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About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"

The mNemonic beat knock of Hip-Hop & R&B

Posted on April 24, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody Usher’s Confessions is one of the greatest pure albums. He poured his vocal soul on a vinyl canvas. A score of his love life. It told a story. It’s constant concept throughout. Passion filled lyrics. … Continue reading →

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Do SISTAS’ lives matter? or just the Black males’? | Cop who murdered unarmed Rekia Boyd found NOT guilty, few march for her

Posted on April 24, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

Just 48 hours before a civil lawsuit against the city of Ferguson was filled by Michael Brown’s parents for the murder of their unarmed son by a cop, the Chicago Police detective who fatally shot unarmed 22-year-old Rekia Boyd in … Continue reading →

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Black women will remain SINGLE, until they drop this silly “at-ti-TUDE”

Posted on April 21, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

42% of Black women are unmarried. 70% of professional Black women are single, despite the fact 100% of Genuine Black women are intelligent, successful, self-sufficient, spiritual, fierce & beautiful. When will women innerstand their high ass standards, their respectful ‘speak … Continue reading →

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The ‘Strong Black Woman’ promotes EMASCULATION of Black Men

Posted on April 16, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

“They put every black man in the movies in a dress in some point in his career. Strong brothers, why do they want to see us in these dresses?” Dave Chappelle “A woman shall not wear a man’s garment, nor … Continue reading →

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Guys starve girls of EFFORT, because girls settle for “talking” over Courtship. | 7 Levels of Commitment

Posted on April 9, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

I took a natural-haired, mocha, Bahamian fashion buyer out dancing on a first date to a Caribbean restaurant for salsa night. The night ended with her going through my phone, me thrown out the restaurant & a mojito being thrown … Continue reading →

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You’re not “in love” you just feel too emotionally invested to leave. Stop being loyal to what ‪#‎neglects‬ you #BreakfastInBed Ep.7

Posted on April 3, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

Last week on “Breakfast in Bed” View this post on Instagram A post shared by Ebrahim Asim (@fuel4thebody) “Mom!” Rosaria yelled in shock. “Why did you kill Cynthia?” “You didn’t think I would waste a perfect opportunity for insurance, would … Continue reading →

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Children hit the block to teach African language. The hood’s response was epic…

Posted on April 2, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

In my culture we raise boys from birth to be a “baba” meaning, “father, leader & provider” in isiZulu. The baba showers their daughter with confidence, reassurance, esteem, love & knowledge of self so she never NEEDS it from a … Continue reading →

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She’s not crazy. She’s been put through hell. Her hesitation is her protecting you from her demons. #BreakfastInBed Ep.6

Posted on March 27, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

“Well, what are you waiting for?” Rosaria asked her twin India. “Let momma in.” India stood with her back to the front door, in complete shock. The woman who knew her older brother was molesting her twin sister since age … Continue reading →

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Why the ‘Natural Hair Women have low Self-Esteem’ theory is complete B.S.

Posted on March 27, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

A woman’s beautiful natural hair is a repellant for the judgmental, weak-minded little boys & it’s a magnet to attract mentally conscious MEN. Wearing her natural hair does NOT mean she has an attitude. Wearing a weave does NOT mean … Continue reading →

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Why men BREAK & hurt giving WOMEN, yet chase & repair HOES

Posted on March 20, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

No matter how beautiful, giving, curvaceous, affectionate, supportive, self-sufficient & educated a woman is, an insecure guy will break her. Oh, he will act interested in the beginning & build her up, then he’ll snatch the world from under her … Continue reading →

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