He didn’t CHEAT. Your smart MOUTH nagged him into the arms of a submissive woman.

Posted on February 8, 2016 by Ebrahim Aseem

image

No man wants to work all day, fighting to provide for his family, just to come home & battle a smart mouthed woman. Have his dinner ready. His bath drawn. His TV on ESPN & your smart ass mouth closed. Hell, change his tire & massage his feet as a sign of your submission to him as your leader. This is the ignorance we teach our daughters when ridicule her for doing things we let our sons get away with. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

Parents let their sons stay out later, date sooner & skip chores, while they make their daughters clean up after him, do all chores, facing the emotional abusive of hearing her mother say, “I wish I had another son instead of you.” #EbrahimAseem

This daughter-hate creates a mental muzzle in a woman’s mind, causing her to bite her tongue whenever she sees men display immaturity. #EbrahimAseem She fears he will abandon her if she speaks her mind, because mother’s bias taught her it drives men into the arms of a submissive woman. Bullshit.

If you met a rare woman who calms your rage, supports your dreams & respectfully calls you out on your B.S., adore her, commit to her & never let go. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t entertain a giggle-when-you-mess-up “ride or die chick” who never tells you when you’re wrong. That opportunist does not love you. A loyal woman respectfully keeps you on point. #EbrahimAseem

Key word “respect.” I wish a female would fix her lips to talk out the side of her neck to me. I’d respectfully tell her, “baby I love you but if you don’t sit down & shut the hell up before the best thing that ever happened to you walks out your life. Baby, I want to fight FOR you, not against you. #EbrahimAseem

What hell did people you’ve trusted in your past put you through that makes you feel the need to talk out the side of your mouth when you don’t feel understood? Tell me. Let me in. I know how it feels to hurt, that’s why I want you to know how it feels for someone to finally put you first. #EbrahimAseem

You calm my anger. You give me peace. You make me want to embrace the thought of monogamy & say goodbye to these streets. You make me feel complete, because you bring me closer to my self-love. So when I tell my boys I’m thinking about forever, know you’re the only woman I’m thinking of. #EbrahimAseem You make me want to be an example & leader to my boys, show them what matrimony is all about. Show them

letting your woman walk over you & talk to you out the side of her mouth is not being a “nice guy” its passive aggressive. Respect a woman enough to tell her when she’s wrong. Be vulnerable for her without being a little bitch boy. Don’t possibly say “I’m fine” then throw fits, & act all moody to your woman. Man up & take control of your emotions. Stop acting like you’re on your period bro.

A genuine woman doesn’t nag. She just sees your great potential & wants to help you reach it. She’s submissive to her integrity & allergic to your b.s. #EbrahimAseem It is not her job to submit to you just because we are the man, pay bills or throw down in bed.

As rugged & masculine as I am, I want a wife, whose affectionate nurturing makes me submit my heart, loyalty & romantic aggression to only her. My consistency & providing will make her submit her trust & patience to me. Submission isn’t about “control”. It’s about reciprocating all we both give. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me
Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

Want a free copy of my book? click “Follow” => http://Facebook.com/AEAseem click “get notifications”, or “see first” then message me so I can message you a free copy.

Want to hear me sing? Click bellow.

https://instagram.com/p/BAGLG87vEt9/

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

From the founder of Real News, Yolanda Banks-Reed

Posted on February 5, 2016 by Ebrahim Aseem

Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

If he cheated, you should’ve loved him HARDER.

Posted on January 28, 2016 by Ebrahim Aseem

image

If he’s flirting with Instamodels, get your hair & nails done. Do squats. Dress sexy. Stop letting yourself go.

If he never makes time for you, you’re too clingy. Let him breathe. Stop being over emotional, scaring him off.

If he cheated on you, you should have loved him harder. He wouldn’t feel the need to cheat if you were doing your job, fighting for him. These are the poisonous lies we teach our daughters by telling them to “love him harder” whenever he displays disloyalty.

Loving an inconsistent man harder will not help him reach potential. It will make you procrastinate on reaching your own. #EbrahimAseem Stop giving up your goals for him.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

You used to be so ambitious. So driven. Until you met a man with “potential” who made you neglect your own? #EbrahimAseem That is not “loyalty”. That is disloyalty to your self love.

Girls: “why can’t guys be loyal in relationships?” You’re not even loyalty to your own worth & intuition, which warned you not to entertain him. #EbrahimAseem

Prioritizing staying loyal to a man over staying loyal to her goals, first mind & self love is taught to girls from childhood, phrased as “loyalty.” Let’s

Who you give loyalty to is who you become. Evil communication corrupts good fruit. Stop being loyal to someone who’s not a living example of the light you want to become. #EbrahimAseem They extract your energy, to fuel their existence, while draining all your powers meant for your purpose.

Some of these girls asking “where are the loyal men?” have never even required a man to taken her out, or be consistent with actions before giving him her all. He didn’t “cheat” on you if he never even committed to you. You just loved him more than you love you. #EbrahimAseem Some of these girls are in a relationship with their feelings.

Deep girls stay loyal to inconsistent men who don’t promote her spiritual growth, then question loyalty & love. Be more loyal to your SELF love than you are to potential he never reaches. #EbrahimAseem

Let’s stop teaching our daughters to study hard for the degree, do squats for the booty, work hard for the money, all to attract a better man. A woman doesn’t need the love of a man to complete her. #EbrahimAseem Knowing her self loving worth does that.

Girls stay loyal to inconsistent boys they see no future with because she seeks stability. She’d rather stay until he messes up, than give up. #EbrahimAseem Sadly, this lack of self worth scares away men who can promote her growth.

If he cared, he’d reach out first, make time without being told, & take you out on a planned, paid for date. #EbrahimAseem Stop being more loyal to his potential than you are to your self worth.

As men we must realize, a genuine woman with trust issues is not always crazy, rude, smart mouth, guarded or over emotional. She’s just been thru so much pain. #EbrahimAseem

You don’t know if growing up her mother treated her like crap & put men over her own daughter. #EbrahimAseem Parents never acknowledging all she did, never showing unconditinsl love, always putting her down, calling her names.

You don’t know if family & friends she trusted, stabbed her in the back, let money come between them & proved to be disloyal. #EbrahimAseem You don’t know how hard it is for her to met a guy, fall in love, finally trust him, only to get her heart shattered to pieces. #EbrahimAseem Then, have to pick up all those pieces & put herself back together, alone, no help. Only to met a guy again & go through the same b.s. over & over like a never ending nightmare.

Just things my sisters taught me, which is why I don’t mind putting in time, patience & consistency to earn a sweet woman’s heart. #EbrahimAseem

Court her, commit, then get down on one knee & tell her this

You are my dream come true. My happily ever after. Where would I be without you? I love more than my lungs love breathing air. Not just because of all you do. All you give & all you share. #EbrahimAseem I love you because you promote my growth. The love I have for myself is what matters to you most.

You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take out on a date. Show off around town. Go for a slow walk with by the lake. #EbrahimAseem You are the only woman who can arouse my mind, and throb my head. You’re the only woman I want to devour in bed.

You’re the only woman I can be goofy with, sing along to 90s R&B with as we laugh & ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because without you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far.

The first woman I ever seen was the sweetest woman I ever known. My mother. And when it comes to making one woman her daughter-in-law, my love, I can think of none other, than you.

You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heartbeat want to kiss the soft sand that is your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled with hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, I am willing to endure all the pain, destroy all your demons, break down every last wall that houses your trust issues, because only you mean that much.

I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you are inside & out, and as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen. #EbrahimAseem After all, he will be raised by one.

Thank you for sticking by me through all the arguments & mistakes. I will consistently use my actions to say, I will never turn away. No other woman can take your place. #EbrahimAseem

I want trips overseas with only you. I want to get on one knee for only you. I want to spiritually grow with only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I will place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, after I, with tears in my eyes, look the best thing that ever happened to me deep in your eyes and say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. And I want you to daily uplift you, so you always love you too. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me
Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

Want a free copy of my book? click “Follow” => http://Facebook.com/AEAseem click “get notifications”, or “see first” then message me so I can message you a free copy.

Want to hear me sing? Click bellow.

https://instagram.com/p/BAGLG87vEt9/

https://instagram.com/p/BA2d-r7PEua/

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , | 1 Comment

Why men chase you so hard, then lose interest & effort so quick.

Posted on January 21, 2016 by Ebrahim Aseem

image

In the beginning they chase you hard. Good morning texts. Affectionate gestures that have you smiling all day. Then when you let down your wall, it all suddenly goes away. But why?
By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

Boys lose interest & effort in women after noticing her rate of growth exceeds his. #EbrahimAseem This intimidates him, to always feel inadequate to a deep woman aware of her worth, whom he has nothing but good dick & inconsistency to offer.

Don’t text a woman 6 months later, crawling back into her life, like you didn’t destroy her ability to trust. #EbrahimAseem If she cut your inconsistent ass off, chances are she used that knife you stabbed her in the back with.

“Men” chase you so hard, then lose interest & effort so quick, because “girls” switch up. Once they fall for you, they stop being fun, goofy & care free, and switch to being serious, clingy & emotional.

Instead of asking deep, interesting questions getting to know you & your perspective on life, the universe & why we are here, they spend the whole conversation asking emotional questions like:

“who is that same girl who keeps commenting your picture?” and
“what are we?” Which is a silly question, because if a man has never told you with actions his intentions with you, where he sees y’all going, his dreams, ambitions, career plan, what he wants out of life & why he wants you in his, you are dating a boy. You’re a single mom. #EbrahimAseem

Sometimes a man texts other women, not because he wants to cheat & sleep with them, but because he misses having communication with a flirty, goofy woman. That used to be you, until you started letting your emotions rule you & take the fun out of you.

Men don’t like girls who laugh at everything, they just love witty women with depth, who provoke deep thought, yet aren’t know-it-alls. #EbrahimAseem If you can’t say something witty, sarcastic or deep, don’t say anything at all. Lack of humor is unattractive. Get your unfunny ass away from me.

Truth is, it doesn’t matter why he lost interest. If he was meant for you, he would never lose interest. You’d be his favorite melody.

What’s meant for you will find you. You won’t have to chase it, force it, settle for less or fight to keep it alive. It will not break you, curse you or question you. It will heal you, understand you & be patient with your trust. #EbrahimAseem To attract it, you must fully let go of anything or person that does not promote growth. Once you do, you’ll attract a consistent man, who will open up to you & say,

“I want to be the reason you don’t give up on your dreams. The reason you know you’re not asking too much. You never get all that you give, until now. #EbrahimAseem

I just want to love you until you glow so much, people notice growth. #EbrahimAseem Until the shine of your smile eclipses your fears. I want to be your peace.

You don’t want to date me. I don’t text for months w/ no intentions. I like conversing about growth & building a future. I don’t Netflix & chill. I take you on a date so you know it’s real. I don’t ask for sexy pics. I long kiss, play in your hair, massage & smack your derrière. I don’t talk. I court. I want a future. I want forever with one. If you only want a bae, I’m not for you. #EbrahimAseem But if you want a goofy, deep, super flawed, super genuine soul, I will love you so consistently, you will become that love. That self love.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me
Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

Want a free copy of my book? click “Follow” => http://Facebook.com/AEAseem click “get notifications”, or “see first” then message me so I can message you a free copy.

Want to hear me sing? Click bellow.

https://instagram.com/p/BAIYepfvEnq/

https://instagram.com/p/_r7JPMvEsK/

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , | Leave a comment

Why dating a SINGLE MOTHER can NEVER last

Posted on January 14, 2016 by Ebrahim Aseem

image
By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

75% of my readers are men. One said, “Ebrahim, I’ve found too many single mothers want me to make her and her kids my FIRST priority while I am to be her LAST priority. I’m expected to pay for everything for her kids by another man. This is why real men should stay away from single mothers. They expect us men to put up with extra crap & still be last in line. Where is the return on our investment in the relationship?”

My response: “A woman who puts her child first over me, makes me want to make her & her child my first priority. If you’re not her husband, you don’t come before her child. #EbrahimAseem That’s why

I’d marry a woman with children. She’s not a burden. She’s a blessing. #EbrahimAseem Bro, if you don’t want to commit to a single mother, cool. Keep “talking” to the girls you prefer. I sincerely pray that works for you. But don’t knock a man like me, willing to pour love into a woman & her child. #EbrahimAseem

Her son needs love & leadership from a man, so he won’t grow up to neglect his responsibilities & choose to be a baby daddy. If his father isn’t man enough to raise & teach him how to be a man, I will. #EbrahimAseem Her daughter needs to see a man court, commit to, provide for & respect her mother, so she won’t think she has to settle to keep a man. If her father isn’t man enough to be a provider for her mother, I will. #EbrahimAseem

Dating a single mother will NEVER last long. Once you see how much she can love, give & cater to her child, you will want to wife her ASAP. #EbrahimAseem

https://twitter.com/ebrahimaseem/status/687799425385627648

Asking these “my child is my world” single mothers on one date is a mistake. She will flake. Be patient. Keep asking her out, so she knows her child isn’t a deal breaker & she isn’t a flaker. All the love she gives her child, she will shower you with, if you’ll just wait a while. #EbrahimAseem

“Dating” a single mother is a waste of time. Her baby daddy will remain in the picture & on her mind. She doesn’t want him back. She only stays in touch, so her child will know their father loves them very much. #EbrahimAseem A woman who puts her precious child’s needs over her own deserves a diamond engagement ring cut from the most precious stone.

These single mothers don’t know how to put a man first, cook for, cater to & treat him like a king. Because she doesn’t give men husband privileges until he gives her a ring. #EbrahimAseem

Courting a single mother is terribly hard. She’ll flake & cancel dates. Short text & not reply. Have no time for putting you first. Be patient with her. She’s not flaking. Childcare costs more than the date you want to take her on. Pay her babysitter. Take her on a date. It’s not about money. Spoil her with your time to let her know you appreciate all sacrifices she makes for her child with no help. Be her consistency & she will be your everything. #EbrahimAseem”

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me
Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

Want a free copy of my book? click “Follow” => http://Facebook.com/AEAseem click “get notifications”, or “see first” then message me so I can message you a free copy.

Want to hear me sing? Click bellow.

https://instagram.com/p/BAGLG87vEt9/

https://instagram.com/p/8B8mMEPErZ/https://instagram.com/p/55J0_ovEpn/

https://instagram.com/p/8bIT8cPEkm/

https://instagram.com/p/BAIYepfvEnq/

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , | 6 Comments

He’s either courting you, committed to you or playing you.

Posted on December 31, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

image

Dating & “talking” are ambiguous terms. He’s either courting you, committed to you or playing you. Love yourself enough to require clarity. By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

Men, if you find a loyal girl who’s willing to stay after you string her along & destroy her, pick up the pieces after you cheat on her & endure hell just to keep the relationship going, don’t break her. Leave her. She doesn’t love you. She’s enabling you. #EbrahimAseem She’s using your presence in her life for the lack of self-love in her heart.

A self-loving woman loves you too much to settle for you at your worst, because she sees your greatness, spots your potential & will give her all to encourage the leader you are. #EbrahimAseem

Men, we can’t be fooled to think these “ride or die” girls who stay “loyal” after we put her through hell really loves us. A girl who stays loyal to your inconsistencies & never calls out your mistakes has no investment in your growth. #EbrahimAseem She intentionally holds back your growth so you won’t out grow her & leave her.

Let’s stop using “talking” of calling a woman we starve of commitment our “ride or die” as a trick to get wife caliber women to give us husband privileges.

Take her out on dates to see chemistry. Court her to see compatibility. Commit to her exclusivity to build for a future engagement. “Then get down on one knee & tell her,

“You are my dream come true. My happily ever after. Where would I be without you? I love more than my lungs love breathing air. Not just because of all you do. All you give & all you share. #EbrahimAseem I love you because you promote my growth. The love I have for myself is what matters to you most.

You are the only woman I want to wake up to. Take out on a date. Show off around town. Go for a slow walk with by the lake. #EbrahimAseem You are the only woman who can arouse my mind, and throb my head. You’re the only woman I want to devour in bed.

You’re the only woman I can be goofy with, sing along to 90s R&B with as we laugh & ride in the car. #EbrahimAseem Even if we’re driving nowhere. Because without you in my future, I’m going nowhere. You’re the best woman for me by far.

The first woman I ever seen was the sweetest woman I ever known. My mother. And when it comes to making one woman her daughter-in-law, my love, I can think of none other, than you.

You make a hood man want to be a good man. You make the waves of my heartbeat want to kiss the soft sand that is your embrace. Make no mistake. I know your past is filled with hurt, sadness, pain & broken trust. #EbrahimAseem But for only you, I am willing to endure all the pain, destroy all your demons, break down every last wall that houses your trust issues, because only you mean that much.

I want my daughter to be as beautiful as you are inside & out, and as kind & nurturing as you are to me. I want my son to be born & raised by you, so he will grow up knowing how to attract a queen. #EbrahimAseem After all, he will be raised by one.

Thank you for sticking by me through all the arguments & mistakes. I will consistently use my actions to say, I will never turn away. No other woman can take your place. #EbrahimAseem

I want trips overseas with only you. I want to get on one knee for only you. I want to spiritually grow with only you. I want my consistency to circle your heart, like the ring I will place on your finger. #EbrahimAseem I want to kiss you, my future bride, after I, with tears in my eyes, look the best thing that ever happened to me deep in your eyes and say, “I do”, to only you. I love you. And I want you to daily uplift you, so you always love you too. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat On Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me
Booking: AEAseem@gmail.com

I am a chef & motivational speaker. I write new articles every thursday & speak life into groups of 100s of men at universities & corporations worldwide.

Want a free copy of my book? Follow me => http://Facebook.com/AEAseem then message me so I can message you a free copy.

/https://instagram.com/p/_-nQiMvEsE/

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , | Leave a comment

Why men cheat on a beautiful WIFE

Posted on December 24, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

image

When I get my wife, I will kiss, bite & massage every inch of her body. Play in her hair & massage her scalp as I rub all over her curves, just so the whole world knows I’m only hers. #EbrahimAseem I don’t get how husbands can get bored & complacent with their wife. But when I’m blessed with a love who’s true, I will say I do & consistently pour affection, providing & protection into her for life.

A man can have a beautiful wife, intelligent, career, cooks, cleans, takes care of home, him & his children, would do anything to please him in bed, yet he will still cheat on her with a random girl he met online. There is nothing wrong with her. Husbands cheat on beautiful wives to gain the confidence he never had from her brokeness.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody

Cheating is for insecure cowards. It’s not about sex. If it were, cheaters would just remain single to sleep with as many as they wanted. Then it wouldn’t be “cheating”. Cheating is about control. Filling insecurity. #EbrahimAseem

Cheating is to hold a loyal person’s heart hostage, while one behaves single. They could just end the relationship to sleep around, but they WANT to stay committed & make you suffer to gain power from your pain. #EbrahimAseem

Men confess to me they insecurely cheat because they secretly feel they don’t deserve their genuine woman. He wants her to leave, so he doesn’t have to be the bad guy & leave her first. But she stays. #EbrahimAseem

A woman whose loyalty is taken for granted will question herself like:
“what is wrong with me?
Am I not I’m pretty enough?
Is my ass not curvy and fat enough for him?
Is my stomach not slim enough for him?
Is it because I won’t let him bring another girl in the bedroom with us?
Is it my smart mouth?
Is it that I’m always “over emotional” like he
complains?
What aren’t I doing right?
Should I do more?” #EbrahimAseem

Then she will stay in the marriage to PROVE to him she is better than the girl he cheated on her with. To prove to herself she didn’t mary the wrong one or get married too fast. To prove she can help him by help changing a bad boy into a good man, fooling herself. This is reverse psychology. #EbrahimAseem

https://instagram.com/p/_vSWLcPEtH/

Males use cheating to TRICK a good woman way out of his league into SETTLING for him. #EbrahimAseem But this mind game many males play on their wives cannot and will not work on a Loyal woman who knows her WORTH.

He married you not for love, but to use you as his confidence boost. Now his insecure ass can attract the InstaModel type girls who turned him down in high school. #EbrahimAseem Leave a serial cheater. If he never had a man in his life to teach him how to be one, he can never be the providing, leader you & your children deserve.

Staying loyal to a cheater gives them no incentive to ever stop cheating on you. #EbrahimAseem A cheater can never love a person who stays loyal to them. Seeing you lose your self worth is the biggest turn off ever.

It’s not your job to teach a boy how to be a man, listen, understand & comfort you. Don’t get “being his wife” confused with “being his mother”. #EbrahimAseem Some of y’all wives are adopting grown ass men.

Stop entertaining a man you don’t want your son to grow up to become. Your daughter will grow up to accept cheating & disrespect from men if you continue to let her see you being more loyal to an inconsistent man than you are to your own self-worth. #EbrahimAseem

Women get so wrapped up in a man, hen it’s all over, she doesn’t even have her self-love to go back to. #EbrahimAseem Be more loyal to your integrity than his inconsistency.

What’s hardest for a woman isn’t losing him. It’s forgiving herself or falling in love with his potential, knowing damn well she saw the warning signs & his inconsistency. #EbrahimAseem

A wife isn’t a woman who just cooks, cleans & obeys her husband. A wife is married to her ambitions. In mental matrimony with her mind. Loyal to her integrity. If I can’t support her and love, I don’t deserve her. #EbrahimAseem

When I get my wife, I will daily get on one knee to trEAT her pearls of wisdom like soul food & swallow every drop of her intellect as she feeds me food for thought. Never get bored with your woman. #EbrahimAseem

These online girls can’t compete with the affection, support & growth our woman gives. Let’s stop lusting after these Instamodels & give all that attention & romantic words to that one woman who’s been loyal to us. #EbrahimAseem

What hurts her most isn’t your lies or the cold way you treated her. It’s that she saw it all coming & ignored her mind to take a chance on marrying you. #EbrahimAseem

If you’re not ready to commit to one woman, man up & tell her. Don’t lie have a sweet, intelligent, loyal woman out here thinking she’s your one & only. #EbrahimAseem

Once we find that one woman who wants nothing from us, but to be our peace & support our ambitions, men let’s show her she no longer has to keep her guard up, by earning her trust & making her our one and only. #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me

https://instagram.com/p/_r7JPMvEsK/

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

Why men don’t APPROACH you sweet women. Only InstaModels.

Posted on November 26, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

image

The most Beautiful Women hardly get approached

while easy *hoes & InstaModels get asked for their number everyday. Men we must step it up! It’s not a woman’s job to chase you. Be confident enough to approach a beautiful, successful Woman in real life. Not just on Instagram.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Beautiful Women are the most humble, intelligent, funny & down to earth. She’s not stuck-up. She doesn’t have an attitude. She just knows if you have nothing new to offer her mind. #EbrahimAseem Sending her a DM like, “hey sexy ;)” does not count as approaching.

This is how you successfully approach a woman:

When you first see a woman out in public, use non-verbal communication to start. Never pick up lines. Smile & give her THE LOOK by making eye contact with her eyes, not her ass & boobs. This will make her smile & cheese uncontrollably. #EbrahimAseem

Women can’t resist a confident man
with pretty eyes, nice teeth, a nice SLIGHT smile, humor, respect & the confidence of an asshole.

When you approach a woman,
Do not yell out:
“Aye!”
“Aye shawty!”
“Hey babe!”
“DAMN ma let me talk to you foe a minute?”
“Mess wit ya boy”
“I can change yo life mami”
“You’re such a bad bitch.”

Approach her with respect, because
If she has a beautiful soul & self respect, she won’t accept anything less.

WALK UP to her. Don’t holler at her from blocks away. Do not speak loud, yell, talk weird, or cause a huge seen, so everyone knows you’re approaching her. Don’t tell her “slow down.” You keep up. Say, “I pray you have a day as beautiful as your smile.” Then walk away. You just made her day. #EbrahimAseem She’ll smile through all her stress because of you. Now, the next time you see her, she’ll want nothing more than for you to ask for her number.

Respectfully & confidently approach her & say “Excuse me, my name is ____ , may I ask you’re name?”

Be mindful, you’re interrupting her life. Being respectful, polite & considerate, showing you care about how she is feeling will give her the chance to warm up to you. #EbrahimAseem A woman knows within the first five seconds of meeting a man if she would date you, sex you, or even marry you.

Be extremely confident! She wants to know she’s in the presence of a MAN
Who knows how to take self-control. Keep her on her toes. Be humorous. Well groomed. Fresh cut, Fitted & fly. #EbrahimAseem Not nappy, sagging & sloppy. Hygiene on point. Cologne game on point. Teeth white, smile bright. Fingernails clean & clipped. Girls get offend when a man approaches her with body odor, dirty fingernails, breath smelling like ass & hot chips. Your goal is to stimulate all five of her senses before you fully approach.

Complement HER, not her body.
Look in her EYES the whole time you talk to her.

Tell her, “I want to converse with you so I can see if your conversation is as beautiful as your facial features.” #EbrahimAseem

Make her LAUGH. If you can’t make a woman laugh uncontrollably, she will feel you are wasting her time.

Log off all these social networks, go out & approach a woman right now! Today bro! Take her out on a real date, where you plan & pay for everything. In REAL life tho. Don’t rely on social networks to get to know a woman. Beautiful Women do not take these social networks seriously. It’s purely entertainment when she’s bored. She has a LIFE outside this.

Get to know her outside of these social networks & Instagram pics, because there is so much more to a woman than her appearance.

Here are 5 reasons
why men don’t APPROACH sweet women. Only InstaModels.:

#1 Your mean ass looks unapproachable.

If you’re always on your phone, mugging, irritated or in deep thought, you will come off unapproachable to a man.

InstaModels aren’t afraid to expose themselves & be vulnerable. While their promiscuity turns men of valor off, the fact they’re comfortable in their skin & don’t take life too seriously is rather appealing. So lighten up. Put your phone away. Smile. Even if you have to laugh at all those tacky hoes in tacky clothes as they walk by. Your smile & goofiness makes you irresistible to your dream man. #EbrahimAseem

#2 He’s intimidated by your beauty.

One woman asked me, “Guys think I must have all these guys drooling over me, because I’m so pretty. So why am I single? While these kangaroo looking females with ass injections are getting married?”

It’s simple. They expose their self. Flaws & all. But you, your beauty is intimidating. Not your physical beauty. Your inner beauty. You never show flaws & weakness. Always appear to have it all together, even when you’re dying inside. It’s a turn off to men when women hide imperfections. Or act like they “don’t need a man.” You’re so beautiful, but what about the insecure you? The self doubting you? The over emotional, over thinker? Open up. Let your guard down. Be a little more unbeautiful. #EbrahimAseem

Only entertain men you want your son to grow to become. – Ebrahim Aseem

No man wants to raise another man’s kids. This LIE is why single mothers feel they must settle for half ass time, half ass effort from half ass men who’ll accept her. Silly rabbit. It’s not your children that scare men away. The leader, providing men you want, see you taking care of grown ass little boys treating them like a king, letting him live off you. It makes a real man feel you don’t value him enough to date men on HIS level. #EbrahimAseem Value yourself. Only entertain men you want your son to grow to become. A real man will love you & your child as his own. IG: @Fuel4TheBody

#4 Successful women turn men off.

You’re too educated. Too career oriented. Too successful, that’s why men don’t approach you. Bullshit. You’re too independent. You don’t need a man. That’s a turn off to a provider, who wants to spoil you sometimes. Let a man be a man. Don’t always correct him with your highly educated, degree having ass. He loves your degree, success & the fact you got your own, but let him treat you. Cater to you. Massage you. Let a man be a man. #EbrahimAseem

#5 You’re Booty isn’t curvy enough.

I don’t think you women know how gorgeous you really are, because you trip off InstaModels & Video Vixens who make you feel you must be super curvy with massive ass & a flat, size zero waist, or Victoria Secret models who show you to lose weight & have zero cellulite. #EbrahimAseem

If you’re thick, love your curves. If you’re petite, love your frame. There is no mold to beauty. You ARE the mold. A work of art sculpted to be your unique version of beautiful. #EbrahimAseem Look at that beautiful soul staring back at you in the mirror & say, “You are beautiful.”

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me

https://instagram.com/p/8bIT8cPEkm/

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , | 2 Comments

Bae Tour: Man up & COURT her. It’s not a woman’s job to pursue you bruh.

Posted on November 19, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

image

Bae tour: sexual vacation paid for by one of one’s multiple side hoes.

That girl on Instagram taking pics in Bora Bora, Greece, Miami & Belize. No job. Living rent free in her mom’s house. She’s not paying for those trips or flights. She’s inboxing guys in those cities. Flirting & “talking” until he flies her out for a paid baecation, for sex & sight-seeing. Once she hops off the D, she hops on the next flight. Another city the next day. Another bae the next night. How many of your followers have you or your man flown out to have sex this year?

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”

Ladies, listen. If your man is inconsistent with you, yet consistently pouring affection into girls in his phone, he has hoes. Baes in different area codes. When he’s not texting you back, he’s texting his InstaCrush, or the new girl who messaged him on snap chat. #EbrahimAseem When an inconsistent guy short texts you, starves you of time, he’s lost interest in you & another girl in another area code has his interest, time & effort.

Type in your man’s local airport code in his phone’s Google search. A list of all his most current flights will appear, cataloging his bae tours. Busted. #EbrahimAseem

Girls who bae tour save the guy’s name in their phone under the city he flew her out to. So when her girl asks, “how was Atlanta?” and she says “girl it was a LONG flight that put me right to sleep” she’s talking about the guy’s sex game.#EbrahimAseem

Insecure guys & girls feel they need multiple baes & a main on the side, to evaporate every drop of insecurity & past heartbreak. #EbrahimAseem They know if they make a girl feel she must compete for his time & starve her if effort, she will stay loyal to him longer & fight harder to prove to him & herself she deserves his attention.

This is why they have multiple baes, all loyal to him. Breaking a genuine woman’s heart fills an inadequate male with false confidence. #EbrahimAseem He just got the woman who is too good for him to feel just as broken inside as he feels. What a soul vampire.

Ladies quit “talking” & require a man to court you. It goes, (1) Date: go on a couple dates to get to know th. (2) Court: Exclusive commitment to see compatibility. (3) Relationship: Faithful commitment with one you plan to marry. (4) engagement: life planning with your fiancée. (5) Marriage: building an empire with your soul mate. #EbrahimAseem

Courtship should be a prerequisite to a woman giving a man her loyalty & intimacy. #EbrahimAseem But you can’t “make” him court you. If he doesn’t value you enough to do so without being told, free him & let him be another woman’s problem. Some of y’all women are adopting grown ass men.

Guys don’t court, because women don’t make it a requirement. If you had sex with him before he took you out on a date, you’re the reason men don’t court. #EbrahimAseem If you made him a father before he made you his date, you’re the reason men don’t court.

Man up & COURT her. It’s not a woman’s job to pursue you bruh. #EbrahimAseem

Don’t ask her to chill. Say “I plan to take you out on a date for live music, fresh pasta & conversing. What time can I pick you up?” Court her. #EbrahimAseem

Court her, meaning match her level of giving. Don’t give more. Don’t give less. Don’t be too nice. Don’t be too mean. Be the yang to her yin, completion. #EbrahimAseem

Taking a giving woman out on a date isn’t being a simp. Courtship is a two-way street. She’d love to treat you to a date. Pay to get your hair lined. Pick out clothes to keep you fresh & fitted. She just wants to know you’re willing to reciprocate all she has to offer you. #EbrahimAseem

If she’s selfish & using, delete her number from your phone. Do not court her. But if she’s giving, supportive & respects your manhood, call her right now & say,

“I want to learn you. Be fluent in your thoughts. Understand the enigma you are. Travel galaxies inside your mind. Let me court you. #EbrahimAseem

A moon’s job is to orbit a planet & keep its frequency aligned. That’s why I frequently encircle you with affirmation, so your beautiful mind stays aligned with the most high. #EbrahimAseem

It’s not because you look so fine, lips taste like wine. It’s b/c you are the moon that calms the waves of my spirit. You shine so bright, moon you’re my vision. #EbrahimAseem

Let me be the moon to eclipse your anxiety with my reassurance my dearest. Twin flame, let me be the moon to align you back to your goals, calm your fears, erase your self doubts. #EbrahimAseem

My love, I know you have visions & premonitions no one ever gets told. You’re not weird. You’re a beautiful enigma. I understand the complexity of your soul. #EbrahimAseem

I don’t expect you to abruptly let go of that thing currently brining you pain, take your time. I just want you to see I care for you in a place where there is no space or time. #EbrahimAseem

I want to take you to Broadway shows. Talk astrology with you. Converse about other life forms in our universe. I want to grow to understand the galaxy you are. #EbrahimAseem I want to take you on a library date, buy you a book, then sit on the beach, cuddle up & read to each other.

I love your beautiful vibration. Stars fly across our sky for a reason. To answer prayers. We flew into each other’s life, because we prayed for one another. #EbrahimAseem

I want you to know, you don’t have to deal with all this weight alone anymore. Let me help you with it all. Let me court you. #EbrahimAseem

My future wife & child’s mother isn’t a bad bitch. I’m not attracted to curves & twerk videos. I’m attracted to nurturing women who can be an example of self-worth & integrity. #EbrahimAseem I don’t need a bae tour.

Women being attracted to spiritual men who are abstinent until marriage is coming back in style soon. I can feel it.

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me

https://instagram.com/p/8bIT8cPEkm/

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , | 1 Comment

Why it’s so HARD for women to TRUST

Posted on November 12, 2015 by Ebrahim Aseem

image

What’s hardest for a woman isn’t losing her EX or trusting her next man. It’s forgiving her SELF for falling in love with his potential, knowing damn well she saw warning signs & his inconsistency. #EbrahimAseem

The man he is when you meet him is the same man he will be in the future. #EbrahimAseem Stop wasting years & tears waiting for that neglecting, cheating, can’t text back but can like 157 girls pics on Instagram ass lame to change for you. Men don’t change for a woman. A man changes for himself & grows for his self love.

Stop texting him heart emojis all day & start asking these men about their relationship goals. Ask him these 5 questions:

What’s the worst thing you did wrong in your last relationship that you don’t want to repeat? #EbrahimAseem

What’s one thing all your EXs complain about you? #EbrahimAseem

How many months would you date a woman before letting her know if you’d marry her or not? #EbrahimAseem

How do you react when someone makes you mad? #EbrahimAseem

What’s your biggest flaw you want to overcome before your birthday?

Men don’t “switch up”. Girls just fall for a guys’ looks & strengths before viewing his red flags.

It’s so hard for women to trust again, because they see the good in everyone, see who liked their pics, yet can’t seem to see the warning signs in the lame ass boys they’re attracted to. #EbrahimAseem Be loyal to your intuition. Trust what you see over a man’s words. Listen to his actions.

Time. If a man cared, he’d call or come see you, take you out & give you his time without you having to ask. He doesn’t give you his time, because he’s busy giving it to the woman he’s really interested in. Move on & stop being in a relationship with your feelings. #EbrahimAseem

Effort. If you have to beg him for effort or beg him to tell you “what are we?” you’re really begging him to be his side chick. Men only pour effort into a woman he sees a future with. #EbrahimAseem

Cheating: Men only view themselves as either married, or single. We don’t take girlfriends too seriously. So, if he he doesn’t mention long term commitment with you, he’s is entertaining & texting other women in his phone. #EbrahimAseem

In order to destroy your trust issues, forgive yourself for all times you were more loyal to an inconsistent man than you were to your intuition. Then never disobey your intuition again. And for the love of the beauty in your mirror, stop crawling back to what broke you. #EbrahimAseem

If he can disrespect, cheat, starve you of time, attention & commitment & you still stay loyal to him, you’re teaching him to never value you, because he can neglect you & still get your all. #EbrahimAseem

If she’s a supportive woman fighting so hard to trust again, don’t demand her to trust you. Earn her trust. Tell her.

“I just wanna love you until you glow so much, people notice growth. Until the shine of your smile eclipses your fears. I wanna be your peace.” #EbrahimAseem

By: Ebrahim Aseem Follow @fuel4thebody
Author of the book, “Why Men Cheat on Loyal Women”
Facebook.com/AEAseem
Instagram: @Fuel4TheBODY
Twitter: @EbrahimAseem
Website: http://RealNewsPaper.me

Want a free copy of my book? Follow me => http://Facebook.com/AEAseem & message me, requesting a free copy.

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , | 2 Comments