How all Women are influenced by the MOON

Posted on October 1, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

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The MOON is not just earth’s beautiful guardian spirit.

Our moon aligns the soul ordained to travel through a woman every 28 days, souls praying to be born into this realm. This purifies a woman’s spirit monthly. Our powerful moon Yerah intrinsically activates the Pineal Gland in men & women, provoking mental ascension.

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The female pineal gland is the portal all souls travel through to enter into this realm from the celestial zone.

This is why I respect women so much. Every month she cries, laying on the floor, passes out, comes out her clothes, enduring the cramps & all the pain of her period in order to bring us into this world.

So the next time you think about calling her a bitch, or complain about her being too “emotional” consider all she has to go through, that’s what your mother went through.

When a woman is coming off her period, she is very sexually frustrated. During her menstrual cycle, it can feel like HELL. Be understanding of her emotions. It feels like her vagina is being pierced, shot & stabbed, hence her irritability.

Once she comes off, she longs for the feeling of vaginal stimulation. As men, we have to understanding & cater to our woman, mind & body.

It is unmanly & ignorant to make fun of a woman’s cycle. Her cycle is the history of your soul’s exodus from heaven & your journey into this dream called “life”.

Our souls are perforated, only half when born. We are in this life to find our soul’s twin flame) and become whole, leading to mental awakening. True love is the recognition of our soul’s counter part in another. Your twin flame does not have to be a sexual partner, it can be your nana, parent, sibling or child.

When your body sleeps, your spirit travels the universe, searching for its twin flame. The moon guides your spirit there and back to your body, saving your life every night.

We are not in our bodies. Our spirit hovers, orbiting around & through our body, like a moon. Just as the moon draws the ocean’s tide in & out, the moon connects with yiur pineal gland, to draw out the tides of stress rolling in. She renews herself every 28 days & will renew you once you become more intune with her, the Mother Soul Cell Fundemental Principle.

It’s attractive to me when a woman talks to herself, even when she’s mad. I’m talking full-blown conversing with herself in the car or bathroom. To the point she starts laying at her own jokes or answering her own questions. She’s not “bipolar”. #EbrahimAseem

She’s aware there are two of her. The spirit of her soul (our true self) and the spirit of her flesh/emotions (our persona). Wheel within a wheel. She knows she is a powerful spirit that dictates to her emotions & doesn’t allow her emotions to control her. #EbrahimAseem

Before the inception of Julius Cesar’s solar calendar, each year was divided into 13 moon cycles, with 28 days each. The 1% of the population that owns 99% of the wealth acquired such wealth by monopolizing 99% of the knowledge.

That 1% withholds the keys to the great secrets of esoteric knowledge, distracting us with vain forms of technology and entertainment, like cell phones, reality shows, movies & internet, to keep us mentally sleep. We are fooled into giving amazing forms of entertainment and technology, like the device you are reading this on right now, our full, undivided attention while our brain is on auto-pilot. We have become sleep walkers without a bed. The mental walking dead.

Despite this, our moon is moving us into the current cosmic age of Aquarius, which is harnessing all the great turmoil (war, genocide, disease scares) to make room for new age, sparking an evolution of consciousness, virtues of love, unity, self-awareness, pineal gland activation, chakra alignment and mental ascension. This is an astrological age that takes place about every 2,150 years, each year being 13 moon cycles.

Your brain cells posses the cellular ability to attract like matter. Thoughts are things. Anything or anyone you want in or out of your life, you can attract or repel with your mind. Just as our moon has the power to move the waves in the sea ebb and flow to the sand, we have the power to move mountains with our mind, literally. Mind over matter. #EbrahimAseem

The moon feeds us both frequency, and day light, unassisted by the sun, which is only a combination of infrared red, gamma rays, ultra violet rays & heat.

It’s not just women. It’s men, and even animals, planets, oceans & rivers. Every planet has a moon or moons that orbit it & communicate with the matter on that specific planet. Like matter attracts like matter. It’s fun to research for your self when you have time.

It is important we start valuing our women more on this realm, they were divinely chosen not only to be the vessels of life as mothers, but to be the portals of metaphysical power, as our liaison with the moon & heavens.

It is not your job to keep belittling her, putting her down, calling her names & making fun of everything about her you don’t understand.

Instead of telling our women, “stop being such a crazy, over-emotional bitch on your period” let’s start telling our women,

“When will you awaken to the realization that your smile is meant to be permanent. You flash it like a camera, but it was meant to be a light. Moon you shine so bright, and I’m the spark that was put into your life, for me to make you my wife, into your soul, speaking life. Let go, allow our souls to ignite.”

Kings, be encouraged the fashion of thought you posses, will attract a queen who is a WORK of ART to you like a Magnet. Men like yourself, & millions of other MEN are living proof that MEN indeed value a woman. #EbrahimAseem If you have your eye on a queen, tell her this the above.

Equally yoked unions with reciprocal mental accession & intellectual conception ensures true love will come to fruition.

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No nigga will WIFE a Woman with CHILDREN for miles.

Posted on September 14, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

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No nigga will WIFE a Woman with children for miles.

But a mentally mature man will.

See, that’s the difference between a “self-proclaimed nigga” & a MAN. An immature ‘nigga’ flees responsibility of a child, because he’s a child himself. He considers watching his child “babysitting”. A confident ‘man’ is not scared to be a father, he embraces it. He’s a born leader. #EbrahimAseem A King wants a QUEEN & a princess baby.

Now as a woman, if you keep choosing to entertain “niggas” because that’s your “type”, you will live a lonely ass life, raising your son to see you dogged. This is how “niggas” are made, they are baby boys born & raised by women who constantly put the desire-of-dick over the love of her child. #EbrahimAseem Props to the real mothers who love their child more than life itself.

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If I like you, I don’t want you to hide the fact you have children from me. I don’t want to see countless booty poking pictures on your Instagram, while all the pictures of you & your child are deleted. Your sexiest curves are your dimples & smiles, while you celebrate a fun day spent with your child. #EbrahimAseem

Your children are not a relationship deal breaker. They are irresponsible-male-repelant. Don’t hide your children, flaunt them. #EbrahimAseem Wave them like a flag, so only men of valor with aspirations of being a father will enter your world, claiming you as his queen, & your children as your own.

Teach your son how to respect & treat a woman by requiring me to court you for a while, before you give me your intimacy. #EbrahimAseem Teach your daughter how to be loyal to her worth by requiring I show with actions I know your worth, before you give me your loyalty.

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You are not damaged goods, just because you have a body full of stretch marks and a child. #EbrahimAseem You are an affectionate nurturer who knows how to cater to a good man, your motherhood experience makes you worthwhile.

A woman who puts her children first over me, makes me want to make her & her children my first priority. #EbrahimAseem

I know you sacrifice so much of yourself to give to your family & your struggles nearly drive you insane. #EbrahimAseem You deserve a faithful man who will listen, understand you, and give you his all, just the same.

If you’re a woman who’s all about your child, I will be all about you, constantly bringing you joy & smiles. But nothing turns me off more than a selfish woman who puts the desire of dick over her child. #EbrahimAseem

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The ignorance of Jada’s “walk 3 Steps BEHIND your king” theory.

Posted on September 10, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

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The ignorance people have of Jada Pinkett Smith’s ‘always walk three steps behind your king’ theory, is people ignore when she says, “If I stand beside my king, I can ONLY focus on what’s ahead.” Jada’s words are wisdom.

Some women only focus on ‘what’s ahead’, ‘standing beside’ his potential. They ignore the red flags they see, inconsistency he shows, his lies & her intuition. #EbrahimAseem

His EX is still texting him. He walks in the other room, blushing when on the phone with his child’s mother. He’s more romantic & flirtatious with half-naked Instamodels than he ever is with you. You don’t hear from him days at a time, but your focus is on “what’s ahead”. When will girls learn, complacency has NO potential. How inconsistent a man treats you now is how he will treat you down the line. #EbrahimAseem

Girls will see red flags & stay years waiting on a man to reach potential. Stop being more loyal to his empty promises than you are to your intuition. #EbrahimAseem

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Jada ‘walking three steps behind him’, is not submissiveness nor servitude. It is a metaphor for observing a man’s actions, consistency, ability to lead himself & potential red flags, BEFORE shifting your eyes to his great potential. Stop walking “side by side” with inconsistency. #EbrahimAseem

Jada trusts her king so much, ONLY because she trusts her discernment in her choices. A virtuous woman is submissive to her intuition. She’s more obedient to her standards than she is to a narcissistic man. #EbrahimAseem

Some independent women may cringe when wife caliber women use “king” to refer to a man. Independent women don’t need a man. They have their own. Pay their own way. Good for them, and their 57 cats.

There is no self-love in being an independent woman or man. Being SELF DEPENDENT promotes growth. Whereas (i)ndependent “i” represents the physical body. “Self” is the spirit you are inside the body. #EbrahimAseem

We need people. Our grandma’s hug. Our bosses check. The millions of farmers who grow the food we eat. Just because you’ve always HAD to depend on you, because no one else was there, doesn’t mean you have to do everything independently forever.

I pray I’m blessed to marry a self-dependent woman who’s not too “independent” to let me love her & provide for us. When did it become bad to need someone? Just because you make your own money does not mean you don’t need company. Companionship. Reassurance. Affection. Someone to make you laugh. Take the edge off your stressful life. #EbrahimAseem

You deserve someone who will just listen. Not judge you. Not try to “fix” you, because you aren’t broken. Having a man does not define you as a woman. You don’t have to submit yourself to an inconsistent man. You don’t have to bow down & worship a man to be his wife. #EbrahimAseem

A wife isn’t a woman who just cooks, cleans & obeys her husband. A “wife” is a woman married to her ambitions. In mental matrimony with her mind. Submissive to her integrity & loyal to her grind. If we can’t support her self love, we don’t deserve her. #EbrahimAseem

The reason she doesn’t submit to you is, because she doesn’t trust your ability to lead her. You can’t even lead yourself. It’s not a woman’s job to trust & be loyal to a man, just because he can throw it down in bed. It’s our job as men to show a woman with consistent actions & leadership ability why we deserve her loyalty. #EbrahimAseem

She’s loyal, not stupid. What complacent males don’t realize is, once a loyal woman realizes we don’t support her, value her & give our all to her like she does to us, she’s gone.

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ALL men CHEAT at some point. A Ride-or-Die let’s him have side chicks.

Posted on September 4, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

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Let’s be honest. All men cheat at some point. A ride-or-die bitch let’s him have side chicks,” >a Jamaican pre-law student professed during my speaking event at her sorority sponsored co-ed luncheon, “just as long as he’s not out here making her look stupid. Taking the side chick on dates to Five Guys, liking her pics when he never likes my selfies, posting pictures of her & him together on Instagram as his #wcw If you find a down ass ride or die chick, who’ll love you at your worst, why do you men play her & leave her for the most ugliest, mud duck looking female with no degree, career or intelligence. I swear I don’t get men Ebrahim.”

“I couldn’t disagree more,” I said. ”

If you find a loyal girl who’s willing to stay after you destroy her, pick up the pieces after you cheat on her & break her & endure hell just to keep the relationship going, don’t break her. Leave her, because she doesn’t love you. She’s enabling you. She’s using your presence in her life for the lack of self-love in her heart. By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”

A self-loving woman loves you too much to settle for you at your worst, because she sees your greatness, spots your potential & will give her all to encourage the leader you are. #EbrahimAseem

Men, we can’t be fooled to think these “ride or die” girls who stay “loyal” after we put her through hell really loves us. A girl who stays loyal to your inconsistencies & never calls out your mistakes has no investment in your growth. #EbrahimAseem She intentionally holds back your growth so you won’t out grow her & leave her.

All men do not cheat. Hold us men to a higher standard. Cheating is for insecure cowards. It is NOT about sex. If it were, cheaters would just remain single to sleep with as many women as they wanted, then it wouldn’t be cheating. Cheating is about control. Filling their insecurity by breaking your trust. Cheating is to hold a loyal person’s heart hostage, while one behaves single. They could just leave you to sleep around, but they WANT to stay committed, make you suffer to gain power from your pain through a soul tie.

I want to wife a woman who loves a man so much, she will respectfully tell him he’s wrong to his face, because she loves his soul & wants to help him mature it. #EbrahimAseem Where are the woman more loyal to a man’s actions than his empty promises?

Loving someone who doesn’t appreciate, value & uplift you is not loyalty. It is brokeness. Suicide. Poison. The cure is loving the beautiful one staring back at you in your mirror. #EbrahimAseem

Never be all in your feelings for someone who isn’t feeling you & uplifting you. If they cared, their actions would show it with consistency. Value yourself or you’ll get played. #EbrahimAseem

Stop crawling back to what broke you. Saying, “I love hard” is no excuse. Start loving yourself harder than you love an inconsistent person. #EbrahimAseem

If you’re an affectionate soul who cares deep, makes sacrifices for love, & gives your all, why keep entertaining people who are cold & selfish? You deserve all you give. #EbrahimAseem Stop settling for less. Value your self more. Only then will you attract a loyal man, willing to understand & listen to you. Then get down on one knee & tell you,

“You are my dream come true. My happily ever after. Where would I be without you? I love more than my lungs love breathing air. Not just because of all you do. All you give & all you share. #EbrahimAseem I love you because you promote my growth. The love I have for myself is what matters to you most.

You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take out on a date. Show off around town. Go for a slow walk with by the lake. #EbrahimAseem You are the only woman who can arouse my mind, and throb my head. You’re the only woman I want to devour in bed.

You’re the only woman I can be goofy with, sing along to 90s R&B with as we laugh & ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because without you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far.

The first woman I ever seen was the sweetest woman I ever known. My mother. And when it comes to making one woman her daughter-in-law, my love, I can think of none other, than you.

You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heartbeat want to kiss the soft sand that is your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled with hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, I am willing to endure all the pain, destroy all your demons, break down every last wall that houses your trust issues, because only you mean that much.

I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you are inside & out, and as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen. #EbrahimAseem After all, he will be raised by one.

Thank you for sticking by me through all the arguments & mistakes. I will consistently use my actions to say, I will never turn away. No other woman can take your place. #EbrahimAseem

I want trips overseas with only you. I want to get on one knee for only you. I want to spiritually grow with only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I will place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, after I, with tears in my eyes, look the best thing that ever happened to me deep in your eyes and say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. And I want you to daily uplift you, so you always love you too.

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Rashida & Rukiyah – Mixed Emotions (Single

Posted on September 2, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

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Your mother raised you to be an INDEPENDENT survivor, not a WIFE.

Posted on August 27, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

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Your mother never taught you how to love your self as a woman & be loved by a giving man. She taught you to depend on no one. Bottle up your emotions, because no one will understand. Put up a guard, put on a smile, so no one sees deep down you are struggling with life. To be strong by yourself, like your grandmother taught your mother. To be an independent survivor, not a wife. By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

She taught you when someone asks how you’re feeling to always say, “I’m good”. When really you’re dying inside, because all your mother’s painful life, no one ever understood. #EbrahimAseem

She taught you, when you like a man, hide your true feelings from him. Always wait for a man to make the first moves, even if you secretly adore him. #EbrahimAseem

An independent woman repels a giving man, & attracts lazy men to her life. You’ve never met a providing man who can give you affection, patience & loyalty, because he’s not looking for an independent woman, he’s searching for a wife. #EbrahimAseem

If you are an independent woman who does everything for your man, cooks, cleans, motivates & financially has his back, but he doesn’t do the same for you, you’re not his independent woman, you’re his single mother. #EbrahimAseem

Your mother never taught you how to be a wife or how to be loved, because she was hurt by men in her past. Fooled to give her all by a man who played a role, investing in a relationship not built to last. She doesn’t want to lose you to a man. She subconsciously wants you to stay single, independent of a man, so she can be dependent on you & your energy. Your mother wants you to be married to her, as a daughter for life. #EbrahimAseem

Sometimes a daughter’s soul is older than her biological mother’s soul. You may be her biological daughter, but your spirit is more nurturing, giving, wise & motherly than hers is. This causes some mothers to envy their daughter’s spirit & potential. She sees you being the wife & nurturing mother she never was. #EbrahimAseem

She resents you for being born. She feels she had to compromise her dreams to raise you. This is why it may seem your mother speaks down on all good news you give her. Always asking:

“why aren’t you married yet?”
“Why aren’t you successful in your career yet?”
“Why can’t you keep a man?”
“Why don’t you have children?”
She sees your great potential & wants to discourage & break you like her mother broke her. Some mothers are jealous of their daughter’s spirit, light, vibe, aura & potential. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t let your mother break your spirit & speak doubt into your dreams. She is not your spirit’s mother. You are hers. Break the chains of the independent mind she bound your soul with. #EbrahimAseem

There is no self-love in being an independent woman or man. Be SELF DEPENDENT. Not (i)ndependent. “i” represents the physical body. “Self” is the spirit you are inside the body. #EbrahimAseem

There is a giving man, ready to walk into your life, take your hand & make you his wife. He will say, “baby, lay your burdens on my heart. Rest your over thinking mind on mine. #EbrahimAseem

When you’re mine, you’re constantly on my mind. My effort won’t decline. My interest won’t subside. My understanding heart will provide for your over thinking mind a pillow of comfort on which to recline. Your pearls of wisdom are all I want to dine on. Feed my ears your food for thought. #EbrahimAseem

Lay your stress, your doubts, your demons & fears on my ears. I will comfort your concerns. Wipe your tears before they drip. Read the pages of your vibe & study your spirit to become fluent in your love language. #EbrahimAseem

Your genuine frequency speaks to me. Your kindness calms my soul. There will never be a second I don’t want only you, even after we grow old. #EbrahimAseem I want to teach you how to overcome the addiction of doubting & second guessing yourself.

The embrace of your conversation sends chills down the spine of my intellect. #EbrahimAseem Be my calm & I’ll be your peace. I will break down your guardedness & help take way your demons. Feed me substance & I will feed you consistency. Reassure you daily only you were meant for me. I love you, and I just want you to love you too.”

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Two Mothers Walk for their Murdered sons. SFPD refuses to investigate.

Posted on August 26, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

Powerful. 2 Mothers, whose sons were murdered, walk 16 blocks to protest the San Francisco police’s 8 month refusal to investigate the quadruple homicide of their sons. 😔 #TwoMothersWalk

SF Police’s disturbing leaked texts, read: “all Niggers must f*cking hang” & “Cross burning lowers blood pressure! I did the test myself” on April 7th.

This proves SF Police has no intention of investigating the murder of these grieving mothers’ sons. Please share their story to help bring justice for these queens. My nephew was one of the boys murdered & it breaks my heart to see my sister crying every night with no closure for her dead son. 😞 #EbrahimAseem #PrayForOurChildren

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Stop letting your DAUGHTER or son see you CRAWL BACK to a MAN who BROKE you.

Posted on August 20, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

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Stop letting your daughter or son see you crawl back to a man who broke you.

If I broke you, let me go. Don’t let your daughter see you spend years & tears crawling back to an inconsistent man who hurt you faithfully, verbally, or physically. She will grow up thinking being weak & depressed for a man is how you “keep” a man. Well, a woman doesn’t “keep” a man. A loyal man keeps his penis out of other women & keeps his mind on his ambitions. If you have to “keep” him, he’s not yours, leave that little boy in detention. By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

If I like you, I don’t want you to hide the fact you have children from me. I don’t want to see countless booty poking pictures on your Instagram, while all the pictures of you & your child are deleted. Your sexiest curves are your dimples & smiles, while you celebrate a fun day spent with your child. #EbrahimAseem

I don’t want you to spend your last dime on a babysitter, just so you can come over my house for Netflix and sex. If I’m serious about a future with you, I will take you out, pay for the date & the babysitter, showering you & your child with respect. #EbrahimAseem

Your children are not a relationship deal breaker sweetheart. Your children are irresponsible-male-repelant. Don’t hide your children, flaunt them. Wave them like a flag, so only men of valor with aspirations of being a father will enter your world, claiming you as his queen, & your children as your own. #EbrahimAseem

I want you to turn down a date with me, so you can cook your children dinner & tuck them in bed. Cut our phone conversation short, so you can bathe your child & shampoo the adorable curls on their head. #EbrahimAseem Cancel our plans so you can take your child for their check-up. Ignore my text, so you can change your child’s diaper. Don’t leave your baby with a diaper rash, just so you can quickly text back my inconsistent ass.

If you can cover your phone, yell & curse out your child, just so you can have enough silence to affectionally call me “babe” after just a few days of texting, you’re doing it wrong.

If you allow a man to starve you of time, respect, attention, loyalty, & you continue to stay, you’re teaching your son to grow up & treat women the exact same way. #EbrahimAseem I am not the number one man in your life, your son is. Make me earn a spot in your life through consistency & leadership skills. And, if I am not a living example of the man you want your son to grow up to be, stop waisting your time, your love, your loyalty & your kissy face emojis on me.

Teach your son how to respect & treat a woman by requiring me to court you for a while, before you give me your intimacy. Teach your daughter how to be loyal to her worth by requiring I show with actions I know your worth, before you give me your loyalty. #EbrahimAseem I’m a temporary part of your life. Your child is permanent. Why should I get more of your time, affection & attention than your children?

Major props to the women who put their child first. That’s so sexy to me. #EbrahimAseem You deserve all my commitment & loyalty. You deserve my last name. You deserve trips overseas, to be taken out on dinner dates that end with making love in the rain. Queen, I know you sacrifice so much of yourself to give to your family & your struggles nearly drive you insane. You deserve a faithful man who will listen, understand you, and give you his all, just the same.

You are not damaged goods, just because you have a body full of stretch marks and a child. You are an affectionate nurturer who knows how to cater to a good man, your motherhood experience makes you worthwhile. #EbrahimAseem I want a life with you as a power couple, raising our children together. I want family cruises, family reunions & infinity forevers.

I want to raise a son to be a strong, confident, loving & ambitious man. Never dependent on a woman to give him money, make decisions for him & hold his hand. #EbrahimAseem I want to raise a daughter by showering her with love, affection & attention, so she won’t grow up & look for it all in every guy she meets, living a depressed life full of regrets & descension.

If you’re a woman who’s all about your child, I will be all about you, constantly bringing you joy & smiles. But nothing turns me off more than a selfish woman who puts the desire of dick over her child.

When I was a child, my mother always ate every meal in her room with her door closed, separate from me & my sister, who would eat at the dinner table.

One night, I heard noise in my moms room & when I went in, I saw her laying on the bed crying & holding her stomach. That was the moment I realized, my moms never ate dinner, she starved just so that me & my sister could have enough food to eat.

My mother sacrificed buying herself clothes & jewelry to give us food every night & kept a smile on her face at all times, so we wouldn’t know how poor we really were. She turned down the sugar daddies & football players, because she didn’t want me to ever see her compromise her worth for a man. #EbrahimAseem

From that day on I taught myself how to cook & I made sure my moms ate every day.

I promised myself I would do something with my life, so my mother would never have to starve herself, just to pay bills. That’s what motivates me to speak life into people.

Thats why I work 3 jobs, chef, senior care, motivational speaker. That’s why I don’t complain about life.

I just keep a smile on my face. My mother showed me the true strength of a woman, that’s why I respect good strong minded mothers so much. I may have money now, but I came from not having shit, stealing food as a child just to bring home & cook for my family, & its is because of overcoming all my struggles & what my moms did for me I am the man I am today, & I dedicate my life to speaking life into men and women to pursue their passions and dreams. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me

I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

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Real Women have CURVES. Sorry.

Posted on August 4, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

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These inbox messages & #ArchThatBackBootyChallenge DMs are getting out of hand. So let’s make this clear…

I AM NOT on social networks to FIND A GIRLFRIEND, DATE or FEMALE BESTFRIEND NOR TO “HOOK UP” or “MAKE A P🐯😻😻🙀 APPOINTMENT”.

So ladies, please do NOT find yourself in my inbox sending me naked pics of your curves, stripper selfies, twerk vids & #ArchThatBackChallenge booty pics I did not even ask for, saying you’re “trying to get to know me” 🚫 Intellectual conversation is welcomed & compliments of my purpose of being used as an instrument by the most high to SPEAK LIFE are humbly appreciated by me. But there is so much more to me than what you see me post on here. Just like there is more to you than pics you post online.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

I see right through these half-naked Instagram Honeys, some of whom set thirst traps, because they can’t pull a loyal, mentally mature man in REAL LIFE. I truly pray they find the man they’re looking for with that, but as for me; I’m uninterested in that.

So, DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME with me; I wont budge. If I accepted your request, follow or added you myself, it’s because ITS Facebook & I’m very social & friendly.

I use my social networks to SPEAK LIFE into young men & women, promote my motivational speaking events at prisons & Universities worldwide, & also give any Life Coach advice to anyone as an 11 year mentor for young men.

Nothing more, nothing less. Share your testimony with me, ask me for advice, like my status’, pictures & comment if you like, that truly humbles me in a way you have no idea #EbrahimAseem but you can keep the pick up lines, corny words, & the nude pictures of your curves to yourself. I don’t want them.

I like to approach women and court IN REAL LIFE. Not on social networks. Besides, no one wants to see your ashy vajayjay pics anyway 😒✋ #EbrahimAseem

I’m constantly asked “why aren’t you married yet?”

Just because I’m not yet a husband, does not mean I’m down to manipulatively USE my platform or notoriety to sleep with every beautiful woman I meet; because I’m not. I’ve never slept with a woman I met off Instagram. #EbrahimAseem

You must have me confused with your favorite ‘cant-sing-live-in-concert’ R&B artist 🎤😎 yes him. That’s not me. My mother raised me to be a king, not a hoe.

What makes one a king is not pursuing multiple women to build a harem. What makes one a king is a pursuing that ONE queen 👉💍💎👰🏿👨🏾💒👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 and giving only her your attention, time, loyalty & multiple picture likes. #EbrahimAseem

Curves without substance does nothing for me.

Many guys are saying, “Arch that back. Twerk those cakes then.” If you feel “real women have curves” you’re sadly mistaken.

I don’t think you women know how gorgeous you really are, because you trip off InstaModels, #ArchThatBackChallenge & Video Vixens who make you feel you must be super curvy with massive ass & a flat, size zero waist, or Victoria Secret models who show you to lose weight & have zero cellulite. #EbrahimAseem

If you’re thick, love your curves. If you’re petite, love your frame. There is no mold to beauty. You ARE the mold. A work of art sculpted to be your unique version of beautiful. #EbrahimAseem

Now, when I say beauty, I’m talking inside & out. You’re breathtakingly gorgeous no matter your ass size, have no doubt. The next time your fine ass walks past a mirror, stop. Look at that beautiful soul staring back at you & say, “You are beautiful.” #EbrahimAseem

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Ladies, I don’t give a damn if you have a fat ass when I approach. You can’t attract me with curves & #ArchThatBackChallenge booty pics. I’ll pour love into a skinny woman with stretch marks way before I entertain a curvy self-proclaimed “bad bitch” with only curves to offer.

I’ve dated them curvy, petite, thick & slim thick. So I’m not impressed by huge curves and a smile. I have a mind, can you stimulate it? Or is the only head on a man you can arouse connected to his penis?

I’ll grip, slap, massage, manhandle & worship your booty no matter its size, but if you think that will make you attract me, you’re as hopeless as a penny with a hole in it.

A confident woman doesn’t need to rely on compliments, thirst nor attention from random guys on social networks to validate her beauty, because she knows she’s beautiful before anyone else. Looking deep inside herself, she sees the smooth, inner beauty she exudes clearer than a mirror.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me

I’m a chef, motivational speaker for men & a 11 youth mentor for men, teaching them how to uplift & respect women & be men of confidence & valor. I speak at universities, prisons & corporations worldwide. For booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

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Stop wasting TIME & years UPGRADING a boy into a man for the NEXT woman

Posted on July 30, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

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You met a guy who was so interested in you at first, now he holds back. So, you make excuses for his lack of effort, trying to cut him slack. When you pull away, he blows up your phone with promises to make you stay. #EbrahimAseem But when you drop your side pieces to make only him your bae, he holds back again. What a wicked game to play.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

If you have to ask a man why he’s taking so long to commit, he has no plans for a future with you. He’s using you. You are his come up. Upgrading him for another woman. #EbrahimAseem

A man knows if he wants a future with you after the first couple dates. If he hasn’t made his intentions clear, he’s using you as practice to prepare for the woman he really wanted. #EbrahimAseem Stop wasting TIME & years UPGRADING a boy with potential into a better man for the NEXT woman.

Girls feel leaving a broken man she loves is cold. She knows what it’s like to feel broken & be abandoned by loved ones.

Staying loyal to anyone who brings you stress, headaches & heartbreak with no appreciation is cold to your SELF, & enabling to the person. #EbrahimAseem

All you put in teaching a boy how to love you, he will use to love another woman after leaving you. #EbrahimAseem

A woman can be gorgeous, intelligent, successful & sweet. Meet a man who sweeps her off her feet. If his consistent actions don’t show he wants ONLY you, leave you for another woman is what he’ll do. #EbrahimAseem He lacks confidence to approach her, that’s why he chose you, to teach him how to be a better man for his next woman, not for you.

Queen, I want you to know you’re not asking too much, for wanting to be consistently appreciated & affectionately touched. You deserve to express your feelings & be heard without being judged. Not have your feelings thrown back in your face. #EbrahimAseem

You deserve honesty from the start, & consistent transparency is a must. Not made to feel you’re being over-emotional, because you’re so slow to trust. Your trust is so valuable, a patient man will earn it. Your & your love language are not difficult, an understanding man will learn it. #EbrahimAseem

I know what ifs replay in your head as you lay in bed, & failed scenarios haunt your deep thinking mind. A listening man will take the time to hear you, helping your over thinking thoughts subside. #EbrahimAseem

You don’t have to hide your little temper from every new man you meet, because an intuitive man will take the time to understand by being your stress relief, your calm, & your peace. #EbrahimAseem

All the things you were made to feel are flaws, by past flames who are the reason you’ve built up these walls, a strong man will appreciate. He will not ask you to wait for him to grow into the potential you see in him. The moment you meet him, he will be every thing you ever wanted and needed. He will hold your hand & help you understand. #EbrahimAseem

You are not crazy. Over emotional. Smart mouthed or rude. You are a work of art. Art does not need to rhyme, make sense all the time, nor change what it is on the outside to be accepted. Art must be observed, studied, valued & appreciated for the uniqueness it is. #EbrahimAseem

I want to study your pages. Become fluent in your language the most. I taste the good & bad in you, & I want them both. You bring out the best flavor in me, flaws & all. I just want to savor you. You are already whole, you don’t need a man to rescue you. #EbrahimAseem I just want you to love & fully accept the beautiful soul in your mirror, as much as I love her. May you, me & her love each other so deep, and stay growing closer and better, together, for infinity forevers.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me

I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

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