Stop letting your daughter or son see you crawl back to a man who broke you.
If I broke you, let me go. Don’t let your daughter see you spend years & tears crawling back to an inconsistent man who hurt you faithfully, verbally, or physically. She will grow up thinking being weak & depressed for a man is how you “keep” a man. Well, a woman doesn’t “keep” a man. A loyal man keeps his penis out of other women & keeps his mind on his ambitions. If you have to “keep” him, he’s not yours, leave that little boy in detention. By: Ebrahim Aseem
If I like you, I don’t want you to hide the fact you have children from me. I don’t want to see countless booty poking pictures on your Instagram, while all the pictures of you & your child are deleted. Your sexiest curves are your dimples & smiles, while you celebrate a fun day spent with your child. #EbrahimAseem
I don’t want you to spend your last dime on a babysitter, just so you can come over my house for Netflix and sex. If I’m serious about a future with you, I will take you out, pay for the date & the babysitter, showering you & your child with respect. #EbrahimAseem
Your children are not a relationship deal breaker sweetheart. Your children are irresponsible-male-repelant. Don’t hide your children, flaunt them. Wave them like a flag, so only men of valor with aspirations of being a father will enter your world, claiming you as his queen, & your children as your own. #EbrahimAseem
I want you to turn down a date with me, so you can cook your children dinner & tuck them in bed. Cut our phone conversation short, so you can bathe your child & shampoo the adorable curls on their head. #EbrahimAseem Cancel our plans so you can take your child for their check-up. Ignore my text, so you can change your child’s diaper. Don’t leave your baby with a diaper rash, just so you can quickly text back my inconsistent ass.
If you can cover your phone, yell & curse out your child, just so you can have enough silence to affectionally call me “babe” after just a few days of texting, you’re doing it wrong.
If you allow a man to starve you of time, respect, attention, loyalty, & you continue to stay, you’re teaching your son to grow up & treat women the exact same way. #EbrahimAseem I am not the number one man in your life, your son is. Make me earn a spot in your life through consistency & leadership skills. And, if I am not a living example of the man you want your son to grow up to be, stop waisting your time, your love, your loyalty & your kissy face emojis on me.
Teach your son how to respect & treat a woman by requiring me to court you for a while, before you give me your intimacy. Teach your daughter how to be loyal to her worth by requiring I show with actions I know your worth, before you give me your loyalty. #EbrahimAseem I’m a temporary part of your life. Your child is permanent. Why should I get more of your time, affection & attention than your children?
Major props to the women who put their child first. That’s so sexy to me. #EbrahimAseem You deserve all my commitment & loyalty. You deserve my last name. You deserve trips overseas, to be taken out on dinner dates that end with making love in the rain. Queen, I know you sacrifice so much of yourself to give to your family & your struggles nearly drive you insane. You deserve a faithful man who will listen, understand you, and give you his all, just the same.
You are not damaged goods, just because you have a body full of stretch marks and a child. You are an affectionate nurturer who knows how to cater to a good man, your motherhood experience makes you worthwhile. #EbrahimAseem I want a life with you as a power couple, raising our children together. I want family cruises, family reunions & infinity forevers.
I want to raise a son to be a strong, confident, loving & ambitious man. Never dependent on a woman to give him money, make decisions for him & hold his hand. #EbrahimAseem I want to raise a daughter by showering her with love, affection & attention, so she won’t grow up & look for it all in every guy she meets, living a depressed life full of regrets & descension.
If you’re a woman who’s all about your child, I will be all about you, constantly bringing you joy & smiles. But nothing turns me off more than a selfish woman who puts the desire of dick over her child.
When I was a child, my mother always ate every meal in her room with her door closed, separate from me & my sister, who would eat at the dinner table.
One night, I heard noise in my moms room & when I went in, I saw her laying on the bed crying & holding her stomach. That was the moment I realized, my moms never ate dinner, she starved just so that me & my sister could have enough food to eat.
My mother sacrificed buying herself clothes & jewelry to give us food every night & kept a smile on her face at all times, so we wouldn’t know how poor we really were. She turned down the sugar daddies & football players, because she didn’t want me to ever see her compromise her worth for a man. #EbrahimAseem
From that day on I taught myself how to cook & I made sure my moms ate every day.
I promised myself I would do something with my life, so my mother would never have to starve herself, just to pay bills. That’s what motivates me to speak life into people.
Thats why I work 3 jobs, chef, senior care, motivational speaker. That’s why I don’t complain about life.
I just keep a smile on my face. My mother showed me the true strength of a woman, that’s why I respect good strong minded mothers so much. I may have money now, but I came from not having shit, stealing food as a child just to bring home & cook for my family, & its is because of overcoming all my struggles & what my moms did for me I am the man I am today, & I dedicate my life to speaking life into men and women to pursue their passions and dreams. #EbrahimAseem
By: Ebrahim Aseem
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of men at universities & corporations worldwide.