Why Black Men don’t date Black Women

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Funny you woke brothas claim to love being black, yet you dont date black women. Sistas are not nappy with an attitude. Her hair is as natural as her ability to see through you. You date weak girls, so you can be ‘alpha’ by default. Little do you know, just because a woman isn’t Black doesn’t mean she’s weak. Strong women won’t submit to you, because she doesn’t trust your ability to lead her. You can barley lead yourself. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

In a GQ interview, Creed star Michael B.Jordan said, “It’s the world we live in. They see white and black. I don’t. A lot of black fans were feeling like, ‘Oh, my God, he should have been with a black woman’. I get it, but on the other hand it’s, like, relax – it’s 2015. It’s okay! People can like one another, not necessarily from the same history or culture or whatever the fuck it is. I understand what females want and need. I’m good at that. I don’t know if I’m the guy to give it to them right now. I’m emotionally unavailable.”

First of all bruh, don’t call women females. “Female” is only a woman’s body. It doesn’t not describe HER, which is the spirit wrapped inside that body. Secondly, to say you don’t see color is irresponsible. When you want Italian food, you get pasta. When you want Japanese food, you grab sushi. Culture is beautiful to choose, but when you exclude choosing your own culture as a reason why you choose another, it’s not ‘color blind’ it’s self hate.

For a black man to love a white woman or any woman is a beautiful thing.; but for any man to say he doesn’t date any woman of his own race, the same race as his mother, is really admitting he is a coward. #EbrahimAseem Too weak-minded to be in a relationship with a strong woman of their own race, who will tell him when he is wrong, call him on his “B.S.” and correct him.

Love has no race. Spirits have no race. We are all spirits, wrapped in the human form, like a gift wrapped inside a box. Who cares what color the box is? It’s the treasure inside that is to be valued, not its container. #EbrahimAseem Black women are beauifull. White women are beautiful. All women are beautiful.

I have never seen a heart love more or love less, based on the skin color of the person the heart resides in. #EbrahimAseem

People who only date “light-skinned people” or only date “dark-skinned people” are ignorant.

Light-skinned does not mean prettier. Dark- skinned does not mean ugly. Light-skinned does not mean one is stuck-up or SOFT. Dark-skinned does not mean one is humble or HARD. #EbrahimAseem

White does not mean she’s weak or submissive. Black does not mean she’s ghetto or uneducated. #EbrahimAseem

Latin doesn’t mean she has an attitude or is crazy. Asian doesn’t mean she’s timid and weak-minded. #EbrahimAseem

Filipino doesn’t mean she’s irrational or homicidal. Pretty doesn’t mean she’s bipolar or cocky. #EbrahimAseem

When we limit ourselves or judge people based off race or the color of their skin, we allow ourselves to miss out on the most compatible person for us. #EbrahimAseem

I learned as a man, we have to stop trying to CONTROL a strong-minded women. #EbrahimAseem In that same regard, we have to STOP placing labels on women, as “submissive” or “non-submissive”.

A weak woman and a submissive woman are not the same. Strong women are constantly misunderstood
as “crazy” or “annoying” by weak males who aren’t men enough to handle her. #EbrahimAseem She’s not “crazy” she’s passionate. She’s not “bipolar” she just treats people differently, based off how THEY treat HER. She’s not “talking back” she just speaks her mind, despite what anyone feels or thinks about it. #EbrahimAseem A strong-minded woman will NEVER be submissive to a weak man. If she sees he cannot assume the Alpha role, she will walk all over him.

A strong-minded woman will happily submit herself mentally to a strong man who mentally DEMANDS her respect with his mentality, who can respect her enough NOT to try to change her, and can assume the ALPHA role.

The reason many men don’t wife or cuff strong- minded women, or say they don’t date women of their own race is because, he subconsciously feels inferior to her intelligence. #EbrahimAseem

“SHUT UP” is a term weak men with limited vocabulary use to silence a woman who speaks her mind. #EbrahimAseem We have to Man up our mentality. If she talks too much, It’s because we as men are not doing enough.

Taking control of a woman’s MIND with our conversation will render her SPEECHLESS. #EbrahimAseem The reason strong- minded women
have a smart mouth & talk back is not because she’s “masculine.” NO. She knows she can play a man’s Alpha role better than him with her intelligence. #EbrahimAseem Can we as men STOP trying to CONTROL a strong woman?

Some men say, “but I need a woman to listen to me, not correct Me! treat me like a MAN dammit! First of all, how much a woman listens to us is NOT a reflection of how much of a man we are. If a man feels that, he obviously has very low self-esteem. #EbrahimAseem

Second, by a man choosing ONLY weak, submissive women who he KNOWS will never challenge anything he says, shows he is SCARED of a woman’s strength.

If the only way a man is attracted or aroused by the company of a woman is if she bows down to him, it is scary, and the early stages of him being on the down low. Oh, trust me.

You get off on power struggle huh? You like a woman to treat you like you’re her daddy huh? Yeah, that’s a weak man. A real STRONG man can humble himself to listen to his woman.

A KING has no intention of trying to Change or CONTROL a queen. He WANTS his woman to be just as strong and outspoken as Him, with her own mind, because he knows, his woman’s strength is a reflection of his. #EbrahimAseem Iron sharpens iron. As men, we have to allow our strong woman to be the iron that sharpens our iron, as we sharpen hers.

Im so attracted to Black women. She is not unapproachable. She just sees thru lies game & bs. She doesnt have attitude. She just speaks her mind, & wont submit to a weak man just so he can be alpha by default. Skin of black diamond. Hair of gold. #EbrahimAseem Her body is art Her heartbeat is music. All human life came from her womb. Respect her✊🏿

Never heard me sing? Listen to my song “I Love Black Women”

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
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I am a chef & 12-year mentor for men & a motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

Want a free copy of my book? Follow me => http://Facebook.com/AEAseem then message me so I can message you a free copy.

Instead of complaing about your woman, tell her this…. #EbrahimAseem

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A Genuine woman w/ trust issues isn't crazy, smart mouth, guarded or over emotional. She's just been thru so much pain. #EbrahimAseem You don't know if growing up mom treated her like crap & put men over her. #EbrahimAseem Parents never acknowledging all she did, never showing unconditional love, always putting her down, calling her names. Court her, propose & tell her this You're my dream come true. Where would I be w/o you? I love you more than lungs love breathing air. Not just b/c all you do, give & share. #EbrahimAseem You promote my growth. The love I have for myselfmatters to you most. You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take on a date. Go for a walk w/ by the lake. #EbrahimAseem The only one who can arouse my mind, & throb my head. The only one I want to devour in bed. You’re the only one I can be goofy w/, sing along to 90s R&B w/ as we ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because w/o you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far. You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heart kiss the soft sand of your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled w/ hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, Im willing to endure all pain, destroy all your demons, break down every wall that houses your trust issues, b/c only you mean that much. I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you inside & out, & as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen like you. #EbrahimAseem Thank you for sticking by me thru arguments & mistakes. I'll never turn away. No one can take your place. #EbrahimAseem I want trips overseas w/ you. To get on one knee for you. To spiritually grow w/ only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I'll place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, with tears in eyes, look you deep in your eyes & say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. & I want you to daily uplift you, so you'll always love you too. #EbrahimAseem Speaking this to 250 college men today! #12YearMaleMentor Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

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Why I chose a Bad Bitch over a boring, "too-nice" Woman #NewArticle Link in my bio. #EbrahimAseem If he's flirting with Bad Bitches on Instagram, get your hair & nails done. Do booty squats. Dress sexy. He wouldn't need side chicks if you'd just stop letting your body go. If he cheated on you with a bad bitch, it's because you're too boring & too nice. These are the silly lies boys tell themselves to get over losing the best thing that can ever happen to them, a genuine woman. 70% of my followers are men. One asked, "What made you stop pursuing the bad bitches? I mean they are sexy as fuck." My response: "Those self proclaimed 'Bad Bitches' we're sexy & sweet, but called me 'too deep' & 'selfish' for being abstinent while single. They never came to see me speak life. Never came with me to prayer. Never came to family cookouts. Never promoted my growth or stimulated my mind. Then I realized, a woman's sexiness isn't in how phat or curvy her butt is, it's how much she values your manhood & will do anything to help you grow closer to the great man she sees deep inside you bro. The worst mistake I ever made was choosing a Bad Bitch over a sweet woman, but I did it because…….. (Cont) Link to the full article in my bio. #EbrahimAseem

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About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"
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2 Responses to Why Black Men don’t date Black Women

  1. sam medina says:

    Date: Thu, 30 Jun 2016 19:03:35 +0000 To: saintceciliasang@hotmail.com

  2. lovelyt26 says:

    This was an excellent article. We need more strong Black men like you to speak the truth. GOD bless.

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