Stop wasting TIME & years UPGRADING a boy into a man for the NEXT woman


You met a guy who was so interested in you at first, now he holds back. So, you make excuses for his lack of effort, trying to cut him slack. When you pull away, he blows up your phone with promises to make you stay. #EbrahimAseem But when you drop your side pieces to make only him your bae, he holds back again. What a wicked game to play.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

If you have to ask a man why he’s taking so long to commit, he has no plans for a future with you. He’s using you. You are his come up. Upgrading him for another woman. #EbrahimAseem

A man knows if he wants a future with you after the first couple dates. If he hasn’t made his intentions clear, he’s using you as practice to prepare for the woman he really wanted. #EbrahimAseem Stop wasting TIME & years UPGRADING a boy with potential into a better man for the NEXT woman.

Girls feel leaving a broken man she loves is cold. She knows what it’s like to feel broken & be abandoned by loved ones.

Staying loyal to anyone who brings you stress, headaches & heartbreak with no appreciation is cold to your SELF, & enabling to the person. #EbrahimAseem

All you put in teaching a boy how to love you, he will use to love another woman after leaving you. #EbrahimAseem

A woman can be gorgeous, intelligent, successful & sweet. Meet a man who sweeps her off her feet. If his consistent actions don’t show he wants ONLY you, leave you for another woman is what he’ll do. #EbrahimAseem He lacks confidence to approach her, that’s why he chose you, to teach him how to be a better man for his next woman, not for you.

Queen, I want you to know you’re not asking too much, for wanting to be consistently appreciated & affectionately touched. You deserve to express your feelings & be heard without being judged. Not have your feelings thrown back in your face. #EbrahimAseem

You deserve honesty from the start, & consistent transparency is a must. Not made to feel you’re being over-emotional, because you’re so slow to trust. Your trust is so valuable, a patient man will earn it. Your & your love language are not difficult, an understanding man will learn it. #EbrahimAseem

I know what ifs replay in your head as you lay in bed, & failed scenarios haunt your deep thinking mind. A listening man will take the time to hear you, helping your over thinking thoughts subside. #EbrahimAseem

You don’t have to hide your little temper from every new man you meet, because an intuitive man will take the time to understand by being your stress relief, your calm, & your peace. #EbrahimAseem

All the things you were made to feel are flaws, by past flames who are the reason you’ve built up these walls, a strong man will appreciate. He will not ask you to wait for him to grow into the potential you see in him. The moment you meet him, he will be every thing you ever wanted and needed. He will hold your hand & help you understand. #EbrahimAseem

You are not crazy. Over emotional. Smart mouthed or rude. You are a work of art. Art does not need to rhyme, make sense all the time, nor change what it is on the outside to be accepted. Art must be observed, studied, valued & appreciated for the uniqueness it is. #EbrahimAseem

I want to study your pages. Become fluent in your language the most. I taste the good & bad in you, & I want them both. You bring out the best flavor in me, flaws & all. I just want to savor you. You are already whole, you don’t need a man to rescue you. #EbrahimAseem I just want you to love & fully accept the beautiful soul in your mirror, as much as I love her. May you, me & her love each other so deep, and stay growing closer and better, together, for infinity forevers.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem

I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"
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