Why parents treat daughters like trash | Be unGASLIGHTable

Prideful parents never apologize. They just all of a sudden come back acting all nice to you. Pride is woven in families of color tighter than a lace front to unlaid edges. #EbrahimAseem

Parent pride is the reason children of all cultures drown in depression & can’t even talk to their families about it.

Seeking mental health care is considered “bougie”. Venting to a therapist is considered “acting white”.

Colonialists used house broken slaves to Gaslight the free-thinking leaders. This inception was used to stop runways, revolts & is a genetic predisposition, passed down in all cultures through parent pride. #EbrahimAseem

Gaslighting is psychologically manipulating a person so much, they question their own sanity.

A gaslight deflect is using manipulative parenting to incept self-doubt in a child, so when they grow up & hear healing, they immediately deflect from it. #EbrahimAseem

Here’s 5 reasons why manipulative parents treat their giver children like trash:
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Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”

Mothers, do your best to support your daughters’ choices. Don’t put down you daughter; constantly telling her she’s wrong about every decision she makes. ENCOURAGE your daughter; be vulnerable for your daughter. Admit when you are wrong to your daughter. #EbrahimAseem Admit to her if you raised her to be guarded, not knowing how to accept love & providing from a man. Be apologetic towards your daughter, so she can have closure from her past.

The key to be ungaslightable is to stop seeing the good in everyone except yourself. Stop overthinking all day about people who only reach out to you when they want something from you. Stop using how people treat you to determine your self worth. How a person treats you has nothing to do with what you deserve, it has everything to do with how they feel about themselves.

Much respect to any woman fighting something. Cancer. Depression. Over thinking. Anxiety. Self doubt. Demons Abandonment. Mistakes. Regrets. Guilt or jealous parents. Your flaws don’t define you. How people treat you doesn’t define you. Your strength through pain does.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
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Why men intentionally treat loyal women like trash | Gaslight

Never tell a strong minded woman to “stay in her place”. Have several seats. Instead, tell that regal minded woman “her throne is your face”. #EbrahimAseem

Manipulative men lie, shift blame & deny their inconsistencies to intentionally make their woman question her sanity, so she will ignore his red flags that her intuition is trying to show her.

This is “gas-lighting”. Hiding something by psychologically manipulating a person so much, they begin questioning their own sanity.

Here’s 10 reasons some men intentionally treat loyal women like trash to gaslight her intuition on fire.
By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”

I never intentionally used gaslighting to manipulate a woman, yet I’m guilty of it too. Before spending intimate time with my woman on a consistent daily basis & fully committing myself to her, I was emotionally disloyal to her, going on dates with other women, texting other women, on FaceTime with other woman & dancing on other women in the club. Before moving into a tangible relationship with her, I had to repent, cut off all non-business communication with other women & fully commit to only her. I was taught all my life to “not put all my eggs in one basket” and “if you’re not married you are single” however this is wrong & the definition of male privilege.

Our “intent” as a man doesn’t matter. All men don’t intentionally gaslight women, yet every male alive benefits from male privilege, which is what powers gaslighting women. The only way not to benefit is to daily fight male privilege in other men & inside one’s self.

Selfish boys gaslight women to posses her energy. Like Ursula craved Ariel’s voice, insecure boys crave a strong woman’s confidence. Tearing her down builds him up. Gaslighting is a non-sexual soul tie, allowing the gaslighter to draw on your energy for strength, forever, until the tie is broken.

The only way to break the gaslight soul tie is to stop using the hurt, guarded tactics & views of men that attracted selfish users to gas light her in the first place. Boys who gaslight want you guarded. They want you to hate men. Hate creates a vulnerability, which manipulative boys exploit.

Overthinking is a major symptom of gaslighting. Women who want to become ungaslightable must rethink her entire mind frame, because gaslighting does not just come from men in relationships. It comes from this false idea that a woman must “stay in her place” and stop having a “smart mouth”.

The reason I find smart mouthed women attractive with their talk back attitude is, I know how to handle a strong minded woman. They’re the most caring & faithful inside her hard shell.

She’s so guarded to protect herself from fake family & snakes, who take her giving for granted & her kindness for weakness, because when she loves, she loves hard.

‪Don’t let her strength scare you away. She’s endured more pain than you can imagine. She’s loved & been given up on. We must be patient with her.‬ Sharp as her tongue cuts, once she meets a strong man who can take control without controlling her & proves with consistent actions he’s patient & trustworthy, she will let us in & grow in patience. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t confuse a smart mouthed woman with a vindictive woman. She will verbally disrespect you when she’s lost patience with your inconsistency & doesn’t respect you enough to constructively work through it; or she will verbally disrespect you when she has not learned how to control her trauma triggers from past pain. #EbrahimAseem

A vindictive woman is not worth the relationship, let alone the arguments. Get you a reciprocal woman who won’t make you pay for the cold way men in her past treated her.

But don’t be so quick to push away a smart mouthed woman who has yet to heal. She will be guarded. Distant. Difficult. Say she needs more time. She’ll have anxiety flashbacks of her EX. Cry for no reason, not know what she wants & feel so broken inside. Don’t give up on her. #EbrahimAseem Don’t you make her feel she isn’t enough. Love her consistently, never throw her past in her face. Destroy her trust issues. Bring her closer to her self love & she’ll bring you closer to your growth.

The most unshakable seeds of gaslighting are planted during childhood, in ten insidious ways……..

Read part two of this article about how to become ungaslightable => http://wp.me/sT7Bl-UnGaslit

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These inbox messages are getting out of hand. So let's make this clear… I am NOT on social networks to FIND A GIRLFRIEND, a DATE, a FEMALE BEST-FRIEND, nor to "HOOK UP" OR "MAKE A P🐯😻😻🙀 APPOINTMENT". I've already found my queen, & her name is Brie. So ladies, please do NOT dance yourself in my inbox, sending me naked snapchats of your curves, stripper selfies, twerk videos & booty pictures💥 I did NOT even ask for, claiming you're "trying to get to know me". Intellectual conversation in the comment section is welcomed, But I see right through these half-naked Instagram Honeys, some of whom set thirst traps, because they can't pull a loyal, mentally mature man offline, in REAL LIFE. #EbrahimAseem I truly pray they find the man they're looking for with tomfoolery, but as for me; I'm uninterested, unavailable & taken. So, DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME with me; I wont bite. If I accepted your request, follow or added in the past, its because ITS a social network & I'm very social & friendly. I use my social networks to SPEAK LIFE as a 12 year mentor for men, traveling the globe, speaking to groups of men at universities, prisons & hoods. Nothing more, nothing less. you can keep the pick up lines, corny flirtatious words, & the nude pictures of your curves to yourself. I don't want them. I've always liked to approach women and court women IN REAL LIFE. Not on social networks. That's how I found the love of my life, my queen & my #wcw Brie. She's super classy & she didn't catch my attention by sliding into my DMs with booty pics. She won my heart by being a deep, respectful, smart mouthed, intellectual, spiritual, goofy woman with an old soul. So either respect my relationship or get blocked. Besides, no one wants to see your ashy vajayjay pics anyway 😒✋ #EbrahimAseem & to my men, this is how you shutdown & eliminate attention from other women on social media. I challenge any man reading this to post the same & let all women on social media know you're happily taken. #ClaimYourWomanChallenge #EbrahimAseem Date night with my queen. #Brie Sushi & Sinbad comedy show. Clubbing & adult beverages on deck after. Instagram: @Fuel4TheBody

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Courting a Single Mother is hard. She will cancel dates. Short text you & not reply. No time to put you first. A woman who puts loving her child first over me, makes me want to make her & her child my first priority💍👰🏾👶🏽 Don't let her child scare you away bro be patient with her. Take her out on a date you plan & pay for. She's not flaking. Childcare costs more than a date you take her on. It is not about money with her. Spend your valuable time on her. Spoil her with effort. Show her you appreciate all the sacrifice she makes for her child, by herself with no help. Be her consistency, and she will be your everything. I'm so thankful Brie always makes time for me. That's why I'm so in love with her & her son. ❤️ #BeachDate #EbrahimAseem

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If a man is distant, he’s lost interest in you. LET GO!

Ladies, if a man is distant, he’s lost interest in you. LET GO! Forcing us to give time & effort will push us further away. Making excuses for our neglect will not help us ‘reach potential’ you see in us. It will make us resent you. You deserve a consistent, honest man, who gives you effort without you having to beg him for it.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”

Men get distant in 3 main ways:

1. He stops communicating for 2 or more days straight. – Sure, he can get busy with work & family for 24 hours, but if a man goes from talking to you every day, to you not hearing from him for more than 48 hours straight, without prior warning or reasonable explanation after, you’re either no longer a priority to him, or he’s intimately communicating with another girl.

2. He stops being sexual with you. – Even a hard working man can get too tired for love making once in a while, but if he hasn’t either had sex with you or sexted you in over a week without a feasible explanation, he’s either being sexual with another woman…. or another man. Or worse, he may have an STD from cheating he is trying to hide.

3. He stops disagreeing with you. – This is one of the *Secret Guy Code Cheat Tricks* I go in depth about in my book.
If a man has never disagreed with you, it’s because he doesn’t see you in his future. People disagree with someone they care for, because they want to rid you of a misconception you may have about them, to ensure a communicative, healthy, lasting relationship in the future. Don’t confuse “disagreeing” with excessive: “arguing, yelling & name calling” That’s immature communication by both parties.

A man who’s stopped disagreeing with you no longer cares to let you know how he feels inside, because he’s lost interest in a future with you. He becomes passive about things he used to be fiery about. I’ve learned this to be true for women as well. Once a woman stops caring, she’s lost interest in you.

I have a major confession, I’ve displayed all three of these characteristics over the last year.

When I was single, I enjoyed taking multiple women on dates. I let them all know this & encouraged them to do the same. I didn’t expect any loyalty from them. I kept it 100 with them at all times. I told them I wasn’t looking for a girlfriend, I was searching for a wife.

Once I met my queen, Brie, that all changed. It changed because I knew she was the one. I told her I was faithfully committing myself to her. I cut off communication with the girls I had taken on dates while I was single. No more dates. No more sexting. No more disagreeing. I straight up ghosted them, insidiously.

To break up with someone you’re in a relationship with by ghosting them is immature & heartless. However, when you’re single, you don’t owe someone you weren’t committed to any explanation.

Red flag: If a man keeps communicating with the EXs, non-platonic friends & baby mommas he claims to be done with, behind your back, it’s a major red flag he’s losing interest in you. As this point, you can either let him go & lose all you two were building towards, or you can let him know you want a full faithful commitment from him with complete loyalty& if he’s still interested in a future with you, he will cut off all other girls and commit himself fully to you.

There’s a way to tell if a man is still interested in forever with you. He will be as transparent as water. He will open up his soul to you & pour his love into your glass heart. Like I did with Brie when I told her this:

“If you ever irritate me or annoy me, it will never push me away.
To me your brattiness is as sexy as your cattiness, me & my love are here to stay.
I got the right amount of masculine ruggedness to always put you & that smart mouth in your place.
To draw a circle of protection around you with my manly strength. To paint smiles on your beautiful canvas face.
I want forever with you. You’re my reflection in every way.
Looking deep inside your eyes, the mirror to your soul, helps me understand you, my self & our purpose together more & more each day.
You can never push me away, no matter what you do. Because baby, I want infinity forevers with you.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
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These inbox messages are getting out of hand. So let's make this clear… I am NOT on social networks to FIND A GIRLFRIEND, a DATE, a FEMALE BEST-FRIEND, nor to "HOOK UP" OR "MAKE A P🐯😻😻🙀 APPOINTMENT". I've already found my queen, & her name is Brie. So ladies, please do NOT dance yourself in my inbox, sending me naked snapchats of your curves, stripper selfies, twerk videos & booty pictures💥 I did NOT even ask for, claiming you're "trying to get to know me". Intellectual conversation in the comment section is welcomed, But I see right through these half-naked Instagram Honeys, some of whom set thirst traps, because they can't pull a loyal, mentally mature man offline, in REAL LIFE. #EbrahimAseem I truly pray they find the man they're looking for with tomfoolery, but as for me; I'm uninterested, unavailable & taken. So, DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME with me; I wont bite. If I accepted your request, follow or added in the past, its because ITS a social network & I'm very social & friendly. I use my social networks to SPEAK LIFE as a 12 year mentor for men, traveling the globe, speaking to groups of men at universities, prisons & hoods. Nothing more, nothing less. you can keep the pick up lines, corny flirtatious words, & the nude pictures of your curves to yourself. I don't want them. I've always liked to approach women and court women IN REAL LIFE. Not on social networks. That's how I found the love of my life, my queen & my #wcw Brie. She's super classy & she didn't catch my attention by sliding into my DMs with booty pics. She won my heart by being a deep, respectful, smart mouthed, intellectual, spiritual, goofy woman with an old soul. So either respect my relationship or get blocked. Besides, no one wants to see your ashy vajayjay pics anyway 😒✋ #EbrahimAseem & to my men, this is how you shutdown & eliminate attention from other women on social media. I challenge any man reading this to post the same & let all women on social media know you're happily taken. #ClaimYourWomanChallenge #EbrahimAseem Date night with my queen. #Brie Sushi & Sinbad comedy show. Clubbing & adult beverages on deck after. Instagram: @Fuel4TheBody

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If you give him amillion chances after mistakes, you’re not his woman, you’re his mom.

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“I have a master’s degree, 6-figure job, no kids, yet my boyfriend of 18-months insists on living with his second baby momma, 2 boys & a newborn baby girl by her. This living situation makes it hard for me to commute home. After I drive to work & give him my car, he has to finish watching First Take on ESPN, complete 4 competitive games on NBA2k via XBOX Live, cook pop tarts for his snack, snap a few pictures of him & his newborn daughter for Instagram, then pick up his five children from school, leaving me to catch an Uber home. 😦 I can’t afford to buy him a car of his own, until I receive my 2017 tax return money, because I already spent last year’s tax return helping him & his baby momma #2 pay for their house I co-signed for him, after he was released on parole for larceny. (We met on ChristianMingle.com while we was in prison lol) I’ve had issues in the past with him not making time for me, not taking me out on dates & going weeks at a time no communicating with me. But I’ve decided to give him another chance. I would like to ask this man to marry me & help him file for full custody for his 5 kids against his 2 baby mommas. What cut of diamond is lost manly? And how much is a reasonable amount to spend on an engagement ring?”

– Tiffany, 26, Arlington, TX

If you give a man a million chances after his mistakes, you’re not his woman, you’re his mother. Claim him on your taxes & move on. #EbrahimAseem It’s not your job to fix him or teach a man how to be one. The man for you will already be equaled yoked when you meet him.

Stop wasting years & tears WAITING for a neglecting, cheating, lying, non-committing, passive-aggressive when he’s mad, can’t make time for you or text you back, but can like 157 girls pictures on Instagram, lame poor excuse of a man to ‘change’ for you. Men don’t change for a woman. Men change for their self & grow for their self-love. #EbrahimAseem

Take him on a date, or to a game. Pay for his hair cut. Buy him clothes you picked out. Massage him. Read with him. If he’s a reciprocal man spoil him #EbrahimAseem but ONLY if he’s reciprocates all you give. Stop settling for less than you deserve.

A woman who loves herself fully wont settle for half-ass effort, nor half-ass time from a half-ass man. She masters the art of painting smiles on her OWN face & only pours energy into a man who is a reflection of the light she is growing to be. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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Date night. #Brunch #BotanicalGarden #DriveInMovie #Moana 🍝 🌳🌺 🎭 ❤️ as a FAMILY. Because a woman & her child are a package deal. No man should "date" a single mother. You have to "court" her & her child too. I've fallen head over heels in love with Brie 😍😍😘❤️ & I've chosen to court her exclusively, because she adores her baby & always put him first over me. It makes me want to daily make her AND her child my first priority. #EbrahimAseem All her sleepless nights, she spends feeding, changing diapers, & rocking her child to rest. It makes me want to be understanding of her limited free time, by using it to wine, dine & take her on planned, paid for dates, because conversing with her & growing closer to her is the best. #EbrahimAseem Courting a single mother isn't easy. All the postponed dates & late texts may make her seem like a flake. But if a single mom gives you her time, or means she's already my considering something with you down the line, so court her, make no mistake. #EbrahimAseem It took nearly 4 months before I could take her on a date. But I finally found my virtuous queen, & she's mos def worth the wait. I had to wait 6 months just to meet her child. She required me to EARN that privilege with consistent actions. Men, if a woman blesses you with a child, don't ever walk away. Don't ever abandon her to raise your child alone. Because a strong man like me will not hesitate to lead, provide, help raise her child & turn her single parent house into a happy 2-parent home. #EbrahimAseem If you meet a woman who has a child, don't be so quick to walk away. You might be walking away from the greatest blessing you've ever had, a nurturing, giving, supportive woman. I'm so thankful I've found mine. & I will continue to dedicate my life as a mentor to belong young men find the woman of their dreams. #EbrahimAseem I'm speaking this tomorrow at a bridal shower cooking class to a bride-to-be & her 9 single mother bridesmaids. Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

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He got you pregnant, then lost interest, because you lost your body.

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He couldn’t wait to get inside your body in the beginning. Constant communication. Sweet gestures. He was the perfect gentlemen, because your tummy was flatter. Your breasts were perkier. Your curves were voluptuous. But once your baby came, your body left & the baby’s father went with it.

And if he sticks around, you better know he has side chicks. Curvy girls without children he texts when you’re not around. Have you seen the girls he follows on Instagram? They look nothing like YOU.

How can saggy, deflated boobs dripping of breast milk compete with curvy Instamodels who have more booty in their pants than your baby has boo boo in it’s diaper?

Single Mothers are NOT dating material. With their stretch marks, deflated boobs, saggy booty, no time for anything but their baby asses. They’re WIFE material. Because any woman who can love someone so much, she sacrifices her body, appearance, sleep, friendships, partying, money for childcare which she can barely afford & every waking, breathing second of her day pouring love into her child, she can pour love into you. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t sleep on a busy single mother, just because she has a child. Those busy strong, virtuous, ambitious, career-minded focused women can cook, massage, drop wisdom & promote your growth. #EbrahimAseem COURT her to show her you appreciate all sacrifices she makes grinding for her future & her child. But don’t sleep on her.

Did you know a mother doesn’t sleep? She chases the baby around the house ALL. DAY. LONG. No breaks. Cleaning up messes. Broken glass. Stains. Spills. The only time she does sleep is on accident. I know you’re thinking, “well why can’t she just put the baby to sleep & then she can have time for herself?” Because dummy, she can’t just “put” the baby to sleep in the crib, then run off & paint the town red. The baby will just cry non-stop. She has to hold, rock & comfort the baby to sleep. She turns the lights off & lays still, pretending to be sleep, because that’s the only way the baby will fall asleep. #EbrahimAseem Problem is, it takes so long, she accidentally falls asleep herself. But she can never get “rest” because the baby wakes up constantly in the middle of the night.

Any woman who would sacrifice all that & more for a little child, she would give anything to love you, value your manhood, promote your mental growth, calm your fears, help fight your demons, accomplish your purpose & bring you closer to the man you were put here to be. #EbrahimAseem

If a man’s attraction is to your body, he’s temporary anyway. Those type of men cheat on & leave women with perfect curves. A dog is ONLY looking to lay his bone. While a man of valor is looking to help you ascend to your mental throne. #EbrahimAseem

Beauty, the man meant for you will find you. You won’t have to chase him, approach him or pursue him. You won’t have to force it to work, settle for less than your worth, give up your goals for him, beg him effort & time or teach him how to be a man. #EbrahimAseem

The man meant for you will not break you, he won’t abuse you, he won’t call you crazy, stupid, dumb, emotional or bitch. He will not question you, belittle your point of view or point out your flaws. #EbrahimAseem He will listen to you & use his words to reassure you.

Your stretch marks, tummy & saggy curves will not scare him off, because your self love & caring heart will be so attractive to him, he will trEAT every inch of your stretch mark having body like food. He will devour your pearls of wisdom, pound the walls of your ear drums with strong thoughts from his throbbing pineal gland. #EbrahimAseem
A blank canvas doesn’t equate beauty. Your stretch marks are unique strokes of the paint brush that surround the work of art the greatest artist in the universe drew you to be. #EbrahimAseem

Your body will be his addiction, because your beautiful soul is his affliction.

He will support you, heal you understand you & be so patient with your trust. To attract this caliber of man, you must fully let go of two things: the idea that no man will want your stretch mark having ass, because you have a child & your emotional attachment to your child’s father.

Don’t let a new man spoil you if you’re still letting a lying, manipulative EX or your child’s father have intimate & emotional parts of you. Heal first. Don’t toy with good men. #EbrahimAseem We exist. A man will love you & your child like it’s his own. He will love your body, stretch marks & all, he reassure you with his words & say,

“I just want you naked. Past that fake smile you wear to hide your self doubts. I know you talk to yourself , combatively conversing with the demons in your mind. I know you don’t always feel as beautiful as you look. I just want to be your calm. #EbrahimAseem Your peace. Your strength. Baby, lean on me. Weak as you may feel at times alone, we are unbreakable together. Let’s grow deeper on our self love together, for infinity forevers. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
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I'd marry a woman with children. She's not a burden. She's a blessing. #EbrahimAseem Bro, if you don't want to commit to a single mother, cool. Keep "talking" to the girls you prefer. I sincerely pray that works for you. But don't knock a man like me, willing to pour love into a woman & her child. 👰🏿👶🏾💍❤️ #EbrahimAseem Her son needs loves & leadership from a man, so he won't grow up to neglect his responsibilities & choose to be a baby daddy. If his father isn't man enough to raise & teach him how to be a man, I will. #EbrahimAseem Her daughter needs to see a man court, commit to, provide for & respect her mother, so she won't think she has to settle for less, lies, cheating & disrespect to keep a man. If her father isn't man enough to be a provider for her mother, I will. #EbrahimAseem Courting a single mother is terribly hard. She'll flake & cancel dates. Short text & not reply. Have no time for putting you first. A woman who puts her child first over me, makes me want to make her & her child my first priority. #EbrahimAseem Be patient with her. She's not flaking. Childcare costs more than the date you want to take her on. Pay her babysitter. Take her on a date. It's not about money. Spoil her with your time to let her know you appreciate all sacrifices she makes for her child with no help. Be her consistency & she will be your everything. #EbrahimAseem Speaking this to a group of 335 grad school men. Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com The model @Jessicapettway is happily married for 10 years, & is not a single mother. Not that there's in any way anything wrong with single mothers. Every future wife was born to be a wife.

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Ladies, is this true? My smart mouthed EX used to argue with her mother constantly. One time, on the phone, she called her mom a "spiteful b" hung up & threw her phone. I grabbed her close from behind, flipped her over to face me & presses my lips up against hers & said "don't talk to your mother that way. #EbrahimAseem I've raised my voice to my moms growing up & it's wrong. Now I know she talks down to you, uses you, abusers you & knowingly allowed her boyfriends to molest you growing up, but you don't take that out on her. Take it out on me. Then I flipped her around, so her back was to me. "You mad? You want to push? Communicate. Push your juicy? well rounded conversation up against my throbbing intellect. Let me pound the stress right out of you." I gripped her curves, grabbed her neck & begin to kiss & suck the stress right out of her. #EbrahimAseem Romantic aggression & consistent actions are the recipe to handle a Smart a Mouthed woman. Mmm I love a Smart Mouthed Woman 😍 #EbrahimAseem Speaking this message to 15 beauties at a bridal shower cooking class. Want life spoken into your friends as you learn a dish from a chef? Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

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Ladies, do you agree? | Speaking this at s bridal shower cooking class. Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com #EbrahimAseem

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For the mothers, sisters, nanas & friends who motivate their male loved ones. #EbrahimAseem A "Nag" is a horse.

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Speaking this to a group of 310 men. #EbrahimAseem

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Ladies is this true? #EbrahimAseem Speaking at a groom's party. Book me: AEAseem@gmail.com

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Why BUSY, successful women can’t KEEP a man, but a Bad Bitch can.

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Dating a strong, smart, successful, busy woman is a waste of a man’s time. Yes, I said it. She’s always busy, & canceling dates, with her flaking ass. She has less free time than a bald girl has edges. Her texts are as short as her patience. Busy women will ignore your texts, then text you a week later like, “oh I thought I replied.” No time to put a man first. A woman who puts her career, school or child first over me, until I put a ring on her finger makes me want to make her my first priority, as long as she reciprocates all I give. By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Don’t sleep on a busy woman just because she has school, a career or a child. Those busy, strong, intelligent, virtuous, focused women can cook, massage, drop wisdom & promote your growth. #EbrahimAseem Don’t just “date” her or “talk” to her. COURT her exclusively to show her you appreciate all sacrifices she makes grinding for her future with no help. #EbrahimAseem Busy women only give time to consistent men who give effort.

If a busy reciprocal woman gives us her time, she’s already considering something more with us. Don’t mess it up. Cut off side chicks & make only her a priority. Manhood is about EFFORT over ego. #EbrahimAseem

As men, we have to stop chasing the Bad Bitch Fantasy girl who only texts back faster than a busy woman can, because she ain’t got a damn job or career to pour energy into. #EbrahimAseem A smart, successful woman can be both busy AND bad. Get you a girl who can do both.

Be patient with a busy woman. Take her out. She’s not flaking. Her bills & student loans costs more than 1,000 dates you can take her on. It’s not about money. Spoil her with your time, yet don’t smother her. Give her space. #EbrahimAseem If she likes you, she’ll reach out to you. Busy women make time for those who are important to her growth. Don’t let her busy schedule discourage you. It’s not a reciprocal woman’s job to chase us men. You pursue her & never give up. Be her consistency, she’ll be your everything. #EbrahimAseem

I learned that busy woman who gives you peace after working all day deserves for you to melt all her stress away. Spoil her. Support her mental growth. Reassure her busy schedule isn’t a deal breaker. #EbrahimAseem

A busy woman who’s loyal to her purpose & values herself too much to chase me, turns me the hell on. I wanna cuddle up & read with you. Turn your pages. Be fluent in your love language. Pray with you, never ON you. Hear you speak your mind, my favorite melody. #EbrahimAseem You never ask too much, & that makes me want to give you my all, my commitment & my last name. Teach me how to understand you. Teach me how to dance to the beat of your caring heart. Let’s make music together. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

I am a chef, motivational speaker & 12-year-mentor for men. I write new articles every thursday & travel, speaking life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide. I am West African-Hebrew.

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A Genuine woman w/ trust issues isn't crazy, smart mouth, guarded or over emotional. She's just been thru so much pain. #EbrahimAseem You don't know if growing up mom treated her like crap & put men over her. #EbrahimAseem Parents never acknowledging all she did, never showing unconditional love, always putting her down, calling her names. Court her, propose & tell her this You're my dream come true. Where would I be w/o you? I love you more than lungs love breathing air. Not just b/c all you do, give & share. #EbrahimAseem You promote my growth. The love I have for myselfmatters to you most. You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take on a date. Go for a walk w/ by the lake. #EbrahimAseem The only one who can arouse my mind, & throb my head. The only one I want to devour in bed. You’re the only one I can be goofy w/, sing along to 90s R&B w/ as we ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because w/o you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far. You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heart kiss the soft sand of your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled w/ hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, Im willing to endure all pain, destroy all your demons, break down every wall that houses your trust issues, b/c only you mean that much. I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you inside & out, & as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen like you. #EbrahimAseem Thank you for sticking by me thru arguments & mistakes. I'll never turn away. No one can take your place. #EbrahimAseem I want trips overseas w/ you. To get on one knee for you. To spiritually grow w/ only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I'll place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, with tears in eyes, look you deep in your eyes & say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. & I want you to daily uplift you, so you'll always love you too. #EbrahimAseem Speaking this to 250 college men today! #12YearMaleMentor Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

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What's your favorite non-fiction book? #ManChallenge #EbrahimAseem #CourtHer

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Black women, is this true? 👸🏾✊🏿 #EbrahimAseem

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Ladies is this true? #EbrahimAseem Speaking at a groom's party. Book me: AEAseem@gmail.com

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Men don’t stay loyal to girls who CHASE them. Let him pursue you.

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Stop telling him to text back or give effort. He saw your text & doesn’t want you. Men don’t take girls who chase them seriously. #EbrahimAseem Let him court you & pursue you.

A woman can be gorgeous, curvy, funny & low matinence, if she chases him, a man will still DM Instamodels & cheat on her with the most warthog looking side chick/beast he can find. We’re talking Pumba from Lion King.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Chasing a man makes him want to pursue other women, because men are hunters. Food doesn’t taste as good when a hunter doesn’t have to put in work for it. #EbrahimAseem

When we have to put in work & effort for something, we value it more. When things come too easily, we take it for granted. Men side chick zone girls who chase him, because we don’t just seek the beautiful woman, it’s the thrill of the courting we’re after.

A woman who takes effort & consistency to get makes a man throb so hard. An easy girl makes him want another, because his hunger for courting isn’t quenched. #EbrahimAseem

Earning your loyalty makes us value it more. Getting loyalty without having to commit makes us seek another woman who values herself more.

Begging a man for commitment & telling him how to give you effort makes him crave a side chick. Here’s why: it’s not your job to teach a man how to be one, how to give effort & understand you. That was his father’s job. Once you start behaving like you’re his mother, he’ll see you as that, & crave another woman under his covers.

Even husbands get bored with a wife who doesn’t require effort without begging for it. He will sneak & text girls on Snap Chat. Spice things up. Send your man a sexy snap chat. Turn on some twerk music & dance on him. Play his favorite game & tell him the winner gets to be treated like dessert. Make your man constantly court you else he will replace you. #EbrahimAseem

Girls will give their all, stressing in pain to fix a broken man, instead of just choosing the loyal, handsome, strong, equally yoked manage wanted in the first place. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t ignore a man then expect him to chase you either. He will lose interest & only act like he loves you, until you give him sex, then he’ll snatch the world from under you.

If you like a man, don’t chase him. Be consistent enough to let him know you’re intrested, yet chaste enough that he doesn’t lose interest in pursuing you. He texts back? You text back. He treats you to a date first? You treat him to a date next. He doesn’t hit you? You don’t hit him. You’re not on his mind? Stop overthinking him into yours. #EbrahimAseem

Making a man dance to the beat of your standards without begging for time & effort makes him crave you. #EbrahimAseem Begging a man for effort annoys him. Telling him what to do irritates him. Teaching a grown ass man how to be one prepares him to commit to the woman after you, because you’re too busy being his mother. #EbrahimAseem

A woman who values herself too much to chase me, turns me the hell on. I wanna cuddle up & read with you. Turn your pages. Be fluent in your love language. Pray with you, never on you. Hear you speak your mind, my fav melody. #EbrahimAseem You never ask too much, & that makes me want to give you my all, my commitment & my last name. Teach my how to understand you. Teach me how to dance to the beat of your caring heart. Let’s make music together. #EbrahimAseem

I learned that woman who gives you peace after working all day deserves for you to melt all her stress away. Spoil her. Support her mental growth. Reassure her you appreciate all her sacrifice. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me
Motivational #SpeakLife vidoes: Youtube.com/RealNewsmagazine
Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

I am a chef, motivational speaker & 12-year-mentor for men. I write new articles every thursday & travel, speaking life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide. I am West African-Hebrew.

Want to hear me sing?
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