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About Ebrahim Aseem

I am a chef, writer & motivational speaker. I've been a youth mentor for young Black men for 10 years & I'm currently shopping my first book, "Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women"

He didn’t CHEAT. Your smart MOUTH nagged him into the arms of a submissive woman.

No man wants to work all day, fighting to provide for his family, just to come home & battle a smart mouthed woman. Have his dinner ready. His bath drawn. His TV on ESPN & your smart ass mouth closed. … Continue reading

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If he cheated, you should’ve loved him HARDER.

If he’s flirting with Instamodels, get your hair & nails done. Do squats. Dress sexy. Stop letting yourself go. If he never makes time for you, you’re too clingy. Let him breathe. Stop being over emotional, scaring him off. If … Continue reading

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Why men chase you so hard, then lose interest & effort so quick.

In the beginning they chase you hard. Good morning texts. Affectionate gestures that have you smiling all day. Then when you let down your wall, it all suddenly goes away. But why? By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody Boys lose interest … Continue reading

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Why dating a SINGLE MOTHER can NEVER last

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody 75% of my readers are men. One said, “Ebrahim, I’ve found too many single mothers want me to make her and her kids my FIRST priority while I am to be her LAST priority. I’m … Continue reading

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He’s either courting you, committed to you or playing you.

Dating & “talking” are ambiguous terms. He’s either courting you, committed to you or playing you. Love yourself enough to require clarity. By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody Men, if you find a loyal girl who’s willing to stay after you … Continue reading

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Why men cheat on a beautiful WIFE

When I get my wife, I will kiss, bite & massage every inch of her body. Play in her hair & massage her scalp as I rub all over her curves, just so the whole world knows I’m only hers. … Continue reading

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Why men don’t APPROACH you sweet women. Only InstaModels.

View this post on Instagram A post shared by Ebrahim Asim (@fuel4thebody) The most Beautiful Women hardly get approached while easy *hoes & InstaModels get asked for their number everyday. Men we must step it up! It’s not a woman’s … Continue reading

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Bae Tour: Man up & COURT her. It’s not a woman’s job to pursue you bruh.

Bae tour: sexual vacation paid for by one of one’s multiple side hoes. That girl on Instagram taking pics in Bora Bora, Greece, Miami & Belize. No job. Living rent free in her mom’s house. She’s not paying for those … Continue reading

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Why it’s so HARD for women to TRUST

What’s hardest for a woman isn’t losing her EX or trusting her next man. It’s forgiving her SELF for falling in love with his potential, knowing damn well she saw warning signs & his inconsistency. #EbrahimAseem The man he is … Continue reading

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