Light Skins can’t fight for the struggle. They aren’t Black.

By: Ebrahim Aseem

“Light privilege is real,” a dark skinned man exclaimed, as he stood in a long line in front of me at CREAM, an ice cream sandwich parlor that stands for “Cookies Rule Everything Around Me.” Let’s call him “Tical”.

Tical stared at his phone, scrolling as he continued, “Why do niggas think a mulatto endorsed by Nike is a win? The revolution will not be publicized.”

“It’s not a win or an L, It’s a Muhammad Ali, rope-a-dope tactic,” I interjected.

“Ever notice women will know us men are lying & hiding something, yet she won’t mention it. She’ll wait until our ego gets so comfortable lying, our sloppy actions get us caught. Our strong pride was used against us.

Using your opponent’s strength against them is the most powerful strategy in war, because it exploits the momentum your opponent’s ego.

Nike seeks to exploit Colin Kaepernick’s divisive notoriety to sell their product. Their wealth & influence is their strength. Fake woke sleepwalkers feel Kaepernick should resist Nike to spite the corporation hoping to exploit him. But to resist your opponent due to their strength is to forfeit the fight before the war is won.

In the same way Muhammad Ali defeated the more powerful George Foreman during the Rumble in the Jungle boxing championship, by using Foremen’s strength against him to make him fatigued & ripe for the knock out;

Colin Kaepernick is defeating his opposers, whose only strength is their white privilege. They set their Nike apparel & shoes on fire in videos, burning their own foot to spite their swoosh. They’re unintentionally advertising Kaepernick’s message like a commercial, that these eugenicists rather burn Nike apparel they paid for, than donate the clothes to homeless troops they claim their standing for the anthem supports. Their inner snake is revealed. Reptilian.

Speaking of animals, Donald Duck & birds like him, call Colin a threat to making America great again as a land of the free & home of the brave. He’s unintentionally advertising for Kaepernick’s message that this country is the land of the hypocrites & home of the enslaved. The revolution will be strategized.”

After multiple failed attempts to interject, Tical finally got a word in edgewise.

“I don’t need your history lesson, Red,” Tical replied, dismissively throwing shade to my naturally red beard, “the only reason white folk loved Ali is, because he was light skin.”


Ebrahim: “Love Ali? No, toilet seat colored people hated Ali, until Parkinson’s silenced his truth speaking mouth. He was labeled a draft dodger and called anti-American, the same way Kaepernick is.”

Tical: “But the difference is Kaepernick is a half breed, mixed mulatto. “Stay woke. Light skins can not fight for the struggle. They ain’t real Black. Don’t let memes convince you Kaepernick is some civil rights martyr like Marcus Garvey or Fredrick Douglass. Them niggas were the real freedom fighters.”

Ebrahim: “Fredrick Douglass’ was bi-racial, his father was white. Yet his melanin & self love was blacker than midnight,” I retorted. “Fredrick Douglass was the 1st Black nominee for Vice President of the U.S. He not only fought for the black struggle, he also fought for the women’s suffrage movement, because there was always two forms of slavery in America, Black people owned by white men and all women owned by their white fathers, then sold to their husbands.

Fredrick Douglass was proof a bi-racial black person with one white parent can fight for the Black struggle.”

Tical: “At least Douglas looked brown skin though. I mean it’s hard to know for sure, all we have is pixelated photographs of the brotha, but still. He look real black. So he couldn’t pass. Kaepernick is light as a white person, with that appropriating Afro he wears. He can pass. That’s why light skins can’t lead the struggle.”


Ebrahim: “Angela Davis is light skinned, yet she lead the Black Panther movement in the 1970s. Malcom X was light skin as well. Just because a person’s skin is light, doesn’t mean their dna isn’t Black. It’s their regal spirit that makes them black on both sides. Mos Def voice.

Michael Jordan is darker than the back of Forest Whitaker’s neck, but his spirit is whiter than the plaque colored people he tap-dances for. Jordan takes Black money for his shoes, but he never speaks out or stands up for Black issues. Jordan is proof having dark black skin isn’t what makes you black, it’s loving your self, melanin and your ancestors with unapologetic blackness.”

Him: “Angela Davis was a pretty face used to ponder to the white man’s idea of beauty being light skin. Light skinned women are not real black. And no woman can lead the revolution. That’s the man’s job. He’s the leader. Her job is in the kitchen, keeping the family structure together.”

Me: “What you’re not going to do is come for Angela Davis. She’s Blacker and realer than you’ll ever be.

Light skinned women are black, because her DNA carries the melanin to give birth to a child darker than Idris Elba, or lighter than Steph Curry. An apple is one because its apple seed can produce apples. Light skin black women are black because her seed can produce infinite generations of Black excellence.”

Him: “Light skin blacks like her or Malcolm could only lead the struggle, because they embraced their Blackness and didn’t act white.”

Me: “What’s acting white?”

Him: “Using big words for no reason is acting white.
Turning the other cheek instead of clapping back with force is acting white.
Going to the white man’s college for a degree is acting white.”

Me: You have to use your opponent’s strength against them.

It was illegal for Black slaves to learn to read. They stole our language from us & hung us if we learned theirs. Little black toddlers would be burned along with the books they were reading in front of their families. Why? So they could change the Bible, manipulate the laws, hide our rites and rewrite history.

Using big words isn’t “acting white”. Words sounds have power. When you speak with understanding, the spirit can flow out your mouth, with the power to move mountains.

Going to college or earning a degree isn’t “acting white”. Half the white philosophers learned at the feet of The Moors. The other half stole their knowledge from the safes, libraries and archives of Nubian rulers. College teaches you half truths, but when you have knowledge of self and activate your pineal gland, you’re able to take those seeds of half truths & plant them with the seeds of knowledge of self to awaken innate wisdom & cultivate mental ascension into fruition.

The last thing I said to Tical was, “There is no one style or format that makes you black. Blackness is innate and intrinsic.” But I stopped there. Not just because it was my turn to order ice cream but, also because the hardest person to wake up is the one who’s pretending to be sleep.

Black is your culture, not your identity. You are a spirit, wearing this human form like clothes. Spirits have no race. No gender. No age, because time doesn’t exist in the universe. But on this realm, our culture is our GPS map. It leads us to knowledge of self, so we can know how to operate all our gifts hidden deep inside our DNA.

Props to women fighting anxiety, depression, cancer or migraine yet find strength to pour energy in work, school, bills, grinding for a future or freedom fighting for the struggle. I see you. I know you don’t get credit for doing it alone but you’re appreciated. Stay unbreakable.

Every form of pain you face, rather it be anxiety, stress, disease, sadness, self doubt, abandonment issues, there is an intangible weapon hidden deep inside of your DNA to help you overcome that pain. The greatest artist in this universe hand painted you to be a work of art. No matter the color of your skin, love yourself for the spirit you are within. You are strong, beautiful, unbreakable and unfuckwithable.

Love your culture. Learn your history, and embrace your women, they are the key to life, light and mental ascension into the universe. She’s the portal chosen to give life, and all human life came out of the womb of the strongest being on this planet, the Black Woman.

Us brothas don’t say this enough, but Black Women; you are so beautiful, giving, spiritual & selfless. You’re not too picky, too difficult or opinionated. You’re strong minded & enough. #EbrahimAseem All life springs from your womb. You are loved, because you are love.

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Birth Number Six

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“Six” is a harmonious number. It is representing friendship, love, union, health, beauty and wisdom. This is a numerological ideal of such associations of people, which are forming a single unit, that differs with perfection.

Because the desire for harmony is the main feature of people born under Number 6, they have a certain magnetism, reflecting the fact that they are holistic people. “Charismatic personality” – a characteristic, that is best suited to them, if we notice the impact that they have on the others. People with the Birthday Number 6 may not be always beautiful or attractive, although many of them are distinguished by a special grace. But no matter how they look and what physical features they may possess, people of Number 6 have a certain energy that elevates them above the crowd. Many of these people are skillful in creating an “image”, and it strengthens their influence on people. Manners, clothes, the whole appearance – all carefully thought out, so that it is effecting people perfectly. Number 6 do not always realize how much work they have to make to look so great, but they always achieve their goals. They are not from this kind of people that you meet, and immediately forget.

They are often trusted, but not necessarily treated with a true love – it seems, that they came from beyond the world. This happens even when there is no particular reason for such conclusions. Therefore, it is expedient for them to act as mediators, facilitators, able to settle conflicts and to ensure the success of the case. These people – a reliable confidants and advisers. Friends and acquaintances who want to get their recommendations will be pleased with the results. Carriers of the Number 6 rarely criticize someone – usually they accept people as they are, and are tolerant to their weaknesses and shortcomings. They always carefully calculate different situations, and very rarely someone is able to cheat on them twice. In pursuing their own interests in different areas, Number 6 usually do not let them to outgrow the established framework. Sometimes they seem to be just a smart manipulators, but in reality it is a very holistic people, and they are rightfully respected for that.

Emotional characteristics

Happiness – is when a person feels harmony between his body and soul, as well as between himself and his environment. So, the carriers of Birthday Number 6 are mostly happy, but it does not drive them crazy. However, sometimes, looking at them, one may say that they are too happy and it is not true. The habit of Number 6 to create a prosperous image only enhances this effect.

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Like everyone else, people of this Number are subjected to some fluctuations and internal disorders. However, the ability to manipulate and the vanity from the fact that they belong to the ranks of happy people, for whom the sun shines always, is combined in Number 6 with the knowledge that dealing with human beings should be conducted on a fair basis.
Most of this people worry a lot about the others, if they see that they are somehow offended. And although they are rarely involved in the patronage and they rarely are adjacent to some human rights campaigns, in such cases they can not refrain from interference, especially if it is somehow concerned with their ideas of honor and justice.

Carriers of Number 6, as a rule, are very sexy. However, despite their charisma, they are not overusing the “universal love”. Their ability to charm people often causes jealousy among the representatives of the same sex.

People with the Birthday Number 6 usually have a pragmatic view on love – material considerations are often playing a very important role when they are choosing a partner. Those who take love just as a great pastime, far from everyday worries – can become a victim of their own illusions.

Looking for a friend or a spouse, Number 6 should try to express his feelings and affection more openly. In this case they will most likely attract those partners who love them for what they really are, not not for what they seem to be.

From a financial point of view, the main problem for the average representative of the Number 6 stems from the need to align with the neighbors. Therefore, money are one of the biggest concerns of this people. They usually do not chase millions of dollars, do not dream of fantastic castles, but for them it is extremely important to have the means to acquire quality products. Falling into poverty, even for some very short time, is a true disaster for Number 6. They should better avoid extravagance, indulging their desires.

In most cases life of those born under Number 6 is quite harmonious. Due to the huge magnetic force of their personalities, they are not so rare to “catch a star from the sky”. They are a reliable, trustworthy people, they love their lives to be easy and pleasant. If they will manage to properly use all advantages of Number 6, then they will be able to avoid the dangers hidden in the conceit, smugness and insincerity, which are also typical for this vibration. In the numerological hierarchy Number 6 in general is a favorable sign. It is quite safe to swing on the quiet waves of this “harbor of safety”, though this innocent peace at times may be violated by hurricanes, suddenly blowing from the mainland or from the sea.

Number of a life path is most important number in your numerology chart.

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Why Loyal women are really SELFISH

Giving your all to a non-reciprocal man who meets none of your needs is NOT loyal, it’s Selfish. You only care about your own self pleasure is not being alone, while staying loyal to a man who doesn’t deserve it. #EbrahimAseem

If you care for HIS growth, you wouldn’t stunt it by rewarding half-ass effort with your amazing presence in his life. #EbrahimAseem

He needs to learn, “you don’t get to have the benefit of a loyal partner with out matching their effort & reciprocating all they give.” – Ebrahim Aseem
But you don’t want him to learn. You just want his half-ass attention. How selfish of you. You deserve reciprocal love you don’t have to force.

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10 reasons why Ladies Love *LAW and ORDER SVU*

Ice Cream + Law and Order SVU marathon = the recipe for a Deep Thinking Woman But why?

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75% of my network consists of my deployed male friends, overseas in the Air Force and Marines who are away from their wives for 6 months at a time. Among the many relationship questions men email me weekly, one question they always ask is, “why does my girl love watching SVU marathons so much?”

Ladies love Law and Order ==> SVU <== specifically, for these reasons:

1. Strong Women with a Smart-Mouth are celebrated.

In a man’s world, strong-minded women are often discouraged to down play their strength and portray submissive characteristics by weak-minded men who are intimidated by the strength of a woman.

Olivia Benson represents the feminine, strong-minded woman inside of every female. She’s gentle, yet tough as bricks.
She’s feminine, yet not super-girly.

She can seduce a man with her beautiful smile, or kick his ass with her quick hands and sharp tongue.
The later is one of the more subtle, yet empowering aspects of her character, displayed on the show.

SVU promotes the “Intelligent, Quick-Witted, Smart Mouthed Women”.

Often labeled an offensive adjective that starts with the letter “B” by weak men,
who couldn’t assume them alpha role if their manhood depended on it,

SVU displays the true nature of a smart mouthed woman as one who knows her strength and embraces it.
Who doesn’t down play her intelligence to appease the male ego.

Who doesn’t bite her tongue.
It shows a woman doesn’t have to follow every statement she makes to a man with a girly giggle or an “lol”, as a way to lighten up her intelligent assertions.

Who doesn’t have to passive-aggressively respond to a man under her breath
as a way to avoid his father-like discipline of her not “knowing her role and staying in it”.

Benson’s character, played by Marishka Hargitay, is the girl next door;
if the girl next door had the face of a model, with the fight of a black-belt.

Women love her, because she doesn’t take any misogynistic BS.
Not only does she stand up for women on the show, Benson /Marishka founded the Joyful Heart Foundation in 2004

To heal and empower survivors of sexual assault, domestic violence and child abuse, while raising awareness for these often over-looked epidemics.
Gotta love a strong-minded woman with a conscious.

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2. Stabler.

One word says it all for true SVU fans
who’ve been watching from the start.

Strong minded women LOVE a strong man, with mountains for arms who knows how to take charge and DEMAND her attention with his romantic aggression.
Elliot Stabler is just that.

Although Christopher Meloni has since left the show, he won’t soon leave true fans’ hearts.
The impact his punch first, ask questions last persona leaves on the screen, as well on the face of a suspect, is unshakable.

3. Girls love Gore.

Even a woman who refuses to watch a horror film
will sit and Google “serial killers” on her phone all day,

or read about “The black dahlia” on Wikipedia, until her eyes turn red,
or YouTube the most heinous real life crimes, like the news clip about the mother who put her 2-month old baby in the microwave, while on her lunch break.

This counterphobic attitude is a response to anxiety that,
instead of fleeing the source of fear in the manner of a phobia,

one actively seeks it out, in the hope of overcoming the original anxiousness.
It’s a subconscious response to seek out what is feared.

A woman’s love for detection and problem solving rivals her love for chocolate.
And that’s saying a mouth full. When she first meets a man, she has no hesitation to background check his Facebook, google his name and phone number, and cross reference his social networks to ascertain his TRUE relationship status, if he has any children, as well as his characteristics and attributes. By the time a woman agrees to go on a first date with you, she knows substantially more about you than you know about her.

The thriller of solving a suspense or mystery gives life to an intelligent woman. A CSI team has nothing on a woman’s intuition. A woman knows the answer to a question she asks a man before she even asks us. She just wants to see of we will be honest with her. This is why a man should never lie to a woman, she knows. Trust me.

Women are DEEP thinkers by nature. They will stay up all night, playing out scenarios in their head about what “would” happen if she did this, or what “might” happen if she did that. There’s something therapeutic to a woman about watching an SVU marathon with her phone in one hand and a container of ice cream in the other.

Despite the anxiety crime and violence induces, experiencing it through a fictional lens helps a woman minimize her anxiety of her fears, through familiarity and understanding coupled with the usually satisfying conclusion of the abuser being brought to justice at conclusion of each episode.

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4. … because they never say “she asked for it.”

When a woman gets sexually harassed by a co-worker, family member or her bestie’s husband, SHE is told,
“how can you dress so sexy like that and not expect a man to want to force himself on you?”

Women know this. They know they live in a world, dangerous and unjust for women. They know the live in a rape culture, where if a man wears a bathing suit, he’s “handsome and attractive” yet, when a woman wears a bathing suit, she’s, “a whore” or “setting thirst traps”

But on SVU, the cops don’t blame the victims, they listen to them.

They treat them with respect.
They don’t ask women, “well, what were you wearing or doing to MAKE him touch you?”

Ignorance like this is not allowed on this show.

The police are extremely attentive and they show the victims they really care.
They treat women with the respect, assuring them their abuser will be caught.

5. It’s cathartic.

1 of every 3 women are physically or sexually abused at some point in their lives.
In real life, the victims are blamed for this.

But on SVU, the abusers are held to a high standard,
while the victims are comforted and their accusation of abuse or rape is often justified, as no one blames THEM for being raped or beat up.

Survivors of sexual & physical assault, find it healing seeing stories similar to theirs, where people actually care about the victim and bringing the perpetrator to justice in some way.
Survivors want to think some survivors get help and support the way they never did.

Their fantasies of Detective Stabler punching their abuser, rapist or molester until he was bloody and unrecognizable,
Olivia understanding and supporting them through the trial,

Alex brilliantly and successfully arguing for their abuser’s conviction,
causing them to emerge from therapy whole and unafraid is fueled through every SVU marathon they watch.

In real life, however, rape crimes are not taken seriously by police.
Sexual harassment at the office is common place.
A man hitting his girlfriend is laughed at, with ill-advised Chris Brown and Rihanna jokes subsequently following chuckles.

And the much too common “date rape” is often seen by many mentally immature males as,
something a woman “owes” him if he pays for dinner on a date.

Conversely, on SVU, the cops consider rape or domestic abuse just as serious as any other crime. This is why it appeals to a demographic that often has no voice and no one willing to speak for them. They watch it to feel less alone.
So she can know she’s not the only victim out there.

She watches it to see the rapists get their asses kicked and brought to justice, because hers never got punished.
It takes years before hearing ‘it’s not your fault’ becomes an emotional reality, so

Sexual & domestic abuse survivors can find comfort in living vicariously through a character they know will receive some solace within the conclusion of the sixty minute episode.

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6. the Elliot and Olivia hook up that never was, but always seemed right around the corner.

How many women have watched SVU every week to see if this week is the week that Olivia and Elliot would one day make love, because their sexual tension is insane?

7. Ice T’s sarcasm.

The irony of a once hardcore rapper playing a police officer on TV is humorous in and of itself,
and yet Ice T’s sarcastic loquaciousness makes the irony of his existence on a cop show play the comedic straight man.

This clips acts as a perfect ode to Ice T’s unbeknownst hilarity:

8. SVU Marathons are so suspenseful.

You can get emotionally invested in the characters
without having to start from the beginning and watch every single episode sequentially;

Unlike many shows that are impossible to understand unless you binge watch the first three seasons on Netflix without leaving the house for 2 days straight, and if you miss one episode, you have no idea what’s going on and who the hell people are.

Whereas with SVU,
you can turn on the TV and see a complete story in an hour with beginning, middle, and end each time; and you don’t have to watch them in order. This is the major appeal of an SVU marathon. It’s like turning on your favorite playlist and randomizing the tracks.

At the same time, there’s continuity from episode to episode, and Benson and Stabler age, evolve, and change throughout the series,
unlike shows where the main characters are static and interchangeable.
Character development is a huge appeal with SVU fans.

It’s like a mystery or suspense novel in this regard.

9. They don’t act like most victims “cry rape”.

A very low number of rape cases are convicted let alone reported.
The number of people who truly believe most rapes are fabricated and that most women “cry rape” for attention is terrifying.

This lie contributes to the reason most women who get raped don’t report it to the police.
They genuinely feel like no one believes they were really raped.

There is a huge misconception in the world about what “rape” REALLY is.

Sadly, many males, not men, but males don’t consider it “rape” if a woman flirts with him,
or if she enjoys it,
or if she has an orgasm,
or if she has had at least one baby by him,
or if she’s on top,
or if they’re in a relationship,
or if she has ever consented to sex with him at any time.

No matter if a woman consents to sex with a man or not,
if at any time, before or during sex a woman says “stop” “no” “don’t” or “pineapples” it means get up and stop.

Males who say, “well she didn’t use the safe word” or “sometimes no means yes, and stop means harder” miss the point.
Sex is about comfort level.

If at any time a woman doesn’t feel comfortable during sex, it’s best to stop, otherwise that is indeed rape.

The only thing about rape on SVU that is misrepresented is the persistent myth that most rapes are stranger rapes.
Studies show between 70% and 90% of all rapes are committed by someone the victim already knows.

This is rarely portrayed on the show, however,
SVU does a great job of displaying the severity of sexual assault through the amazing storyline and character chemistry.

10. that *sound*. Dun dun

Signifying a beautiful escape into a fantasy world where life is just a little more fair for women.
Why do you love Law & Order SVU so much?

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Why men cheat on PREGNANT women.

Why men cheat on their pregnant woman.

After cheating on his last pregnant ex-GF with Khloe, Tristan cheated on a pregnant Khloe with a girl that looks exactly like his 1st baby mama.

Is it the baby weight she gains, even before she starts to show? Why do men cheat on their pregnant woman, despite her sexy pregnant “glow”? It’s not about looks, remember, Jay-Z did cheat on Bey. The stress caused Beyoncé to miscarry, while her Mister was sexually getting carried away. So how could TristanThompson cheat on #KhloeKardashian with IG Model #LaniBlair ?

Why men cheat on a pregnant woman? Seeing her display more strength then him makes him feel she doesn’t NEED him. A narcissist’s male identity is to be needed by women. Insecurity creates jealousy. He cheats to feel superior to her & spite the unborn baby he’s grown jealous of.

As men, we selfishly think about our own needs during our woman’s pregnancy. It should be all about HER needs. She’s strong because she has to be. She works all day & stays up late at night for the baby, because she has to. Your pregnant woman is not “weak” for being tired or fatigued. She carried a whole life. With your watermelon-head having genes. Your pregnant woman is not a flake or selfish for not spending time with you when it’s convenient for you. She’s an artist, shaping & molding the priceless child you put inside her. And an artist is sensitive about their shit. But your pregnant woman is not overly-emotional. She’s unbreakable & skilled at using her strength to curb the frightened emotions of an uncomfortable baby who’s growing by the second. Your pregnant woman is not fat & unsexy. Her body’s buoyant ability to expand for deliver delivery also applies to her body’s ability to tighten her walls & grip hold if your throbbing manhood.

A mother doesn’t chose the baby over her man. She spends every moment of her life keeping the baby alive, so stop acting like a grown ass baby bro. Giving birth is the closest anyone comes to death. So if she has your child, give her all your energy, patience & understanding until you don’t have any left.

Let’s stop mistaking her super mommy strength for “not needing us as men”. Of course she can do it all alone, but we’d be selfish fools to make her. A pregnant woman doesn’t “need” a man, but she deserves a consistent one. Because us men would be nothing without the pregnant woman who gave us life. Respect the respectful life givers bro.

I never met an amazing mother with a decent sleep pattern. Pretending to be sleep so her baby falls asleep, she overthinks on her purpose & replays scenarios in her mind. Planing years away, pondering life’s meaning. Give her time & consistency, not stress. If shes a deep thinker, shes a keeper💍

Did you know a mother doesn’t sleep? She chases the baby around the house ALL. DAY. LONG. No breaks. Cleaning up messes. Broken glass. Stains. Spills. The only time she does sleep is on accident. #EbrahimAseem I know you’re thinking, “well why can’t she just put the baby to sleep & then she can have time for herself?”

Because dummy, she can’t just “put” the baby to sleep in the crib, then run off & paint the town red. The baby will just cry non-stop. She has to hold, rock & comfort the baby to sleep. She turns the lights off & lays still, pretending to be sleep, because that’s the only way the baby will fall asleep. #EbrahimAseem

Problem is, it takes so long, she accidentally falls asleep herself. But she can never get “rest” because the baby wakes up constantly in the middle of the night.

Any woman who would sacrifice all that & more for a little child, she would give anything to love you, value your manhood, promote your mental growth, calm your fears, help fight your demons, accomplish your purpose & bring you closer to the man you were put here to be. #EbrahimAseem

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