10 huge differences between Courting & “Talking” | Date a Dancer


Janet Jackson is one of the greatest entertainers alive. Her soft voice is comforting. Her smile, reassuring. Her dancing, elite. The quality of music is suffering today, because the spirit stimulating substance that is art of dance is being neglected in favor of neo-techno & twerk anthems. The same way the art of courting a woman is being neglected in favor of “talking” via dating. | 10 huge Differences between Courting & “Talking” (Dating)



Date a woman who can dance or who appreciates the art of dance. Court a beautiful soul loyal to her passions. The grace, rhythm, humility, balance & substance she will add to your life is unparalleled.


An emotionally driven woman or man is not easy to be in a relationship with. Everything is a problem to him or her. When you speak your mind, they call it “attitude”. When you call out their inconsistency, they call it “nagging”. Dance calms the spirit, influencing one’s intrinsic mind to rule over emotional mind. If their actions can’t dance to the beat of your loyalty level with consistent movement, two-step out of their life.


When the frequency of a beat touches your spirit, your soul dances. This is why I listen to neo soul, 90s R&B, oldies & funk more than this poor excuse for music made today. I’m an old soul who misses real music that expresses the art of loving a woman and courting a woman. Now she’s a “hoe who ain’t loyal” who better “make that ass clap” and if she “ain’t a hoe get up out my trap house”. Those lyrics are suspect. Down Low vernacular.


Dance is poetry in motion influenced by soul, funk & real live instruments. Vibration sounds have power. Before Kmt. was renamed Egypt, Africans used dance to communicate with their ancestors via vibration. Dance refined their intuition, clairvoyance, premonition & ability to read red flags & lairs via chakra alignment that dance promotes.



Twerking is NOT a dance, it is a dance MOVE inside a dance. Twerking activates only the second energy chakra, preventing full chakra activation, yet when holistically accompanied by a collection of dance moves, all chakras will be activated. Holistic dancing promotes inner peace & stress draining tranquility. Not all pole dancing is stripping. clothed pole dancing is an art, symbolizing yin/yang, the energy of balance. The pole symbolizes the spinal cord’s grey matter, which connects to the pineal gland. #EbrahimAseem


Men, stop wasting time, watching InstaModels Twerking on your phone, thirsting after strippers on Instagram, hoping they respond to the ashy dick pic you direct messaged them. Take your woman out salsa dancing, bachata, Jazz, slow winding at a Jamaican club.


Take her to a Jill Scott, Erykah Badu, Maxwell, Avant or Temptations concert. Dance with your woman. Allow your hearts to synchronize in the rhythm with the beat. Spend that intimate time with her. So she knows that anytime, anyplace you’re willing to honor her pleasure principle & paint smiles on her canvas face.


I’m so happy Janet is touring for the first time this decade. I want to take my niece to see her for an uncle day. My niece is a dancer. My daughter will be a dance & I will marry a dancer one day.


If women sent pics of art they drew, poems they’ve written, sonnets they’ve composed, children they’ve mentored & dance steps they’ve choreographed, Zales would be sold out. Every kiss begins with Kay. Every forever after begins with substance.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
IG: @Fuel4TheBODY
Website: RealNewsPaper.wordpress.com
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About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"
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3 Responses to 10 huge differences between Courting & “Talking” | Date a Dancer

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  3. Sara says:

    This was very insightful and inspiring. Your views on this topic are very refreshing. We live in a world where everyone wants the benefits but no one wants to work. May God bless you!

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