Why it’s so HARD for women to TRUST

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What’s hardest for a woman isn’t losing her EX or trusting her next man. It’s forgiving her SELF for falling in love with his potential, knowing damn well she saw warning signs & his inconsistency. #EbrahimAseem

The man he is when you meet him is the same man he will be in the future. #EbrahimAseem Stop wasting years & tears waiting for that neglecting, cheating, can’t text back but can like 157 girls pics on Instagram ass lame to change for you. Men don’t change for a woman. A man changes for himself & grows for his self love.

Stop texting him heart emojis all day & start asking these men about their relationship goals. Ask him these 5 questions:

What’s the worst thing you did wrong in your last relationship that you don’t want to repeat? #EbrahimAseem

What’s one thing all your EXs complain about you? #EbrahimAseem

How many months would you date a woman before letting her know if you’d marry her or not? #EbrahimAseem

How do you react when someone makes you mad? #EbrahimAseem

What’s your biggest flaw you want to overcome before your birthday?

Men don’t “switch up”. Girls just fall for a guys’ looks & strengths before viewing his red flags.

It’s so hard for women to trust again, because they see the good in everyone, see who liked their pics, yet can’t seem to see the warning signs in the lame ass boys they’re attracted to. #EbrahimAseem Be loyal to your intuition. Trust what you see over a man’s words. Listen to his actions.

Time. If a man cared, he’d call or come see you, take you out & give you his time without you having to ask. He doesn’t give you his time, because he’s busy giving it to the woman he’s really interested in. Move on & stop being in a relationship with your feelings. #EbrahimAseem

Effort. If you have to beg him for effort or beg him to tell you “what are we?” you’re really begging him to be his side chick. Men only pour effort into a woman he sees a future with. #EbrahimAseem

Cheating: Men only view themselves as either married, or single. We don’t take girlfriends too seriously. So, if he he doesn’t mention long term commitment with you, he’s is entertaining & texting other women in his phone. #EbrahimAseem

In order to destroy your trust issues, forgive yourself for all times you were more loyal to an inconsistent man than you were to your intuition. Then never disobey your intuition again. And for the love of the beauty in your mirror, stop crawling back to what broke you. #EbrahimAseem

If he can disrespect, cheat, starve you of time, attention & commitment & you still stay loyal to him, you’re teaching him to never value you, because he can neglect you & still get your all. #EbrahimAseem

If she’s a supportive woman fighting so hard to trust again, don’t demand her to trust you. Earn her trust. Tell her.

“I just wanna love you until you glow so much, people notice growth. Until the shine of your smile eclipses your fears. I wanna be your peace.” #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me

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About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"
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2 Responses to Why it’s so HARD for women to TRUST

  1. sam medina says:

    E. where have you been-nothing on Twitter either!! So good to see your sanguine wise self back!!! S.

    Date: Fri, 13 Nov 2015 04:41:12 +0000 To: saintceciliasang@hotmail.com

  2. Lori says:

    Ebrahim, I have missed you!!!

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