If you give him amillion chances after mistakes, you’re not his woman, you’re his mom.

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“I have a master’s degree, 6-figure job, no kids, yet my boyfriend of 18-months insists on living with his second baby momma, 2 boys & a newborn baby girl by her. This living situation makes it hard for me to commute home. After I drive to work & give him my car, he has to finish watching First Take on ESPN, complete 4 competitive games on NBA2k via XBOX Live, cook pop tarts for his snack, snap a few pictures of him & his newborn daughter for Instagram, then pick up his five children from school, leaving me to catch an Uber home. 😦 I can’t afford to buy him a car of his own, until I receive my 2017 tax return money, because I already spent last year’s tax return helping him & his baby momma #2 pay for their house I co-signed for him, after he was released on parole for larceny. (We met on ChristianMingle.com while we was in prison lol) I’ve had issues in the past with him not making time for me, not taking me out on dates & going weeks at a time no communicating with me. But I’ve decided to give him another chance. I would like to ask this man to marry me & help him file for full custody for his 5 kids against his 2 baby mommas. What cut of diamond is lost manly? And how much is a reasonable amount to spend on an engagement ring?”

– Tiffany, 26, Arlington, TX

If you give a man a million chances after his mistakes, you’re not his woman, you’re his mother. Claim him on your taxes & move on. #EbrahimAseem It’s not your job to fix him or teach a man how to be one. The man for you will already be equaled yoked when you meet him.

Stop wasting years & tears WAITING for a neglecting, cheating, lying, non-committing, passive-aggressive when he’s mad, can’t make time for you or text you back, but can like 157 girls pictures on Instagram, lame poor excuse of a man to ‘change’ for you. Men don’t change for a woman. Men change for their self & grow for their self-love. #EbrahimAseem

Take him on a date, or to a game. Pay for his hair cut. Buy him clothes you picked out. Massage him. Read with him. If he’s a reciprocal man spoil him #EbrahimAseem but ONLY if he’s reciprocates all you give. Stop settling for less than you deserve.

A woman who loves herself fully wont settle for half-ass effort, nor half-ass time from a half-ass man. She masters the art of painting smiles on her OWN face & only pours energy into a man who is a reflection of the light she is growing to be. #EbrahimAseem

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He got you pregnant, then lost interest, because you lost your body.

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He couldn’t wait to get inside your body in the beginning. Constant communication. Sweet gestures. He was the perfect gentlemen, because your tummy was flatter. Your breasts were perkier. Your curves were voluptuous. But once your baby came, your body left & the baby’s father went with it.

And if he sticks around, you better know he has side chicks. Curvy girls without children he texts when you’re not around. Have you seen the girls he follows on Instagram? They look nothing like YOU.

How can saggy, deflated boobs dripping of breast milk compete with curvy Instamodels who have more booty in their pants than your baby has boo boo in it’s diaper?

Single Mothers are NOT dating material. With their stretch marks, deflated boobs, saggy booty, no time for anything but their baby asses. They’re WIFE material. Because any woman who can love someone so much, she sacrifices her body, appearance, sleep, friendships, partying, money for childcare which she can barely afford & every waking, breathing second of her day pouring love into her child, she can pour love into you. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t sleep on a busy single mother, just because she has a child. Those busy strong, virtuous, ambitious, career-minded focused women can cook, massage, drop wisdom & promote your growth. #EbrahimAseem COURT her to show her you appreciate all sacrifices she makes grinding for her future & her child. But don’t sleep on her.

Did you know a mother doesn’t sleep? She chases the baby around the house ALL. DAY. LONG. No breaks. Cleaning up messes. Broken glass. Stains. Spills. The only time she does sleep is on accident. I know you’re thinking, “well why can’t she just put the baby to sleep & then she can have time for herself?” Because dummy, she can’t just “put” the baby to sleep in the crib, then run off & paint the town red. The baby will just cry non-stop. She has to hold, rock & comfort the baby to sleep. She turns the lights off & lays still, pretending to be sleep, because that’s the only way the baby will fall asleep. #EbrahimAseem Problem is, it takes so long, she accidentally falls asleep herself. But she can never get “rest” because the baby wakes up constantly in the middle of the night.

Any woman who would sacrifice all that & more for a little child, she would give anything to love you, value your manhood, promote your mental growth, calm your fears, help fight your demons, accomplish your purpose & bring you closer to the man you were put here to be. #EbrahimAseem

If a man’s attraction is to your body, he’s temporary anyway. Those type of men cheat on & leave women with perfect curves. A dog is ONLY looking to lay his bone. While a man of valor is looking to help you ascend to your mental throne. #EbrahimAseem

Beauty, the man meant for you will find you. You won’t have to chase him, approach him or pursue him. You won’t have to force it to work, settle for less than your worth, give up your goals for him, beg him effort & time or teach him how to be a man. #EbrahimAseem

The man meant for you will not break you, he won’t abuse you, he won’t call you crazy, stupid, dumb, emotional or bitch. He will not question you, belittle your point of view or point out your flaws. #EbrahimAseem He will listen to you & use his words to reassure you.

Your stretch marks, tummy & saggy curves will not scare him off, because your self love & caring heart will be so attractive to him, he will trEAT every inch of your stretch mark having body like food. He will devour your pearls of wisdom, pound the walls of your ear drums with strong thoughts from his throbbing pineal gland. #EbrahimAseem
A blank canvas doesn’t equate beauty. Your stretch marks are unique strokes of the paint brush that surround the work of art the greatest artist in the universe drew you to be. #EbrahimAseem

Your body will be his addiction, because your beautiful soul is his affliction.

He will support you, heal you understand you & be so patient with your trust. To attract this caliber of man, you must fully let go of two things: the idea that no man will want your stretch mark having ass, because you have a child & your emotional attachment to your child’s father.

Don’t let a new man spoil you if you’re still letting a lying, manipulative EX or your child’s father have intimate & emotional parts of you. Heal first. Don’t toy with good men. #EbrahimAseem We exist. A man will love you & your child like it’s his own. He will love your body, stretch marks & all, he reassure you with his words & say,

“I just want you naked. Past that fake smile you wear to hide your self doubts. I know you talk to yourself , combatively conversing with the demons in your mind. I know you don’t always feel as beautiful as you look. I just want to be your calm. #EbrahimAseem Your peace. Your strength. Baby, lean on me. Weak as you may feel at times alone, we are unbreakable together. Let’s grow deeper on our self love together, for infinity forevers. #EbrahimAseem

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I'd marry a woman with children. She's not a burden. She's a blessing. #EbrahimAseem Bro, if you don't want to commit to a single mother, cool. Keep "talking" to the girls you prefer. I sincerely pray that works for you. But don't knock a man like me, willing to pour love into a woman & her child. 👰🏿👶🏾💍❤️ #EbrahimAseem Her son needs loves & leadership from a man, so he won't grow up to neglect his responsibilities & choose to be a baby daddy. If his father isn't man enough to raise & teach him how to be a man, I will. #EbrahimAseem Her daughter needs to see a man court, commit to, provide for & respect her mother, so she won't think she has to settle for less, lies, cheating & disrespect to keep a man. If her father isn't man enough to be a provider for her mother, I will. #EbrahimAseem Courting a single mother is terribly hard. She'll flake & cancel dates. Short text & not reply. Have no time for putting you first. A woman who puts her child first over me, makes me want to make her & her child my first priority. #EbrahimAseem Be patient with her. She's not flaking. Childcare costs more than the date you want to take her on. Pay her babysitter. Take her on a date. It's not about money. Spoil her with your time to let her know you appreciate all sacrifices she makes for her child with no help. Be her consistency & she will be your everything. #EbrahimAseem Speaking this to a group of 335 grad school men. Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com The model @Jessicapettway is happily married for 10 years, & is not a single mother. Not that there's in any way anything wrong with single mothers. Every future wife was born to be a wife.

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Why BUSY, successful women can’t KEEP a man, but a Bad Bitch can.

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Dating a strong, smart, successful, busy woman is a waste of a man’s time. Yes, I said it. She’s always busy, & canceling dates, with her flaking ass. She has less free time than a bald girl has edges. Her texts are as short as her patience. Busy women will ignore your texts, then text you a week later like, “oh I thought I replied.” No time to put a man first. A woman who puts her career, school or child first over me, until I put a ring on her finger makes me want to make her my first priority, as long as she reciprocates all I give. By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
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Don’t sleep on a busy woman just because she has school, a career or a child. Those busy, strong, intelligent, virtuous, focused women can cook, massage, drop wisdom & promote your growth. #EbrahimAseem Don’t just “date” her or “talk” to her. COURT her exclusively to show her you appreciate all sacrifices she makes grinding for her future with no help. #EbrahimAseem Busy women only give time to consistent men who give effort.

If a busy reciprocal woman gives us her time, she’s already considering something more with us. Don’t mess it up. Cut off side chicks & make only her a priority. Manhood is about EFFORT over ego. #EbrahimAseem

As men, we have to stop chasing the Bad Bitch Fantasy girl who only texts back faster than a busy woman can, because she ain’t got a damn job or career to pour energy into. #EbrahimAseem A smart, successful woman can be both busy AND bad. Get you a girl who can do both.

Be patient with a busy woman. Take her out. She’s not flaking. Her bills & student loans costs more than 1,000 dates you can take her on. It’s not about money. Spoil her with your time, yet don’t smother her. Give her space. #EbrahimAseem If she likes you, she’ll reach out to you. Busy women make time for those who are important to her growth. Don’t let her busy schedule discourage you. It’s not a reciprocal woman’s job to chase us men. You pursue her & never give up. Be her consistency, she’ll be your everything. #EbrahimAseem

I learned that busy woman who gives you peace after working all day deserves for you to melt all her stress away. Spoil her. Support her mental growth. Reassure her busy schedule isn’t a deal breaker. #EbrahimAseem

A busy woman who’s loyal to her purpose & values herself too much to chase me, turns me the hell on. I wanna cuddle up & read with you. Turn your pages. Be fluent in your love language. Pray with you, never ON you. Hear you speak your mind, my favorite melody. #EbrahimAseem You never ask too much, & that makes me want to give you my all, my commitment & my last name. Teach me how to understand you. Teach me how to dance to the beat of your caring heart. Let’s make music together. #EbrahimAseem

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Men don’t stay loyal to girls who CHASE them. Let him pursue you.

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Stop telling him to text back or give effort. He saw your text & doesn’t want you. Men don’t take girls who chase them seriously. #EbrahimAseem Let him court you & pursue you.

A woman can be gorgeous, curvy, funny & low matinence, if she chases him, a man will still DM Instamodels & cheat on her with the most warthog looking side chick/beast he can find. We’re talking Pumba from Lion King.

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Chasing a man makes him want to pursue other women, because men are hunters. Food doesn’t taste as good when a hunter doesn’t have to put in work for it. #EbrahimAseem

When we have to put in work & effort for something, we value it more. When things come too easily, we take it for granted. Men side chick zone girls who chase him, because we don’t just seek the beautiful woman, it’s the thrill of the courting we’re after.

A woman who takes effort & consistency to get makes a man throb so hard. An easy girl makes him want another, because his hunger for courting isn’t quenched. #EbrahimAseem

Earning your loyalty makes us value it more. Getting loyalty without having to commit makes us seek another woman who values herself more.

Begging a man for commitment & telling him how to give you effort makes him crave a side chick. Here’s why: it’s not your job to teach a man how to be one, how to give effort & understand you. That was his father’s job. Once you start behaving like you’re his mother, he’ll see you as that, & crave another woman under his covers.

Even husbands get bored with a wife who doesn’t require effort without begging for it. He will sneak & text girls on Snap Chat. Spice things up. Send your man a sexy snap chat. Turn on some twerk music & dance on him. Play his favorite game & tell him the winner gets to be treated like dessert. Make your man constantly court you else he will replace you. #EbrahimAseem

Girls will give their all, stressing in pain to fix a broken man, instead of just choosing the loyal, handsome, strong, equally yoked manage wanted in the first place. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t ignore a man then expect him to chase you either. He will lose interest & only act like he loves you, until you give him sex, then he’ll snatch the world from under you.

If you like a man, don’t chase him. Be consistent enough to let him know you’re intrested, yet chaste enough that he doesn’t lose interest in pursuing you. He texts back? You text back. He treats you to a date first? You treat him to a date next. He doesn’t hit you? You don’t hit him. You’re not on his mind? Stop overthinking him into yours. #EbrahimAseem

Making a man dance to the beat of your standards without begging for time & effort makes him crave you. #EbrahimAseem Begging a man for effort annoys him. Telling him what to do irritates him. Teaching a grown ass man how to be one prepares him to commit to the woman after you, because you’re too busy being his mother. #EbrahimAseem

A woman who values herself too much to chase me, turns me the hell on. I wanna cuddle up & read with you. Turn your pages. Be fluent in your love language. Pray with you, never on you. Hear you speak your mind, my fav melody. #EbrahimAseem You never ask too much, & that makes me want to give you my all, my commitment & my last name. Teach my how to understand you. Teach me how to dance to the beat of your caring heart. Let’s make music together. #EbrahimAseem

I learned that woman who gives you peace after working all day deserves for you to melt all her stress away. Spoil her. Support her mental growth. Reassure her you appreciate all her sacrifice. #EbrahimAseem

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Ebrahim’s new song “You Think I’m A Thug” (Music Video)

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Why Black Men don’t date Black Women

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Funny you woke brothas claim to love being black, yet you dont date black women. Sistas are not nappy with an attitude. Her hair is as natural as her ability to see through you. You date weak girls, so you can be ‘alpha’ by default. Little do you know, just because a woman isn’t Black doesn’t mean she’s weak. Strong women won’t submit to you, because she doesn’t trust your ability to lead her. You can barley lead yourself. #EbrahimAseem

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In a GQ interview, Creed star Michael B.Jordan said, “It’s the world we live in. They see white and black. I don’t. A lot of black fans were feeling like, ‘Oh, my God, he should have been with a black woman’. I get it, but on the other hand it’s, like, relax – it’s 2015. It’s okay! People can like one another, not necessarily from the same history or culture or whatever the fuck it is. I understand what females want and need. I’m good at that. I don’t know if I’m the guy to give it to them right now. I’m emotionally unavailable.”

First of all bruh, don’t call women females. “Female” is only a woman’s body. It doesn’t not describe HER, which is the spirit wrapped inside that body. Secondly, to say you don’t see color is irresponsible. When you want Italian food, you get pasta. When you want Japanese food, you grab sushi. Culture is beautiful to choose, but when you exclude choosing your own culture as a reason why you choose another, it’s not ‘color blind’ it’s self hate.

For a black man to love a white woman or any woman is a beautiful thing.; but for any man to say he doesn’t date any woman of his own race, the same race as his mother, is really admitting he is a coward. #EbrahimAseem Too weak-minded to be in a relationship with a strong woman of their own race, who will tell him when he is wrong, call him on his “B.S.” and correct him.

Love has no race. Spirits have no race. We are all spirits, wrapped in the human form, like a gift wrapped inside a box. Who cares what color the box is? It’s the treasure inside that is to be valued, not its container. #EbrahimAseem Black women are beauifull. White women are beautiful. All women are beautiful.

I have never seen a heart love more or love less, based on the skin color of the person the heart resides in. #EbrahimAseem

People who only date “light-skinned people” or only date “dark-skinned people” are ignorant.

Light-skinned does not mean prettier. Dark- skinned does not mean ugly. Light-skinned does not mean one is stuck-up or SOFT. Dark-skinned does not mean one is humble or HARD. #EbrahimAseem

White does not mean she’s weak or submissive. Black does not mean she’s ghetto or uneducated. #EbrahimAseem

Latin doesn’t mean she has an attitude or is crazy. Asian doesn’t mean she’s timid and weak-minded. #EbrahimAseem

Filipino doesn’t mean she’s irrational or homicidal. Pretty doesn’t mean she’s bipolar or cocky. #EbrahimAseem

When we limit ourselves or judge people based off race or the color of their skin, we allow ourselves to miss out on the most compatible person for us. #EbrahimAseem

I learned as a man, we have to stop trying to CONTROL a strong-minded women. #EbrahimAseem In that same regard, we have to STOP placing labels on women, as “submissive” or “non-submissive”.

A weak woman and a submissive woman are not the same. Strong women are constantly misunderstood
as “crazy” or “annoying” by weak males who aren’t men enough to handle her. #EbrahimAseem She’s not “crazy” she’s passionate. She’s not “bipolar” she just treats people differently, based off how THEY treat HER. She’s not “talking back” she just speaks her mind, despite what anyone feels or thinks about it. #EbrahimAseem A strong-minded woman will NEVER be submissive to a weak man. If she sees he cannot assume the Alpha role, she will walk all over him.

A strong-minded woman will happily submit herself mentally to a strong man who mentally DEMANDS her respect with his mentality, who can respect her enough NOT to try to change her, and can assume the ALPHA role.

The reason many men don’t wife or cuff strong- minded women, or say they don’t date women of their own race is because, he subconsciously feels inferior to her intelligence. #EbrahimAseem

“SHUT UP” is a term weak men with limited vocabulary use to silence a woman who speaks her mind. #EbrahimAseem We have to Man up our mentality. If she talks too much, It’s because we as men are not doing enough.

Taking control of a woman’s MIND with our conversation will render her SPEECHLESS. #EbrahimAseem The reason strong- minded women
have a smart mouth & talk back is not because she’s “masculine.” NO. She knows she can play a man’s Alpha role better than him with her intelligence. #EbrahimAseem Can we as men STOP trying to CONTROL a strong woman?

Some men say, “but I need a woman to listen to me, not correct Me! treat me like a MAN dammit! First of all, how much a woman listens to us is NOT a reflection of how much of a man we are. If a man feels that, he obviously has very low self-esteem. #EbrahimAseem

Second, by a man choosing ONLY weak, submissive women who he KNOWS will never challenge anything he says, shows he is SCARED of a woman’s strength.

If the only way a man is attracted or aroused by the company of a woman is if she bows down to him, it is scary, and the early stages of him being on the down low. Oh, trust me.

You get off on power struggle huh? You like a woman to treat you like you’re her daddy huh? Yeah, that’s a weak man. A real STRONG man can humble himself to listen to his woman.

A KING has no intention of trying to Change or CONTROL a queen. He WANTS his woman to be just as strong and outspoken as Him, with her own mind, because he knows, his woman’s strength is a reflection of his. #EbrahimAseem Iron sharpens iron. As men, we have to allow our strong woman to be the iron that sharpens our iron, as we sharpen hers.

Im so attracted to Black women. She is not unapproachable. She just sees thru lies game & bs. She doesnt have attitude. She just speaks her mind, & wont submit to a weak man just so he can be alpha by default. Skin of black diamond. Hair of gold. #EbrahimAseem Her body is art Her heartbeat is music. All human life came from her womb. Respect her✊🏿

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Nice Guys don’t exist. | Ladies, If your standards are high, change them.

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There is no such thing as a ‘nice guy’. There are (1) men who share their flaws upfront & (2) males who hide flaws by acting ‘too nice’. A ‘bad boy’ & a ‘nice guy’ are the exact same manipulative man, playing a cliche role to get girls in bed. Behaving one way in public & another way in private.

Genuine men have balance. He’s nice, yet blunt. Strong, yet calm. Take charge, yet non-controlling. Hood, yet law abiding. Protective, yet not possessive. Romantically aggressive. #EbrahimAseem A man with no ‘edge’ is hiding a cliffhanger. Here’s how you avoid the plot twist.

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If he’s boring, with no confidence & no assertiveness, he isn’t a ‘nice guy’ just because he texts you everyday. He’s a clingy, narssasistic male. This is why it’s never ok to call a woman ‘female’ or a man ‘male’. ‘Male’ & ‘female’ refers to the phyical body only. ‘Man’ & ‘woman’ refers to the spirit we are, which controls the body it’s wrapped in. #EbrahimAseem Any person who only views their self worth by their physical body parts, is a self-proclaimed female or male.

Pay attention to the red flags. If a man never disagrees, never has an opposing opinion, or never calls out your flaws; he’s not nice, he’s playing a beta role. Don’t wait blindly for the plot twist. Yell cut, end scene. Fin.

Men don’t switch up out of no where. Women must learn to be more loyal to warning signs she sees from the beginning, than she is to an inconsistent man’s potential he never lives up to. #EbrahimAseem

A woman who respectfully questions things is sexy af to a man with nothing to hide. Call him out on his red flags & inconsistencies, to see if his love is stronger than his pride. How a man behaves under pressure is who he really is.

If that nice guy gets angry when you point out his inconsistency, it proves he’s a rageful narssasist playing a role. If that bad boy says he’s ok, yet passive aggressively throws tantrums after you catch him in a lie, it shows he’s a scorned coward, using a non-chalaunt ‘bad boy’ image to camouflage his bitterness.

If you’re a single woman & your standards are high, change them…by raising them even higher. That way, only a tall man with a high consistency level can reach your standards.

A loyal woman is not crazy. Over emotional. Smart mouthed or rude. She is a work of art, sculpted by the greatest artist in the universe. Art does not need to rhyme, make sense all the time, nor change its appearance to be accepted. #EbrahimAseem Art is to be observed, studied, valued & appreciated for the uniqueness it is.

Dear future wife, I want to study your pages. Become fluent in your language the most. I taste the good & bad in you, & I want them both. You bring out the best flavor in me, flaws & all. I just want to savor you. You’re already whole, you don’t need a man to rescue you. #EbrahimAseem I just want you to love & fully accept the beautiful soul in your mirror, as much as I love her. May you, me & her love each other so deep, stay growing closer and better, together, for infinity forevers.

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It’s unnatural for men to stay loyal to one woman. He’s as faithful as his options

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“Women say ‘once a man gets a real woman he won’t want to sleep with other women.’ Myth!…Being faithful to one woman is unnatural for men. If he knew his woman wouldn’t find out, any man would do it,” Terry Deron wrote. As a man who has never cheated, I disagree.

Monogamy is not unnatural for men. If it were, men would remain single & sleep with as many women as we want to. Then it wouldn’t be “cheating”. Men who cheat do it for control. #EbrahimAseem Insecurely filling their low confidence by breaking your trust.

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Holding a loyal woman’s heart hostage, while behaving single boosts an inadequate male’s ego. He’s not just intimidated by an intelligent, successful woman with her own mind, he’s jealous of her. #EbrahimAseem Jealous he lacks courage to disagree with his homies & parents, to speak his own mind the way she does. He cheats on her to break her down to his low confidence level.

This is why cheaters will constantly accuse a loyal woman of cheating. He doesn’t understand how a genuine woman like you settles for an unconfident, narssasistic male like him.

If monogamy was ‘unnatural’ for a man, he’d just leave her so he can sleep with all the women he wants. He WANTS to stay committed, make you suffer to suck power & confidence from your pain through a soul tie, like a vampire. #EbrahimAseem

This is why a man will cheat on a loyal woman for years, then leave her to marry the next woman he meets. He used cheating on a beautiful, genuine woman to give him the confidence he lacked, to approach the woman he really wanted. #EbrahimAseem

For years you stayed loyal to a cheater, bringing out his potential, only for the woman he met after you to reap all the benefits of the faithful man you taught him how to be, because you were more of his mother than his woman. #EbrahimAseem

Women wouldn’t be happily married if they allowed cheating. That’s what wives did 100 years ago when women were legal property of their husbands. Never settle for cheating. True love is reciprocal.

Stop molding that cheater into a better man for the next woman. You deserve a one woman man. If you think all men cheat, then you don’t want to date me. I don’t talk to multiple girls. I don’t dry text for months with no intentions. I like conversing about growth, the universe & building a future with one woman.

I don’t Netflix & chill. I take one woman out on a planned, paid for date so you know it’s real. #EbrahimAseem I don’t ask you for sexy pics. I long kiss, play in your hair, massage grab & smack your derrière. I don’t ask “wyd”. I provide hilarious, deep conversing. I don’t do side chicks, I pour all my attention, time, effort & love into ONE woman. I don’t talk. I court. I want a future.

I want forever with ONE. There’s a man right now praying he gets to marry you. Your gaurdedness is not a bad thing. Your flaws aren’t a deal breaker to him. He wants only you. Don’t keep pushing him away with your assumption all 3.5 billion men on earth posses the same mind frame as the disloyal men in your past. #EbrahimAseem Keep growing & loving the beautiful soul in your mirror, & the handsome, loyal man who’s made just for you will match his love with your self love.

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The powerful reason I refuse to celebrate Mother’s DAY.

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When I was a child, my mother always ate in her room, door closed, while me & my sister ate at the dinner table.

One night, when I was 7, I heard noise in my moms room & when I went in, I saw her laying on the bed, stress tearing out of her eyes, rubbing her stomach. That was the moment I realized, my mother was willing to skip dinners just so my sister & I had food to eat every night.

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My mother sacrificed buying herself clothes & jewelry just to provide food, clothes, a warm bed & electricity for her family. Through any struggles, she kept a smile on her face at all times, so we wouldn’t know how poor we really were.

From that day on I taught myself how to cook & I made sure my moms ate every day. I cooked breakfast in bed in the weekends, made her cards & wrote her love poems often, because every day is Mother’s Day, when you’re blessed with a selfless one.

I decided to do something with my life, so my mother would never have to starve to pay bills. That’s what motivates me to travel worldwide & speak life into groups at universities, as a 12-year mentor for men.

That is why I work 3 jobs, chef, senior care, motivational speaker. That’s why I don’t complain about life.

I just keep a smile on my face. I may have money now, but I came from not having anything & it’s because of overcoming all my struggles & what my mother did for me I am the man I am today.

Our world treats women with less respect than animals. The same government that coined “Martin Luther King Jr. Day” murdered him & hated him why he was alive. The same government who created, “Mother’s Day” doesn’t give women equal pay, nor maternity pay. #EbrahimAseem Many women get fired after giving birth. Mothers deserve paid time off after having a child, because without mother’s, no man would be alive. Without the Mother Soul Cell Fundamental Principle, which AM the divine creator, YHWH’s true nature, nothing in this universe could exist.

We honor mother’s for ONE day, then fat shame, skinny shame, slut shame, use, neglect, take for granted & judge her the other 364 days of the year. #EbrahimAseem That’s why I don’t celebrate this man-made holiday. Mother’s Day is EVERYDAY.

In my West-African Hebrew Culture, we learn how our ancestors never celebrated on “fixed dates”. They only commemorated ceremonies aligned with the new crescent of our moon, Yerah’s 28-day cycle.

She feels neglected & taken for granted for 364 days out the year. I’m tired of seeing men say mother’s are damaged goods. I’d marry a single mother.

Courting a single mother is hard. She will cancel dates. Short text & not reply. No time to put you first. A woman who puts her child first over me makes me want to make her & her child my first priority. #EbrahimAseem Be patient with her. Take her out. She’s not flaking. Childcare costs more than a date you take her on. It’s not about money to her. Spoil her with your time. Show you appreciate all sacrifices she makes for her child with no help. Be her consistency, she will be your everything. #EbrahimAseem

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This is why you should respect women: It was my 4th day teaching summer school. One of the teachers saw a 10th grade girl in his class sitting w/ her head down, arms around her head. The Germen teacher told her, "sit up, or I'll give you an 'F' & kick you out of school." 😳 She wiped her face & sat up. "You know what, come up to the board & solve this problem," he said. She put her hands over her face & shook her head. He said, "solve the problem or get an 'F' & repeat 10th grade." 😯 I walked over to the girl, gave her my coat & my key, & told her to "get up" & walked her out the classroom & to the bathroom. When I came back into class, the teacher said, "Mr. Ebrahim Aseem, did you kick her out?" I pulled him outside & put him on game, saying, "Every 28 days, girls endure the cramps & all the pain of their mentrual cycle. As men, we must pay attention. She was on her period & in pain, so much so, she was in tears. Not only that, I think she may have been bleeding. That's why she didn't stand up in front of the whole class. #EbrahimAseem You can't have your 'no bathroom policy'. You have to let these students go to the bathroom,especially the girls, so they can handle their business." No lie, this teacher told me, "Well, I'm not a woman. That period shit is not my problem" & turned away. I grabbed his shoulder & told him, "your mother went thru it every month just to birth you. It IS your problem. I don't know how you do things, but I don't treat children like animals. Treat them with respect. Remember, you were a child once." #EbrahimAseem This dumb as teacher responded by saying, "look, I'm sorry ok. I didn't know girls that young could get a period." I damn near slapped the stupid out of this dumb idiot. I replied by saying, "To be a grown man & gave no care to understand a woman's cycle is not some badge of manhood, it's pure ignorance. Every man ever born came out of a woman. Your God chose her over you to be the giver, carrier & representative of life. To disrespect a genuine woman is blasphemy, because who do you think chose her to be a life giver?" #EbrahimAseem #12YearMaleMentor No matter where you are, never be afraid to stand up for what's right

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#FatherhoodGoals #EbrahimAseem I really want a son & daughter. Not right NOW. I want to be extremely financially set before I bring life in this world. But, I have thoughts on manhood I was taught by men in my culture I'd love to share w/ a son, teach him how to be strong & confident, never dependent on, live off or control a female, self sufficient. #EbrahimAseem Shower my daughter with love, so she doesn't look for love in every man she meets. Encourage my children to pursue their dreams, support their choices. Never belittling or making them feel like a failure. #EbrahimAseem I want to raise a son to be ambitious, resilient, not make excuses, teach him not to blame people for his life, play football, hoops & exercising w/ him, be goofy with him, b/c he shares my humor. #EbrahimAseem I will never judge my child & make them feel less of a man for his choices. It is not parents' job to judge their child, only support & build them up. I want to raise a son to respect women. I don't want my son to base how he treats women on how males look at him. I want to teach him showing a woman you love her is NOT being a simp, it's being a strong man. #EbrahimAseem I want to teach my son to be a loyal man, not a hoe male. I don't want him getting multiple women pregnant, leaving the mother to raise the child by herself. I want him to make a woman a wife before he makes her a mother. I want to raise a future husband, not a future baby daddy. #EbrahimAseem More than anything, I want to teach my son to be humble w/o ego, pride & arrogance. I'm just a flawed man who has made mistakes in this dream called life, but REFUSES not to learn from them. I refuse to repeat mistakes. #EbrahimAseem I refuse to be a weak male, who blames women for everything. I refuse to be a player, womanizer or baby daddy. I refuse to put my hands on a woman, use, rape or break a woman like many males. #EbrahimAseem I'm not a profit, I'm an example real men who value women exist & I'm tired of us being seen as dogs. I want to be a living example of the man I want my daughter to marry. Bless me with a woman who can see the leader in me. I don't want a bad bitch. I want a sweet woman.

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