How to “Turn the Pages of her Mind” | 100 ways to approach a woman.

How to approach her in person:

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#3. If she’s walking fast don’t yell, catcall or chase her. Mentally note the location. Return tomorrow w/ a box of chocolate w/ ur number on it

#4. Pay for her gas. Say, “fill it up beautiful, it’s taken care of”. Then, leave your number on her dash. If she calls, gas up her inner beauty

#5. Compliment her eyebrows when you approach her not her breasts. Hand her a MAC gift card with your number on it. Get to know her inner beauty

#6. If she has a dog, ask its name & breed. Pet it. Talk to it. Be affectionate. Say “If u 2 are ever down for a dog park date here’s my number”

#7. Give her a massage spa gift card w/ ur number inside. Say “I pray u have a stress free day” If she calls take away her stress dont add to it

#8. Compliment her outfit. Say “Can I SnapChat you on my story? Your beauty just made my day” Show her the selfie. Have her text it to her phone

#9 When she’s checking out, pay for her groceries. Leave ur card & say “I didn’t interrupt because I value ur time & smile. Call me if u have any

#10. If she’s at work, don’t interrupt her hustle by yelling or asking her number. Buy something. Then give it to her w/ ur number on the receipt

#11. If shes introverted dont use lines. She spots bs & reads minds by feeling energy. Treat her vibe like waves & ride it. Then say “can we txt”

How to approach her if you’re not strangers.

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#13. Buy her a nonfiction book about ur deepest flaw. Read it. Brainstorm ways to overcome it. Contact her & confess it. Show her growth not game

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Would this work for you? ๐Ÿค” #ManChallenge #EbrahimAseem #Art

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#15. Find out her fav fruit. Read how to plant. transplant the seed. Once it buds, give it to her. Teach her how to nurture it. Nurture her mind.

#16. Ask her fav food instead of her number. Read a cook book. Cook it. Bring it to her. Write your number on the tubaware. Serve her creativity.

#17. Give her some organic coconut oil w/ a list. 1st, read up on all its healing properties. Write them on the list w/ your number at the bottom

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#20. Buy 24 flowers. Give ur nana 12 & take a pic. Show ur crush & give her 12 ๐Ÿ’. Tell her ur fav memory of nana. Ask to take her to meet ur nana

#21. Buy her organic olive oil. Write ur number on it. Say, “I bought u this for ur hair. If ur ever down for me to teach u a recipe using it, call me

#22. Buy her pH strips so she can test her alkaline level. Read books on the topic so u can drop knowledge. Then get her number & take her higher

How to approach her, even in the DM.

#23. Observe her social media for her passions. Read a book on the topic. DM her ur thoughts. Say “Id love to converse deeper. What’s ur number?”

#24. If she loves dogs, ask her fav breed. Find a breeder w/ those puppies. Snap selfies w/ them. Send her the pics & invite her to play w/ them.

#25. Ask her fav Disney song. Learn it. Sing & record it w/ ur number at the end. Give it to her. If she calls, take her to see Lion King Musical

#26. DM her a video right after a fresh cut & shave. Tell her to have a stress free day. If she replies, she’s feeling u. Ask for a FaceTime date

#27. Make fun of her fav show.๐Ÿคฃ Promise to watch. Say “I was wrong” & what u liked. Say “Can I call u after the next episode & converse about it?

#28. Send her funny/informative links like those she posts. Be her goofy/peaceful escape from overthinking & stress. Ask her on a ComedyClub date

How to approach a Single Mom

#29. If shes w/ her child shes busy. Respect it. Dont ask her number, give urs written down. Say “Id love to see if ur convo’s as beautiful as u”

#30.

Ladies, is this true? #EbrahimAseem

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How to Court her:

#31.

#ManChallenge ๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿ“–

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What's your favorite non-fiction book? #ManChallenge #EbrahimAseem #CourtHer

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#35. Dont ask for pics. Say “back that brain up on my throbn pineal gland. I’ll pound stress out ur overthink’n mind w/ my mental depth. Converse

#36.

Ladies, is this true? ๐Ÿค” #EbrahimAseem

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#37.

Do you agree? #EbrahimAseem

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#38.

Do you agree? #EbrahimAseem #ReciprocalWoman

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#39.

Ladies, is this true? Speaking this to 90 college freshMEN. #EbrahimAseem

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#40. Wake your crush up like this.

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#42.

Speaking this to a group of 210 men. #EbrahimAseem

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#43. https://instagram.com/p/BUKo8ofhPJr/

#44.

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#45. Stop entertaining EVERY girl on social media, while the girl you’re courting is giving u all her attention. Your future wife may be watching

#46. Court a healed woman. Who’ll respect u, support ur vision, joke, pray & read with you & not make u pay for the cold way past men treated her

#47

Growth is love. #EbrahimAseem

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#48. Court a woman who’ll INVEST in u. Not ur wallet. Your patience goals & purpose. Quit chasing the bad bitch fantasy who doesnt promote growth

#49.

Ladies, is this true? ๐Ÿค”

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#50.

Ladies, is this true? #EbrahimAseem

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#51. Inconsistency is a huge turn off to her. Don’t be all over her one minute, & distant the next. She’s loyal to effort & courtship, not “talking” & empty promises.

#52.

#53.

Is this true? #EbrahimAseem

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#54. Boys text & make excuses. Men call & make plans. If u only txt she’ll think u txt multiple side chicks & dont see a future w/ her. Court her

#55. Dont expect her to chase u. Shes not playing hard to get. Pain changed her. Give her so much patience she feels like her trusting self again

#56.

#EbrahimAseem

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#57.

Ladies, is this true? #EbrahimAseem #SpeakingToCollegeMen

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#58.

I'm speaking this to 117 men at a grad school pre law caucus. #EbrahimAseem

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#59.

Courting these Single Mothers #EbrahimAseem Speaking this message to 414 male, app developers #SalesForce

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#60. Stop pouring all your loyalty in a girl who behaves single, flirts online & treats u like an ATM. Court a giver who reciprocates your energy

#61.

#62.

Court her. #SpeakingLife to 110 college Freshmen boys. #EbrahimAseem

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#63. Take her on a PetCo or aquarium date, so she can play w/ animals, while u play in her hair & grip her curves. Slowly unleash ur inner animal

#64.

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How to keep her:

#65.

Do you agree? #EbrahimAseem

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#66. Dont throw all u do for her in her face when mad. She watches all she says just to keep u happy. Use your words to reassure & calm her fears

#67.

Ladies, do you agree? #EbrahimAseem Speaking to h.s. boys

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#68.

Do you agree? I'm speaking this to 170 men. #EbrahimAseem

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#69.

Speaking life at SJSU to 78 men. #EbrahimAseem

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#70.

#ManChallenge #EbrahimAseem

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#71.

Do you agree? #ManUp #EbrahimAseem

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#72.

Do you agree? #EbrahimAseem Speaking to 88 groom.

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#73.

I've learned this lesson & made this mistake. #NeverAgain #EbrahimAseem

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#74.

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#75.

#76.

Try this bro. #EbrahimAseem

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#77.

#EbrahimAseem

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#78.

I'm learning this. #EbrahimAseem

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#79.

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#80.

Do you agree? #EbrahimAseem

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#81.

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#82.

Ladies, is this true? #EbrahimAseem

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#83.

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#84.

Do you agree? #EbrahimAseem Speaking this to 218 men.

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#85. If you have a giving woman, cherish & spoil her. Match your ruggedness w/ vulnerability. Never let fear of being calling soft lose you your blessing bro

#86.

Do you agree? #EbrahimAseem

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#87.

Ladies, is this true? #EbrahimAseem I'm speaking this message at a prison to 70 men who make parole today.

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#88.

Do you agree? #EbrahimAseem

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#89.

#90. She just needs you to listen to her & comfort her. Stop trying to fix it & tell her what she did wrong. Understand.

#91.

#92.

Daughter. Wife. Sister. Nana. Mother. โค๏ธ I'm learning this.

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#93.

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#94.

#EbrahimAseem #SpeakingLife to 192 men.

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#95. โ€ชtrEAT her pearls of wisdom like groceries, until she pours her thoughts from her lips to yours. Swallow every drop of her intellect.โ€ฌ

#96.

Be her call. Be his peace. #EbrahimAseem

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#97.

Ladies, is this true? #EbrahimAseem

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#98.

How to love a guarded woman. #EbrahimAseem

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#99.

Do you agree? #EbrahimAseem #IGotMyQueen โค#Brie

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#100. When you find your wife, be goofy with her. Read with her. Kiss, bite & massage every inch of her body, so the world knows you’re only hers. Never get irritated, bored & lack effort when you find a treasure, because you only get ONE.

She said YES! ๐Ÿ’ yes Sweet woman, you are my dream come true. My happily ever after. Brie, where would I be w/o you? I love you more than my lungs love air. Not just all you do, give & share. #EbrahimAseem I love when you respectfully tell me call out my flaws it promotes my growth. The love I have for self matters to you most. You're the ONLY woman I want to wake up to. Take out on a date. Show off around town. Go for a walk with by the lake. #EbrahimAseem You're the only woman who arouses my mind, throbs my head. You're the only woman I want to devour in bed. You're the only woman I can be goofy with, singing 90s R&B with in the car. Even when we're driving nowhere. Because without you in my life, I'm going nowhere. You're the best woman for me by far. My Hebrew beauty. When I met you, you were a single mother with a 10mo. old son. From that very second, I knew I wanted you, your child & I to be one. The way you always put your child before me, has made me want to make you & yOUR child my first priority. #EbrahimAseem Men, shoot your shot! Approach your crush. Buy her your fav book. Put your number inside. If she calls, don't ask her to chill. Have a bookclub date & converse. Turn the pages of her mind. #EbrahimAseem Brie, you make the waves of my heartbeat want to kiss the soft sand that is your embrace. I know your past is filled with hurt, pain & broken trust. But for only you, I will endure all the pain, destroy all your demons, break down every last wall that houses your trust issues, because only you mean that much. #EbrahimAseem I will be consistent, never turn away. No other woman can take your place. I want trips overseas with only you. That's why I got one one knee for only you. I want to spiritually grow with only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I placed on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, future bride, after I, with tears in my eyes, look the best thing that ever happened to me deep in your eyes & say, "I do", to only you. ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ‘ธ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’’ I love you. & I want to daily uplift you, so you always love YOU too #EbrahimAseem Instagram: @Fuel4TheBody

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About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"
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2 Responses to How to “Turn the Pages of her Mind” | 100 ways to approach a woman.

  1. Marshelle says:

    Love this.. Please make one to women

  2. deflora says:

    Thank y for sharing this plate of your journey and teaching us the value of creative maturity.

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