Interracial Families are not ‘complete’ & dating a Single Mom won’t last.


Old Navy had the nerve & unmitigated gall to feature an ad with a Black Woman & her Black son, piggy back ridding the sista’s new white Man.

Let’s deal with the dating a single mother foolishness before tackling the incompleteness of interracial families.

Dating a single mother will NEVER last long. Because once you see how much she can love, give & cater to her child, you will want to wife her ASAP. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

Courting a single mom is hard. She’ll cancel dates. Short text & not reply. No time to put you first. A woman who puts her child first over me makes me want to make her & her child my first priority. #EbrahimAseem Be patient with her. Take her out. She’s not flaking. Childcare costs more than a date you take her on. It’s not about money to her. Spoil her with your time. Show you appreciate all sacrifices she makes for her child with no help. Be her consistency, she will be your everything.

But only do it for a woman who reciprocates all you give. She deserves to be a wife. Her family is already complete, because she’s married to her self-love.

Interracial Families are not complete if they allow people to use race to define their love. You define you. You are not a race. You are a race-less spirit wrapped in a box. Who cares what color the box? The treasure inside counts most. Value spirit over body. You don’t have to divide yourself up to fit a category or mold. You are not IN a universe, you ARE a universe. #EbrahimAseem
Interracial families are not two races mixed together. They are two spirits, which have no race or gender.

Now people who love each other only “because” of their race have an incomplete union. As, they refuse to fall in love with their partner’s spirit, mind & soul, only their body.

I don’t like when beautiful women approach me, saying they only date Black men, love my culture & how strong of a black man I am. Then talk bad about Black women, calling them nappy-head, smart mouthed twerkers, or act ‘color blind’ when I ask their thoughts on police murdering Black men.

So wait, you value Black men enough to date, sleep with & have a pretty mixed baby by one. Yet, don’t value a Black man enough to stand up/speak out for one? #EbrahimAseem Don’t say you love Black men. No. You love black dick. Be honest with yourself.

If you date Black men for his spirit & not his penis size, you wouldn’t feel defensive of these words, you’d simply stand by your man & support his Black life. Spirits have no race. #EbrahimAseem

The Old Navy ad represents 3 race-less, gender-less spirits, as a happy family. If all you see is color, you’re spiritually blind. The color of a diamond’s wrapping or packaging does not define its worth. We are a diamond spirit. #EbrahimAseem

Never slight any piece that makes up the beautiful work of art you are. #EbrahimAseem If you’re an interracial family, own it. If you’re a one race family, own it. Just know you define you, as a race-less spirit, not anyone else. Don’t be afraid to proclaim your own self-identity. You don’t have to choose a side. Choose your spirit over your physical form.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"
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2 Responses to Interracial Families are not ‘complete’ & dating a Single Mom won’t last.

  1. Shizuka Kobayashi says:

    Thank you for your…interesting viewpoint.

    Next on Maury: a man who is scared to death of pickles. Stay with us.

    *Audience applause


    *Cut to commercial

  2. Rukshana says:

    Asalaamwalakuim this is such a good article. True nobody should be judged by colour, gender or status however it happens. Innocents are born everyday loving unconditionally, until their minds are imprinted with the buggage that people carry around with them. The sad part is, that generation after generation the same mistakes are repeated. The question is will we ever come to a stage where we do, give live in peace without judging each other.

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