Stop adopting grown ass Men.


Ladies, it’s not your job to be loyal to an inconsistent boy, nor teach him how to be a man, provide, comfort you, listen, understand you. Don’t confuse being his woman with “being his mother”. #EbrahimAseem Stop adopting grown ass men. Stop being submissive to inconsistency.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

Stop wasting years & tears waiting for that neglecting, cheating, can’t text back, but can like 157 girls pics on Instagram-ass lame to change for you. Men do not change for a woman. A man changes for himself & grows for his self-love. #EbrahimAseem

Complacency has no potential. Be more loyal to the red flags you see than you are to potential he never reaches. #EbrahimAseem

A reader asked, “where does a woman draw the line not giving boyfriends “husband treatment”? Is sex & cooking for him included?” My response: If he’s hasn’t put a ring on your finger,

You don’t owe a man anything. Not giving him money when he’s broke. Not letting him live in your house rent free. Not sex. Not even loyalty. Only give to a consistent man what he reciprocates. #EbrahimAseem

If you cook, clean, pay his way & give your all to a man who has not committed to you, that’s not “loyalty”, that’s adoption. You are disloyal to your worth. #EbrahimAseem

If he asks you for money, he’s not a man. If you have to tell him to give effort & be consistent he’s not a man. If he can make it rain on strippers, treat his boys to rounds of drinks, but can’t plan & pay for you on a date, he’s not a man. Stop being loyal to boys who’ve never had a living example of what a man is. That’s why you don’t attract successful men. Based on your exs, you don’t know what that looks like. A mentally mature man will:

Take her on a date. Plan it & pay. Fill up her tank. Pay for her baby sitter. Buy her groceries. Be her stability, but only for a supportive woman who reciprocates all you give. #EbrahimAseem

Men, expecting a woman to chase you is not manly or “pimping”. It’s insecure. Stop fearing rejection. Man up! Court her to show her she deserves to be treated just as beautiful as the reflection of light & peace she is. #EbrahimAseem

As men we get so busy chasing the bad bitch fantasy girl, we don’t realize that sweet, giving woman right in our face who promotes our growth, sees the great man deep inside us & wants to bring was us closer to him. She was designed just for us. #EbrahimAseem Give her patience, attention, stability, love & consistency.

All my dreams started to come true once I stopped womanizing, quit chasing the “bad bitch fantasy girl” & only pursued women who promote my growth & call me out on my b.s. #EbrahimAseem The universe will yield all into you once you start respecting the vessels of life in this universe: genuine women. If you’re blessed to find one, tell her:

“You are my dream come true. My happily ever after. Where would I be without you? I love you more than my lungs love breathing air. Not just because of all you do. All you give & all you share. #EbrahimAseem I love you because you promote my growth. The love I have for myself is what matters to you most.

You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take out on a date. Show off around town. Go for a slow walk with by the lake. #EbrahimAseem You are the only woman that can arouse my mind, and throb my head. You’re the only woman whose body I want to devour in bed, every inch.

You’re the only woman I can be goofy with, sing along to 90s R&B with as we laugh & ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because without you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far.

The first woman I ever seen was the sweetest woman I ever known. My mother. And when it comes to making one woman her daughter-in-law, my love, I can think of none other, than you. #EbrahimAseem

You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heartbeat want to kiss the soft sand that is your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled with hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, I am willing to endure all the pain, destroy all your demons, break down every last wall that houses your trust issues, because only you mean that much.

I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you are inside & out, and as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen. #EbrahimAseem After all, he will be raised by one.

Thank you for sticking by me through all the arguments & mistakes. I will consistently use my actions to say, I will never turn away. No other woman can take your place. #EbrahimAseem

I want trips overseas with only you. I want to get on one knee for only you. I want to spiritually grow with only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the the ring I will place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, after I, with tears in my eyes, look the best thing that ever happened to me deep in your eyes and say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. And I want you to daily uplift you, so you always love you too. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
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I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

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About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"
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