If you’re a woman who talks back, you will be single forever, unless you learn to SUBMIT to a man.
If he has side chicks, it means your smart mouth scared him away. Stop correcting your man, calling out his mistakes & acting over-emotional. Have his dinner cooked, his house clean, his bath drawn & your smart mouth shut. Know your role. The man is the head & his woman must submit to him. These are the poisonous lies we teach our daughters by telling them to “shut up & submit to a man”. #EbrahimAseem
If you’re a woman who always has something smart mouthed to say, constantly speaking your mind when no one even asked your damn opinion in the first place, so quick to call a man out or nag about what he isn’t doing right, well you are just everything life has to offer. You’re amazing young queen. You’re so attractive to a man invested in his growth. He wants a witty, queen with mental depth, who can match his strength & speak life into him with her so-called smart mouth. #EbrahimAseem
By: Ebrahim Aseem
Women don’t nag, or bitch or “talk back”. It’s called communication. If you were the LEADER you should be, your woman wouldn’t have to tell you what to do. #EbrahimAseem Women want a man to be considerate, caring, loyal, romantic & mature without her having to ask or tell him.
When your woman respectfully calls out your inconsistency, don’t get defensive or complain. She’s articulating advice to help you grow. Listen to what she is saying, say, “thank you for having my back babe,” then, take her advice. #EbrahimAseem
If you constantly argue & yell at your loyal woman who’s helping you grow, but obey everything your homies say, giggling & flirting when they call you names, you might not be attracted to women bruh. #EbrahimAseem
Constant arguing with a woman is NOT part of a relationship. When you earn your Woman’s respect, she may disagree, but she won’t argue with you. If you want a weak, ride or die chick, it’s only because you’re mentally weak, un-aroused by the femininity of a strong woman. #EbrahimAseem
There is nothing more attractive than a woman, who loves a man so much, she will tell him he is wrong to his face, because she loves his soul & wants to help mature it. #EbrahimAseem
The reason she doesn’t submit to you is she doesn’t trust your ability to lead her. You can barely lead yourself. #EbrahimAseem
Don’t tell her to shut up. She’s not over emotional. She’s just expressing her deepest feelings. It’s already hard for her to open up to you & let down her wall. She thinks all day about her connection with you, how you will react to her expressing herself. #EbrahimAseem It even keeps her up nights over thinking about us. She lies in bed & replays scenarios in her mind, like “why does he always treat me like that?” “If I do things like this and say it in this way, will he treat me better?”
So when she finally opens up to you, don’t belittle her. Don’t tell her she’s “trippin” or that she’s over reacting, acting like she’s on her period, being bipolar. If you love your woman, listen to your woman. So the two of you can connect deeper, grow closer & vibe together.
She’s not a “stuck up bitch”, she’s just protecting herself from pain. She makes it hard for guys to get to know her, because she has been hurt too many times, heart stepped on & ripped apart. So she ripped out her own heart, put it in the palm of her hand, and made a fist with it, to fight & protect herself against males who try to break it. #EbrahimAseem
Don’t give up chasing her. Keep proving yourself loyal. Don’t tell her you’re “different” than other guys. Women get so tired of hearing that same lie. SHOW her you’re different with consistent actions. Don’t complain about her trust issues; destroy them with your loyalty. #EbrahimAseem
Don’t call her “insecure”. Cut off all your side chicks & faithfully commit yourself to her. Rip out your own heart, & give it to her on a silver platter. #EbrahimAseem Then she will open up her fist & give you her heart. Put your heart in her chest, put a crown on your head & be your QUEEN, once you prove with your loyalty to be a KING.
Sanity is unattractive on a woman. This world doesn’t make sense to her, because her spirit is not from it, and the beautiful thoughts in her mind are beyond it. #EbrahimAseem
Society loves to label Intelligent Women who think for their selves “crazy”, to perpetuate the misconception that women are the weaker sex. #EbrahimAseem
A genuine woman with trust issues is not crazy or over emotional. She has just been through so much. You don’t know how hard it is for her to met a guy, fall in love, finally trust him, only to get her heart shattered to pieces by his disloyalty, because he was only playing the role of a good man. So then, she has to pick up all those pieces only to met a guy again & go through the same thing over & over like a never ending nightmare. #EbrahimAseem
You don’t know growing up her mother treated her like crap & put Men over her own daughter. Her mother never acknowledged any of the things she did, never showed her unconditional love & care, always putting her down & calling her names. You don’t know family & friends who she trusted, stabbed her in the back, let money come between them & proved to be disloyal. #EbrahimAseem
If you always get angry, mad, frustrated or yell when your woman corrects you, you’re not a mature man. You’re a sassy little boy; quit being so sassy with your woman. #EbrahimAseem Else she will hit you with “girl calm down” then say, “oops, my bad babe.” What happened was you were behaving so unmanly, for a split second; your behavior reminded her of one of her immature girlfriends. #EbrahimAseem
Iron sharpens iron. Let your strong woman be the iron to mentality sharpens your iron. Being open to growing for a woman is not something a man should do for all females. If she doesn’t value your manhood, she doesn’t deserve you. #EbrahimAseem
You don’t have to hold back or down play your strength to get a man. Or hide being right about something in the presence of a man just to get one to “accept you”. #EbrahimAseem
Your insecurities are NOT a bad thing. Your flaws are NOT a deal breaker. Your trust issues are temporary. If you are my queen, it is my job as your rock to DESTROY all that by showering you with my loyalty and consistency. #EbrahimAseem
Be possessive. Be passionate. Be smart mouthed. Be a little crazy. Be yourself. It shows you CARE. Love isn’t perfect, so you don’t have to be perfect, but I promise you young queen, your love is WORTH it; trust. #EbrahimAseem
If you’re blessed with a supportive woman, tell her:
“I’ll never walk away from you. You can push me away with your guardedness. Come up with all these reasons why you don’t deserve me, because of your flaws. #EbrahimAseem Girl, you must be blind if you can’t see no flaw can overshadow all you mean to me. I’m not going anywhere. I will sit here right until you let me love you. #EbrahimAseem ”
As rugged & masculine as I am, I want a wife, whose affectionate nurturing makes me submit my heart, loyalty & romantic aggression to only her. My consistency & providing will make her submit her trust & patience to me. Submission isn’t about “control”. It’s about reciprocating all we both give. #EbrahimAseem
By: Ebrahim Aseem
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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The reason she doesn’t submit to you is, she doesn’t trust your ability to lead her. You can’t even lead yourself. #EbrahimAseem Be consistent. Speak w/ actions. Stop trying to control a woman or calling her "smart mouthed." If you're a woman who respectfully speaks your mind, know you're so intimidating to an insecure boy & so attractive to a confident man. But queen, YOU define your worth, not a man. #EbrahimAseem Stop wasting years & tears waiting for that neglecting, cheating, can’t text back but can like 157 girls pics on Instagram ass lame to change for you. Men don’t change for a woman. A man changes for himself & grows for his self love. #EbrahimAseem But complacency has no potential. It's not your job to teach a boy how to be a man, provide, work, listen, understand & comfort you. Don't get being his woman confused with "being his mother". #EbrahimAseem Some of y'all adopting grown ass men. Instagram: @Fuel4TheBody
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It's not a woman's job to chase you bro. #CourtHer Don't just nextflix & chill. Take her on a planned date. Court her to show her she deserves to be treated just as beautiful as the reflection of light & peace she is. ✨#EbrahimAseem Women who know their worth require courtship & attract men of worth. Weak minded girls complain while settling for complacent boys. Speaking life to NFL draft prospects.