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By: Ebrahim Aseem
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Imagine loosing your phone right now. All your pics & contacts!
This technology revolution was intentionally scheduled to happen at this very moment in time, to stop us from reaching the mental ascension boost about to take place. The Mayans never thought the world would end, that’s a misinterpretation. Nouns don’t end. The “END” their calendar refers to is the end of an age of vanity and the beginning of a new age of higher consciousness. According to the macrocosmic Equinox cycle in the universe, the Age of Pieces has come to an end and the new age of Aquarius has begun. This new age is: SELF AWARENESS. Yet, not a physical self-awareness. Your SELF is not your body. Your body is a portal your spirit must wear like clothes to travel in this earth zone. Your SELF is your mind.
Your mind IS a universe. You are not IN the universe. You were taught that to limit your thoughts. You ARE a universe.
By: Ebrahim Aseem
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Every thought you have travels at the speed of light. How is it you can remember things you’ve never experienced yet? It’s not ” déjà vu” . It’s a memory of an experience your spirit had before you were imprisoned in this body, to live on this planet. Some are even memories of an experience you have yet to experience yet on earth, because your spirit experienced it somewhere in the universe in the future, while you were sleep, because TIME does not exist in the universe.
Stop reading. If you are still plugged into the matrix and still prisoner to technology, stop reading this right now, because you will not understand nor comprehend such high mental stimulation. Only keep reading if your chakras are aligned. It’s about to get real deep.
Race is an illusion. Gender is an illusion. Spirits have no race. spirits have no gender. These are human characteristics used to keep our minds prisoner to fear so we won’t remember who we are, a universe. You are not a human being, you are a spirit, being human for a short time, as your spirit and soul vacation in this dream called “life”. How silly for people to think their God has a gender or a race. Those are HUMAN characteristics. How could your God be a human, if your God created humans? How could your God be a he, she, man or woman if your God had to CREATE man and woman into existence? Let it marinate. Think.
Anything you want, or want to KNOW, you can attract to you, with just a thought. Our thoughts are not something only we can hear. Our thoughts are energy, forms of matter, vibration. Powerful forces of energy that can be heard through sound, vibrating to the depths of the universe.
This is called “the law of attraction”. Everything in our life, we have subconsciously attracted to us, through our thoughts. Anything that is not YET in our lives, we have repelled from us, through our thoughts. This power cannot be used or controlled if we are not in tune with our SELF.
Now you can clearly see why your opposition keeps feeding you the latest form of technology, app, Smart Phone, Computer, Tablet, iOS update, Video game, YouTube clip, TV show, Song, Movie, Car, Plasma, to keep you distracted & too mentally unaware to KNOW YOUR SELF. The 1% of the population that owns 99% of the wealth acquired such wealth by monopolizing 99% of the KNOWLEDGE. That 1% withholds the keys to the great secrets of knowledge, distracting us with vain forms of technology and entertainment, to keep us mentally sleep, while we give amazing forms of technology and entertainment our full, undivided attention while our brain is on auto-pilot. We have become sleep walkers without a bed. The mental walking dead.
You will not stop using your app to take a phone call, or have an in-person-conversation, yet you will stop an in-person-conversation to adhere to an app notification.
Technology is a tool. Use it. Don’t let it use you. We cannot live without our phones. We are prisoners to anything we cannot live without. Practice leaving your phone home one day a week. You just thought, “no, I cannot do that.” See, not only does technology have you programmed to automatically refute anything that frees you from it, technology also makes your thoughts predictable. Thoughts are things. You only cannot do something, because you keep telling yourself with your thoughts, “I can’t.” I can’t is the mantra of a mental prisoner.
Prove to yourSELF, key word SELF, you are not a prisoner to anything. Stop just following your favorite celeb gossip and start following your purpose. Communicate with it like it’s your soul mate, because in reality it is. Say “You’re the first thing I pray for when I awake & last thing I think of at night. You make my heart throb, mind soar & pineal gland take flight💫 You’re my purpose.”
Men: challenge yourself to approach ONE beautiful woman a day. Respectfully & confidently approach her, look her in her eyes & say, “Excuse me, my name is ____ , may I ask you’re name?” Make her laugh, call her, get to know her, then take her OUT on a real date. Not just to your house for sex. Call her and say, “I would like to take you out on a date this Friday to hear live music after an Italian dinner, a deep conversation and a walk on the boardwalk; what time are you available gorgeous?”
Don’t let your only form of approaching a woman be, send friend request, then send inbox message or DM, “Hey sexy”. Young king, that is not approaching. That’s computer love *Zapp & Roger voice* Don’t let yourSELF be a prisoner to technology. Please don’t waste several weeks and months texting a woman without asking her out. Don’t depend too heavily on technology to get to know a woman, she’s so much more than her texts and her two-dimensional pictures.
Ladies: Challenge yourSELF to get all dressed up, hair done, eyebrows on point, outfit fierce, heel game vicious and go out on a REAL date or with your girls once a weekend. It does not have to be “out” to a club. Live music, comedy club, musical, fancy dinner and art murmur are just a few of many options for going out. Don’t let the only time you get all dolled up be to take a picture, post it to Instagram, await the likes & attention, feel pretty.
That’s not a man giving you attention, that’s males using your pictures for jack-off material. Yep. And if you didn’t know, now you do. Don’t allow yourSELF be a prisoner to technology. You feel insecure so much, because you rarely go out on REAL DATES. You can get 1,000s of likes on your pictures and all the mentions in the world on Instagram, but how many men have taken you out on a REAL DATE where he plans and pays for everything without you having to tell him what you would like to do?
Queen, please don’t think you are crazy for being a hopeless romantic and insane for expecting a man to be chivalrously romantic to you without you having to first ask him to. Besides, sanity is unattractive on a woman. If the ways of this world do not make sense to you, it is because your mind is above it and your spirit is not from it.
Log off social networks, and log into SELF. I promise you, once you do, you will begin to mentally awaken and spiritually ascend. Remember, you are a universe.
I don’t want you to allow your trust issues, the complaints people have of the way you live your life, nor the selfish way people treat you to stress you or consume you. That is the only purpose of stress. To try & make you doubt your strength. People will constantly bring up old mistakes you made in your past, but you are NOT your past. You are not your pain. You are NOT the mistakes you’ve made. You are unbreakable. One small crack flaw does not ruin the masterpiece. It only makes you value that work of art more, because it survived that crack. Don’t let any pain or stress rob you of your happiness.
I know you get tired of being so patient, giving, considerate & loyal to others only to be used & NEVER getting the same in return from them. But I want you to promise yourself you will STOP allowing how people TREAT you to dictate your level of happiness or stress. I mos def pray people stop taking all you do for them for granted & start acknowledging your caring nature & all the energy, time & effort you put into doing for others is reciprocated back you you.
By: Ebrahim Aseem
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By: Ebrahim Aseem
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I don’t like how when you awake & start your day
You pick out all these reasons why you’re doing things wrong, why you’re not where you’re supposed to be in life. How you’re a failure, why you don’t look as good as you should.
Then you look at your reflection in your camera phone & rather than just take a picture, you say things like, “eww I look hideous” “ugh why do I have so many wrinkles & blemishes” “why do I have to be so fat” cut that out. I know you don’t have my eyes & can’t see what I see, but you’re absolutely breathtakingly beautiful to me.
Even when you can’t find the right outfit Pile all the clothes in your closet all over your bed & feel like you have nothing to wear, my fav thing you can ever wear is your CONFIDENCE. Rock that high confidence today along with your high heels. Strip yourself naked of your self doubts. Smile all day at the fact your beauty makes me smile throughout my day. Good Morning Beautiful.
Kings, send this #GMText to the woman you like. My brother, you DESERVE to have the woman of your dreams, I want that for you just as I want prosperity & success for you & I promise you will get it all. Walk in your integrity. Remain confident at all times king. #EbrahimAseem #SpeakLife
By: Ebrahim Aseem
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Queens: Men are NOT mind readers. If there is an issue, don’t always expect us to be aware of it if you hold back & don’t communicate tactfully.
Kings: Women are NOT naggers. We have to listen more to understand her, be observant & pay attention to her. Her look reveals her feelings. One word can tell you everything on her mind.
By: Ebrahim Aseem
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‘I’m fine’ can mean she’s going through it.
‘It’s ok’ means she’s really wants you to do something, so don’t disappoint her like everyone in her life always has.
‘Whatever’ means she feels continuing to talk to you will get her nowhere, because she can clearly see you lack understanding and common sense to follow her wisdom.
‘You know what?…’ means she really wants to tell your stupid ass the hell off, but she doesn’t want to allow your immaturity to dim the shine of her happiness, so she is choosing her words carefully.
‘Never mind’ means she wants you to do something on your own, without her having to tell your ass, but she doesn’t want to be the one to bring it up, because she’s so tired of being disappointed. COME THROUGH FOR HER! Make her feel crazy for ever doubting her expectations of a man. If we’d just LISTEN, we’d understand women so much better.
Men, let’s stop saying our women are nagging us.
If she’s nagging you about keeping your word, getting a job, going to school, setting goals, being responsible, cleaning up, utilizing your talents & pushing your potential, that’s not called nagging, that’s called being your MOTIVATION. Your Backbone. Your rib. Your Queen. And a queen doesn’t want a peasant boy with no goals, A queen wants a king with drive & ambition, who is confident, yet HUMBLE. A queen wants a man who is strong and hard, yet not too tough and solidified to be molded by her ceramic wisdom and insightful advice.
“Most women are annoying and they nag, because they don’t know how to respectfully communicate without rolling their necks and speaking loudly. Can we agree on that?” a marine complained, during a cooking class I did for a group of recently deployed Marines and Airmen.
“No man wants to deal with an annoying woman,” he continued. “Now, I love my girl back home, but she always tells me things fifty times, and when I complain and tell her that her nagging is the very reason why I am so hesitant to commit to her fully, she just cries right in front me and makes me feel like an asshole. Now, all of a sudden, I’m the one wrong for being honest. It’s not like I can’t see myself with her long term, we have three kids together and I would love to one day take our relationship to the next level, but I’m a grown man and I shouldn’t be spoken to like a child by my woman. Maybe if women stop nagging so damn much men would commit to their lonely asses. Maybe if women knew how to treat a man like a man and stop being so annoying, we would want to come home to them and only them. When I express my true feelings to her like that, she cries and bitches about me, saying I’m being insensitive. So, how should I respond to her when she’s nagging me and going off on her tangents?”
“The makings of a Strong Man is not just one with huge muscles & a well cut physical physique as yourself. The makings of a strong man is one who is strong enough to humble himself, swallow his pride and listen to a woman, so her wisdom can make us a better man,” I responded.
“A nag is a horse. We have to stop using words referring to women as animals, like horses and dogs, and start valuing her words. She’s not nagging, she’s not bitching, she is speaking life into you and it is up to you to value the love she has for you to correct you and perfect you.
Respond to a woman honestly, but with respect. Love is not a war soldier. Don’t use your words as a weapon to pierce your woman, use your words as a pair of binoculars to helps her see deep inside your heart to how much you care about her. Don’t lug spiteful grenades at her with your selfish verbiage, help her see why you even want her in your life at all, it should be crystal clear. As men we can not camouflage our feelings for our woman, we have to put them on display. In any response to your woman, let your words be a revelation of two things, an expression of how you feel about the matter at hand and an assurance to her of how clearly you can see her worth and benefit to your life.”
“I’ve been engaged to my boyfriend for nine months,” a tall airwoman revealed, “Well, technically we aren’t engaged yet, because he didn’t buy me a ring. Before I deployed, I told him I wanted us to be married, and he said he didn’t mind. Since then, I have kind of been planning out our wedding to take place sometime in the next two years. But, I have to admit, I get real discouraged about our future together, because I feel like I am the only one being responsible enough to invest in my education and career, while fighting for my country, while all he does all day is play Call of Duty and sell weed. How do I get my man to think more ambitiously for our future together?”
“A Woman with ambition and goals, and a weak-minded male with hobbies and no drive do not match,” I responded. “Successful, beautiful, deep thinking women such as yourself don’t attract lames. It’s just many males will ACT like a Man, but think like a boy. He will play the role he knows an ambitious woman wants to SEE in a man. He will listen to you talk about all you want in a man, then he will project back to you all you told him you want in a man. He will SAY he wants the same things you want. He will SAY he has goals. He will SAY he wants commitment. He will SAY he has ambitions. He will SAY he wants a career, but is he making the necessary moves to accomplish those dreams he is selling you?
Pushing weight is not a career. Pimping is not a career. Making t-shirts is not a career. If a male tells you otherwise, tell him, ‘cool shirt bro, but you’re not a fashion designer, you’re just a male who sells t-shirts with mildly clever words printed on them.’ Those are side hustles and I never knock hustles, but know this; having a side hustle does NOT make one a hustla.
A TRUE HUSTLA has ambition, drive and determination to accomplish dreams. A true hustla has the mentality of a boss with unbreakable goals. No one should ever knock anyone’s hustle. Likewise, one should never limit one’s self to only a side hustle.
Don’t reject the advice of a woman, who only wants the best for you young kings, because that girl who never calls you on your stuff, that girl who never pushes you to want better in life, that girl who never challenges you, that girl who stays silent when you make mistakes, that girl who never motivates your dreams, that girl who never tells you to go back to school, that girl who doesn’t care whether or not you have a job, that girl who lets you use her car to chill all day while she works all day, that girl who gives you her money she worked hard for, while you smoke it up and waste your day away; she’s not a ‘down ass female’, no. She’s a snake. A Lame. An enabler. She’s using you and holding back your hustle.
A queen will always bring the best out of you, she will not bite her tongue when she sees you need words of wisdom, she will not put a muzzle on her mouth, in fear you will think she has a smart mouth, she will always speak her mind and speak life into you. To treat a man like a man is not to only tell him things he wants to hear, and fear saying words that will crush his fragile ego. To treat a man like a man is to hold him in high regard and hold him accountable for his actions with respect and love.
I most definitely respect any man or woman who speaks their mind, regardless of what the hell anyone has to say about it or thinks about it. A strong minded man is admirable. A strong minded woman is commendable. Any man who can’t respect a strong minded woman who respects him, it’s because he’s an insecure coward of a male. A strong man will want his woman just as strong and confident as he is. This is the type of virtuous woman a mentally-mature man is dying to commit to, a woman who is a habitual truth speaker and a hopeless romantic.
I learned the most romantic thing I can do as a man, is listen to a woman, understand her, take mental notes, then when she least expects it, surprise her with something small she told me she likes. A woman just wants to know we are listening and understand her. If we as men listened to women more and complained about women less, there would never be a reason for a woman to ‘nag’ us in the first place.”
75% of my Facebook friends list are men, in the Air Force, navy & army, because my grand pop was a Tuskegee Airmen. So many of my distant uncles, cousins and homies are veterans. Many words I post online, sharing how to VALUE a woman & be a loyal man is based off the 100s of inbox messages these men send me weekly, asking me advice about women, to help them with their LONG distance relationship they have with their wives and girlfriends back home.
Being deployed away from their woman for several months in the year is so hard for them, they risk their lives protection our lives, our country, our rights, our security and they don’t do it for praise, they do it for a deep, undying love they have for all the people in their country. Many of them tell me they copy & paste my posts, print them out and send them to their woman, just so she can know he is not blind to her worth.
No matter what your opinion of war or politics is, you have to appreciate a man who not only puts his life on the line to protect you and fight for your freedom, likewise you have to respect a man who every day he is away from his woman, will focus on her and how to be a more understanding, emotionally sportive and loyal man for HER. I salute these men and woman, and anyone who fights to protect our rights as people. To me, that is a real king and queen.
By: Ebrahim Aseem
IG: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
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I’m doing a speaking tour this summer, comment your city if you’d come hear me speak there.
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WOMEN who have the smallest circle of friends tend to be the most genuine, because when you’re caring & loyal, it’s rare to find that in return. They keep a close circle, because fake female friends are not on their level of mental-maturity, compete with them, imitate their style, hate on them, are disloyal, talk behind their back, use them & always have their hands out for help, yet are never willing to help them when they need it most.
By: Ebrahim Aseem
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“I honestly don’t have that problem, me and my girlfriends get along fine,” a blond, Danish woman testified during a cooking class I taught for a bridal shower. “In fact, my girls show me more affection than most guys ever do. My question is, how can I tell if a friend is really genuine or if they are just friendly towards me, because I am pretty, and they want to have a group of beautiful, stylish girlfriends to go out with and take pretty pictures with, basically just for show?”
“Young queens, you can tell a female is not a genuine friend if she will ask, ‘aww are you ok? What’s wrong honey?’ when she clearly sees you’re not ok, just so she can know all your confidential business to spread it around as gossip. You can tell she’s not genuine, because she will always ask you what’s wrong with much enthusiasm and a slight smile, like she’s actually happy that you’re sad.” I replied.
“She doesn’t really care if you are ok, she just wants to use you as a form of entertainment to attract friends by gossiping about your life to others. Females who lack confidence feel as though the only way they can get other women to like them is to have some messy drama about someone else to tell.
A fake friend will always rejoice in your misery and never celebrate in your happiness. They will always be around when you experience failures like, ‘oh what’s going on? Tell me more!” But, when you have successes and happiness, they don’t want to hear you talk about it. This is because some of your so-called friends get happy off your failure, because it makes them feel like at least they aren’t the only ones miserable, misery loves company. Your success annoys your fake friends so much, because it reminds them of the success and happiness that forever eludes them.
Some of your female friends look at you as their boyfriends. That is why she shows you more affection than most guys. She wants to be the one you go on dates with, cuddle with, confide in and say ‘I love you’ to. This is why every time you get in a relationship, she says, ‘girl, I don’t like him for you’. Then when you’re single again, she’s like, ‘girl, come to the club with me this weekend, so we can be the prettiest girls in the club, go hunting for guys with small egos and huge muscles, take pics and shine for the gram.” She doesn’t value your friendship, she is a leech, living of your genuine happiness.
If after you break up with your boyfriend, rather than console you and build you up, one of your girls says something to you like, ‘You acted like that guy was your whole life. I didn’t like him for you anyway, now I get my friend back.’ See, that just proves she is not a genuine friend. She was jealous of the relationship, not that you had with him, but that he had with you. Cut that leech off ASAP. A genuine friend will be happy you found love, not try to compete with your new love for your time and attention.
Some females are in constant competition with their friends. If you go out and buy a Michael Kors purse, next week you will see her with the same purse, same color, same design. If she sees you in some heels or a dress that you bought from an online boutique, she will say, ‘girl that’s a pretty dress and heels, what store did you buy it from? So I can know where to shop for you.’ with her slick, copy-cat ass. She doesn’t care about shopping for you, she wants to bite your style, simple as that.
I know you are tempted to put your girls on with your stylist, because some of your girls got nerve to wear open toe-heels without a pedicure, knowing damn well their feet look like eagle claws. We’re talking yellow toe nails, ashy ankles, like how is she light skin with ashy ankles? I know some of your girls act like they are allergic to pedicures, or even allergic to eye brow threading, with her bushy, Drake brows, but as a woman, your self-identity is everything.
Your hairstyle, fashion style, shoe game and hand bag style is a form of self-expression. You are not being selfish by being hesitant to share your beautician, hairstylist, esthetician and eyebrow-threader with your girls. Help them with it as much as you can, but when it reaches the point every time you invite one of your girls over, she’s asking to ‘borrow’ one of your outfits or heels, knowing damn well she has yet to return your favorite pair of heels she borrowed last summer, you know you have a leech on your hands.
You are in your friends’ life for them to learn from you if they are willing, but never become friends with someone you cannot learn anything from. Never become friends with someone you don’t want to become. Negative company corrupts positive fruit. You will be blessed with a few amazing friends in your life time. When you find true and genuine friends, shower them with love and affection while always remembering you are your best friend in this world. Be true to your friends, while remaining loyal to your self.
Loyalty is everything in a relationship with friends, family and dream mates. The worse thing a man can do is make his woman feel like she can’t talk to him about the issues she’s having with him, because he’s unwilling to shut up long enough to listen to her & understand how she feels, because he’s too busy interrupting her telling her how he thinks she feels and making excuses.
The worse thing a woman can do is talk to another woman about her relationship with her man. Young queens, you have to learn to be loyal to your man, not just with your heart, but with your mouth as well.
Don’t speak ill of your relationship on social networks. Don’t call or text your girlfriends, talking bad on your man, telling them all the things he does wrong, because once you do forgive him and the two of you make up, your girls will still have that negative picture you’ve painted of your man in their mind.
They don’t see the make up; they don’t see him apologize. They only see what you have told them when you were mad at him. Now, they hate him and secretly they want to break the two of you up, to protect you from what you told them he does wrong.
Young queens, when you and your man have an argument; no one should ever know about it. Please do not run to your phone and post on Facebook and tweet every time your man does something you don’t like. Do not hop on Instagram & create a meme about love every time you and your man fight, because when you do, you are breaking down the privacy levees of your relationship, allowing disloyalty to flood in like a hurricane.
The biggest threat to your relationship is not side hoes, it is you gossiping about your relationship to snakes in your circle. Not all of your ‘besties’ are happy you found love. Even if they love you, subconsciously if she can’t get a good man; your disloyal friend will always bad talk yours, shooting down your happy relationship, especially if you give her the ammunition. The best type of relationship is the one everyone sees, yet no one knows about.”
Women who are very strong-minded & very deep thinkers tend to be misunderstood, because not many people are mentality on her level. What stresses mentally mature women the MOST is not dealing with men. She knows exactly what she wants from a man. In fact, When she asks a man a question about something, she ALREADY KNOWS THE ANSWER. She just wants to see whether or not he will be honest about it.
What stresses mentally mature women out the most is other females.
So much of the stress in a virtuous woman’s life comes from the females in it. Her so-called ‘friends’, female co-workers, her girls who call her ‘sister’ ‘twin’ ‘backbone’ ‘ride-or-die’ or ‘best friend’, the type of females who are always hitting her up for relationship advice. Yet, after she gives her advice, the female goes and does the exact opposite of the advice. Then, she’s left like, ‘wait, so if you were just going to do what the hell you wanted to anyway, why call me for advice in the first damn place?’ The reason for this is deeper than many of us men can even imagine.
Strong women are often used by their female friends, who are really leeches & snakes. She gives them her friendship and she is used as an emotional crutch. She’s someone to lean on when her girls feel down, but just because a woman is very strong does not mean she doesn’t feel weak and get emotional sometimes. Just because she’s a deep thinker and gives great advice, does not mean she doesn’t need someone to talk to, to vent to, to give her advice, to lift her up.
A strong-minded woman needs a friend to lean on and be the caring friend to HER she is always to others. Yet, often when she needs a friend, or advice or help, her girls who she always helps are nowhere to be found. She’s always the one in the circle who has to call one of her girls out on their stuff and tell them the truth about their self.
She is always the one who has to tell her girl when she’s been drinking too much when they go out, to the point every night ends with one of her girls face down in a garbage can, throwing up. She is always the one holding her girl’s hair, while all the other girls in her circle are busy snapping pictures of her with their phone, posting it on Instagram, yelling, ‘WorldStar’ and ‘turn up!’
She is always the one who has to check one of her girls for trying to sleep with one of their girlfriend’s EXs, or check one of her girls for tying to talk to a guy who she knows damn well one of their close mutual friends has a crush on.
She is always the one who has to speak up and let one of her girls know she’s been spending way too much time with her man, flaking on her girls, even cutting off her girls, because her new man, who has yet to faithfully commit himself to her, doesn’t like her spending time with friends, because he wants to monopolize all her time and attention, making her dependent on only him for her happiness.
She is often told by her girls, ‘bitch stop acting like you’re my mother! Telling me what to do!’ Or she’s told, by her girls, ‘every time you get your eyebrows arched you think you can just say whatever you want to me huh?’ When in reality, she is only trying to look out for her friends. That is when her friends get defensive and start to talk b.s. about her to each other behind her back. Texting her friends, telling them all of her personal business she told them in confidence and confidential secrets, just to make her friends turn against her. Posting subliminal meme’s about her on Instagram. Telling all her business on social networks, then taking it down, trying to act like she never did it, with her ole snake ass.
This is why many strong-minded women keep a small circle, because there are very few women she can trust who match her mental maturity level. Mentally mature women feel like the women in her circle should be a reflection of Her. She’s not into having a circle full of pretty girls with zero ambition, who go to all the latest functions, yet, never go to work or school.
She’s not into having a circle full of girls who get their hair done, make up done and get dressed only to take pictures for Instagram likes. Yet, they are broke, living at home with their mother, who pays all her bills, phone and even washes her tacky clothes.
A mentally mature woman only wants women in her circle who are as ambitious, caring, mature, classy and intelligent as she is. She’s a REAL friend. When her friends hurt, she hurts. She stays up at night, thinking about her real friends’ problems like they are her own. Praying her friends will make better decisions with their life and learn to love themselves more.
Sometimes she is more mature than her own mother, who at times behaves like a toddler, and she has to deal with all of this all alone.
These are the characteristics of a Strong minded woman. This is all the stress & burdens deep thinking women have on their plate and carry on her shoulders. As men in her life, we have to know this and make a commitment That we won’t add stress to her already stressful life. If you are going to be part of a mentally mature woman’s life, either be bringing something to the table, taking away her stress, understanding her, offering her intellectual stimulation through DEEP spiritual conversation, or don’t even approach her, because she has so much on her plate and the last thing she needs in her life right now is us as men planting feelings in her heart, if we have no intention of cultivating them.
My sisters teach me everything I know about understanding a woman & that a confident woman loves to see the beauty in other women, because she doesn’t view every woman as her competition.
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Most beautiful women OVER think, carrying so much pain & baggage from her past, because shallow leeches continue to load more B.S. onto her back, which clogs her mind. A woman can be dealing with so much & no one would ever know it, because she smiles, sucks it up & deals with it. But DEEP in her heart she feels the weight of the world on her shoulders.
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The most mentally-mature men & women are the DEEP thinkers. Their mind is constantly in deep thought. Ignorant doubters and negative pessimists irritate them, because they are mentally ascended high above the level of so many around them. Their MIND is what makes them beautiful, as it exudes beauty, wisdom & depth. Don’t let the negativity and ignorance of doubters dictate your level of happiness. Ignore the ignorant Deep Thinker. Pay them no mind. Their space-filled mind isn’t worth taking up space in yours.
The Deepest Thinking Women get bored with people easily & loose interest in people fast, because boring males with dry conversation aren’t interesting enough to keep her entertained. Every male who sees her wants her number, not solely due to her looks and body. Women with depth exude inner beauty effortlessly. However, when these mentally-immature males get her number, all they do is text her, saying, “wyd sexy?” “when you gone slide thru and take this vitamin D;)?” “hey” or ask her to send him intimate photography.
She’s not stuck up young king. She doesn’t text you back, because she can tell quickly you have nothing new and different to offer her. You get boring real quick after the first couple texts & you can’t make her laugh or talk about deep, interesting things on her mental level. You may possess an intriguing sexual prowess, yet if you cannot make an intelligent woman laugh, or even make her rethinking how she sees something with your wisdom, she will not take you seriously. Humor her. Intrigue her intellect. Stimulate her mind. Have something substantial to say and talk about. Teach her something new, stop hitting her with the same, dry conversation like, “hey, wyd cutie?”
First of all, ‘hay’ is for horses. If you’re going to text a woman, either text her uplifting words, or show her your sarcastic & tactfully humorous side by making her laugh. If you aren’t making her laugh uncontrollably or motivating her profoundly by showing her something new, a Deep Thinking woman will not take you seriously, instantly placing you in her ‘undatable zone’.
Second of all, texting a woman is extremely informal. If you want to show a woman you’re interested in her, do NOT just text her; CALL her. Tell her ‘I would like to take you out on a date this Thursday night, to the aquarium, before an Italian dinner and live music, and I promise you will not miss out on the level of humor and spontaneous excitement you are used to on a Thursday night, when Scandal is not on hiatus.’
When you primarily text a deep thinking woman, neglecting to call her and take her out on a real date, where you plan and pay for everything; you are proving to her why you genuinely deserve no chance in hell with her. If you don’t posses a deep mind, deep conversation and are unable to penetrate her deep with your mental stimulation, don’t try to approach a deep woman & ask her for her number.
“Anything that bleeds for more than seven days, I don’t trust,” a West Indian man with a heavy (hatian) accent complained during a public speak I did for a university’s Psychology department. “That’s some twilight, demonic, Bram Stoker Count Dracula type stuff. I have yet to meet a woman who doesn’t posses a double mind. Females are crazy. They talk to themselves all day long, over thinking about things they think might happen, like their minds are in a parallel universe or something. That’s why all women over think, with their indecisive bipolar ass, because they’re not sane. They literally posses a split mind and it’s annoying. How do you get a woman to stop being so indecisive, bipolar and stop over thinking and over analyzing everything so damn much?”
“Weak minded males always want to make a virtuous woman view her strong-minded thought pattern as a flaw,” I replied. “Whereas mentally-mature men can appreciate a strong-minded woman with depth. Now, you have to ask yourself, ‘which am I willing to be, a weak-minded MALE or a mentally-mature man?’ Once you decide, prune your mind of any thoughts opposing that type of man, or male, you want to be. Viewing all women as ‘anything that bleeds for more than seven days, undeserving of trust’ is the mentality of an ignorant, arogant, misogynistic, weak-minded, coward of a male.
Women don’t bleed for seven days. As men we have to stop referring to a woman’s menstrual cycle as some unholy, demonic, blood sacrifice. Understand, that cycle you are referring to is the very thing that caused you to be born. It’s not blood, it’s a degeneration of the prepared lining of her uterus.
A woman’s body prepares every 28 days, as if it’s ovum will be fertilized with your sperm cell. If it is fertilized, she get’s pregnant. If not, the whole prepared lining of her uterus degenerates and flows out of her body. That red degeneration is what you were referring to as her ‘bleeding for seven days’ when in reality, you didn’t know at all what you were talking about. Now that you understand a woman does not bleed for seven days at all, understand this:
When a woman is on her period, she’s not being over-emotional or ‘indecisive and bipolar’ as you say, she’s enduring the pain and early stages of what it takes to bring every man and woman into this world. She is balancing her thoughts while balacing the miricale of allowing life to travel pass her pineal gland, through her body, so pardon her if she tends to change her mind from time to time, she has bigger fish to fry than making her every action please a coward of a male, like, you know, bringing a life into existance.
During her menstrual cycle, it is a physical, emotional and psychological HELL for her. It feels like her vagina is being pierced, shot & stabbed, hence her irritability. Stop judging her and telling her how crazy she is. Be understanding of her and her emotions.
Once she comes off her menstrual cycle, she longs for the feeling of vaginal stimulation, almost like the scratching of an itch. As men, we have to be understanding of this & cater to our woman. Right as she comes off her period, make sure you trEAT her lower lips like you would treat your favorite meal, then give her that DEEP vaginal stimulation she needs, even if it is simply in the form of a deep tissue, full body massage. Conversely, if you can’t understand a woman and make her feel like she is in good hands with you, she will not afford you the opportunity to physically stimulate her, because she can clearly see you lack the ability to understand her enough to know she needs you to first provide her with the mental penetration and intellectual stimulation she deserves.
The difference between a MALE and a MAN is, a weak-minded MALE wants to be understood, while a mentally-mature man just wants to understand a woman, mind body and soul, then speak life into his daughter, sister, mother and queen. To answer your question,
the best way for a man to get a woman to stop being so indecisive, bipolar and stop over thinking and over analyzing things so much, is for him to simply shut his mouth, open his mind and allow his actions to speak life into a woman louder than his words.
A deep thinking woman feels the weight of the world on her shoulders and honestly, she just wants to be heard & understood. Lay her head on our chest so our heartbeat and strong-armed embrace soothes her to sleep. She always has to be so strong by herself, through all the pain she endures. Don’t make her feel she has no one to be strong FOR HER for once. It’s unnatural for a woman to be so frustrated and cry herself to sleep, feeling no one ever understands her.
As men, we were not put on earth to change a woman, we were put here to uncerstand her, and to be a virtuous woman’s strength, leader, protector & rock. We have to stop criticizing a virtuous woman who humbly opens up her heart to us. Conversely, we have to stop giving all our attention and commitment to selfish-using, weak-minded females who lack the humility for life to be spoken into her. Not every female you meet DESERVES your presence in her life you kings.
What makes you a man is not making every woman you meet fall helplessly and madly in love with you, only for you to have sex with them all, then break all of their hearts. What makes you a man is seeking wisdom, which will exalt you with the discernment to know the difference between a selfish, weak-minded female who doesn’t deserve your understanding patience, and a selfless, mentally-mature woman who deserves your understanding of her and your patience with her.
I know you say you’re married, but so many women feel we as men start to get complacent once we win a woman’s heart and loyalty, to the point we stop doing all the things we did to get her in the first place. This is a sign of a weak-minded male.
The valuing of a diamond does not end after the pursuit of it. The valuing and cherishing must continue after it is obtained, FOREVER. Most men already know this, the problem is NO MALES understand this. A weak-minded MALE wants to win a virtuous woman over and once he gets her, he stops doing exactly what it took to obtain her.
A mentally-mature MAN does even more for a virtuous woman once he wins her heart, because he recognizes her worth so much, he constantly behaves as if he doesn’t deserve her, in order to prove to her with his actions why he does deserve such a treasure like her in his life.
But a MAN and a MALE are two different species. Mentally-immature queens in the making may not yet fully posses the wisdom and discernment to tell the difference between a weak-minded male and a mentally-mature man. This is why she will unintentionally ALLOW a weak-minded male to have her heart and her loyalty, placing her heart in an inevitable position to be broken. However, a mentally-mature woman will ONLY ALLOW a mentally-mature MAN to commit to her, not a MALE who can’t continuously value her worth.”
Women must stop complaining why they cannot attract the caliber of man they want, and start realizing it is because she has yet to reach the level of mental-maturity and humility to attract the caliber of man she wants. She must BE the caliber of person she wants to attract in every way, or else her dream mate will forever elude her, turning her down for the same reason she turns down males who are not on her level. It has to go both ways.
In order to deserve and attract her dream mate, a woman must first edify her mind and seek the wisdom needed for her to discern the difference between a weak-minded male and a mentally-mature man. That ability alone is the one thing she can’t realize is attractive to a real man. Her inability to do this is the one thing keeping a mentally-mature man from ever approaching her. I know this from experince, becuase I would constantly turn down breathtakingly beautiful women who lacked the discerment to tell the differnce between myself and my mental-maturity and all the weak-minded males in their past. That inability to distinguish myself from them was a contant turn-off to me once I became a mentally p-mature man.
Any weak-minded MALE can pull a beautiful successful, deep-thinking woman. The sign of a mentally-mature MAN is one who can KEEP a beautiful successful, deep-thinking woman stimulated mentally, emotionally, sexually and spiritually at ALL times and never fall off in doing so. If the male you love can’t do all of that consistently, it is proof to you that you are giving all your love and loyalty to a weak-minded male, and it us up to you to stop giving your love and loyalty to those who prove to you with their actions constantly that they do not deserve it.
Staying on top is more difficult than climbing the mountain of success. The pursuit of a diamond requires blood, sweat and tears, but to keep & protect a diamond requires valuing and cherishing it. A virtuous woman is like a diamond in this regard.
Marriage is scary to some males, not simply due to their fear commitment. Too many males know they genuinely do not have what it takes to keep a virtuous woman happy in a serious relationship. If a man has never had an anniversary, he is not yet relationship material for a virtuous woman who is wife material. If a man has never been in a relationship longer than two years, he is not yet relationship material for a virtuous woman who is wife material. It shows he cannot hold a woman’s attention longer than a few seasons.
His sex may heat you up in the summer, but can his love keep you warm in the winter? Too many males can only offer a woman “NEW LOVE”. New love is that feeling a woman gets when she first meets a new guy she’s attracted to or when she commits to a guy who was previously in the friend zone.
The mention of his name makes her smile and blush uncontrollably. She wants to talk to him every day. She thinks about him every night before she goes to sleep. His Good Morning texts give her goosebumps. His sex game sends chills running up & down her spine. But “new love” is not really “love” it is INFATUATION. Like a cardiac high.
Once that new love drug runs out after a season or two, he can no longer stimulate her & he gets bored with her. He will give his woman less attention and start giving that attention to the multiple women he approaches daily, females on Instagram who look nothing like his woman and random women on social networks. Males like this will LIKE pictures of half naked women on Instagram all day long, or comment and tell random girls, “you’re so beautiful”. But he won’t pick up a phone to call or even text his the woman who is giving him all her attention and commitment, to tell HER she is so beautiful.
Once I stopped thinking with the head between my legs, and I mentally matured into thinking with the head connected to my brain, I realized what makes me a man is not trying to “talk” to every beautiful woman I see, nor is sleeping with every pretty girl who wants to spend the night. What makes me a man is choosing that ONE queen, being faithful to only HER and spoiling only HER, my future wife, with all my attention, love and loyalty.
Young kings, there is no more amazing feeling to be madly and deeply in love with a deep thinking woman, trust me. The physical beauty of a woman gets boring and fades, but the beautiful mind of a deep thinking woman will arouse your intellect every single time like it is the first time your pineal gland laid eyes on her.
By: Ebrahim Aseem
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The young Queens whose pictures are in the cover photo for this article are all deep thinking, intelligent, beautiful, mentally-mature women. They won a picture contest I ran on FB, for this specific topic. Feel free to follow them on their Instagram handles bellow their pictures.
Shaharlee Blake Instagram: @harlee_jahmelia.
Ashlyn Tracy Instagram: @ashlynbethel
LaShonda Monae Instagram: @MISSLILSLIM22
WhyGee Troublee Instagram: @TheConsciousCreep
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This is why I respect ALL WOMEN so much: Every month she cries in pain,
laying on the floor, passes out, comes out her clothes, enduring all the cramps and pain of her menstruation in order to birth us all into this world. So the next time you call her a “bitch” or complain she’s too “emotional” consider all she goes through is exactly what your MOTHER did.
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I’m so tired of seeing girls post ==> “Why are all these bitches getting pregnant? Lol”
Listen dumbass, human life revolves around pregnancy you ignorant idiot. Your mother was once pregnant with your dumb ass. If not, you simply wouldn’t exist.
When a shirtless male posts a status/picture saying, “I’m having a baby” all the thirsty idiots like it, share it & comment hearts and ‘be like’, “what a good man ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.” or “Lawd yasssss, father of the year, lol.” Conversely, when a young queen posts a status/pic saying, “I’m having a baby” or “I have such a love affair w/ my child ❤.” All of the same thirsty idiots call her a “whore” or comment saying, “maybe if you had such a love affair with a college diploma or a career you wouldn’t be knocked up now would you? lol #bangbang #shotsfired #NextTimeHaveAPassCodeForThatiVagina lol”
How is a woman a whore for getting pregnant?
Every human was born by way of a woman’s pregnancy. Even Jesus was born through a woman’s pregnancy, so stop making pregnancy sound like a disease or something. It’s not “pregnant season” it’s called procreation. Your life and all human life is insistent upon it. The Holy Spirit choose women to give life to every male and female through pregnancy, so if you have such a problem with pregnancy, get your tubes tied and shut the hell up with your woman-bashing .
Second of all, can we as humanity STOP USING THE WORD “bitch” to refer to women as a whole. I taught summer school last year and there are first grade children who think the word “bitch” is a synonym for the word “female”.
It grieved my heart to see an adorable 6-year-old special needs girl be yelled at by a snotty-nosed, 6-year-old girl who said, “You’re going in the wrong door! That’s not the bathroom-for-bitches you retard. Come over here!” Hearing that broke my heart, however, I was not insanely furious at the 6-year old girl who was verbally abusing that sweet little angel who was just trying to potty quickly; I was insanely furious at the PARENTS, who allow their words in anger, their lazy vernacular in humor and the profane verbiage of music, movies and reality shows to echo in the ears of their children who are unable to even spell the word “WHORE” with the letters “w” and “r” included.
As self-proclaimed “grown” men and women, we need to stop using the words:
“Bitch” and “Hoe” as synonyms for “FEMALE” and
“Nigga” as a synonym for “MALE” while we are at it.
Word sounds have power. The vibration of energy that manifests itself off the tongue and onto the eardrum are conceptions of creations. Simply put, word-thoughts have power. Referring to another human as a noun describing an animal is a subtle form of degradation and an attack on their subconscious, stripping power away from that person.
The word “bitch” in NO WAY has any relation to human females.
“Bitch” means = fem DOG or canine.
“Slut” means = PIG, of no specific gender.
“Heifer” (heffa) means = baby COW, of no specific gender.
“Kid” means = baby GOAT, of no specific gender.
I know our favorite comedians make it sound so cool to use these terms for animals against women. I’m fully aware rappers make it sound so rhythmic to make songs degrading women in a repetitious hook, to the rhythm of an amazing beat, but despite that,
This is why you should respect Women:
It was my fourth day teaching summer school and one of the Austrian, English Lit teachers observed a 14-year-old Boricua girl in his classroom, sitting with her head down, arms around her head, so he said,
“Excuse me, hey! (snaps his fingers) hey! (claps his hands loudly to gain her attention) sit up right this instant, or I will give you an ‘F’ and kick you out of school. And once you’re out, that’s it, no making up these credits for fall semester; you will enter September as a second-year-Freshmen.”
The teenage girl grimaced, wiped her face and sat up. The teacher told her, “Why don’t you come on over to the board and solve this reconstructed sentence, placing the predicate where it belongs.”
The teenage girl put her hands over her face and shook her head, unintentionally piercing the arrogant teacher’s low self esteem, igniting his humongous ego.
He said, “come solve the problem or get an F. No other options.”
I walked over to the teenage girl, took of my blazer and handed it to her. Then, I reached into my pocket, handed her my key & told her to, “stand up and follow me young queen.” And I walked her to the bathroom, closing the door behind her. Right before I shut the door, I hear her in a low whimper say, “thank you so much.”
When I walked back into the classroom, the teacher smirked, did a fist pump and asked, “Mr. Aseem, did you kick her out?
I pulled him outside of his classroom and intellectually told him the hell off. This is what I said,
“Sir, every month, women endure the cramps and all the pain of their menstruation. You have to remember this & pay attention to women. That girl you were chomping at the bit to flunk, she is on her period and in pain, so much that she was in tears. Not only that, I think she may have been bleeding through her pants, because of how long you made her sit there. That, and that alone is why she didn’t want to stand up in front of the class at the board to acquiesce your chauvinistic demands.
You can’t have your, “no bathroom policy” sir. You have to allow these students go to the restroom, especially the girls, so they can handle their business, which frankly, is none of yours.
No lie, this arrogant asshole of a teacher told me, “You’re right SIR, it’s none of my business and it’s not my problem,” and he turned to walk back into his classroom. I grabbed that bastard’s shoulder and told him just like this,
“Your mother went through the same pain every twenty eight days in order to bring your stupid ass into this world. You know that? So, I beg to differ SIR, it IS indeed your problem. Now, I don’t know how you run your clown curriculum during the school year, but I don’t treat children like they’re animals. We are grown ass men. For some of these children, we are the only example of a man they have ever had in their lives, so we WILL treat them with respect. Remember, you too were a child once.”
No matter where you are, work or whatever, never be afraid to speak truth and stand up for what you KNOW is right. I am so tired of the way we treat our women in this world, it is disgusting how low we treat the ones who are the gatekeepers and givers of life, who are chosen divinely to give life at that. I feel if you come out of a woman, you have no right in the world to disrespect a genuine one. I pray this world learns to value women by the time I have a daughter.
I made a promise to my sister at the beginning of this year that I will devote my all to sparking change in the way women are treated in this world, and honestly I am not satisfied with anything I have done thus far. This is only the beginning. Trust.
By: Ebrahim Aseem
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Mother’s Day is EVERYDAY.
When I was a child, my mother often ate in her room w/ her door closed, separate from me & my sister eating at the table. One night, I heard noise in my moms room & when I went in, I saw my mother laying on her bed, exhaling deep breaths in exhaustion after a long day teaching kindergarten, holding her stomach. That was the moment I realized my mother seldom ate dinner, she’d go w/o food just so my sister & I could have enough food to eat.
My mother constantly sacrificed buying herself expensive clothes, jewelry & trips to give us food every night. She kept a smile on her face at all times, so we wouldn’t know how cash poor we really were. From that day on I taught myself how to cook &
I made sure my mother ate everyday. I promised myself I would do something with my life, so my mother would never have to over sacrifice just to pay bills. That is what fuels me. That is why I work 3 jobs, cooking all day. That is why I don’t complain about life, I just keep a smile on my face like my mother always does.
My mother showed me the true strength of a woman, that is why I respect good strong-minded women so much.
That is why I always speak to large groups of men weekly, teaching them the importance of not trying to change a strong, outspoken woman, but to understand a woman.
That is why for the past 10 years, I have done youth mentoring to hundreds of young Black & Latino boys, teaching them how to speak life into a woman & taking them on HBCU college tours all over the country. I may have money & success now, but I came from not having anything and it is because of that, & what my mother did for me I am the man I am today & I value understanding a woman and respecting a woman’s worth.
I was raised my a queen, so I know how to value one. To me women are not “bitches”, women are not “hoes who ain’t loyal”, women are NOT “only good for using her body for money”. GENUINE women are QUEENS & deserve to be treated as such. If we make a woman a MOTHER we have to respect her, stop calling the mother of your children a crazybitch, you bring shame to your OWN mother by disrespecting the mother of your children young kings.
I will dedicate the rest of my life to giving my mother the level of respect she deserves by respecting her, & all genuine women, & teaching every man I meet that we as MEN were put on earth to SPEAK LIFE into a woman, because every man was created by a mother & every woman is someone’s mother or sister & they all deserve respect.
Happy MOTHER’s Day
Never rely on a man made holiday to show love to your loved ones, mother’s day is everyday. I’m cooking my mommy pancake brunch.
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I private chef for a rich News Anchor who’s wife has a 19-year old mistress only she’s intimate with, living with them & their two children. He stopped sleeping with his wife & allowed her to have a mistress after she confessed he’s never given her an orgasm. The mistress announced she is pregnant by the husband & is almost in her second trimester, just as I served them breakfast.
There is NO reason women should walk around sexually frustrated. Most women are sexually frustrated, because they’ve rarely, if ever, had a REAL orgasm.
If she doesn’t eject a liquid spurt in jet form, she’s not having a real orgasm, meaning a clear liquid should flow non stop like a water hose. This is NOT the only way women orgasm, however it is a maximum form of a female orgasm. It is NOT urination! There are two of three ways females have an orgasmic-crescendo. Some females are ‘Vaginally Stimulated’, some females are ‘Clitorally Stimulated’ and all females are ‘Mentally Stimulated’.
Her whole body should shake uncontrollably, like an orgasmic chill jolting through her spine. It should last long, for several minutes. This is why it is important to pay attention to your woman’s body. Not all women are the same. Find out if she’s vaginal or clitoral. If she’s clitoral, exhilarate her pearl while stimulating her g-spot. Ease deep inside a woman with mental penetration and stimulate her mind with intellectual conversation.
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I am constantly learning everyday there is so much more to being a Man than just “physically” touching a Woman. She needs more than that. Touch her with your vibe. Penetrate her mind, go deep inside her cognitively, so her loquacious words bust wet thoughts all over your lips, to the point you can drink her verbiage and devour the pearls of wisdom she vibrates against the lips of your pounding ear drums.
“Ok that’s not true, because not all women can squirt. I for one can’t,” the wife’s twin sister complained during the relationship counseling session I had with my German client, his Latin wife, her 19-year old Afro-Rican mistress, and the wife’s twin sister. The nanny and the gardener were not sitting in on our session, yet I could tell they were ease dropping into our conversation by how poorly they were pretending to do their jobs.
“Every human has a squirting orgasm,” I responded. “If a man doesn’t squirt sperm during intercourse, he is not having an orgasm. If a woman doesn’t squirt liquid during intercourse, she is not having an orgasm. Without an orgasm, there can be no life on earth.
The key and climax to an orgasm is the squirting. The difference between a man’s pre-sperm and the ejaculation he uses to fertilize an egg is, the later is squirted out, while the former seeps out. Likewise, when a woman is “wet” that is not an orgasm. That is just a seeping out of liquid, versus a squirting out of liquid with velocity and pressure, that actually all but ensures the fertilization of her egg cell, as a woman’s vaginal liquid exists to help lead the male sperm cell to the egg and prevent the egg from being fertilized by multiple sperm cells simultaneously.
It is NOT a woman’s fault if she has never experienced a real orgasmic crescendo to the point of spurting , it just shows one of two things, either her mates were not physically & mentally compatible with her enough to render her to fully climax, or her mates did not pay attention enough to her to learn if she is either clitorally stimulated or vaginaly stimulated.
Couples who have trouble conceiving, fail to both orgasm during intimacy. That is, only the man will squirt and the woman may not; making it more challenging to conceive a child together. Some women have been misdiagnosed ‘sterile’ when in reality, she has just never had a true orgasm, which is essential to produce vaginal squirt that simultaneously acts as a spermicide to kill many sperm, while directing one sperm cell straight to the egg to fertilize it.”
“Well, this whore must have squirted while you two were cheating on my sister,” the wife’s twin sister told her brother-in-law, “because your adulterine sperm found its way into her ovary.”
“Can’t you see she’s lying her ass off?” the husband responded, breaking his silence. “She just wants to waltz in here, oh excuse me, twerk in here and ruin what we’ve worked fourteen long years to build. If she’s after money, she might as well just say it right now, because she and I both know it’s impossible for me to have gotten her pregnant, after all, she’s a lesbian. How do we even know she’s pregnant? She could have just gotten fat. Have you seen the size of that carpet muncher’s ass? Her gut may have finally caught up.”
“This guy doesn’t know how to lie to save his life, this must be his first affair,” I thought, listening to him freestyle excuses as I continued to shake my head and fight off laughter.
Despite my client’s skepticism, I could tell the mistress is was pregnant. She made me cook her deep-fried, beer battered, pickled banana peppers, that’s clearly pregnant food. Besides, even though the husband was accurate in describing the size of the mistress’ butt, she was a fit-thick, whose metabolism was too fast to allow her to gain any bulge in her stomach the way she had, unless she was pregnant.
“So how the hell did she get pregnant?” the wife’s twin asked, dancing around to mock her brother-in-law. “Did her fairy godmother just sprinkle magic fairy dust on her stomach? Because she is clearly pregnant.”
“And your homophobic remarks are not funny,” the wife chimed in with tears in her eyes.” This is serious. Your infidelity has time and again put our family in a strenuous position.”
“I bet he put that whore in numerous strenuous positions,” the wife’s twin joked, looking the wife’s mistress directly in her eyes, “and now I am obviously going to have to be the one to fix this. So how much will it take?”
“How much will it take for what?” the 19-year-old girl asked, with a puzzled disposition, to the point the wrinkles on her teenage forehead became obvious.
“How much will it take for you to take care of this?” the wife’s twin answered. “We’ll give you a quarter million after it’s done.”
My heart skipped a beat once I realized what the wife’s twin was asking the young girl. She was offering to pay her twin sister’s mistress $250,000 to get an abortion of the baby her brother-in-law impregnated her with. When I first started working for this family, I assumed the 19-year-old girl was the older, adopted daughter. I assumed she was adopted, despite the fact her and the wife are both of Latin descent, because she looks more Rosa Acosta-type-of-Latin, while the wife and her twin sister look more Jessica Alba-type-of-Latin.
I always noticed, in her mind, the 19-year-old girl thinks she is Rosa Acosta, just by the way she dresses and carries herself. She’s constantly wearing ballerina clothes, despite the fact she has zero rhythm. Every morning I’ve shown up to cook for the family, the mistress came to the breakfast table in a damn bra and panties, and open toe high-heels, as if those were her pajamas. Yet and still, after watching the 19-year-old girl place her face in the palm of her hands to cry, I felt obligated to speak on her behalf.
“How can you suggest a teenager take money to murder her unborn child?” I asked the wife’s twin sister.
“Oh please, it’s not murder,” the wife’s sister replied with a smirk. “The little bastard probably can’t even breath yet. She won’t feel a thing.”
“It’s a boy!” the mistress corrected, clearly upset at the offer.
“Well, HE won’t feel a thing then,” the wife’s sister responded with sass. “He probably doesn’t even have a heart beat yet.”
“Life starts at the moment of conception,” I responded. “The spirit of her unborn child was already alive, even before the gentiles formed. Even before the doctor knew the sex of her baby, and its wolverine tube dropped making it a male, because all humans start off as female first, the baby was indeed alive, with a heart beat and the breath of life present. Paying her to end her unborn child’s life is to dance around the true problem; infidelity.
Cheating has no place in a relationship. At the same time, a woman should never feel she isn’t getting stimulated enough by her man, to the point she feels the need to cheat on him. It is up to us as men to be willing to be romantic and intimate with our woman, to the point she looses herself in our love and it is up to a woman to communicate to her man, instead of just stepping out on him. However, women should not have to teach a man how to stimulate her mind, soul and body. It is up to us as men to spend as more time learning what our woman’s body responds than we spend watching sports and playing video games. It’s a damn shame some males play with their Xbox controller all day long, yet they have no idea how to play with the buttons on their woman’s body.
Being intimate with a woman means more than just sex, it also means opening up to her and intimately conversing with her on a DEEP level. Stimulating her MIND with intellectual conversation and punishing her BODY with romantic aggression. Romantic, yet aggressive is the best way to be with a woman’s body. Kiss her gently, yet bite her bottom lip while you kiss her. Tongue kiss her neck, yet grab & pull her hair while you do it. Find her ‘spot’ and once you do, make sure you pleasure it romantic, yet aggressive.
For you to be married to a woman for fourteen years and be unwilling to do everything it takes to give your wife an orgasm, it exposes how your selfishness lead her to cheating with a mistress you hand-picked for her.
If you are a grown ass man and you are against romantically kissing the lips between your woman’s hips, you obviously are not ready for a serious relationship. Any male who thinks it is fine to have sex with a woman and not care whether or not she orgasms, he is trash and his mobydick is trash as well.
“As a man of God, how can you talk about sex so openly and use the word ass so much in your consultation? The bible doesn’t talk about sex,” the woman of the hour, the wife’s mistress, asked me. I found it ironic she, of all people, asked me that question.
“Not only does the bible often speak about sex, the bible often uses the word ‘ass’ as both a literal and symbolic reference’, I answered, calmly.
“People who expect Jesus to return and come back without sex being involved, and who think orgasm should not be spoken about or achieved, lack the understanding of how their God chose life to be created on earth.
Jesus would never have been born 2,000 years ago without an orgasm. You may say the immaculate conception didn’t evolve sex, but if Jesus’ grandparents never had sex to give birth to Jesus’ mother, Virgin Mary, Jesus would have never been born through HER womb in the first place.
If you are alive and breathing, sex must be important to you, because that is how you were born; you are alive thanks to sex. To be alive and to be against sex is hypocritical, because your existence heavily insists upon sex. Your life relied upon sex for you to be born. Every one ever born on earth is the product of a man and a woman having sex and an orgasm to have you. Sex is not called ‘sex’ because of the act, it is called ‘sex’ because it can produce two types of sex, female and male. The verb ‘sex’ gets its name only. because of the noun ‘sex’ it creates.
No female or male can be born without sex. Even a man of God who knows the bible knows Genesis 1:28 says, “God blessed male and female, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth.” Genesis 2:24 says, “Therefore shall a man cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.”
The only way we can be fruitful and multiply is by sex, meaning a husband and his wife becomes one flesh through by way of intimacy. Don’t you know your God allowed orgasm to exist, so you as a woman could be able to release your vaginal liquid and direct that one sperm cell from a man, chosen to fertilize your egg cell through his orgasm?”
“Ok, I heard of those bible verse,” the wannabe Rosa Acosta admitted, “but not once did I hear the word ‘ass’ like you said the bible mentioned and just because you can quote out of the good book does not make you qualified to give advice to these heffas who want to tell me what to do with my body.”
“And when the ASS saw the angel of the Holy Spirit, she fell down under Balaam: and Balaam’s anger was kindled, and he smacked the ASS, Numbers 22:27” I responded. “Don’t be an ass for hire. Be more than your ass, because if ass is all you have to offer in this life, then life will smack you on the ass over and over metaphorically, causing you to be a beast of burden, like the ass in this scripture.”
“Smack that ass,” she repeated with a smile, smacking her left hand with her right, mmmmm I like that.”
“You’re such a whore,” the wife’s twin sister told her, speaking fast. “And there’s nothing classy or domesticated about you. You don’t even know how to use the word ‘domesticated’ properly in a sentence.
“Are you mad?” the mistress asked her, “You seem to be so quick to spend your sister’s money to clean up her husbands mistakes, but where is your money? Where is your husband? See, the way my God is set up, he made it so I don’t need to live through the next female, speaking in her ear, telling her what to do, like you’re her got damn ventriloquist. Maybe you should go find your own husband, then go find a life while you’re at it, because you’re obviously failing at life so far, compared to me.”
“Is that so?” The wife’s twin laughed. “You’re trash. Poor trash at that, there’s more whores just like you out there, who will know their role, play their position and be smart enough not to piss all over herself by messing up a good thing. Write this trash bag a check for a quarter million and go on with your lives, seriously!”
“You think you can just buy people?” The 19-year old girl asked, fighting off tears. “You think you can buy my baby’s life?”
She grabbed her purse and her phone and stormed out of the room. Her red bottoms clicked loudly against the floor as she scurried off. The wife exhaled, stood up and calmly walked after her. By how calm the wife was behaving, it made me scared for the 19-year-old girl. I had just watched a Korean film called, “The Housemaid about a young woman in a similar situation, who was forced to get an abortion by her lover’s wife. Despite not wanting to behave in any way like a captain, I stood up, grabbed my phone and went after the two women.
When I finally found them, they were cuddled up in front of the pool, sitting in a lawn chair, both crying silently.
“I should have never let him inside me without a condom,” the 19-year-old girl complained, talking to my client’s wife. “I’m so stupid. You know, he told me you two were separated and working on a divorce. I don’t know what possessed me to believe him.”
“He told you that?” The wife asked, wiping her tears before exhaling. “You know, he told me after I admitted to him he never gave me an orgasm, it made him not ever want to sleep with a woman again. That’s the only reason I let you come live with us.”
“He told me he would marry me one day,” the 19-year-old girl complained to the wife before looking over at me. “I know I’m young, but what is it going to take for me to get my husband? I have four older sisters, three aunties and a beautiufl single mother who raised me by herself, and none of them have ever been married. Doesn’t the bible say every woman deserves a husband? Well, where is my husband?”
“I didn’t realize you were so well versed in scripture,” I calmly replied, “but since you are, you must be familiar with first Corinthians 7:2 which says, “Let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.”
You need to let this woman have HER own husband, let this man have HIS own wife and get your own man. There is only enough room for two people in a relationship, three is a crowd.”
“Actually, there is room for three people in a relationship, me, my man and God,” the 19-year-old snapped, while rolling her neck at me.
“God is not a ‘person’,” I corrected her. “You must not be familiar with the scripture Numbers 23:19 that says, ‘God is not a man, neither is God the son of a man.’
There is a young queen deep inside of you and in order for you to manifest your inner queen, you have to think regal thoughts, which will manifest regal actions. Behaving like a wench-maiden will only suppress your inner queen. Looking at God as a white man who sits on a cloud and grants wishes if he’s pleased with your behavior will always leave you feeling inadequate as a woman and inferior to men, because you subconsciously view God as a man. John 4:24 says, ‘God is a Spirit and they that worship God, must only worship the Holy Spirit in spirit and in truth.’
The bible says ‘God created man’, thus God cannot be a man. The Holy Spirit created man and woman to co-exist so that man is not over woman, and woman is not over man, but the Holy Spirit found enough divine favor in man to give him the voice of authority to speak life into a woman, your-God, as you say, found enough divine favor in woman to give her the ability to be used to bring life through her into this world.
As a woman, you are much more than your looks, you are much more than your hair, your curves, your ass, your breasts, your sexual skills, your head game, your ability or inability to twerk, you are not how many likes your pictures get on Instagram, you are not your number of followers, you are a daughter of the Holy Spirit.
Do not allow the enemy, who uses these love-scorned rappers and sensationalized reality show producers, to speak doubt into young women like you, making you think if you are not light skin, with a perfectly round and plump butt, zero waist, zero cellulite, long, curly, yet some how still ‘natural’ hair, that you are not beautiful or able to attract a metnally-mature man to be your husband. There is no mold to beauty. There is no mold to how a woman should look. You ARE the mold. You were made in the image of the divine creator, who is not a man, but a spirit, thus you were made in the image of the Holy Spirit. Hold your head high and awaken the young queen inside of you.”
The monday following this impromptu counseling session, I choose to stop cooking for this family, to avoid all the drama that came with the job. Although they were paying me well to cook three meals a day for them, they were not paying me to be their personal life coach and relationship counselor. As much as I enjoy giving advice, I felt it was a conflict of interest for me to do so for them, as someone who had too much knowledge of the situation.
To my surprise, a month after I resigned, the wife sent me the following email:
Mr. Aseem,
I know it’s been weeks since we last spoke, but I just want to let you I am so proud of you! I had no idea after you left us you would pursue a career in public speaking! I have read all of your articles, and I particularly enjoyed the one about why guys cheat. It helped me understand what I have gone through, because every time my husband stepped out on me, I would always blame myself and my lack of curves.
I recently read an article you wrote about a bridal shower you taught a cooking class for. At the end of your article, you allowed the bride-to-be to ask your followers for their advice on if she should proceed with her plans to marry Rico. Well, I know my family has put you through so much, but I wanted to know if you could find it in your heart to do the same thing for me that you did for the Dominican woman. I’m distraught and I do not want to lose all that me and my husband have worked for over the past two decades for ourselves and our two children, but I feel embarrassed and humiliated that he is about to be the father of a teenage girl’s baby.
Can you ask your followers the following questions for me please?
1. What would you queens do if you were in my shoes, and you found out your husband got another woman pregnant?
2. Should I convince the girl to get an abortion?
3. If you queens were me, would you stay married to a man who has all the money, success and power you’ve ever wanted in a man, even though he cheated on you more than once?
Thank you Mr. Aseem. I understand you may get a lot of emails, so if I never hear from you again, just know you have inspired me so much to be the strong woman I never knew I could be. Thank you king.
Answer any, or all three questions, and be sure to share the number of the question(s) you are answering as part of your answer, so she will be able to apply your wisdom to her life; please and thank you.
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