Why men cheat on a beautiful WIFE


When I get my wife, I will kiss, bite & massage every inch of her body. Play in her hair & massage her scalp as I rub all over her curves, just so the whole world knows I’m only hers. #EbrahimAseem I don’t get how husbands can get bored & complacent with their wife. But when I’m blessed with a love who’s true, I will say I do & consistently pour affection, providing & protection into her for life.

A man can have a beautiful wife, intelligent, career, cooks, cleans, takes care of home, him & his children, would do anything to please him in bed, yet he will still cheat on her with a random girl he met online. There is nothing wrong with her. Husbands cheat on beautiful wives to gain the confidence he never had from her brokeness.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

Cheating is for insecure cowards. It’s not about sex. If it were, cheaters would just remain single to sleep with as many as they wanted. Then it wouldn’t be “cheating”. Cheating is about control. Filling insecurity. #EbrahimAseem

Cheating is to hold a loyal person’s heart hostage, while one behaves single. They could just end the relationship to sleep around, but they WANT to stay committed & make you suffer to gain power from your pain. #EbrahimAseem

Men confess to me they insecurely cheat because they secretly feel they don’t deserve their genuine woman. He wants her to leave, so he doesn’t have to be the bad guy & leave her first. But she stays. #EbrahimAseem

A woman whose loyalty is taken for granted will question herself like:
“what is wrong with me?
Am I not I’m pretty enough?
Is my ass not curvy and fat enough for him?
Is my stomach not slim enough for him?
Is it because I won’t let him bring another girl in the bedroom with us?
Is it my smart mouth?
Is it that I’m always “over emotional” like he
What aren’t I doing right?
Should I do more?” #EbrahimAseem

Then she will stay in the marriage to PROVE to him she is better than the girl he cheated on her with. To prove to herself she didn’t mary the wrong one or get married too fast. To prove she can help him by help changing a bad boy into a good man, fooling herself. This is reverse psychology. #EbrahimAseem


Males use cheating to TRICK a good woman way out of his league into SETTLING for him. #EbrahimAseem But this mind game many males play on their wives cannot and will not work on a Loyal woman who knows her WORTH.

He married you not for love, but to use you as his confidence boost. Now his insecure ass can attract the InstaModel type girls who turned him down in high school. #EbrahimAseem Leave a serial cheater. If he never had a man in his life to teach him how to be one, he can never be the providing, leader you & your children deserve.

Staying loyal to a cheater gives them no incentive to ever stop cheating on you. #EbrahimAseem A cheater can never love a person who stays loyal to them. Seeing you lose your self worth is the biggest turn off ever.

It’s not your job to teach a boy how to be a man, listen, understand & comfort you. Don’t get “being his wife” confused with “being his mother”. #EbrahimAseem Some of y’all wives are adopting grown ass men.

Stop entertaining a man you don’t want your son to grow up to become. Your daughter will grow up to accept cheating & disrespect from men if you continue to let her see you being more loyal to an inconsistent man than you are to your own self-worth. #EbrahimAseem

Women get so wrapped up in a man, hen it’s all over, she doesn’t even have her self-love to go back to. #EbrahimAseem Be more loyal to your integrity than his inconsistency.

What’s hardest for a woman isn’t losing him. It’s forgiving herself or falling in love with his potential, knowing damn well she saw the warning signs & his inconsistency. #EbrahimAseem

A wife isn’t a woman who just cooks, cleans & obeys her husband. A wife is married to her ambitions. In mental matrimony with her mind. Loyal to her integrity. If I can’t support her and love, I don’t deserve her. #EbrahimAseem

When I get my wife, I will daily get on one knee to trEAT her pearls of wisdom like soul food & swallow every drop of her intellect as she feeds me food for thought. Never get bored with your woman. #EbrahimAseem

These online girls can’t compete with the affection, support & growth our woman gives. Let’s stop lusting after these Instamodels & give all that attention & romantic words to that one woman who’s been loyal to us. #EbrahimAseem

What hurts her most isn’t your lies or the cold way you treated her. It’s that she saw it all coming & ignored her mind to take a chance on marrying you. #EbrahimAseem

If you’re not ready to commit to one woman, man up & tell her. Don’t lie have a sweet, intelligent, loyal woman out here thinking she’s your one & only. #EbrahimAseem

Once we find that one woman who wants nothing from us, but to be our peace & support our ambitions, men let’s show her she no longer has to keep her guard up, by earning her trust & making her our one and only. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me

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About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"
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