ALL men CHEAT at some point. A Ride-or-Die let’s him have side chicks.


Let’s be honest. All men cheat at some point. A ride-or-die bitch let’s him have side chicks,” >a Jamaican pre-law student professed during my speaking event at her sorority sponsored co-ed luncheon, “just as long as he’s not out here making her look stupid. Taking the side chick on dates to Five Guys, liking her pics when he never likes my selfies, posting pictures of her & him together on Instagram as his #wcw If you find a down ass ride or die chick, who’ll love you at your worst, why do you men play her & leave her for the most ugliest, mud duck looking female with no degree, career or intelligence. I swear I don’t get men Ebrahim.”

“I couldn’t disagree more,” I said.

If you find a loyal girl who’s willing to stay after you destroy her, pick up the pieces after you cheat on her & break her & endure hell just to keep the relationship going, don’t break her. Leave her, because she doesn’t love you. She’s enabling you. She’s using your presence in her life for the lack of self-love in her heart. By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”

A self-loving woman loves you too much to settle for you at your worst, because she sees your greatness, spots your potential & will give her all to encourage the leader you are. #EbrahimAseem

Men, we can’t be fooled to think these “ride or die” girls who stay “loyal” after we put her through hell really loves us. A girl who stays loyal to your inconsistencies & never calls out your mistakes has no investment in your growth. #EbrahimAseem She intentionally holds back your growth so you won’t out grow her & leave her.

All men do not cheat. Hold us men to a higher standard. Cheating is for insecure cowards. It is NOT about sex. If it were, cheaters would just remain single to sleep with as many women as they wanted, then it wouldn’t be cheating. Cheating is about control. Filling their insecurity by breaking your trust. Cheating is to hold a loyal person’s heart hostage, while one behaves single. They could just leave you to sleep around, but they WANT to stay committed, make you suffer to gain power from your pain through a soul tie.

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I want to wife a woman who loves a man so much, she will respectfully tell him he’s wrong to his face, because she loves his soul & wants to help him mature it. #EbrahimAseem Where are the woman more loyal to a man’s actions than his empty promises?

Loving someone who doesn’t appreciate, value & uplift you is not loyalty. It is brokeness. Suicide. Poison. The cure is loving the beautiful one staring back at you in your mirror. #EbrahimAseem

Never be all in your feelings for someone who isn’t feeling you & uplifting you. If they cared, their actions would show it with consistency. Value yourself or you’ll get played. #EbrahimAseem

Stop crawling back to what broke you. Saying, “I love hard” is no excuse. Start loving yourself harder than you love an inconsistent person. #EbrahimAseem

If you’re an affectionate soul who cares deep, makes sacrifices for love, & gives your all, why keep entertaining people who are cold & selfish? You deserve all you give. #EbrahimAseem Stop settling for less. Value your self more. Only then will you attract a loyal man, willing to understand & listen to you. Then get down on one knee & tell you,

“You are my dream come true. My happily ever after. Where would I be without you? I love more than my lungs love breathing air. Not just because of all you do. All you give & all you share. #EbrahimAseem I love you because you promote my growth. The love I have for myself is what matters to you most.

You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take out on a date. Show off around town. Go for a slow walk with by the lake. #EbrahimAseem You are the only woman who can arouse my mind, and throb my head. You’re the only woman I want to devour in bed.

You’re the only woman I can be goofy with, sing along to 90s R&B with as we laugh & ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because without you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far.

The first woman I ever seen was the sweetest woman I ever known. My mother. And when it comes to making one woman her daughter-in-law, my love, I can think of none other, than you.

You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heartbeat want to kiss the soft sand that is your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled with hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, I am willing to endure all the pain, destroy all your demons, break down every last wall that houses your trust issues, because only you mean that much.

I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you are inside & out, and as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen. #EbrahimAseem After all, he will be raised by one.

Thank you for sticking by me through all the arguments & mistakes. I will consistently use my actions to say, I will never turn away. No other woman can take your place. #EbrahimAseem

I want trips overseas with only you. I want to get on one knee for only you. I want to spiritually grow with only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I will place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, after I, with tears in my eyes, look the best thing that ever happened to me deep in your eyes and say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. And I want you to daily uplift you, so you always love you too.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
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Twitter: @EbrahimAseem

I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

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About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"
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4 Responses to ALL men CHEAT at some point. A Ride-or-Die let’s him have side chicks.

  1. Shelby says:

    From one brother to another. You killed it. I hope and pray my sons are as enlightened as you.

  2. Kela says:

    I lover your positivity!!! It’s refreshing to see a young man that believes in abstinence and love. Kudos to you! I pray God’s continued blessings over your life and your work.

  3. Neffertice says:

    You should teach a class in this brother!

  4. Karen A. Meachem says:

    Extreme irresponsibility. If a man cannot control himself, he is not fit to lead nor be a husband.

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