He’s not playing mind games, he just lost interest in you.


He’s not playing mind games, he just lost interest in you. A man pours attention into what & who he wants. His loss. Move on. You deserve better.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Guys show so much effort in the beginning. Text you all day. Take you on dates. Have your heart skipping beats & your mind ignoring red flags. Then snatch the world from under your feet, because even though you were sweet, he was only interested in your body & looks. Not the fact you are unique. #EbrahimAseem

A woman must guard her heart. Don’t let a man know you’re feeling him from the start. Make a man show with consistent actions over time, his intentions with you are long-term with faithful commitment in mind. #EbrahimAseem

He didn’t switch up, you just fell for his lies & game before he learned your annoying habits & your true nature. He liked your pics, not your personality. #EbrahimAseem

Only give him your loyalty after he gives you his commitment. Guys lose interest fast, when the attraction is only physical, not built to last.

A man knows exactly who he wants to wife later on & who he wants to sex right now. A boy only plays dumb, because that is the option you allow. #EbrahimAseem

Guys who aren’t ready to settle down target sweet women with low self esteem to practice on, so once he meets a woman of self worth, who is his type, he will be ready to make her his wife. And you will have been his side chick stepping stone, about whom he won’t think twice. #EbrahimAseem

Insecure men side chick loyal women to build his confidence from the ashes of her brokenness. Making a smart woman lose her standards & fall for him fills the inadequacies of a weak male’s low self esteem. #EbrahimAseem

You can tell a man is insecure, by the low quality EXs he chose before you. Never be a man’s upgrade, making him a better man for a better woman. #EbrahimAseem

When a man wants you, you’ll know it because his actions will show it. He will consistently hold your attention, as you two grow closer through mental ascension. #EbrahimAseem

He neglects you because he sees no future with you. Never question your self when you know you’ve given your all. Question why you’re still staying at all. #EbrahimAseem

You deserve to be loved by an artist who will paint smiles on your canvas face consistently. If they lost interest in you, it wasn’t meant to be. If you waste time caring why you were left all alone by the wrong one, you’ll be too blinded by past pain to see when the right one has come. #EbrahimAseem

An affectionate soul deserves consistent appreciation. Not neglect. Support their ambitions. Don’t ridicule their choices. Give them constant encouragement, not constant argument. Be their consistency & they will be your peace. #EbrahimAseem

I won’t play mind games or waste your time. I will adore your caring heart & listen to you speak your mind. I won’t act interested from jump, then switch up once the road gets tough. #EbrahimAseem

I will reassure you daily only your love can touch my heart, only your outer & inner beauty can arouse me, & baby, I can’t get enough. #EbrahimAseem

I will never lose interest in you. What interests me isn’t your breathtaking beauty, it’s your redilsnce through pain, kindness through stress & self love through depression that makes me love you more than I can ever love the rest. #EbrahimAseem

Bless me with your trust. Bless me with your time. Bless me with all your flaws, my diamond, & I will treasure you, value you, appreciate you, & love you until those flaws shine. I treasure you, because you treasure yourself.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me

I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"
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2 Responses to He’s not playing mind games, he just lost interest in you.

  1. The"S"Guide says:

    Great post! As a Single woman I always remind myself of my worth on the daily basis and I think other women should do the same. Aside from reminding myself of my worth, I also understand that my ‘single’ status is only temporary and not forever. My advice to other women don’t cling on to everyone who says ‘hello’ to you and keep your standards high but not skyscraper high lol.
    Great article!

  2. Charlene says:

    That was a great article. I feel that is exactly where I am at in my life. It either show and prove or don’t bother. I don’t mind being alone because its better to be single than with the wrong person. If I’m with the wrong person he is occupying a space that is not his and when the right man comes along he’s going to past me by because I’m already taken. Being single is not a bad thing. It helps you grow spiritually and self connect. It’s great for person growth and self valuation. One just has to be confidant in thyself. And I’m extremely happy. The guy I decide to choose one day will add to the happiness and we will grow as a team.

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