“Women say ‘once a man gets a real woman he won’t want to sleep with other women.’ Myth!…Being faithful to one woman is unnatural for men. If he knew his woman wouldn’t find out, any man would do it,” Terry Deron wrote. As a man who has never cheated, I disagree.
Monogamy is not unnatural for men. If it were, men would remain single & sleep with as many women as we want to. Then it wouldn’t be “cheating”. Men who cheat do it for control. #EbrahimAseem Insecurely filling their low confidence by breaking your trust.
By: Ebrahim Aseem
Holding a loyal woman’s heart hostage, while behaving single boosts an inadequate male’s ego. He’s not just intimidated by an intelligent, successful woman with her own mind, he’s jealous of her. #EbrahimAseem Jealous he lacks courage to disagree with his homies & parents, to speak his own mind the way she does. He cheats on her to break her down to his low confidence level.
This is why cheaters will constantly accuse a loyal woman of cheating. He doesn’t understand how a genuine woman like you settles for an unconfident, narssasistic male like him.
If monogamy was ‘unnatural’ for a man, he’d just leave her so he can sleep with all the women he wants. He WANTS to stay committed, make you suffer to suck power & confidence from your pain through a soul tie, like a vampire. #EbrahimAseem
This is why a man will cheat on a loyal woman for years, then leave her to marry the next woman he meets. He used cheating on a beautiful, genuine woman to give him the confidence he lacked, to approach the woman he really wanted. #EbrahimAseem
For years you stayed loyal to a cheater, bringing out his potential, only for the woman he met after you to reap all the benefits of the faithful man you taught him how to be, because you were more of his mother than his woman. #EbrahimAseem
Women wouldn’t be happily married if they allowed cheating. That’s what wives did 100 years ago when women were legal property of their husbands. Never settle for cheating. True love is reciprocal.
Stop molding that cheater into a better man for the next woman. You deserve a one woman man. If you think all men cheat, then you don’t want to date me. I don’t talk to multiple girls. I don’t dry text for months with no intentions. I like conversing about growth, the universe & building a future with one woman.
I don’t Netflix & chill. I take one woman out on a planned, paid for date so you know it’s real. #EbrahimAseem I don’t ask you for sexy pics. I long kiss, play in your hair, massage grab & smack your derrière. I don’t ask “wyd”. I provide hilarious, deep conversing. I don’t do side chicks, I pour all my attention, time, effort & love into ONE woman. I don’t talk. I court. I want a future.
I want forever with ONE. There’s a man right now praying he gets to marry you. Your gaurdedness is not a bad thing. Your flaws aren’t a deal breaker to him. He wants only you. Don’t keep pushing him away with your assumption all 3.5 billion men on earth posses the same mind frame as the disloyal men in your past. #EbrahimAseem Keep growing & loving the beautiful soul in your mirror, & the handsome, loyal man who’s made just for you will match his love with your self love.
By: Ebrahim Aseem
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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I am a chef, motivational speaker & 12-year-mentor for men. I write new articles every thursday & travel, speaking life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide. I am West African-Hebrew.
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I've enjoyed single life, but I'd be willing to be faithful in marriage if I found one willing to help me out grow my flaws & not make me feel I'm a problem because of past mistakes. #EbrahimAseem Bless me with a virtuous wife who can appreciate the spiritual man you're daily molding me to be & I promise to lead her closer to you. Calm her fears. Be her consistency. #EbrahimAseem Use me to inspire men to be confident to self & faithful to a good woman. Cosmopolitan magazine asked to print my article, "Why Men commit to the girl after the one who invested in his potential " in their publication. #Blessings Thank you for helping me reach 1 million views in 3 days! #EbrahimAseem Just spoke this message to 230 men who want to be husbands.
Man challenge. #CourtHer #GenuineWomenOnly You don't want to date me. I don't text for months w/ no intentions. I like conversing about growth & building a future. #EbrahimAseem I don't Netflix & chill. I take you on a date so you know it's real. I don't ask for sexy pics. I long kiss, play in your hair, massage & smack your derrière. I don't talk. I court. I want a future. I want forever w/ one. If you only want a bae, I'm not for you. #EbrahimAseem I don't care if you got curves, if I can't take you out, pay the bill & court you, get your fine, "talkingship" ass away from me. Speaking life to a group of 415 college men. #12yrMaleMenor
Courting these Single ass Mothers #EbrahimAseem Speaking this message to 414 male, app developers #SalesForce My book about single motherhood will be out this summer! DM for a free copy of the forward! The reason this says, "Single ass mothers" is, during my speaking event, one man said, "courting these single ass mothers is a waste, if their baby daddy don't want to wife her single Ass why should I?" Being so fed up, I sarcastically repeated the man's quote "courting these single ass mothers" before telling him & a room full of 414 men these words, because every man ever born came out a woman & genuine mothers deserve respect. Besides, she's not a single ass mother, she's married to her self worth. #EbrahimAseem
The powerful reason I refuse to celebrate Mother's DAY. When I was a child, my mother ate in her room, door closed, while me & my sis ate at the dinner table. One night, when I was 7, I heard noise in my mom's room & when I went in, I saw her laying on the bed, stress tearing out of her eyes, rubbing her stomach. That's when I realized, my mom was willing to skip dinners just so my sister & I had food to eat every night. #EbrahimAseem My mother sacrificed buying herself clothes & jewelry just to provide food, clothes, a warm bed & electricity for her family. She kept a smile on her face at all times, so we wouldn't know how poor we really were. From that day on I taught myself to cook & I made sure my moms ate every day. I cooked breakfast in bed on weekends, made her cards & wrote her love poems often, because every day is Mother's Day, when you're blessed w/ a selfless one. I decided to do something w/ my life, so my mom wouldn't have to starve to pay bills. That's what motivates me to travel worldwide & speak life into groups at universities, as a 12-year mentor for men. That is why I work hard & don't complain about life. I keep a smiling. I may have money now, but I came from not having anything & it's because of overcoming struggles & what my mom did for me I am the man I am today. Our world treats women with less respect than animals. The same government that coined "Mother's Day" doesn't give them maternity pay. Many women get fired after giving birth. Women deserve paid time off after having a child, because w/o mother's, no man would be alive.#EbrahimAseem We honor mother's for ONE day, then fat shame, skinny shame, slut shame, use, neglect, take for granted & judge her the other 364 days of the year. That's why I don't celebrate this man made holiday. Mother's Day is EVERYDAY.#EbrahimAseem She feels neglected & taken for granted for 364 days out the year. I'm tired of seeing men say mother's are damaged goods. I'd marry a single mother. My book on courting single mothers drops this summer!#EbrahimAseem Free link in my bio! If you're a mother, comment a story of your sacrifice! Because I appreciate all sacrifices you make for your child!
It's not a woman's job to chase you bro. #CourtHer Don't just nextflix & chill. Take her on a planned date. Court her to show her she deserves to be treated just as beautiful as the reflection of light & peace she is. ✨#EbrahimAseem Women who know their worth require courtship & attract men of worth. Weak minded girls complain while settling for complacent boys. Speaking life to NFL draft prospects.
A Genuine woman w/ trust issues isn't crazy, smart mouth, guarded or over emotional. She's just been thru so much pain. #EbrahimAseem You don't know if growing up mom treated her like crap & put men over her. #EbrahimAseem Parents never acknowledging all she did, never showing unconditional love, always putting her down, calling her names. Court her, propose & tell her this You're my dream come true. Where would I be w/o you? I love you more than lungs love breathing air. Not just b/c all you do, give & share. #EbrahimAseem You promote my growth. The love I have for myselfmatters to you most. You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take on a date. Go for a walk w/ by the lake. #EbrahimAseem The only one who can arouse my mind, & throb my head. The only one I want to devour in bed. You’re the only one I can be goofy w/, sing along to 90s R&B w/ as we ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because w/o you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far. You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heart kiss the soft sand of your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled w/ hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, Im willing to endure all pain, destroy all your demons, break down every wall that houses your trust issues, b/c only you mean that much. I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you inside & out, & as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen like you. #EbrahimAseem Thank you for sticking by me thru arguments & mistakes. I'll never turn away. No one can take your place. #EbrahimAseem I want trips overseas w/ you. To get on one knee for you. To spiritually grow w/ only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I'll place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, with tears in eyes, look you deep in your eyes & say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. & I want you to daily uplift you, so you'll always love you too. #EbrahimAseem Speaking this to 250 college men today! #12YearMaleMentor #EbrahimAseemSelfie