In the beginning they chase you hard. Good morning texts. Affectionate gestures that have you smiling all day. Then when you let down your wall, it all suddenly goes away. But why?
By: Ebrahim Aseem
Boys lose interest & effort in women after noticing her rate of growth exceeds his. #EbrahimAseem This intimidates him, to always feel inadequate to a deep woman aware of her worth, whom he has nothing but good dick & inconsistency to offer.
Don’t text a woman 6 months later, crawling back into her life, like you didn’t destroy her ability to trust. #EbrahimAseem If she cut your inconsistent ass off, chances are she used that knife you stabbed her in the back with.
“Men” chase you so hard, then lose interest & effort so quick, because “girls” switch up. Once they fall for you, they stop being fun, goofy & care free, and switch to being serious, clingy & emotional.
Instead of asking deep, interesting questions getting to know you & your perspective on life, the universe & why we are here, they spend the whole conversation asking emotional questions like:
“who is that same girl who keeps commenting your picture?” and
“what are we?” Which is a silly question, because if a man has never told you with actions his intentions with you, where he sees y’all going, his dreams, ambitions, career plan, what he wants out of life & why he wants you in his, you are dating a boy. You’re a single mom. #EbrahimAseem
Sometimes a man texts other women, not because he wants to cheat & sleep with them, but because he misses having communication with a flirty, goofy woman. That used to be you, until you started letting your emotions rule you & take the fun out of you.
Men don’t like girls who laugh at everything, they just love witty women with depth, who provoke deep thought, yet aren’t know-it-alls. #EbrahimAseem If you can’t say something witty, sarcastic or deep, don’t say anything at all. Lack of humor is unattractive. Get your unfunny ass away from me.
Truth is, it doesn’t matter why he lost interest. If he was meant for you, he would never lose interest. You’d be his favorite melody.
What’s meant for you will find you. You won’t have to chase it, force it, settle for less or fight to keep it alive. It will not break you, curse you or question you. It will heal you, understand you & be patient with your trust. #EbrahimAseem To attract it, you must fully let go of anything or person that does not promote growth. Once you do, you’ll attract a consistent man, who will open up to you & say,
“I want to be the reason you don’t give up on your dreams. The reason you know you’re not asking too much. You never get all that you give, until now. #EbrahimAseem
I just want to love you until you glow so much, people notice growth. #EbrahimAseem Until the shine of your smile eclipses your fears. I want to be your peace.
You don’t want to date me. I don’t text for months w/ no intentions. I like conversing about growth & building a future. I don’t Netflix & chill. I take you on a date so you know it’s real. I don’t ask for sexy pics. I long kiss, play in your hair, massage & smack your derrière. I don’t talk. I court. I want a future. I want forever with one. If you only want a bae, I’m not for you. #EbrahimAseem But if you want a goofy, deep, super flawed, super genuine soul, I will love you so consistently, you will become that love. That self love.
By: Ebrahim Aseem
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide.
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