Real Women have CURVES. Sorry.


These inbox messages & #ArchThatBackBootyChallenge DMs are getting out of hand. So let’s make this clear…


So ladies, please do NOT find yourself in my inbox sending me naked pics of your curves, stripper selfies, twerk vids & #ArchThatBackChallenge booty pics I did not even ask for, saying you’re “trying to get to know me” ๐Ÿšซ Intellectual conversation is welcomed & compliments of my purpose of being used as an instrument by the most high to SPEAK LIFE are humbly appreciated by me. But there is so much more to me than what you see me post on here. Just like there is more to you than pics you post online.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

I see right through these half-naked Instagram Honeys, some of whom set thirst traps, because they can’t pull a loyal, mentally mature man in REAL LIFE. I truly pray they find the man they’re looking for with that, but as for me; I’m uninterested in that.

So, DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME with me; I wont budge. If I accepted your request, follow or added you myself, it’s because ITS Facebook & I’m very social & friendly.

I use my social networks to SPEAK LIFE into young men & women, promote my motivational speaking events at prisons & Universities worldwide, & also give any Life Coach advice to anyone as an 11 year mentor for young men.

Nothing more, nothing less. Share your testimony with me, ask me for advice, like my status’, pictures & comment if you like, that truly humbles me in a way you have no idea #EbrahimAseem but you can keep the pick up lines, corny words, & the nude pictures of your curves to yourself. I don’t want them.

I like to approach women and court IN REAL LIFE. Not on social networks. Besides, no one wants to see your ashy vajayjay pics anyway ๐Ÿ˜’โœ‹ #EbrahimAseem

I’m constantly asked “why aren’t you married yet?”

Just because I’m not yet a husband, does not mean I’m down to manipulatively USE my platform or notoriety to sleep with every beautiful woman I meet; because I’m not. I’ve never slept with a woman I met off Instagram. #EbrahimAseem

You must have me confused with your favorite ‘cant-sing-live-in-concert’ R&B artist ๐ŸŽค๐Ÿ˜Ž yes him. That’s not me. My mother raised me to be a king, not a hoe.

What makes one a king is not pursuing multiple women to build a harem. What makes one a king is a pursuing that ONE queen ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’Ž๐Ÿ‘ฐ๐Ÿฟ๐Ÿ‘จ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿ‘งโ€๐Ÿ‘ฆ and giving only her your attention, time, loyalty & multiple picture likes. #EbrahimAseem

Curves without substance does nothing for me.

Many guys are saying, “Arch that back. Twerk those cakes then.” If you feel “real women have curves” you’re sadly mistaken.

I don’t think you women know how gorgeous you really are, because you trip off InstaModels, #ArchThatBackChallenge & Video Vixens who make you feel you must be super curvy with massive ass & a flat, size zero waist, or Victoria Secret models who show you to lose weight & have zero cellulite. #EbrahimAseem

If you’re thick, love your curves. If you’re petite, love your frame. There is no mold to beauty. You ARE the mold. A work of art sculpted to be your unique version of beautiful. #EbrahimAseem

Now, when I say beauty, I’m talking inside & out. You’re breathtakingly gorgeous no matter your ass size, have no doubt. The next time your fine ass walks past a mirror, stop. Look at that beautiful soul staring back at you & say, “You are beautiful.” #EbrahimAseem

Ladies, I don’t give a damn if you have a fat ass when I approach. You can’t attract me with curves & #ArchThatBackChallenge booty pics. I’ll pour love into a skinny woman with stretch marks way before I entertain a curvy self-proclaimed “bad bitch” with only curves to offer.

I’ve dated them curvy, petite, thick & slim thick. So I’m not impressed by huge curves and a smile. I have a mind, can you stimulate it? Or is the only head on a man you can arouse connected to his penis?

I’ll grip, slap, massage, manhandle & worship your booty no matter its size, but if you think that will make you attract me, you’re as hopeless as a penny with a hole in it.

A confident woman doesn’t need to rely on compliments, thirst nor attention from random guys on social networks to validate her beauty, because she knows she’s beautiful before anyone else. Looking deep inside herself, she sees the smooth, inner beauty she exudes clearer than a mirror.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem

I’m a chef, motivational speaker for men & a 11 youth mentor for men, teaching them how to uplift & respect women & be men of confidence & valor. I speak at universities, prisons & corporations worldwide. For booking:

About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"
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6 Responses to Real Women have CURVES. Sorry.

  1. sam medina says:

    As usual you have struck out on your own with things I never would have believed I would hear a man say. I am awestruck. I support you as usual. I am glad that you always re tweet my comments on Twitter. I really am honored. Stay sane safe and strong. Your Mother must be amazing.

    S. stayin on your side

    Date: Wed, 5 Aug 2015 01:49:57 +0000

  2. E. English says:

    “I have a mind, can you stimulate it? Or is the only head on a man you can arouse connected to his penis?” <—GodSense! I will definitely be quoting you โ™ฅ –E.E.

  3. Alex Kenneh says:

    Just hard to wonder where all the good men are at? I guess they should switch ‘good men’ with the n word and just maybe ladies will see them.

  4. Candice says:

    It is so refreshing to see someone like yourself searching for a good wife of substance. We tell our wife school attendees of men like you, that you all do exist. I would feel honored if you would take a look at our website, and I invite you to our special Wife School Dinner in October in Orlando, Florida. We teach women all the virtues and feminine arts they will need to support a masculine man. Thank you for your time.


    Candice Smith
    The Institute of Feminine Grace

  5. anedan17 says:

    How can I get in contact with you? There are many things I’d like to discuss.

  6. Carolyn says:

    Thank You.

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