How to “Turn the Pages of her Mind” | 100 ways to approach a woman.

Posted on August 17, 2017 by Ebrahim Aseem

How to approach her in person:

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#3. If she’s walking fast don’t yell, catcall or chase her. Mentally note the location. Return tomorrow w/ a box of chocolate w/ ur number on it

#4. Pay for her gas. Say, “fill it up beautiful, it’s taken care of”. Then, leave your number on her dash. If she calls, gas up her inner beauty

#5. Compliment her eyebrows when you approach her not her breasts. Hand her a MAC gift card with your number on it. Get to know her inner beauty

#6. If she has a dog, ask its name & breed. Pet it. Talk to it. Be affectionate. Say “If u 2 are ever down for a dog park date here’s my number”

#7. Give her a massage spa gift card w/ ur number inside. Say “I pray u have a stress free day” If she calls take away her stress dont add to it

#8. Compliment her outfit. Say “Can I SnapChat you on my story? Your beauty just made my day” Show her the selfie. Have her text it to her phone

#9 When she’s checking out, pay for her groceries. Leave ur card & say “I didn’t interrupt because I value ur time & smile. Call me if u have any

#10. If she’s at work, don’t interrupt her hustle by yelling or asking her number. Buy something. Then give it to her w/ ur number on the receipt

#11. If shes introverted dont use lines. She spots bs & reads minds by feeling energy. Treat her vibe like waves & ride it. Then say “can we txt”

How to approach her if you’re not strangers.

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#13. Buy her a nonfiction book about ur deepest flaw. Read it. Brainstorm ways to overcome it. Contact her & confess it. Show her growth not game

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#15. Find out her fav fruit. Read how to plant. transplant the seed. Once it buds, give it to her. Teach her how to nurture it. Nurture her mind.

#16. Ask her fav food instead of her number. Read a cook book. Cook it. Bring it to her. Write your number on the tubaware. Serve her creativity.

#17. Give her some organic coconut oil w/ a list. 1st, read up on all its healing properties. Write them on the list w/ your number at the bottom

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#20. Buy 24 flowers. Give ur nana 12 & take a pic. Show ur crush & give her 12 💐. Tell her ur fav memory of nana. Ask to take her to meet ur nana

#21. Buy her organic olive oil. Write ur number on it. Say, “I bought u this for ur hair. If ur ever down for me to teach u a recipe using it, call me

#22. Buy her pH strips so she can test her alkaline level. Read books on the topic so u can drop knowledge. Then get her number & take her higher

How to approach her, even in the DM.

#23. Observe her social media for her passions. Read a book on the topic. DM her ur thoughts. Say “Id love to converse deeper. What’s ur number?”

#24. If she loves dogs, ask her fav breed. Find a breeder w/ those puppies. Snap selfies w/ them. Send her the pics & invite her to play w/ them.

#25. Ask her fav Disney song. Learn it. Sing & record it w/ ur number at the end. Give it to her. If she calls, take her to see Lion King Musical

#26. DM her a video right after a fresh cut & shave. Tell her to have a stress free day. If she replies, she’s feeling u. Ask for a FaceTime date

#27. Make fun of her fav show.🤣 Promise to watch. Say “I was wrong” & what u liked. Say “Can I call u after the next episode & converse about it?

#28. Send her funny/informative links like those she posts. Be her goofy/peaceful escape from overthinking & stress. Ask her on a ComedyClub date

How to approach a Single Mom

#29. If shes w/ her child shes busy. Respect it. Dont ask her number, give urs written down. Say “Id love to see if ur convo’s as beautiful as u”

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How to Court her:

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#35. Dont ask for pics. Say “back that brain up on my throbn pineal gland. I’ll pound stress out ur overthink’n mind w/ my mental depth. Converse

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#40. Wake your crush up like this.

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#45. Stop entertaining EVERY girl on social media, while the girl you’re courting is giving u all her attention. Your future wife may be watching

#46. Court a healed woman. Who’ll respect u, support ur vision, joke, pray & read with you & not make u pay for the cold way past men treated her

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#48. Court a woman who’ll INVEST in u. Not ur wallet. Your patience goals & purpose. Quit chasing the bad bitch fantasy who doesnt promote growth

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#51. Inconsistency is a huge turn off to her. Don’t be all over her one minute, & distant the next. She’s loyal to effort & courtship, not “talking” & empty promises.

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#54. Boys text & make excuses. Men call & make plans. If u only txt she’ll think u txt multiple side chicks & dont see a future w/ her. Court her

#55. Dont expect her to chase u. Shes not playing hard to get. Pain changed her. Give her so much patience she feels like her trusting self again

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#60. Stop pouring all your loyalty in a girl who behaves single, flirts online & treats u like an ATM. Court a giver who reciprocates your energy

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#63. Take her on a PetCo or aquarium date, so she can play w/ animals, while u play in her hair & grip her curves. Slowly unleash ur inner animal

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How to keep her:

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#66. Dont throw all u do for her in her face when mad. She watches all she says just to keep u happy. Use your words to reassure & calm her fears

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#85. If you have a giving woman, cherish & spoil her. Match your ruggedness w/ vulnerability. Never let fear of being calling soft lose you your blessing bro
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#90. She just needs you to listen to her & comfort her. Stop trying to fix it & tell her what she did wrong. Understand.

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#95. ‪trEAT her pearls of wisdom like groceries, until she pours her thoughts from her lips to yours. Swallow every drop of her intellect.‬

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#100. When you find your wife, be goofy with her. Read with her. Kiss, bite & massage every inch of her body, so the world knows you’re only hers. Never get irritated, bored & lack effort when you find a treasure, because you only get ONE.
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Why women Talk Back instead of staying in their place.

Posted on August 10, 2017 by Ebrahim Aseem

The reason I find smart mouthed women attractive with their talk back attitude is, I know how to handle a strong minded woman. They’re the most caring & faithful inside her hard shell.

She’s so guarded to protect herself from fake family & snakes, who take her giving for granted & her kindness for weakness, because when she loves, she loves hard.

‪Don’t let her strength scare you away. She’s endured more pain than you can imagine. She’s loved & been given up on. We must be patient with her.‬ Sharp as her tongue cuts, once she meets a strong man who can take control without controlling her & proves with consistent actions he’s patient & trustworthy, she will let us in & grow in patience. #EbrahimAseem

Never tell a strong minded woman to “stay in her place”. Have several seats. Instead, tell that regal minded woman “her throne is your face”. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t confuse a smart mouthed woman with a vindictive woman. She will verbally disrespect you when she’s lost patience with your inconsistency & doesn’t respect you enough to constructively work through it; or she will verbally disrespect you when she has not learned how to control her trauma triggers from past pain. #EbrahimAseem

A vindictive woman is not worth the relationship, let alone the arguments. Get you a reciprocal woman who won’t make you pay for the cold way men in her past treated her.

But don’t be so quick to push away a smart mouthed woman who has yet to heal. She will be guarded. Distant. Difficult. Say she needs more time. She’ll have anxiety flashbacks of her EX. Cry for no reason, not know what she wants & feel so broken inside. Don’t give up on her. #EbrahimAseem Don’t you make her feel she isn’t enough. Love her consistently, never throw her past in her face. Destroy her trust issues. Bring her closer to her self love & she’ll bring you closer to your growth.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
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Why parents treat daughters like trash | Be unGASLIGHTable

Posted on August 3, 2017 by Ebrahim Aseem

Prideful parents never apologize. They just all of a sudden come back acting all nice to you. Pride is woven in families of color tighter than a lace front to unlaid edges. #EbrahimAseem

Parent pride is the reason children of all cultures drown in depression & can’t even talk to their families about it.

Seeking mental health care is considered “bougie”. Venting to a therapist is considered “acting white”.

Colonialists used house broken slaves to Gaslight the free-thinking leaders. This inception was used to stop runways, revolts & is a genetic predisposition, passed down in all cultures through parent pride. #EbrahimAseem

Gaslighting is psychologically manipulating a person so much, they question their own sanity.

A gaslight deflect is using manipulative parenting to incept self-doubt in a child, so when they grow up & hear healing, they immediately deflect from it. #EbrahimAseem

Here’s 5 reasons why manipulative parents treat their giver children like trash:
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Mothers, do your best to support your daughters’ choices. Don’t put down you daughter; constantly telling her she’s wrong about every decision she makes. ENCOURAGE your daughter; be vulnerable for your daughter. Admit when you are wrong to your daughter. #EbrahimAseem Admit to her if you raised her to be guarded, not knowing how to accept love & providing from a man. Be apologetic towards your daughter, so she can have closure from her past.

The key to be ungaslightable is to stop seeing the good in everyone except yourself. Stop overthinking all day about people who only reach out to you when they want something from you. Stop using how people treat you to determine your self worth. How a person treats you has nothing to do with what you deserve, it has everything to do with how they feel about themselves.

Much respect to any woman fighting something. Cancer. Depression. Over thinking. Anxiety. Self doubt. Demons Abandonment. Mistakes. Regrets. Guilt or jealous parents. Your flaws don’t define you. How people treat you doesn’t define you. Your strength through pain does.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
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Why men intentionally treat loyal women like trash | Gaslight

Posted on July 27, 2017 by Ebrahim Aseem

Never tell a strong minded woman to “stay in her place”. Have several seats. Instead, tell that regal minded woman “her throne is your face”. #EbrahimAseem

Manipulative men lie, shift blame & deny their inconsistencies to intentionally make their woman question her sanity, so she will ignore his red flags that her intuition is trying to show her.

This is “gas-lighting”. Hiding something by psychologically manipulating a person so much, they begin questioning their own sanity.

Here’s 10 reasons some men intentionally treat loyal women like trash to gaslight her intuition on fire.
By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”

1. Boys sell women dreams of goals he never intends to accomplish, so she will stay loyal forever & wait for him to reach potential he doesn’t have.

2. Boys only give you time when they want something from you, so you will constantly over thinking that you’re not giving enough & give him more.

3. Boys show girls online MORE attention than their OWN girl, to attack her self-confidence, his insecure ass is jealous of, boosting his ego.

4. Boys get silent & distant when you call him out, instead of expressing emotions, to provoke you to respond in anger, so he can deflect blame onto you.

5. Boys crawl back in your life after breakups & pretend to “miss you” so you will feed his insecure-ass attention to recharge his flaccid ego.

6. He dated you for like 6 years & married the girl after you in like 6 months, because he never wanted you. He used you to make him a better man for his dream girl.

7. If you have to beg him for effort, he has already lost interest in you. He sticks around knowing if he gives you less energy, you’ll give him MORE energy.

8. Boys act so invested at first, then switch up after you fall for him, to put self doubt in your mind, so you will think you expect too much from men.

9. Boys say, “you’re too good for me” to gaslight a girl into lowering her expectations for him, so he can mess up constantly & keep being forgiven.

10. Boys will have a loyal, giving girl thinking something is wrong with her by how cold he treats her, because he envies her. Giving her pain fuels his ego.

Our “intent” as a man doesn’t matter. All men don’t intentionally gaslight women, yet every male alive benefits from male privilege, which is what powers gaslighting women. The only way not to benefit is to daily fight male privilege in other men & inside one’s self.

Selfish boys gaslight women to posses her energy. Like Ursula craved Ariel’s voice, insecure boys crave a strong woman’s confidence. Tearing her down builds him up. Gaslighting is a non-sexual soul tie, allowing the gaslighter to draw on your energy for strength, forever, until the tie is broken.

The only way to break the gaslight soul tie is to stop using the hurt, guarded tactics & views of men that attracted selfish users to gas light her in the first place. Boys who gaslight want you guarded. They want you to hate men. Hate creates a vulnerability, which manipulative boys exploit.

Overthinking is a major symptom of gaslighting. Women who want to become ungaslightable must rethink her entire mind frame, because gaslighting does not just come from men in relationships. It comes from this false idea that a woman must “stay in her place” and stop having a “smart mouth”.

The reason I find smart mouthed women attractive with their talk back attitude is, I know how to handle a strong minded woman. They’re the most caring & faithful inside her hard shell.

She’s so guarded to protect herself from fake family & snakes, who take her giving for granted & her kindness for weakness, because when she loves, she loves hard.

‪Don’t let her strength scare you away. She’s endured more pain than you can imagine. She’s loved & been given up on. We must be patient with her.‬ Sharp as her tongue cuts, once she meets a strong man who can take control without controlling her & proves with consistent actions he’s patient & trustworthy, she will let us in & grow in patience. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t confuse a smart mouthed woman with a vindictive woman. She will verbally disrespect you when she’s lost patience with your inconsistency & doesn’t respect you enough to constructively work through it; or she will verbally disrespect you when she has not learned how to control her trauma triggers from past pain. #EbrahimAseem

A vindictive woman is not worth the relationship, let alone the arguments. Get you a reciprocal woman who won’t make you pay for the cold way men in her past treated her.

But don’t be so quick to push away a smart mouthed woman who has yet to heal. She will be guarded. Distant. Difficult. Say she needs more time. She’ll have anxiety flashbacks of her EX. Cry for no reason, not know what she wants & feel so broken inside. Don’t give up on her. #EbrahimAseem Don’t you make her feel she isn’t enough. Love her consistently, never throw her past in her face. Destroy her trust issues. Bring her closer to her self love & she’ll bring you closer to your growth.

The most unshakable seeds of gaslighting are planted during childhood, in ten insidious ways……..

Read part two of this article about how to become ungaslightable => http://wp.me/sT7Bl-UnGaslit

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If a man is distant, he’s lost interest in you. LET GO!

Posted on May 4, 2017 by Ebrahim Aseem

Ladies, if a man is distant, he’s lost interest in you. LET GO! Forcing us to give time & effort will push us further away. Making excuses for our neglect will not help us ‘reach potential’ you see in us. It will make us resent you. You deserve a consistent, honest man, who gives you effort without you having to beg him for it.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”

Men get distant in 3 main ways:

1. He stops communicating for 2 or more days straight. – Sure, he can get busy with work & family for 24 hours, but if a man goes from talking to you every day, to you not hearing from him for more than 48 hours straight, without prior warning or reasonable explanation after, you’re either no longer a priority to him, or he’s intimately communicating with another girl.

2. He stops being sexual with you. – Even a hard working man can get too tired for love making once in a while, but if he hasn’t either had sex with you or sexted you in over a week without a feasible explanation, he’s either being sexual with another woman…. or another man. Or worse, he may have an STD from cheating he is trying to hide.

3. He stops disagreeing with you. – This is one of the *Secret Guy Code Cheat Tricks* I go in depth about in my book.
If a man has never disagreed with you, it’s because he doesn’t see you in his future. People disagree with someone they care for, because they want to rid you of a misconception you may have about them, to ensure a communicative, healthy, lasting relationship in the future. Don’t confuse “disagreeing” with excessive: “arguing, yelling & name calling” That’s immature communication by both parties.

A man who’s stopped disagreeing with you no longer cares to let you know how he feels inside, because he’s lost interest in a future with you. He becomes passive about things he used to be fiery about. I’ve learned this to be true for women as well. Once a woman stops caring, she’s lost interest in you.

I have a major confession, I’ve displayed all three of these characteristics over the last year.

When I was single, I enjoyed taking multiple women on dates. I let them all know this & encouraged them to do the same. I didn’t expect any loyalty from them. I kept it 100 with them at all times. I told them I wasn’t looking for a girlfriend, I was searching for a wife.

Once I met my queen, Brie, that all changed. It changed because I knew she was the one. I told her I was faithfully committing myself to her. I cut off communication with the girls I had taken on dates while I was single. No more dates. No more sexting. No more disagreeing. I straight up ghosted them, insidiously.

To break up with someone you’re in a relationship with by ghosting them is immature & heartless. However, when you’re single, you don’t owe someone you weren’t committed to any explanation.

Red flag: If a man keeps communicating with the EXs, non-platonic friends & baby mommas he claims to be done with, behind your back, it’s a major red flag he’s losing interest in you. As this point, you can either let him go & lose all you two were building towards, or you can let him know you want a full faithful commitment from him with complete loyalty& if he’s still interested in a future with you, he will cut off all other girls and commit himself fully to you.

There’s a way to tell if a man is still interested in forever with you. He will be as transparent as water. He will open up his soul to you & pour his love into your glass heart. Like I did with Brie when I told her this:

“If you ever irritate me or annoy me, it will never push me away.
To me your brattiness is as sexy as your cattiness, me & my love are here to stay.
I got the right amount of masculine ruggedness to always put you & that smart mouth in your place.
To draw a circle of protection around you with my manly strength. To paint smiles on your beautiful canvas face.
I want forever with you. You’re my reflection in every way.
Looking deep inside your eyes, the mirror to your soul, helps me understand you, my self & our purpose together more & more each day.
You can never push me away, no matter what you do. Because baby, I want infinity forevers with you.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
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If you give him amillion chances after mistakes, you’re not his woman, you’re his mom.

Posted on January 19, 2017 by Ebrahim Aseem

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“I have a master’s degree, 6-figure job, no kids, yet my boyfriend of 18-months insists on living with his second baby momma, 2 boys & a newborn baby girl by her. This living situation makes it hard for me to commute home. After I drive to work & give him my car, he has to finish watching First Take on ESPN, complete 4 competitive games on NBA2k via XBOX Live, cook pop tarts for his snack, snap a few pictures of him & his newborn daughter for Instagram, then pick up his five children from school, leaving me to catch an Uber home. 😦 I can’t afford to buy him a car of his own, until I receive my 2017 tax return money, because I already spent last year’s tax return helping him & his baby momma #2 pay for their house I co-signed for him, after he was released on parole for larceny. (We met on ChristianMingle.com while we was in prison lol) I’ve had issues in the past with him not making time for me, not taking me out on dates & going weeks at a time no communicating with me. But I’ve decided to give him another chance. I would like to ask this man to marry me & help him file for full custody for his 5 kids against his 2 baby mommas. What cut of diamond is lost manly? And how much is a reasonable amount to spend on an engagement ring?”

– Tiffany, 26, Arlington, TX

If you give a man a million chances after his mistakes, you’re not his woman, you’re his mother. Claim him on your taxes & move on. #EbrahimAseem It’s not your job to fix him or teach a man how to be one. The man for you will already be equaled yoked when you meet him.

Stop wasting years & tears WAITING for a neglecting, cheating, lying, non-committing, passive-aggressive when he’s mad, can’t make time for you or text you back, but can like 157 girls pictures on Instagram, lame poor excuse of a man to ‘change’ for you. Men don’t change for a woman. Men change for their self & grow for their self-love. #EbrahimAseem

Take him on a date, or to a game. Pay for his hair cut. Buy him clothes you picked out. Massage him. Read with him. If he’s a reciprocal man spoil him #EbrahimAseem but ONLY if he’s reciprocates all you give. Stop settling for less than you deserve.

A woman who loves herself fully wont settle for half-ass effort, nor half-ass time from a half-ass man. She masters the art of painting smiles on her OWN face & only pours energy into a man who is a reflection of the light she is growing to be. #EbrahimAseem

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He got you pregnant, then lost interest, because you lost your body.

Posted on November 24, 2016 by Ebrahim Aseem

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He couldn’t wait to get inside your body in the beginning. Constant communication. Sweet gestures. He was the perfect gentlemen, because your tummy was flatter. Your breasts were perkier. Your curves were voluptuous. But once your baby came, your body left & the baby’s father went with it.

And if he sticks around, you better know he has side chicks. Curvy girls without children he texts when you’re not around. Have you seen the girls he follows on Instagram? They look nothing like YOU.

How can saggy, deflated boobs dripping of breast milk compete with curvy Instamodels who have more booty in their pants than your baby has boo boo in it’s diaper?

Single Mothers are NOT dating material. With their stretch marks, deflated boobs, saggy booty, no time for anything but their baby asses. They’re WIFE material. Because any woman who can love someone so much, she sacrifices her body, appearance, sleep, friendships, partying, money for childcare which she can barely afford & every waking, breathing second of her day pouring love into her child, she can pour love into you. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t sleep on a busy single mother, just because she has a child. Those busy strong, virtuous, ambitious, career-minded focused women can cook, massage, drop wisdom & promote your growth. #EbrahimAseem COURT her to show her you appreciate all sacrifices she makes grinding for her future & her child. But don’t sleep on her.

Did you know a mother doesn’t sleep? She chases the baby around the house ALL. DAY. LONG. No breaks. Cleaning up messes. Broken glass. Stains. Spills. The only time she does sleep is on accident. I know you’re thinking, “well why can’t she just put the baby to sleep & then she can have time for herself?” Because dummy, she can’t just “put” the baby to sleep in the crib, then run off & paint the town red. The baby will just cry non-stop. She has to hold, rock & comfort the baby to sleep. She turns the lights off & lays still, pretending to be sleep, because that’s the only way the baby will fall asleep. #EbrahimAseem Problem is, it takes so long, she accidentally falls asleep herself. But she can never get “rest” because the baby wakes up constantly in the middle of the night.

Any woman who would sacrifice all that & more for a little child, she would give anything to love you, value your manhood, promote your mental growth, calm your fears, help fight your demons, accomplish your purpose & bring you closer to the man you were put here to be. #EbrahimAseem

If a man’s attraction is to your body, he’s temporary anyway. Those type of men cheat on & leave women with perfect curves. A dog is ONLY looking to lay his bone. While a man of valor is looking to help you ascend to your mental throne. #EbrahimAseem

Beauty, the man meant for you will find you. You won’t have to chase him, approach him or pursue him. You won’t have to force it to work, settle for less than your worth, give up your goals for him, beg him effort & time or teach him how to be a man. #EbrahimAseem

The man meant for you will not break you, he won’t abuse you, he won’t call you crazy, stupid, dumb, emotional or bitch. He will not question you, belittle your point of view or point out your flaws. #EbrahimAseem He will listen to you & use his words to reassure you.

Your stretch marks, tummy & saggy curves will not scare him off, because your self love & caring heart will be so attractive to him, he will trEAT every inch of your stretch mark having body like food. He will devour your pearls of wisdom, pound the walls of your ear drums with strong thoughts from his throbbing pineal gland. #EbrahimAseem
A blank canvas doesn’t equate beauty. Your stretch marks are unique strokes of the paint brush that surround the work of art the greatest artist in the universe drew you to be. #EbrahimAseem

Your body will be his addiction, because your beautiful soul is his affliction.

He will support you, heal you understand you & be so patient with your trust. To attract this caliber of man, you must fully let go of two things: the idea that no man will want your stretch mark having ass, because you have a child & your emotional attachment to your child’s father.

Don’t let a new man spoil you if you’re still letting a lying, manipulative EX or your child’s father have intimate & emotional parts of you. Heal first. Don’t toy with good men. #EbrahimAseem We exist. A man will love you & your child like it’s his own. He will love your body, stretch marks & all, he reassure you with his words & say,

“I just want you naked. Past that fake smile you wear to hide your self doubts. I know you talk to yourself , combatively conversing with the demons in your mind. I know you don’t always feel as beautiful as you look. I just want to be your calm. #EbrahimAseem Your peace. Your strength. Baby, lean on me. Weak as you may feel at times alone, we are unbreakable together. Let’s grow deeper on our self love together, for infinity forevers. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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Why BUSY, successful women can’t KEEP a man, but a Bad Bitch can.

Posted on September 8, 2016 by Ebrahim Aseem

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Dating a strong, smart, successful, busy woman is a waste of a man’s time. Yes, I said it. She’s always busy, & canceling dates, with her flaking ass. She has less free time than a bald girl has edges. Her texts are as short as her patience. Busy women will ignore your texts, then text you a week later like, “oh I thought I replied.” No time to put a man first. A woman who puts her career, school or child first over me, until I put a ring on her finger makes me want to make her my first priority, as long as she reciprocates all I give. By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Don’t sleep on a busy woman just because she has school, a career or a child. Those busy, strong, intelligent, virtuous, focused women can cook, massage, drop wisdom & promote your growth. #EbrahimAseem Don’t just “date” her or “talk” to her. COURT her exclusively to show her you appreciate all sacrifices she makes grinding for her future with no help. #EbrahimAseem Busy women only give time to consistent men who give effort.

If a busy reciprocal woman gives us her time, she’s already considering something more with us. Don’t mess it up. Cut off side chicks & make only her a priority. Manhood is about EFFORT over ego. #EbrahimAseem

As men, we have to stop chasing the Bad Bitch Fantasy girl who only texts back faster than a busy woman can, because she ain’t got a damn job or career to pour energy into. #EbrahimAseem A smart, successful woman can be both busy AND bad. Get you a girl who can do both.

Be patient with a busy woman. Take her out. She’s not flaking. Her bills & student loans costs more than 1,000 dates you can take her on. It’s not about money. Spoil her with your time, yet don’t smother her. Give her space. #EbrahimAseem If she likes you, she’ll reach out to you. Busy women make time for those who are important to her growth. Don’t let her busy schedule discourage you. It’s not a reciprocal woman’s job to chase us men. You pursue her & never give up. Be her consistency, she’ll be your everything. #EbrahimAseem

I learned that busy woman who gives you peace after working all day deserves for you to melt all her stress away. Spoil her. Support her mental growth. Reassure her busy schedule isn’t a deal breaker. #EbrahimAseem

A busy woman who’s loyal to her purpose & values herself too much to chase me, turns me the hell on. I wanna cuddle up & read with you. Turn your pages. Be fluent in your love language. Pray with you, never ON you. Hear you speak your mind, my favorite melody. #EbrahimAseem You never ask too much, & that makes me want to give you my all, my commitment & my last name. Teach me how to understand you. Teach me how to dance to the beat of your caring heart. Let’s make music together. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
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Men don’t stay loyal to girls who CHASE them. Let him pursue you.

Posted on July 22, 2016 by Ebrahim Aseem

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Stop telling him to text back or give effort. He saw your text & doesn’t want you. Men don’t take girls who chase them seriously. #EbrahimAseem Let him court you & pursue you.

A woman can be gorgeous, curvy, funny & low matinence, if she chases him, a man will still DM Instamodels & cheat on her with the most warthog looking side chick/beast he can find. We’re talking Pumba from Lion King.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Chasing a man makes him want to pursue other women, because men are hunters. Food doesn’t taste as good when a hunter doesn’t have to put in work for it. #EbrahimAseem

When we have to put in work & effort for something, we value it more. When things come too easily, we take it for granted. Men side chick zone girls who chase him, because we don’t just seek the beautiful woman, it’s the thrill of the courting we’re after.

A woman who takes effort & consistency to get makes a man throb so hard. An easy girl makes him want another, because his hunger for courting isn’t quenched. #EbrahimAseem

Earning your loyalty makes us value it more. Getting loyalty without having to commit makes us seek another woman who values herself more.

Begging a man for commitment & telling him how to give you effort makes him crave a side chick. Here’s why: it’s not your job to teach a man how to be one, how to give effort & understand you. That was his father’s job. Once you start behaving like you’re his mother, he’ll see you as that, & crave another woman under his covers.

Even husbands get bored with a wife who doesn’t require effort without begging for it. He will sneak & text girls on Snap Chat. Spice things up. Send your man a sexy snap chat. Turn on some twerk music & dance on him. Play his favorite game & tell him the winner gets to be treated like dessert. Make your man constantly court you else he will replace you. #EbrahimAseem

Girls will give their all, stressing in pain to fix a broken man, instead of just choosing the loyal, handsome, strong, equally yoked manage wanted in the first place. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t ignore a man then expect him to chase you either. He will lose interest & only act like he loves you, until you give him sex, then he’ll snatch the world from under you.

If you like a man, don’t chase him. Be consistent enough to let him know you’re intrested, yet chaste enough that he doesn’t lose interest in pursuing you. He texts back? You text back. He treats you to a date first? You treat him to a date next. He doesn’t hit you? You don’t hit him. You’re not on his mind? Stop overthinking him into yours. #EbrahimAseem

Making a man dance to the beat of your standards without begging for time & effort makes him crave you. #EbrahimAseem Begging a man for effort annoys him. Telling him what to do irritates him. Teaching a grown ass man how to be one prepares him to commit to the woman after you, because you’re too busy being his mother. #EbrahimAseem

A woman who values herself too much to chase me, turns me the hell on. I wanna cuddle up & read with you. Turn your pages. Be fluent in your love language. Pray with you, never on you. Hear you speak your mind, my fav melody. #EbrahimAseem You never ask too much, & that makes me want to give you my all, my commitment & my last name. Teach my how to understand you. Teach me how to dance to the beat of your caring heart. Let’s make music together. #EbrahimAseem

I learned that woman who gives you peace after working all day deserves for you to melt all her stress away. Spoil her. Support her mental growth. Reassure her you appreciate all her sacrifice. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
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I am a chef, motivational speaker & 12-year-mentor for men. I write new articles every thursday & travel, speaking life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide. I am West African-Hebrew.

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Ebrahim’s new song “You Think I’m A Thug” (Music Video)

Posted on July 9, 2016 by Ebrahim Aseem

For Alton Sterling

Free MP3 download: https://soundcloud.com/ebrahim-aseem/you-think-im-a-thug-ebrahim-aseem

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