These DMs, inbox messages & emails are getting out of hand. So let’s make this clear:


So ladies, please do NOT find yourself in my email specifically for public speaking booking or in my DM sending me naked pictures I didn’t ask for; saying you’re “trying to get to know me”. Intellectual conversation is welcomed, and compliments of my purpose to SPEAK LIFE are humbly appreciated by me. However, there is so much more to me than what you see of me via social networks.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

IG: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem

I use my social networks to SPEAK LIFE into young men & women & also give any Life Coach advice to anyone. Nothing more, nothing less.

Feel free to share your testimony with me, ask me for advice, and share your feedback of anything I’ve ever said or written, that truly humbles me in a way you have no idea; but you can keep the pick up lines & the nude pictures to yourself, I don’t want them. I like to approach women and date IN REAL LIFE. Not on social networks. Besides, no one wants to see your ashy vajayjay pics anyway.

I’m constantly asked “why aren’t you married yet?” Just because I’m not yet a husband, does not mean I’m down to use my platform or notoriety to sleep with every beautiful woman I meet; because I’m not. You must have me confused with your favorite ‘cant-sing-live-in-concert’ R&B artist; YUP! Him. That’s not me. My mother raise me to be a king, not a hoe.

What makes one a king is not pursuing multiple hoe maidens to build a harem; What makes one a king is a pursuing that ONE queen.

“A man who finds a wife finds a good thing; and obtains favor in the Holy Spirit.” – Proverbs 18:22

Do you think you’ve already meet your soul mate? As in do you think the one you’re meant to spend the rest of your life with is someone you already know? Because I know I have.

Ever since I have been blessed with the platform to speak life into young men and women on an international scale; I have known any woman I meet from this point forward, will not have the opportunity to meet me before my reputation proceeds our acquaintance.

And even tho I’m not married to who most definitely is my future wife yet, I refuse to allow the poor behavior of seeking attention from multiple women online turn off my future wife. I’m loyal to her, even before marriage.

You have to be loyal to the idea of your dream mate, Even before you ever meet them, so once they walk into your life, you will be available for them.

Being single doesn’t mean not having love. You’re single because you’re STAYING AVAILABLE for that ONE dream myou deserve. Dream houses stay vacant, until they can be occupied by that ONE who can value it’s worth.

If you were in a relationship right now, then in a month, you meet your DREAM MATE; they will walk out you’re life, because you’re taken.

You being SINGLE is ATTRACTIVE to your dream mate; it is your best quality. Single means being LOYAL to your future husband or wife, who you’ve yet to meet. You young kings and queens deserve your dream mate. Please never settle for less than you know you deserve, because I promise you, once you are worth what you deserve, you will be blessed with it and have what it takes to keep it for eternity.

By: Ebrahim Aseem

IG: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem


I am an author, and I do Public Speaking events in the San Francsico Bay Area.

For Public Speaking inquiries & booking, contact me AEAseem@gmail.com

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About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"
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2 Responses to WHY are YOU still SINGLE? You’re STAYING AVAILABLE for your DREAM MATE you DESERVE.

  1. keepinupwamy says:

    Amazing post. Nice to see someone finally say it and actually mean it. Women don’t realize how degrading it is to solicit themselves. I value myself so much more than that because when my daughter is grown I expect her to do the same. Keep up the amazing post!

  2. yolanda says:

    While I’ve found your works to be profound pieces of truth this one is the most inspiring to me…
    The love of my life and I are currently on hiatus.Several events,but most dynamically the loss of his father contributed to the painful demise of our relationship, and more importantly the decision for me to “get out of the way- not go away”.It is in this indefinite time that we both are concentrating on healing as individuals.
    But it is an extremely eye opening and absolute lonely time…
    Ive been advised to “have fun”,”let nature take its course”. But I’m not interested in a temporary fix.
    At times I feel hollow and confused,but your words have spoken to me that in essence I am remaining true to the love I once knew,and that I know God will grant me to know again!I pray that peace,be still,and give thanks for your viewpoint.
    May you remain encouraged,and blessed!

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