How all WOMEN are influenced by the moon & eclipse

By: Ebrahim Aseem
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Our MOON is not just earth’s guardian spirit. ‪The MOON aligns each soul with it’s mother before birth with its 28day cycle, by communicating with her pineal gland during her 28 day cycle.‬

An eclipse opens a door in the universe. Like a wormhole, this portal allows all characteristics of your moon sign to eclipse the attributes of your sun sign. After the total eclipse of August 21, 2017, consciousness will eclipse vanity on this realm, ushering in the age of Aquarius.

The moon also purifies every woman’s spirit during this cycle. Our powerful moon, Yerah, intrinsically activates the Pineal Gland in men & women, provoking mental ascension.

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The female pineal gland is the portal all souls travel through to enter into this realm from the celestial zone. #EbrahimAseem

This is why I respect women so much. Every month she cries, laying on the floor, passes out, comes out her clothes, enduring the cramps & all the pain of her period in order to bring us into this world.

So the next time you think about calling her a bitch, or complain about her being too “emotional” consider all she has to go through, that’s what your mother went through.

Right before or after her menstruation cycle, she is very sexually frustrated. During her menstrual cycle, it can feel like HELL. Be understanding of her emotions. It feels like her vagina is being pierced, shot & stabbed, hence her irritability. #EbrahimAseem

Once she comes off, she longs for the feeling of either vaginal stimulation or clitoral stimulation. As men, we have to understanding & cater to our woman, mind & body. #EbrahimAseem

It is unmanly & ignorant to make fun of a woman’s cycle. Her cycle is the history of your soul’s exodus from heaven & your journey into this dream called “life”.

Our souls are perforated, only half when born. We are in this life to find our soul’s twin flame and become whole, leading to mental awakening. True love is the recognition of our soul’s counter part in another. #EbrahimAseem Your twin flame does not have to be a sexual partner, it can be your nana, parent, sibling or child.

When your body sleeps, your spirit travels the universe, searching for its twin flame. The moon guides your spirit there and back to your body, saving your life every night. #EbrahimAseem

We are not in our bodies. Our spirit hovers, orbiting around & through our body, like a moon. Just as the moon draws the ocean’s tide in & out, the moon connects with your pineal gland, to draw out the tides of stress rolling inside your overthinking mind. #EbrahimAseem She renews herself every 28 days & will renew you once you become more intune with her, the Mother Soul Cell Fundemental Principle of YHWH.

It’s attractive to mentally ascended men when a woman talks to herself, even when she’s mad. I’m talking full-blown conversing with herself in the car or bathroom. To the point she starts laughing at her own jokes or answering her own questions. She’s not “bipolar”. #EbrahimAseem

She’s aware there are two of her. The spirit of her soul (our true self) and the spirit of her flesh/emotions (our persona). A wheel within a wheel. She knows she is a powerful spirit that dictates to her emotions & doesn’t allow her emotions to control her. #EbrahimAseem

Before the inception of Julius Cesar’s solar calendar, each year was divided into 13 moon cycles, with 28 days each. #EbrahimAseem The 1% of the population that owns 99% of the wealth acquired such wealth by monopolizing 99% of the knowledge.

That 1% withholds the keys to the great secrets of esoteric knowledge, distracting us with vain forms of technology and entertainment, like cell phones, reality shows, movies & internet, to keep us mentally sleep. #EbrahimAseem We are fooled into giving amazing forms of entertainment and technology, like the device you are reading this on right now, our full, undivided attention while our brain is on auto-pilot. We have become sleep walkers without a bed. The mental walking dead.

Despite this, our moon is moving us into the current cosmic age of Aquarius, which is harnessing all the great turmoil (war, genocide, disease scares) to make room for new age, sparking an evolution of consciousness, virtues of love, unity, self-awareness, pineal gland activation, chakra alignment and mental ascension. This is an astrological age that takes place about every 2,150 years, each year being 13 moon cycles. #EbrahimAseem

There are 2-5 eclipses every year. The total solar eclipse signifies the new of Aquarius, higher consciousness, eclipsing the previous age of vanity & war.

Your brain cells posses the cellular ability to attract like matter. Thoughts are things. Anything or anyone you want in or out of your life, you can attract or repel with your mind. #EbrahimAseem Just as our moon has the power to move the waves in the sea ebb and flow to the sand, we have the power to move mountains with our mind, literally. Mind over matter. #EbrahimAseem

The moon feeds us both frequency, and day light, unassisted by the sun, which is only a combination of infrared red, gamma rays, ultra violet rays & heat. #EbrahimAseem

It’s not just women. It’s men, and even animals, planets, oceans & rivers. Every planet has a moon or moons that orbit it & communicate with the matter on that specific planet. Like matter attracts like matter. It’s fun to research for your self when you have time. #EbrahimAseem

It is important we start valuing our women more on this realm, they were divinely chosen not only to be the vessels of life as mothers, but to be the portals of metaphysical power, as our liaison with the moon & heavens. #EbrahimAseem

It is not your job to keep belittling her, putting her down, calling her names & making fun of everything about her you don’t understand. #EbrahimAseem

Instead of telling our women, “stop being such a crazy, over-emotional bitch on your period” let’s start telling our women,

“When will you awaken to the realization that your smile is meant to be permanent. You flash it like a camera, but it was meant to be a light. Moon you shine so bright, and I’m the spark that was put into your life, for me to make you my wife, into your soul, speaking life. Let go, allow our souls to ignite.” #EbrahimAseem

When will you awaken to a realization your smile is meant to be permanent? You flash it like a camera, but it was meant to be a light. Moon, you shine so bright, & I’m the spark that was put into your life, for me to make you my wife, into your soul, speaking life. Let go, trust. Allow our souls to ignite.

Equally yoked unions with reciprocal mental accession & intellectual conception ensures true love will come to fruition. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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How to “Turn the Pages of her Mind” | 100 ways to approach a woman.

How to approach her in person:

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#3. If she’s walking fast don’t yell, catcall or chase her. Mentally note the location. Return tomorrow w/ a box of chocolate w/ ur number on it

#4. Pay for her gas. Say, “fill it up beautiful, it’s taken care of”. Then, leave your number on her dash. If she calls, gas up her inner beauty

#5. Compliment her eyebrows when you approach her not her breasts. Hand her a MAC gift card with your number on it. Get to know her inner beauty

#6. If she has a dog, ask its name & breed. Pet it. Talk to it. Be affectionate. Say “If u 2 are ever down for a dog park date here’s my number”

#7. Give her a massage spa gift card w/ ur number inside. Say “I pray u have a stress free day” If she calls take away her stress dont add to it

#8. Compliment her outfit. Say “Can I SnapChat you on my story? Your beauty just made my day” Show her the selfie. Have her text it to her phone

#9 When she’s checking out, pay for her groceries. Leave ur card & say “I didn’t interrupt because I value ur time & smile. Call me if u have any

#10. If she’s at work, don’t interrupt her hustle by yelling or asking her number. Buy something. Then give it to her w/ ur number on the receipt

#11. If shes introverted dont use lines. She spots bs & reads minds by feeling energy. Treat her vibe like waves & ride it. Then say “can we txt”

How to approach her if you’re not strangers.

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#13. Buy her a nonfiction book about ur deepest flaw. Read it. Brainstorm ways to overcome it. Contact her & confess it. Show her growth not game

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Would this work for you? 🤔 #ManChallenge #EbrahimAseem #Art

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#15. Find out her fav fruit. Read how to plant. transplant the seed. Once it buds, give it to her. Teach her how to nurture it. Nurture her mind.

#16. Ask her fav food instead of her number. Read a cook book. Cook it. Bring it to her. Write your number on the tubaware. Serve her creativity.

#17. Give her some organic coconut oil w/ a list. 1st, read up on all its healing properties. Write them on the list w/ your number at the bottom

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#20. Buy 24 flowers. Give ur nana 12 & take a pic. Show ur crush & give her 12 💐. Tell her ur fav memory of nana. Ask to take her to meet ur nana

#21. Buy her organic olive oil. Write ur number on it. Say, “I bought u this for ur hair. If ur ever down for me to teach u a recipe using it, call me

#22. Buy her pH strips so she can test her alkaline level. Read books on the topic so u can drop knowledge. Then get her number & take her higher

How to approach her, even in the DM.

#23. Observe her social media for her passions. Read a book on the topic. DM her ur thoughts. Say “Id love to converse deeper. What’s ur number?”

#24. If she loves dogs, ask her fav breed. Find a breeder w/ those puppies. Snap selfies w/ them. Send her the pics & invite her to play w/ them.

#25. Ask her fav Disney song. Learn it. Sing & record it w/ ur number at the end. Give it to her. If she calls, take her to see Lion King Musical

#26. DM her a video right after a fresh cut & shave. Tell her to have a stress free day. If she replies, she’s feeling u. Ask for a FaceTime date

#27. Make fun of her fav show.🤣 Promise to watch. Say “I was wrong” & what u liked. Say “Can I call u after the next episode & converse about it?

#28. Send her funny/informative links like those she posts. Be her goofy/peaceful escape from overthinking & stress. Ask her on a ComedyClub date

How to approach a Single Mom

#29. If shes w/ her child shes busy. Respect it. Dont ask her number, give urs written down. Say “Id love to see if ur convo’s as beautiful as u”

#30.

Ladies, is this true? #EbrahimAseem

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How to Court her:

#31.

#ManChallenge 📚📖

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What's your favorite non-fiction book? #ManChallenge #EbrahimAseem #CourtHer

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#35. Dont ask for pics. Say “back that brain up on my throbn pineal gland. I’ll pound stress out ur overthink’n mind w/ my mental depth. Converse

#36.

Ladies, is this true? 🤔 #EbrahimAseem

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#37.

Do you agree? #EbrahimAseem

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#38.

Do you agree? #EbrahimAseem #ReciprocalWoman

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#39.

Ladies, is this true? Speaking this to 90 college freshMEN. #EbrahimAseem

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#40. Wake your crush up like this.

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Speaking this to a group of 210 men. #EbrahimAseem

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#43. https://instagram.com/p/BUKo8ofhPJr/

#44.

#EbrahimAseem

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#45. Stop entertaining EVERY girl on social media, while the girl you’re courting is giving u all her attention. Your future wife may be watching

#46. Court a healed woman. Who’ll respect u, support ur vision, joke, pray & read with you & not make u pay for the cold way past men treated her

#47

Growth is love. #EbrahimAseem

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#48. Court a woman who’ll INVEST in u. Not ur wallet. Your patience goals & purpose. Quit chasing the bad bitch fantasy who doesnt promote growth

#49.

Ladies, is this true? 🤔

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#50.

Ladies, is this true? #EbrahimAseem

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#51. Inconsistency is a huge turn off to her. Don’t be all over her one minute, & distant the next. She’s loyal to effort & courtship, not “talking” & empty promises.

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Is this true? #EbrahimAseem

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#54. Boys text & make excuses. Men call & make plans. If u only txt she’ll think u txt multiple side chicks & dont see a future w/ her. Court her

#55. Dont expect her to chase u. Shes not playing hard to get. Pain changed her. Give her so much patience she feels like her trusting self again

#56.

#EbrahimAseem

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#57.

Ladies, is this true? #EbrahimAseem #SpeakingToCollegeMen

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I'm speaking this to 117 men at a grad school pre law caucus. #EbrahimAseem

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#60. Stop pouring all your loyalty in a girl who behaves single, flirts online & treats u like an ATM. Court a giver who reciprocates your energy

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Court her. #SpeakingLife to 110 college Freshmen boys. #EbrahimAseem

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#63. Take her on a PetCo or aquarium date, so she can play w/ animals, while u play in her hair & grip her curves. Slowly unleash ur inner animal

#64.

#EbrahimAseem

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How to keep her:

#65.

Do you agree? #EbrahimAseem

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#66. Dont throw all u do for her in her face when mad. She watches all she says just to keep u happy. Use your words to reassure & calm her fears

#67.

Ladies, do you agree? #EbrahimAseem Speaking to h.s. boys

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Do you agree? I'm speaking this to 170 men. #EbrahimAseem

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#69.

Speaking life at SJSU to 78 men. #EbrahimAseem

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#ManChallenge #EbrahimAseem

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#71.

Do you agree? #ManUp #EbrahimAseem

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#72.

Do you agree? #EbrahimAseem Speaking to 88 groom.

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#73.

I've learned this lesson & made this mistake. #NeverAgain #EbrahimAseem

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#74.

EbrahimAseem

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Try this bro. #EbrahimAseem

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#EbrahimAseem

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#78.

I'm learning this. #EbrahimAseem

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#EbrahimAseem

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#80.

Do you agree? #EbrahimAseem

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#EbrahimAseem

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#82.

Ladies, is this true? #EbrahimAseem

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#83.

Ladies, is this true? #EbrahimAseem

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#84.

Do you agree? #EbrahimAseem Speaking this to 218 men.

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#85. If you have a giving woman, cherish & spoil her. Match your ruggedness w/ vulnerability. Never let fear of being calling soft lose you your blessing bro

#86.

Do you agree? #EbrahimAseem

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Do you agree? #EbrahimAseem

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#89.

#90. She just needs you to listen to her & comfort her. Stop trying to fix it & tell her what she did wrong. Understand.

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Daughter. Wife. Sister. Nana. Mother. ❤️ I'm learning this.

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#EbrahimAseem #SpeakingLife to 192 men.

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#95. ‪trEAT her pearls of wisdom like groceries, until she pours her thoughts from her lips to yours. Swallow every drop of her intellect.‬

#96.

Be her call. Be his peace. #EbrahimAseem

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#97.

Ladies, is this true? #EbrahimAseem

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#98.

How to love a guarded woman. #EbrahimAseem

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#99.

Do you agree? #EbrahimAseem #IGotMyQueen ❤#Brie

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#100. When you find your wife, be goofy with her. Read with her. Kiss, bite & massage every inch of her body, so the world knows you’re only hers. Never get irritated, bored & lack effort when you find a treasure, because you only get ONE.

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Why women Talk Back instead of staying in their place.

The reason I find smart mouthed women attractive with their talk back attitude is, I know how to handle a strong minded woman. They’re the most caring & faithful inside her hard shell.

She’s so guarded to protect herself from fake family & snakes, who take her giving for granted & her kindness for weakness, because when she loves, she loves hard.

‪Don’t let her strength scare you away. She’s endured more pain than you can imagine. She’s loved & been given up on. We must be patient with her.‬ Sharp as her tongue cuts, once she meets a strong man who can take control without controlling her & proves with consistent actions he’s patient & trustworthy, she will let us in & grow in patience. #EbrahimAseem

Never tell a strong minded woman to “stay in her place”. Have several seats. Instead, tell that regal minded woman “her throne is your face”. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t confuse a smart mouthed woman with a vindictive woman. She will verbally disrespect you when she’s lost patience with your inconsistency & doesn’t respect you enough to constructively work through it; or she will verbally disrespect you when she has not learned how to control her trauma triggers from past pain. #EbrahimAseem

A vindictive woman is not worth the relationship, let alone the arguments. Get you a reciprocal woman who won’t make you pay for the cold way men in her past treated her.

But don’t be so quick to push away a smart mouthed woman who has yet to heal. She will be guarded. Distant. Difficult. Say she needs more time. She’ll have anxiety flashbacks of her EX. Cry for no reason, not know what she wants & feel so broken inside. Don’t give up on her. #EbrahimAseem Don’t you make her feel she isn’t enough. Love her consistently, never throw her past in her face. Destroy her trust issues. Bring her closer to her self love & she’ll bring you closer to your growth.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
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I am a chef, motivational speaker & 13-year-mentor for men. I write new articles every thursday & travel, speaking life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide. I am West African-Hebrew.

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Why parents treat daughters like trash | Be unGASLIGHTable

Prideful parents never apologize. They just all of a sudden come back acting all nice to you. Pride is woven in families of color tighter than a lace front to unlaid edges. #EbrahimAseem

Parent pride is the reason children of all cultures drown in depression & can’t even talk to their families about it.

Seeking mental health care is considered “bougie”. Venting to a therapist is considered “acting white”.

Colonialists used house broken slaves to Gaslight the free-thinking leaders. This inception was used to stop runways, revolts & is a genetic predisposition, passed down in all cultures through parent pride. #EbrahimAseem

Gaslighting is psychologically manipulating a person so much, they question their own sanity.

A gaslight deflect is using manipulative parenting to incept self-doubt in a child, so when they grow up & hear healing, they immediately deflect from it. #EbrahimAseem

Here’s 5 reasons why manipulative parents treat their giver children like trash:
By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”

Mothers, do your best to support your daughters’ choices. Don’t put down you daughter; constantly telling her she’s wrong about every decision she makes. ENCOURAGE your daughter; be vulnerable for your daughter. Admit when you are wrong to your daughter. #EbrahimAseem Admit to her if you raised her to be guarded, not knowing how to accept love & providing from a man. Be apologetic towards your daughter, so she can have closure from her past.

The key to be ungaslightable is to stop seeing the good in everyone except yourself. Stop overthinking all day about people who only reach out to you when they want something from you. Stop using how people treat you to determine your self worth. How a person treats you has nothing to do with what you deserve, it has everything to do with how they feel about themselves.

Much respect to any woman fighting something. Cancer. Depression. Over thinking. Anxiety. Self doubt. Demons Abandonment. Mistakes. Regrets. Guilt or jealous parents. Your flaws don’t define you. How people treat you doesn’t define you. Your strength through pain does.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
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I am a chef, motivational speaker & 13-year-mentor for men. I write new articles every thursday & travel, speaking life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide. I am West African-Hebrew.

Want to hear me sing?

Want a free pre-release copy of my book “” before its release? “Follow” me, click “get notifications”, or “see first” on the follow tab, then message me requesting your free copy.

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Why men intentionally treat loyal women like trash | Gaslight

Never tell a strong minded woman to “stay in her place”. Have several seats. Instead, tell that regal minded woman “her throne is your face”. #EbrahimAseem

Manipulative men lie, shift blame & deny their inconsistencies to intentionally make their woman question her sanity, so she will ignore his red flags that her intuition is trying to show her.

This is “gas-lighting”. Hiding something by psychologically manipulating a person so much, they begin questioning their own sanity.

Here’s 10 reasons some men intentionally treat loyal women like trash to gaslight her intuition on fire.
By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”

1. Boys sell women dreams of goals he never intends to accomplish, so she will stay loyal forever & wait for him to reach potential he doesn’t have.

2. Boys only give you time when they want something from you, so you will constantly over thinking that you’re not giving enough & give him more.

3. Boys show girls online MORE attention than their OWN girl, to attack her self-confidence, his insecure ass is jealous of, boosting his ego.

4. Boys get silent & distant when you call him out, instead of expressing emotions, to provoke you to respond in anger, so he can deflect blame onto you.

5. Boys crawl back in your life after breakups & pretend to “miss you” so you will feed his insecure-ass attention to recharge his flaccid ego.

6. He dated you for like 6 years & married the girl after you in like 6 months, because he never wanted you. He used you to make him a better man for his dream girl.

7. If you have to beg him for effort, he has already lost interest in you. He sticks around knowing if he gives you less energy, you’ll give him MORE energy.

8. Boys act so invested at first, then switch up after you fall for him, to put self doubt in your mind, so you will think you expect too much from men.

9. Boys say, “you’re too good for me” to gaslight a girl into lowering her expectations for him, so he can mess up constantly & keep being forgiven.

10. Boys will have a loyal, giving girl thinking something is wrong with her by how cold he treats her, because he envies her. Giving her pain fuels his ego.

Our “intent” as a man doesn’t matter. All men don’t intentionally gaslight women, yet every male alive benefits from male privilege, which is what powers gaslighting women. The only way not to benefit is to daily fight male privilege in other men & inside one’s self.

Selfish boys gaslight women to posses her energy. Like Ursula craved Ariel’s voice, insecure boys crave a strong woman’s confidence. Tearing her down builds him up. Gaslighting is a non-sexual soul tie, allowing the gaslighter to draw on your energy for strength, forever, until the tie is broken.

The only way to break the gaslight soul tie is to stop using the hurt, guarded tactics & views of men that attracted selfish users to gas light her in the first place. Boys who gaslight want you guarded. They want you to hate men. Hate creates a vulnerability, which manipulative boys exploit.

Overthinking is a major symptom of gaslighting. Women who want to become ungaslightable must rethink her entire mind frame, because gaslighting does not just come from men in relationships. It comes from this false idea that a woman must “stay in her place” and stop having a “smart mouth”.

The reason I find smart mouthed women attractive with their talk back attitude is, I know how to handle a strong minded woman. They’re the most caring & faithful inside her hard shell.

She’s so guarded to protect herself from fake family & snakes, who take her giving for granted & her kindness for weakness, because when she loves, she loves hard.

‪Don’t let her strength scare you away. She’s endured more pain than you can imagine. She’s loved & been given up on. We must be patient with her.‬ Sharp as her tongue cuts, once she meets a strong man who can take control without controlling her & proves with consistent actions he’s patient & trustworthy, she will let us in & grow in patience. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t confuse a smart mouthed woman with a vindictive woman. She will verbally disrespect you when she’s lost patience with your inconsistency & doesn’t respect you enough to constructively work through it; or she will verbally disrespect you when she has not learned how to control her trauma triggers from past pain. #EbrahimAseem

A vindictive woman is not worth the relationship, let alone the arguments. Get you a reciprocal woman who won’t make you pay for the cold way men in her past treated her.

But don’t be so quick to push away a smart mouthed woman who has yet to heal. She will be guarded. Distant. Difficult. Say she needs more time. She’ll have anxiety flashbacks of her EX. Cry for no reason, not know what she wants & feel so broken inside. Don’t give up on her. #EbrahimAseem Don’t you make her feel she isn’t enough. Love her consistently, never throw her past in her face. Destroy her trust issues. Bring her closer to her self love & she’ll bring you closer to your growth.

The most unshakable seeds of gaslighting are planted during childhood, in ten insidious ways……..

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If a man is distant, he’s lost interest in you. LET GO!

Ladies, if a man is distant, he’s lost interest in you. LET GO! Forcing us to give time & effort will push us further away. Making excuses for our neglect will not help us ‘reach potential’ you see in us. It will make us resent you. You deserve a consistent, honest man, who gives you effort without you having to beg him for it.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”

Men get distant in 3 main ways:

1. He stops communicating for 2 or more days straight. – Sure, he can get busy with work & family for 24 hours, but if a man goes from talking to you every day, to you not hearing from him for more than 48 hours straight, without prior warning or reasonable explanation after, you’re either no longer a priority to him, or he’s intimately communicating with another girl.

2. He stops being sexual with you. – Even a hard working man can get too tired for love making once in a while, but if he hasn’t either had sex with you or sexted you in over a week without a feasible explanation, he’s either being sexual with another woman…. or another man. Or worse, he may have an STD from cheating he is trying to hide.

3. He stops disagreeing with you. – This is one of the *Secret Guy Code Cheat Tricks* I go in depth about in my book.
If a man has never disagreed with you, it’s because he doesn’t see you in his future. People disagree with someone they care for, because they want to rid you of a misconception you may have about them, to ensure a communicative, healthy, lasting relationship in the future. Don’t confuse “disagreeing” with excessive: “arguing, yelling & name calling” That’s immature communication by both parties.

A man who’s stopped disagreeing with you no longer cares to let you know how he feels inside, because he’s lost interest in a future with you. He becomes passive about things he used to be fiery about. I’ve learned this to be true for women as well. Once a woman stops caring, she’s lost interest in you.

I have a major confession, I’ve displayed all three of these characteristics over the last year.

When I was single, I enjoyed taking multiple women on dates. I let them all know this & encouraged them to do the same. I didn’t expect any loyalty from them. I kept it 100 with them at all times. I told them I wasn’t looking for a girlfriend, I was searching for a wife.

Once I met my queen, Brie, that all changed. It changed because I knew she was the one. I told her I was faithfully committing myself to her. I cut off communication with the girls I had taken on dates while I was single. No more dates. No more sexting. No more disagreeing. I straight up ghosted them, insidiously.

To break up with someone you’re in a relationship with by ghosting them is immature & heartless. However, when you’re single, you don’t owe someone you weren’t committed to any explanation.

Red flag: If a man keeps communicating with the EXs, non-platonic friends & baby mommas he claims to be done with, behind your back, it’s a major red flag he’s losing interest in you. As this point, you can either let him go & lose all you two were building towards, or you can let him know you want a full faithful commitment from him with complete loyalty& if he’s still interested in a future with you, he will cut off all other girls and commit himself fully to you.

There’s a way to tell if a man is still interested in forever with you. He will be as transparent as water. He will open up his soul to you & pour his love into your glass heart. Like I did with Brie when I told her this:

“If you ever irritate me or annoy me, it will never push me away.
To me your brattiness is as sexy as your cattiness, me & my love are here to stay.
I got the right amount of masculine ruggedness to always put you & that smart mouth in your place.
To draw a circle of protection around you with my manly strength. To paint smiles on your beautiful canvas face.
I want forever with you. You’re my reflection in every way.
Looking deep inside your eyes, the mirror to your soul, helps me understand you, my self & our purpose together more & more each day.
You can never push me away, no matter what you do. Because baby, I want infinity forevers with you.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
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If you give him amillion chances after mistakes, you’re not his woman, you’re his mom.

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“I have a master’s degree, 6-figure job, no kids, yet my boyfriend of 18-months insists on living with his second baby momma, 2 boys & a newborn baby girl by her. This living situation makes it hard for me to commute home. After I drive to work & give him my car, he has to finish watching First Take on ESPN, complete 4 competitive games on NBA2k via XBOX Live, cook pop tarts for his snack, snap a few pictures of him & his newborn daughter for Instagram, then pick up his five children from school, leaving me to catch an Uber home. 😦 I can’t afford to buy him a car of his own, until I receive my 2017 tax return money, because I already spent last year’s tax return helping him & his baby momma #2 pay for their house I co-signed for him, after he was released on parole for larceny. (We met on ChristianMingle.com while we was in prison lol) I’ve had issues in the past with him not making time for me, not taking me out on dates & going weeks at a time no communicating with me. But I’ve decided to give him another chance. I would like to ask this man to marry me & help him file for full custody for his 5 kids against his 2 baby mommas. What cut of diamond is lost manly? And how much is a reasonable amount to spend on an engagement ring?”

– Tiffany, 26, Arlington, TX

If you give a man a million chances after his mistakes, you’re not his woman, you’re his mother. Claim him on your taxes & move on. #EbrahimAseem It’s not your job to fix him or teach a man how to be one. The man for you will already be equaled yoked when you meet him.

Stop wasting years & tears WAITING for a neglecting, cheating, lying, non-committing, passive-aggressive when he’s mad, can’t make time for you or text you back, but can like 157 girls pictures on Instagram, lame poor excuse of a man to ‘change’ for you. Men don’t change for a woman. Men change for their self & grow for their self-love. #EbrahimAseem

Take him on a date, or to a game. Pay for his hair cut. Buy him clothes you picked out. Massage him. Read with him. If he’s a reciprocal man spoil him #EbrahimAseem but ONLY if he’s reciprocates all you give. Stop settling for less than you deserve.

A woman who loves herself fully wont settle for half-ass effort, nor half-ass time from a half-ass man. She masters the art of painting smiles on her OWN face & only pours energy into a man who is a reflection of the light she is growing to be. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
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