People say, “if black women just dropped their sassy ass mouth, cut their “mad-at-the-world” sista girl attitude, & were more obedient to men in authority, their lives would be different. Smartmouthedness leads to singleness. Sassy-as-hell will leave you dead in a jail cell.
Look at Sandra Bland. If she would’ve just said “yes sir” & did like she was told, she’d be alive right now.” If you agree with this train of thought, you are a narcissistic idiot. By: Ebrahim Aseem
Intelligent women who speak their mind make insecure males flaccid. #EbrahimAseem This is why Sandra Bland was arrested.
When a woman resists submitting to a narcissistic male, his inadequacies provoke him to physically assert his non-existent dominance onto her. #EbrahimAseem
Women who know their worth are the most feared humans alive. Especially women of color.
Most educated. Strongest willed. Resilient. Divinely vindicated. Her hair, lips, natural tan & hips are envied & imitated. #EbrahimAseem
This is why they are told how to speak, dress, style their hair, raise their children. If the woman is controlled, discouraged to show strength, she’ll never remember she was created as a queen to rule her self. #EbrahimAseem
She is not smarted mouth, rude with an attitude. She is mentally regal, never declining to speak her mind. #EbrahimAseem
Why does her inability to submit to your insecurity provoke you to anger? Could it be you envy the fact the creator of us all, YHWH choose her to be the vessel of life over you? #EbrahimAseem
My brothers, a woman is not your babe, nor your little girl to command or enslave. She is a master of herself. Inferior to no man. Your opinion of her body does not define her worth. She does. #EbrahimAseem
Her sexuality belongs to her. It is not a metric for you to measure her value. #EbrahimAseem
She is not your bitch, your hoe, your thot, your little girl, your honey, your baby doll. She is a queen, crowned & sculpted to reign by the most powerful artist in this universe. Bow to her regal intelligence with your consciousness, or exile yourself from her royal presence. #EbrahimAseem
If you are a woman who speaks your mind, know you are so intimidating to an insecure boy; and so attractive to a confident man. But your worth as a woman is not defined by a man’s attraction to you. #EbrahimAseem
An artist doesn’t base its self-worth on the value its creation places on it. Women, you create men. Never let one decline your own worth in your mind. Shine. You are not a star. You are a universe. A creator. A queen. A goddess. A mother. With unfuckwithable badassness. #EbrahimAseem
Your womb is a matrix. Your mind is an enigma. Your heart is a volcano. Erupting lava-like love & flaming fierceness. Igniting intellect through your esoteric essence. #EbrahimAseem A million men cannot equal you, the giver of life. Your worth is not defined as a man’s wife. You don’t need a man’s love to complete you. Only your creator’s love, and God is not a man. But an omnipresent spirit who created you as woman to create man. YHWH. Mother Soul Cell Fundamental Principle. #EbrahimAseem
Love you. Choose you. Empower you. Encourage you. Stop beating yourself up for not being where you want to be in life right now. Stop comparing your body to other women. Stop basing your decisions off what you parents will approve of. #EbrahimAseem Stop apologizing for your sexuality. Stop biting your tongue. Stop questioning your intuition. Speak. Feel. Hurt. Love. Care. Learn. Fight. Grow. And funk what any one thinks of what you do. You are an uncut diamond. Nothing can break you, and nothing in this universe can equal your unparalleled inner beauty. Love you. #EbrahimAseem
By: Ebrahim Aseem
Author of the book, “Dear Mixed People”
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I am a chef, motivational speaker & 10-year youth mentor for young men. I write new articles every thursday at: http://RealNewsPaper.me & speak life into groups of men at universities & corporations worldwide. I’m of West-African Hebrew ancestry.
For booking: AEAseem@gmail.com
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I know my wife is out there somewhere, as creative as me, as inappropriatly goofy as me, as health conscious, athletic, intelligent & spiritual as me, loves children like me & abstinent while single until marriage just like me. 💍👰🏿💒 #EbrahimAseem I know she wants me to be preparing for her right now, not behaving like a male whore while single, sleeping with every girl on Instagram & Snap Chat. #EbrahimAseem My sisters taught me to be LOYAL to my wife even before we meet. So I won't waste her time stringing her along. I will court her, marry her & daily reassure her I want only her for infinity forevers. I want the same for all the 1000s of young men I #SpeakLife into every week. There are millions of good men like us bro & we deserve to be husbands & fathers, not baby daddies. #EbrahimAseem #AtWorkCooking #SeafoodPasta #12HourShift #BowTieChef 🍤🍝🍴
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Date night. 💏 Jazz fest. 🎷🎤 Kevin Hart concert. 😆 Dancing 💃 5-star restaurant 🍝🍤 plus a deep convo & walk on the beach with this natural haired, virtuous Nubian queen was such a treat! #EbrahimAseem Men, let’s start taking these loyal women OUT on a planned, paid for date, with multiple events, not just into your bed for sex & Netflix. What makes us a MAN isn’t giving our attention the 100s of pretty girls we see, or InstaModels in our DM. No, it’s giving ALL of our attention to that sweet, caring, intelligent woman once she shows she DESERVES it. #EbrahimAseem Being a single man does not mean sleep with every girl in your phone. Let’s kill that double standard. I've been abstinent while single, because my mother raised a king, not a hoe. Let’s stop using “talking” as an excuse to sleep with every girl on Instagram. #EbrahimAseem Do not “talk” to a loyal woman. Talking is for teens. It goes, Date her. Court her. Commit to her. Propose to her. Then, make her a mother after making her a bride. #EbrahimAseem Kings, take the virtuous woman who has a crush on you out this week! It is NOT “trickin” & you’re not “buying” her time. No. You are showing her you’re WORTH her time & not wasting it. #EbrahimAseem #omwToPrayer #WithMyHomies
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To all the Beautiful spirited Single Women I want you to remember, you are WIFE material. Just because you’ve made the mistake of giving your heart to weak-minded males in your past over & over who have chewed it up, spit it out, broke your trust & trampled over your loyalty: it does not change the fact you are wife material, remember that. #EbrahimAseem Stay focused bettering yourself, hustling for your career path, fueling your ambitions & stacking for your future. Be patient. You will mos def be blessed with a Strong, Tall, spiritual, faithful, humorous, affectionate, Handsome Man of valor, who will place a ring on your finger & make you the wife you deserve to be. #EbrahimAseem I pray you have a great day as beautiful as your giving spirit is deep inside Ms. Future Bride. I wake up at 4am daily, work at 5am, 12hour shift as a chef, M-Th, #SpeakLife motivational speaking on the weekends grinding for my future. I want a wife & children, so I'm stacking for them now, married toy purpose so when it's time, I will be ready. #EbrahimAseem This is your #GMText