Why I chose a Bad Bitch over a boring, “too-nice” Woman.


If he’s flirting with Bad Bitches on Instagram, get your hair & nails done. Do booty squats. Dress sexy. He wouldn’t need side chicks if you’d just stop letting your body go. Stop being so over emotional. Girls be having more tears than edges.

If he cheated on you with a bad bitch, it’s because you’re too boring & too nice. These are the silly lies boys tell themselves to get over losing the best thing that can ever happen to them, a genuine woman.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Men, let’s stop pushing away that supportive woman who has been through everything with us, to chase the selfish girl with only curves, who adds no growth to our life.

70% of my followers are men. One asked,

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The worst mistake I ever made was choosing a Bad Bitch over a sweet woman, because I thought they were boring, too-nice & uninterested, because they’d flake on dates I invited them on, short text me or never hit me up first. I realized sweet women aren’t uninterested, they’re focused on their goals, ambitions, school & career and their time needs to primarily go to it.

As men we get so busy chasing the flirty, bad bitch fantasy girl, we don’t realize that sweet woman right focused on her ambitions was designed just for us. #EbrahimAseem It’s not up to her to chase you. She’s the treasure. You pursue her. Give her patience, attention, stability, love & consistency.

Let’s let go of the side chicks & stop sexting girls online when we have a loyal, supportive, affectionate woman at home. None of those curvy distractions can calm your fears, support your goals, & love you deep like a sweet woman can. If you’re blessed with a supportive woman, tell her:

“I’ll never walk away from you. You can push me away with your guardedness. Come up with all these reasons why you don’t deserve me, because of your flaws. #EbrahimAseem Girl, you must be blind if you can’t see no flaw can overshadow all you mean to me. I’m not going anywhere. I will sit here right until you let me love you. #EbrahimAseem ”

All my dreams started to come true once I stopped womanizing, quit chasing the “bad bitch fantasy girl” & only pursued women who promote my growth & call me out on my b.s.

Women who are so sweet are so attractive. Mmm I promise you don’t have to have the fattest ass or flattest tummy. You’re not “too nice”. Thank you for being nice.

A woman who loves hard, cares deep, & prays for you when you’re stressed makes a strong man want to shower her with adornment & affection.‬

She’s a lovable person who enjoys helping others with a passion. She always does for everyone else, yet who ever does for her? Who even thinks of her. Be her consistency & she will be your everything. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me

Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me
I’m a chef & a 12-year mentor for men. I travel worldwide doing motivating speaking for groups of men at universities & prisons.

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About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"
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2 Responses to Why I chose a Bad Bitch over a boring, “too-nice” Woman.

  1. Kela says:

    Oh, how I wish I could sit and hear you speak.

  2. lovelyt26 says:

    Wow.. again my brother, you speak the truth. We need more men out there like you who appreciate a good woman.

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