Ever lost a Grandparent or parent? This will make you smile. They’re your SOUL MATE

Posted on September 25, 2014 by Ebrahim Aseem

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To anyone who’s lost a GrandParent or Parent stay strong. I know how hard it is to wake up to a world without your parent, nana or grandpa, left with memories & regrets. They are depending on you to stay strong for them.

Their spirit is happy & thriving where they are. Draw upon their energy. Talk to them & they will lead & guide you through your life as your angel. They aren’t dead. Only bodies die, but spirits live on & love on. They are a light that lives & shines through you.

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I miss my nana. Her embrace & smile. Her home cooked meals. The scent of her purse. Those deep hugs she’d give me to take away the pain & let me know everything will be ok. I smile knowing when I feel so frustrated with life, her spirit opens its arms, wraps it around mine & comforts me deep in a place where there is no space or time. If only people who claim to love us could love us like a nana.

Sometimes we feel so alone. Sitting in a room by ourself. We don’t even know there’s four spirits sitting around us in a circle, crying out, watching our life as a movie, knowing how much pain we feel.

They’re right there with us holding our hand. While we suffer, thinking we are alone, they are grieving so much, because of all pain we go through. They want to live this painful life for us, so we don’t have to.

The leader of that spirit prayer group is the spirit of your grandmother.

She’s behind you right now, her back to yours, fighting off all the dark pain entities that are fighting to get inside of your heart & hoping to make you hate life & destroy yourself before you mentally awaken to your grand purpose of saving 1,000s of lost souls on earth.

When we have success, our lost loved ones’ spirits are cheering & happy, jumping up & down, doing back flips. Our smile is their only light. Our self love is their heartbeat. Our self-doubt and self hatred is their agony and complete darkness

Always remember when you speak out loud to your grandparent or parent who passed, they are right there, esteemed of the light you are. So impressed by the strength you exhibit through pain.

Loosing a grandparent & parent is agony, especially when they are your best friend. Yes “are”. Never speak about them in the past tense. They never left. They never died. Their spirit just took off their “human-clothes”.

We long for their embrace, touching them & seeing them. If you talk to them, they will HEAR you. Even if it’s not instantaneous. In the spiritual realm, a spirit that longs for us & misses us can go back & hear our actions & words, as if it’s all being recorded & they can go look for it just how we look On Demand for our favorite shows or Google anything that comes to mind. So, let the way you live your life be sweet messages left to your passed on loved ones.

You can’t see a naked spirit with the naked human eye. But they can hear the vibration of your thoughts of them. You ever thought of them & their favorite song comes on the radio out of nowhere? They are letting you know they hear you.

When you close your eyes, you will see them come to you. Not in human form. The end of human life is the beginning of spirit life.

There are four generations in a family line.
You. Your mother. Your grandmother. Your mother’s grandmother.
These four are like a track team. Each passing the baton to the next. This generational pattern repeats it’s self over and over.

What’s intriguing about this pattern is you and your grandmother are partners. Cosmic energy, traits & characteristics she possessed skipped your mother & were passed on to you.

You and your grandmother have met before, way before this current life. Whether she passes away before you or you before her, your spirit and your nana’s spirit will always wait for each other, so you to can be together.

The concept of a “soul mate” is flawed, fueled by sex. In reality, your soul mate can be your grandmother, best friend, sibling or child. You can even have more than one.

Your biological family and your spirit’s family are not always the same. There are instances your biological grandmother is your spirit’s mother or daughter. Sadly, this knowledge is not shared with the 99%, because the 1% knows knowing one’s self & one’s heritage is the key to prosperity.

This world has become too patriotic & suffers greatly for it. The idea of a woman taking on her husband’s last name is a relatively new concept. If you were living in ancient times, your last name would be your mother’s first name. This was done to keep track of ancestry.

Whenever you miss your grandmother or mother, rub your belly button. That is a reminder you were cut off from a woman. That woman was cut off from your grandmother, and every human born was cut off from a woman.

This is the true way to trace one’s ancestry. It has been intentionally stolen from us, to prevent us from knowing who we are. If we descended from royalty or nobility.

Your father’s last name only leads you to who his mother married, yet it intentionally leads you away from your grandmother’s last name. So, if your great-grandmother eight times removed was a queen, you would never know it.

Members of a royal bloodline trace their lineage through the belly button, as a direct connection to their matriarch. Queens were never second to a king, because only through her womb could royalty be born.

When I look for a queen to choose, I don’t look for the curviest butt, flattest stomach or ability to twerk. For what? I look for characteristics of my nana. Unconditional love. An affectionate romantic. Nurturing women who love family, children & nature are so damn attractive. Makes you want to shower her with love, neck kisses, deep hugs & adornment like a nana would.

I lost my nana to diabetes when I was 12. She was my best friend. She helped raise me up to that point. When she was put in a nursing home 2 years before her death, to my chagrin, I choose to go visit her after school as much as possible.

It broke my heart seeing my nana live in what felt like a death trap and smelled like death and dishonor. It broke my heart when one day she told me, “I’m hungry baby, when are they going to feed me?” It was then I realized some workers in nursing home starve the elders at times to spite them. They would even intentionally serve her food counterproductive to her deabetic diet out of spite. Neglect is the most common form of abuse.

Senior abuse is an epidemic. In too many nursing homes, nurses will hit, punch, throw water at, suffocate, starve or deny medicine to the seniors, because these works get angry with how needy the seniors are.

This is why I chose to become an in-home senior care provider. Going to a senior’s house & cooking them food, administering medication, cleaning their house, washing their clothes, making them laugh or having a deep conversation about their life memories brings me comfort and feels the void of me missing my nana.

If you ever miss your grandparent, take one day out of a week and spend that time with an elder, go volunteer. Pour all the love you have for your lost love one into an elder, child or even an animal who is being starved of love. Sometimes that lonely feeling is really a build up of love you need to pour into someone who needs it.

Grandparents don’t deserve to be neglected & left lonely. If you’re blessed to have your nana or papa in your life, go visit! Cook for them! Teach them how to text you or use “The Facebook” as they say.

Make them laugh! Old people are inappropriately vulgar & hilarious, they love a good laugh.

How would you feel if you worked HARD all your life & all your children, grandchildren, siblings & family NEVER came see you or call you? I hate seeing elders walking, carrying 5 grocery bags, and I go help them, I look around like, “where is your grandchild to help you?”

As a man, it’s not enough to take women out on a date. Take your grandpa to a football game. He has so much wisdom that will help you understand how to be a man. You may think you know it all, but your grandparent has forgotten more knowledge then you ever possessed.

As a woman, you have no right to complain you’re so lonely and wish you had love, if you have a grandparent alive. Take your grandma to brunch and just talk to her. They have so much wisdom that would help you understand how to choose better men who won’t plant feelings inside you he has no intention of bringing to fruition, like your EXs did.

Never underestimate the importance of just LISTENING to someone. The greatest lack a person feels is to not be understood.

Spend time with your grandparents & even your parents before it is too late. Some of us have no grandparents in our lives, please don’t take yours for granted.

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Why Women are so addicted to Scandal

Posted on September 18, 2014 by Ebrahim Aseem

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If you ever have to question if a woman is ignoring you, don’t. She’s absolutely ignoring you. Her phone is in her hand 24/7. She cuddles with it. When a girl is mad, she can text back a whole paragraph in 17 seconds. Even when it’s not ringing, she’ll always check it just in case. So, if she’s not texting you back, she’s mos def ignoring you. Unless, Scandal is on.

My brethren, never call, text or attempt to converse with a woman from 8:59pm to 10pm on a Thursday night. She will not respond to anything that isn’t “Scandal-related.”

Other than Beyonce fans, aka Beyhova’s Witness, Scandal fans are the most loyal to their addiction. Here’s 10 reasons #WWAATS

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1. The Passion

Shonda Rhimes is an amazing writer. Her ability to capture the essense of love, pain, passion, heartache and love sick side pieces makes Scandal an amazingly relatable Script week in & week out.

2. Intelligent Women who speak their mind to a man are respected.

Smart women are often encouraged to “play dumb” in the work place to avoid getting recommended for verbal counseling.
At home, intelligent women are encouraged to play “submissive” in a relationship to avoid being “disciplined” by a poor excuse of a man, intimidated by the mental strength of a woman.

Nothing emasculates a weak-minded, coward male more than a mentally ascended woman with wisdom, who knows when she is right about a matter, and has the facts to prove her point.
A weak male wants a woman to play weak, so he can be the alpha by default.

Kerry Washington’s character, Olivia Pope, who is a political crisis management expert, flips this double standard on its ass, proving with her smart-mouthed-wit and voluptuous brain, nothing is sexier than a woman unafraid to showcase her huge, throbbing neurons.

Olivia Pope represents the feminine, strong-minded woman inside of every female.
She’s sarcastic, yet compassionate.
She’s professional, yet fiercely stylish.

She can be romantically vulnerable for a man to let him know she loves only him. Yet, she can verbally slap the wit out of a man with her superior intelligence, reminding him she’s in full control of her self, him and the situation at hand.

Scandal promotes the “Intelligent, Financially Independent, Strong Minded Women”

by displaying the true nature of a strong woman as one who knows her mental superiorities and embraces them and her femininity in a mutually exclusive fashion.
Who doesn’t down play her intelligence to appease the ever-fragile male ego.

Who doesn’t bite her tongue.
It shows a woman doesn’t have to follow every statement she makes to a man with a girly giggle or an “lol”, as a way to lighten up her intelligent assertions.

Who doesn’t have to passive-aggressively respond to a man under her breath, as a way to avoid his father-like discipline of her not “knowing her role and staying in it”.

Olive Pope is a role model to girls everywhere, letting them know, the biggest, most value body part on a woman is her brain.

3. The pulsating pearl of POWER is played with perfectly.

Women are like genres of film.
As the plot thickens, not all genres climax the same way.

Male privilege teaches males that all women climax the same.
This is why many males focus on the climax of their own film, while showing little to no concern with if their woman’s film ends with a roaring crescendo or with a somber whimper five minutes after the opening credits.

In reality, what makes one woman’s storyline come… to a juicy, dramatic conclusion, may leave another woman with an unexpected cliff hanger, leading to an unsatisfying, DRY conclusion.
Scandal offers many female viewers what they may seldom get in their bedroom, POWER as an aphrodisiac.

Sometimes a strong, powerful woman wants to take control with her power.
Sometimes, she wants control taken from her by a powerful man she can trust, who will always respect her.

Olivia Pope is that powerful woman.
Putting her power on display as a situation handler on Capitol Hill makes her toes curl. Having her power intimately taken by the most powerful man in the free world makes her power pulsate.

Sweet women crave affection like candy.
Don’t offer her mild, vanilla intimacy when she wants to her palate fed DARK, chocolate with a WILD berry kick.
An intelligent woman with high fashion of thought & unique flavor can not be rushed to flow.
Like wine, she must be savored. Sip slow. Taste. Swallow. She should feel your throbbing intellect digging deep inside the walls of her pulsating mind well before she feels your embrace.

Women don’t need their sexuality defined or dictated to them by a man. Society ignorantly considers a woman who embraces her sexuality a “whore” “slut” or “THOT”. Knowing everyone is a sexual being, Ms. pope embraces her sexuality and does not allow it to define her.

4. Fierce outfits and stylish wardrobes make consistent cameos.

Women don’t dress fierce for a man. She dresses fierce for her self. Her sense of fashion is her self-expression. She doesn’t wear make-up to hide behind her insecurities. Her face is a canvas, beat to paint how her feelings & emotions look to her.

Olivia Pope’s character is no different. Even as a classy business women, purse, tote, heel, blouse and skirt game stays as on point as her hair style. Yet, she does it for herself. Not for attention. Not for likes, nor to attract a man. This is why she could get any man she wants. Nothing attracts a man more than chasing something intriguing, with substance that is not chasing him.

5. Showing Black Women in a powerful, classy, un-ratchet light is done effortlessly, which is extremely rare in Hollywood

Usually Hollywood casts Brown Skinned Women as manly, homely, bipolar, masculine characters. Brown skinned women are not often highlighted in media, commercials or films as beautiful and intelligent like Ms. Olivia Pope’s character.

It’s subtle, but they’re always cast as the “crazy” “over emotional” “militant” and “manly” sistah-girl. Yet, the writer & creator of Grey’s Anatomy, Shonda Rhimes, has written and created in Scandal a showcase for the Brown Skinned Beauty Kerry Washington to play a sex symbol, with amazing intelligence & POWER. She is everything a mentally mature man of any race could want in a wife. Strong. Funny. Talented. Intelligent. Great smile. Ambitious and mmmmm, that BODY though. Looking like a delicious, chocolate dipped strawberry.

This fall, ABC debuts yet another series penned & created by Nubian writer Ms. Rhimes, “How To Get Away With Murder” starring mocha beauty Viola Davis as a law professor who with her students becomes entwined in a murder plot. It debuts in Scandals old time slot Thursdays at 10:00 p.m. With Grey’s Anatomy at 8pm and Scandal moving to its new time slot at 9pm, thursday nights have become the Shondaland trifecta night.

6. Female viewers are able to explore risqué role play & taboo fantasies from the comfort of their homes

The thought of exchanging power with the President of the United States aroused Olivia Pope’s intrigue so much, she chose to have an affair with a married man she worked under.
While this choice may be impractical to some, the thought of exploring taboo fantasies can be a turn-on to a sexually frustrated woman, having them feel ways they never thought they could.

Many women have never experienced a true orgasm. They learn to become as good of an actor in the bedroom as Kerry Washington is on Scandal. Even the women who do orgasm, very often achieve it during intimacy by fantasizing about being somewhere else, or in a scenario with someone else. Which raises the question:

Is it cheating to fantasize about being intimate with someone else while having relations with your spouse?

7. Drama-free women get to quench their thirst for drama vicariously

Just because a woman likes to watch a show with an insane dose of drama, like Scandal, does not mean she is messy and likes much drama in her personal life. It’s all about balance. Sometimes a classy, drama-free person can use a form of art to contrast their character, making it stronger. Other times, messy people with a life full of drama love to watch shows with much drama, so they feel validated. Either way, those cliffhangers at the end of each episode of Scandal always leave you wanting so much more!

8. It tackles topics often swept under the rug, like Domestic Violence & rape

Yesterday, NFL player Jonathan Dwyer was arrested for breaking his wife’s nose for refusing his sexual advances. The Arizona Cardinals running back head butted his 27-year-old wife in front of their child, causing his wife to flee the state immediately after the incident.

1 of every 3 women are physically or sexually abused at some point in their lives. Unfortunately, these abuse crimes against women are rarely reported and seldom prosecuted. This is not by accident.

Principalities of darkness in high places intentionally discourage women to speak out against abuse to perpetuate the lie that women are inferior to men.

Athletes like Ray Rice and Floyd Maywether Jr. can get slaps on the wrist for punching a woman, when they would get YEARS thrown at them for punching a man, because lack of punishment for a hate crime against a woman is used to intimidate women into feeling they have no voice to speak against their abuser.

Scandal laughs at this notion, creating a universe where men & women can both be strong and both co-exist. Come to Oliva Pope with a domestic violence or rape case, and she will take it as serious as a heart attack.

9. Ladies love suspense

The thriller of solving a suspense or mystery gives life to an intelligent woman.
A woman’s love for detection and problem solving rivals her love for chocolate. And that’s saying a mouth full.

When she first meets a man, her cyber stalker ass has no hesitation to background check his Facebook, google his name and phone number, and cross-reference his social networks to ascertain his TRUE relationship status, if he has any children, as well as his characteristics and attributes. By the time a woman agrees to go on a first date with you, she knows substantially more about you than you know about her.

A CSI team has nothing on a woman’s intuition. A woman knows the answer to a question she asks a man before she even asks us. She just wants to see of we will be honest with her. This is why a man should never lie to a woman, she knows. Trust me.

Women are DEEP thinkers by nature. They will stay up all night, playing out scenarios in their head about what “would” happen if she did this, or what “might” happen if she did that. There’s something therapeutic to a woman about watching an episode of Scandal with her phone in one hand and a container of ice cream in the other.

10. Kerry. Ms. Washington if you’re nasty.

Kerry Washington is the truth. Not just her breathtaking beauty. Not just the fact she’s one of the rare celebrities who keeps her private live private. She is a woman who stands for truth.

Toting a purple purse for a magnanimous purpose, the star of Scandal released a PSA this week for the 2014 Allstate Foundation Purple Purse Program, a cause championed to raise awareness about domestic violence and financial abuse.

“One in four women will be a victim of domestic violence,” Kerry says in the Purple Purse PSA. “Finances are almost always a weapon of choice. Taking away access to cash, destroying credit, jeopardizing jobs; financial abuse leaves invisible bruises that can take decades to heal.”

Financial abuse happens in 98% of all cases of domestic violence. Conversely, this silent abuse is not exclusive to sufferers of domestic violence.

In the Black & Latin community, it is far too common for parents to financially abuse their children, unbeknownst to them. The sweetest parents have used their 10-year old child’s name to take out a mortgage, page bills or apply for a credit card, because they ruined their own credit first.

An estimated 500,000 children have had their identities stolen by a parent, according to ID Analytics, which sells identity fraud protection.

Most children don’t find out until they become an adult and try to get a loan for college, buy a house or a car, only to find out their credit was trashed by the person who gave them life. Their parents.

Financial abuse often goes unreported, because it is so embarrassing to bring charges against someone you know so intimately, whether biblically or biologically.
Should a child report their parent to fix their credit? Or remain silent and begin adulthood with a damaged credit score?

While nearly 80% of Americans have never heard of financial abuse as a form of domestic violence, many know this great country was founded on slavery. What often goes ignored is the fact this country was founded on two types of slavery, the selling and trading of Africans, and the selling and trading of Women.

Less than a century ago, all women in America were considered “property” of their husband, sold to them by their fathers for a “dowry”.
Women were not even the legal guardians of their own children they gave birth two. They were seen as both intellectually and financially incompetent compared to a male. Although these laws no longer exist in America, this thought pattern is still alive and well.

Coward males use the threat of abuse to keep a woman playing submissive to him, stroking his flaccid ego. “I will ruin you,” these cowards will often say.

Some cowards only approach women who live with their mothers and are not in control of their finances. He will offer to take her in for free, knowing as long as he is in control of her lodging, she will feel obligated to pretend she loves him, staying loyal to her financial abuser in a loveless relationship.

Some cowards will sell a woman a dream, saying they can be a “power-couple” only to move in with her, then physically abuse her, so he can live off money and lodging she earned, with no help from him.

Principalities of darkness love to promote abuse against women and children, not solely out of hate, not only out of control.

Abuse against women and children are spiritual warfare.

Baphomet worshipers are receive life from taking power and extracting cosmic energy from women and children.
Why women? Because she is the closet being to the Divine Creator, chosen to be the carrier of life. Chosen to have souls travel through her, praying to be born through her womb.

Eugenicists, Luciferians, and disciples of The Knights Templar know this. That is why they worship the she-goat, Baphomet.
The practice of extracting cosmic energy from genuine women is long documented, dismissed as “conspiracy theory” in recent times, only because every U.S. president ever born is a part of this bloodline.

When you see Kerry’s Washington’s character Olivia Pope displaying her power and femininity at the chagrin of the US President in an episode of scandal this fall, smile knowing this is a proclamation to genuine women everywhere, letting them know, they have one of the most powerful forms of energy in this universe, the “God-given ability” to not only give birth, but to give LIFE, speak life and be life.

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You only face so much PAIN as proof of your POWERFUL Purpose [Motivational Video]

Posted on September 12, 2014 by Ebrahim Aseem

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Why Women are so ATTRACTED to BAD Boys & Friend Zone GOOD Guys

Posted on September 4, 2014 by Ebrahim Aseem

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Good guys get put in the friend zone, because they do not respect a woman enough to be honest and expose their flaws to her. This is where the ‘bad boy’ has the ‘good guy’ beat. By not hiding that fact he tends to be an asshole at times, he is showing her he’s not afraid to be somewhat honest with her, even if his honestly exposes his flaws.

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The bad boy may be an asshole, but at least she knows where he’s coming from. She has no idea where this ‘good guy’ is coming from. She grew up in a world full of boys who dog women. All of a sudden a guy is going to come swoop in her life respecting her? In her mind, she wonders, “my own brothers treat me like trash, why the hell are you being so nice to me?” She doesn’t trust it for the life of her. She thinks he is playing her.

You know what women hate more than a disrespectful asshole? A man who fronts, pretending to be so much of a ‘good guy’ in the beginning, only to switch up in the end.

Those one-dimensional corny lines they use are a dead give away.

[good guy]: Wyd?
[Strong Woman]: nothing, laying down.
[good guy]: without me? 😉
[Strong Woman]: * -_- slaps forehead. throws phone. Pours gasoline on phone. Lights phone on fire. Delete guy’s number from phone.

A male who behaves passive-aggressively is so unattractive to a woman. There’s nothing ‘good’ about a guy blowing up a woman’s phone, then when she doesn’t text back, saying, “oh, well I guess I’ll just stop bothering you then :(” What a wimp. This is not being a ‘good guy’ it is being a pain in the ass. Just because a woman has a vagina, does not mean a guy should behave like one with her. No strong woman wants a man to roll over for her, she wants a man who is strong like her, one who can sharpen her iron with his.

When a ‘good guy’ is way too nice to a woman for no apparent reason, she will put him in the friend zone solely based on suspicion.

Imagine a coworker following you to your car after work, carrying two dozen red long stem roses, saying, ‘I bought these for you, because I recognize your fragrance.’ Next, they pull out a 24-karat-gold charm bracket with their great-grandmother’s wedding ring on it and saying,

‘My great-granny died in the holocaust, anne if I can be Frank, I want you to wear this as a symbol of my undying appreciation for the jewel you are.’ What would you do? You would reject them and their gift. Is it good? Yes, it’s also creepy and undeserved.

Strong women get annoyed when guys give them undeserved admiration. When he gives her a level of ‘good’ she has yet to EARN, it makes her sick to her stomach, as she knows he’s being disingenuous. If he was really ‘good’, he’d value himself and her enough to reserve special treatment for when she’s EARNED it.

Despite an obvious lack of relationship skills, manners, respect for women and ability to commit to only one, the asshole is not afraid to show a woman his vulgar sense of humor. Good guys wrongly assume a woman with integrity doesn’t like to laugh at inappropriate things from time to time. This is why his boring ass gets friend zoned. There is nothing ‘good’ about a guy lacking spontaneity and boring a woman to death.

If you’re a woman who has only been attracted to ‘bad boys’, this does not mean you like assholes, you just might be attracted to confident, outgoing men, with a lil dangerous, spontaneous side to him. Unfortunately, ‘bad boys’ only pretend to posses these characteristics. If they truly possessed them, they wouldn’t have the need to insecurely play women. A bad boy needs multiple women, because he knows he lacks the ability to keep ONE woman stimulated on every level.

A mentally ascended MAN, can blow both your mind & your back out, But you keep ignoring warning signs & giving 2nd chances to that lame “bad boy” hoping he’ll “change” into his “potential”? Oh.

The remedy is not remove a ‘good guy’ from your friend zone to date, in fact, destroy your friend zone. The premise is insane. A true friend is rare. A true friend is a representation of the person you want to be. A friend is not one you place in a ‘undatable zone’.

Some people subconsciously keep people they’re un-attracted to around as a friend to stroke their ego. A friend zone is a weak-minded woman’s little ‘self esteem team’ comprised of good guys she let’s take her out for a free meal & buy her gifts. They are guys she can rely on to text her long paragraphs of admiration, whenever the ‘bad boy’ she really like short texts her and pays her no attention, because he is too busy playing the ‘bad boy’ role to impress the girl he really likes. This is a cycle of fakery.

The ironic truth is a ‘good guy’ and a ‘bad boy’ are actually the same person. They are two inverse forms of a persona insecure males play to attract women. He knows he can’t approach every woman the same, because they all respond to different things. With some women he plays ‘bad boy’ and with others he plays ‘good guy’. The role a male portrays to a woman is a manifestation of what he assumes she wants in a man.

‘Bad boys’ play on the fact some women like this type of man. He will constantly ignore her, short text her, sleep with multiple women in her face and starve her of attention, because he knows when you neglect a weak-minded woman, it only makes her like you more. She sees how a male treats her as a representation of her worth, so she will give more to a male who gives her so little, to prove to herself she didn’t make the wrong decision by choosing to give her heart to him in he first place.

A guy may be the bad boy you’re attracted to, but if he can’t give you constant reassurance you are his only one, he’s not the man for you.

A man may be the good guy you think you need, but if he can’t make your mind drip wet before he even touches your body, he’s not the man for you.

A woman’s mind is a pearl, vibrate that pearl with your vibe. Stimulate it via mental penetration. No woman wants to teach a grown man how to trEAT her like a treasure. Dive DEEP inside her mind, until her thoughts bust & flow all over your lips, her words riding your eardrums.‬

The way to make a woman bust is to penetrate her mind first. Hold her attention still with your loquaciousness & ease deep inside the lips of her soul, until her heart pulsates & drips wet blood through her veins, felt all over her body. A man on a woman’s highest mental level can make her condensate before even touching her, observe her body & know the exact notes to play to take her to the bridge, if you will.

Good guys and bad boys are too one-dimensional to achieve this. They are method actors play a role, only able to hit one note, unable to give a woman a multiple crescendo score.

A mentally mature man is too flawed to be considered a good guy, only because he is too real. He will not agree with everything a woman says, he will respect it, while having his own mind, yet he will not tell a woman to “shut up” outside the bedroom like a bad boy, instead, he will respectfully state his opinion.

A mentally mature man is tactful, yet inappropriately honest. He is serious yet vulgarly humorous. He is respectful to a woman’s body, yet romantically aggressive with a woman’s body. He can be gentle and soft one minute and romantically aggressive the next, because he knows a woman is not a thing or form of matter that is absolute. Her mind, her wants and her needs change, depending on how she feels at the time.

I am not perfect, I am extremely flawed and so unsatisfied with myself. Yet, I love myself too much to wear a good guy/bad boy mask, just to be accepted by a woman. Truth is, a mentally mature man is more respectful than a good guy can ever pretend to be, and more dangerous than a woman can even imagine a bad boy to be. Recently, I confessed the following to an intelligent young woman I like,

‘You don’t want to date me. Trust. I’m not as Nice as you think. I’m not a good guy as you may assume. I’m pretty rough and romantically aggressive. I like to respectfully manhandle a woman’s body during intimacy and make her mind submissive to me in the bedroom. I like wrapping my cuddle around my woman’s neck. Playing in her hair, rubbing and caressing her scalp, then wrapping it around my hands twice & playfully pulling it. Talking vulgar with my deep voice in her ear, whispering in it all the things I will do to her. Call me crazy, but I like a strong-minded woman who can take a little pain and find her pleasure from it.

If that’s not being a good guy, I couldn’t care less. Any guy can say he is good. I learned women don’t listen to a man’s words only, they listen to our actions. If my words don’t match my actions, how can you take me seriously? To me, a man does not care what subjective adjective others place him in, good or bad. He possesses the self-confidence to allow his actions to speak and define his worth

Many believe there are two types of men: good guys who respect women and bad boys who toy with a woman’s heart. This idea is erroneous. A true man is not one-dimensional, defined solely by how he treats a woman he sleeps with. What about how he treats his sister? His daughter? His mother? How can a man have a grandmother he never calls, or visits to see if she is ok? How can a man have a grandpa he never takes to a football game or a matinée. Yet, he’s a “good guy” because he is nice to a woman he wants to sleep with? I call b.s. I learned how to speak life into a woman, by spoiling my sisters with love first.

If a Woman has a brother, she should never feel sad & alone.

She should never feel so frustrated with life, love & the way a man treats her with lack of loyalty, because she should always have her brother to lean on. If you are not married, your sister should be the woman who is number one priority in your life. Not your self-proclaimed “side hoes”. Even if you DO have a wife, your sister is your twin.

You were put here to protect your sister. No man should ever be able to disrespect your sister, abuse her or play with her heart like it’s an Xbox controller, because you are supposed to be your sister’s strength & her protection.

Never be over protective of your sister. Yet, it is your job to show your sister how she deserves to be treated by how you spoil her & how you treat women. It’s our job as brothers to keep our sisters’ confidence higher than her heels. Did you know your sister often times feels very lonely? Did you know she locks herself in her room and cries, because she feels like she can’t trust anyone. Where the hell are you when your sister needs you?

Take your sister out on dates. A Woman should never be so bored and lonely everyday, when she has brothers who can take her places. Shower your sister with attention. Buy your sister what she needs. Spoil your sister with love, so she doesn’t go from guy to guy seeking to find the love of a man. We have to treat our sister like a princess, so she will never settle for a man treating her less than a queen.

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How to Bake a Quake with Plates

Posted on August 28, 2014 by Ebrahim Aseem

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Dark angels play HAARP. The devil was a musician, playing horns to sound evil tunes into fruition.

The governing Gods who control the greatest weaponry & armed forces in the world have just adopted a new method of warfare; quake baking.

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Quake baking is the act of using climate control technology to create man-made un-natrual catastrophes, like the Haiti & Chile earthquakes of 2010.

Earthquakes, hurricanes, floods & droughts, as well as rain, thunder stores can all be provoked by quake baking.

Governments worldwide have become snow-globe shakers, developing technology to manipulate the weather.

The US government is mastering these weapons of climate control through the High Frequency Active Auroral Research Program (HAARP).

HAARP’s instrument, the Ionospheric Research Instrument, (IRI) is used to manipulate ionized atoms in the ionosphere by zapping electromagnetic bolts into the atmosphere.

Ionized atoms reflect electromagnetic radio waves back to earth, generating the seismic waves capable of triggering an earthquake.

HAARP’s musicians consider their site a “research facility to conduct pioneering experiments in ionosphere phenomena.”

The HAARP research stations in Gakona, Alaska is jointly funded by the US Air Force, the US Navy, the Universe of Alaska & the Defense Advanced Research Projects Agency.

In 1995, researcher & political activist Dr. Nick Begich co-wrote, “Angels Don’t Play This Haarp” which documents HAARP’s weapons of climate control & their quake baking abilities. According to Dr. begich:

HAARP is a “super-powerful radiowave-beaming technology that lifts areas of the ionosphere by focusing a beam & heating those areas.

Electromagnetic waves then bounce back onto earth and penetrate everything, living & dead (including humans).”

This year alone, 117 earthquakes have reached at least a 6.0 magnitude, including the 6.1 quake that struck Napa, California, rattling the vine country on August 24, 2014.

Wether or not our government has played its HAARP, using it as a weapon of climate control against it’s on citizens remains to be seen.

What is obvious is our government’s lack of concern with fatally manipulating Mother Nature & the natural weather of our respective climate in the name of scientific curiosity & in the spirit of playing-god.

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Black LIFE has NO VALUE. You’re more valuable dead Nigger

Posted on August 21, 2014 by Ebrahim Aseem

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I don’t like when beautiful women approach me & tell me, they only date Black men like me, they love my culture & how strong of a black man I am.

Then they turn around & talk degrading about Black women, saying ALL of them are ghetto, ratchet, loud, mean, ugly, weave-wearing, rude, classless women with an attitude. So wait… you love me, a Black man, yet you hate black women? Guess what,

I’m only alive, because a Black woman gave birth to me. Not all Black Women lack class. A Black woman raised me to be the man I am, so if you hate Black Women, don’t try to act like you love Black men. No. You just love black penis. Be honest with yourself. I could never date a woman who hates black women. Racism is NOT sexy.

If we had a baby would you hate our daughter? She would be a Black woman. So, you value a Black man enough to date, sleep with & have a pretty mixed baby by one. Yet, you don’t value a Black man enough to stand up, speak out and fight for one?

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Am I still your nigger? Nigger means object with a dead mind. Why is my only value to you my penis? A physical object with a throbbing head, yet void of a mind. Why am I only valuable to you dead, laying in the street for hours with your bullets in my brain, or hanging from a tree, as strange fruit.

I would prefer you call me nigger to my face, than systematically treat me like I am your nigger. Pointing to a Black President you hand-picked as your justification why racism is a non issue, means nothing when KKK members are migrating to Ferguson like crows to protect White businesses from the peaceful protests of Black residents.

In reality, it is not merely about racism. It is deeper than racism. This is classism and fascism, disguised as racism. supremest love to love money more than they love to hate another race. When you see these White supremest sheep summoning martial law, know it is really a fascist wolf in racist clothing.

White supremacists can see the value in Blacks. Their house is filled with African art. They just don’t want YOU to know your worth. Active your pineal gland and remember who you are then remind them of this:

You hate Black blood, yet nano-portions of it runs through your veins, as life originated in Africa, earth’s nucleus. You hate Black blood, yet it is the universal blood donor “O”. You hate Black blood, yet just like your slave owners predecessors, you use the organs of Blacks to receive organ transplants.

Every week, 2 black people are killed by a White police officer. It’s not about racism. They are repo men. They want to steal our organs.

That is why we are being murdered by rogue police. Our organs are Black gold. The wait list for an organ donor is too long for these VIPers to wait. So they research you, find a match, blood type, kidney type, arrange a murder and steal your organs in a way John Q never knew possible.

On June 3, 2013, the US Supreme Court upheld “Katie’s Law” which makes it legal for police to collect your DNA upon arrest, stating the law is not a violation of fourth Amendment rights.

Katie’s law allowed the creation of a national DNA database, where persons with money, power and influence can browse for an organ match and arrange for an organ snatch either before or after an officer involved shooting, like the murder of Michael Brown.

Black & Hispanics together are 60% of all prisoners, yet, only a quarter of the population. The prison system has become a factory for free labor and organs.

This black market for Black organs raises the question: how many murders of Black people in this country at the hands of White cops or other Blacks are sparked by a bounty put on their organs?

When you are told Black on Black crime is the number one killer of African-Americans, you must understand this is inverse inception. That myth is perpetuated to make you FEAR, LIMIT your success, STRESS your worries & DOUBT your self. So you won’t realize the power of the Law of attraction Thoughts are things. State your intent to the universe, & it will yield unto you all that you want.

The number one killer of Blacks, Latinos, Filipinos, Asians & so called “minorities” in America is….. ABORTION. In the United States, More minority babies are aborted than birthed. Let that sink in.

The Plan for population control by the World Health Organization & eugenics is not some “new order”. This is the same genocide that was the aim for Slavery, the Holocaust, man-made earthquakes in Haiti and ionosphere induced tsunamis in Indonesia. HAARP created unnatural disasters through quake baking and now, population control through Planned Parenthood. The harvest is now.

The same twisted minds who conceived eugenics & Inspired Hitler’s
genetic cleansing in Germany, are the same supremacists who created planned parenthood, to be a biological weapon to control population, sterilize, & genetically cleanse U.S. citizens.

Slavery did not end with the emancipation proclamation. This Maafa genocide lives subtly through birth control as population control. The American Eugenics society changed the name of their organization to “Planned Parenthood” in efforts to hide their true goal of population control fueled by White supremacy.

The most powerful way to wipe out a group of people, is not with a gun, or a missile. It is to have them, walk into a building on their own volition, one by one, & allow a doctor to kill their baby in the womb. The baby is pulled out, & laid on a table to choke & suffocate to death by torture. The aim of abortion is to retrieve valuable stem cells from the unborn fetus before the third trimester, proving to eugenicists, a Black person has more value dead than alive. This is the epitome of a nigger. A dead object, fit to serve its master.

Black life has value to the scientists playing God who value our organs & stem cells enough to kill us for it, so Black life must have value to us. When we degrade our women, only valuing her booty, we are treating the carriers of life as a nigger, object with a dead mind.

When we wittingly rib each other for the 50 shades of Brown we come in, placing more value on light skin and less value on dark skin, we are paying homage to apartheid.

It is not about Black vs. White, it is about the 1% vs. Free Thinkers. Do not be fooled into think the color of a body’s skin is a reflection of who they really are, the spirit within. The color of the car my spirit drives has nothing to do with my worth as a spirit.

It is a poisonous concept that every race except Caucasians are viewed as possessing one-dimensional valuable. Asians are more than math and connivence stores. Blacks are more than sports & entertainment. Latins are more than hard workers for cheap labor. Jewish people are more than outstanding legal council. Pacific Islanders are mor than mani/pedis & eye brow threading. White Supremacy is about treating us all like niggers, an object with a dead mind.

You are being shown you have no value to BREAK your spirit, because among you is the next MLK, the next Kennedy, the next Moses, the next prophet & savior.

You are being assassinated before you reach greatness. Why wait to assassinate a powerful figure after they change the world, when you can kill the will of your threat before they rise up against you united and fight.

You are only targeted by your enemy, because they clearly see your value as a threat to their existence. If your life was not divinely chosen for a purpose, the enemy would not be so committed to destroying you.

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Why WHITE Privilege does NOT exist, Ferguson is a Police State & Black on Black crime is an anomaly

Posted on August 14, 2014 by Ebrahim Aseem

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A system cannot fail those it was never built to protect.

On August 19, 78 were arrested in Ferguson Mo. After an over night protest, just hours before it was announced a Grand jury would begin hearings Wednesday to see if Michael Brown’s shooter, Officer Darren Wilson, should be charged in Brown’s death.

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If you believe EVERYTHING the media says, you are a puppet. A Zombie. Mentally brain-dead. You’re the walking dead. The same MEDIevAL Warriors that killed people with Swords back then, are the same MEDIA (worldwideweb) who kill sheeple with wordS now. This proves it is imperative we as citizens remain mentally strapped. Cock back your MIND & be ready to blow, load your magazine with the TRUTH, then shoot.

While it is impossible to prove Michael Brown’s murder at the hands of a police officer occurred, because of racism, it is also impossible to rule out the Black teen was shot by a White officer, because of the resulting effects of White Privilege.

When you are fed evasive excuses as to why White Privilege does not exist, simply direct that impervious, miseducated person to Peggy McIntosh’s magnanimous verbiage.

“As a white person, I realized I had been taught about racism as something that puts others at a disadvantage, but had been taught not to see one of its corollary aspects, white privilege, which puts me at an advantage,” admitted Caucasian-American feminist & anti-racism activist Peggy McIntosh in her 1988 article, White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack, where she confessed, “whites are carefully taught not to recognize white privilege, as males are taught not to recognize male privilege.”

When you look back in history, privileged sheeple who found themselves in the group think majority on an issue were proven dead wrong by the subsequent generation.

Today is tomorrow’s history. The majority of what we are taught in school, via media & TV is the exact opposite. This is inverse inception.

How inceptive your enemy has convinced you you’re a minority, when in reality there are more of US than there are of them.

We are free thinkers. The most insidious slavery was not the Black slave trade, nor the Holocaust, it is mental slavery.

Our subconscious is trained to assimilate itself to our oppressor, via mnemonics. The world runs as a machine, only because citizens have become self lobotomizing droids, void of free thought.

The mass media told you an unarmed, 18-year-old Michael Brown was gunned down on August 9th, 2012, by a Ferguson police officer in St. Louis, Mo. after the Black teen fought with the officer and reached for the officer’s gun.

The mass media told you an unardmed Ezell Ford, was shot face down & killed by Los Angeles police two days after Michael Brown was killed by police in Ferguson, Mo suffered mental illness and his family’s lawyer plans to file a federal civil rights lawsuit against the LAPD.

Yet, there is a reason you learned more details about these cases and others like them on your own than from your favorite news channel.

Your oppressor has no intention to withhold truth from you, in fact, they WANT you to find out truth on your own, so the audacity will place you in a state of alert-fear. This is to use citizens’ fear of conspiracy against their own mind, to create a state of hysteria & fear.

Guns, tear gas and military-style weaponry pale in comparison to the greatest weapon formed against free thinkers, fear.

Fear preludes the frontal cortex from fully connecting, allowing one to be used as a droid-being, void of independent conception, heavily reliant upon systematic inception. If you fear your government, your opposer has you right where they want you, in fear.

There are but two forms of energy in the universe, fear and peace (love). Thoughts are things. Any thought formed by fear will conceive futile fruit with an expiration date. Any thought formed by peace (love) will convince power-yielding fruit, manifesting change and growth into fruition.

Your opposition’s victory is insistent upon your FEAR. Your freedom from a Police State is insistent upon overcoming all fear, to break the cognitive chains of mental slavery with ACTION.

Tricking a soul into thinking it is being oppressed simply because of the color of the human clothes their spirit wears is mental slavery.

Fooling a spirit into thinking they can’t live without the census, tracking device smart phone you created to keep their third eye blind & their penal gland unactivated is mental slavery.

Deceiving a people into believing Black on Black crime is an anomaly, while Italian on Italian crime is just “mobsters being mobsters” is mental slavery, racially demeaning to all races and asinine.

Victimizing a person of your own race is not a crime epidemic. Police maliciously & militarily victimizing peaceful citizens they’re sworn to protect is a crime epidemic.

Why are you acting so surprised racism exists? Are you THAT naive, you don’t understand a country founded on racism, built on the backs of slaves can never be anything other than what it was founded on, unless a metamorphosis takes place? Most people are NOT racist. Yeah, see White Quakers helped black slaves ESCAPE slavery, but many are unaware of this and subconsciously think everyone who is differnt than us are racist, because we are taught to hate more what we don’t understand, and fear what we cannot conquer.

You can plant the best seeds, but if it is sown in dry, desolate, negative soil, those good seeds will never come to fruition. Focus less on complaining about evil & focus MORE on feeding your spirit. Whatever you FEED, put thoughts & energy into, you reap more of, because the Harvest is now.

Keep complaining & only speaking & thinking about negativity and watch negativity will be all you will ever reap into fruition. And if you do, you are just as NEGATIVE as the ones you complain are racist.

They want you to act ignorant. They want you to act like evil beasts like them. Don’t give them the satisfaction. Remain HUMBLE but POWERFUL. Stay peaceful, yet unstoppable. Be law-abiding, yet uncontrolled by the system.

This is meant to be. So as it was in heaven, so will it be here. Judgment day is coming and there is only ONE judge. I pray you remember that, and don’t plant seeds of hate in your heart, show you are BETTER than them and watch freedom come to fruition. In order for freedom to exist, the foundation that has been laid in cities like Ferguson of a police state must cease from existence.

When did using military weaponry against peaceful citizens become a justified form of keeping peace? When did police officers violating the fourth amendment become acceptable? When did peaceful protest become a threat to democracy? The Boston Tea Party was a peaceful protest this great country would not have been founded without. Look deeper.

To hide the truth from us, we are saturated with the exact inverse of truth. The reason 1% of the population owns 99% of the wealth is, by hiding knowledge from people. Starving a people of knowledge creates division and distention as it puts a premium on intel. Saturating mass media & social network media with images of police inhumanly brutalizing Black citizens is done intentionally, to create tension between races. Do not acquiesce to your opposer’s plans to provoke a race war.

Police killing citizens is not a “Black thing” nor is it merrily a form of racism, it is a threat to democracy. The only way we can be freed as a human race from mental slavery is for all of us to fight it, Black and White, hand in hand, because the only true minority in this world is the few people running an oppressive system compared to the large amount of people being oppressed.

“If you are neutral on situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor.” – Desmond Tutu.

Nothing in history was ever changed, because people waited for someone else to take a stand, inaction is agreement, hesitance is submission. Whenever we are made aware of an injustice, we must ask ourselves, “what can i do to end this oppression? What am I going to do about it? Peggy McIntosh wrote,

“Describing white privilege makes one newly accountable. As we in women’s studies work to reveal male privilege and ask men to give up some of their power, so one who writes about having white privilege must ask, ‘having described it, what will I do to lessen or end it?'”

Just as inheritance unclaimed is not absolute inheritance, privilege unclaimed is not absolute privilege. Yet, even unclaimed privilege is always available to the heir, if ever they opt to use to their advantage.

“I have come to see white privilege as an invisible package of unearned assets that I can count on cashing in each day, but about which I was “meant” to remain oblivious,” McIntosh explained. “White privilege is like an invisible weightless knapsack of special provisions, maps, passports, codebooks, visas, clothes, tools , and blank checks.

For me white privilege has turned out to be an elusive and fugitive subject. The pressure to avoid it is great, for in facing it I must give up the myth of meritocracy.”

Race is just a concept; spirits have no race and no gender. No spirit is born hating another solely, because of the skin color of the human clothes that spirit wears.

To view one’s self as a white male or a Black woman is to misvalue the invaluable spirit one possesses. You are not a human being, you are a spirit, being human for a short time.

We are all spirits, wrapped in the human form, like a gift wrapped inside a box. Who cares what color the box is? It’s the treasure inside to be valued, not its container. We are being stripped of our power as spirits, by looking at each other as our race.

All white people are not racist devils. All black people are not uneducated thugs. Our mutual enemy wants us to believe this so we view each other as enemies, instead of allies against our mental oppressor.

Do not be fooled into thinking Michael Brown’s death and Oscar Grant’s death are coincidental occurances. Police brutality and systematic oppression are intentional weapons. You are meant to see innocent people suffer everyday on your idiot box. This is mnemonic weaponry. Your free thinking mind is a threat to your oppressor, so in their eyes, it must be captured and controlled by all means available, including governing officials openly violating the U.S. constitution.

All the officer involved shootings that have taken place since the senseless murder of Oscar Grant at Fruitvale Station have been inspired by a sleeper-agent-awakening-like drug, injected into citizens cellularly, via mnemonics. Which drug is more harmful, the poisonous drug injected into the body? or the poisonous drug injected into the mind? Technology is an addictive drug used to control the mind of citizens.

Through fiber-optics, our TV, computers, tablets and smart phones transmit a frequency that affects us on a sub-atomic level. These frequencies are known as talismans & are used very carefully by corporations & the media in the same way product placement is used in a movie. To sell us a product. Technology is used to sell us an idea. To spark certain emotions in the mind. To awaken certain memories and hateful thoughts in the heart. This is our generation’s call to either mentally awaken and intrinsically ascend or be a droid being, whose mind is controlled, like the minds of officers with unbeknownst hate in their heart are being used to murder unarmed citizens, to provoke civil disunion.

You can only domesticate a tiger for so long, before the beast inside it has to come out and attack to the point of fatality. You can only enslave a panther so long, before it realizes the power it has inside itself is greater when combined with all other panthers, and soon the panther stops hating itself and realizes it was free all along, because the pack was created to be free when united.

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How to tell if your man is on the DOWN LOW

Posted on August 7, 2014 by Ebrahim Aseem

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Why your PornHub addicted man may be on the Down Low:

1. Overly macho, too concerned with impressing males.
2. Insecure or insecurely uses social networks to jealously keep tabs on his woman.
3. Has only one TYPE of woman he’s attracted to
4. Would rather watch porn than make love to a woman.
5. Obsessed with twerking, big butts and butt play.
6. Uninterested in foreplay or romance & only wants to “get his”
7. Spends more time at the gym with the guys than romancing his woman.
8. Always hides his phone like it’s G14 Classified.
9. Speaks to his woman like she is one of his homies.
10. Flashes of abuse and passive aggression

Guys will mess up and have a loyal woman thinking something is wrong with her and a beautiful woman thinking she’s unattractive & less of a woman, simply by how inconsistent he treats her. How a male treats a woman is never a reflection of her worth, it is a projection of his.

“I feel like I’m losing my mind. My abusive boyfriend works w/ my gay friend who told me my man always flirts w/ him at work,” a curvy, breathtakingly beautiful Caucasian woman complained. “My bf is denying it of course, but this would be the second long-term boyfriend who turned out to be gay/bisexual.

I don’t get it. I am a beautiful woman inside & out. Why does this keep happening to me? I never expected to hear that, but it makes sense from his abusive tendencies & cheating ways. A part of me doesn’t want to believe it for my own sanity & possibility to ever trust a man.

He was my best friend for years before we dated. I feel so deceived and can’t help but feel like less of a woman. I gave up so much to be with this man and his sexuality is up in the air. I feel like the devil has consumed my life.”

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Some of the most macho, manly, tall, buff, physically fit, handsome males live double lives of conflict and have not come to terms with their sexuality. This is NOT a woman’s fault, nor is it a result of her not being pretty or attractive enough. Some males are simply unaroused by a female, because he is attracted to other males.

Here are a few key ways to tell if your boyfriend or husband is on the Down Low.

1. Overly macho, too concerned with impressing males.

Some males act like they’re always so annoyed & bored with their woman, always mugging her and telling her to shut up, choosing playing video games and spending time with his homies over being romantic his woman. Yet, when he’s around his male friends, he’s laughing, smiling, joking and giggling. Why would a male be more flirtatious with his homies than he is with his woman, unless, he is on the Down Low.

Males who think being romantic with a woman is “corny” or “soft” “unmanly” or “simp behavior” are simply insecure in their manhood and their sexuality.

When a male is more concerned with proving his manhood to other males and cares more about impressing other males than he cares about being romantically chivalrous with a woman. This is suspect.

2. Insecure or insecurely uses social networks to jealously keep tabs on his woman.

Insecurity in ANY male is a major must avoid at all cost. This type of male will either abuse drugs, abuse alcohol, abuse his woman, or abuse his sexuality.

Not only is it a major turn-off to a woman for a man stalk her social networks, then blow up her phone, complaining about her behavior online, it is also suspect. Being clingy is a red flag, not because it hints at jealousy. A little jealousy let’s a woman know you value her.

However, when a male turns into a CSI investigator, stalks a woman’s Instagram activity, keeps track of when she last used Facebook messenger to see how long she was online, blows up her phone in the middle of the night to keep tabs on her, goes through her tweets, sending her screen shots of her online conversations, it has gone beyond “cute jealousy” into “suspect behavior”.

When a male stalks your social networks, he’s not trying to keep you from cheating nor is he simply being insecure. Two things are taking place here.

(A) He’s using what he feels is ‘stereotypical jealous behavior’ to cause dissension, so you will be hesitant to question his sexuality. This is very slick and cunning. He wants you to think he’s so concerned with you communicating with other men, like he’s so jealous of your attractiveness and sexuality, so you will never question HIS sexuality.

(B) He has a guilty conscience and is stalking your social networks to see if any of his gay lovers and past girlfriends who’ve previously found out about his sexuality are contacting you.

3. Has only one TYPE of woman he’s attracted to

Heterosexual men do not have a “type” of woman who “only her specific body type” makes him aroused. Let’s be honest; a guy will sleep with a kangaroo looking female if she has a working vagina.

The truth is many of us barely know what we like. Many of us like whoever likes us and lack the ability to turn down a woman of any body type who is pretty and giving us attention. The reason some males need a woman with a “specific body type” in order for him to be aroused, is because he’s simply not naturally aroused by a woman’s femininity.

Heterosexual men are extremely attracted to women with curves and a nice shaped butt; however they’re also extremely attracted to women with slim, petite model frames, with a defined collar bone and a humble shaped butt; because quite frankly, women of all body types are beautiful, as they posses what all heterosexual men are really attracted to; vagina. That attraction exists to ensure the continuation of the human race.

This is why some males ONLY are attracted to curvy women with a fat round butt, or are ONLY attracted to a skinny woman with absolutely no curves whatsoever, or only attracted to Asian women, or only attracted to short women, that is the ONLY “type” of woman that can arouse him.

If a male regularly gets erectile dysfunction when his woman is wearing the most reveling lingerie, and the only thing that can make him UP for love-making is to watch a very specific type of porn, he may be on the down low.

4. Would rather watch porn than make love to a woman.

Porn addiction can be an indication a male is on the Down Low.
A woman can tell if her boyfriend is secretly on the Down Low by his inability to be aroused by the natural female body. If a woman walks her boyfriend into the bedroom, gently massages his body, kisses his neck, and yet him and his right hand would much rather go in the bathroom together and watch PornHub on his phone than make love to his woman; this could be an indication he’s on the Down Low.

No heterosexual man would choose to have a virtual threesome with his right hand and his PornHub app over making love to his beautiful woman. That’s not “what guys do” it’s not “a guy thing” it’s not “a guy being a guy”, it’s as suspect as it sounds.

No heterosexual male would turn down vagina in favor of pornography. You may be thinking, “Oh, but he’s just not attracted to HIS woman’s body type. He only likes the type with big breast or the type with big butts like in those porn vids.” How do you even know he’s looking at the woman’s body when he watches porn? Yep. Exactly.

A male who has a beautiful woman, flawless looks, flat stomach, curvy figure, nice round butt, who will do whatever he wants in bed and STILL cheats on her is living proof nothing can stop a man from cheating who is simply uncomfortable with his sexuality and is too much of a coward to admit his attraction to women may be in question.

5. Obsessed with twerking, big butts and butt play.

I know what you’re thinking, “I thought all men are obsessed with a Woman who can twerk? Think again. There is only ONE sexual organ on the female body, her vagina. A woman’s breasts and butt are NOT sexual organs. Her breasts sole purpose is to feed a baby, that’s why milk comes out. A woman’s butt has the sole purpose of ejecting waste from her body.

Males who are obsessed with watching twerking videos, Big Booty porn, World Star Hip Hop Honey videos and are only aroused by a woman’s rear end and prefer this over having vaginal sex with a woman; do so, because it reminds him of the type of intercourse he enjoys with his Down Low lover.

This is why males on the Down Low have gay sex with their woman. That is; while he’s having sex with a woman, he is using ONLY positions he uses with his boyfriend, while fantisizing he is having non-vaginal intercourse with someone of the same-sex.

If a male likes his OWN butt played with, that is a huge sign he may be on the Down Low. A heterosexual male would never allow a woman to stick her finger or tongue anywhere near his backside. That’s down low behavior.

6. Uninterested in foreplay or romance & only wants to “get his”

If a male doesn’t have a romantic side with you as his woman: beware; that’s suspect. Heterosexual men love to cuddle and massage their woman’s body, trEATing her body like a fat kid treats a bowl of candy.

Nothing arouses a heterosexual man more than watching, seeing and making a woman climax. It makes his toes curl, it actually makes him erect to witness it. If a male only wants to get his climax and does not care or put forth effort to ensure his woman gets hers, that is suspect.

“I don’t eat pearl cuisine”
“Vaginas are nasty and ugly’.
That is Down Low vernacular. When a male tells a woman he prefers to receive oral sex from a woman over vaginal sex; he’s subconsciously trying to tell you he’s not aroused by the female sex organ.

If a male cannot be aroused by the natural femininity of a woman and her holy grail, without her behaving extremely lustful like a pornstar; that male is either on the down low and hiding it from you or on the Down Low unbeknownst to himself.

7. Spends more time at the gym with the guys than romancing his woman.

Many males who live in the gym admirably dedicating much time to perfecting their physical physique, love the gym so much and yet. Somehow, they do not have the time to take a woman out on a date, show up to a family function or wedding with her as his date, or even text back or call back his woman within a reasonable amount of time, because he’s “so busy putting in work lifting weights at the gym”. B.S.

Many males spend so much time at the gym, because that’s the only place him and his Down Low lover can meet up and “spend time”. Why would a male spend 45 minutes lifting weights and an hour and 15 minutes in the showers or in the gym locker room? It’s because he’s intentionally dropping the soap bar.

You may be thinking, “but can a tall, handsome man who gets the attention of so many women be on the Down Low? When I asked him if he’s in a relationship already, he said no.’ Understand how slick a lying male is. You asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said, “no.” Yet in his mind, he’s thinking, ‘well she didn’t ask me if I had a boyfriend, so technically I answered honestly.’

8. Always hides his phone like it’s G14 Classified.

A huge warning sign is a male who brings his phone everywhere he goes, including the shower and the restroom at a restaurant. Even when he’s asleep; you can’t find his phone and you’re like, “wait did this guy stuff his iPhone in his boxers?” Yes!

The reason he’s hiding his phone is not simply, because he doesn’t want you seeing texts from other women. He doesn’t want you seeing texts from other men and screen shots of male’s body parts in his camera roll.

An un-loyal male with something to hide gets annoyed by a woman searching his phone.

When I am in a relationship, I change my passwords to my woman’s name or nickname, then give her all my passwords, so she feels secure, reassured & never has to wonder.

If a man goes extended periods of time without contacting the woman he is in a relationship with, that is suspect as well. If it has been days, and you have yet to hear from your man who is “away on business” look into the type of “business” he is away on.

Work is never an excuse as to why a man cannot text back, call back or contact his woman. There is wifi everywhere. There are Starbucks and McDonald’s in third world countries. Skype is free. Email is only a wifi signal away. If a male is not contacting a woman, it is because he simply does not want to. No excuses. Either take the hint or investigate. – Ebrahim Aseem

9. Speaks to his woman like she is one of his homies.

This idea in our generation of treating a woman with chivalrous respect being unmanly is ignorant is perpetuated by overly macho males who are suspect. Never call a woman, “bruh” “bro” “nigga” “homie” No! That’s suspect as well. Don’t tell a woman to “man up” and “stop being so emotional”. No, she’s a woman, cater to her emotions; be understanding of her feelings. Treat her like a LADY, not like she’s your homie. Respect her femininity by making her feel safe and secure with your masculinity.

Why is it they can always question you on something, but when you ask them the EXACT SAME questions, you’re so “crazy” “over-emotional” “starting arguments”? Sounds like they have a guilty conscience.

10. Flashes of abuse and passive aggression

While you so many males have their Loyal Woman walking on egg shells, feeling like it’s easier just not to say anything to their temper tantrum throwing ass, there is an understanding man who will have that queen walking on rose pedals, willing to offer her the reassurance he never could.

When a woman is expressing how she feels, telling her to “shut the eff up” is never acceptable. The reason it is so easy for some males to constantly degrade a woman is he has yet to come to terms with the fact he is simply not attracted to a woman. So don’t act surprised knowing your intuition warned you. We don’t want to read your sad story on Valentine’s Day. You knew that man had a man. We don’t want to read your baby shower testimony saying your baby daddy has a sugar daddy. Trust your intuition. Don’t be afraid to ask if he’s ever been with a man before. It’s disrespectful to assume and not ask or project onto him. – Ebrahim Aseem

He wants to just yell, “I’m not attracted to any woman! It’s not you! I’m unsure about my sexuality and I am really scared and don’t understand” but the judgmental way society treats gay men and women scares him into choosing a life on the Down Low, pretending to be attracted to women, while secretly having unprotected sex with men.

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I don’t care if you’re gay, straight, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, religious, atheist, tall, short, fat, skinny, black, white, purple or burnt sienna, if you love yourself, I love you too. But if you hate life enough to lie, hurt and project negativity towards others, stay the hell away from me.

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Maybe if Women didn’t PROVOKE guys by TALKING BACK, they wouldn’t get ABUSED

Posted on July 31, 2014 by Ebrahim Aseem

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Once I saw her forehead begin bleeding, I just lost it. I bawled up my fists, reached out my arms, and pulled, then pushed the body in front of me towards the door.

Everyone in the Starbucks gasped, stared and clinched their fraps, as if they were watching a MMA fight. As I glanced over at the woman, with a hair full of curls, resembling Mufasa’s mane, I noticed she was covered in dollar bills and sweat. A huge red hand print appeared on the left side of her face. I charged toward the same body I pushed seconds earlier, and gored my shoulder into his rib cage.

I hit men who hit women. You like beating up women? Fight a man instead. We can have fun. I’m not just going to sit there and take it. Because that’s what you like don’t you? You feel so powerful punching a woman, knowing the love she has for you will not allow her to hit you back. It makes you feel like a man to take power away from a woman by degrading her, making her trust you, dependent on you, only to break her.

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I have been in a relationship with women who were either physically, sexually or verbally abused prior to me meeting them. Some of the strongest, most beautiful, successful women have been raped, hit, beat up, molested, and verbally degraded by a male in their past. It took all the love in my heart and all the patience in my soul to help these women heal from past wounds, often still open, yet I did it with a smile, because being abused does not take away from a woman’s worth.

A woman is not broken just, because she was abused by a man before. In fact, it proves she is strong. She took a hit and is still standing. She took abuse and is still breathing. Her resilient spirit is so attractive for being able to endure so much pain for so long, and still hold her head high. That is the definition of a strong woman, and that queen deserves nothing less than a king.

A Strong Man never has to abuse, disrespect, yell, curse out or vulgarly raise his voice to get a woman to listen, because he commands & earns her respect with his mentally mature actions. He knows, to hurt a Woman in any way is like cursing yourself & shaming your mother.

“This ain’t your fight man,” the boyfriend yelled, punching me hard in the shoulder, before grabbing my white collared shirt, in efforts to pull me off of him. Once he ripped my shirt, I pushed him against a newspaper stand jabbed him in the cheek, then I hit him with a cascade of combos to his midsection, while simultaneously avoiding his punches.

He hit his girlfriend, so I hit him. He open-palmed smacked the hell out of her, then said, “Bish, I told you not to buy all that junk on my Visa, I ain’t got much available credit.” The smack was louder than his words. She flew three feet, into the cash register, spilling the over-priced coffee she ordered on his card.

After I pushed him outside and started whopping his ass, his girlfriend hit me with her tote, and yelled, “leave him alone!” Seconds later, I heard police sirens. She called the cops on me for protecting her from the very male who had just abused her.

“Some of these females don’t want to get out of an abusive relationship, because they think it’s love when a man hits them,” one guy said, when I shared the story with a group of men at the basketball courts later that day.

“I disagree,” I replied. “They don’t love the abuse, it’s just once a woman invests emotions into loving someone, those emotions are hard to just throw away like they never existed. It takes time to get over someone, time they unfortunately do not have, if that person is abusing them in any way.

Besides, some guys tell a woman, ‘If you tell anyone I hit you, I will make your life a living hell and humiliate you to everyone you know’ so it’s not always that simple for someone to just walk away the moment after they are abused. It takes strategic planning.

The 2nd worst feeling is not knowing rather to GIVE UP or WAIT for them to change The worst feeling is waiting 2+ years only to realize they’ll always stay the same.

To leave an abusive relationship, a person has to be so tired of being degraded, they love them self more than they love that person. They have to give their abuser a false sense of security, like they won’t leave them. Then, when the abuser leaves, they must pack their clothes, electronics and belongings, and leave the abuser with no warning. Fear of embarrassment and judgement from others causes people who get abused to avoid police actions, but the worse thing someone abused can do is keep it a secret, that is an abuser’s greatest weapon.”

“Did you ever consider maybe if women didn’t provoke guys by talking back, they wouldn’t get abused?” one guy asked.

“No, that’s too idiotic for me to consider,” I responded, “because a woman speaking her mind could never provoke a real man to abuse her.

I don’t consider a woman who speaks up for what she thinks as having an attitude, it’s called being Strong Minded. Some males are AFRAID of a Strong minded Woman, so they use manipulation, verbal intimidation and abuse to down play her strength in fear it will trump his false sense of masculinity.

A coward male with low self esteem loves to torment a strong woman with his words, because he is jealous of her strength and wants to break her spirit. He will learn her insecurities, then play on them.

If she is skinny, he will say, ‘Nobody wants your boney ass. You have the body of a eleven year old boy. I only fuck with bad bitches who are thick. Real women have curves, what do you have? You’re lucky I even talk to your plain ass.’

If she is thick, he will say, ‘Nobody wants your fat ass. You have the body of a garbage truck. I only fuck with model bitches who are in shape, I don’t even know what shape you are, you’re shaped like a Hefty bag full of dog shit. You’re lucky I even talk to your morbidly obese ass.’

If she is very pretty, he will say, ‘Nobody wants your stupid ass. Your dumb ass ain’t shit. You’re only good for a nut, nothing more. You’re so worthless. I only fuck with successful bitches, who got their own car, own place and are making major moves in life. What do you have? Nothing, and your dumb ass ain’t even all that cute anyway.’

Notice a weak-minded, insecure, coward male will play on a woman’s insecurity, to rob her of any self confidence she has, in efforts to steal it from her. For the same reason Ursula robed Ariel of her voice in “The Little Mermaid”. A negative person can clearly see your worth, they just don’t want you to see it, because they want to rob you of your light, so they can posses it. People do not merrily envy the things you posses, no they envy your angelic spirit, and they extract energy from your spirit through abuse.

Women are treated like subhumans, judged off of their bodies, like livestock. When she speaks her mind, she is demoted, called crazy, told she is, “trying to be the man” told to “stay in her place, and that her “back talk” is the reason she is single or divorced and unattractive to a man, all of which is untrue.

A woman is not a child, whose retorts or assertions are to be considered “back talk”. Her words hold just as much weight as a man’s. To say, “women talk back” is to insist she is inferior to a male, the very male who relies upon a woman to give him life. If women were inferior to males as a gender, a male would not have to come out of a woman’s womb to be born.

“I feel you,” the guy agreed. “I came out a woman and I love my moms, but you know some of these broads provoke you with that smart mouth on them, to the point you gotta let them know to stay in a woman’s place. That’s not me saying that, its the law of nature. Just like when Sanaa Lathan was talking out the side of her neck and cheating on her good husband in, “The Family that Preys” she got the shit slapped out of her and she deserved it too. I saw that movie with a room full of women, and they all clapped and applauded when he hit her, because they knew she provoked him to hit her by talking back in front of his whole family.”

“Provoke is a poisonous word to use in reference to why a male chooses to abuse a woman,” I retorted. “Any male who thinks women provoke their abuser to abuse them is ignorant. Nothing a woman could ever do could provoke her to be hit, punched, raped, or abused in anyway by a male, because a weak, coward, wimp of a male does not need to be provoked to anger by a woman. His own insecurity and self inadequacy provokes him to anger.

Nothing makes a coward feel like less of a man than a strong woman who speaks her mind, despite what anyone thinks. By abusing her, he takes all power and confidence she has away, extracting it into himself. Hitting a woman makes him high, it empowers him. It gives him life. It is better than sex to him. It damn near makes his toes curl. Abusing a strong woman makes a weak male feel like a god.

If you think women talk back when speaking their mind, you have to ask yourself, ‘Why does a strong woman make me feel less of a man?’ In reality, she’s not the problem, you and your inadequacy are the problem.

Weak minded-males abuse women, simply to make her more loyal to him by extracting power from her. He knows a coward like him will never be able to earn a woman’s loyalty, so he takes it from her by abusing her. He knows by making her trust him, then breaking her trust via abuse, he will make her question herself like,

“why was I stupid enough to give this snake my trust and loyalty?”

“How could I be so weak to allow myself to fall in love with a man who would put his hands on me?”

A loving woman will often blame herself for how a male treats her, because she holds herself to a higher standard than she holds males. She knows he may not know any better, but she does.

This subconsciously can make her more loyal to her abuser, because for her to leave him at this point, she would be admitting to herself she made a horribly poor judgment in character by choosing to trust him in the first place. By staying with him, she is hoping showering her abuser with love will wash away the staining disdain he has for her. Of course, it won’t. Staying with an abuser will only make them want to abuse you more, because now, they will abuse you as discipline for allowing yourself to continuously be abused by them.

A man should never hit a woman. A woman should never hit a man. When a man and woman come together, that union his powerful enough to create life. Why tarnish that power with abuse, degradation and spirit breaking?

A male who uses woman breaking pimp tactics can smell the vulnerability on a woman and knows how to use abuse to drain her of her confidence. He knows, once he robs her of her confidence, she will be dependent on him for all forms of emotion, love or affection, because she wants to be loyal, not to him, but to the idea of love.

For a woman to endure any form of abuse from her man and stay with him is NOT being ‘loyal’. It is really being disloyal to him for her to fail to meet his shortcomings as a man with no disciplinary consequence, such as removing the blessing that she is from his life.

These woman breaking tactics are used by pimps to break a woman and make her his hoe. Isolate her from her family, buy her gifts, gain her trust, treat her like a girlfriend, rape her, abuse her, and she will be emotionally dependent on you. The reason why these tactics are used by so many males in relationships with women, is because fatherless boys are taught by older males growing up that the way to make a girl like you is to treat her like trash. Sadly, this pimp-woman-breaking tactic works far more than it should.

Pimp is a huge term of endearment in many circles particular my generation & yet, I legit don’t like when random males or homies see me being social at an event with the type of Beautiful Women they objectify & use the word ‘Pimp’ as a noun to describe me or an adjective to describe my interaction with those women. My response is always, ‘that’s an insult to me bro, not a compliment.’

It has become far too common for males with low confidence levels to use ‘Pimp Woman-breaking tactics’ on Confident, Successful Women by mentally breaking these women down, picking at the wounds of their insecurities & flaws, so they inadvertently give males out of their league and nowhere near their mental-maturity level the time of day.

This is the reason many men talk down about women, even from their own culture, as they are trying to convince them SELF why they don’t want her, when in reality, it is not that he doesn’t want her. He just knows he can not attract her. It’s the “don’t fire me, I quit” mentality. You only ‘quit’, because you know damn well you can’t play the position, are intellectually unqualified, morally bankrupt, romantically insufficient, and under esteemed.

You use pimp tactics to attract women and you’re supposedly a “grown ass man”? That’s weak game. That “pimp” mentality will never work on a woman who knows her worth. She’s only attracted to men with confidence, humility and mental maturity. She sees straight through your overly macho, false confidence, prideful pimp game. Trust.”

I have a low tolerance for Guys who hit women, they make me want to uppercut them, make them bite the curb then bash their skull in. In high school, I got 174 referrals, the majority of which were for picking or participating in fights with male class mates who thought it cool to slap their girlfriends around in front of everyone. Since then, I’ve beat the ass of a half dozen cowards who abuse their Woman, but he’s only half the problem.

I urge all of the Women in an Abusive Relationship, rather physical, sexual, or verbal, to realize, you do not need a Man to “discipline you”. You may call him “daddy” but he is NOT your father to put his hands on you. You deserve better, You are NOT a punching bag, you’re a Strong Woman who deserves a Strong Man who will not hurt you in any way. That is not how “all men behave”. Any male who puts his hands on you is a coward. His muscles do not make him a man, just like those bruises he puts on you do not make you a weak victim.

You are not a victim, you are a victor and survivor. If you think you can’t get out by yourself, do NOT be afraid to ask your brother, primo, uncle or brother in law for help. You do not deserve to be judged for a male putting his hands on your, abusing you or rapping you. You did not provoke him. How a woman dresses does not provoke a male to rape her. A woman speaking her mind does not provoke a male to hit her or yell at her. She doesn’t have an “attitude” she’s not “talking back”, she’s just a strong minded woman. Only coward males complain about a queen with her own mind.

It’s not that you’re “too emotional” “doing too much” or have “anger problems” as they say. No. You simply refuse to be walked over. If their judgemental ass has a problem w/ you respectfully speaking your mind, they don’t deserve the gift of your presence in their life.

A woman with a so-called Smart Mouth just wants a Strong Man who can penetrate her mind & vibrate his words against the opening lips of her frontal cortex, with his throbbing intellect so her attitude can change. A loyal woman does not want a man to fight her, she wants a Man to fight FOR her & put in work & effort to earn her heart.

If you have ever been abused, hit, raped or victimized by a man or woman, watching this short clip will help HEAL you

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How to finally find SOMETHING REAL & attract a Loyal Man

Posted on July 24, 2014 by Ebrahim Aseem

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A woman must stop being so smart mouthed, quit trying to “be the man” stay in her place, lower her high ass standards, speak only when spoken to, be Curvy, have a round, plump butt with a flat stomach & no stretch marks, be attractive and light skin w/ ZERO exceptions to a weak-minded male with only his penis & ignorance to offer a woman.

But a mentally mature MAN’s favorite body part on a woman is her curvy, huge MIND. This intelligent man has no body type, shape, color or size he prefers.

He doesn’t complain about a woman’s smart mouth, he knows pounding your ear drums with his mental depth of expressing himself will render your mouth speechless.

A mentally mature man will never be threatened by a strong-minded woman speaking her mind respectfully, because he wants you to verbally ascend to your throne.

He will penetrate your mind so DEEP w/ his, his intellect will come oozing out of your pores, have your mind sore, yet begging for more.

A Loyal Woman who’s always been the only one fighting to keep love alive deserves something real from man whose words give her LIFE. A woman who’s been loyal for so long, through all the lies & fakery deserves to finally have something REAL.

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When you finally meet a mentally mature man, you can’t use the same tests, rules, guarded mind games & tactics you used on weak-minded males. That will scare him away. Your hesitance to trust males comes from the fact you may have never been approached by a real one. As a loyal woman, you are a hopeless romantic. You feel you were born to be a wife, not just a girlfriend. You know your worth, so you can’t understand why no man you’ve been with has ever been able to see it enough to offer you something real.

I learned, the reason I am not yet married is, I am not YET attractive enough to my dream mate. If we want the best, we have to self edify constantly until we reach a level where we effortlessly attract that which we have EARNed through constant self edification. If we have yet to attract who we want, it is simply because we do not yet posses all it takes to attract them.

What do you really want in a man? Physically, mentally, appearance, financially, sexually, spiritually? What do you want out of your life other than a man? Make a list and vision board for both. This is your key and standard for men from now on. Pin these on your bedroom wall. How many of the things on this list of what you want in a man do you yourself posses already?

Our dream mate wants their dream mate too. It is not enough to just want something real. You have to deserve it, and have what it takes to value it. If you want steak, but can only afford chicken, you can’t say “but it want it”. If you don’t have what it takes to attract it, you need to put in work and self improve until you do.

You can’t keep complaining “I can’t find a loyal man” yet you are nowhere a loyal man would be found. He won’t be found at the club every weekend. Loyal men don’t like to be tempted, even while single. He is staying available for his future queen. Challenge yourself queen, this weekend, go to a spa and treat yourself to a full body massage and mani/pedi treatment in a neighborhood you’ve never been to before. Each weekend, take free trips to museums and parks and places you have never been. Your king is out there, looking for you, not in the club, but where he can not be found by a weak-minded woman.

Do you have what it takes to attract a mentally mature man and keep him happy? If you want to attract a man who can look past your body and see the true value in you, then you must be able to value him as a man.

Don’t tell a mentally mature man, “man-up!” or yell at him, all is his face, speaking with your hands. That makes him feel you don’t respect his manhood when you under-value him like that.

A mentally mature man will man-up & TAKE CONTROL of the situation, once he sees you are willing to allow him help you move on from your trust issues & blaming him for how weak-minded males in your past treated you by him healing you with consistency.

The key to attracting a mentally mature man is to posses the ability to stimulate more than his penis. Showing off your curves to him in a tight dress, revealing your breasts to him with your amazing cleavage may make the average male notice you, but for a mentally mature man, it takes more than the physical, curvy ass, huge perky breasts, thick hips, laid hair and a pretty face to arouse his interest.

I was approached by a curvy slim fit, curly-haired, light skin beauty at Jamba Juice in SF. She walked past me twice with her bestie, then stood in front of me giggling, before saying, “nigga how you gone pass up all this ass?” while tossing her hair.

I though she was joking, because her bestie started laughing, but then she repeated herself. “nigga how you gone pass up all this ass?”

“Wow, does that ,ine usually work for you?” I asked her, walking ahead of her to get in line.

“I don’t need lines,” she snapped. “It’s just that most guys are afriad to approach me, I was just giving you motivation.”

“You must not think much of me,” I replied. “I’m mos def not afraid to approach what I want when I see it. And you may posses and be everying a man wants. I see your books, you’re comming from school, clearly you have some form of intelligence. But, if you want to attract a man, and not a boy, use better bait than just your ass. Any boy can simualte that, but a mentallty mature man will wrap his strong conversation around the neck of your mind & grab hold of your attention with his intellect, just so you know his depth is about to POUND your eardrums. But if all you show he you have to offer is your ass, he will pass everytime.”

Queen, you have never known true intimacy, until you show off your beautiful, sexiest body part to a man, your mind. You will be able to tell a man is mentally mature, because when he first meets you, he will not text you, asking for naked pictures, he will call you more than texting you, and speak to you like this:

“Babe, I know why you over think so much. You need me to hold your MIND still w/ my mental depth as I cognitively ease DEEP inside your brain. You have no idea what I wanna do to that beautiful MIND of yours. I’m fluent in mental penetration. The loquaciousness has only begun. So, sit back relax, & enjoy this tongue that I’m speaking in, as I FILL UP your MIND w/ mine. Dine on your pearls of wisdom & make your vibe recline.

I’m a complete minder penetrator. As an insatiable converser, I shine. Conversation is my choice of domination, over my favorite body part on a woman, her MIND.

I learned mentally ascended women like you don’t listen to a man’s words only, you listen to our ACTIONS. If my words don’t match my actions, how can you take me seriously? Take is the key word. You’ve been taken for granted for far too long, by weak males in your past, who could only stimulate your body, only find value in your ass. Well, as a strong man, when I see something I want, I TAKE it. I own it. I claim possession of it. What I want is your mind, and I want to offer you mine.

You like that I’m a mind penetrator, don’t you? Just know, when I penetrate your mind, I will not be easy or afraid with it. I will grab your mind it’s hair, hold your mind still and mentally penetrate your mind, DEEP past your lips, into the THROAT of your mind. I will OWN your mind. I will ease deep inside the mouth of your mind with my heavy thoughts, with my words, and intellectual conversations. I will. Intellectually make your mind, MINE.”

As long as you keep trying to make it work with a man who tells you to “shut up”, “stop being over emotional” as long as you keep giving your loyalty to a man who calls you stupid, dumb, ugly, fat, nigga, bruh, bro, and says, “why don’t you just leave then, no body wants your ugly ass anyway,” as long as you stay loyal to that, you will continue to be mentally unattractive to a mentally mature man.

Once you can find the strength to love yourself more than you love a man & value your mind more than you do your looks and body, the mentally mature man of your dreams will approach you and drown you so much with his loyalty, you will be able to swim deeply in his consistency.

How to UNDERSTAND a Woman. #PenetrateHerMIND

Queens, are you tired of always having to TELL your man what you want? Instead of him just dong it on his OWN. Share this #Motivation with your man, so he can understand you.

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