He didn’t CHEAT. Your smart MOUTH nagged him into the arms of a submissive woman.

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No man wants to work all day, fighting to provide for his family, just to come home & battle a smart mouthed woman. Have his dinner ready. His bath drawn. His TV on ESPN & your smart ass mouth closed. Hell, change his tire & massage his feet as a sign of your submission to him as your leader. This is the ignorance we teach our daughters when ridicule her for doing things we let our sons get away with. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

Parents let their sons stay out later, date sooner & skip chores, while they make their daughters clean up after him, do all chores, facing the emotional abusive of hearing her mother say, “I wish I had another son instead of you.” #EbrahimAseem

This daughter-hate creates a mental muzzle in a woman’s mind, causing her to bite her tongue whenever she sees men display immaturity. #EbrahimAseem She fears he will abandon her if she speaks her mind, because mother’s bias taught her it drives men into the arms of a submissive woman. Bullshit.

If you met a rare woman who calms your rage, supports your dreams & respectfully calls you out on your B.S., adore her, commit to her & never let go. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t entertain a giggle-when-you-mess-up “ride or die chick” who never tells you when you’re wrong. That opportunist does not love you. A loyal woman respectfully keeps you on point. #EbrahimAseem

Key word “respect.” I wish a female would fix her lips to talk out the side of her neck to me. I’d respectfully tell her, “baby I love you but if you don’t sit down & shut the hell up before the best thing that ever happened to you walks out your life. Baby, I want to fight FOR you, not against you. #EbrahimAseem

What hell did people you’ve trusted in your past put you through that makes you feel the need to talk out the side of your mouth when you don’t feel understood? Tell me. Let me in. I know how it feels to hurt, that’s why I want you to know how it feels for someone to finally put you first. #EbrahimAseem

You calm my anger. You give me peace. You make me want to embrace the thought of monogamy & say goodbye to these streets. You make me feel complete, because you bring me closer to my self-love. So when I tell my boys I’m thinking about forever, know you’re the only woman I’m thinking of. #EbrahimAseem You make me want to be an example & leader to my boys, show them what matrimony is all about. Show them

letting your woman walk over you & talk to you out the side of her mouth is not being a “nice guy” its passive aggressive. Respect a woman enough to tell her when she’s wrong. Be vulnerable for her without being a little bitch boy. Don’t possibly say “I’m fine” then throw fits, & act all moody to your woman. Man up & take control of your emotions. Stop acting like you’re on your period bro.

A genuine woman doesn’t nag. She just sees your great potential & wants to help you reach it. She’s submissive to her integrity & allergic to your b.s. #EbrahimAseem It is not her job to submit to you just because we are the man, pay bills or throw down in bed.

As rugged & masculine as I am, I want a wife, whose affectionate nurturing makes me submit my heart, loyalty & romantic aggression to only her. My consistency & providing will make her submit her trust & patience to me. Submission isn’t about “control”. It’s about reciprocating all we both give. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
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I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

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About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"
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