Why the ‘Natural Hair Women have low Self-Esteem’ theory is complete B.S.

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A woman’s beautiful natural hair is a repellant for the judgmental, weak-minded little boys & it’s a magnet to attract mentally conscious MEN.

Wearing her natural hair does NOT mean she has an attitude.
Wearing a weave does NOT mean she’s insecure.
A queen styles her hair to enhance her beauty & compliment her confidence., not to cover up insecurity.

A woman is not an objected to be defined, controlled or put in check by a man. She is a powerful spirit, a universe unto herself.

An overly-macho, mentally fragile male can NOT handle a free thinking, conscious woman with her own mind. She does not even arouse him sexually. He needs a submissive woman.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Black Men are NOT ATTRACTED to Nappy Haired Black Women”

Here’s 5 reasons why the ‘Natural Hair Women have low Self-Esteem’ theory is complete B.S.

#1 Women with Natural Hair Have Low Self-Esteem – B.S.

Women with natural hair do not have low self-esteem. Staying true to your natural self & dreams in a world constantly telling you ‘you’re not good enough’ is what truly makes natural-haired women so damn unbreakable.

#2 Natural Hair is many times matted and coarse, and is not considered appropriate for a business environment – B.S.

The corporate world does not fully embrace or endorse women who wear their natural hair, because you are seen as a threat. Too militant. Rebellious. Non-submissive. Possessing the fervor & confidence to take their bosses’ job.

#3 Men prefer relaxed hair & are not attracted to natural haired women. – B.S.

Some males who are hesitant to approach women with natural hair are intimidated by the confidence you’re displaying by wearing your natural hair & he cowers at the possibility of you rejecting him.

No matter the style, she is wearing her everyday confidence on her head, allowing her to repel males with inactivated pineal glands, who are nowhere near her level of consciousness anyway, while only attracting confident, self loving men.

#4 Women look prettier with weave. That’s why natural hair women never get approached. – B.S.

As a 10-year youth mentor for young men, & a public speaker, men often admit they view natural hair as an indicator a woman’s everyday confidence is bolder than ever that day.

They say they are more apt to approach you on your days wearing relaxed hair, or a weave, because he feels he has less of a chance with you when you’re even extra confident to wear your hair however you best feel comfortable at that time. Unbeknownst to these males, a woman is confident and non-submissive no matter how her hair is styled.

#5 Wearing natural hair makes women feel inadequate, compared to women with straightened hair. – B.S.

Every woman has a different mindset. Her hair style does not define her. Her gender, style of dress and body shape does not define her. Don’t decline her worth in your mind. She’s one of a kind.

There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically her natural self; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. To me, that is the true essence of beauty. It is not up to us as men to define a woman, her hair, skin, nor her behavior.

She’s not some damsel in distress who needs to be saved. This knight-in-shining-armor-ism many males posses stems from being raised by a weak-minded woman, without the presence of a father figure. To treat a woman as something who needs to be defined or rescued, that is hate and male privilege.

Low self-esteem stems from the culture one is raised in
Growing up, the images media shows us of MEN are: confident, strong, on to the next girl.
The images media shows us of WOMEN are: weak, needy, insecure, chasing men.
Low self-esteem stems from the culture one is raised in. We must start uplifting our women.

Faux articles are written in magazines everyday, telling women how ugly they are, how fat they are, how insecure they are, how they just aren’t ENOUGH. If women started loving them self, all these product companies would go out of business. Male privilege is a financially lucrative.

She is not some queen in need of a king to define her, she is royal by herself.
Her natural hair is everything. Her natural body is everything, stretch marks & all. She is not flawed, she is a universe unto herself.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Black Men are NOT ATTRACTED to Nappy Haired Black Women”
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About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"
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