Why parents treat daughters like trash | Be unGASLIGHTable

Prideful parents never apologize. They just all of a sudden come back acting all nice to you. Pride is woven in families of color tighter than a lace front to unlaid edges. #EbrahimAseem

Parent pride is the reason children of all cultures drown in depression & can’t even talk to their families about it.

Seeking mental health care is considered “bougie”. Venting to a therapist is considered “acting white”.

Colonialists used house broken slaves to Gaslight the free-thinking leaders. This inception was used to stop runways, revolts & is a genetic predisposition, passed down in all cultures through parent pride. #EbrahimAseem

Gaslighting is psychologically manipulating a person so much, they question their own sanity.

A gaslight deflect is using manipulative parenting to incept self-doubt in a child, so when they grow up & hear healing, they immediately deflect from it. #EbrahimAseem

Here’s 5 reasons why manipulative parents treat their giver children like trash:
By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”

Mothers, do your best to support your daughters’ choices. Don’t put down you daughter; constantly telling her she’s wrong about every decision she makes. ENCOURAGE your daughter; be vulnerable for your daughter. Admit when you are wrong to your daughter. #EbrahimAseem Admit to her if you raised her to be guarded, not knowing how to accept love & providing from a man. Be apologetic towards your daughter, so she can have closure from her past.

The key to be ungaslightable is to stop seeing the good in everyone except yourself. Stop overthinking all day about people who only reach out to you when they want something from you. Stop using how people treat you to determine your self worth. How a person treats you has nothing to do with what you deserve, it has everything to do with how they feel about themselves.

Much respect to any woman fighting something. Cancer. Depression. Over thinking. Anxiety. Self doubt. Demons Abandonment. Mistakes. Regrets. Guilt or jealous parents. Your flaws don’t define you. How people treat you doesn’t define you. Your strength through pain does.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
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I am a chef, motivational speaker & 13-year-mentor for men. I write new articles every thursday & travel, speaking life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide. I am West African-Hebrew.

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About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"
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