She’s NEEDY yet hates CLINGY guys. How to LOVE a woman unaware of what she wants. #BreakfastInBed Ep.5

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Anthony kicked the iphone out of her hand, aimed his gun at her & pulled the trigger, shooting out the lamp.

“The next one is going in your skull,” Anthony warned India’s post-op, transgender brother. “Now tell me, why Does India want me to kill you?”

“Because,” India’s brother responded, staring Anthony deep in his eyes, “I raped her.”

~

Anthony ejected the magazine from his Beretta, took apart his gun by hand in one, single, five-second motion & listened attentively as all the separate parts dropped quietly onto the bed. He could hear India’s brother’s heart beating fast, like a Timberland produced track. He wanted nothing more than to rip the coward’s heart out of his chest & feed it to him. He had every intention to kill him.

As a Navy SEAL & member of special operations, he’d killed dozens of targets with no second thought. When you’re following the orders of Lead, killing is like exhaling, second nature. But if he was going to take a civilian’s life, he wanted a full picture painted as to why he was doing it. What damage snatching that life would salvage.

Suddenly, the cries of a young India echoed in surround sound throughout Anthony’s mind. He bawled up his fist & punched India’s brother in the mouth.

Breakfast in Bed: Episode 5 (a weekly-web series)
By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

~

“Where is Austin? Rosaria asked her twin, as her eyes opened wider than a prostitute’s legs, “and how did you find him?”

“I didn’t have to,” India replied, “bae found him.”

“So, what’s the deal with Anthony anyway, is he a serial killer ninja or something?” Rosaria asked.

“No,” India replied, “he just loves me. And I love you. I don’t need you to fight my battles anymore. You don’t owe me anything.”

“I owe you everything,” Rosaria disagreed affectionately. “You saved me from that monster. No one believed me. No one wanted to believe their precious and gifted Austin could do such a thing. I was powerless, I was voiceless, until you saved me from him.

~

“As hard is it may be for you to talk with a busted lip right now,” Anthony demanded, punching Austin in the mouth again for good measure, “you’re going to tell me what possessed you to rape your own sister.”

“Kill me,” Austin whispered, wearing an amused look on his face.

“You’d love that, wouldn’t you?” Anthony replied, reaching inside his pants pocket & pulling out his pliers. “But, death can’t save you from me.”

Anthony wrapped the pliers around Austin’s right middle finger.

“Did you use this hand to touch her?” Anthony asked, staring his victim in the eyes.

“Kill me,” Austin pleaded, with pain & fear in his eyes. His breath reeked off weed and black & mild.

“No, no, no, no no,” Anthony responded hysterically, “I’m going to have so much fun with you before the moment your last breath escapes your twisted body.”

Anthony squoze the pliers with all his might, twisted, then pulled them.

“Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!” Austin hollered in pain.

~

“I’m so thankful for everything you’ve done for me,” India told her sister with tears in her eyes, “all I ever had was you. Without you, I wouldn’t be the woman I am. But, I am not your baby anymore. I’m a grown woman who has found her help meet.”

“Wow,” Rosaria replied with a huge smile, “your new bae really got you sprung off the first date? Are you sure he didn’t dickmatize you.”

“Not at all,” India answered with a laugh. “I saw the print in his slacks, but I didn’t touch. My celibacy game is too on point. But he didn’t have to touch my body, Ria. This man made love to my mind the whole night with his deep conversation. He’s such a gentlemen, with just the right amount of thug.”

~

Anthony ripped Austin’s right middle finger off with his pliers, stuffed the weed on that was on the dresser in Austin’s detached finger & lit the finger on fire with the match.

“Here, hit the blunt,” Anthony instructed, shoving Austin’s own detached finger/spliff in his mouth, nail first.

After fighting it off, Austin pressed both lips against his french tipped nail & inhaled the weed from his detached finger, before coughing.

“That’s that loud,” Anthony joked, “you have to hit it & breath through your nose at the same damn time. Now, I’m going to make you a deal. You tell me exactly what possessed you to rape your sister & I won’t cut every hanging part of your body off, one by one & feed it to you. Do we have a deal?”

“Deal,” Austin agreed begrudgingly, in a short breath.

“I’m sorry, I couldn’t hear you,” Anthony joked, poking Austin with the pliers in the hole where his middle finger used to be, “I’m gonna need you to hit the finger-blunt again to confirm the deal.

With fear in his eyes, Austin inhaled another hit of the weed inside his detached finger.

“Oh shit, he really hit it,” Anthony joked, “aye, you’re smoking your own finger son. Blow a kush cloud for me one time. Naaaah, you’ve had enough.”

“I wasn’t always like this,” Austin admitted, starting his flashback story. “Jealousy made like this, but not my own. Our parents were hard-working Americans. They built a real estate firm from the ground up by investing their own money & hardworking energy. My father graduated from Stanford University summa cum laude.. He met our mother there when they were both undergrads. They got married during their Junior year.

Once our father got accepted into the graduate’s program, they made a deal that my mother would work & earn money for the family, until he got his master’s. After which, he’d work while she pursued her master’s in law.

Well, that deal never came to fruition. After my father got his master’s, he wanted a son. So, instead of pursuing her career as the next great legal mind, my mother put her dreams on the back burner & had me.

For five years, my mother helped manage the finances for my father’s business, as she played the house wife to his tycoon. Once I got into kindergarten, she was supposed to finally attend graduate’s school. But, for some reason, she got pregnant again, this time with India & Rosaria.

Even though both my twin sisters were alike in every way, my mother always envied Rosaria. It was obvious too, to me anyway. She’d always tell her, ‘you think you’re cute,’ to which India would respond in her twin’s defense, ‘she knows she’s cute momma. She came from you after all.’

I think Rosaria was even supposed to be skipped up a grade a couple of times, thanks to her teachers raving about her genius. But, our mother always refused to allow the promotion. She told Rosaria it was, because she didn’t want to slight India & put her twin sister a grade ahead of her, but I knew she was holding Rosaria back, because she was jealous of her own daughter.

When she was eleven years old, Rosaria got accepted into the State Mock Trails. It’s an honors law program for high school upperclassmen, but they wanted a sixth-grade Rosaria & her beautiful mind desperately. That’s when momma gave me what she knew I so desperately wanted. Rosaria, on a silver platter no less.”

~

“Anthony is such a good listener,” India continued. “During our long walk I was rambling on like an idiot about my past relationships, saying:

‘I’m so affectionately giving, yet I’m rarely able to shower guys with affection, because they give it to me so inconsistently, if at all, it makes me spend my affection scarcely. You must think I’m crazy, am I talking too much?’

So Anthony goes, “promise me one thing sweetheart.”

Then I go, “sure babe, what’s that?”

Then Anthony goes, “That you’ll never apologize for loquaciously speaking your mind. When you vent to me & share your past, you’re not talking too much, you’re painting a clear picture of who you are on the canvas of my mind. Your ink is your feelings. Your paint is your experiences, pain you’ve over came.

Your view on love & relationships is clay. Allow me to ceramically mold your disposition with the strong grip of my understanding, as my strong hands hold yours into position.

My mission is not to shape you into my ideal woman. My goal is not to change you into some bad bitch mold. My goddess, you are the mold. You really think you talk to much, don’t you? Baby, can’t you see, with every wise word spoken, the way you drop knowledge on me is proof when you were made, the mold was broken.

Just because I let you speak for eighteen minutes at a time, uninterrupted, doesn’t mean your venting words fall on deaf ears. I eat every word you serve. I dine on every food for thought you grill. Your words paint the sill picture of my favorite work of art, India. Hearing your words, I learned:

She’s needy, but loses interest in inconsistent people quickly, yet she requires a lot of attention, but she also likes her space & gets annoyed at clinginess. Basically, she doesn’t know what the hell she wants, but you better give it to her consistently, else she’ll get bored with you instantly.

Your level of affection speaks to me as a strong man in need of it. As you spoke to me, I spoke to me as well. I told myself:

She’s not needy, she’s an affectionate giver. She only requires a lot of attention, because she gives her all on such a high level, it must be reciprocated, else she’ll be left with nothing.

Clinginess annoys her, because everyone who ever held on to her used her. Anyone she ever got attached to left her out of nowhere when she needed them most.

So, I go, ‘oh em gee babe, you’re reading me like a book right now.’

Then he goes, ‘come sit your intelligent ass on my lap, so I can turn your pages. Tell me your story, your visions, your ambitions & I will read you mine. Dine on your mind & make your vibe recline.’w

“Damn Indie,” Rosaria replied enthusiastically, “Black Thor mind fucked the shit out of you tonight.”

“Didn’t I tell you,” India agreed with a smile. “The thing that most attracts me to him isn’t his chiseled frame, it’s the fact he wants me for me, not for my curvy behind. He wants me for my mind.”

~

“Why in the fuck would you want your own sister?” Anthony asked Austin in disgust.

“You never thought about what it would be like to…”

“Man, never, you kidding me?” Anthony answered.

“She vexed me,” Austin admitted. “Always wearing her leatard & leggings around the house. And she didn’t have an eleven year old body. She had a heart-shaped…”

“Listen you sick fuck,” Anthony threatened, choking Austin with a death grip, “just because you think it’s ok to clamor after an eleven year old’s body doesn’t mean I want to hear those details.”

“You wanted this,” Austin reminded him, “you wanted to know why I did what I did. Well this is why. Our mother would tell me, ‘is it me, or is Rosaria’s butt getting bigger by the day?’ She even told me I could drive one of the BMW’s whenever I wanted if I used it to pick up Rosaria from her mock trial practice every week night.

The first time I did it, she fought me off as hard as she could. She even told our parents with tears in her eyes an hour after it happened. I don’t know if my dad really thought she was making it up, or if he was just protecting me, because I was the nepotistic heir to his company. Either way, after that night, Rosaria realized, no one could save her from me.

It made me feel powerful to take power away from her. Always the smarter one. Always the gifted one. Until I took that power away from her.”

“You’re telling me an eleven year old little girl accused her sixteen year-old blood brother of raping her & no one believed her?” Anthony asked in astonishment.

“No one takes rape accusations seriously in our society. The only person who believed her was the one person I thought could never help her, India,” Austin replied. “She took my manhood from me. The last time I tried to rape Rosaria was the first time I noticed that cameras.”

“Cameras?” Anthony asked.

“The nanny cam inside the teddy bears,” Austin replied.

“But,” Anthony interjected, “who…”

“Our mother,” Anthony answered. I never noticed them before, but she had to have been taping us every time. Anyway, that’s not even the worst thing that happened that night. India stole my manhood from me that night. Before I could even get Rosaria’s leggings off, I felt a pain so blood wrenching, it still haunts me to this day. India snuck in behind me & chopped my penis off with our grandfather’s machete. I passed out seconds after, & when I finally came to, I was the gorgeous woman you see sitting before you today. Well, without the boobs. I didn’t get those ’til…”

“No wonder she feels like she owes her,” Anthony said under his breath, shaking his breath.

“Who owes who?” Austin asked. “I don’t owe anyone anything.”

“Never mind that,” Anthony responded, “where are the tapes?”

“What tapes” Austin asked with a puzzled expression.”

“Playing dumb with me will get you tortured,” Anthony assured, “the tapes from the nanny cam. Obviously India doesn’t know about them, else she wouldn’t have sent me here to simply kill you. Do either of your sisters even know their own mother made you rape you her?”

~

Fluffy begin barking hysterically. He ran to the door & begin scratching her paws up against it.

“What is it dog?” Rosaria asked.

“Who’s dog is that?” India asked. “He ruined the tulips bae bought me.”

Suddenly the door bell rung.

India walked to her front door, pet Fluffy on his back & peeped through the peep hole. As soon as she saw who it was, she dropped her phone in shock.

“Oh em gee,” India whispered, looking back at her sister, “it’s momma.”

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If he’s not making it clear he wants you, it’s b/c he doesn’t. Stop begging for a relationship #BreakfastInBed Ep.4

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By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

“This thing between you & me…it’s over!” India yelled to her twin sister Rosaria. “First you gave my cheating ass ex herpes, then you threatened to tell my new bae I’m pregnant, & now you let this big, white fluffy dog track mud all over my french decor…”

“Over? It’s Over? Is your Black Thor gonna save the day, guns ‘a blazin’ then just ride off with you into the sunset?” Rosaria sassed after laughing.

“How’d you know bae has guns?” India asked.

“Chile please, I background check every new guy you date,” Rosaria laughed.

“Well you’re right,” India replied. “He does have guns and as soon as he pulls that trigger, this thing between us is finally over. It ends tonight!”

~

Anthony kicked the iphone out of her hand, aimed his gun at her & pulled the trigger.

~ 24 hours earlier ~

Anthony grabbed India’s phone & starred at the picture on the screen.

“You want me to kill you?” he asked, with a confused look.

“What?” India asked, snatching her iphone back so she could see what he was looking at. “No, that’s not me silly, that’s a picture of Rosaria after our 5th grade graduation. Babe, my twin sister has this thing over me. She feels like she forever owes saving me, as payback for something I did for her in our past.”

“So… you want me to kill your twin sister?” he asked.

“No!” she assured him before exhaling a long sigh. “I want you to kill my brother.”

~

Rosaria stared at her phone ringing, with her left ring finger hovering over the ‘Sleep/Wake button’ button. Against her better judgement, she took a huge deep breath & slid her thumb to the right & answered her best friend Havana’s call.

“Hey love,” Rosaria greeted. “How are you?”

“Girl, I’m really going through it right now to be honest,” Havana admitted, in her medium-high-pitched voice “do you have time to chat?”

“Sure sweetie,” Rosaria replied, rolling her eyes as her brain disagreed with her mouth, “what’s the matter?”

“I just don’t get it,” Havana complained, somberly.

“I have a master’s degree, six-figure job, no kids & yet my boyfriend of 18 months continues to insist on living with his second baby mama, with whom he has two boys & a beautiful newborn baby girl. This living situation makes it hard for me to commute home, because after I drive to work each morning & give him my car, he has to finish watching First Take on ESPN, complete four competitive games on NBA2k online play, cook pop tars for a snack, snap a few pics of him & his newborn for the gram, then pick his children up from school, leaving me to carpool home with my neighbor. I can’t afford to buy him a car of his own until this fall, because I ran through my saving account helping him pay for their house I co-signed for him after he was released on parole for larceny. I would like to ask this man to marry me & help him file for custody of his children. What cut of diamond is the most manly? Also, how much is a reasonable amount to spend on an engagement ring?”

“The fuck?” Rosaria replied in disbelief, “why are you worried about the price of a diamond when you’re over there selling your soul to a weak male for the price of a dog?”

“You think I’m selling my soul just for letting my future fiancé use my car?” Havana defended, clueless to Rosaria’s misgivings. “Because most of the women at my job do that. Hell, the only cars in the employe parking lot belong to upper management.”

“Forget about your whack ass Prius!” Rosaria replied before somewhat regaining her composure, “You are not about to propose to this man Havana. Respectable women don’t propose to men. And no real man would say yes to that shit.”

“Ria, you know I’m not into that old-fashioned gender-role shit the way you are,” Havana snapped. “It’s 2015. When you find a good man, you have to claim him, before a curvier girl comes along & tames him.”

“Good man?” Rosaria laughed. “That ain’t no good man, honey.

A good man does not continue to sleep with or around his ex or the mother of his children, when he is in a relationship with you.

A good man does not continue to text his EX on the low, because he is too busy reassuring his current woman she is his crush, his motivation, his peace, his everything.

A good man does not ride with you to work in a car you bought & paid for by yourself, then drive off with it to go back to a house you bought, sit on a couch you picked out & eat food you paid for.

A good man does not spend countless hours playing NBA2k, Madden or Call of Duty, because he’s too busy playing with his woman’s joystick, being romantically aggressive with her frame, to the point she screams his name.

A good man has his own. A good man does not live off of a woman’s work. A good man is a provider, a leader, a pillar of stability, a source of spiritual discernment.

A good man doesn’t talk over you & tell you to shut up when you are expressing your thoughts. A good man listens with his lips closed, heart open, holding your attention with his eyes, while shouldering your burdens with his deep concern.

A good man never makes you feel like you are such a problem, too difficult, too flawed, too guarded, too broken.

A good man never tells his woman ‘ damn, you always have something to say’. A good man listens, strips his woman of her doubts & apprehensions, so her fears never get in her way.

A good man doesn’t seek validation from his boys & only respect women when other men can’t see, because a good man knows his knowledge defines him, his confidence secures him, & his actions paint the picture of the man he’s growing to be.

You don’t need to strip his children’s mother of custody if you want to become a parent, you already are one. If you are an independent woman, with your own money, own house, & you’re letting a lame, career-less male live in it rent free, using your wifi, using your tv while you’re at work to play video games, eating up all your chocolate bars, using up all your feminine deodorant, you don’t have a man, you have a boy, you’re a single mother.”

~

Anthony drove India to the yoga spa, an hour after their initial appointment. After persuasively convincing the concierge to let them in, the two love birds went in separate locker rooms to change clothes for their chakra yoga date.

~

Cynthia’s eyes opened wide, anticipating what she was about to witness. Her husband Morland had just grabbed his big, white fluffy Samoyed with his right hand & ripped off his pants-belt with his left hand, causing his pants to drop down to his ankles.

Morland looped the belt inside the buckle, until it formed a noose, then proceeded to wrap the belt around his dog’s head.

Fluffy fought back with all his might & bit his owner on the wrist.

“Ahhhhhhh!” Morland screamed, like a female dog in heat, dropping to his knees.

Suddenly, the screen door connecting the backyard to the kitchen slide open. There stood three Black men, dressed in grey hoodies & baggy navy jeans, each holding .44 magnum revolvers.

~

During their yoga date, India was able to relax & release tension built up from the fight with her twin sister. Anthony was able to see India’s amazing, fit-thick body in yoga pants.

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~

“Step away from the female,” one of the hooded men demanded.
Morland made a move to step away from his wife, Cynthia.

“Aye!” the hooded man yelled. “Stay yo’ nerdy ass on the ground.

“But you told me to step away,” Morland defended. “How can one take a step while still on the ground?

“Crawl bitch,” one of the other hooded men responded.

Morland shook his head & begin to crawl away from his wife.

“Yeah that’s it,” the first hooded man encouraged, “scooch yo’ punk ass away from her. Yo’ old, shit-stained tighty-whitie wearing ass can’t handle a fine MILF like that anyway.”

After Morland ‘scooched’ his punk ass away from Cynthia, she stood up walked over to the hooded man & kissed him on the lips.

Fluffy growled.
Morland gasped in disbelief.
The hooded man laughed.

“You claim to be a player, but I fucked your wife,” the hooded man teased, quoting Tupac’s ‘Hit ‘Em Up’ “That’s why I fucked yo’ bish you fat mutha…”

‘C’mon man, let’s hurr up & get out of here,” the third hooded man suggested, “they probably got closed-circuit cameras & shit. Up in here living like the Kardashians. We should hit a lick.

“Home invasion, was persuasive,” the first hooded man rapped, in Kendrick-Lamar-voice, grabbing Cynthia by the waist. “Nah, I already coped what I wanted anyway.”

The three hooded men walked out of the house with Cynthia. Fluffy followed behind. Morland lay on the floor, with his pants still around his ankles, having just soiled his white briefs in fear.

~

After showering off & changing back into their clothes, Anthony took India to a fresh seafood restaurant on the Fisherman’s Wharf boardwalk strip. She ordered lobster tails, he ordered surf & turf.


~

The three hooded men took Cynthia & Fluffy back to their trap house. The four of them smoked loud & watched The Walking Dead on Netflix. After 17 zoombie had been killed, the first hooded man received a twitter notification, with the hashtag ‘got purp’. He pushed Cynthia’s drunk body off his lap, grabbed his keys, hopped in his car & drove off.

~

After taking India for a long walk & deep conversation after dinner, Anthony drove India to the Marriott & booked her a room with his black card. After the receptionist handed him two key cards, he handed one to India & they walked to the elevator & navigated to the top floor.

“I want you to stay here until it’s done,” Anthony instructed India once they got inside her suite. “Don’t text or call me once I leave. When it’s done, I will come back here & we will go to sleep, understand?”

“Yes,” India responded, hugging him. “You’re not going to ask me any questions or anything? I mean, you don’t want to know why I want you to do this?”

“This is what I do,” Anthony answered. “I neutralize situations. I solve problems. I don’t need to know what they are, or why I am solving them. All I need to know is a name. A real, legal name, & I handle the rest. You have your reasons, just like everyone does. But I don’t need to know them. I don’t need to question you. I love you. I knew that the moment I first saw you & approached you at Starbucks. You need a gun? Well I AM your gun. That’s all I need to know.

Anthony kissed Inida goodbye, grabbed his car keys & walked out of the suite.

~

“It’s about damn time!” Rosaria complained, after opening her apartment door. “You must be the most popular weed man in San Francisco.”

“CP time mami, you know how we do,” the hooded man replied, walking into Rosaria’s house.

“Yeah whatever,” Rosaria replied, smacking her teeth. “Um excuse you, but who said you could bring your dog in my apartment.

“I ain’t got no leash,” the first hooded man complained, “look I need to take a dump real quick, where’s the rest room?”

‘Where’s my trees?” Rosaria smacked. “No dank dank, no stank stank.

He handed her the weed & she handed him a twenty-dollar bill. He shoved the money in his hoodie pouch & made his way to the rest room.

~

Anthony sat outside & cased the building for an hour before he decided to go in. He found India’s brother’s address using a jail broken, encrypted laptop, by typing the name & date of birth in the federal database.

He put on his black gloves, put on a black ski mask, loaded his Beretta & entered the building through a service door, by picking the lock.

~

“Nooooooo! Oh emm geeeeee!” Rosaria complained, as Fluffy broke a vase, causing the pink tulips Anthony bought India to spill all over the couch. “Dog, you’re a pretty thing, but you have absolutely no home training. Who raised you?”

She started to clean up the mess, when she heard her front door unlock. It was India.

“What happened to your hair?” Rosaria asked her sister after she came in & locked the door. “Did you sleep with him?

“Don’t try & act all sisterly towards me now, when we were fighting just a couple of hours ago!’ India snapped, with her arms folded.

“Please, that was nothing, we fight all the time,” Rosaria fanned, cleaning up the mess Fluffy made.

“You embarrassed me in front of bae!” India complained, pinching her twin on the arm.

“Ouch!” Rosaria complained. “Why are you so violent tonight? You would think the back-breaking your bae gave you would calm your nerves.”

“I did not have sex with him!” India quickly responded. “I’m not about to give bae herpes, the way you gave it to my ex. How could you sleep behind your own sister, your own flesh & blood. And to lose your virginity in the process? That’s just sick.”

“After all these years, you obviously still don’t know me,” Rosaria said, fighting off tears before standing up & holding her sister’s hand. “I did this for you. Everything I do, I do it for you. He got you pregnant without a ring, he cheated on you with some cyber-hoe half way across the country, so yes, I gave J.R. herpes. But I didn’t sleep with him.

J.R. is an idiot. He never could tell the two of us apart. So, I took advantage of that. Once you told me you stopped spending the night over his house, I went over there pretending to be you & he let me right in. I told him, ‘babe, can we make love just one more time?’ you know how you sound, always calling it ‘making love’ even though you know damn well that bitch ass nigga never loved you.

Well he excepted, so I told him I had a fantasy. I told him I wanted to do what you always refused to do with him.”

“You didn’t?” India said, after gasping.

“I did,” Rosaria continued. “Threesome, or as his illiterate ass called it, ‘ménage à trey’ damn imbecile. You couldn’t make a baby with a half decent man with an education? You just had to give a strictly-ebonic-speaking lame some pussy, didn’t you? My little niece and, or nephew better not come out stupid like they daddy.”

“Oh for the love of Beyonce, I am not pregnant!” India screamed. “That positive pregnancy test didn’t belong to me, it belonged to Havana. She’s pregnant and she begged me not to tell you, so let’s just keep it between us & you can finished the story.”

“Havana is pregnant?” Rosaria asked, starring at her sister like she had just seen a ghost. “That means that…oh my lord.”

Rosaria patted down her pants pockets searching for her phone.

“What’s wrong?” India asked.

“I never had sex with J.R.” Rosaria explained, “I only orchestrated the threesome, held her hair while she have him head, then left the room while they had sex.”

“While who gave him head?” India asked.

“Havana,” Rosaria admitted.

~

Anthony busted through the front door of India’s brother’s loft, & searched the apartment. He searched the kitchen. He searched the living room. He searched the bathroom. Finally, he peeled open the bedroom door to search it, & to his surprise, he saw a woman, lying in bed, on her laptop, listening to music on her headphones.

Anthony pulled out his gun & flipped on the light switch to get her attention.

~

“You got Havana to have sex with J.R.?!” India yelled.

“I did it for you!” Rosaria explained.

“How the hell is letting your best friend sleep with my ex for me?” India corrected.

“I was avenging your baby-momma’d-ness,” Rosaria defended. “and besides, Havana is the only woman I know who has genital herpes.

~

“Make a move without me telling you to & I will blow your pretty little head off,” Anthony warned the woman sleeping in India’s brother’s bed.”

The woman shook in fear, still holding the laptop in her lap.

Anthony slid the laptop off her lap, pulled back the covers & drug the woman to the floor.

“Call him,” Anthony demanded, after handing the woman her iphone that was on the dresser. “Call your boyfriend & tell him it’s an emergency, & you need him to come home ASAP.

The woman put the phone to her ear & slowly pressed the ‘9’.

“Whack!” was the sound Anthony made as he pistol whipped the woman.

“Just for trying to call the police, after you call your boyfriend, I’m going to make you take a razor to your scalp & shave all those long curls off.”

“I ain’t shaving shit off,” the woman said in a deep voice.

“Great Amiyah Scott, it’s you,” Anthony said once he realized what was going on. “You’re India’s brother.

“I’m a woman,” the wo/man (?) replied.

“Oh, sure you’re a woman, now,” Anthony said, “but before your operation, what did you do to India to make her want you dead?”

~

“You got your best friend to give my ex herpes?” India asked. “That’s twisted.”

“I did what I had to do for my baby,” Rosaria defended, grabbing her twin’s hand.

“Stop calling me that!” India instructed, pulling her hand away from her sister’s grasp. “I am not your baby. Look, I don’t want to sound ungrateful sis, you know I love you more than anything, but this thing between you & me…it’s over! First you gave my cheating ass ex herpes, then you threatened to tell my new bae I’m pregnant, & now you let this big, white fluffy dog track mud all over my french decor…”

“Over? It’s Over? Is your Black Thor gonna save the day, guns ‘a blazin’ then just ride off with you into the sunset?” Rosaria sassed after laughing.

“How’d you know bae has guns?” India asked.

“Chile please, I background check every new guy you date,” Rosaria laughed.

“Well you’re right,” India replied. “He does have guns and as soon as he pulls that trigger, this thing between us is finally over. It ends tonight!”

~

“Whack!” was the sound Anthony’s gun made as he pistol whipped India’s brother (?)

“Why does she want me to kill you?”

‘Why don’t you ask her yourself?” India’s bro/sis snapped.

Anthony kicked the iphone out of her hand, aimed his gun at her & pulled the trigger, shooting out the lamp.

“The next one is going in your skull,” Anthony warned him…, her…. the person he was aiming the gun at. “Now tell me, why does your sister want me to kill you?”

“Because,” India’s brother responded, staring Anthony deep in his eyes, “I raped her.”

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It’s actually Women’s History MONTH. Here’s 100 #LikeABoss reasons why

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100 Women who changed the world, like a boss.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

100. Rita Moreno
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First Latin American woman to have won all four major annual American entertainment awards: an Oscar, an Emmy, a Grammy and a Tony. 1961

99. Florence KelleyRescued kids from making Air Jack Johnson sneakers in sweatshops, like a boss.
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Helped pass legislation banning child labor below age 14 in 1893.

98. Escrava Anastacia (Healer/Saint)
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Worshiped in Brazil as a saint and heroine, Anastacia is considered one of the most important woman in black history within the culture of Rio de Janeiro.

As she grew up Anasatcia became the obsession of the owner’s son, Joaquin Antonio.

Very beautiful, it is said that all the white women around were jealous of her, so encouraged Joaquin to make her wear the slave mask. As a punishment for repeatedly refusing his advances, he raped her and condemned her to wear the iron mask for the rest of her life, only removing it once a day to eat. She lived for some years before the toxicity of the metal from the mask became poisonous.

She was performing miracles toward the end of her life. It became gossip amongst the poor that she could heal because she had found it in her heart to forgive the torture she had suffered, and that she even healed her owner’s son of some disease. At that moment she became a saint for many of the poor. Click the picture below to read more.
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97. Flossie Wong-StaalInadvertently helped cure Magic Johnson like a boss.
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First person to clone the HIV virus and map its genes, which helped to make the initial connection between HIV and AIDS. 1984

96. Dr. Mae Carol Jemison
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1st Black Demale astronaut. Went into orbit aboard the Space Shuttle Endeavor on Sept. 12, 1992.

95. Eugenie Mikhailovna Shakhovskaya
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First woman commissioned as a military pilot.

94. Jeannette Rankin
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First female member of Congress. 1917 She was elected before women’s suffrage in the US.

93. Viscountess Nancy Astor
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First woman to take a seat in UK Parliament. 1919

92. Bessie Coleman
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First black woman to earn a pilot’s license. 1922

91. Amelia Earhart
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First woman to fly solo across the Atlantic Ocean. 1928

90. Zitkala-Sa
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Native American activist, writer. Participated in a 1923 investigation that exposed the widespread corruption associated with white guardianship of Indian properties and oil leases in Oklahoma. (Yankton Dakota, 1876–1938) Click her pic above to read more.

89. Baroness Bertha Sophie Felicita von Suttner
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First woman to win the Nobel Prize in Peace. 1905

88. Josephine Baker

First Black woman to star in a major motion picture and to integrate an American concert hall. 1934.

87. Sabiha Gökçen
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First woman to fly a fighter plane in combat. 1937

86. Shirley Dinsdale
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First ever recipient of the Emmy Award, male or female. 1949

85. Muriel Box
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First woman to win an Academy Award for Best Original Screenplay. 1946

84. Geronima Pecson
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First Filipino & first woman elected to the executive board of the United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organization 1950

83. Ethel L. Payne

82. Sirimavo Bandaranaike
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The world’s first female head of government. 1960

81. Judge Constance B MotleyGot paid to win arguments against men, like a boss.

80. Eugenie Mikhailovna Shakhovskaya
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First woman commissioned as a military pilot.

79. Becky Hammon
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First full-time female assistant coach in any of the four major pro US sports. (Spurs, 2014)

78. Audre Lorde


Caribbean-American writer, Civil rights activist, Black femininst 1934 –February 18, 1934 – November 17, 1992.

77. Park Geun-hye
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South Korea’s first female president. 2013

76. Iranian mathematician Maryam Mirzakhani
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First woman to win the Fields Medal. 2014

75. Anacaona
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The First indigenous female ruler (Casica, Bahamas) documented in the New World. 1490s.

In the book, “Anacaona: Golden Flower, Haiti, 1490” author Edwidge Danticat writes,

She was born in Yaguana (today the town of Léogane, Haiti) in 1474. During Christopher Columbus’s visit to the chiefdom of Jaragua in the southwest of Haiti in late 1496, Anacaona and her brother Bohechío appeared as equal negotiators. On that occasion, described by Bartolomé de las Casas in Historia de las Indias, Columbus successfully negotiated for tribute that consisted of food and cotton for the struggling Spanish settlers under his command. The visit is described as having taken place in a friendly atmosphere. Several months later, Columbus arrived with a caravel to collect a part of the tribute. Anacaona and Behechío had sailed briefly aboard the caravel, near today’s Port-au-Prince in the Gulf of Gonâve.

Anacaona became chief of Jaragua after her brothers death. Her husband Caonabo, suspected of having organized the attack on La Navidad (Spanish settlement on northern Haiti), was captured by Alonso de Ojeda and shipped to Spain, dying in a shipwreck during the journey. The Taínos, being ill-treated by the conquerors, revolted, and made a long war against them. During a feast organized by eight regional chieftains to honor Anacaona, who was friendly to the Spaniards, Spanish Governor Nicolás de Ovando ordered the meeting house set on fire. He arrested Anacaona and her Taíno noblemen, all of whom, being accused of conspiracy, were executed. While others were shot, Anacaona was executed by hanging. She was twenty-nine years old.

74. Elizabeth Cady Stanton

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Abolitionist, Feminist. Sparked Women’s Sufferage Movement, helped Black Americans & Women get the right to vote. (November 12, 1815 – October 26, 1902

73. Jane Matilda Bolin
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First black woman to graduate from Yale Law School. 1931

72. Phyliss M. Dale

71. Vijay Lakshmi Pandit
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Was not only the first Indian but also the first woman president of the United Nations General Assembly. 1953

70. Peggy McIntoshThe 1st White Person to admit she benefit’s from White Privilege, like a boss.
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In her 1988 article, White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack, she confessed, “As a white person, I realized I had been taught about racism as something that puts others at a disadvantage, but had been taught not to see one of its corollary aspects, white privilege, which puts me at an advantage.”

“Whites are carefully taught not to recognize white privilege, as males are taught not to recognize male privilege.”

“Describing white privilege makes one newly accountable. As we in women’s studies work to reveal male privilege and ask men to give up some of their power, so one who writes about having white privilege must ask, ‘having described it, what will I do to lessen or end it?”

“I have come to see white privilege as an invisible package of unearned assets that I can count on cashing in each day, but about which I was “meant” to remain oblivious,” McIntosh explained. “White privilege is like an invisible weightless knapsack of special provisions, maps, passports, codebooks, visas, clothes, tools , and blank checks.

69. Frances Perkins

68. Naziha al-Dulaimi
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First woman minister in Iraq’s modern history, and the first woman cabinet minister in the Arab world. 1959. She served as Prime Minister of Ceylon and Sri Lanka three times.

67. Wilma Rudolph
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First American woman to win three gold medals in track & field in the 1960 Olympics.

66. Valentina Tereshkova
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First woman in space. 1963

65. Patsy Takemoto Mink
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First Asian-American woman elected to Congress. 1965. She served in the U.S. House of Representatives for 24 years.

64. Angela Davis
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Counterculture activist, educator. with ties to the Communist and the Black Panther Party, Angela emerged in the 1960s as a leading feminist voice deeply passionate about abolishing the prison-industrial complex.

63. Masoumeh Ebtekar
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First female Vice President of Iran. 2013

62. Audra McDonald
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First woman to earn six Tony Award wins. 2014

61. Kathryn Bigelow
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First woman to win Oscar for Best Director. (The Hurt Locker, 2010)

60. Dilma Rousseff
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First female president of Brazil. 2010

59. Annie Dodge Wauneka

Navajo Nation leader, first woman elected to serve on the Navajo Tribal Council. Her efforts to educate her people about the prevention and treatment of disease, especially tuberculosis, saved many Navajo lives. She served as the catalyst to improving Navajo health care in general, bringing the issue to the forefront in the political arena. In 1963, Wauneka was awarded the United States Presidential Medal of Freedom for her service to the Navajo. (1910-1997)

58. Reita Faria
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First Indian woman to win the Miss World title. 1966

57. Shirley Chisholm
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First Black woman elected to Congress. 1968

56. Benazir Bhutto
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First woman to head a Muslim state. 1988. She ended military dictatorship in the country, and was noted for her battle for women’s rights.

55. Malala YousafzaiOnly 17 years old, winning Nobel Peace Prized like a boss!
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Pakistani activist for female education and the youngest-ever Nobel Prize laureate, 2014.

On the afternoon of 9 October 2012, Yousafzai boarded her school bus in the northwest Pakistani district of Swat. A gunman asked for her by name, then pointed a pistol at her and fired three shots. One bullet hit the left side of Yousafzai’s forehead, traveled under her skin through the length of her face, and then went into her shoulder.[5] After she regained consciousnesses, the Taliban reiterated their intent to kill Yousafzai

The assassination attempt sparked a international outpouring of support for Yousafzai. Deutsche Welle wrote in January 2013 that Yousafzai may have become “the most famous teenager in the world.”

54. Nova Peris
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First female Aboriginal Australian to win an Olympic gold medal. 1996

53. Barbara Smith
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Writer, Activist. Champion for women’s eight & LGBT rights, Black Feminist. (Born 1946)

52. Madam C.J. Walker
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First Black American woman to be a self-made millionaire. Revolutionized Black hair care product industry. Used her wealth to promote Black women’s economic independence.

51. Rosa ParksCurved a White man during segregation like a boss.
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She wasn’t just “tired”. She strategically planned for over a year her refusal to give up her seat, sparking the desegregation movement in the U.S. 1955.

50. Misty CopelandLooking fashionably fierce while hitting adages & pirouette form grande plies like a boss.
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Described by many as the first Black female soloist for the American Ballet Theatre.

However, Anne Benna Sims and Nora Kimball, who were with the ABT in the early and mid-1980s respectively, preceded her. As of 2008, Copeland has been the only African-American woman in the dance company for her entire American Ballet Theatre career.

49. Penny Ann EarlyFirst woman to break a man’s ankles with a cross over move without double dribbling, like a boss.
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First woman to play major professional basketball. 1968

48. Patricia Palinkas
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First woman to play professionally in an American football game. 1970

47. Willie Hobbs Moore
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First African American woman to earn a Ph.D. in Physics. 1972

46. Bhanu Athaiya Designed “Slumdog Hundredare, The prequel” like a boss
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First Indian Oscar winner. Won for Best Costume Design. 1982

45. Frances E.W. Harper
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Abolitionist, Poet. Helped slaves escape via Underground Railroad. Helped found the National Association of Colored Women in 1894 aka the “mother of Black journalism.”

44. Billie HolidayThe Beyonce-pop-icon of her day, but could actually SING soulfully, like a boss.
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Jazz singer. (April 7, 1915 – July 17, 1959) With the soulful voice of Aretha & the social-consciousness of Angela Davis. This jazz singer’s song “Strange Fruit” helped bring global awareness to the unjust lynching of innocent Black men. Imagine if ‘Queen Bey” recorded a song like that for the #BlackLivesMatter movement.

43. Angelina Weld GrimkéWrote successful Black plays, before ‘Madea’ like a boss.
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Harlem Renaissance writer, teacher. One of the first Black women to have a play performed publicly. (1880-1958)

42. Barbara Jordan
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The first Black woman elected to the U.S. House of Representatives. (1936-1996)

41. Irene Greif
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First woman to get a Ph.D. in computer science from MIT. 1975

40. Svetlana Savitskaya
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First woman to space walk. 1984

39. Joan Benoit
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First women’s Olympic Marathon winner. 1984

38. Corazon Aquino
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First female president of the Philippines. 1986

37. Aretha FranklinThe queen of soul covered Adele’s “Rolling In The Deep” & slayed it, like a boss. Click her pic bellow to hear it!

First woman inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. 1987.

36. Madeleine Albright
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First female Secretary of State. 1997

35. Alice Walker Penned the epic movie line, “you told Harpo to beat me?” like a boss.
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Pulitzer Prize winning Author, of the book, “The Color Purple” (born February 9, 1944)

34. Frida Kahlo
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Artist. Activist Champion for LBGT rights.

33. Euphemia Lofton Haynes
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First Black woman to earn a Ph.D. in Mathematics. 1943

32. Karen Arthur
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First woman to win an Emmy Award for directing. 1985

31. Wangari Maathai

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First African woman to win Nobel Peace Prize. 2004

30. Halle BerrySimulated taking the D from Billy-B-T for an Oscar like a boss.
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First Black woman to win the Academy Award (Oscar) for best actress. 2002

29. Hillary Clinton Signs up for those annoying ‘You’ve just won a free iphone’ website pop-ups using her Secretary of State Email address like a boss.
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First former first lady in the United States to win elected office. 2000.

28. Pratibha Patil
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First Woman President in India. 2007

27. Ethel Waters
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Singer. First African-American woman to be nominated for an Emmy Award. Pioneer for LGBT rights. Came out at a time when it was taboo-career-suicide to do so. (1896-1977)

26. Mary Therese Winifred Robinson
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Served as the seventh overall, and first female, President of Ireland. 1990

25. Janelle Penny Commissiong
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First black woman to win Miss Universe. 1977. from Trinidad and Tobago.

24. Margaret Thatcher
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Britain’s first female prime minister. 1979

23. Mary Eliza MahoneyBecome a nurse without DeVery, like a boss.

22. Mary A. Shadd1st woman to tell a man to shut the hell up, simply by giving him ‘the look’ like a boss.

21. Ellen Johnson Sirleaf
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First female elected head of state in Africa. 2006 (Liberia)

20. Lorraine Hansberry
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Broadway blues, jazz singer & actress. First Black woman nominated for an Emmy Award, in 1962. (October 31, 1896 – September 1, 1977)

19. Margaret Sloan-Hunter

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Activist. Joined the Congress of Racial Equality at the age of 14, founded the National Black Feminist Organization, The Feminist School for Girls and the Berkeley Women’s Center. (1947-2004)

18. Hiromi Miyake
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First Japanese woman ever to win a medal in Olympic weightlifting. 2012

17. Elinor Ostrom
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First woman to win the Nobel Prize in Economics. 2009

16. Joyce Banda
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Malawi’s first female president and only the second woman to lead a country in Africa. 2012

#15. Cristeta Comerford
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First female White House Executive Chef. 2005

14. Nicola Adams
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First woman to win Olympic gold medal for boxing. 2012

13. Liz Heaston
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First female to play and score in a D1 college football game. 1997

12. Mukai Chiaki
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First Japanese woman to travel into space. 1994

11. Cathay Williams
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10. Marie Curie
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First woman to win a Nobel Prize, the first person and only woman to win twice, the only person to win twice in multiple sciences, as a physicist & chemist, and was part of the Curie family legacy of five Nobel Prizes. She was also the first woman to become a professor at the University of Paris.

This Polish and naturalized-French genius conducted pioneering research on radioactivity. (7 November 1867 – 4 July 1934)

9. Laura Clay

8. Shirin Ebadi
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First Iranian Nobel winner. 2003

7. Mukai Chiaki
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First Japanese woman to travel into space. 1994

6. Sarah J. Woodson Early

5. Arabella Mansfield

4. Harriet “Moses” Tubman
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Spy for U.S. Army. in Civil War. Helped hundreds of slave families escape to freedom. (c. 1822 – March 10, 1913)

3. Queen Nzingha or “Amazon Queen of Matamba”
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born in West Africa in 1583 and died 1663. Many women ranked among the great rulers of Africa, including this Angolan queen who was an astute diplomat and excelled as a military leader. When the slave-hunting Portuguese attacked the army of her brother’s kingdom, Nzingha was sent to negotiate the peace. She did so with astonishing skill and political tact, despite the fact that her brother had her only child killed.

She later formed her own army against the Portuguese, and waged war for nearly 30 years. These battles were a unique moment in colonial history as Nzingha allied her nation with the Dutch, marking the first African-European alliance against a European oppressor. Nzingha continued to wield considerable influence among her subjects despite being forced into exile. Because of her quest for freedom and relentless drive to bring peace to her people, Nzingha remains a glimmering symbol of inspiration.

2. Queen of Sheba
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1. Ida B. WellsFirst Woman not to give up her seat, 81 years before Rosa Parks, like a boss.
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Writer, Activist. Exposed “Black Lynching” to the world. Decided to keep her maiden name in a time when women were sold husband to husband as property. Thus, forced to take on the master (husband)’s last name, like a salve would take on a master’s last name.

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Why must Hollywood GAYify every movie & TV show?

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The Walking Dead added a gay couple who hunt zombies to TV’s #1 show.

All three shows on ABC’ s #TGIT including Scandal, feature gay characters in steamy sex scenes, written by creator Shonda Rhymes.

On a record breaking ratings night, Jussie Smollett’s character, Jamal Lyon, came out as gay on Fox’s show, Empire.

So it should’ve come as no shock when Smollett came out in real life on “The Ellen DeGeneres show”.

“I get some ignorant tweets every once in a while & I know you’re not supposed to respond, but sometimes you got to clap back!” Smollett told Ellen. “As tenants of this Earth it’s our job to make a difference & make the world better and we can’t just sit around & let people spew nasty things & just think that’s OK. It’s not OK.”

Some viewers consider gay characters like ‘Jamal’ & the sex scenes they appear in to be nasty things.

Their evidence? The KJV Bible, ironically written by a down low King James & his writing team of 54 atheists in 1611.

The bible definitively labels homosexuality as a “sin”.

It also labels heterosexual lust, divorce, eating bacon, anger, laziness, cheating, jealousy, sex before marriage, having children out of wedlock & murder as “sin”.

“Every sin & every blasphemy shall be forgiven, except blasphemy against the Holy Spirit shall never be forgiven.” – Matthew 12:31

“Empire” is already full of sex between unmarried straight people, as well as murder, theft, foul language, money laundering, extortion and open gang violence. If ALL those sins make you yawn, but a gay person’s sins light fire under your conviction, you must ask yourself why.

Do gay people sin? Of course they do, and so do you. Wearing this flesh is sin, that fact we live (‘evil’ spelled backwards) to die is a sin.

If you care so much about gay people & “saving them” of their sins why not clear your own house first before cleaning your neighbor’s house. News flash, as a sinner yourself, you were not sent here to save gay people of there sins.

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We watch movies with lusty love scenes like, The Notebook, & we’re addicted to shows full of murder like The Walking Dead & Dexter. Apparently, watching sin is only a sin when it fails to validate our personal views.

“How To Get Away with Murder” stars Emmy award-winning best actress Viola Davis, who plays a lusty nympho adulterous. But this is not done for sensationalism.

Her heterosexual promiscuity story arc serves as a catalyst to call out patents who fail to address their child being molested by a relative.

Smollett’s character, Jamal Lyon’s homosexual promiscuity story arc serves as a catalyst to call out patents who use financial disowning, along with verbal & physical abuse to gay shame their child.

While speaking in Selma, AL a college football player asked me, “Why must Hollywood gayify every movie & tv show? Do you think it’s for money?” My response was the following:

Life imitates art. Marvin Gaye sung about war, because it existed around him. Shakespeare wrote of political & social tragedy, because it existed around him.

Gay people exist. You can write them away in the story of your consciousness, but even to your chagrin, there are gay people in your own family. If you strongly feel their existence is such a problem, why not view it as “their” problem? Inheriting another person’s ‘cross to bear’ as your own shows how uncomfortable you are with your own identity.

Is see ” #BlackLivesMatter #AllLivesMater ” printed on your shirt my brotha. Does that not include the lives of gay people? How can we tell a group of police not to hate our group, when we display hate for another group?

Inclusion of LGBT characters on film & TV sparked hate groups to decline for a 3rd straight yer to its lowest count in 10 years.

The Southern Poverty Law Center identified 784 hate groups in the USA in 2014, down from a high of 1,018 in 2011.

In 2013, LGBT scripted characters only represented 4.4% of all scripted series returning characters. That’s hardly gayifying Hollywood.

Disagreeing with the behavior of a gay person does not automatically make one homophobic. To judge & bully someone for disagreeing with a gay person’s choices is JUST AS BAD as bullying someone for being gay. All bullying is wrong, not just the one that doesn’t effect you.

Being afraid to call out a Gay person or a Black person, etc, is more racist & homophobic as your choice to hold back truth from them is solely race or sex motivated.

You don’t have to agree with a person’s choices, but you also don’t have to go out of your way to disrespect them. When a fan complained about what they called “gay scenes” in ABC’s #TGIT line up, creator Shonda Rhimes “clapped back”.

Being gay is not a choice. The hormone ratio we’re born with dictate attraction. Just because the mind can choose who it makes love to, does not mean the heart can choose who it loves.

Things never seem real until they happen to you or someone you love.

After orchestrating an eight-week youth book club read of “The Color Purple” one of the 14-year-old boys in the group handed me his book with a hand written note inside. That note moved me to tears, it read:

“Ebrahim, I want to thank you for letting us read this book, even though I told you I hate reading lol. I never heard of this book, but reading this helped save my life. This saturday, I planned to kill myself with my mother’s pills. I researched how many I would have to take for me to die. You may not know this, but I’m gay. It’s something I’ve known since third grade. All this time I have been trying to embrace it, but my mother wouldn’t let me. She says, ‘gay people go to hell. My son ain’t no sinner.’

I tried to be straight Ebrahim, but I just don’t like girls like that. I love them as friends only. And it hurts when everyone makes you feel like a sinner for something you can’t control. Like your freckles. What if someone said they hate you, because you have freckles lol I know that’s silly, but hey, that’s how I feel every time I wake up. Sometimes, when I go to sleep at night, I pray to God I never wake up again. I hate life. It’s no fun being laughed at all day, beat up & tortured, because I am gay.

I wrote a suicide note, but this book makes me want to rip it up now. The way Shug Avery & Sealy shared their love in this book taught me to have the courage to live my life, loving me and whoever my heart desires and not having to say I’m sorry for it. I kinda feel like you already knew I was gay lol but thank you for not treating me like I’m weird or flinching when I hug you. Please, don’t tell my mother I wanted to kill myself, that’s just one more thing for her to yell at me about.”

I’ve been a youth mentor since 9th grade football. From the time I successfully stopped a 7th grade girl’s suicide attempt of jumping off her middle school roof, to now. Reading that letter was the moment I realized how much power we have to either save a life by speaking life into a person or treating a person so selfishly that they want to take their own life.

Labels do not define us, they only divide us. We are all souls that posses no gender, no race, no sexual orientation, no face.

I don’t care if you are straight, gay, bi, transgender, asgender or a damn alien, never let anyone dictate to you who you are, except the beauty in your mirror. The only one you have to answer to your sins for is the most powerful artist in the universe who drew you as a work of art. People love to rub their ugly onto you for being more comfortable in your skin then they are in their own.

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Black Women & their SASSY attitudes are too Difficult & UNMARRIABLE #BreakfastInBed Episode #3

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By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

“He cheated! So I gave his cheating ass herpes, Rosaria confessed to India, snapping her neck as she spoke. “I did it to avenge him cheating on my twin sister & making her a single mother! Oh, didn’t think I saw the pregnancy test result you stuffed in your empty hot chips bag? You always were the book smart twin who lacked street smarts. So you think my advice is whack & I’m full of lies? Well you got your secret-agent-bae sitting in his Audi clueless that you’re pregnant by a nigga with herpes!”

“Whack!” was the sound India’s hand-made as she slapped the taste out of her twin sister’s mouth.

Anthony hopped out his car, ran to India & bear hugged her as she fought kicking & screaming. Anthony couldn’t hear any of the conversation, until he opened his car door to grab India. He could barely make out what she was screaming as he pulled her away, but it sounded like, “…you poison! What did you do? You poison! What did you…” but he wasn’t fully sure.

As a Navy SEAL, Anthony has developed a machine like flight-or-flight response mechanism to dramatic events. It require zero thought & allowed him to run 100% off of instinct. He grabbed India, secured her in the car & closed her door. Next, he picked up Rosaria, lifted her over his shoulders, carried her into her apartment & locked her door. Finally, he trotted down the steps, secured the perimeter, hopped in his car & drove off.

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Cynthia’s husband Morland walked through the door holding a huge shovel in his left hand and a pale ale in his right. His usual pale, Irish hands were pinkish red.

“No!” Cynthia screamed, cuddling her pet dog in her arms. “Don’t hurt Fluffy!”

“I’m tired off competing with that little bitch,” Morland yelled, ripping the dog from her arms. “Enough is enough”

Morland grabbed his big, white fluffy Samoyed with his right hand, dropped the shovel & ripped off his pants-belt with his left hand.

“I’m gonna show both of you who’s hefe around here,” Morland yelled, as his pants dropped down to his ankles.

Cynthia’s eyes opened wide, anticipating what she was about to witness.

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“Are you ok?” Anthony asked India as he drove, keeping his eyes on the road.

“I’m so sorry,” India wept. “The last thing I wanted was to involve you in my drama. I can understand if you never want to speak to me again, but…”

“Never speak to you again?” he asked, glancing over at her, ‘why would you say a thing like that?”

“I just didn’t want you to see that side of me,” she cried. “I have a side to me that, when people cross me, it comes pouring out. I try to keep my temper at bay, but it seems like the harder I try the more people hurt me. Sometimes I feel cursed, like…”

“Babe, quit talking that nonsense,” Anthony demanded assertively. ‘Now you’re going to listen to what the hell I have to say. I wanted to tell you all of this when I admitted to you my addiction earlier, but your rude ass just INSISTED on interrupting me.”

India stopped crying & looked at Anthony with a look, as if to say, “negro, who the hell do you think you’re talking to?” But instead of saying it with her lips, she kept them shut & said it with her eyes. After all, the rudest temper in the world was no match for a Nvay SEAL with a trunk full of semi-automatic weapons.

“Well, I’m going to say it now,” he continued, with his eyes on the road, “I told you how I’ve been celibate ever since I broke up with my fiancée, but what I didn’t get to say is why she never became my wife. We were supposed to have an arranged marriage.”

“Arranged marriage?” India asked. “where the hell are you from that they still arranging marriages, Zumunda?”

India laughed. Anthony glanced at her with a straight face.

“Oh, my smart mouth is out the bag now, I might as well use it,” she sassed.

“I’m from Columbus, Ohio,” Anthony corrected, “but in the armed forced, arranged marriages is a thing, especially the higher up you rank. They like to see you are stable & can be trusted to keep your jimmy out of wives of your superior officers. Look, it never happened. I refused to go through with it.”

“If it was such a problem to you, why propose to her in the first place,” India asked.

“Because I love my country & I’d do anything for her,” Anthony answered. “You gotta understand, I never had faith in marriage. To me, it was a career move. That was drilled into me from birth & it’s what I had to believe. Seeing your father kissing on every woman except your mother will lead you to that heartless conclusion.”

“Calling lead,” a voice coming from Anthony’s car said.

“Milk,” Anthony corrected.

“Did your car just talk?” India asked with a worried look on her face.

‘You’re hearing things,” Anthony responded, with his eyes on the road, “back to my father. There he is, bringing random women in our home, kissing them in front of me while my mother is drunk or sleep, & that’s supposed to be a what marriage looks like? No fuckin’ way. Not for me. I agreed to the arrangement, because it was good for my career, not because I found some princess bride.”

“So why call it off?” India asked.

“Black women & their sassy attitudes are too difficult, thus unmarriable,” Anthony replied.

“Um, excuse me,” India sassed, running her fingers through her kinky curls.

“That’s what my father used to always tell me,” Anthony explained.

“Well, your father came from a Black woman,” India asserted, “how can he hate Black women when his mother is one?”

“Because, he hated his mother,” Anthony answered, “& everything associated with how he was raised. He group up poor, so he married into wealth. He grew up getting spanked, so he raised me as a time-out-baby. He grew up sassed & yelled at for every little mistake he made as a child, so when he grew up, he dating everything but Black women.”

“Sounds like he hates himself more than he hates Black women,” India said.

“He doesn’t hate Black women,” Anthony corrected, “he just doesn’t feel they are wife material. ‘Black women don’t know how to treat a man like a man. They want to wear the pants, bring home the bacon & fry it in a pan they bought with their own hard-earned money, because they are too independent to let a man provide for them. Black women speak, even when not spoken to. Black women always throw in their two cents, even if that’s the last two cents their broke ass has, because Black women would rather go broke & look good, than ask anyone for help, knowing damn well she needs it.

Black women shake their head when they talk & shake their ass when they walk. Black women call their sons little man, but talk to their men like he’s a boy. Black women have $2 dollars in the bank while wearing $200 on their heads, knowing damn well her hair under her expensive weave is shorter than her patience.

Black women & their sassy attitudes would make for amazing drill sergeants, but horrible wives. Black women are weak, broken & unsuitable for matrimony. This is what my Black father has taught me all my life about Black women, Latin women & all women of color, which is why he arranged for me to marry a woman who resembles Snow White.

I love my father. It’s because of him I’m a legacy in the most powerful Navy on the planet, but the night before my wedding I couldn’t take it anymore. I couldn’t take that self hating manifesto he’d spew not just to me, but to my younger brother, & our three sisters. So, in front of my bride-to-be, my mother, my brother, my sister & his old navy buddies, I told him this,

‘Black women & their SASSY attitudes are too difficult & unmarriable to you, but those same Black women made your sorry ass. A Black woman birthed you, fed you, wiped your snotty nose when you cried to her after the bullies at school fed you a fist full of teeth. A Black woman taught you to stand up to that bully & always carry yourself with confidence. A Black woman raised you, with little help & little things for herself. All she had she gave to you. You were here prince, & you have the nerve to treat her less than the queen she is?

A Black woman taught you who you are, the son of Marcus Garvey, the father of Hip-Hop, soul, rock, inventions, technology, swagger-laced-bravado, the creator of the mean mug ever child of every race wears when they want the world to know they are not to be fucked with.

A Black woman loved you, when the world murdered you weaponless, stripped you of your culture & land, treated you less than a man, & you say she’s not befitting of a ring, because speaking her mind & saying what’s on it isn’t the tune you want her to sing?

A Black woman fought for you, when you were on the selling block, she fought for you when all the teachers said you were attention deficit, she continues to fight for you & ride for you, yelling Black Live matter, as your guts get splattered on the pavement, crooked cops reaching in your murdered corps to pull out your organs, but you feel his daughter would make a better wife than your own?

A black woman is not sassy, smart mouthed nor too difficult, she is a puzzle you can’t peace, because you lack the cognitive ability to crack her enigma. A Black woman is not submissive to you, simply because she refuses to be led by a follower, who sags because all the other niggas are doing it, who claims the name of his block, a block he doesn’t own, & has no property on, because all the other niggas are doing it, who disrespects his own women to the rhythm of a over-bassed beat, hoe is her name, bitch is her name, THOT is her name, because all you see when she catches your eye is her ass, breasts & that hole between her thighs, but

to your surprise, without your support, still, she rises. A Black woman birthed this whole world. This whole human race, because there is no Black, no White, no Hispanic in spirit, spirits can not hold the weight nor tangibility of a race, or gender, spirits are transparent. The only race is the one we all run, every soul, as one, to chase our twin flame up & down this universe. So, if I want to marry a Puerto Rican, an Indian, an Asian, an Italian or a Black woman, I will, because I don’t marry a woman’s race, I marry her soul. Hers & mine become one & form a new. Neo. One.

Father, I’m done. I will not marry this woman for the reason you want me to. That is not love, that is hate. When I do marry, it will be, because I can’t stand breathing another without being yoked to the one I live for, my future wife. Your temper, your attitude, your smart mouth, your skin, none of that is a problem to me, you are not a problem to me, you are my solution. You are my rib. You are my everything,”

India wiped her tear laced eyes & tried to speak, but she couldn’t. All she could do is stare in the eyes of the man who she felt was too good to be true just hours ago.

“I love you,” he told her, glancing deep into her eyes.

“I love you too,” she finally blurted out.

Anthony pulled his car to the side of the road & kissed her deeply. They kissed for 40 seconds, until her phone rang. It was her sister.

“Tell Anthony you are pregant! Else I will!” Roasaria’s text read.
India threw her phone in the back seat.

“How much do you love me?” she asked Anthony.

“I love you more than Kanye loves Kanye,” Anthony said with a smile.

India hesitated asking her next question. Finally, she found the nerve to let the words out.

“Would you kill for me?” India asked him.

“In a heartbeat,” Anthony responded with no hesitation. “Who do you want me to kill?”

India reached into the backseat, grabbed her phone, scrolled through it, & turned it around so Anthony could see her phone screen…

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The CURE to defeat your Over-Thinking mind

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Here’s 5 awesome hidden symbolic gems in The Little Mermaid on how to defeat your Over-Thinking.

I never met a mentally ascended woman with a decent sleep pattern. Those wife caliber women stay up, over-thinking about forever. Planning scenarios years in advance as they ponder life & its meaning. If she’s a deep thinking & late sleeper, she’s a keeper.

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#1 Ariel’s voice is as beautiful as her compassion, but her over-thinking mind was her worst enemy.

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In the Disney film, “The Little Mermaid” voice symbolizes the voices of one’s subconscious.

Scuttle the bird represents the subconscious voice of curiosity. This is why you over-think. You replay scenarios & whatifs in your mind, curious of what the outcome would be if you did this or that.

#2 Just as Ursala & Ariel’s father are rival siblings, your thoughts are rival siblings

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Everytime Ariel obeys one sibling, she considers the advice of the other sibling. This is symbolic of cognitive duality. Thoughts are siblings.

The reason you over-think is, you hold two thoughts at once. This is a double mind.

Stop entertaining the thought of ‘what you don’t want to happen’ <= that is a wish.
Hold ONLY the thought of what you DO want & it will manifest. This is how you use the law of attraction to state your intent to the universe & defeat your over-thinking.

3. Just LISTEN to the RED! Red flags that is.

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You ignore red flags the same way King Triton ignored his daughter Ariel. He assumed her age & lack of experience meant he shouldn't listen to her willingness to trust the humans he felt were "all bad". This symbolizes the subconscious voice of red flags.

You disobey your red flags, thinking if you want it bad enough you can change a situation or person into their potential, fooling yourself.

You know why you over-think, know why you're so broke? because you broke your own trust being disloyal to your intuition. Your over-thinking is the echo of your broken trust, haunting your mind.

You must look in the mirror & verbally forgive yourself form breaking your own trust, say, "I forgive you! You took a chance & got burned, but this mistake lead to listens learned, so I forgive you! You are not broken! You are whole & I love you! I love every little piece of you!?

#4 Every wish you get is NOT a blessing. The devil grants wishes too.

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Ariel fell in love with Prince Eric, despite her father’s reservations about humans. Ursala saw, played on this weakness & used it against Ariel. The enemy knows what you want & give it to you to make you give up on a dream, or your grand purpose. This symbolizes the subconscious voice of suicidal thoughts.

Ever had over-thinking suicidal thoughts? That was NOT you, it was the enemy trying to convince you of destroying yourself before you save another soul.

Ignore suicidal thoughts & save not just your life, but all the lives you were put here to save. Imagine if MLK, Virgin Mary or our great-great-grandmother would’ve committed suicide, we all would have suffered for it.

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Your over-thinking is fueled by your seeking validation from family, friends, society and even your followers.

Once you get it out your mind you don’t need the world’s validation for your choices, & how you want to live your life, your over-thinking thoughts will subside.

#5 Ariel’s singing voice represented her gift, her soul. Ursla was a Soul Vampire

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Your over-thinking is the voice of the guilt you carry for disobeying your mind that warned you hesitating listening to your intuition would get you heart, but you wouldn’t listen. Everytime you overthink, it’s your guilt telling you, ‘I told you so.’

Ursala stole Ariel’s voice. Your guilt is stealing your subconscious voice of intuition. Stop beating yourself up for that tragic event in your past no one knows is stealing eating you up. Let it go Princess Ana! You did not “let them break you’ you trusted & gambled on love and pain won. Get out your feelings & get your foot out your own ass.

Silence your over-thinking by letting go of that guilt. Each night before bed, tell yourself.

‘I may be flawed like a diamond, but by my flaws I am NOT defined, no mistake crack in my diamond can dim my shine. The love I have for myself is built on a rock, so I AM a rock, unbreakable!

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If a man seems TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE, he is. #BreakfastInBed Episode #2

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As India stared daggers at her cheating ex J.R., who’d just confessed he had herpes, her first thought wasn’t “who gave him herpes?” it was, “why is my boss crying?” Suddenly a cold feeling came over India.

“So, did you give it to him, or did he give it to you?” India asked her boss, Cynthia, with her left hand on her hip & her right hand gripping her iphone.

India might have thoroughly slapped the taste out of Cynthia’s jaw-dropped mouth, if not for her phone occupying her pimp-hand.

“Oh my freaking God, wait,” one of the male customers in line blurted, “are you telling me a bad bitch & her blonde boss have been sharing the D, & the D they’ve been sharing gave them both herpes? Yaaaaaaaaas! Where’s a bag of popcorn when you need one? I’m about to vine this!”

“Lookie here,” India said, switching her phone to her left hand, “I’m all for equality. But, just because your eyebrows are on fleek, your mascara is on point & we both date men, does not mean you can ever casually fix your lips to refer to any woman as a bitch, bad bitch, bestie bitch, pretty bitch or the like, you hear me? Now, if you press play on that vine & post my business online, I will snatch off my earrings, shove that over-sized HTC up your ass & make you my bitch, bitch.”

All the customers in the store applauded. Cynthia tip-toped away laterally, as if she was doing some rhythmic-less rendition of the electric slide.

“Um, excuse me Goldielocks” India snapped, staring at Cynthia, “don’t try to scurry off down some rabbit hole when you KNOW I just caught you red-pupil-ed. Over there crying those crocodile tears of guilt. You slept with my ex, DIDN’T YOU?!”

“Sweetie,” Rosaria quietly interjected, “Goldielocks wasn’t in Wonderland, Alice was. You’re mixing your metaphors.”

“Indie, I am soooooo sorry,” Cynthia pleaded, walking closer to India, with both hands up in a defense position. “It was after you broke up with him. He t…”

“Listen Ariel, I’mma need for you to lose your voice right about now, zip it!” India replied, snapping at Cynthia.

“Alright, enough with all this Disney vernacular!” a jovial, heavyset construction worker complained. “Are you two kittens gonna cat fight or nah? I’ve been recording this argument in my phone going on three minutes! It’s already too long to post on Instagram as is. Come on now, less chit-chatting, more neck-snapping.”

“Ugh, men!” all the women in the store complained in unison.

“Look, she told me you were cool with it,” J.R. confessed. “I thought this was some ménage à trey, sort of…”

“Shut your lying, musty dick having ass up J.R.!” India yelled. “You know good & damn well she didn’t tell you that. You cheating ass niggas are all the same. You pit the women you cheat on against one another, so they shame each other, blame themselves & feel they have to compete with all women, instead of holding your manipulative ass responsible for your lack of self-control. YOU did this shit. YOU played with fire. Now your stupid ass is getting burned in the balls because of it.

I was so loyal to you. Do you know how many good men I turned down to be loyal to you? You know what, I’m done,” India said, strutting towards the door.

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Anthony walked into the gym, past the punching bags, down the steps and into the locker room. He proceeded to his locker, faced it, dropped his gym bag & waited for instructions. A man wearing a grey jogging suit placed boxing gloves over Anthony’s left shoulder.

Lead: “You leave at four-hundred hours. Here are your coordinates.”

The man picked up Anthony’s gym bag and walked out of the locker room. Anthony removed the gloves from his shoulders, reached inside & pulled out a piece of paper with coordinates on them. After memorizing the numbers, he ripped up the paper, put it in his mouth, swallowed it and prepared for his work out.

~

It took all the strength India could muster for her not to cry in front of a store full of people. Once she got outside, however, she couldn’t hold her tears in any longer.

“What’s wrong with me?!” She thought to herself as she cried. “Why does everyone I trust in end up hurting me like this? How could he cheat on me, with a woman twice my age? Oooooooooouuuuhhhhhh! I’m such an idiot! I just want to be happy. I’m so tired of the pain. God, where is my happiness? When will it be my turn to have something real?”

“Awwww babe, it sounds like you’ve found something real to me,” Rosaria comforted, wrapping her arms around her sister’s waist. “Anthony defiantly sounds like bae right about now. You were so excited when you sent me that text, don’t let some dirty-dick nigga like J.R. steal your joy my love.”

“That’s the thing that concerns me,’ India complained, embracing her sister’s hug, “Anthony is seeming to good to be true right now. He’s tall, successful and respectful, yet I’m kinda scared of him. He does this manly thing with his voice, the demanding way he talks to me sends shivers up my spine. This man is the Black Thor Rose! Like what the hell! Why is God teasing me with everything I ever wanted in a man?!”

“God doesn’t tease nor tempt you honey, that’s the devil,” Rosaria corrected. Satan is a lie. You just left that demon J.R. in the dust where he belongs, stop crawling back to what broke you. All those nights you spend over-thinking in your bathtub, sulking in your sorrows & soaking in your Epson salt. Stop entertaining the thought that the type of man you want is some fictional character who is too good to be true. Honey you are a sweet, educated, fashionable, humble beautiful woman! You deserve black Thor! Stop questioning if a man is too good to be true or not & just embrace a good thing.”

“It’s hard to embrace a good thing from any man, when all you’ve ever known is inconsistency,” India complained. “I just don’t think I have it in me to trust another man, fall in love & open up my heart ,only for it to get shattered again, because I might not make it out alive next time.”

“As women, we have a habit of over thinking ourself back into the arms of the type of man who broke us because we are scared to trust again & do everything all over again,” Rosaria replied. “Anthony may be too good to be true, but at least the nigga doesn’t have herpes!”

Rosaria laughed.

“Oh my god!” India responded, slapping her sister on the forearm. “That is not funny! Now I have to sneak in somebody’s clinic and get tested for this shit!”

“Honey, I really don’t think you’re at risk,” Rosaria replied, nursing her forearm. “J.R. just found out. He probably got it from Cynthia after you dumped him.”

“I can’t take the risk,” India responded, looking her sister in the eye, “I have to know for sure. Besides, it’s not fair to Anthony for me to go into anything with him, knowing I might have an STI. I have to tell him.”

“Nooooooo!” Rosaria warned. “That’s what you’re not about to do. Don’t scare Black Thor off. Especially not before he hooks a sista up with some of his Avenger friends. Shit, I need me a Chocolate Captain America in my life.”

“Well I deserve something real in my life!” India complained. “I am tired of lying, cheating, go-behind-your-back-and-fuck-your-boss men! I don’t know if Anthony is too good to be true or not, but I will not start anything with this man without being honest with him.”

India turned her back to his sister and pulled out her phone.

“What are you doing?” Rosaria asked, peeking over her sister’s shoulder.

“I’m texting bae,” India teased. “Why don’t you go get you a bae of your own, & stop telling me how to love mine.”

~

Cynthia ran to her office and shut her door, so she could cry in peace. After staring at the picture of her, her husband, her son and her big, white fluffy Samoyed, she picked up her phone and texted her husband.

Her text read, “Greg, we need to take Fluffy to the vet ASAP! I might have given him something!”

She grabbed the picture of her family off her desk and stared at her reflection in the glass inside the frame.

“I’m so sorry baby,” she cried, rubbing her dog’s face in the picture. “Momma is so sorry.”

~

After an intense workout, Anthony showered off and got dressed. Before he put on his shoes, he got a new notification in his phone. Browsing his many notifications, he scrolled down, until he saw a text from India.

It read, “Hey handsome 🙂 How’s your day going? I hope yours is better than mine. Everything went to shit since I left your presence. Maybe I should have just stayed with you lol smh”

As he headed out the gym, he decided to take India out on their first date that night to cheer her up. In the six weeks since he’d met her, he had ample time to fantasize about where he’d take her for their first date if ever he was blessed with the opportunity. Her long, athletic legs, told him she loved to dance. Her curvaceous thighs and thick butt told him she loved a good restaurant. But her latest text told him she needed a stress reliever. He decided to take her on a date to Chakra Yoga, fresh seafood at Fisherman’s wharf and a long walk with deep conversation afterwards.

He texted her, “My day is going well, but my concern is with you sweetheart. I want to take you out on a date tonight. Let my presence and planning take away your stress. What time are you free?”

Anthony pulled up his Black Audi to India’s apartment at 6:05pm wearing a blue themed 3-piece suit & tie.

Once she saw him through her window, she opened her front door & waved at him. He walked up the stairs and when she opened the door, he handed her this:

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“Wow, Thank you,” India said appreciatively, after Anthony handed her four dozen pink tuplips, “how did you even know tulips were my favorite flowers?”

“Maybe,” Anthony answered, “just maybe, it’s because like a tuplip, you’re often closed off to the world, but when feed a little light, and little deserved attention, you open up & blossom just as beautiful as these tulips….or maybe I saw you pin them on Pintrest.

“OMG, you’ve been cyber stalking me?” India asked with a huge smile after inhaling the scent of her flowers & placing them on her coffee table.

“Not at all,” Anthony answered, talking India’s hand & leading her down the steps, “it’s just that I learned women aren’t hard to read, as men, we just don’t peep the hints. A woman’s social networks outlines the blueprints to her heart. Her Pintrest is her vision board of the happily ever after she knows she deserves. I knew I wanted to buy you flowers as a respect offering for our date, so I looked up your Pintrest & saw you had pinned it about a week ago.”

“Very observant man,” India complemented. “I like that. As a woman who pays attention to every detail, I look for meticulousness in a man.

Anthony pressed his car key to unlock the door, but accidentally popped his trunk instead.

“Ooops,” Anthony complained, “could you shut that for me while I get your door?”

“Of course,” India agreed.

She walked to the back of his car & placed her hand on the trunk door, but before she could shut it, her eye caught a shiny gleam of light. She tapped her phone to give her a little light, and to her surprise, Anthony’s trunk was half full off semi-automatic guns, bullets & silencers.

What should have taken her aback had actually turned her on. She had always had a thing for guns, yet never laid a finger on one. Maybe it was the power they represented, but her fascination with a deadly weapon had crossed paths with her fascination with Anthony. She shut his trunk & walked to his passenger side door. After escorting her in her seat, Anthony closed her door & hopped into the driver’s seat.

“I have something to tell you,” they both confessed, almost at the same time.

“No, me first,” he insisted.

“No, no, I have to get this off my chest,” India admitted, “I’ve been thinking about this all day.”

“I wouldn’t be upfront if I didn’t get this off my chest before our first date,” Anthony insisted. “I’m into liquidation.”

“I know, I know, ” India rushed, “liquidation by assassination. You’re a ninja-assassin or something. I snuck a peck at your guns in the trunk. Nice guns, might I add, very James Bond-esque, I’m actually impressed, but I need to tell you…”

“I’m not a ninja assassin,” Anthony assured her with a smile, “I’m a Navy SEAL, Special Activities Division. I popped the trunk on purpose, anticipating you’d be nosey enough to peak at my weaponry. I wanted you to see that so you’d know what I do without me having to explain it too much, but that’s not what I meant by saying I’m into liquidation. I have an addiction. And by addiction, I mean sexual in nature.”

“Woah,” India replied, “this isn’t some Fifty Shades of Negro shit is it? Because, I like hair pulling & ass slapping like the next girl, but I don’t do whips my brother. Our people have seen enough of those during slavery to last us ten lifetimes.”

“I’m not into BDSM,” Anthony assured her, “and I’m nothing like Christian Grey. Grey was a scared & lonely little boy who was molested as a child, seen his mother killed by her pimp as a boy, & spent the rest of his life searching for the love of his mother through the women he dominated.”

“I see you’ve read the book,” India noticed, “does that means you’d be down to see the movie for a second date?”

“I’m addicted to vaginal juice,” Anthony confessed.

“Come again?” India asked.

“Exactly,” Anthony retorted. “Ever since I divorced my EX-fiancée, I’ve been celibate. A husband is something I’ve wanted to be my whole life, but I never agreed sex should be something saved for marriage. So, I had my fun. I’ve been with over 25 women before my twenty-fifth birthday, but ever since I broke up with my EX-fiancée, I’ve been celibate. I realized I want the next woman I have sex with to be my wife. The past year without sex has been the hardest 365 days of my life, not because I couldn’t have sex, but because I realized I have an addiction. I can’t sleep, & when I do, I can’t fully rest, because I had gotten so used to a woman’s warm, lower-lips massaging mine before bed. Vaginal juice is the only thing that relaxes me before bed. My stomach actually aches & moans, because I’m psychically hungry for it.”

“Oh my lord,” India said, crossing her legs in excitement.

“See, that’s what I’m talking about right there,” Anthony said, pointing to her lap,” you have to stop that. I can smell it & the smell of it makes my mouth water.”

“Good God,” India blurted, “I can’t take this. Are you serious right now. Lawd! How do I open the windows in this car.”

“I’m only telling you, because I don’t want you to have unrealistic expectations,” Anthony admitted. “I’m not interested in having sex again until I propose to the one I will spend the rest of my life with & I felt it was fair to let you know, any connection you & I share must be above the waist first.”

“Wow,” India responded. “I have never heard a man say anything like that before. Do you know the weirdest thing to me is not your addition. It is your choice to be celibate. I didn’t know that was an option men even entertained. See, I am so used to manipulative, cheating, lying men, that I actually questioned if you were too good to be true. I now see that I was wrong, which makes me want to tell you my confession even more now.”

Before she could continue, India’s received a text notification from her sister, which read, “DON’T TELL HIM!!!! </3" Instead of responding, she just ignored the text & kept talking.

"I just found out some life changing news today," India continued. "I felt it is only fair to tell you…"

Suddenly India heard a banging on her window. When she turned to her right, she saw her sister banging her fist against Anthony's car window.

"What the hell," Anthony said, rolling down the passenger side window, "there's two of you?"

"India," Rosaria warned, "don't say another Goddamn word."

"You know what?" India yelled, jumping out of the car & into her sister's face. "I am so sick & tired of your whack ass advice. Where as it ever gotten me? But cheated on, lied to & taken advantage of by men. I finally find a man worth a damn, & you want me to lie to him?"

"India!" India’s sister complained silently, shutting the car door "I am trying to protect you. J.R. never gave you herpes."

"How the hell can you confidently say that?" India asked.

"Because," Rosaria confessed, "your EX-boyfriend never had herpes, until I gave it to him.”

To be continued….
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Breakfast in Bed (a weekly Romance Novel) Episode 1

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A single, pre-med naturalista named, India, met a 6’5”, chiseled personal trainer named, Anthony, at Starbucks last autumn. He approached her, made her laugh, had amazing conversation, then complimented her beauty.

After giving India multiple laughgasms, Anthony confessed, “Listen sweetheart, I have to met a client in five, but I’ve been dying to ask you this since I first approached you, are you single?”

India smiled & exhaled, before replying,” actually I’m not. I have a boyfriend hun.”

“If figures,”
Anthony responded, “the good ones are always taken.”

He stood up, grabbed his blazer, put a $20 on the table, placed her empty Iced Caramel Macchiato grande on top of the money & said, “the next one is on me. Take care pretty lady.”

India bit her lip as she watched Anthony’s talk, dark chocolate, muscular physique turn away.

As she watched her dream man walk out of her life, a cold thought came to her mind, “Wanting something so badly you know you can’t have is the second worst feeling in the world. The worst feeling is doubting you made the right decision between holding onto something good, or letting it go for the possibility of something great.”

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Six weeks later, India found out her boyfriend of two years, J.R., was cheating on her with a girl he met on SnapChat who lived in the UK. She broke up with him, blocked him on all her social networks & cried four days straight. She was so depressed she neglected to snap one selfie. She missed two days of school & two days of work mourning being side-pieced by her first love.

On the fifth day, she decided to go back to work & school. She drug herself out of bed, wrapped her hair in a struggle-scar, threw on some leggings & her favorite burgundy hoodie & drove for her morning fix, coffee. When she walked into Starbucks before work & saw Anthony sitting inside, reading a newspaper, her heartbreak went away.

She had never wanted a man more than she wanted him, at that very moment. Unfortunately, she knew he was too much of a gentleman to approach her again, as he still thought she was taken. She knew what she had to do. She walked up to him, took a deep breath & said,

“Good morning Anthony. I know men don’t receive a lot of compliments, but I just wanted to tell you, you look really handsome.”

“Actually, I get paid compliments by beautiful women all the time,” Anthony replied with a straight face.

India’s heart sank. She had never felt more embarrassed in her entire 22-years on earth. She had never approached a man before in her life & after he defecated on her so nonchalantly, she immediately regretted her decision. Anthony begin to laugh hysterically.

“I’m kidding India,” Anthony admitted with a huge smile. “God, could you imagine? I’d have to be the biggest asshole in the state of California to respond to my crush that way. Thank you for the compliment beautiful.”

“Oh my Gosh! You are so mean for that,” India said with a huge smile, playfully slapping him on his wrist. “I almost cried when you…wait, did you just say I’m your crush?”

“Honestly, I’ve said too much & my client’s gonna kill me for being late,” Anthony said, folding his newspaper, standing up & grabbing his blazer. “I just feel like beautiful treasures should be valued constantly, appreciated consistently & adored openly, just like that diamond on your left ring finger.”

A cold chill suddenly came over India. She knew he assumed she was still taken. Judging by the comment he made on her ring, he might as well have thought she was engaged. She knew this was her last chance. She had to do the unthinkable.

She took a deep breath & said, “Anthony, wait. I know you’re in a rush, so I won’t take up much of your time. But, you have really good conversation & I’d love for us to catch up, can I have your phone number?”

100 years ago, before American women got the right to vote, they were not allowed to own property, have legal custody of their own children from birth & they were sold like slaves from their father to the highest-bidding husband. White women in America had less rights than Black male slaves in America. They had no choice in choosing who they’d spend the rest of their life ‘serving’ as a wife.

100 years after women got the right to vote, girls are still taught it is wrong for them to choose who they want to date, how many & for how long, because a woman asking a man for his phone number is universally considered “wrong”.

Should a woman just wait & hope the man SHE wants asks her first?
What if he never asks?
Is she supposed to just settle for a baby daddy material man, instead of voicing what SHE wants for a change?
Doesn’t a woman deserve choice in who she talks to?

It gives you confidence to know you have the option of approaching who you like, instead of just settling for who likes you. In reality, the one’s meant for you will find you, naturally, as long as your spirit is yoked to the energy & frequency meant for you.

By asking for Anthony’s number, India proclaimed loud & clear, a woman deserves the option of choosing who she wants to have her number, rather than just wait on her soul mate, who may never come, to “find” her. As if she was ever “lost” in the first place.

“I have to say, I’ve never been asked for my number before by a woman in real life,” Anthony admitted. “On Instagram, girls will comment a pic of me at the gym like 36 weeks old, tag my name & leave their number, but never in person. That’s the most attractive, confident, feminine thing I’ve ever seen a woman do. You’re damn right you can have my number. Under one condition.

I want you to know that whoever he is, however long he’s known you &
no matter how much you think he loves you, I promise you, I can love you better.
The chemistry we share is undeniable. My attraction to you extends far beyond your physical beauty.
The way your face lights up when you speak about your passions truly attracts my aura to yours.
The way joy oozes out your pores when you ramble endlessness about all your ambitions,
all pain you’ve endured & all your future has in store, that inspires me.

I know you over think, but you dream big.
You got the soul of an old woman, with the enthusiasm of a little kid.
I want to be the calm to keep the constantly roaring tides of your over thinking mind at bay,
while simultaneously pouring gasoline on the burning fire that is your big dreams.
You work of art you. You imperfect masterpiece you.
I want to gaze inside the mirror to your soul and,
admire the beautiful thoughts painted & stained on the inner canvas of your brain.
I know you fight demons in the dark corners of your mind,
but if you give me your hand & give me your time,
I will walk hand & hand with you confidently as your peace, your light,
your demons I will help you fight, with all of my might. I will let you help me fight mine.

I will not hide my flaws from you.
Growing to be a better man, growing closer to you, that’s all I want to do.
I know somewhere, in the deep shadows of your heart, you still love him.
Just know, I can love you better.
And if you allow yourself to be open & feel the same,
I promise I will love you so deeply, reassure you so consistently, you will forget his name.
When I see what I want, I claim,
and you beautiful, you give me all I have ever wanted in life. Peace.

Anthony grabbed India’s phone from off the table and put his number in her contacts.

“Listen mister smooth talker?” India swooned, gripping the edges of her hoodie. “You’re lucky I’m quite fond of you. The last nigga to grab my property like you just did without my permission got five fingers to the face. But I have to admit, your words have me blown away. It’s like all the feelings I have been holding deep inside ever since I meet you last month have come pouring out of your lips. Lawd have mercy, I never been spoken to like that before.”

“Maybe that’s because you never fucked with a man on your mental level before,” Anthony replied aggressively.

My my my, I love how confident & demanding your voice is,” India admitted, squeezing her hoodie, like she was ringing out a wet towel. “You talk a good talk, but can you put actions were that handsome mouth is?”

“You’re got damn right I can,” Anthony answered. “And I love how smart mouthed you are. It’s good to know you can keep up. Hit my line later, I mean, if my demanding voice didn’t scare you off.”

As Anthony left the Starbucks, he left India speechless. It took her a moment to regain her composure, but once she did, she immediately texted her twin sister.

“Anthony may be the one! We just met at Starbucks and I got his number! Bae is so smooth tho sis, got ya girl all moist with his words and shit!” India texted.

Yasssssss!!” India’s twin sister Rosaria texted back, “I’m so happy for you, but you need to swing by work asap! J.R. over here trippin’! Causing a scene & scaring away all our customers. He said he’s not leaving until you come so he can talk to you.”

India quickly ordered her coffee, paid with credit & power walked to her job at Verizon across the street. When she got in the store, she saw her EX standing there, holding both a blunt & everyone in the room’s attention.

“What nigga?” India snapped. “Unless you are dying of some terminal illness & you came to say your last goodbyes, why the hell are you here, inside my place of work, when I clearly kicked you out of my life?”

“Look, I ain’t tryna stalk you, or start no shit up in here,” J.R. explained, “but I thought you should know, I just found out this morning, I got herpes.”

To be continued……
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This is a fictional, weekly web-story, based on true events, written by:

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Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

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Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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10 Dating Secrets Women NEED to know. #9 Withholding SEX from a man is childish

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A tall, slim-fit, brown-skinned actress asked me for advice recently.

“If a guy tells me he’s dating other chicks & me, what do I do?

#1. Decide what you want, a relationship, sex, a rebound or a free meal.

Always know exactly what you want from a man before you spend time with him. If not, his hidden intentions will become your eminent heartbreak.

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“I want a relationship,” the actress replied. “Should I feel threatened & run? Especially if I haven’t slept with him? Or should I play it cool & act like I don’t care.”

2. Make sure ‘what you want’ is defined, before you give a man your time, else he’ll assume you’re down to be his side chick #9.

“Never ‘act like you don’t care’ with a guy you want a relationship with, or you’ll see him cuddled up with a new bae on Instagram tomorrow.

If a man says you aren’t the only one he’s dating, have the standards & courage to demand respect, so he knows you’re no man’s side chick.

3. Tell a man you don’t give loyalty without commitment.

Tell him, “I really like you, but I really don’t like to share. We can go out on non-sexual dates with no commitment to see how compatible we are. Just don’t feel some type of way when the same rules apply for me. I will go on dates with other guys, until you, or one of them are ready to court me exclusively. I can improve the man you are if you let this commitment in your life.”

“Ok, no sex for his ass,” the actress said. “I haven’t given him any pussy & he’s admitted to having other chicks as fuck buddies. Like what the fuck? Dating sucks. Like why tell me this fuckery? I cussed him out.”

You are a goddess queen. You deserve exclusive commitment from a handsome, loyal man, but ONLY from one who is relationship-ready.

4. Stop dating handsome polygamists if you’re looking for a relationship.

If a man tells you he’s not ready for an exclusive relationship with one woman, yet he’s all cuddled up with you, taking you on dates, giving you his time, attention & honesty, you have no right to be mad at him. That’s not cheating on his part, that’s compliance on yours.

Use the ink of his honesty to paint a clear picture in your mind of the decision YOU want to make. Girls will choose a guy she KNOWS has side pieces, then complain he’s “playing” & “cheating” instead of just choosing a man who is relationship ready.

A breathtakingly gorgeous model who’s never been on a real date asked,

“There is a guy. We have mutual friends, but I don’t personally know him. Only Facebook. He has a business I gave him a few pointers on.

I am just confused on his intentions. He presented it like, “I love your ideas & would like to hear more. Want to go out for a drink Saturday to talk business?” After I agreed, he has now made it into a whole night planned out. Comedy club. Drinks, maybe dancing before dinner.

This will be our first real time meeting. I don’t want him to expect anything other than good vibes, good conversation & a base for us to finally know one another. I’ve never been taken out. I guess I just don’t know how things work.

This day & age, is it possible for a man to take a woman out without expecting to ‘get some’ after?”

5. The ‘non-hook-up-afterwards’ date

If a mentally mature man doesn’t know you, he will take you out for a happy hour drink or a coffee first date to get to know you through conversing & vibing. He has no expectation to get some sex that night.

6. The ‘sex-is-on-the-menu’ date

If a male takes you on an elaborately planned out date with multiple events, he’s romantically attracted to you thus trying to impress you. In his mind, ‘sex may be on the menu, but I’ll leave her the option to order it.’ The only way sex isn’t on the menu is if he comes out & says it’s not. Otherwise, he is expecting you to possibly sleep with him.

7. Guilt tripping or career threatening a woman into a date or sex

Never go out on a date with someone who can hire you or improve your career. If you refuse to sleep with them, they’ll tell everyone you slept with them for your career & rub your name in the dirt. If your gut is telling you no, don’t do it.”

“I guess I don’t know what my gut it telling me,” the model complained. “I’ve never been taken out. I’ve always been the care taker & provider to childish little boys, so I’m kind of just lost at how to take any of this.

Just sucks. First time I’m actually asked out & it’s just kind of a slap in the face. Makes me feel like shit. Sucks that I know I’m a good person, with a good heart & soul, yet my presence isn’t enough to demand respect. Sucks that very very very few people in my life have actually felt I was worthy to take time to get to know. Even just as a friend. I don’t know.”

Listen to my voice response to her: http://bit.ly/16YMapg

I guess I’m not good at judging people because I was always wrongly judged my whole life. The issue is no genuine men have walked in my life. I’ve made mistakes with bad men. But I feel I made those mistakes, because I wasn’t being presented with any real men with good intentions. All the males I’ve come across fall in the same category.”

8. You keep entertaining the men you don’t want.

If you’ve never met genuine man, you have to ask you’re self, why have I allowed myself to entertain men I knew were NOT the genuine grade of man I wanted? Why did I allow them in my life, my bed, my head & my heart

The universe is your oyster. State your intent to it & it will give it to you. When you allow someone in your life, you are telling the universe, ‘I want more of this energy in my life.’ This is the law of attraction. That’s why I am celibate while single. I am telling the universe I don’t want any woman to walk in my life, unless she can let me penetrate the walls of her mind before I destroy her walls.

“Touché,” the model replied. “No genuine men have come along, because of timing or just maybe I’m not fully mentally ready for it yet. I feel like I’ve got the right wisdom to get me where I need to be with not only myself but with a future relationship, just a matter of applying it.”

9. Withholding sex from a man is childish

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Until a woman stops ignoring stimulating my mind, humor & intellectual prowess, I ignore her requests for sex. It always works. She either connects with me more, making the sex better & wetter, or she proves spiritually unworthy. Withholding sex is not “petty” or “childish” bro, it’s mentally mature. If she’s not willing to let you ease DEEP inside her mind, penetrating her soul, she doesn’t deserve for you to go DEEP inside her body.

Anytime a male makes you feel you owe him sex, it’s a red flag of a controlling, minute man. The type who doesn’t care if you got your orgasm, just as long as he got his. Why a beautiful woman would want to waste her time, drive all the way over a man’s house just to have five-minute, sex without an orgasm is beyond me.

10. If he got you in bed before he got you out on a date, it’s because you LET him. A man treats a woman how she ALLOWS him to.

It’s sad Most Beautiful Women have never been taken out on a real, planned & payed for date. Not because they’re stuck up. Beautiful Women are actually the most approachable, sweetest, friendly, caring ones. They just rarely get approached by Confident, Well Groomed, Successful, Funny, Strong Men, so they let men get her in bed before they get her out on a date. Approach a Woman today! Ask her out!

She feels like all her EFFORT goes unnoticed. Reassure her w/ consistent actions so she feels what she’s never felt from a man, appreciation.

When I’m on a date with a Woman, I like to make her laugh, see her cheese & smile hard. Hold her hand, hug her close so I can feel her heart beat through her chest. Look in her eyes the whole time we DEEPly converse. Lift her on my shoulders & give her a piggy back ride on our aquarium date. Little things like that are what makes taking a girl out on a date so special.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
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