If he CHEATED, here’s what YOU did wrong. Sorry ladies.


The most powerless thing a woman can do is let an inconsistent guy
know she will stay waiting for him
to reach potential he doesn’t have. Stop being “loyal” to complacency. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

If he cheated on you, you should have loved him harder. He wouldn’t feel the need to cheat if you were doing your job, fighting for him. These are the poisonous lies we teach our daughters by telling them to “love him harder” whenever he displays disloyalty.

Loving an inconsistent man harder won’t help him reach potential. It will make you procrastinate reaching your own. Giving up your goals for him is not loyalty. It’s disloyal to your worth. #EbrahimAseem

Girls: “why can’t guys be loyal in relationships?” You’re not even loyal to your intuition, which warned you not to entertain him. #EbrahimAseem

Guys cheat, because how the hell do you expect him to be “loyal to you”, when YOU are not even “loyal to you” & the promises YOU made to yourself about what you’d no longer accept from a man. #EbrahimAseem Queen, giving up your standards to settle for an effort lacking man is NOT loyalty. It’s self disloyalty.

Men don’t cheat because they’re sexually driven. If that were true, cheaters would just remain single to sleep with as many women as they wanted & it wouldn’t be “cheating”. #EbrahimAseem Cheating is about control. Filling their insecurity by breaking your trust. Holding your heart hostage while they behave single. They could just leave you to sleep around, but they WANT to stay, make you suffer to siphon power from your brokenness via a soul tie.

Men, we can’t be fooled to think these “ride or die” girls who stay “loyal” after we disloyally put her through hell really love us. A girl who stays loyal to your inconsistencies & never calls out your mistakes has no investment in your growth. #EbrahimAseem

I want to wife a woman who loves a man so much, she will respectfully tell him he’s wrong to his face, because she loves his soul & wants to help him mature it. #EbrahimAseem

If you’re blessed with a woman who’s as loyal to her self worth as she is to you, tell her:

“I’ll never walk away from you. You can push me away with your guardedness. Come up with all these reasons why you don’t deserve me, because of your flaws. #EbrahimAseem Girl, you must be blind if you can’t see no flaw can overshadow all you mean to me. I’m not going anywhere. I will sit here right until you let me love you. #EbrahimAseem ”

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Website: RealNewsPaper.me
Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com
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These poetic lyrics are from Ebrahim Aseem’s newest single “Shea Butter”. Click above to hear or download FREE.

I’m a chef, writer & singer. I post new articles & recipes every thursday.

I’ve been a youth mentor for young men for 11 years, teaching them how to uplift & respect women & be men of confidence & valor. I make songs uplifting women. I speak isiZulu & English. I do motivational speaks at universities & private corporations worldwide. I am omw to do a motivational speak to a group of teen mother rape survivors at a wayward house.

If you’ve never heard my deep, baritone voice #SpeakLife

For booking: AEAseem@gmail.com.

If you would like a free copy of my book, follow me on Facebook & message me to request your free copy http://Facebook.com/AEAseem

About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"
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1 Response to If he CHEATED, here’s what YOU did wrong. Sorry ladies.

  1. ArizonaBorn says:

    Very well stated. This is wisdom.

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