If he neglects & treats you like he doesn’t want you, it’s only b/c he doesn’t want you.

If he neglects & treats you like he doesn’t care or want you, it’s only because he doesn’t care or want you. Why don’t girls get this? Stop making excuses for complacency?

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Girls stay loyal to guys who neglect, because she cares so much. Him feeling the same is what she expects. Staying with a complacent man, hoping he will change is easier than admitting she made the wrong choice. #EbrahimAseem

Girls need to stop imagining & start basing their loyalty off a man’s consistent actions. Stop being more loyal to a man’s potential than you are to your own self integrity. #EbrahimAseem

A guy can act like he cares & wants you. Texts. Dates. Gifts. Even say he loves you & put a ring on it, but if he’s telling you he doesn’t want you, with actions or words..he doesn’t want you. #EbrahimAseem

Stop thinking your love will change him. The only thing worse than a man you can’t change is a man you can. Because that is not a man. A man changes for his SELF, not for his woman. #EbrahimAseem

Girls will meet a man, then try to change him into being what she wants, instead of just choosing the man who is already what she wants. #EbrahimAseem

Loving someone who doesn't love you back is NOT loyalty. It's suicide. Poison. The cure is loving the one staring back at you in your mirror

— Ebrahim Aseem (@EbrahimAseem) July 17, 2015

If he or she shows you no appreciation & no effort, show them the door. Stop being all in your feelings for someone who isn’t feeling you. #EbrahimAseem

Men don’t neglect what they see a future with. If he’s not making time for you, you’re not the one he is interested in. Stop making excuses for neglect. #EbrahimAseem

Women don’t compromise their standards, nor stay loyal to complacency. Her self-worth won’t allow her to settle for anything less than what’s meant to be. #EbrahimAseem

When you’re mine, you’re constantly on my mind. My effort won’t decline. My interest won’t subside. My understanding heart will provide for your over thinking mind a pillow of comfort on which to recline. Your pearls of wisdom are all I want to dine on. Feed my ears your food for thought. #EbrahimAseem

Lay your stress, your doubts, your demons & fears on my ears. I will comfort your concerns. Wipe your tears before they drip. Read the pages of your vibe & study your spirit to become fluent in your love language. #EbrahimAseem

Your genuine frequency speaks to me. Your kindness calms my soul. There will never be a second I don’t want only you, even after we grow old. #EbrahimAseem

The embrace of your conversation sends chills down the spine of my intellect. Be my calm & I’ll be your peace. Feed my substance & I will feed you consistency. Reassure you daily only you were meant for me. I love you, and I just want you to love you too. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

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Love you, as much as you want your dream man to love you. #EbrahimAseem Full link in my bio. #NewArticle

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I know my wife is out there somewhere, as creative as me, as inappropriatly goofy as me, as health conscious, athletic, intelligent & spiritual as me, loves children like me & abstinent while single until marriage just like me. 💍👰🏿💒 #EbrahimAseem I know she wants me to be preparing for her right now, not behaving like a male whore while single, sleeping with every girl on Instagram & Snap Chat. #EbrahimAseem My sisters taught me to be LOYAL to my wife even before we meet. So I won't waste her time stringing her along. I will court her, marry her & daily reassure her I want only her for infinity forevers. I want the same for all the 1000s of young men I #SpeakLife into every week. There are millions of good men like us bro & we deserve to be husbands & fathers, not baby daddies. #‎EbrahimAseem‬ #AtWorkCooking #SeafoodPasta #12HourShift #BowTieChef 🍤🍝🍴

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To all the Beautiful spirited Single Women I want you to remember, you are WIFE material. Just because you’ve made the mistake of giving your heart to weak-minded males in your past over & over who have chewed it up, spit it out, broke your trust & trampled over your loyalty: it does not change the fact you are wife material, remember that. #EbrahimAseem Stay focused bettering yourself, hustling for your career path, fueling your ambitions & stacking for your future. Be patient. You will mos def be blessed with a Strong, Tall, spiritual, faithful, humorous, affectionate, Handsome Man of valor, who will place a ring on your finger & make you the wife you deserve to be. #EbrahimAseem I pray you have a great day as beautiful as your giving spirit is deep inside Ms. Future Bride. I wake up at 4am daily, work at 5am, 12hour shift as a chef, M-Th, #SpeakLife motivational speaking on the weekends grinding for my future. I want a wife & children, so I'm stacking for them now, married toy purpose so when it's time, I will be ready. #EbrahimAseem This is your #GMText

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1 Response to If he neglects & treats you like he doesn’t want you, it’s only b/c he doesn’t want you.

Iamgracekabalu says:

July 18, 2015 at 2:09 pm

This is so true and I thank you as a man for sharing this. Most of us women have yet to understand this.