positive light,” I responded walking with them towards the lobby. “Ten-thousand Blacks protested peacefully & non-violently in Baltimore last year, yet your eyes fixate solely on the looters, uninvolved & unrelated to the protestors.

In 2005, it took the National Guard a week to reach New Orleans after Hurricane Katrina hit, while Black US citizens were drowning in contaminated flood water, trapped in buildings & being housed like cattle in the Super Dome without food, water, pluming or air conditioning. It took US troops 24 hours to reach Baltimore. If you can see all this & still say you’re color blind, it’s because deep down you agree the lives of Black children are not worth the exact same as the lives of your children.

I pray for every mother & their child. Spirits have no race. But the judicial system is so NOT color blind, and neither are you. I am tired of trying to get people who behave like animals to see Black people as humans.”

“You guys are the ones who behave like animals,” the brunette replied, laughing out loud.”

“Remember when Black people marched non-violently & White police sicked dogs & water hoses on them?” I retorted, once we walked wast our concierge & into the lobby

“Remember when White police left Michael Brown’s dead body in the street for hours after shooting him, yet a White James Eagan Holmes was calmly escorted into a police car by White police after massacring 12 people & injuring 70 in a Dark Knight Rises movie theater opening?

“Remember just five minutes ago, when you two were calling a group of Black people whom you’ve never met ‘thugs’ & ‘niggas’ in the mail room? It is animalistic & inhuman to treat another group of people less than you want your children to be treated, simply because they are of a different race, gender, age or religion.” #EbrahimAseem

The two women looked like they had just seen an insidious ghost. Unbeknownst to them, the only insidious thing in that lobby was the fact they were white privileged wolves in color blind sheep clothing.

“I was completly appalled overhearing your conversation,” I contiuned. “Every Black person is not your nigger or your thug. We have names, & stories & a level of consciousness higher than you perceive.”

“My boyfriend is Black and he uses the n-word around me all the time,” the brunette said, “and doesn’t mind when I use it as a term of respect for him.”

“First of all, you’re married,” I replied. “Erica already told me that. She also told me your husband lets you bring home Black men to sleep with you in front of him.”

“Oh my God, you told him about that!” the brunette complaind, slapping Erica’s arm. “Bitch, that wasn’t your business to tell. Did you tell him you watched those Black guys fuck me too? Miss Goody-two shoes.”

“So, your husband willfully watches another man have sex with you?” I asked. “Does it not bother you that your man treats you like a prostitute?”

“Actually, he treats me like a princess,” the brunette replied with a smirk, “he buys me whatever I want. And he likes seeing me get plowed by a big black sword. It actually gets him rock hard. It’s the only thing that gets him hard enough to get it up for me.”

“Well, be careful,”I warned her, “he may not be watching you when he’s stroking & watching your Black boyfriend sex you.”

Erica’s mouth shot wide open as she slowly turned to look at her bestie.

Second of all,” I continued, fighting off the urge to throw-up, “I don’t know your extramarrital boyfriend, but he’s a coward if he allows you to use the word ‘nigger’ or ‘nigga’ towards him in any way. There is nothing respectful about that term.”

“Well, you guys say it all the time,” the brunette defended.

“Just because you see a group of people degrade themself, does not mean you have a right to join in on the fun,” I replied, using the word ‘fun’ extremely sarcastically.

“You guys blame us for using that word & labeling you, but watch the news,” she asserted. “Your brothers and sistas are tearing down their own city when they protest, thinking that will somehow free them.”

“Black people do not think looting & vandalizing will affect change & justice. Don’t confuse peaceful protesters non-violently looking for change, with angry looters looking for change, coins & dollars. Just because they’re all Black, doesn’t mean they all agree,” I corrected.

“Mass media wants to incept the thought in your mind that Blacks are uncivilized savages out for bloody revenge. Blacks are unbreakable, affectionate, spiritual souls who know vengeance belongs not to them, but to the creator of us all.

If your children were getting murdered without answers instead,
you’d be fighting for them too, so put your judgements to bed.
My nephew Harith was shot dead, took two bullets to the head.
“All niggers deserve to hang,” San Francisco police said.

They know who took his life, yet they refuse to arrest.
The media calls us thugs when we chose to protest.
No, a thug steals, like police stealing our life.
Their ancestors stole our culture like a thief in the night.

Africans were uncivilized, that’s what they say.
We had a culture, until you evil vultures stole it away.
Force fed us Christianity, spiritual calamity.
Raised to be slaves at the grave of insanity.

Ripped from the belly of an African queen.
She was in-tune with the universe. Peaceful & clean.
Highest knowledge on earth. From where life stated first.
Where the land bleeds oil, gold & diamonds.

Now, we’re in this ‘land of the free & the home of the brave’
More like the Land of the Hypocrites & homes of the slaves.
Police stealing our lives by any means necessary.
We’re fighting to survive while they seem legendary.

They’re quick to shoot my brothers in the back.
That’s why we gotta blast them with this knowledge, be prepared to attack.
Cock back your mind and be ready to blow.
Load your magazine with the truth, then shoot.

The blood is on their hands, so they’re guilty as sin.
No heart behind their badge, because they’re empty within.
Been getting away with murder, now somebody gotta pay.
They better watch their back on the judgement day.”

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me
Motivational #SpeakLife vidoes: Youtube.com/RealNewsmagazine
Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

I am a chef, motivational speaker & 12-year-mentor for men. I write new articles every thursday & travel, speaking life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide. I am West African-Hebrew.

Want a free pre-release copy of my book “” before its release? “Follow” me, click “get notifications”, or “see first” on the follow tab, then message me requesting your free copy.

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Men don’t neglect who they see a future with.

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Men don’t neglect who they see a future with. #EbrahimAseem Women don’t settle for inconsistency, when she knows her worth.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

If he wanted a future with you, he’d commit so no other man could have your time. He leaves you available to other men, because he doesn’t see himself with you long-term. You’re temporary.

If he cared, he’d call, take you out on dates & pour more time & attention into you than he does girls online. Making him give effort will never feel like enough. You deserve a loyal person who treats you loving without you having to tell them.

If you give your all, stay loyal, cook, sex him & treat him like a king & he acts like he doesn’t care about you, it’s only because he doesn’t care about you. Why can’t girls see this?

Stop wasting years & tears waiting for that neglecting, cheating, non-committal, passive-aggressive when he’s mad, can’t text back but can like 157 girls pics on Instagram-ass lame to change for you. Men don’t change for a woman. A man changes for himself & grows for his self-love. #EbrahimAseem

Stop pouring all your loyalty & energy into a man who behaves single, flirts online & makes you beg for effort.

When I get my wife, I will kiss, bite & massage every inch of her body. Play in her hair & massage her scalp as I rub all over her curves, just so the whole world knows I’m only hers. #EbrahimAseem I don’t get how husbands can get bored & complacent with their wife. But when I’m blessed with a love who’s true, I will say I do & consistently pour affection, providing & protection into her for life.

If you’re blessed with a consistent man who gives effort, stays by your side through all your insecurities, you can’t treat him with the same lack of trust by comparing him to every man who’s ever hurt you in your past. He won’t yell, argue or throw all he’s done for you in your face, he will just leave you for a trusting woman who’ll value his manhood & all he gives. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

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These poetic lyrics are from Ebrahim Aseem’s newest single “Shea Butter”. Click above to hear or download FREE.

I’m a West-African Hebrew chef, writer & singer. I post new articles every Thursday. As a 12 year mentor for young men, I do motivational speaks at universities & private corporations worldwide.

If you’ve never heard my deep, baritone voice #SpeakLife

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If he CHEATED, here’s what YOU did wrong. Sorry ladies.

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The most powerless thing a woman can do is let an inconsistent guy
know she will stay waiting for him
to reach potential he doesn’t have. Stop being “loyal” to complacency. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

If he cheated on you, you should have loved him harder. He wouldn’t feel the need to cheat if you were doing your job, fighting for him. These are the poisonous lies we teach our daughters by telling them to “love him harder” whenever he displays disloyalty.

Loving an inconsistent man harder won’t help him reach potential. It will make you procrastinate reaching your own. Giving up your goals for him is not loyalty. It’s disloyal to your worth. #EbrahimAseem

Girls: “why can’t guys be loyal in relationships?” You’re not even loyal to your intuition, which warned you not to entertain him. #EbrahimAseem

Guys cheat, because how the hell do you expect him to be “loyal to you”, when YOU are not even “loyal to you” & the promises YOU made to yourself about what you’d no longer accept from a man. #EbrahimAseem Queen, giving up your standards to settle for an effort lacking man is NOT loyalty. It’s self disloyalty.

Men don’t cheat because they’re sexually driven. If that were true, cheaters would just remain single to sleep with as many women as they wanted & it wouldn’t be “cheating”. #EbrahimAseem Cheating is about control. Filling their insecurity by breaking your trust. Holding your heart hostage while they behave single. They could just leave you to sleep around, but they WANT to stay, make you suffer to siphon power from your brokenness via a soul tie.

Men, we can’t be fooled to think these “ride or die” girls who stay “loyal” after we disloyally put her through hell really love us. A girl who stays loyal to your inconsistencies & never calls out your mistakes has no investment in your growth. #EbrahimAseem

I want to wife a woman who loves a man so much, she will respectfully tell him he’s wrong to his face, because she loves his soul & wants to help him mature it. #EbrahimAseem

If you’re blessed with a woman who’s as loyal to her self worth as she is to you, tell her:

“I’ll never walk away from you. You can push me away with your guardedness. Come up with all these reasons why you don’t deserve me, because of your flaws. #EbrahimAseem Girl, you must be blind if you can’t see no flaw can overshadow all you mean to me. I’m not going anywhere. I will sit here right until you let me love you. #EbrahimAseem ”

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

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My mother raised a future husband 👉🏾💍👰🏾 not a future baby daddy. I am so tired of “talking”. Being in a relationship where the sex is so damn good, but there’s no growth or courtship is a waste to me. #EbrahimAseem I see your fine ass has curves, but are you nurturing? Kind? Patient? Spiritual? Goofy? Good with children? Finances? Home decor? I don’t date for a hobby. If we aren’t planning for forever I have no interest. What are your passions? Goals? Can WE stimulate each others spirit? Can WE align each others chakras? Can WE activate each others pineal gland? I don't care if you can twerk 💃🏾 or back that ass up 😒 Can we dine on each other's frequency as you digest knowledge my food for thought feeds your mind? What type of mother will you be? Where do you want to raise a family? Let’s stop asking these women for pics, ask if she’s a WIFE. Men let's behave loyal to our self worth before we even say I do. #EbrahimAseem I can imagine being married. Having children, spending time with them, Playing with them & making them laugh, teaching them about life, instilling confidence & self worth before giving them piggyback rides. Having a wife, spoiling her with love and attention, Being goofy with her, making her laugh & smile every second I spend with her. Providing for my family. #EbrahimAseem I honestly pray I have all this before my moms gets too old to enjoy a daughter-in-law & grandchildren. Everytime I see my moms, she talks about wanting grandchildren & saying she raised me to be a husband. Because I was raised by a queen, I know for sure, I am not looking for a girlfriend to date, I am looking for a wife to court, marry & raise children with. #EbrahimAseem Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY #Excerpt from #WhyNoManShouldDATEaSingleMother #MARRYher 💍👰🏾 #OrDontWasteHerTime👉 RealNewsPaper.me

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These poetic lyrics are from Ebrahim Aseem’s newest single “Shea Butter”. Click above to hear or download FREE.

I’m a chef, writer & singer. I post new articles & recipes every thursday.

I’ve been a youth mentor for young men for 11 years, teaching them how to uplift & respect women & be men of confidence & valor. I make songs uplifting women. I speak isiZulu & English. I do motivational speaks at universities & private corporations worldwide. I am omw to do a motivational speak to a group of teen mother rape survivors at a wayward house.

If you’ve never heard my deep, baritone voice #SpeakLife

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Why I chose a Bad Bitch over a boring, “too-nice” Woman.

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If he’s flirting with Bad Bitches on Instagram, get your hair & nails done. Do booty squats. Dress sexy. He wouldn’t need side chicks if you’d just stop letting your body go. Stop being so over emotional. Girls be having more tears than edges.

If he cheated on you with a bad bitch, it’s because you’re too boring & too nice. These are the silly lies boys tell themselves to get over losing the best thing that can ever happen to them, a genuine woman.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Men, let’s stop pushing away that supportive woman who has been through everything with us, to chase the selfish girl with only curves, who adds no growth to our life.

70% of my followers are men. One asked,

What Men think of "Bad Bitches" #EbrahimAseem

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Ladies, do you agree? Read the full convo, link in my bio. #EbrahimAseem

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The worst mistake I ever made was choosing a Bad Bitch over a sweet woman, because I thought they were boring, too-nice & uninterested, because they’d flake on dates I invited them on, short text me or never hit me up first. I realized sweet women aren’t uninterested, they’re focused on their goals, ambitions, school & career and their time needs to primarily go to it.

As men we get so busy chasing the flirty, bad bitch fantasy girl, we don’t realize that sweet woman right focused on her ambitions was designed just for us. #EbrahimAseem It’s not up to her to chase you. She’s the treasure. You pursue her. Give her patience, attention, stability, love & consistency.

Let’s let go of the side chicks & stop sexting girls online when we have a loyal, supportive, affectionate woman at home. None of those curvy distractions can calm your fears, support your goals, & love you deep like a sweet woman can. If you’re blessed with a supportive woman, tell her:

“I’ll never walk away from you. You can push me away with your guardedness. Come up with all these reasons why you don’t deserve me, because of your flaws. #EbrahimAseem Girl, you must be blind if you can’t see no flaw can overshadow all you mean to me. I’m not going anywhere. I will sit here right until you let me love you. #EbrahimAseem ”

All my dreams started to come true once I stopped womanizing, quit chasing the “bad bitch fantasy girl” & only pursued women who promote my growth & call me out on my b.s.

Women who are so sweet are so attractive. Mmm I promise you don’t have to have the fattest ass or flattest tummy. You’re not “too nice”. Thank you for being nice.

A woman who loves hard, cares deep, & prays for you when you’re stressed makes a strong man want to shower her with adornment & affection.‬

She’s a lovable person who enjoys helping others with a passion. She always does for everyone else, yet who ever does for her? Who even thinks of her. Be her consistency & she will be your everything. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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I’m a chef & a 12-year mentor for men. I travel worldwide doing motivating speaking for groups of men at universities & prisons.

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Courting these Single ass Mothers #EbrahimAseem Speaking this message to 414 male, app developers #SalesForce My book about single motherhood will be out this summer! DM for a free copy of the forward! The reason this says, "Single ass mothers" is, during my speaking event, one man said, "courting these single ass mothers is a waste, if their baby daddy don't want to wife her single Ass why should I?" Being so fed up, I sarcastically repeated the man's quote "courting these single ass mothers" before telling him & a room full of 414 men these words, because every man ever born came out a woman & genuine mothers deserve respect. Besides, she's not a single ass mother, she's married to her self worth. #EbrahimAseem

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Courting this single ass mothers

Courting these Single ass Mothers #EbrahimAseem Speaking this message to 414 male, app developers #SalesForce My book about single motherhood will be out this summer! DM for a free copy of the forward! The reason this says, "Single ass mothers" is, during my speaking event, one man said, "courting these single ass mothers is a waste, if their baby daddy don't want to wife her single Ass why should I?" Being so fed up, I sarcastically repeated the man's quote "courting these single ass mothers" before telling him & a room full of 414 men these words, because every man ever born came out a woman & genuine mothers deserve respect. Besides, she's not a single ass mother, she's married to her self worth. #EbrahimAseem

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Don’t ask her to chill: How to COURT a woman

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

Don’t ask, “where you wanna go?” Plan, pay & pick events. Say, “I’d love to take you out on a date. Live music. Food. Converse. What time can I pick you up?” Don’t say “Slide through bruh” No, pick her up. & stop calling a woman “bruh, bro or nigga”. Treat her like a woman, not ya bro. Show effort. Court her.

We think the most beautiful, successful women have all these hoes, when many have never even been taken out on a planned, paid for date.

This is how to court a genuine woman:

I met this tall, curvy, Bohemian woman at spoken word nite. Brows on point. Afro on Badu. Body on Beyoncé. When I saw her dark brown, 5’11” frame trying on bracelets, I just had to approach.

“Excuse me, but I just had to let you know, your natural hair is beautiful, do you style it yourself?” I asked her with a smile & an extended hand.

I’ve learned, approaching a woman by saying ‘excuse me’ allows you to get her attention, while showing respect for her. She may be in deep thought, depressed, on her cycle or just doesn’t feel like being approached. Being respectful when approaching a woman can be the difference between getting her 7-digits in your phone, or getting her 5-fingers slapped across your face.

“Thank you, yes I do,” she replied with a thick Caribbean accent & a hint of sass, shaking my hand. “And how do you know my hair is natural?”

“Really?” I replied with a laugh. “You’re out here smelling like cocoa butter & coconuts & you’re gonna ask me how I know your hair is natural? Of course I was gonna know your hair is natural.”

She laughed so hard she had to cover her mouth. Bruh. You know a woman is feeling you, when your laughgasm-game is so on point, she has to cover her smile. That’s how you KNOW you’re in. A woman knows within the first five seconds of meeting you if she’d give you her number, date you or sex you. All you have to do is stay confident, funny & don’t blow it!

We exchanged names & numbers, before departing. I called her that day & invited her out on a date to The Weeknd concert that weekend after dinner. Based off how sweet she was to me, I figured if everything went well, a couple dates later, I’d be willing to court her.

There’s no “talking” or “Bae” option on a job application.

#1 Take multiple women out on dates to see which one you have the most chemistry with.

#2 Court ONE woman by taking her on dates exclusively, to see compatibility. Ask yourself: do we have similar values? Compatible views on: politics, spirituality, sex, raising children? Is she calm, or does she get irritated fast? Could I see myself raising a child with her?

Take her out on a date. Plan it & pay. Fill up her tank. Pay for her baby sitter. Buy her groceries. Be her stability but only if she reciprocates all you give.

#4 Propose. People get divorced because they didn’t use engagement to see a person’s consistency. People don’t switch up. They play a role until they get what they want from you.

#5 Marry her. Marry your commitment to her loyalty. To me a ring doesn’t make me married to a woman. If I can’t yoke my spirit to hers & wrap my consistent around her heart like a ring around her finger, it’s not true marriage.

When I told that Bohemian beauty about The Weeknd concert tickets I bought us, she lost her shit. Start calling me “babe” started using the diamond ring emoji, making plans for a future. But when I told her I don’t have sex outside of relationships, she stopped texting me back & started flaking on our date. Always tell all your flaws & requirements from jump. It will help you weed out the ones who aren’t for you.

Women being attracted to spiritual men who are abstinent until marriage is coming back in style soon. I can feel it. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
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Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me
Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

Want a free copy of my book? click “Follow” => http://Facebook.com/AEAseem click “get notifications”, or “see first” then message me so I can message you a free copy.

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Stop adopting grown ass Men.

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Ladies, it’s not your job to be loyal to an inconsistent boy, nor teach him how to be a man, provide, comfort you, listen, understand you. Don’t confuse being his woman with “being his mother”. #EbrahimAseem Stop adopting grown ass men. Stop being submissive to inconsistency.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

Stop wasting years & tears waiting for that neglecting, cheating, can’t text back, but can like 157 girls pics on Instagram-ass lame to change for you. Men do not change for a woman. A man changes for himself & grows for his self-love. #EbrahimAseem

Complacency has no potential. Be more loyal to the red flags you see than you are to potential he never reaches. #EbrahimAseem

A reader asked, “where does a woman draw the line not giving boyfriends “husband treatment”? Is sex & cooking for him included?” My response: If he’s hasn’t put a ring on your finger,

You don’t owe a man anything. Not giving him money when he’s broke. Not letting him live in your house rent free. Not sex. Not even loyalty. Only give to a consistent man what he reciprocates. #EbrahimAseem

If you cook, clean, pay his way & give your all to a man who has not committed to you, that’s not “loyalty”, that’s adoption. You are disloyal to your worth. #EbrahimAseem

If he asks you for money, he’s not a man. If you have to tell him to give effort & be consistent he’s not a man. If he can make it rain on strippers, treat his boys to rounds of drinks, but can’t plan & pay for you on a date, he’s not a man. Stop being loyal to boys who’ve never had a living example of what a man is. That’s why you don’t attract successful men. Based on your exs, you don’t know what that looks like. A mentally mature man will:

Take her on a date. Plan it & pay. Fill up her tank. Pay for her baby sitter. Buy her groceries. Be her stability, but only for a supportive woman who reciprocates all you give. #EbrahimAseem

Men, expecting a woman to chase you is not manly or “pimping”. It’s insecure. Stop fearing rejection. Man up! Court her to show her she deserves to be treated just as beautiful as the reflection of light & peace she is. #EbrahimAseem

As men we get so busy chasing the bad bitch fantasy girl, we don’t realize that sweet, giving woman right in our face who promotes our growth, sees the great man deep inside us & wants to bring was us closer to him. She was designed just for us. #EbrahimAseem Give her patience, attention, stability, love & consistency.

All my dreams started to come true once I stopped womanizing, quit chasing the “bad bitch fantasy girl” & only pursued women who promote my growth & call me out on my b.s. #EbrahimAseem The universe will yield all into you once you start respecting the vessels of life in this universe: genuine women. If you’re blessed to find one, tell her:

“You are my dream come true. My happily ever after. Where would I be without you? I love you more than my lungs love breathing air. Not just because of all you do. All you give & all you share. #EbrahimAseem I love you because you promote my growth. The love I have for myself is what matters to you most.

You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take out on a date. Show off around town. Go for a slow walk with by the lake. #EbrahimAseem You are the only woman that can arouse my mind, and throb my head. You’re the only woman whose body I want to devour in bed, every inch.

You’re the only woman I can be goofy with, sing along to 90s R&B with as we laugh & ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because without you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far.

The first woman I ever seen was the sweetest woman I ever known. My mother. And when it comes to making one woman her daughter-in-law, my love, I can think of none other, than you. #EbrahimAseem

You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heartbeat want to kiss the soft sand that is your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled with hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, I am willing to endure all the pain, destroy all your demons, break down every last wall that houses your trust issues, because only you mean that much.

I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you are inside & out, and as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen. #EbrahimAseem After all, he will be raised by one.

Thank you for sticking by me through all the arguments & mistakes. I will consistently use my actions to say, I will never turn away. No other woman can take your place. #EbrahimAseem

I want trips overseas with only you. I want to get on one knee for only you. I want to spiritually grow with only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the the ring I will place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, after I, with tears in my eyes, look the best thing that ever happened to me deep in your eyes and say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. And I want you to daily uplift you, so you always love you too. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
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Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me
Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

Want a free copy of my book? click “Follow” => http://Facebook.com/AEAseem click “get notifications”, or “see first” then message me so I can message you a free copy.

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Stop giving marriage loyalty to boyfriends.

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By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

A girlfriend is the new side chick. Until he puts a ring on it, his relationship status is “available”. His phone has girls texting him. His DM has girls sending pictures. He is keeping his options open. Stop giving marriage loyalty to boyfriends. #EbrahimAseem Stop doing permanent things for temporary people. This isn’t all men, only inconsistent men.

A ring won’t make him change. If he’s not ALREADY being the consistent fully faithfully commitment man you deserve, who wraps his consistency around your loyalty, like a ring around a finger, why the hell is he your “boyfriend”? Don’t be loyal to complacency. #EbrahimAseem

If you’re not married, you’re single. There’s no “talking” or “Bae” or “girlfriend” option on a job application. It goes (1) take her on dates. (2) Court her. (3) Propose to her. (4) Marry her. If you give him all your loyalty before he gives you all his commitment, he has no incentive to ever commit to you. #EbrahimAseem Require him to court you. A girlFRIEND is just that to a man. A friend. Ask me you trust & they’ll tell you.

Before committing to an inconsistent man, require at least one of these:
1. His phone, to view in full with him one time.
2. The full names of all his EXs, with an explanation of why it ended.
3. His Instagram password changed to your name.
If he can’t provide full transparency, don’t provide him with full loyalty. #EbrahimAseem And if you can’t do the same for him, you’re not as “loyal” as you think you are. It’s not about “trust issues” it’s about transparency & reassurance. #EbrahimAseem A loyal person welcomes opportunities to prove their loyalty & reassure your doubts. But a guilty person will never let you see all the evidence in their phone.

"Talking" isn't a relationship. Court her. #EbrahimAseem Link to full article in my bio.

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You’re not wasting your time. You’re playing house & giving your boyfriend ‘husband privileges’ while he’s denying you ‘wife commitment’. #EbrahimAseem He texts other girls, some of which want a future with him just like you. You & his side chicks are basically teammates & he’s the player, dribbling your hearts, playing all of you. Think I’m lying? Ask to see his phone right now. Don’t worry, I’ll wait. See, if none of you have his hand in marriage, you’re all on the same level to him, until he marries one of you. #EbrahimAseem

Guys feel they’re either married or single. If you’re loyal to an unmarried man, he’s not “cheating” on you by dating other women. He’s behaving single, while you’re playing house. #EbrahimAseem

Loyalty is a reciprocal action. If you’re loyal to an inconsistent man who has not let all other women know he has faithfully committed to you only, you are DISloyal to your own self worth. #EbrahimAseem

He can be on the phone telling you he loves you, while laying in another woman’s bed. Cuddling her & their secret child you don’t even know about, because you didn’t investigate his previous relationships. If you give him marriage level loyalty before he makes his intentions for a future with you know by consistent actions, he has no incentive to marry you. Make consistency a prerequisite to your loyalty.

Some girls will say, “well married men do the same thing.” No. If a man can’t marry his monogamy to your loyalty, & stop flirting with Instamodels in his phone, that “boy” is NOT your “husband”. Y’all are just roommates. Don’t downgrade ALL MARRIAGE just because you’ve yet to experience a man of valor wrap his consistency around your loyalty like a ring around a finger. #EbrahimAseem

Inconsistency is a turn off to me. Don’t be all over me one minute & distant the next. I’m loyal to effort & actions, not empty ass promises.

A genuine woman appreciates & ONLY gives loyalty to a consistent man who encourages her growth. Now, just because she won’t “chase” you, does not mean she doesn’t like you. #EbrahimAseem Pursue her. Be patient. Show her with consistency her flaws can’t scare you away & she will let go her guarded wall for you.

I’ve had women push me away saying “Ebrahim, you deserve better than I can give. I’ve been hurt so much. I’ve this guarded wall up. I can’t give you all you deserve.” My response.

“You give me peace. Let me give you what you never got yet always deserved, someone to be patient w/ your flaws & understanding of your past without judgement. #EbrahimAseem

I’m in love w/ your eyes. Addicted to viewing your soul thru them. I wanna know your story. All you’ve survived. Pain you bottle up inside. #EbrahimAseem I want to be your stability & peace.”

Never push away love you deserve, because you feel too flawed. Never give loyalty to quickly, feeling you are asking too much, because you’re not enough. To the right one, you’re enough. You’re everything.

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By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me
Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

Want a free copy of my book? click “Follow” => http://Facebook.com/AEAseem click “get notifications”, or “see first” then message me so I can message you a free copy.

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Why she doesn’t SUBMIT to you.

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The reason she doesn’t submit to you is, she doesn’t trust your ability to lead her. You can’t even lead yourself. #EbrahimAseem A genuine woman will never submit to inconsistency. Stop trying to control a woman or calling her “smart mouthed.”

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Men, we can’t be fooled to think these “ride or die” girls who stay “loyal” after we put her through hell really love us. A girl who submits to your inconsistencies & never calls out your mistakes has no investment in your growth. #EbrahimAseem She intentionally holds back your growth so you won’t out-grow & leave her.

Staying loyal to him even when you think you’re being played isn’t loyalty. If you can’t respectfully call him out on inconsistency, you’re disloyal to your worth & you don’t love him. Be more loyal to the red flags you see than you are to potential he never reaches. #EbrahimAseem

If you’re a woman who respectfully speaks your mind, know you’re so intimidating to an insecure boy & so attractive to a confident man. But queen, YOU define your worth, not a man. #EbrahimAseem

Stop wasting years & tears waiting for that neglecting, cheating, can’t text back but can like 157 girls pics on Instagram-ass lame to change for you. Men don’t change for a woman. A man changes for himself & grows for his self love. #EbrahimAseem Stop submitting to complacency, which has no potential. Be more loyal to the red flags you see than you are to potential he never reaches.

It’s not your job as a woman to submit to an inconsistent boy & teach him how to be a man, provide, work, listen, understand & comfort you. Don’t get being his woman confused with “being his mother”. #EbrahimAseem Some of y’all girls are adopting grown ass men & submitting yourself to inconsistent little boys.

As rugged & masculine as I am, I want a wife, whose affectionate nurturing makes me submit my heart, loyalty & romantic aggression to only her. My consistency & providing will make her submit her trust & patience to me. Submission isn’t about “control”. It’s about reciprocating all we both give. #EbrahimAseem

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He didn’t CHEAT. Your smart MOUTH nagged him into the arms of a submissive woman.

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No man wants to work all day, fighting to provide for his family, just to come home & battle a smart mouthed woman. Have his dinner ready. His bath drawn. His TV on ESPN & your smart ass mouth closed. Hell, change his tire & massage his feet as a sign of your submission to him as your leader. This is the ignorance we teach our daughters when ridicule her for doing things we let our sons get away with. #EbrahimAseem

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Parents let their sons stay out later, date sooner & skip chores, while they make their daughters clean up after him, do all chores, facing the emotional abusive of hearing her mother say, “I wish I had another son instead of you.” #EbrahimAseem

This daughter-hate creates a mental muzzle in a woman’s mind, causing her to bite her tongue whenever she sees men display immaturity. #EbrahimAseem She fears he will abandon her if she speaks her mind, because mother’s bias taught her it drives men into the arms of a submissive woman. Bullshit.

If you met a rare woman who calms your rage, supports your dreams & respectfully calls you out on your B.S., adore her, commit to her & never let go. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t entertain a giggle-when-you-mess-up “ride or die chick” who never tells you when you’re wrong. That opportunist does not love you. A loyal woman respectfully keeps you on point. #EbrahimAseem

Key word “respect.” I wish a female would fix her lips to talk out the side of her neck to me. I’d respectfully tell her, “baby I love you but if you don’t sit down & shut the hell up before the best thing that ever happened to you walks out your life. Baby, I want to fight FOR you, not against you. #EbrahimAseem

What hell did people you’ve trusted in your past put you through that makes you feel the need to talk out the side of your mouth when you don’t feel understood? Tell me. Let me in. I know how it feels to hurt, that’s why I want you to know how it feels for someone to finally put you first. #EbrahimAseem

You calm my anger. You give me peace. You make me want to embrace the thought of monogamy & say goodbye to these streets. You make me feel complete, because you bring me closer to my self-love. So when I tell my boys I’m thinking about forever, know you’re the only woman I’m thinking of. #EbrahimAseem You make me want to be an example & leader to my boys, show them what matrimony is all about. Show them

letting your woman walk over you & talk to you out the side of her mouth is not being a “nice guy” its passive aggressive. Respect a woman enough to tell her when she’s wrong. Be vulnerable for her without being a little bitch boy. Don’t possibly say “I’m fine” then throw fits, & act all moody to your woman. Man up & take control of your emotions. Stop acting like you’re on your period bro.

A genuine woman doesn’t nag. She just sees your great potential & wants to help you reach it. She’s submissive to her integrity & allergic to your b.s. #EbrahimAseem It is not her job to submit to you just because we are the man, pay bills or throw down in bed.

As rugged & masculine as I am, I want a wife, whose affectionate nurturing makes me submit my heart, loyalty & romantic aggression to only her. My consistency & providing will make her submit her trust & patience to me. Submission isn’t about “control”. It’s about reciprocating all we both give. #EbrahimAseem

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Single mothers…You are NOT your child’s FATHER too.

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A woman who puts her child over me makes me want to make her & her child my first priority. But a woman who doesn’t value the role of a father figure in a child’s life repels the very man she wants her son to grow to become. #EbrahimAseem

If you do it all by yourself, no help, you deserve full credit. And your child deserves a father figure. Only a man can teach a man how to be one. You don’t play “both roles”. You play your role as a mother excellently. Your son still needs love & leadership from a male role model, so he won’t grow up constantly seeking approval from his “homies”. #EbrahimAseem He needs a man to be a living example of self-sufficiency, so he won’t grow up living off a woman, rent free.

He needs a man to teach him how to calm his inner rage. How to control his dick head & think with the head connected to his mind. #EbrahimAseem A mother can do an outstanding job speaking her expectations of manhood to her son, but she can’t show him manhood by example. Only a man can.

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Single mothers, your son is not your “little man”, your “king” or your “papa”. He’s your son. He’s not “all you need.” & stop calling a little boy “sexy”. You are not in a relationship with your son. #EbrahimAseem The reason boys grow up to live off women, lack ambition, flake on school & live rent free off girlfriends is, because y’all “I don’t need a man” mothers make your sons overly dependent of you. You do need a man, not for yourself, but for your son to teach him how to be one. #EbrahimAseem

Stop keeping your son from his father. Stop bad talking his father to your son’s face. Stop telling your little boy “oooh you’re gonna have all the girls on you.” Y’all wonder why men reject monogamy. His mother raised him to think his worth lies in entertaining multiple women simultaneously. #EbrahimAseem

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A woman does not need a man to complete her. But a little girl needs a father figure. Your daughter needs love & affection from a man, so she won’t grow up looking for love from every man she meets. #EbrahimAseem She needs to see a man court, commit to, provide for & respect his woman, so she won’t grow up thinking she has to settle for a “side chick” role just to keep a man.

You deserve acknowledgment for all sacrifices you make for your child as their mother. The nurturer. Life giver. Provider. Bread winner. An amazing mother. But you can never be a father.

Dear bitter girls: hating all men will never attract you one. It will teach your son to lack confidence & be overly dependent on a woman. #EbrahimAseem

It will teach your daughter to sympathetically see only the good in men, to prove her mother’s views wrong. This causes the daughter to stay too long in relationships with men who don’t promote her growth, simply to prove ‘if you loved a man hard enough, you can change him & help him reach his potential.’ #EbrahimAseem Wrong.

Loving an inconsistent man harder won’t help him reach potential. It will make you procrastinate reaching your own. Giving up your goals for him is not loyalty. It’s disloyal to your worth. #EbrahimAseem

Everything I know about manhood, I learned in my culture, we have brotherhood. Husbands, fathers & elders teach us boys from birth how to be men of accountability, responsibility & self love. To respect how every man ever born came from a woman. #EbrahimAseem

I know you sacrifice so much of yourself to give to your family & your struggles nearly drive you insane. Your children deserve a genuine man who will listen, provide, lead, understand them, and give them his all, just the same. That can be their uncle, grandfather, big cousin or older brother. But an amazing mommy can never take the place of an amazing father, just like the greatest dad in the world can’t take the place of a child’s mother. #EbrahimAseem

The most selfish thing a man can do is make his child wonder why their promise breaking daddy doesn’t want them. #EbrahimAseem The most poisonous thing a woman can do is keep her child away from a father who wants to be in his child’s life.

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If he cheated, you should’ve loved him HARDER.

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If he’s flirting with Instamodels, get your hair & nails done. Do squats. Dress sexy. Stop letting yourself go.

If he never makes time for you, you’re too clingy. Let him breathe. Stop being over emotional, scaring him off.

If he cheated on you, you should have loved him harder. He wouldn’t feel the need to cheat if you were doing your job, fighting for him. These are the poisonous lies we teach our daughters by telling them to “love him harder” whenever he displays disloyalty.

Loving an inconsistent man harder will not help him reach potential. It will make you procrastinate on reaching your own. #EbrahimAseem Stop giving up your goals for him.

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You used to be so ambitious. So driven. Until you met a man with “potential” who made you neglect your own? #EbrahimAseem That is not “loyalty”. That is disloyalty to your self love.

Girls: “why can’t guys be loyal in relationships?” You’re not even loyalty to your own worth & intuition, which warned you not to entertain him. #EbrahimAseem

Prioritizing staying loyal to a man over staying loyal to her goals, first mind & self love is taught to girls from childhood, phrased as “loyalty.” Let’s

Who you give loyalty to is who you become. Evil communication corrupts good fruit. Stop being loyal to someone who’s not a living example of the light you want to become. #EbrahimAseem They extract your energy, to fuel their existence, while draining all your powers meant for your purpose.

Some of these girls asking “where are the loyal men?” have never even required a man to taken her out, or be consistent with actions before giving him her all. He didn’t “cheat” on you if he never even committed to you. You just loved him more than you love you. #EbrahimAseem Some of these girls are in a relationship with their feelings.

Deep girls stay loyal to inconsistent men who don’t promote her spiritual growth, then question loyalty & love. Be more loyal to your SELF love than you are to potential he never reaches. #EbrahimAseem

Let’s stop teaching our daughters to study hard for the degree, do squats for the booty, work hard for the money, all to attract a better man. A woman doesn’t need the love of a man to complete her. #EbrahimAseem Knowing her self loving worth does that.

Girls stay loyal to inconsistent boys they see no future with because she seeks stability. She’d rather stay until he messes up, than give up. #EbrahimAseem Sadly, this lack of self worth scares away men who can promote her growth.

If he cared, he’d reach out first, make time without being told, & take you out on a planned, paid for date. #EbrahimAseem Stop being more loyal to his potential than you are to your self worth.

As men we must realize, a genuine woman with trust issues is not always crazy, rude, smart mouth, guarded or over emotional. She’s just been thru so much pain. #EbrahimAseem

You don’t know if growing up her mother treated her like crap & put men over her own daughter. #EbrahimAseem Parents never acknowledging all she did, never showing unconditinsl love, always putting her down, calling her names.

You don’t know if family & friends she trusted, stabbed her in the back, let money come between them & proved to be disloyal. #EbrahimAseem You don’t know how hard it is for her to met a guy, fall in love, finally trust him, only to get her heart shattered to pieces. #EbrahimAseem Then, have to pick up all those pieces & put herself back together, alone, no help. Only to met a guy again & go through the same b.s. over & over like a never ending nightmare.

Just things my sisters taught me, which is why I don’t mind putting in time, patience & consistency to earn a sweet woman’s heart. #EbrahimAseem

Court her, commit, then get down on one knee & tell her this

You are my dream come true. My happily ever after. Where would I be without you? I love more than my lungs love breathing air. Not just because of all you do. All you give & all you share. #EbrahimAseem I love you because you promote my growth. The love I have for myself is what matters to you most.

You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take out on a date. Show off around town. Go for a slow walk with by the lake. #EbrahimAseem You are the only woman who can arouse my mind, and throb my head. You’re the only woman I want to devour in bed.

You’re the only woman I can be goofy with, sing along to 90s R&B with as we laugh & ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because without you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far.

The first woman I ever seen was the sweetest woman I ever known. My mother. And when it comes to making one woman her daughter-in-law, my love, I can think of none other, than you.

You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heartbeat want to kiss the soft sand that is your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled with hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, I am willing to endure all the pain, destroy all your demons, break down every last wall that houses your trust issues, because only you mean that much.

I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you are inside & out, and as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen. #EbrahimAseem After all, he will be raised by one.

Thank you for sticking by me through all the arguments & mistakes. I will consistently use my actions to say, I will never turn away. No other woman can take your place. #EbrahimAseem

I want trips overseas with only you. I want to get on one knee for only you. I want to spiritually grow with only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I will place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, after I, with tears in my eyes, look the best thing that ever happened to me deep in your eyes and say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. And I want you to daily uplift you, so you always love you too. #EbrahimAseem

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This is why no man should "date" a single mother, MARRY that single mother, make your intentions with her known by courting her, or don’t even waste her time. #EbrahimAseem If you’re not ready to faithfully commit to her, by all means, keep your substance-lacking side pieces & keep playing, but be honest with her. Don’t act interested, get her pregnant, then leave her to raise a child alone. #EbrahimAseem Don't hold back her blessings, playing a role another man is meant to have in her life, by making her his wife. #EbrahimAseem Don’t string any woman along, planting feelings in her heart & empty promises in her mind, when you know damn well you don’t see her in your #Future. #EbrahimAseem Don’t demand her loyalty without offering her commitment, because her loyalty is to her child. A woman & her child are a package deal. If you date a single mother & her child gets attached to you, then you leave, it will crush that child. It will give that child abandonment issues lasting a lifetime, effecting their future relationships. #EbrahimAseem I will make a woman a wife before I make her a mother, because my mother raised a future husband & father, not a future baby daddy. #EbrahimAseem Link to this full 2 million views article in my bio. Read it ASAP! #Ciara #RussellWilson

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Why men chase you so hard, then lose interest & effort so quick.

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In the beginning they chase you hard. Good morning texts. Affectionate gestures that have you smiling all day. Then when you let down your wall, it all suddenly goes away. But why?
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Boys lose interest & effort in women after noticing her rate of growth exceeds his. #EbrahimAseem This intimidates him, to always feel inadequate to a deep woman aware of her worth, whom he has nothing but good dick & inconsistency to offer.

Don’t text a woman 6 months later, crawling back into her life, like you didn’t destroy her ability to trust. #EbrahimAseem If she cut your inconsistent ass off, chances are she used that knife you stabbed her in the back with.

“Men” chase you so hard, then lose interest & effort so quick, because “girls” switch up. Once they fall for you, they stop being fun, goofy & care free, and switch to being serious, clingy & emotional.

Instead of asking deep, interesting questions getting to know you & your perspective on life, the universe & why we are here, they spend the whole conversation asking emotional questions like:

“who is that same girl who keeps commenting your picture?” and
“what are we?” Which is a silly question, because if a man has never told you with actions his intentions with you, where he sees y’all going, his dreams, ambitions, career plan, what he wants out of life & why he wants you in his, you are dating a boy. You’re a single mom. #EbrahimAseem

Sometimes a man texts other women, not because he wants to cheat & sleep with them, but because he misses having communication with a flirty, goofy woman. That used to be you, until you started letting your emotions rule you & take the fun out of you.

Men don’t like girls who laugh at everything, they just love witty women with depth, who provoke deep thought, yet aren’t know-it-alls. #EbrahimAseem If you can’t say something witty, sarcastic or deep, don’t say anything at all. Lack of humor is unattractive. Get your unfunny ass away from me.

Truth is, it doesn’t matter why he lost interest. If he was meant for you, he would never lose interest. You’d be his favorite melody.

What’s meant for you will find you. You won’t have to chase it, force it, settle for less or fight to keep it alive. It will not break you, curse you or question you. It will heal you, understand you & be patient with your trust. #EbrahimAseem To attract it, you must fully let go of anything or person that does not promote growth. Once you do, you’ll attract a consistent man, who will open up to you & say,

“I want to be the reason you don’t give up on your dreams. The reason you know you’re not asking too much. You never get all that you give, until now. #EbrahimAseem

I just want to love you until you glow so much, people notice growth. #EbrahimAseem Until the shine of your smile eclipses your fears. I want to be your peace.

You don’t want to date me. I don’t text for months w/ no intentions. I like conversing about growth & building a future. I don’t Netflix & chill. I take you on a date so you know it’s real. I don’t ask for sexy pics. I long kiss, play in your hair, massage & smack your derrière. I don’t talk. I court. I want a future. I want forever with one. If you only want a bae, I’m not for you. #EbrahimAseem But if you want a goofy, deep, super flawed, super genuine soul, I will love you so consistently, you will become that love. That self love.

Worst mistake I ever made was choosing a self-proclaimed "bad bitch" over a sweet woman. #NeverAgain #Growth Link to full article in my bio. #EbrahimAseem #omwToPrayer I learned a self proclaimed bad bitch may be curvy & sweet, yet if she lacks substance, nurturing & doesn't promote our growth, they're not for us bro. So what if a woman doesn't have the flattest tummy, fattest ass or flawless face ? If we can further each others intellect spiritually connect, be goofy, vibe together & build towards forever, she's the only ONE we should commit to. 👉🏾👸🏾👉🏾💍💎💒👰🏾👨🏽👶🏾 Girls be like "if only more men thought like this.😪" 3.5 billion men on earth. If only more women CHOSE to ONLY entertain men who value them & think like this. #EbrahimAseem #StopAdoptingGrownAssMen

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The reason she doesn’t submit to you is, she doesn’t trust your ability to lead her. You can’t even lead yourself. #EbrahimAseem Be consistent. Speak w/ actions. Stop trying to control a woman or calling her "smart mouthed." If you're a woman who respectfully speaks your mind, know you're so intimidating to an insecure boy & so attractive to a confident man. But queen, YOU define your worth, not a man. #EbrahimAseem Stop wasting years & tears waiting for that neglecting, cheating, can’t text back but can like 157 girls pics on Instagram ass lame to change for you. Men don’t change for a woman. A man changes for himself & grows for his self love. #EbrahimAseem But complacency has no potential. It's not your job to teach a boy how to be a man, provide, work, listen, understand & comfort you. Don't get being his woman confused with "being his mother". #EbrahimAseem Some of y'all adopting grown ass men. Instagram: @Fuel4TheBody

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My mother raised a future husband 👉🏾💍👰🏾 not a future baby daddy. #tbt I'm tired of “talking”. Being in a relationship where the sex is so damn good, but there’s no growth or courtship is a waste to me. #EbrahimAseem I see your fine ass has curves, but are you nurturing? Kind? Patient? Spiritual? Goofy? Good with children? Finances? Home decor? I don’t date for a hobby. If we aren’t planning for forever I have no interest. #EbrahimAseem What are your passions? Goals? Can WE stimulate each other's spirit? Promote each other's growth? align each others chakras? activate each others pineal gland? I don't care if you can twerk 💃🏾 or back that ass up 😒 #EbrahimAseem Can we dine on each other's frequency as you digest knowledge my food for thought feeds your mind? What type of mother will you be? Where do you want to raise a family? Men, let's stop asking these women for pics, ask if she’s a WIFE. Men let's behave loyal to our self worth before we even say I do. #EbrahimAseem I can imagine being married. Having children, spending time with them, Playing with them & making them laugh, teaching them about life, instilling confidence & self worth before giving them piggyback rides. Having a wife, spoiling her with love and attention, Being goofy with her, making her laugh & smile every second I spend with her. Providing for my family. #EbrahimAseem I honestly pray I have all this before my moms gets too old to enjoy a daughter-in-law & grandchildren. Everytime I see my moms, she talks about wanting grandchildren & saying she raised me to be a husband. Because I was raised by a queen, I know for sure, I am not looking for a girlfriend to date, I am looking for a wife to court, marry & raise children with. #EbrahimAseem Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY #Excerpt from #WhyNoManShouldDATEaSingleMother #MARRYher 💍👰🏾 #OrDontWasteHerTime Link in my bio.

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Why guys lose interest. Only do for him what he's willing to do for you. True love is reciprocal. #EbrahimAseem

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Why dating a SINGLE MOTHER can NEVER last

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75% of my readers are men. One said, “Ebrahim, I’ve found too many single mothers want me to make her and her kids my FIRST priority while I am to be her LAST priority. I’m expected to pay for everything for her kids by another man. This is why real men should stay away from single mothers. They expect us men to put up with extra crap & still be last in line. Where is the return on our investment in the relationship?”

My response: “A woman who puts her child first over me, makes me want to make her & her child my first priority. If you’re not her husband, you don’t come before her child. #EbrahimAseem That’s why

I’d marry a woman with children. She’s not a burden. She’s a blessing. #EbrahimAseem Bro, if you don’t want to commit to a single mother, cool. Keep “talking” to the girls you prefer. I sincerely pray that works for you. But don’t knock a man like me, willing to pour love into a woman & her child. #EbrahimAseem

Her son needs love & leadership from a man, so he won’t grow up to neglect his responsibilities & choose to be a baby daddy. If his father isn’t man enough to raise & teach him how to be a man, I will. #EbrahimAseem Her daughter needs to see a man court, commit to, provide for & respect her mother, so she won’t think she has to settle to keep a man. If her father isn’t man enough to be a provider for her mother, I will. #EbrahimAseem

Dating a single mother will NEVER last long. Once you see how much she can love, give & cater to her child, you will want to wife her ASAP. #EbrahimAseem

Asking these “my child is my world” single mothers on one date is a mistake. She will flake. Be patient. Keep asking her out, so she knows her child isn’t a deal breaker & she isn’t a flaker. All the love she gives her child, she will shower you with, if you’ll just wait a while. #EbrahimAseem

“Dating” a single mother is a waste of time. Her baby daddy will remain in the picture & on her mind. She doesn’t want him back. She only stays in touch, so her child will know their father loves them very much. #EbrahimAseem A woman who puts her precious child’s needs over her own deserves a diamond engagement ring cut from the most precious stone.

These single mothers don’t know how to put a man first, cook for, cater to & treat him like a king. Because she doesn’t give men husband privileges until he gives her a ring. #EbrahimAseem

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Courting a single mother is terribly hard. She’ll flake & cancel dates. Short text & not reply. Have no time for putting you first. Be patient with her. She’s not flaking. Childcare costs more than the date you want to take her on. Pay her babysitter. Take her on a date. It’s not about money. Spoil her with your time to let her know you appreciate all sacrifices she makes for her child with no help. Be her consistency & she will be your everything. #EbrahimAseem”

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
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This is why no man should "date" a single mother, MARRY that single mother, make your intentions with her known by courting her, or don’t even waste her time. #EbrahimAseem If you’re not ready to faithfully commit to her, by all means, keep your substance-lacking side pieces & keep playing, but be honest with her. Don’t act interested, get her pregnant, then leave her to raise a child alone. #EbrahimAseem Don't hold back her blessings, playing a role another man is meant to have in her life, by making her his wife. #EbrahimAseem Don’t string any woman along, planting feelings in her heart & empty promises in her mind, when you know damn well you don’t see her in your #Future. #EbrahimAseem Don’t demand her loyalty without offering her commitment, because her loyalty is to her child. A woman & her child are a package deal. If you date a single mother & her child gets attached to you, then you leave, it will crush that child. It will give that child abandonment issues lasting a lifetime, effecting their future relationships. #EbrahimAseem I will make a woman a wife before I make her a mother, because my mother raised a future husband & father, not a future baby daddy. #EbrahimAseem Link to this full 2 million views article in my bio. Read it ASAP! #Ciara #RussellWilson

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Men, don't starve your children of your time. #EbrahimAseem Speaking to a group of young fathers.

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When she's emotional. #EbrahimAseem #SpeakLife Just spoke this message to a group of men who want to be husbands

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If he calms your fears. #EbrahimAseem #SpeakLife #GNText

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Take back your power! #EbrahimAseem

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Come sit that mind on me. 🍑😯 #GNText #EbrahimAseemPoetry #EbrahimAseem

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A person with standards is so attractive to me. #EbrahimAseem

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If you're blessed with a virtuous woman, adore her. #EbrahimAseem #omwToBibleStudy 🌒🌓🌕🌔🌌

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Reassurance. #EbrahimAseem

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#FatherhoodGoals I really want a son & daughter. Not right NOW. I want to be extremely financially set before I bring life in this world. But, I have thoughts on manhood I was taught by men in my culture I'd love to share w/ a son, teach him how to be strong & confident, never dependent on, live off or control a female, self sufficient. #EbrahimAseem Shower my daughter with love, so she doesn't look for love in every man she meets. Encourage my children to pursue their dreams, support their choices. Never belittling or making them feel like a failure. #EbrahimAseem I want to raise a son to be ambitious, resilient, not make excuses, teach him not to blame people for his life, play football, hoops & exercising w/ him, be goofy with him, b/c he shares my humor. #EbrahimAseem I will never judge my child & make them feel less of a man for his choices. It is not parents' job to judge their child, only support & build them up. I want to raise a son to respect women. I don't want my son to base how he treats women on how males look at him. I want to teach him showing a woman you love her is NOT being a simp, it's being a strong man. #EbrahimAseem I want to teach my son to be a loyal man, not a hoe male. I don't want him getting multiple women pregnant, leaving the mother to raise the child by herself. I want him to make a woman a wife before he makes her a mother. I want to raise a future husband, not a future baby daddy. #EbrahimAseem More than anything, I want to teach my son to be humble w/o ego, pride & arrogance. I'm just a flawed man who has made mistakes in this dream called life, but REFUSES not to learn from them. I refuse to repeat mistakes. #EbrahimAseem I refuse to be a weak male, who blames women for everything. I refuse to be a player, womanizer or baby daddy. I refuse to put my hands on a woman, use, rape or break a woman like many males. #EbrahimAseem I'm not a profit, I'm an example real men who value women exist & I'm tired of us being seen as dogs. I want to be a living example of the man I want my daughter to marry. Bless me with a woman who can see the leader in me. I don't want a bad bitch. I want a sweet woman. #HusbandGoalsEbrahimAseem

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Sweet women. Link to full article in my bio. #EbrahimAseem

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Caring too much isn't a flaw, it means you deserve to be shown care. #EbrahimAseem At work #Chef #12HourShift

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Manhood goals. #EbrahimAseem

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Be his calm. Be her peace. #EbrahimAseem #SpeakLife

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A woman is like the moon. #Poem by: #EbrahimAseem 🌒🌓🌕🌘 #CRTC #BloodMoon #Moon

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The reason she doesn’t submit to you is, she doesn’t trust your ability to lead her. You can’t even lead yourself. #EbrahimAseem Be consistent. Speak w/ actions. Stop trying to control a woman or calling her "smart mouthed." If you're a woman who respectfully speaks your mind, know you're so intimidating to an insecure boy & so attractive to a confident man. But queen, YOU define your worth, not a man. #EbrahimAseem Stop wasting years & tears waiting for that neglecting, cheating, can’t text back but can like 157 girls pics on Instagram ass lame to change for you. Men don’t change for a woman. A man changes for himself & grows for his self love. #EbrahimAseem But complacency has no potential. It's not your job to teach a boy how to be a man, provide, work, listen, understand & comfort you. Don't get being his woman confused with "being his mother". #EbrahimAseem Some of y'all adopting grown ass men. Instagram: @Fuel4TheBody

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He’s either courting you, committed to you or playing you.

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Dating & “talking” are ambiguous terms. He’s either courting you, committed to you or playing you. Love yourself enough to require clarity. By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

Men, if you find a loyal girl who’s willing to stay after you string her along & destroy her, pick up the pieces after you cheat on her & endure hell just to keep the relationship going, don’t break her. Leave her. She doesn’t love you. She’s enabling you. #EbrahimAseem She’s using your presence in her life for the lack of self-love in her heart.

A self-loving woman loves you too much to settle for you at your worst, because she sees your greatness, spots your potential & will give her all to encourage the leader you are. #EbrahimAseem

Men, we can’t be fooled to think these “ride or die” girls who stay “loyal” after we put her through hell really loves us. A girl who stays loyal to your inconsistencies & never calls out your mistakes has no investment in your growth. #EbrahimAseem She intentionally holds back your growth so you won’t out grow her & leave her.

Let’s stop using “talking” of calling a woman we starve of commitment our “ride or die” as a trick to get wife caliber women to give us husband privileges.

Take her out on dates to see chemistry. Court her to see compatibility. Commit to her exclusivity to build for a future engagement. “Then get down on one knee & tell her,

“You are my dream come true. My happily ever after. Where would I be without you? I love more than my lungs love breathing air. Not just because of all you do. All you give & all you share. #EbrahimAseem I love you because you promote my growth. The love I have for myself is what matters to you most.

You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take out on a date. Show off around town. Go for a slow walk with by the lake. #EbrahimAseem You are the only woman who can arouse my mind, and throb my head. You’re the only woman I want to devour in bed.

You’re the only woman I can be goofy with, sing along to 90s R&B with as we laugh & ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because without you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far.

The first woman I ever seen was the sweetest woman I ever known. My mother. And when it comes to making one woman her daughter-in-law, my love, I can think of none other, than you.

You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heartbeat want to kiss the soft sand that is your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled with hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, I am willing to endure all the pain, destroy all your demons, break down every last wall that houses your trust issues, because only you mean that much.

I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you are inside & out, and as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen. #EbrahimAseem After all, he will be raised by one.

Thank you for sticking by me through all the arguments & mistakes. I will consistently use my actions to say, I will never turn away. No other woman can take your place. #EbrahimAseem

I want trips overseas with only you. I want to get on one knee for only you. I want to spiritually grow with only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I will place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, after I, with tears in my eyes, look the best thing that ever happened to me deep in your eyes and say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. And I want you to daily uplift you, so you always love you too. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
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Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me
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I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

Want a free copy of my book? Follow me => http://Facebook.com/AEAseem then message me so I can message you a free copy.

I know my wife is out there somewhere, as creative as me, as inappropriatly goofy as me, as health conscious, athletic, intelligent & spiritual as me, loves children like me & abstinent while single until marriage just like me. 💍👰🏿💒 #EbrahimAseem I know she wants me to be preparing for her right now, not behaving like a male whore while single, sleeping with every girl on Instagram & Snap Chat. #EbrahimAseem My sisters taught me to be LOYAL to my wife even before we meet. So I won't waste her time stringing her along. I will court her, marry her & daily reassure her I want only her for infinity forevers. I want the same for all the 1000s of young men I #SpeakLife into every week. There are millions of good men like us bro & we deserve to be husbands & fathers, not baby daddies. #‎EbrahimAseem‬ #AtWorkCooking #SeafoodPasta #12HourShift #BowTieChef 🍤🍝🍴

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Why men cheat on a beautiful WIFE

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When I get my wife, I will kiss, bite & massage every inch of her body. Play in her hair & massage her scalp as I rub all over her curves, just so the whole world knows I’m only hers. #EbrahimAseem I don’t get how husbands can get bored & complacent with their wife. But when I’m blessed with a love who’s true, I will say I do & consistently pour affection, providing & protection into her for life.

A man can have a beautiful wife, intelligent, career, cooks, cleans, takes care of home, him & his children, would do anything to please him in bed, yet he will still cheat on her with a random girl he met online. There is nothing wrong with her. Husbands cheat on beautiful wives to gain the confidence he never had from her brokeness.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

Cheating is for insecure cowards. It’s not about sex. If it were, cheaters would just remain single to sleep with as many as they wanted. Then it wouldn’t be “cheating”. Cheating is about control. Filling insecurity. #EbrahimAseem

Cheating is to hold a loyal person’s heart hostage, while one behaves single. They could just end the relationship to sleep around, but they WANT to stay committed & make you suffer to gain power from your pain. #EbrahimAseem

Men confess to me they insecurely cheat because they secretly feel they don’t deserve their genuine woman. He wants her to leave, so he doesn’t have to be the bad guy & leave her first. But she stays. #EbrahimAseem

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A woman whose loyalty is taken for granted will question herself like:
“what is wrong with me?
Am I not I’m pretty enough?
Is my ass not curvy and fat enough for him?
Is my stomach not slim enough for him?
Is it because I won’t let him bring another girl in the bedroom with us?
Is it my smart mouth?
Is it that I’m always “over emotional” like he
complains?
What aren’t I doing right?
Should I do more?” #EbrahimAseem

Then she will stay in the marriage to PROVE to him she is better than the girl he cheated on her with. To prove to herself she didn’t mary the wrong one or get married too fast. To prove she can help him by help changing a bad boy into a good man, fooling herself. This is reverse psychology. #EbrahimAseem

Males use cheating to TRICK a good woman way out of his league into SETTLING for him. #EbrahimAseem But this mind game many males play on their wives cannot and will not work on a Loyal woman who knows her WORTH.

He married you not for love, but to use you as his confidence boost. Now his insecure ass can attract the InstaModel type girls who turned him down in high school. #EbrahimAseem Leave a serial cheater. If he never had a man in his life to teach him how to be one, he can never be the providing, leader you & your children deserve.

Staying loyal to a cheater gives them no incentive to ever stop cheating on you. #EbrahimAseem A cheater can never love a person who stays loyal to them. Seeing you lose your self worth is the biggest turn off ever.

It’s not your job to teach a boy how to be a man, listen, understand & comfort you. Don’t get “being his wife” confused with “being his mother”. #EbrahimAseem Some of y’all wives are adopting grown ass men.

Stop entertaining a man you don’t want your son to grow up to become. Your daughter will grow up to accept cheating & disrespect from men if you continue to let her see you being more loyal to an inconsistent man than you are to your own self-worth. #EbrahimAseem

Women get so wrapped up in a man, hen it’s all over, she doesn’t even have her self-love to go back to. #EbrahimAseem Be more loyal to your integrity than his inconsistency.

What’s hardest for a woman isn’t losing him. It’s forgiving herself or falling in love with his potential, knowing damn well she saw the warning signs & his inconsistency. #EbrahimAseem

A wife isn’t a woman who just cooks, cleans & obeys her husband. A wife is married to her ambitions. In mental matrimony with her mind. Loyal to her integrity. If I can’t support her and love, I don’t deserve her. #EbrahimAseem

When I get my wife, I will daily get on one knee to trEAT her pearls of wisdom like soul food & swallow every drop of her intellect as she feeds me food for thought. Never get bored with your woman. #EbrahimAseem

These online girls can’t compete with the affection, support & growth our woman gives. Let’s stop lusting after these Instamodels & give all that attention & romantic words to that one woman who’s been loyal to us. #EbrahimAseem

What hurts her most isn’t your lies or the cold way you treated her. It’s that she saw it all coming & ignored her mind to take a chance on marrying you. #EbrahimAseem

If you’re not ready to commit to one woman, man up & tell her. Don’t lie have a sweet, intelligent, loyal woman out here thinking she’s your one & only. #EbrahimAseem

Once we find that one woman who wants nothing from us, but to be our peace & support our ambitions, men let’s show her she no longer has to keep her guard up, by earning her trust & making her our one and only. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me

I want a sweet woman. A woman who cares. I want an affectionate woman who likes to cuddle 💏 pinch my cheeks, rub my beard, rub her feet on my leg, poke me in my arm repeatedly, only so I'll grab her & tickle her until her pretty, bright smile shines like the midnight moon 🌙 #EbrahimAseem I want a woman who cares so much, about animals, nature life, who will treat my dog like she's her own child. Who I can surprise at work with 1-800 Flowers & chocolate 💐💝 & she won't think it's corny. A woman I can take to the beach at night & gaze at the stars with, while I rub her feet & recite poetry to her 🏊 #EbrahimAseem I want a nerdy women who likes random facts, animal planet & the universe. 🌌🌠 I want a sweet woman who likes home decor & picking out patterns for my living room. #EbrahimAseem Let’s have a mall date, I’ll take your pretty ass to Sephora for an hour-long shopping spree. You can get whatever you like on me 💄💅👜💳 get pretty for our dinner & opera date that night 🍝🍤🍷🎭 #EbrahimAseem I want a sweet girl I can take to a Jill Scott concert, a comedy show, to hear live jazz. 🎤🎶🎷 #EbrahimAseem Let’s have bbq lunches in the park & dates to the zoo. 🐼🐯🐻🐒 I'm kid at heart. I want to wife a Woman who'd let me bring my lil niece on a date WITH us to the aquarium, paintballing, or the park for a water balloon & water gun fight. #EbrahimAseem I love to laugh & have fun & I need that in a Woman. I want a sweet girl with an old soul who has so much love & affection to give. I have dated the self proclaimed "bad bitch" before, & I must confess, their pretty, sexy, fine, curvy asses bored the hell out of me. #EbrahimAseem Silly, goofy, sweet, corny, nerdy, healthy, home designing, wedding shower planning, baby fever having women are everything life has to offer. I just want to give her two rings, two children and two yorkies, two trips overseas per year, two cars, but most of all, I want to give her two words, I do. 👰💍💒👪 #EbrahimAseem & every real man wants a sweet woman too. poetry from my million views article, "Why Men choose bad bitches over Sweet Women" Link in my bio. omw to speak this message to 230 men who want to be husbands. #EbrahimAseem #EbrahimAseemSelfie

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My mother raised a future husband 👉🏾💍👰🏾 not a future baby daddy. #tbt I'm tired of “talking”. Being in a relationship where the sex is so damn good, but there’s no growth or courtship is a waste to me. #EbrahimAseem I see your fine ass has curves, but are you nurturing? Kind? Patient? Spiritual? Goofy? Good with children? Finances? Home decor? I don’t date for a hobby. If we aren’t planning for forever I have no interest. #EbrahimAseem What are your passions? Goals? Can WE stimulate each other's spirit? Promote each other's growth? align each others chakras? activate each others pineal gland? I don't care if you can twerk 💃🏾 or back that ass up 😒 #EbrahimAseem Can we dine on each other's frequency as you digest knowledge my food for thought feeds your mind? What type of mother will you be? Where do you want to raise a family? Men, let's stop asking these women for pics, ask if she’s a WIFE. Men let's behave loyal to our self worth before we even say I do. #EbrahimAseem I can imagine being married. Having children, spending time with them, Playing with them & making them laugh, teaching them about life, instilling confidence & self worth before giving them piggyback rides. Having a wife, spoiling her with love and attention, Being goofy with her, making her laugh & smile every second I spend with her. Providing for my family. #EbrahimAseem I honestly pray I have all this before my moms gets too old to enjoy a daughter-in-law & grandchildren. Everytime I see my moms, she talks about wanting grandchildren & saying she raised me to be a husband. Because I was raised by a queen, I know for sure, I am not looking for a girlfriend to date, I am looking for a wife to court, marry & raise children with. #EbrahimAseem Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY #Excerpt from #WhyNoManShouldDATEaSingleMother #MARRYher 💍👰🏾 #OrDontWasteHerTime Link in my bio.

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Why men don’t APPROACH you sweet women. Only InstaModels.

If he cared, he'd pursue you. #EbrahimAseem Link to full article in my bio.

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The most Beautiful Women hardly get approached

while easy *hoes & InstaModels get asked for their number everyday. Men we must step it up! It’s not a woman’s job to chase you. Be confident enough to approach a beautiful, successful Woman in real life. Not just on Instagram.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Beautiful Women are the most humble, intelligent, funny & down to earth. She’s not stuck-up. She doesn’t have an attitude. She just knows if you have nothing new to offer her mind. #EbrahimAseem Sending her a DM like, “hey sexy ;)” does not count as approaching.

This is how you successfully approach a woman:

When you first see a woman out in public, use non-verbal communication to start. Never pick up lines. Smile & give her THE LOOK by making eye contact with her eyes, not her ass & boobs. This will make her smile & cheese uncontrollably. #EbrahimAseem

Women can’t resist a confident man
with pretty eyes, nice teeth, a nice SLIGHT smile, humor, respect & the confidence of an asshole.

When you approach a woman,
Do not yell out:
“Aye!”
“Aye shawty!”
“Hey babe!”
“DAMN ma let me talk to you foe a minute?”
“Mess wit ya boy”
“I can change yo life mami”
“You’re such a bad bitch.”

Approach her with respect, because
If she has a beautiful soul & self respect, she won’t accept anything less.

WALK UP to her. Don’t holler at her from blocks away. Do not speak loud, yell, talk weird, or cause a huge seen, so everyone knows you’re approaching her. Don’t tell her “slow down.” You keep up. Say, “I pray you have a day as beautiful as your smile.” Then walk away. You just made her day. #EbrahimAseem She’ll smile through all her stress because of you. Now, the next time you see her, she’ll want nothing more than for you to ask for her number.

Respectfully & confidently approach her & say “Excuse me, my name is ____ , may I ask you’re name?”

Be mindful, you’re interrupting her life. Being respectful, polite & considerate, showing you care about how she is feeling will give her the chance to warm up to you. #EbrahimAseem A woman knows within the first five seconds of meeting a man if she would date you, sex you, or even marry you.

Be extremely confident! She wants to know she’s in the presence of a MAN
Who knows how to take self-control. Keep her on her toes. Be humorous. Well groomed. Fresh cut, Fitted & fly. #EbrahimAseem Not nappy, sagging & sloppy. Hygiene on point. Cologne game on point. Teeth white, smile bright. Fingernails clean & clipped. Girls get offend when a man approaches her with body odor, dirty fingernails, breath smelling like ass & hot chips. Your goal is to stimulate all five of her senses before you fully approach.

Complement HER, not her body.
Look in her EYES the whole time you talk to her.

Tell her, “I want to converse with you so I can see if your conversation is as beautiful as your facial features.” #EbrahimAseem

Make her LAUGH. If you can’t make a woman laugh uncontrollably, she will feel you are wasting her time.

Log off all these social networks, go out & approach a woman right now! Today bro! Take her out on a real date, where you plan & pay for everything. In REAL life tho. Don’t rely on social networks to get to know a woman. Beautiful Women do not take these social networks seriously. It’s purely entertainment when she’s bored. She has a LIFE outside this.

Get to know her outside of these social networks & Instagram pics, because there is so much more to a woman than her appearance.

Here are 5 reasons
why men don’t APPROACH sweet women. Only InstaModels.:

#1 Your mean ass looks unapproachable.

If you’re always on your phone, mugging, irritated or in deep thought, you will come off unapproachable to a man.

InstaModels aren’t afraid to expose themselves & be vulnerable. While their promiscuity turns men of valor off, the fact they’re comfortable in their skin & don’t take life too seriously is rather appealing. So lighten up. Put your phone away. Smile. Even if you have to laugh at all those tacky hoes in tacky clothes as they walk by. Your smile & goofiness makes you irresistible to your dream man. #EbrahimAseem

#2 He’s intimidated by your beauty.

One woman asked me, “Guys think I must have all these guys drooling over me, because I’m so pretty. So why am I single? While these kangaroo looking females with ass injections are getting married?”

It’s simple. They expose their self. Flaws & all. But you, your beauty is intimidating. Not your physical beauty. Your inner beauty. You never show flaws & weakness. Always appear to have it all together, even when you’re dying inside. It’s a turn off to men when women hide imperfections. Or act like they “don’t need a man.” You’re so beautiful, but what about the insecure you? The self doubting you? The over emotional, over thinker? Open up. Let your guard down. Be a little more unbeautiful. #EbrahimAseem

Only entertain men you want your son to grow to become. – Ebrahim Aseem

No man wants to raise another man’s kids. This LIE is why single mothers feel they must settle for half ass time, half ass effort from half ass men who’ll accept her. Silly rabbit. It’s not your children that scare men away. The leader, providing men you want, see you taking care of grown ass little boys treating them like a king, letting him live off you. It makes a real man feel you don’t value him enough to date men on HIS level. #EbrahimAseem Value yourself. Only entertain men you want your son to grow to become. A real man will love you & your child as his own. IG: @Fuel4TheBody

#4 Successful women turn men off.

You’re too educated. Too career oriented. Too successful, that’s why men don’t approach you. Bullshit. You’re too independent. You don’t need a man. That’s a turn off to a provider, who wants to spoil you sometimes. Let a man be a man. Don’t always correct him with your highly educated, degree having ass. He loves your degree, success & the fact you got your own, but let him treat you. Cater to you. Massage you. Let a man be a man. #EbrahimAseem

#5 You’re Booty isn’t curvy enough.

I don’t think you women know how gorgeous you really are, because you trip off InstaModels & Video Vixens who make you feel you must be super curvy with massive ass & a flat, size zero waist, or Victoria Secret models who show you to lose weight & have zero cellulite. #EbrahimAseem

If you’re thick, love your curves. If you’re petite, love your frame. There is no mold to beauty. You ARE the mold. A work of art sculpted to be your unique version of beautiful. #EbrahimAseem Look at that beautiful soul staring back at you in the mirror & say, “You are beautiful.”

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Bae Tour: Man up & COURT her. It’s not a woman’s job to pursue you bruh.

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Bae tour: sexual vacation paid for by one of one’s multiple side hoes.

That girl on Instagram taking pics in Bora Bora, Greece, Miami & Belize. No job. Living rent free in her mom’s house. She’s not paying for those trips or flights. She’s inboxing guys in those cities. Flirting & “talking” until he flies her out for a paid baecation, for sex & sight-seeing. Once she hops off the D, she hops on the next flight. Another city the next day. Another bae the next night. How many of your followers have you or your man flown out to have sex this year?

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Ladies, listen. If your man is inconsistent with you, yet consistently pouring affection into girls in his phone, he has hoes. Baes in different area codes. When he’s not texting you back, he’s texting his InstaCrush, or the new girl who messaged him on snap chat. #EbrahimAseem When an inconsistent guy short texts you, starves you of time, he’s lost interest in you & another girl in another area code has his interest, time & effort.

Type in your man’s local airport code in his phone’s Google search. A list of all his most current flights will appear, cataloging his bae tours. Busted. #EbrahimAseem

Girls who bae tour save the guy’s name in their phone under the city he flew her out to. So when her girl asks, “how was Atlanta?” and she says “girl it was a LONG flight that put me right to sleep” she’s talking about the guy’s sex game.#EbrahimAseem

Insecure guys & girls feel they need multiple baes & a main on the side, to evaporate every drop of insecurity & past heartbreak. #EbrahimAseem They know if they make a girl feel she must compete for his time & starve her if effort, she will stay loyal to him longer & fight harder to prove to him & herself she deserves his attention.

This is why they have multiple baes, all loyal to him. Breaking a genuine woman’s heart fills an inadequate male with false confidence. #EbrahimAseem He just got the woman who is too good for him to feel just as broken inside as he feels. What a soul vampire.

Ladies quit “talking” & require a man to court you. It goes, (1) Date: go on a couple dates to get to know th. (2) Court: Exclusive commitment to see compatibility. (3) Relationship: Faithful commitment with one you plan to marry. (4) engagement: life planning with your fiancée. (5) Marriage: building an empire with your soul mate. #EbrahimAseem

Courtship should be a prerequisite to a woman giving a man her loyalty & intimacy. #EbrahimAseem But you can’t “make” him court you. If he doesn’t value you enough to do so without being told, free him & let him be another woman’s problem. Some of y’all women are adopting grown ass men.

Guys don’t court, because women don’t make it a requirement. If you had sex with him before he took you out on a date, you’re the reason men don’t court. #EbrahimAseem If you made him a father before he made you his date, you’re the reason men don’t court.

A woman who values herself is so damn attractive & unstopable 😩👏🏾👸🏾👌🏾 #CommitToHer #EbrahimAseem

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Man up & COURT her. It’s not a woman’s job to pursue you bruh. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t ask her to chill. Say “I plan to take you out on a date for live music, fresh pasta & conversing. What time can I pick you up?” Court her. #EbrahimAseem

Court her, meaning match her level of giving. Don’t give more. Don’t give less. Don’t be too nice. Don’t be too mean. Be the yang to her yin, completion. #EbrahimAseem

Taking a giving woman out on a date isn’t being a simp. Courtship is a two-way street. She’d love to treat you to a date. Pay to get your hair lined. Pick out clothes to keep you fresh & fitted. She just wants to know you’re willing to reciprocate all she has to offer you. #EbrahimAseem

If you're blessed with a supportive love, adore them. #EbrahimAseem

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If she’s selfish & using, delete her number from your phone. Do not court her. But if she’s giving, supportive & respects your manhood, call her right now & say,

“I want to learn you. Be fluent in your thoughts. Understand the enigma you are. Travel galaxies inside your mind. Let me court you. #EbrahimAseem

A moon’s job is to orbit a planet & keep its frequency aligned. That’s why I frequently encircle you with affirmation, so your beautiful mind stays aligned with the most high. #EbrahimAseem

It’s not because you look so fine, lips taste like wine. It’s b/c you are the moon that calms the waves of my spirit. You shine so bright, moon you’re my vision. #EbrahimAseem

Let me be the moon to eclipse your anxiety with my reassurance my dearest. Twin flame, let me be the moon to align you back to your goals, calm your fears, erase your self doubts. #EbrahimAseem

My love, I know you have visions & premonitions no one ever gets told. You’re not weird. You’re a beautiful enigma. I understand the complexity of your soul. #EbrahimAseem

I don’t expect you to abruptly let go of that thing currently brining you pain, take your time. I just want you to see I care for you in a place where there is no space or time. #EbrahimAseem

I want to take you to Broadway shows. Talk astrology with you. Converse about other life forms in our universe. I want to grow to understand the galaxy you are. #EbrahimAseem I want to take you on a library date, buy you a book, then sit on the beach, cuddle up & read to each other.

I love your beautiful vibration. Stars fly across our sky for a reason. To answer prayers. We flew into each other’s life, because we prayed for one another. #EbrahimAseem

I want you to know, you don’t have to deal with all this weight alone anymore. Let me help you with it all. Let me court you. #EbrahimAseem

My future wife & child’s mother isn’t a bad bitch. I’m not attracted to curves & twerk videos. I’m attracted to nurturing women who can be an example of self-worth & integrity. #EbrahimAseem I don’t need a bae tour.

Women being attracted to spiritual men who are abstinent until marriage is coming back in style soon. I can feel it.

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Why it’s so HARD for women to TRUST

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What’s hardest for a woman isn’t losing her EX or trusting her next man. It’s forgiving her SELF for falling in love with his potential, knowing damn well she saw warning signs & his inconsistency. #EbrahimAseem

The man he is when you meet him is the same man he will be in the future. #EbrahimAseem Stop wasting years & tears waiting for that neglecting, cheating, can’t text back but can like 157 girls pics on Instagram ass lame to change for you. Men don’t change for a woman. A man changes for himself & grows for his self love.

Stop texting him heart emojis all day & start asking these men about their relationship goals. Ask him these 5 questions:

What’s the worst thing you did wrong in your last relationship that you don’t want to repeat? #EbrahimAseem

What’s one thing all your EXs complain about you? #EbrahimAseem

How many months would you date a woman before letting her know if you’d marry her or not? #EbrahimAseem

How do you react when someone makes you mad? #EbrahimAseem

What’s your biggest flaw you want to overcome before your birthday?

Men don’t “switch up”. Girls just fall for a guys’ looks & strengths before viewing his red flags.

It’s so hard for women to trust again, because they see the good in everyone, see who liked their pics, yet can’t seem to see the warning signs in the lame ass boys they’re attracted to. #EbrahimAseem Be loyal to your intuition. Trust what you see over a man’s words. Listen to his actions.

Time. If a man cared, he’d call or come see you, take you out & give you his time without you having to ask. He doesn’t give you his time, because he’s busy giving it to the woman he’s really interested in. Move on & stop being in a relationship with your feelings. #EbrahimAseem

Effort. If you have to beg him for effort or beg him to tell you “what are we?” you’re really begging him to be his side chick. Men only pour effort into a woman he sees a future with. #EbrahimAseem

Cheating: Men only view themselves as either married, or single. We don’t take girlfriends too seriously. So, if he he doesn’t mention long term commitment with you, he’s is entertaining & texting other women in his phone. #EbrahimAseem

In order to destroy your trust issues, forgive yourself for all times you were more loyal to an inconsistent man than you were to your intuition. Then never disobey your intuition again. And for the love of the beauty in your mirror, stop crawling back to what broke you. #EbrahimAseem

If he can disrespect, cheat, starve you of time, attention & commitment & you still stay loyal to him, you’re teaching him to never value you, because he can neglect you & still get your all. #EbrahimAseem

If she’s a supportive woman fighting so hard to trust again, don’t demand her to trust you. Earn her trust. Tell her.

“I just wanna love you until you glow so much, people notice growth. Until the shine of your smile eclipses your fears. I wanna be your peace.” #EbrahimAseem

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How all Women are influenced by the MOON

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The MOON is not just earth’s beautiful guardian spirit.

Our moon aligns the soul ordained to travel through a woman every 28 days, souls praying to be born into this realm. This purifies a woman’s spirit monthly. Our powerful moon Yerah intrinsically activates the Pineal Gland in men & women, provoking mental ascension.

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The female pineal gland is the portal all souls travel through to enter into this realm from the celestial zone.

This is why I respect women so much. Every month she cries, laying on the floor, passes out, comes out her clothes, enduring the cramps & all the pain of her period in order to bring us into this world.

So the next time you think about calling her a bitch, or complain about her being too “emotional” consider all she has to go through, that’s what your mother went through.

When a woman is coming off her period, she is very sexually frustrated. During her menstrual cycle, it can feel like HELL. Be understanding of her emotions. It feels like her vagina is being pierced, shot & stabbed, hence her irritability.

Once she comes off, she longs for the feeling of vaginal stimulation. As men, we have to understanding & cater to our woman, mind & body.

It is unmanly & ignorant to make fun of a woman’s cycle. Her cycle is the history of your soul’s exodus from heaven & your journey into this dream called “life”.

A woman is like the moon. #Poem by: #EbrahimAseem 🌒🌓🌕🌘 #CRTC #BloodMoon #Moon

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Our souls are perforated, only half when born. We are in this life to find our soul’s twin flame) and become whole, leading to mental awakening. True love is the recognition of our soul’s counter part in another. Your twin flame does not have to be a sexual partner, it can be your nana, parent, sibling or child.

When your body sleeps, your spirit travels the universe, searching for its twin flame. The moon guides your spirit there and back to your body, saving your life every night.

We are not in our bodies. Our spirit hovers, orbiting around & through our body, like a moon. Just as the moon draws the ocean’s tide in & out, the moon connects with yiur pineal gland, to draw out the tides of stress rolling in. She renews herself every 28 days & will renew you once you become more intune with her, the Mother Soul Cell Fundemental Principle.

It’s attractive to me when a woman talks to herself, even when she’s mad. I’m talking full-blown conversing with herself in the car or bathroom. To the point she starts laying at her own jokes or answering her own questions. She’s not “bipolar”. #EbrahimAseem

She’s aware there are two of her. The spirit of her soul (our true self) and the spirit of her flesh/emotions (our persona). Wheel within a wheel. She knows she is a powerful spirit that dictates to her emotions & doesn’t allow her emotions to control her. #EbrahimAseem

Before the inception of Julius Cesar’s solar calendar, each year was divided into 13 moon cycles, with 28 days each. The 1% of the population that owns 99% of the wealth acquired such wealth by monopolizing 99% of the knowledge.

That 1% withholds the keys to the great secrets of esoteric knowledge, distracting us with vain forms of technology and entertainment, like cell phones, reality shows, movies & internet, to keep us mentally sleep. We are fooled into giving amazing forms of entertainment and technology, like the device you are reading this on right now, our full, undivided attention while our brain is on auto-pilot. We have become sleep walkers without a bed. The mental walking dead.

Despite this, our moon is moving us into the current cosmic age of Aquarius, which is harnessing all the great turmoil (war, genocide, disease scares) to make room for new age, sparking an evolution of consciousness, virtues of love, unity, self-awareness, pineal gland activation, chakra alignment and mental ascension. This is an astrological age that takes place about every 2,150 years, each year being 13 moon cycles.

Your brain cells posses the cellular ability to attract like matter. Thoughts are things. Anything or anyone you want in or out of your life, you can attract or repel with your mind. Just as our moon has the power to move the waves in the sea ebb and flow to the sand, we have the power to move mountains with our mind, literally. Mind over matter. #EbrahimAseem

The moon feeds us both frequency, and day light, unassisted by the sun, which is only a combination of infrared red, gamma rays, ultra violet rays & heat.

It’s not just women. It’s men, and even animals, planets, oceans & rivers. Every planet has a moon or moons that orbit it & communicate with the matter on that specific planet. Like matter attracts like matter. It’s fun to research for your self when you have time.

It is important we start valuing our women more on this realm, they were divinely chosen not only to be the vessels of life as mothers, but to be the portals of metaphysical power, as our liaison with the moon & heavens.

It is not your job to keep belittling her, putting her down, calling her names & making fun of everything about her you don’t understand.

Instead of telling our women, “stop being such a crazy, over-emotional bitch on your period” let’s start telling our women,

“When will you awaken to the realization that your smile is meant to be permanent. You flash it like a camera, but it was meant to be a light. Moon you shine so bright, and I’m the spark that was put into your life, for me to make you my wife, into your soul, speaking life. Let go, allow our souls to ignite.”

Kings, be encouraged the fashion of thought you posses, will attract a queen who is a WORK of ART to you like a Magnet. Men like yourself, & millions of other MEN are living proof that MEN indeed value a woman. #EbrahimAseem If you have your eye on a queen, tell her this the above.

Equally yoked unions with reciprocal mental accession & intellectual conception ensures true love will come to fruition.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
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No nigga will WIFE a Woman with CHILDREN for miles.

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No nigga will WIFE a Woman with children for miles.

But a mentally mature man will.

See, that’s the difference between a “self-proclaimed nigga” & a MAN. An immature ‘nigga’ flees responsibility of a child, because he’s a child himself. He considers watching his child “babysitting”. A confident ‘man’ is not scared to be a father, he embraces it. He’s a born leader. #EbrahimAseem A King wants a QUEEN & a princess baby.

Now as a woman, if you keep choosing to entertain “niggas” because that’s your “type”, you will live a lonely ass life, raising your son to see you dogged. This is how “niggas” are made, they are baby boys born & raised by women who constantly put the desire-of-dick over the love of her child. #EbrahimAseem Props to the real mothers who love their child more than life itself.

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If I like you, I don’t want you to hide the fact you have children from me. I don’t want to see countless booty poking pictures on your Instagram, while all the pictures of you & your child are deleted. Your sexiest curves are your dimples & smiles, while you celebrate a fun day spent with your child. #EbrahimAseem

Your children are not a relationship deal breaker. They are irresponsible-male-repelant. Don’t hide your children, flaunt them. #EbrahimAseem Wave them like a flag, so only men of valor with aspirations of being a father will enter your world, claiming you as his queen, & your children as your own.

Teach your son how to respect & treat a woman by requiring me to court you for a while, before you give me your intimacy. #EbrahimAseem Teach your daughter how to be loyal to her worth by requiring I show with actions I know your worth, before you give me your loyalty.

You are not damaged goods, just because you have a body full of stretch marks and a child. #EbrahimAseem You are an affectionate nurturer who knows how to cater to a good man, your motherhood experience makes you worthwhile.

Court her. Just spoke these words to 115 teen mom abuse survivors. #SpeakLife #SingleMother #EbrahimAseem

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A woman who puts her children first over me, makes me want to make her & her children my first priority. #EbrahimAseem

I know you sacrifice so much of yourself to give to your family & your struggles nearly drive you insane. #EbrahimAseem You deserve a faithful man who will listen, understand you, and give you his all, just the same.

If you’re a woman who’s all about your child, I will be all about you, constantly bringing you joy & smiles. But nothing turns me off more than a selfish woman who puts the desire of dick over her child. #EbrahimAseem

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To all the Beautiful spirited Single Women I want you to remember, you are WIFE material. Just because you’ve made the mistake of giving your heart to weak-minded males in your past over & over who have chewed it up, spit it out, broke your trust & trampled over your loyalty: it does not change the fact you are wife material, remember that. #EbrahimAseem Stay focused bettering yourself, hustling for your career path, fueling your ambitions & stacking for your future. Be patient. You will mos def be blessed with a Strong, Tall, spiritual, faithful, humorous, affectionate, Handsome Man of valor, who will place a ring on your finger & make you the wife you deserve to be. #EbrahimAseem I pray you have a great day as beautiful as your giving spirit is deep inside Ms. Future Bride. I wake up at 4am daily, work at 5am, 12hour shift as a chef, M-Th, #SpeakLife motivational speaking on the weekends grinding for my future. I want a wife & children, so I'm stacking for them now, married toy purpose so when it's time, I will be ready. #EbrahimAseem This is your #GMText

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I know my wife is out there somewhere, as creative as me, as inappropriatly goofy as me, as health conscious, athletic, intelligent & spiritual as me, loves children like me & abstinent while single until marriage just like me. 💍👰🏿💒 #EbrahimAseem I know she wants me to be preparing for her right now, not behaving like a male whore while single, sleeping with every girl on Instagram & Snap Chat. #EbrahimAseem My sisters taught me to be LOYAL to my wife even before we meet. So I won't waste her time stringing her along. I will court her, marry her & daily reassure her I want only her for infinity forevers. I want the same for all the 1000s of young men I #SpeakLife into every week. There are millions of good men like us bro & we deserve to be husbands & fathers, not baby daddies. #‎EbrahimAseem‬ #AtWorkCooking #SeafoodPasta #12HourShift #BowTieChef 🍤🍝🍴

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The ignorance of Jada’s “walk 3 Steps BEHIND your king” theory.

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#jadapinkettsmith #love #king #queen #relationship

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The ignorance people have of Jada Pinkett Smith’s ‘always walk three steps behind your king’ theory, is people ignore when she says, “If I stand beside my king, I can ONLY focus on what’s ahead.” Jada’s words are wisdom.

Some women only focus on ‘what’s ahead’, ‘standing beside’ his potential. They ignore the red flags they see, inconsistency he shows, his lies & her intuition. #EbrahimAseem

His EX is still texting him. He walks in the other room, blushing when on the phone with his child’s mother. He’s more romantic & flirtatious with half-naked Instamodels than he ever is with you. You don’t hear from him days at a time, but your focus is on “what’s ahead”. When will girls learn, complacency has NO potential. How inconsistent a man treats you now is how he will treat you down the line. #EbrahimAseem

Girls will see red flags & stay years waiting on a man to reach potential. Stop being more loyal to his empty promises than you are to your intuition. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Jada ‘walking three steps behind him’, is not submissiveness nor servitude. It is a metaphor for observing a man’s actions, consistency, ability to lead himself & potential red flags, BEFORE shifting your eyes to his great potential. Stop walking “side by side” with inconsistency. #EbrahimAseem

Potential. Excerpt from my new article. Link in my bio. #EbrahimAseem

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Jada trusts her king so much, ONLY because she trusts her discernment in her choices. A virtuous woman is submissive to her intuition. She’s more obedient to her standards than she is to a narcissistic man. #EbrahimAseem

Some independent women may cringe when wife caliber women use “king” to refer to a man. Independent women don’t need a man. They have their own. Pay their own way. Good for them, and their 57 cats.

There is no self-love in being an independent woman or man. Being SELF DEPENDENT promotes growth. Whereas (i)ndependent “i” represents the physical body. “Self” is the spirit you are inside the body. #EbrahimAseem

We need people. Our grandma’s hug. Our bosses check. The millions of farmers who grow the food we eat. Just because you’ve always HAD to depend on you, because no one else was there, doesn’t mean you have to do everything independently forever.

I pray I’m blessed to marry a self-dependent woman who’s not too “independent” to let me love her & provide for us. When did it become bad to need someone? Just because you make your own money does not mean you don’t need company. Companionship. Reassurance. Affection. Someone to make you laugh. Take the edge off your stressful life. #EbrahimAseem

You deserve someone who will just listen. Not judge you. Not try to “fix” you, because you aren’t broken. Having a man does not define you as a woman. You don’t have to submit yourself to an inconsistent man. You don’t have to bow down & worship a man to be his wife. #EbrahimAseem

A wife isn’t a woman who just cooks, cleans & obeys her husband. A “wife” is a woman married to her ambitions. In mental matrimony with her mind. Submissive to her integrity & loyal to her grind. If we can’t support her self love, we don’t deserve her. #EbrahimAseem

The reason she doesn’t submit to you is, because she doesn’t trust your ability to lead her. You can’t even lead yourself. It’s not a woman’s job to trust & be loyal to a man, just because he can throw it down in bed. It’s our job as men to show a woman with consistent actions & leadership ability why we deserve her loyalty. #EbrahimAseem

She’s loyal, not stupid. What complacent males don’t realize is, once a loyal woman realizes we don’t support her, value her & give our all to her like she does to us, she’s gone.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
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“Why no man should dat a single mother”
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This is why no man should "date" a single mother, MARRY that single mother, make your intentions with her known by courting her, or don’t even waste her time. #EbrahimAseem If you’re not ready to faithfully commit to her, by all means, keep your substance-lacking side pieces & keep playing, but be honest with her. Don’t act interested, get her pregnant, then leave her to raise a child alone. #EbrahimAseem Don't hold back her blessings, playing a role another man is meant to have in her life, by making her his wife. #EbrahimAseem Don’t string any woman along, planting feelings in her heart & empty promises in her mind, when you know damn well you don’t see her in your #Future. #EbrahimAseem Don’t demand her loyalty without offering her commitment, because her loyalty is to her child. A woman & her child are a package deal. If you date a single mother & her child gets attached to you, then you leave, it will crush that child. It will give that child abandonment issues lasting a lifetime, effecting their future relationships. #EbrahimAseem I will make a woman a wife before I make her a mother, because my mother raised a future husband & father, not a future baby daddy. #EbrahimAseem Link to this full 2 million views article in my bio. Read it ASAP! #Ciara #RussellWilson

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To all the Beautiful spirited Single Women I want you to remember, you are WIFE material. Just because you’ve made the mistake of giving your heart to weak-minded males in your past over & over who have chewed it up, spit it out, broke your trust & trampled over your loyalty: it does not change the fact you are wife material, remember that. #EbrahimAseem Stay focused bettering yourself, hustling for your career path, fueling your ambitions & stacking for your future. Be patient. You will mos def be blessed with a Strong, Tall, spiritual, faithful, humorous, affectionate, Handsome Man of valor, who will place a ring on your finger & make you the wife you deserve to be. #EbrahimAseem I pray you have a great day as beautiful as your giving spirit is deep inside Ms. Future Bride. I wake up at 4am daily, work at 5am, 12hour shift as a chef, M-Th, #SpeakLife motivational speaking on the weekends grinding for my future. I want a wife & children, so I'm stacking for them now, married toy purpose so when it's time, I will be ready. #EbrahimAseem This is your #GMText

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I know my wife is out there somewhere, as creative as me, as inappropriatly goofy as me, as health conscious, athletic, intelligent & spiritual as me, loves children like me & abstinent while single until marriage just like me. 💍👰🏿💒 #EbrahimAseem I know she wants me to be preparing for her right now, not behaving like a male whore while single, sleeping with every girl on Instagram & Snap Chat. #EbrahimAseem My sisters taught me to be LOYAL to my wife even before we meet. So I won't waste her time stringing her along. I will court her, marry her & daily reassure her I want only her for infinity forevers. I want the same for all the 1000s of young men I #SpeakLife into every week. There are millions of good men like us bro & we deserve to be husbands & fathers, not baby daddies. #‎EbrahimAseem‬ #AtWorkCooking #SeafoodPasta #12HourShift #BowTieChef 🍤🍝🍴

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ALL men CHEAT at some point. A Ride-or-Die let’s him have side chicks.

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Let’s be honest. All men cheat at some point. A ride-or-die bitch let’s him have side chicks,” >a Jamaican pre-law student professed during my speaking event at her sorority sponsored co-ed luncheon, “just as long as he’s not out here making her look stupid. Taking the side chick on dates to Five Guys, liking her pics when he never likes my selfies, posting pictures of her & him together on Instagram as his #wcw If you find a down ass ride or die chick, who’ll love you at your worst, why do you men play her & leave her for the most ugliest, mud duck looking female with no degree, career or intelligence. I swear I don’t get men Ebrahim.”

“I couldn’t disagree more,” I said.

If you find a loyal girl who’s willing to stay after you destroy her, pick up the pieces after you cheat on her & break her & endure hell just to keep the relationship going, don’t break her. Leave her, because she doesn’t love you. She’s enabling you. She’s using your presence in her life for the lack of self-love in her heart. By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”

A self-loving woman loves you too much to settle for you at your worst, because she sees your greatness, spots your potential & will give her all to encourage the leader you are. #EbrahimAseem

Men, we can’t be fooled to think these “ride or die” girls who stay “loyal” after we put her through hell really loves us. A girl who stays loyal to your inconsistencies & never calls out your mistakes has no investment in your growth. #EbrahimAseem She intentionally holds back your growth so you won’t out grow her & leave her.

All men do not cheat. Hold us men to a higher standard. Cheating is for insecure cowards. It is NOT about sex. If it were, cheaters would just remain single to sleep with as many women as they wanted, then it wouldn’t be cheating. Cheating is about control. Filling their insecurity by breaking your trust. Cheating is to hold a loyal person’s heart hostage, while one behaves single. They could just leave you to sleep around, but they WANT to stay committed, make you suffer to gain power from your pain through a soul tie.

Manhood goals. #EbrahimAseem

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I want to wife a woman who loves a man so much, she will respectfully tell him he’s wrong to his face, because she loves his soul & wants to help him mature it. #EbrahimAseem Where are the woman more loyal to a man’s actions than his empty promises?

Loving someone who doesn’t appreciate, value & uplift you is not loyalty. It is brokeness. Suicide. Poison. The cure is loving the beautiful one staring back at you in your mirror. #EbrahimAseem

Never be all in your feelings for someone who isn’t feeling you & uplifting you. If they cared, their actions would show it with consistency. Value yourself or you’ll get played. #EbrahimAseem

Stop crawling back to what broke you. Saying, “I love hard” is no excuse. Start loving yourself harder than you love an inconsistent person. #EbrahimAseem

If you’re an affectionate soul who cares deep, makes sacrifices for love, & gives your all, why keep entertaining people who are cold & selfish? You deserve all you give. #EbrahimAseem Stop settling for less. Value your self more. Only then will you attract a loyal man, willing to understand & listen to you. Then get down on one knee & tell you,

“You are my dream come true. My happily ever after. Where would I be without you? I love more than my lungs love breathing air. Not just because of all you do. All you give & all you share. #EbrahimAseem I love you because you promote my growth. The love I have for myself is what matters to you most.

You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take out on a date. Show off around town. Go for a slow walk with by the lake. #EbrahimAseem You are the only woman who can arouse my mind, and throb my head. You’re the only woman I want to devour in bed.

You’re the only woman I can be goofy with, sing along to 90s R&B with as we laugh & ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because without you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far.

The first woman I ever seen was the sweetest woman I ever known. My mother. And when it comes to making one woman her daughter-in-law, my love, I can think of none other, than you.

You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heartbeat want to kiss the soft sand that is your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled with hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, I am willing to endure all the pain, destroy all your demons, break down every last wall that houses your trust issues, because only you mean that much.

I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you are inside & out, and as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen. #EbrahimAseem After all, he will be raised by one.

Thank you for sticking by me through all the arguments & mistakes. I will consistently use my actions to say, I will never turn away. No other woman can take your place. #EbrahimAseem

I want trips overseas with only you. I want to get on one knee for only you. I want to spiritually grow with only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I will place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, after I, with tears in my eyes, look the best thing that ever happened to me deep in your eyes and say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. And I want you to daily uplift you, so you always love you too.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
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I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

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I know my wife is out there somewhere, as creative as me, as inappropriatly goofy as me, as health conscious, athletic, intelligent & spiritual as me, loves children like me & abstinent while single until marriage just like me. 💍👰🏿💒 #EbrahimAseem I know she wants me to be preparing for her right now, not behaving like a male whore while single, sleeping with every girl on Instagram & Snap Chat. #EbrahimAseem My sisters taught me to be LOYAL to my wife even before we meet. So I won't waste her time stringing her along. I will court her, marry her & daily reassure her I want only her for infinity forevers. I want the same for all the 1000s of young men I #SpeakLife into every week. There are millions of good men like us bro & we deserve to be husbands & fathers, not baby daddies. #‎EbrahimAseem‬ #AtWorkCooking #SeafoodPasta #12HourShift #BowTieChef 🍤🍝🍴

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Your mother raised you to be an INDEPENDENT survivor, not a WIFE.

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Your mother never taught you how to love your self as a woman & be loved by a giving man. She taught you to depend on no one. Bottle up your emotions, because no one will understand. Put up a guard, put on a smile, so no one sees deep down you are struggling with life. To be strong by yourself, like your grandmother taught your mother. To be an independent survivor, not a wife. By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

She taught you when someone asks how you’re feeling to always say, “I’m good”. When really you’re dying inside, because all your mother’s painful life, no one ever understood. #EbrahimAseem

She taught you, when you like a man, hide your true feelings from him. Always wait for a man to make the first moves, even if you secretly adore him. #EbrahimAseem

An independent woman repels a giving man, & attracts lazy men to her life. You’ve never met a providing man who can give you affection, patience & loyalty, because he’s not looking for an independent woman, he’s searching for a wife. #EbrahimAseem

If you are an independent woman who does everything for your man, cooks, cleans, motivates & financially has his back, but he doesn’t do the same for you, you’re not his independent woman, you’re his single mother. #EbrahimAseem

Your mother never taught you how to be a wife or how to be loved, because she was hurt by men in her past. Fooled to give her all by a man who played a role, investing in a relationship not built to last. She doesn’t want to lose you to a man. She subconsciously wants you to stay single, independent of a man, so she can be dependent on you & your energy. Your mother wants you to be married to her, as a daughter for life. #EbrahimAseem

Sometimes a daughter’s soul is older than her biological mother’s soul. You may be her biological daughter, but your spirit is more nurturing, giving, wise & motherly than hers is. This causes some mothers to envy their daughter’s spirit & potential. She sees you being the wife & nurturing mother she never was. #EbrahimAseem

She resents you for being born. She feels she had to compromise her dreams to raise you. This is why it may seem your mother speaks down on all good news you give her. Always asking:

“why aren’t you married yet?”
“Why aren’t you successful in your career yet?”
“Why can’t you keep a man?”
“Why don’t you have children?”
She sees your great potential & wants to discourage & break you like her mother broke her. Some mothers are jealous of their daughter’s spirit, light, vibe, aura & potential. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t let your mother break your spirit & speak doubt into your dreams. She is not your spirit’s mother. You are hers. Break the chains of the independent mind she bound your soul with. #EbrahimAseem

There is no self-love in being an independent woman or man. Be SELF DEPENDENT. Not (i)ndependent. “i” represents the physical body. “Self” is the spirit you are inside the body. #EbrahimAseem

There is a giving man, ready to walk into your life, take your hand & make you his wife. He will say, “baby, lay your burdens on my heart. Rest your over thinking mind on mine. #EbrahimAseem

When you’re mine, you’re constantly on my mind. My effort won’t decline. My interest won’t subside. My understanding heart will provide for your over thinking mind a pillow of comfort on which to recline. Your pearls of wisdom are all I want to dine on. Feed my ears your food for thought. #EbrahimAseem

Lay your stress, your doubts, your demons & fears on my ears. I will comfort your concerns. Wipe your tears before they drip. Read the pages of your vibe & study your spirit to become fluent in your love language. #EbrahimAseem

Your genuine frequency speaks to me. Your kindness calms my soul. There will never be a second I don’t want only you, even after we grow old. #EbrahimAseem I want to teach you how to overcome the addiction of doubting & second guessing yourself.

The embrace of your conversation sends chills down the spine of my intellect. #EbrahimAseem Be my calm & I’ll be your peace. I will break down your guardedness & help take way your demons. Feed me substance & I will feed you consistency. Reassure you daily only you were meant for me. I love you, and I just want you to love you too.”

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
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I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

Treasure your queen, king. From my new article. Link in my bio. #EbrahimAseem

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Two Mothers Walk for their Murdered sons. SFPD refuses to investigate.

Powerful. 2 Mothers, whose sons were murdered, walk 16 blocks to protest the San Francisco police’s 8 month refusal to investigate the quadruple homicide of their sons. 😔 #TwoMothersWalk

SF Police’s disturbing leaked texts, read: “all Niggers must f*cking hang” & “Cross burning lowers blood pressure! I did the test myself” on April 7th.

This proves SF Police has no intention of investigating the murder of these grieving mothers’ sons. Please share their story to help bring justice for these queens. My nephew was one of the boys murdered & it breaks my heart to see my sister crying every night with no closure for her dead son. 😞 #EbrahimAseem #PrayForOurChildren

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Stop letting your DAUGHTER or son see you CRAWL BACK to a MAN who BROKE you.

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Stop letting your daughter or son see you crawl back to a man who broke you.

If I broke you, let me go. Don’t let your daughter see you spend years & tears crawling back to an inconsistent man who hurt you faithfully, verbally, or physically. She will grow up thinking being weak & depressed for a man is how you “keep” a man. Well, a woman doesn’t “keep” a man. A loyal man keeps his penis out of other women & keeps his mind on his ambitions. If you have to “keep” him, he’s not yours, leave that little boy in detention. By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

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If I like you, I don’t want you to hide the fact you have children from me. I don’t want to see countless booty poking pictures on your Instagram, while all the pictures of you & your child are deleted. Your sexiest curves are your dimples & smiles, while you celebrate a fun day spent with your child. #EbrahimAseem

I don’t want you to spend your last dime on a babysitter, just so you can come over my house for Netflix and sex. If I’m serious about a future with you, I will take you out, pay for the date & the babysitter, showering you & your child with respect. #EbrahimAseem

Your children are not a relationship deal breaker sweetheart. Your children are irresponsible-male-repelant. Don’t hide your children, flaunt them. Wave them like a flag, so only men of valor with aspirations of being a father will enter your world, claiming you as his queen, & your children as your own. #EbrahimAseem

I want you to turn down a date with me, so you can cook your children dinner & tuck them in bed. Cut our phone conversation short, so you can bathe your child & shampoo the adorable curls on their head. #EbrahimAseem Cancel our plans so you can take your child for their check-up. Ignore my text, so you can change your child’s diaper. Don’t leave your baby with a diaper rash, just so you can quickly text back my inconsistent ass.

If you can cover your phone, yell & curse out your child, just so you can have enough silence to affectionally call me “babe” after just a few days of texting, you’re doing it wrong.

If you allow a man to starve you of time, respect, attention, loyalty, & you continue to stay, you’re teaching your son to grow up & treat women the exact same way. #EbrahimAseem I am not the number one man in your life, your son is. Make me earn a spot in your life through consistency & leadership skills. And, if I am not a living example of the man you want your son to grow up to be, stop waisting your time, your love, your loyalty & your kissy face emojis on me.

Teach your son how to respect & treat a woman by requiring me to court you for a while, before you give me your intimacy. Teach your daughter how to be loyal to her worth by requiring I show with actions I know your worth, before you give me your loyalty. #EbrahimAseem I’m a temporary part of your life. Your child is permanent. Why should I get more of your time, affection & attention than your children?

Major props to the women who put their child first. That’s so sexy to me. #EbrahimAseem You deserve all my commitment & loyalty. You deserve my last name. You deserve trips overseas, to be taken out on dinner dates that end with making love in the rain. Queen, I know you sacrifice so much of yourself to give to your family & your struggles nearly drive you insane. You deserve a faithful man who will listen, understand you, and give you his all, just the same.

You are not damaged goods, just because you have a body full of stretch marks and a child. You are an affectionate nurturer who knows how to cater to a good man, your motherhood experience makes you worthwhile. #EbrahimAseem I want a life with you as a power couple, raising our children together. I want family cruises, family reunions & infinity forevers.

I want to raise a son to be a strong, confident, loving & ambitious man. Never dependent on a woman to give him money, make decisions for him & hold his hand. #EbrahimAseem I want to raise a daughter by showering her with love, affection & attention, so she won’t grow up & look for it all in every guy she meets, living a depressed life full of regrets & descension.

If you’re a woman who’s all about your child, I will be all about you, constantly bringing you joy & smiles. But nothing turns me off more than a selfish woman who puts the desire of dick over her child.

When I was a child, my mother always ate every meal in her room with her door closed, separate from me & my sister, who would eat at the dinner table.

One night, I heard noise in my moms room & when I went in, I saw her laying on the bed crying & holding her stomach. That was the moment I realized, my moms never ate dinner, she starved just so that me & my sister could have enough food to eat.

My mother sacrificed buying herself clothes & jewelry to give us food every night & kept a smile on her face at all times, so we wouldn’t know how poor we really were. She turned down the sugar daddies & football players, because she didn’t want me to ever see her compromise her worth for a man. #EbrahimAseem

From that day on I taught myself how to cook & I made sure my moms ate every day.

I promised myself I would do something with my life, so my mother would never have to starve herself, just to pay bills. That’s what motivates me to speak life into people.

Thats why I work 3 jobs, chef, senior care, motivational speaker. That’s why I don’t complain about life.

I just keep a smile on my face. My mother showed me the true strength of a woman, that’s why I respect good strong minded mothers so much. I may have money now, but I came from not having shit, stealing food as a child just to bring home & cook for my family, & its is because of overcoming all my struggles & what my moms did for me I am the man I am today, & I dedicate my life to speaking life into men and women to pursue their passions and dreams. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

My mother raised a future husband 👉🏾💍👰🏾 not a future baby daddy. I am so tired of “talking”. Being in a relationship where the sex is so damn good, but there’s no growth or courtship is a waste to me. #EbrahimAseem I see your fine ass has curves, but are you nurturing? Kind? Patient? Spiritual? Goofy? Good with children? Finances? Home decor? I don’t date for a hobby. If we aren’t planning for forever I have no interest. What are your passions? Goals? Can WE stimulate each others spirit? Can WE align each others chakras? Can WE activate each others pineal gland? I don't care if you can twerk 💃🏾 or back that ass up 😒 Can we dine on each other's frequency as you digest knowledge my food for thought feeds your mind? What type of mother will you be? Where do you want to raise a family? Let’s stop asking these women for pics, ask if she’s a WIFE. Men let's behave loyal to our self worth before we even say I do. #EbrahimAseem I can imagine being married. Having children, spending time with them, Playing with them & making them laugh, teaching them about life, instilling confidence & self worth before giving them piggyback rides. Having a wife, spoiling her with love and attention, Being goofy with her, making her laugh & smile every second I spend with her. Providing for my family. #EbrahimAseem I honestly pray I have all this before my moms gets too old to enjoy a daughter-in-law & grandchildren. Everytime I see my moms, she talks about wanting grandchildren & saying she raised me to be a husband. Because I was raised by a queen, I know for sure, I am not looking for a girlfriend to date, I am looking for a wife to court, marry & raise children with. #EbrahimAseem Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY #Excerpt from #WhyNoManShouldDATEaSingleMother #MARRYher 💍👰🏾 #OrDontWasteHerTime👉 RealNewsPaper.me

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Real Women have CURVES. Sorry.

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You are beautiful. Inside & out. Link to this full article in my bio. #EbrahimAseem #SpeakLife

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These inbox messages & #ArchThatBackBootyChallenge DMs are getting out of hand. So let’s make this clear…

I AM NOT on social networks to FIND A GIRLFRIEND, DATE or FEMALE BESTFRIEND NOR TO “HOOK UP” or “MAKE A P🐯😻😻🙀 APPOINTMENT”.

So ladies, please do NOT find yourself in my inbox sending me naked pics of your curves, stripper selfies, twerk vids & #ArchThatBackChallenge booty pics I did not even ask for, saying you’re “trying to get to know me” 🚫 Intellectual conversation is welcomed & compliments of my purpose of being used as an instrument by the most high to SPEAK LIFE are humbly appreciated by me. But there is so much more to me than what you see me post on here. Just like there is more to you than pics you post online.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

I see right through these half-naked Instagram Honeys, some of whom set thirst traps, because they can’t pull a loyal, mentally mature man in REAL LIFE. I truly pray they find the man they’re looking for with that, but as for me; I’m uninterested in that.

So, DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME with me; I wont budge. If I accepted your request, follow or added you myself, it’s because ITS Facebook & I’m very social & friendly.

I use my social networks to SPEAK LIFE into young men & women, promote my motivational speaking events at prisons & Universities worldwide, & also give any Life Coach advice to anyone as an 11 year mentor for young men.

Nothing more, nothing less. Share your testimony with me, ask me for advice, like my status’, pictures & comment if you like, that truly humbles me in a way you have no idea #EbrahimAseem but you can keep the pick up lines, corny words, & the nude pictures of your curves to yourself. I don’t want them.

I like to approach women and court IN REAL LIFE. Not on social networks. Besides, no one wants to see your ashy vajayjay pics anyway 😒✋ #EbrahimAseem

I’m constantly asked “why aren’t you married yet?”

Just because I’m not yet a husband, does not mean I’m down to manipulatively USE my platform or notoriety to sleep with every beautiful woman I meet; because I’m not. I’ve never slept with a woman I met off Instagram. #EbrahimAseem

You must have me confused with your favorite ‘cant-sing-live-in-concert’ R&B artist 🎤😎 yes him. That’s not me. My mother raised me to be a king, not a hoe.

What makes one a king is not pursuing multiple women to build a harem. What makes one a king is a pursuing that ONE queen 👉💍💎👰🏿👨🏾💒👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 and giving only her your attention, time, loyalty & multiple picture likes. #EbrahimAseem

Curves without substance does nothing for me.

Many guys are saying, “Arch that back. Twerk those cakes then.” If you feel “real women have curves” you’re sadly mistaken.

I don’t think you women know how gorgeous you really are, because you trip off InstaModels, #ArchThatBackChallenge & Video Vixens who make you feel you must be super curvy with massive ass & a flat, size zero waist, or Victoria Secret models who show you to lose weight & have zero cellulite. #EbrahimAseem

If you’re thick, love your curves. If you’re petite, love your frame. There is no mold to beauty. You ARE the mold. A work of art sculpted to be your unique version of beautiful. #EbrahimAseem

Now, when I say beauty, I’m talking inside & out. You’re breathtakingly gorgeous no matter your ass size, have no doubt. The next time your fine ass walks past a mirror, stop. Look at that beautiful soul staring back at you & say, “You are beautiful.” #EbrahimAseem

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Ladies, I don’t give a damn if you have a fat ass when I approach. You can’t attract me with curves & #ArchThatBackChallenge booty pics. I’ll pour love into a skinny woman with stretch marks way before I entertain a curvy self-proclaimed “bad bitch” with only curves to offer.

I’ve dated them curvy, petite, thick & slim thick. So I’m not impressed by huge curves and a smile. I have a mind, can you stimulate it? Or is the only head on a man you can arouse connected to his penis?

I’ll grip, slap, massage, manhandle & worship your booty no matter its size, but if you think that will make you attract me, you’re as hopeless as a penny with a hole in it.

A confident woman doesn’t need to rely on compliments, thirst nor attention from random guys on social networks to validate her beauty, because she knows she’s beautiful before anyone else. Looking deep inside herself, she sees the smooth, inner beauty she exudes clearer than a mirror.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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I’m a chef, motivational speaker for men & a 11 youth mentor for men, teaching them how to uplift & respect women & be men of confidence & valor. I speak at universities, prisons & corporations worldwide. For booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

I know my wife is out there somewhere, as creative as me, as inappropriatly goofy as me, as health conscious, athletic, intelligent & spiritual as me, loves children like me & abstinent while single until marriage just like me. 💍👰🏿💒 #EbrahimAseem I know she wants me to be preparing for her right now, not behaving like a male whore while single, sleeping with every girl on Instagram & Snap Chat. #EbrahimAseem My sisters taught me to be LOYAL to my wife even before we meet. So I won't waste her time stringing her along. I will court her, marry her & daily reassure her I want only her for infinity forevers. I want the same for all the 1000s of young men I #SpeakLife into every week. There are millions of good men like us bro & we deserve to be husbands & fathers, not baby daddies. #‎EbrahimAseem‬ #AtWorkCooking #SeafoodPasta #12HourShift #BowTieChef 🍤🍝🍴

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Stop wasting TIME & years UPGRADING a boy into a man for the NEXT woman

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You met a guy who was so interested in you at first, now he holds back. So, you make excuses for his lack of effort, trying to cut him slack. When you pull away, he blows up your phone with promises to make you stay. #EbrahimAseem But when you drop your side pieces to make only him your bae, he holds back again. What a wicked game to play.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

If you have to ask a man why he’s taking so long to commit, he has no plans for a future with you. He’s using you. You are his come up. Upgrading him for another woman. #EbrahimAseem

A man knows if he wants a future with you after the first couple dates. If he hasn’t made his intentions clear, he’s using you as practice to prepare for the woman he really wanted. #EbrahimAseem Stop wasting TIME & years UPGRADING a boy with potential into a better man for the NEXT woman.

Girls feel leaving a broken man she loves is cold. She knows what it’s like to feel broken & be abandoned by loved ones.

Staying loyal to anyone who brings you stress, headaches & heartbreak with no appreciation is cold to your SELF, & enabling to the person. #EbrahimAseem

All you put in teaching a boy how to love you, he will use to love another woman after leaving you. #EbrahimAseem

A woman can be gorgeous, intelligent, successful & sweet. Meet a man who sweeps her off her feet. If his consistent actions don’t show he wants ONLY you, leave you for another woman is what he’ll do. #EbrahimAseem He lacks confidence to approach her, that’s why he chose you, to teach him how to be a better man for his next woman, not for you.

Queen, I want you to know you’re not asking too much, for wanting to be consistently appreciated & affectionately touched. You deserve to express your feelings & be heard without being judged. Not have your feelings thrown back in your face. #EbrahimAseem

You deserve honesty from the start, & consistent transparency is a must. Not made to feel you’re being over-emotional, because you’re so slow to trust. Your trust is so valuable, a patient man will earn it. Your & your love language are not difficult, an understanding man will learn it. #EbrahimAseem

I know what ifs replay in your head as you lay in bed, & failed scenarios haunt your deep thinking mind. A listening man will take the time to hear you, helping your over thinking thoughts subside. #EbrahimAseem

You don’t have to hide your little temper from every new man you meet, because an intuitive man will take the time to understand by being your stress relief, your calm, & your peace. #EbrahimAseem

All the things you were made to feel are flaws, by past flames who are the reason you’ve built up these walls, a strong man will appreciate. He will not ask you to wait for him to grow into the potential you see in him. The moment you meet him, he will be every thing you ever wanted and needed. He will hold your hand & help you understand. #EbrahimAseem

You are not crazy. Over emotional. Smart mouthed or rude. You are a work of art. Art does not need to rhyme, make sense all the time, nor change what it is on the outside to be accepted. Art must be observed, studied, valued & appreciated for the uniqueness it is. #EbrahimAseem

I want to study your pages. Become fluent in your language the most. I taste the good & bad in you, & I want them both. You bring out the best flavor in me, flaws & all. I just want to savor you. You are already whole, you don’t need a man to rescue you. #EbrahimAseem I just want you to love & fully accept the beautiful soul in your mirror, as much as I love her. May you, me & her love each other so deep, and stay growing closer and better, together, for infinity forevers.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

Treasure your queen, king. From my new article. Link in my bio. #EbrahimAseem

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If Black Women weren’t so MOUTHY & LISTENed they wouldn’t attract DEADLY drama.

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People say, “if black women just dropped their sassy ass mouth, cut their “mad-at-the-world” sista girl attitude, & were more obedient to men in authority, their lives would be different. Smartmouthedness leads to singleness. Sassy-as-hell will leave you dead in a jail cell.

Look at Sandra Bland. If she would’ve just said “yes sir” & did like she was told, she’d be alive right now.” If you agree with this train of thought, you are a narcissistic idiot. By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

Intelligent women who speak their mind make insecure males flaccid. #EbrahimAseem This is why Sandra Bland was arrested.

When a woman resists submitting to a narcissistic male, his inadequacies provoke him to physically assert his non-existent dominance onto her. #EbrahimAseem

Women who know their worth are the most feared humans alive. Especially women of color.

Most educated. Strongest willed. Resilient. Divinely vindicated. Her hair, lips, natural tan & hips are envied & imitated. #EbrahimAseem

This is why they are told how to speak, dress, style their hair, raise their children. If the woman is controlled, discouraged to show strength, she’ll never remember she was created as a queen to rule her self. #EbrahimAseem

She is not smarted mouth, rude with an attitude. She is mentally regal, never declining to speak her mind. #EbrahimAseem

Why does her inability to submit to your insecurity provoke you to anger? Could it be you envy the fact the creator of us all, YHWH choose her to be the vessel of life over you? #EbrahimAseem

My brothers, a woman is not your babe, nor your little girl to command or enslave. She is a master of herself. Inferior to no man. Your opinion of her body does not define her worth. She does. #EbrahimAseem

Her sexuality belongs to her. It is not a metric for you to measure her value. #EbrahimAseem

She is not your bitch, your hoe, your thot, your little girl, your honey, your baby doll. She is a queen, crowned & sculpted to reign by the most powerful artist in this universe. Bow to her regal intelligence with your consciousness, or exile yourself from her royal presence. #EbrahimAseem

If you are a woman who speaks your mind, know you are so intimidating to an insecure boy; and so attractive to a confident man. But your worth as a woman is not defined by a man’s attraction to you. #EbrahimAseem

An artist doesn’t base its self-worth on the value its creation places on it. Women, you create men. Never let one decline your own worth in your mind. Shine. You are not a star. You are a universe. A creator. A queen. A goddess. A mother. With unfuckwithable badassness. #EbrahimAseem

Your womb is a matrix. Your mind is an enigma. Your heart is a volcano. Erupting lava-like love & flaming fierceness. Igniting intellect through your esoteric essence. #EbrahimAseem A million men cannot equal you, the giver of life. Your worth is not defined as a man’s wife. You don’t need a man’s love to complete you. Only your creator’s love, and God is not a man. But an omnipresent spirit who created you as woman to create man. YHWH. Mother Soul Cell Fundamental Principle. #EbrahimAseem

Love you. Choose you. Empower you. Encourage you. Stop beating yourself up for not being where you want to be in life right now. Stop comparing your body to other women. Stop basing your decisions off what you parents will approve of. #EbrahimAseem Stop apologizing for your sexuality. Stop biting your tongue. Stop questioning your intuition. Speak. Feel. Hurt. Love. Care. Learn. Fight. Grow. And funk what any one thinks of what you do. You are an uncut diamond. Nothing can break you, and nothing in this universe can equal your unparalleled inner beauty. Love you. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Dear Mixed People”
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I know my wife is out there somewhere, as creative as me, as inappropriatly goofy as me, as health conscious, athletic, intelligent & spiritual as me, loves children like me & abstinent while single until marriage just like me. 💍👰🏿💒 #EbrahimAseem I know she wants me to be preparing for her right now, not behaving like a male whore while single, sleeping with every girl on Instagram & Snap Chat. #EbrahimAseem My sisters taught me to be LOYAL to my wife even before we meet. So I won't waste her time stringing her along. I will court her, marry her & daily reassure her I want only her for infinity forevers. I want the same for all the 1000s of young men I #SpeakLife into every week. There are millions of good men like us bro & we deserve to be husbands & fathers, not baby daddies. #‎EbrahimAseem‬ #AtWorkCooking #SeafoodPasta #12HourShift #BowTieChef 🍤🍝🍴

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Date night. 💏 Jazz fest. 🎷🎤 Kevin Hart concert. 😆 Dancing 💃 5-star restaurant 🍝🍤 plus a deep convo & walk on the beach with this natural haired, virtuous Nubian queen was such a treat! #EbrahimAseem Men, let’s start taking these loyal women OUT on a planned, paid for date, with multiple events, not just into your bed for sex & Netflix. What makes us a MAN isn’t giving our attention the 100s of pretty girls we see, or InstaModels in our DM. No, it’s giving ALL of our attention to that sweet, caring, intelligent woman once she shows she DESERVES it. #EbrahimAseem Being a single man does not mean sleep with every girl in your phone. Let’s kill that double standard. I've been abstinent while single, because my mother raised a king, not a hoe. Let’s stop using “talking” as an excuse to sleep with every girl on Instagram. #EbrahimAseem Do not “talk” to a loyal woman. Talking is for teens. It goes, Date her. Court her. Commit to her. Propose to her. Then, make her a mother after making her a bride. #EbrahimAseem Kings, take the virtuous woman who has a crush on you out this week! It is NOT “trickin” & you’re not “buying” her time. No. You are showing her you’re WORTH her time & not wasting it. #EbrahimAseem #omwToPrayer #WithMyHomies

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To all the Beautiful spirited Single Women I want you to remember, you are WIFE material. Just because you’ve made the mistake of giving your heart to weak-minded males in your past over & over who have chewed it up, spit it out, broke your trust & trampled over your loyalty: it does not change the fact you are wife material, remember that. #EbrahimAseem Stay focused bettering yourself, hustling for your career path, fueling your ambitions & stacking for your future. Be patient. You will mos def be blessed with a Strong, Tall, spiritual, faithful, humorous, affectionate, Handsome Man of valor, who will place a ring on your finger & make you the wife you deserve to be. #EbrahimAseem I pray you have a great day as beautiful as your giving spirit is deep inside Ms. Future Bride. I wake up at 4am daily, work at 5am, 12hour shift as a chef, M-Th, #SpeakLife motivational speaking on the weekends grinding for my future. I want a wife & children, so I'm stacking for them now, married toy purpose so when it's time, I will be ready. #EbrahimAseem This is your #GMText

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If he neglects & treats you like he doesn’t want you, it’s only b/c he doesn’t want you.

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If he neglects & treats you like he doesn’t care or want you, it’s only because he doesn’t care or want you. Why don’t girls get this? Stop making excuses for complacency?

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Girls stay loyal to guys who neglect, because she cares so much. Him feeling the same is what she expects. Staying with a complacent man, hoping he will change is easier than admitting she made the wrong choice. #EbrahimAseem

Girls need to stop imagining & start basing their loyalty off a man’s consistent actions. Stop being more loyal to a man’s potential than you are to your own self integrity. #EbrahimAseem

A guy can act like he cares & wants you. Texts. Dates. Gifts. Even say he loves you & put a ring on it, but if he’s telling you he doesn’t want you, with actions or words..he doesn’t want you. #EbrahimAseem

Stop thinking your love will change him. The only thing worse than a man you can’t change is a man you can. Because that is not a man. A man changes for his SELF, not for his woman. #EbrahimAseem

Girls will meet a man, then try to change him into being what she wants, instead of just choosing the man who is already what she wants. #EbrahimAseem

If he or she shows you no appreciation & no effort, show them the door. Stop being all in your feelings for someone who isn’t feeling you. #EbrahimAseem

Men don’t neglect what they see a future with. If he’s not making time for you, you’re not the one he is interested in. Stop making excuses for neglect. #EbrahimAseem

Women don’t compromise their standards, nor stay loyal to complacency. Her self-worth won’t allow her to settle for anything less than what’s meant to be. #EbrahimAseem

When you’re mine, you’re constantly on my mind. My effort won’t decline. My interest won’t subside. My understanding heart will provide for your over thinking mind a pillow of comfort on which to recline. Your pearls of wisdom are all I want to dine on. Feed my ears your food for thought. #EbrahimAseem

Lay your stress, your doubts, your demons & fears on my ears. I will comfort your concerns. Wipe your tears before they drip. Read the pages of your vibe & study your spirit to become fluent in your love language. #EbrahimAseem

Your genuine frequency speaks to me. Your kindness calms my soul. There will never be a second I don’t want only you, even after we grow old. #EbrahimAseem

The embrace of your conversation sends chills down the spine of my intellect. Be my calm & I’ll be your peace. Feed my substance & I will feed you consistency. Reassure you daily only you were meant for me. I love you, and I just want you to love you too. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me

I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

Love you, as much as you want your dream man to love you. #EbrahimAseem Full link in my bio. #NewArticle

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I know my wife is out there somewhere, as creative as me, as inappropriatly goofy as me, as health conscious, athletic, intelligent & spiritual as me, loves children like me & abstinent while single until marriage just like me. 💍👰🏿💒 #EbrahimAseem I know she wants me to be preparing for her right now, not behaving like a male whore while single, sleeping with every girl on Instagram & Snap Chat. #EbrahimAseem My sisters taught me to be LOYAL to my wife even before we meet. So I won't waste her time stringing her along. I will court her, marry her & daily reassure her I want only her for infinity forevers. I want the same for all the 1000s of young men I #SpeakLife into every week. There are millions of good men like us bro & we deserve to be husbands & fathers, not baby daddies. #‎EbrahimAseem‬ #AtWorkCooking #SeafoodPasta #12HourShift #BowTieChef 🍤🍝🍴

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To all the Beautiful spirited Single Women I want you to remember, you are WIFE material. Just because you’ve made the mistake of giving your heart to weak-minded males in your past over & over who have chewed it up, spit it out, broke your trust & trampled over your loyalty: it does not change the fact you are wife material, remember that. #EbrahimAseem Stay focused bettering yourself, hustling for your career path, fueling your ambitions & stacking for your future. Be patient. You will mos def be blessed with a Strong, Tall, spiritual, faithful, humorous, affectionate, Handsome Man of valor, who will place a ring on your finger & make you the wife you deserve to be. #EbrahimAseem I pray you have a great day as beautiful as your giving spirit is deep inside Ms. Future Bride. I wake up at 4am daily, work at 5am, 12hour shift as a chef, M-Th, #SpeakLife motivational speaking on the weekends grinding for my future. I want a wife & children, so I'm stacking for them now, married toy purpose so when it's time, I will be ready. #EbrahimAseem This is your #GMText

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He’s not playing mind games, he just lost interest in you.

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He’s not playing mind games, he just lost interest in you. A man pours attention into what & who he wants. His loss. Move on. You deserve better.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Guys show so much effort in the beginning. Text you all day. Take you on dates. Have your heart skipping beats & your mind ignoring red flags. Then snatch the world from under your feet, because even though you were sweet, he was only interested in your body & looks. Not the fact you are unique. #EbrahimAseem

A woman must guard her heart. Don’t let a man know you’re feeling him from the start. Make a man show with consistent actions over time, his intentions with you are long-term with faithful commitment in mind. #EbrahimAseem

He didn’t switch up, you just fell for his lies & game before he learned your annoying habits & your true nature. He liked your pics, not your personality. #EbrahimAseem

Only give him your loyalty after he gives you his commitment. Guys lose interest fast, when the attraction is only physical, not built to last.

A man knows exactly who he wants to wife later on & who he wants to sex right now. A boy only plays dumb, because that is the option you allow. #EbrahimAseem

Guys who aren’t ready to settle down target sweet women with low self esteem to practice on, so once he meets a woman of self worth, who is his type, he will be ready to make her his wife. And you will have been his side chick stepping stone, about whom he won’t think twice. #EbrahimAseem

Insecure men side chick loyal women to build his confidence from the ashes of her brokenness. Making a smart woman lose her standards & fall for him fills the inadequacies of a weak male’s low self esteem. #EbrahimAseem

You can tell a man is insecure, by the low quality EXs he chose before you. Never be a man’s upgrade, making him a better man for a better woman. #EbrahimAseem

When a man wants you, you’ll know it because his actions will show it. He will consistently hold your attention, as you two grow closer through mental ascension. #EbrahimAseem

He neglects you because he sees no future with you. Never question your self when you know you’ve given your all. Question why you’re still staying at all. #EbrahimAseem

You deserve to be loved by an artist who will paint smiles on your canvas face consistently. If they lost interest in you, it wasn’t meant to be. If you waste time caring why you were left all alone by the wrong one, you’ll be too blinded by past pain to see when the right one has come. #EbrahimAseem

An affectionate soul deserves consistent appreciation. Not neglect. Support their ambitions. Don’t ridicule their choices. Give them constant encouragement, not constant argument. Be their consistency & they will be your peace. #EbrahimAseem

I won’t play mind games or waste your time. I will adore your caring heart & listen to you speak your mind. I won’t act interested from jump, then switch up once the road gets tough. #EbrahimAseem

I will reassure you daily only your love can touch my heart, only your outer & inner beauty can arouse me, & baby, I can’t get enough. #EbrahimAseem

I will never lose interest in you. What interests me isn’t your breathtaking beauty, it’s your redilsnce through pain, kindness through stress & self love through depression that makes me love you more than I can ever love the rest. #EbrahimAseem

Bless me with your trust. Bless me with your time. Bless me with all your flaws, my diamond, & I will treasure you, value you, appreciate you, & love you until those flaws shine. I treasure you, because you treasure yourself.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me

I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

Love you, as much as you want your dream man to love you. #EbrahimAseem Full link in my bio. #NewArticle

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I know my wife is out there somewhere, as creative as me, as inappropriatly goofy as me, as health conscious, athletic, intelligent & spiritual as me, loves children like me & abstinent while single until marriage just like me. 💍👰🏿💒 #EbrahimAseem I know she wants me to be preparing for her right now, not behaving like a male whore while single, sleeping with every girl on Instagram & Snap Chat. #EbrahimAseem My sisters taught me to be LOYAL to my wife even before we meet. So I won't waste her time stringing her along. I will court her, marry her & daily reassure her I want only her for infinity forevers. I want the same for all the 1000s of young men I #SpeakLife into every week. There are millions of good men like us bro & we deserve to be husbands & fathers, not baby daddies. #‎EbrahimAseem‬ #AtWorkCooking #SeafoodPasta #12HourShift #BowTieChef 🍤🍝🍴

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To all the Beautiful spirited Single Women I want you to remember, you are WIFE material. Just because you’ve made the mistake of giving your heart to weak-minded males in your past over & over who have chewed it up, spit it out, broke your trust & trampled over your loyalty: it does not change the fact you are wife material, remember that. #EbrahimAseem Stay focused bettering yourself, hustling for your career path, fueling your ambitions & stacking for your future. Be patient. You will mos def be blessed with a Strong, Tall, spiritual, faithful, humorous, affectionate, Handsome Man of valor, who will place a ring on your finger & make you the wife you deserve to be. #EbrahimAseem I pray you have a great day as beautiful as your giving spirit is deep inside Ms. Future Bride. I wake up at 4am daily, work at 5am, 12hour shift as a chef, M-Th, #SpeakLife motivational speaking on the weekends grinding for my future. I want a wife & children, so I'm stacking for them now, married toy purpose so when it's time, I will be ready. #EbrahimAseem This is your #GMText

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She’s more upset at herSELF for TRUSTING you than she is at you for breaking her trust.

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What hurts her most is, she’s more upset at herself for trusting you than she is at you for breaking her trust. Her mind warned her about you.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

She’s not afraid to trust another man. No. She’s afraid to trust herself. Try to understand, she’s always been so smart. So ambitious. Chased by all the guys. So, when she chose to overlook the red flags & trust you, it took her by surprise. Look deep in her eyes, realize she sees the good in everyone else. Hoping if she loved you hard enough, you’d want better, reach your potential & change, not for her, but for your SELF. #EbrahimAseem

Sometimes a girl stays loyal despite red flags right in front of her eye, not because she doesn’t know her worth, but because she wants to prove to herself she wasn’t stupid enough to be loyal to the wrong guy. #EbrahimAseem

You can’t fool a loyal woman by playing a role. She knows if you have side chicks. She knows if you’re relationship ready. She can meet a man & know what he wants after the first conversation. Her problem is, she put all she wanted on hold for your potential. She allowed herself to drive down the one-way road of believing your empty promises, knowing damn well she saw warning signs. #EbrahimAseem

No man has the power to give her trust issues. She gave her self trust issues by ignoring her intuition, which warned her you were just like all the rest. It’s not her EXs that broke her. It’s staying too long, enduring too much, even after she felt neglected & unappreciated. #EbrahimAseem

To a woman who second guesses herself, everything with someone new will seem like a red flag until she fully heals herself from being blinded by hurt & betrayal so much, for long. #EbrahimAseem Guardedness blinds intuition. Thankfully, paranoia can’t exist where self love is crystal clear.

If you meet a genuine woman & can’t match her loyalty level, don’t interrupt her greatness by making her fall in love with your empty promises just because you want to feed her lies, sex her without commitment, than toss her to the side. #EbrahimAseem But, if your intentions are as pure as her caring heart is, reassure her:

Your flaws are not a bad thing baby. Your trust issues are not a deal breaker to me. I can not save you, fix you or repair you. How do you even repair a work of art? But only that beautiful spirit in your mirror can heal you. She is powerful. She is unstoppable. She is not some little girl in need of a man to save her. She is her own salvation.

A woman’s love is strong enough to eclipse fears, like a full moon. To rumble away any self-doubt, like an earthquake. To wipe away the stressful stains of past pain, like a thundering tornado. A woman’s love is the cure to your trust issues, so use a woman’s love on the woman in your mirror. Love you more than life, because I love you more than life.

I love you more than football sundays & fresh-cut fridays. I love you more than you love Netflix binge marathons & bottomless mimosas. You know you give me baby fever? Not merely wanting to raise a child with you, but wanting to intrinsically give birth to a thought with you. A thought that no matter what stress, fears, pain & frustration we endure, we will always have each other to depend on & lean on, forever more. #EbrahimAseem

You are the ONLY woman I want to laugh with, struggle with, succeed with, vacation with. Horseback riding & clear-water diving. You are the ONLY woman I want to introduce to my family. Cook-outs & electric slides at our wedding reception with you as my bride. #EbrahimAseem

You are the ONLY woman I want to dive deep inside. Come home from work & vent to me about your day, then I’ll flip you over, throw you in that bed & pound all your stress away. Wrap my arms around your hips, & pound that stress right out of you, then clean up any mess I made with my lips. Because you are the ONLY woman I want to taste. There are painful memories that haunt your over-thinking mind I’d love to erase. #EbrahimAseem

I know you have regrets & anxieties that keep you up at night. Lay all those burdens on my shoulders & watch me carry them out of your sight. I will destroy your wall with all of my might. Your demons I will fight. Love letters on all the pages of your mind my lips will write. You are the greatest blessing I’ve ever had in my life. The vision of you being my only love will never leave my sight. #EbrahimAseem

As much as I love you, I want you to love you more, because the love of my life deserves to be loved by these four:
the most powerful artist in the universe who made you – my work of art,
the beautiful child we make together,
me – your rock – your husband – your number one supporter,
and you my love – who I will love forever. Love yourself baby, love you as much as you want me to love you, and I will match that love, until we spend eternity forever in heaven above. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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I know my wife is out there somewhere, as creative as me, as inappropriatly goofy as me, as health conscious, athletic, intelligent & spiritual as me, loves children like me & abstinent while single until marriage just like me. 💍👰🏿💒 #EbrahimAseem I know she wants me to be preparing for her right now, not behaving like a male whore while single, sleeping with every girl on Instagram & Snap Chat. #EbrahimAseem My sisters taught me to be LOYAL to my wife even before we meet. So I won't waste her time stringing her along. I will court her, marry her & daily reassure her I want only her for infinity forevers. I want the same for all the 1000s of young men I #SpeakLife into every week. There are millions of good men like us bro & we deserve to be husbands & fathers, not baby daddies. #‎EbrahimAseem‬ #AtWorkCooking #SeafoodPasta #12HourShift #BowTieChef 🍤🍝🍴

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To all the Beautiful spirited Single Women I want you to remember, you are WIFE material. Just because you’ve made the mistake of giving your heart to weak-minded males in your past over & over who have chewed it up, spit it out, broke your trust & trampled over your loyalty: it does not change the fact you are wife material, remember that. #EbrahimAseem Stay focused bettering yourself, hustling for your career path, fueling your ambitions & stacking for your future. Be patient. You will mos def be blessed with a Strong, Tall, spiritual, faithful, humorous, affectionate, Handsome Man of valor, who will place a ring on your finger & make you the wife you deserve to be. #EbrahimAseem I pray you have a great day as beautiful as your giving spirit is deep inside Ms. Future Bride. I wake up at 4am daily, work at 5am, 12hour shift as a chef, M-Th, #SpeakLife motivational speaking on the weekends grinding for my future. I want a wife & children, so I'm stacking for them now, married toy purpose so when it's time, I will be ready. #EbrahimAseem This is your #GMText

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What’s hardest for a woman isn’t losing him, it’s forgiving herself for falling for POTENTIAL | Breakfast In Bed Ep.11

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Episode 11 of my free web suspense & romance novel just dropped 👉 RealNewsPaper.me #EbrahimAseem

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“Your sister is a fighter,” Anthony told Rosaria, “not just for herself, but for her family and everyone she loves. When she asked me to kill her brother, I was confused. Yet, now I understand. She loves you more than anything. Austin hurt you in the worse way & she wanted me to protect you from him. When your father told me where she was and how to save her, I knew it as a trap. He wanted me to go to that cabin and get ambushed, so your brother Austin could come here and finish you off. I did what India would’ve wanted me to do. I fought for the person she loves more than her self, you. But I know wi every fiber of my being India will fight, claw and push herself out of harm’s way and back into my arms. I know this, because I instill her with love, confidence and undeniable baddassness.

India is a solider. She’s my solder.”

“I want to be your solder too,” Rosaria confessed to him. Anthony put his gun in his shoulder holster, walked over to Rosaria, grabbed her shivering body and lifted her up in his arms, until the were both at eye level.

“When I look at you,” Anthony confessed to Rosaria, “I don’t just see a beautiful dark-skinned woman with curves for days & hair for weeks, I see the love of my life, I see my future wife, I see your sister India. So no, you can’t be mine. My heart belongs to India and I’m loyal to your sister.”

“Of course you see my sister when you look at me, we’re twins,” Rosaria joked, “but make no mistake: when I say I want to ‘be your solider’, I don’t mean it in some sexually submissive way.

I love how you trust my sister & can depend on her to go out on a mission & defend a cause you believe in. I want to have that too. To live for something greater than myself. I want you to trust me. Have confidence in me. I want you to be for me what I never had, a big brother.

Rosaria’s brother Austin begin coughing up blood. Rosaria pick up the vase off the night table & smashed it over her brother’s head, until his consciousness faded to black.

Breakfast in Bed: Episode 11
By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

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It was pitch black, except for the light from the fire India had just started to free herself from the grasp of her mother’s hired henchman. Even though she was just now running for governor, India’s mother Gloria had police officer on her pay roll for the longest. Prominence is power & money talks. But with the flick of a match, India caused her mother’s flawless plan to go up in flames. As she limped her way to her mother’s car, flirting with the option of escaping, a guilty fueled question came over her.

Should I flee to safety? or search for my mother’s body?

Despite all the cold, manipulative things her mother put her & her sister Rosaria through, she stilled love her. She couldn’t help it. The only reason an affectionate giver doesn’t do people the same cold way others do them is, because their integrity won’t allow them to. India limped back towards the burning cabin in search for her mother’s body like a sergeant searching for the body of his fellow fallen solider in combat.

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“Ok, you want to be my solider?” Anthony asked Rosaria.

“Yes sir,” Rosaria saluted.

“First off, don’t salute me,” Anthony pleaded, “that shit gets annoying after a while. Now, what I need you to do is drag your brother’s body closer to the door while I move the shells. We need to set the scene so it can be obvious to the detectives who show up that Austin shot this female officer lying in the middle of the hotel room, and not you.”

“I got you,” Rosaria complied.

“Now how good of a screamer are you?”

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India searched the perimeter of the cabin, along with the entrance & the garden out back. Surprisingly, she couldn’t find her mother’s body anywhere. Their were only two possibilities. Her mother had burned to a crisp in the fire, or she was hiding from her daughter, waiting for the right moment to attack.

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“I’ve been attacked, abused & sexually assaulted most of my pre-teen-hood,” Rosaria confessed. “Needless to say, I have a ton of experience screaming.”

“You know, I’m so sorry you had to go through all that,” Anthony empathized.

“It’s ok,” Rosaria replied, somberly,” you obviously choose the right twin.”

“Don’t speak that way about yourself,” Anthony corrected, you aren’t some damaged goods just, because your sick, demented male relative touched you when you were too young to defend yourself. You are beautiful. You are enough, and any man would be honored to have you.”

I really wish my exs thought the way you did,” Rosaria explained. “Who I am has always been a problem to men. When opening up to reveal your vulnerabilities is always seen as a deal breaker, it makes you want to stay guarded up with so many walls. And it’s not that you feel like you missed out on something you know?

What’s hardest for a woman isn’t losing him. It’s forgiving her SELF for falling in love with his potential, knowing damn well she saw warning signs.

My trust issues don’t come from the cold way my EXs treated me. my trust issues come from my poor judgement. I’m at war with my own self. I was such a good judge of character before I let my guard down for the wrong one. Now, I’m afraid to trust myself again to judge rather to let the right one in.”

“Queen, allow me to reassure you,” Anthony told his girlfriend’s twin sister,

“you are not at war with your self. You are at war with the emptiness your EX left when they came in your life to rub their hurt on you. You sold your soul to your EX by giving them your all after they devalued you. That’s why you feel so empty & incomplete where a soul once was. Reclaim your worth! Give birth to self-love & self acceptance.

You have to forgive yourself for loving a person who never deserved you. You made a mistake. But the mistake was not choosing to love or letting your wall down to be loyal. Your mistake was not loving you before you love another. Your mistake was being more loyal to a person’s inconsistency than you are to your own damn standards.”

“Wow,” Rosaria confessed,” you know, I’m usually the one every person comes to for advice. Including your woman haha. You really just shut me up & left me speechless which is rare. I guess India really can pi….”

Suddenly the hotel door swung open. Burning flesh filled the room. Her shadow looming over Rosaria & Anthony, who appeared to be hugged up and too close for comfort. After slamming the door shut, the person begin to laugh historically.

“Finally,” Anthony yelled, “I’ve been waiting for you to show up.”

To be continued next week……..

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10 huge differences between Courting & “Talking” | Date a Dancer

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Janet Jackson is one of the greatest entertainers alive. Her soft voice is comforting. Her smile, reassuring. Her dancing, elite. The quality of music is suffering today, because the spirit stimulating substance that is art of dance is being neglected in favor of neo-techno & twerk anthems. The same way the art of courting a woman is being neglected in favor of “talking” via dating. | 10 huge Differences between Courting & “Talking” (Dating)

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Date a woman who can dance or who appreciates the art of dance. Court a beautiful soul loyal to her passions. The grace, rhythm, humility, balance & substance she will add to your life is unparalleled.

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An emotionally driven woman or man is not easy to be in a relationship with. Everything is a problem to him or her. When you speak your mind, they call it “attitude”. When you call out their inconsistency, they call it “nagging”. Dance calms the spirit, influencing one’s intrinsic mind to rule over emotional mind. If their actions can’t dance to the beat of your loyalty level with consistent movement, two-step out of their life.

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When the frequency of a beat touches your spirit, your soul dances. This is why I listen to neo soul, 90s R&B, oldies & funk more than this poor excuse for music made today. I’m an old soul who misses real music that expresses the art of loving a woman and courting a woman. Now she’s a “hoe who ain’t loyal” who better “make that ass clap” and if she “ain’t a hoe get up out my trap house”. Those lyrics are suspect. Down Low vernacular.

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Dance is poetry in motion influenced by soul, funk & real live instruments. Vibration sounds have power. Before Kmt. was renamed Egypt, Africans used dance to communicate with their ancestors via vibration. Dance refined their intuition, clairvoyance, premonition & ability to read red flags & lairs via chakra alignment that dance promotes.

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Twerking is NOT a dance, it is a dance MOVE inside a dance. Twerking activates only the second energy chakra, preventing full chakra activation, yet when holistically accompanied by a collection of dance moves, all chakras will be activated. Holistic dancing promotes inner peace & stress draining tranquility. Not all pole dancing is stripping. clothed pole dancing is an art, symbolizing yin/yang, the energy of balance. The pole symbolizes the spinal cord’s grey matter, which connects to the pineal gland. #EbrahimAseem

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Men, stop wasting time, watching InstaModels Twerking on your phone, thirsting after strippers on Instagram, hoping they respond to the ashy dick pic you direct messaged them. Take your woman out salsa dancing, bachata, Jazz, slow winding at a Jamaican club.

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Take her to a Jill Scott, Erykah Badu, Maxwell, Avant or Temptations concert. Dance with your woman. Allow your hearts to synchronize in the rhythm with the beat. Spend that intimate time with her. So she knows that anytime, anyplace you’re willing to honor her pleasure principle & paint smiles on her canvas face.

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I’m so happy Janet is touring for the first time this decade. I want to take my niece to see her for an uncle day. My niece is a dancer. My daughter will be a dance & I will marry a dancer one day.

If women sent pics of art they drew, poems they’ve written, sonnets they’ve composed, children they’ve mentored & dance steps they’ve choreographed, Zales would be sold out. Every kiss begins with Kay. Every forever after begins with substance.

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My mother raised a future husband 👉🏾💍👰🏾 not a future baby daddy. I am so tired of “talking”. Being in a relationship where the sex is so damn good, but there’s no growth or courtship is a waste to me. #EbrahimAseem I see your fine ass has curves, but are you nurturing? Kind? Patient? Spiritual? Goofy? Good with children? Finances? Home decor? I don’t date for a hobby. If we aren’t planning for forever I have no interest. What are your passions? Goals? Can WE stimulate each others spirit? Can WE align each others chakras? Can WE activate each others pineal gland? I don't care if you can twerk 💃🏾 or back that ass up 😒 Can we dine on each other's frequency as you digest knowledge my food for thought feeds your mind? What type of mother will you be? Where do you want to raise a family? Let’s stop asking these women for pics, ask if she’s a WIFE. Men let's behave loyal to our self worth before we even say I do. #EbrahimAseem I can imagine being married. Having children, spending time with them, Playing with them & making them laugh, teaching them about life, instilling confidence & self worth before giving them piggyback rides. Having a wife, spoiling her with love and attention, Being goofy with her, making her laugh & smile every second I spend with her. Providing for my family. #EbrahimAseem I honestly pray I have all this before my moms gets too old to enjoy a daughter-in-law & grandchildren. Everytime I see my moms, she talks about wanting grandchildren & saying she raised me to be a husband. Because I was raised by a queen, I know for sure, I am not looking for a girlfriend to date, I am looking for a wife to court, marry & raise children with. #EbrahimAseem Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY #Excerpt from #WhyNoManShouldDATEaSingleMother #MARRYher 💍👰🏾 #OrDontWasteHerTime👉 RealNewsPaper.me

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Why no man should DATE a Single MOTHER

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This is why no man should "date" a single mother, MARRY that single mother, make your intentions with her known by courting her, or don’t even waste her time. #EbrahimAseem If you’re not ready to faithfully commit to her, by all means, keep your substance-lacking side pieces & keep playing, but be honest with her. Don’t act interested, get her pregnant, then leave her to raise a child alone. #EbrahimAseem Don't hold back her blessings, playing a role another man is meant to have in her life, by making her his wife. #EbrahimAseem Don’t string any woman along, planting feelings in her heart & empty promises in her mind, when you know damn well you don’t see her in your #Future. #EbrahimAseem Don’t demand her loyalty without offering her commitment, because her loyalty is to her child. A woman & her child are a package deal. If you date a single mother & her child gets attached to you, then you leave, it will crush that child. It will give that child abandonment issues lasting a lifetime, effecting their future relationships. #EbrahimAseem I will make a woman a wife before I make her a mother, because my mother raised a future husband & father, not a future baby daddy. #EbrahimAseem Link to this full 2 million views article in my bio. Read it ASAP! #Ciara #RussellWilson

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Single Mothers don’t have poor taste in men. It’s not her fault she choose a “baby daddy”. She just confided in a boy she thought was as a man.

It’s hard to judge a book by its contents, when the cover tells a lying story. Good men do exist Yet, sometimes lame males front & play the role of a MAN when they first meet a woman. Once she gives him her heart & her loyalty before requiring his faithful commitment, he switches up & reveals himself for the mentally immature little boy he is. Other times, that single mother just choose a ‘bad boy’ & her superficial attraction & choices came back to haunt her. By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

I don’t hold a woman’s past choices against her. Single mothers DESERVE a Man who can LEAD himself & his children. She shouldn’t have to lead herself AND her child by herself, AND make every financial decision in her life, AND deal with stress, AND pay all the bills, AND pray all by her self. #EbrahimAseem

She deserves a strong man who can shoulder that burden with her. Lead her child & be her rock. Teach her child how a loving, healthy relationship looks by how he treats her with respect & faithful commitment. Melt away her insecurities. Destroy her trust issues. Break down her wall & show her what reciprocal love is.

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Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Court her. Just spoke these words to 115 teen mom abuse survivors. #SpeakLife #SingleMother #EbrahimAseem

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Accountability is manhood. #SpeakLife from my new article. Link in my bio. #EbrahimAseem

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I had to watch my moms do all that alone growing up, as she chose to divorce my father, rather than be subjected to catering to a good man who’s not on her level of growth. My father, who died when I was young, taught me with actions to never sit & watch the mother of my children struggle to play the role that I as a MAN was put on this earth to play. #EbrahimAseem

I have no children but all this love to give a child. I’m going to get the wife & children I deserve, even if I have to marry a single mother after courting her, because at least I know she knows how to cater to a man, because she’s raising one. #EbrahimAseem I’ve always felt this way, well before I ever took a single mother out on a date. Now, after being out on at least a dozen first dates with single mothers, I can confidently say:

this is why no man should “date” a single mother. Marry her. Court her. But don’t waste her time by “dating” her with no intentions to marry her. #EbrahimAseem Dating & talking are ambiguous terms. You’re either planning to marry her, sex her, or planning to friend zone her. There’s no in between.

I will teach my daughter this. #EbrahimAseem #SpeakLife 🙌🏿

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I met the sweetest woman at Forever 21 while shopping for my niece. Career woman, second year master’s student. Tall. Gorgeous. Fashionable. Curly haired killa. I’m talking the kind of fine where you gotta squint your eyes when you look at her fine ass. Her eyes a beautiful hazel. Her lips full & luscious, with a smile that could get her anything she wanted… except a man. She was a single mother.

Her son was her everything. Her little man was the man of the house. Her MCM every monday. No man could ever come before her son. At first glance, I knew none of this. So, when I saw her shopping, I had to approach.

“Good afternoon,” I greeted with a smile, “I pray your day goes as beautiful as your vibe is. You’re absolutely slaying your outfit. Could I ask your opinion on some clothes for my baby niece?”

“Of course,” she replied with a smile. “That’s cute you shop for your niece. Or is that just some pick up line you use to meet hot women?”

I laughed out loud.

“No line queen, I just love my family & being all about them,” I clapped back. “Now, I see your hair & nails are freshly done. So are you & your abundant edges really in here shopping, or is this just some tactic you use to get approached by handsome men?”

She laughed loudly. She laughed so hard, she snorted. The giggle-snort is a woman’s boner. If you can stimulate both her mind & her funny bone consistently, she’s yours. Also, never make a woman feel her smart mouth is a problem. Just respectfully clap back & let her sassy ass know you’re just as fluent in sarcasm as she is & you will arouse what most men rarely stimulate, her pulsating mind.

“Oh! You got jokes, I see you,” she replied, failing at fighting off a blush. “Well to answer your question, I don’t do this as a tactic to get approached, but I must say, you are a very handsome man.”

“Thank you beautiful young woman,” I responded, sticking out my hand for her to shake. “My name is Ebrahim Aseem. What is your name?”

“Damiyah,” she answered cheesing harder than an infant during a tickle session. “I have a little sister who adores me & acts just like me, so I buy her clothes that I’d like. She just loves it & I love doing it. I’m a fashion designer, what do you do?”

After exchanging fashion tips, we exchanged numbers. By the time the cashier bagged the clothes I bought, I had bagged Damiyah. I called her that night & we talked for hours. For eleven days, we talked every day for hours. On the twelfth day, I invited her on a date to the Brian McKnight concert that friday. She accepted. Yet, on the day of the concert, when I went to pick her up, she flaked. Ignored my calls, texts & honks. I even rung her doorbell four times. No response. I hoped back in my car & drove home. I was furious. I didn’t understand why a woman would flake, knowing you already bought tickets to something. In reality, she wasn’t flaking on me.

I found out later her son had a post pulmonary interstitial emphysema outbreak. That’s why she was not at home. She was in the hospital with her son. Her phone died.

Men have no idea how hard it can be for Single Mothers to deal with the baby, get ready for work, feed the baby, get dressed, clean up after the baby, rock the baby, because the precious bundle of joy is crying, then wipe her own damn tears, because girls cry rivers having to deal with the baby all by her self. #EbrahimAseem

Meanwhile, the child’s sperm donor (aka father) plays Call of Duty, finger-banging enabling women, playing Madden, eating Cinnamon Toast Crunch out of a huge mixing bowl & buying bammer weed & over-priced Jordans with money he could be providing for his child & investing in his role as a father.

Man up & spend time with your child. Not for 2 hours bro, no stop “baby sitting your own child”, while you play daddy for another woman’s child. Take your child for a weekend, shit a whole week. Give your children’s mother time for her SELF. If You can’t say you love your child when you grieve, over stress & over work your child’s mother by making her do most if the work. #EbrahimAseem You men will be salty as hell when your children say they don’t fuck with you when they grow up.

Men, we can’t always assume a woman is flaking on us, just because she’s not available to spend time with us. Her child is her priority over herself. Don’t complain. Support her. She does it all alone & is trying to hold it all together. Reassure her motherhood is not a deal breaker & she will shower you with abundant affection.

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Two days later, Damiyah texted me apology selfies of herself & those curls, then she called me & apologized for flaking, simply saying, she had a “family emergency.” I wanted to be upset, but she was too sweet & fine to stay mad at. Like you know someone’s fine when you give them second chances after repeating red flags. She asked for a make up date & promised to make it up to me by inviting me to an Ethiopian restaurant for dinner & live jazz. I accepted. The date was amazing. Bomb food. Great music. We even danced together. Towards the end of the date, however, she dropped a bombshell.

“I have to be completely honest with you, because I really like you,” she confessed. “The reason I flaked on our first date, was because I was in the emergency room with my son. He had a lobectomy as a baby & was having trouble breathing that day. So, I took him to the hospital.”

“Wow, I’m sad to hear that,” I responded empathetically. “I pray he’s better now. I didn’t know you had a son.”

“I know,” she replied, “I planned to tell you the night of our first date, but then it happened, and I… I just feel like I should’ve already told you, but something this serious should be revealed face to face. Me and my son’s father are not together anymore, but me & my son are living with him right now. It’s a long story, but we got an apartment together before I got pregnant. Everything was great, until I told him I was with child. From then on he changed. He started cheating & yelling at me for everything. Once I had my son, it got worse. That’s when I broke up with him. I wanted to leave, but my name is still on the lease & I can’t afford to pay rent at two different places.

I moved out & got my own place, but after I lost my job, I got evicted & became homeless. There I was, me and my infant son living in my Prius. I just recently started living back with my child’s father, just so my son would not be cold at night. Look, I know this is a lot of drama & I never wanted to involve you. I hope you’re not mad at me. But, if you never want to see me again, I understand.”

“I’m not mad at you,” I assured her, “and I applaud all you do for your son. I want you to know, you are not a victim. You are a victor. There is victory in enduring pain, it makes you stronger. I’m happy you are telling me this now on our first date, before we started dating, and out of respect, I feel it is only fair to tell you that I don’t date single mothers.”

“Wow, you really just said that, huh,” she replied with a hint of attitude, “just flat-out, you don’t date single mothers.”

“No, I don’t,” I explained. “This is why no man should date a single mother, MARRY that single mother, make your intentions with her known by counting her first, or don’t even waste her time by “dating” her.”

Men, if you’re not ready to faithfully commit to her, by all means, keep your substance-lacking side pieces & keep playing, but be honest with her. Don’t hold back her blessings, playing a role another man is meant to have in her life, by making her his wife. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t you string a single mother along, planting feelings in her heart & empty promises in her mind, when you know damn well you don’t see her in your future. Don’t demand her loyalty without offering her commitment, because her loyalty is to her child first. #EbrahimAseem A woman and her child are a package deal. If you date a single mother & her child gets attached to you, then you leave, it will crush that child. It will give that child abandonment issues lasting a lifetime, effecting their future relationships.

I will not ask you to chill. I will take you out on a date, let you know exactly how I feel & my intentions with you. We’re too old for games & passiveness. If you have a child, we will not “talk” or date leading nowhere. I will court you. I will make my plans to marry you one day known. You deserve a help meet, not merely a date. A man “dating” her without commitment is how she became a single mother in the first place.

Why no man should DATE a #SingleMother. 💍👰👰🏾 #EbrahimAseem #SpeakLife

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I’m tired of seeing sweet women with beautiful children & no father in sight. I promise not to make any woman a mother, until I make her a wife. #EbrahimAseem

A woman all about her child makes a man of valor want to be all about her. I know you want a complete family. A husband to share a lifetime of affection with. Travel abroad with. Grow with. Laugh with. Be silly with. Raise your children to love themself with. I want you to know you are not broken. You are not damaged goods. You are not incomplete without a man. You are a masterpiece, sculpted by the most powerful artist in the universe, who has a plan & a help meet for you. So get ready. Self edify. Love your child, and your king will mentally ascend to his throne, make you the wife you were born to be and love you & your child as his own, with all his heart.

Single mother does not automatically mean deadbeat father. Some fathers are not allowed to establish a relationship with their child, because the mother is bitter he moved on. Some single mothers are widows who had amazing husbands.

Having a child does not take away from all she has to offer. She was born to be a wife. Honor her. Reassure her having a child is not a deal breaker. It just proves she can nurture you with affection on a level you’ve never experienced. Don’t let fatherhood & marriage scare you bro. You are a king, regal minded, endowed by the greatest artist in the universe to be a leader & provider. Don’t shy from it. Embrace it.

If you want a woman you have to fight for her. One day, if we’re meant to be together, I will find my future wife & let her know how much she means to me. But I won’t “date” her. I will court her, even if she has children. Then, I will get on one knee & ask her that virtuous woman to be my “good thing”.

I can imagine being married. Having children, spending time with them, Playing with them & making them laugh, teaching them about life, instilling confidence & self worth before giving them piggyback rides. Having a wife, spoiling her with love and attention, Being goofy with her, making her laugh & smile every second I spend with her. Providing for my family.

I honestly pray I have all this before my moms gets too old to enjoy a daughter-in-law & grandchildren. Everytime I see my moms, she talks about wanting grandchildren & saying she raised me to be a husband. Because I was raised by a queen, I now for sure, I am not looking for a girlfriend to date, I am looking for a wife to court, marry & raise children with.

I’d absolutely MARRY a single mother after courting her. Then I could be my dream, a father, but never will I date her “talk” & starve her of commitment she deserves

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
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My mother raised a future husband 👉🏾💍👰🏾 not a future baby daddy. I am so tired of “talking”. Being in a relationship where the sex is so damn good, but there’s no growth or courtship is a waste to me. #EbrahimAseem I see your fine ass has curves, but are you nurturing? Kind? Patient? Spiritual? Goofy? Good with children? Finances? Home decor? I don’t date for a hobby. If we aren’t planning for forever I have no interest. What are your passions? Goals? Can WE stimulate each others spirit? Can WE align each others chakras? Can WE activate each others pineal gland? I don't care if you can twerk 💃🏾 or back that ass up 😒 Can we dine on each other's frequency as you digest knowledge my food for thought feeds your mind? What type of mother will you be? Where do you want to raise a family? Let’s stop asking these women for pics, ask if she’s a WIFE. Men let's behave loyal to our self worth before we even say I do. #EbrahimAseem I can imagine being married. Having children, spending time with them, Playing with them & making them laugh, teaching them about life, instilling confidence & self worth before giving them piggyback rides. Having a wife, spoiling her with love and attention, Being goofy with her, making her laugh & smile every second I spend with her. Providing for my family. #EbrahimAseem I honestly pray I have all this before my moms gets too old to enjoy a daughter-in-law & grandchildren. Everytime I see my moms, she talks about wanting grandchildren & saying she raised me to be a husband. Because I was raised by a queen, I know for sure, I am not looking for a girlfriend to date, I am looking for a wife to court, marry & raise children with. #EbrahimAseem Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY #Excerpt from #WhyNoManShouldDATEaSingleMother #MARRYher 💍👰🏾 #OrDontWasteHerTime👉 RealNewsPaper.me

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The mNemonic beat knock of Hip-Hop & R&B

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By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

Usher’s Confessions is one of the greatest pure albums. He poured his vocal soul on a vinyl canvas. A score of his love life. It told a story. It’s constant concept throughout. Passion filled lyrics. Soulful melody. Don’t let this “new” techno Usher fool you. He’s trying to stay relevant. #EbrahimAseemI’mma need Usher to get another woman pregnant so we can get Confessions: Chapter 2 😩✌

Usher’s newest hit “I Don’t Mind” where he proclaims, “if you dance on a pole, that don’t make you a hoe” is not just a sign of Usher abandoning his soulful Confessions roots. Just like Kanye abandoning his immaculate College Dropout roots, it is a perfect example of the mnemonic beat knock of hip-hop & R&B.

King, queen, listen. You’re not in a universe, or a dimension.
You mind IS a universe, engaging in conscious ascension.
Too many young people are stuck in embryonic cognition, stuntin’ their only mission. #EbrahimAseem Lacking in goals, drive & ambition will lead them to mental descension.
Mind in remission detention, pineal gland inactivated, chakras unaligned.
Their frontal cortex connection has stopped. Due to the mnemonic beat knock of hip-hop.

mNemonic (n) a verse, sound, formula or rhyme used to incept thoughts into one’s memory, intended to invoke a secret reaction.

The beat knock of hip-hop is used as a mnemonic key to lock listeners mind into an unintuitive, droid state, void of free thinking & ripe for consumer inception. I’m so thankful for Solange, Kendrick Lamar & J. Cole, because a lot of these other ass artists have clearly sold their soul & forfeited creative control.

GE owns Nicki Minaj, JayZ, Cash Money, Drake, Kanye & Iggy’s record labels that glorify crime & violence, manufactures weapons & owns stock in private prisons. Clearly, rappers & singers are unknowingly being used to mnemoniclly incept prison-culture into Black youth’s mind, pipelining them into the private prison system via weapons-glorifying lyrics over a rhythmic beat. #EbrahimAseem

“About a weak ago, weak ago” may be the most memorable line of Bobby Shmurda’s debut hit rap song, yet the gun violence glorifying, black on black crime bragging lyrics hidden under an amazingly slapping beat highlight the mnemonic inception of gun violence as unbeknownst product placement into listener’s memory, fueling GE’s weapons manufacturing portfolio.

Slavery was more than picking cotton. African slaves were inventors. They drafted blueprints, designed cities as slave architects & created inventions for their masa to steal, patten & put their name on. The 14th amendment states slaves is outlawed everywhere except prison. General Electric is using hip-hop artists on it’s label to product place prison culture into young minds, pipelining children into prisons, funding their investments in the private prison industry aka the new slavery. #EbrahimAseem

Black entertainers invent amazing forms of art used to keep people of all races in a drone-like, mental slave state via mnemonics.

Consciousness is controlled & free thought is limited by one-percenters who fear elevated consciousness will lead the 99% to acquiring the knowledge & wealth one-percenters desperately hold hostage.

These demonic one-percenters’ most powerful weapon is mnemonics & their aim is to keep our minds frozen in a consumer state, too busy to cognitively thaw & mentally awaken into using the law of attraction naturally, as a form of second nature.

Music provides a powerful mnemonic link to product brands & amoral ideas.

The “ba-da dot dot daah” jingle is a mnemonic sound used to trigger memory of the taste & smell of McDonald’s poisonous food in the brain, sparking premature hunger.

Reality TV shows like Love & Hip Hop & Basketball Wives use beautiful women with sweet hearts & messy lives, drama & hip-hop culture as a mnemonic tool to incept sponge-like insecurities into female viewers head, so they’ll soak up beauty-themed product placement in the show & subsequent product-ads during the commercial break.

If you don’t listen to Soul or 90s R&B, we can’t be anything more than friends. I’m looking for an old soul. Go listen to Justin Beiber, since you wanna act childish.

Sade. Anita Baker. Avant. Bilal. Stevie Wonder. Whitney Houston. Patti LaBelle. Jill Scott. Erykah Badu. Lauryn Hill. Chrisette Michelle. Kem. Anthony Hamilton. Levert. The Isley Brothers. Maxwell. Boyz II Men. Aretha Franklin. Michael Jackson. Goapele. Raheem DeVaughn, Musiq Soulchild. Raphael Saadiq. D’Angelo. KeKe Wyatt. Janelle Monae. Luther. Monica. Brian McKnight. Jodeci. Jagged Edge. BeBe & CeCe. Janet (Ms. Jackson) Panic At The Disco! No Doubt. Portishead. Led Zeppelin. John Lennon. Bob Marley. Nirvana. Duke Ellington. I love soul, country, 90sR&B, New Jack Swing, punk, rock, gospel & most of all JAZZ music.

If you don’t listen to any of those, because ALL you listen to is Hip Hop, we could never be anything more than just platonic. A person’s taste in music speaks volumes of their aura, vibe & chemistry to me.

I love Hip-Hop w/ every breath in my body. It pains me such beautiful music lost its originality & lyricism I miss Missy. I miss College Dropout Kanye, not this new Kanye. I miss Lil Weezy. I miss The Blueprint Jay. I miss Just Blaze & Ruff Riders Eve & 21 Questions 50 Cent. I miss #90sHipHop I miss real music.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
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Resources:

“From Independent to Corporate: A Political Economic Analysis of Rap Billboard Toppers” By: Myer & Kleck, 2007 – http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/03007760701267649

“Psychology Modeling: conflicting modification” By: psychologist Albert Bandura, 1971

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Why MEN choose BAD Bitches over SWEET, genuine, WIFE material Women

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Why men choose BAD Bitches over SWEET girls, every time.

A woman asked me this today during my motivational speak to a room full of 130 Women. I told her,

“Males like self-proclaimed ‘bad bitches’ (SSBB), because they feel she wants a man, but doesn’t NEED a man and she is simply not as emotionally high-maintenance as a sweet girl.

Sweet girls care so much, about everything & require even MORE emotionally. They have abandonment issues & trust issues that get aggravated when the man they like doesn’t give her enough deserved attention.

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She will start to feel unwanted. Yet, she will not call the guy she likes out, in fear he’ll say:
“You’re crazy.”
“You’re doing too much.”
“Damn, stop being so over-emotional.”
“See, this is why I’m unsure about us. You’re Expecting too much of me.”

Sweet girls suffer chronic migraine & anxiety attacks no one knows due to constantly being misunderstood, unheard & being made to feel she has to internalize her feelings.

Sweet girls constantly fear the littlest thing she does or opens up about will be judged, scrutinized or scare the guy she likes away, so she apologizes for everything.

Sweet girls be like,

“Am I talking too much?”
“You don’t think I’m weird for saying that, do you?”
“Sorry, I know this is boring you.”
“I’m sorry if I’m annoying you, am I asking too many questions?”

Being raised by a woman who always told her, ‘girl shut up’ or ‘no body cares’ led her to being so gaurded.

We make our women feel like they have to apologize for merely existing.
Every fashion magazine you read keeps telling you how ‘ain’t shit’ you are.
Articles be like,
‘oh you’re still wearing those same shoes? Bitch, you ain’t shit.’
‘You’re still wearing your hair like that? Bitch, you ain’t shit.’
I hate the word bitch. Why is every word we call our woman an ANIMAL?

Bitch = dog. Nag = horse. Chick = bird. Slut = pig. She’s a woman. Every man ever born, SHE created. Your God choose HER. RESPECT her, so she won’t apologize for her existence in life.

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Any time she DOES find the back bone to speak her true feelings, it must be accompanied with a “lol” or “jk” to lighten up her assertions.

This annoys the hell out off men. That is why the guy you like ignores your texts.
He would rather have flirtversations with ‘bad bitches’ on Instagram,
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